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1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? How on earth does it have anything to do with "virtue" to point out that humans often make irrational decisions based on their emotions? That's just objective reality. You seriously don't believe people make dumb decisions based on their emotions and not logic, to the point that you think any story about someone doing it must be a lie? That's just flat out bizarre. Like it's seriously blowing my mind that someone actually exists who thinks a person saying "sometimes people do illogical stuff bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 05:55 AM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? It's really intellectually dishonest to to just reject anything that doesn't fit into your weird worldview as a lie. I have no idea what she loved about him. Love often isn't rational, people fall in love and it's all about their emotions, not some rational calculation. That's just how human emotions work. And the thing about childhood abuse victims being attracted to abuse is literally common knowledge, look up the cycle of abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 05:06 AM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? I mean there's no point discussing anything if you're just going to randomly accuse me of lying about something that is completely true. I had live for years with her continually going back to this terrible abuser because she was in obsessive love with him despite him being objectively terrible in every way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 04:55 AM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? She was a waitress. Obviously she was attracted to him, she actually viewed him as the love of her life. She was basically obsessed with him. That definitely is how abuse works. People with mental problems and and usually an abusive childhood find that behavior attractive because they think it's what they deserve and they've been taught by their parents that's what love is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 04:25 AM
2	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? Haha no, the closest this guy had to a job was selling his own blood for cash. She had mental problems and an abusive childhood and thought an abusive terrible guy was all she deserved. That’s how abuse actually works, no one stays with an abuser for looks or money because if they weren’t drawn to abuse they could simply find a non-abusive guy who is good looking or has a regular job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 03:29 AM
2	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? Definitely not true, the abuser my friend ended up marrying was morbidly obese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 03:18 AM
2	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? My friend wasn’t shallow, her abusive childhood had taught her that being treated abusively was all she deserved. Why would being attracted to abusive men be “shallow” anyways, that doesn’t even make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 02:31 AM
2	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? The only women I’ve ever known who liked guys like that were women with serious mental problems. Like I had a friend who liked those types of guys, but she also had a severe mental illness and had been committed to a metal hospital at one point and suffered an abusive childhood. Saying most women prefer confident men doesn’t mean that ALL a guy needs is confidence to be attractive. Most guys prefer women with feminine, pleasant personalities, that doesn’t mean they’ll want to date a fat and ugly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 02:16 AM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? Yeah but people who aren't white can still be racist against other races. Like a black person could be racist against Mexicans and vote for Trump for that reason, or an Asian person could be racist against middle eastern people and vote for Biden because they love how he's a big warmonger who supported the Iraq war and will probably start more middle eastern wars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 02:27 AM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? You said “women as a species.” Women aren’t a species. There are tons and tons of racist people out there. Biden is actually super racist too, the only way to get into a situation where the only two options for president are racist is if the majority of people are racist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 08:30 PM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? You...think women are a separate species? Tons of women are racist, I mean like half of white women voted for Trump so it’s not surprising a guy with a racist tattoo could find plenty of racist women who agree with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 08:21 PM
2	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? Being violent and confrontational to try to bully women into dating you definitely seems desperate to me. Secure people don’t act like that. Only people with severe mental problems would prefer a crazy, violent man over a meek one. Though I think most people prefer regular confidence, it’s not like the only options are meek or crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 08:17 PM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? That’s true but if someone doesn’t have a record it’s not like you can know they’re a criminal unless you’re psychic. Sociopaths tend to be really charming and good at tricking people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 02:17 PM
1	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? That Tinder thing was fake. The guy put in his profile that he stole a piece of candy as a kid and then changed it to the pedo stuff AFTER he got all the responses. That’s why so many of the women were joking with him about stealing candy and why zero of the conversations had any mention on either end about child molestation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 02:15 PM
3	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? Wait so you have two FWBs and sleep with a new random girl every 2 weeks and don’t consider yourself a womanizer? To me that sounds like the high end of promiscuity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 02:05 PM
2	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? They’re saying the majority of married men aren’t sociopaths therefore obviously the majority of women don’t like sociopaths since most women marry non-sociopaths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 01:56 PM
3	Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options? Wouldn’t being pushy and aggressive make him seem desperate? How is that attractive? A guy who was genuinely confident and had high self esteem wouldn’t try to bully people into dating him and have a meltdown if they rejected him or broke up with him. You’re basically saying women like insecure guys with low self esteem because only those guys flip out and go nuts because of being rejected by some woman they barely know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 01:43 PM
4	What is the equivalent of red pill truth for woman? Doesn't everyone feel like this? Like of course a hot 21 year old guy is always more appealing than some old man. And I don't watch live action porn, because gross, but obviously the guys in the yaoi I look at are way more attractive than any guy in real life. I don't think about having sex with the vast majority of men because the vast majority are ugly, but I definitely think about it every time I see an attractive guy. I know men are less picky and find almost every woman attractive so I just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 04:15 PM
1	What is the equivalent of red pill truth for woman? Well yeah, because biologically it's a scientific fact that chemicals that promote bonding are released after orgasm, in everyone regardless of gender. Humans literally evolved to bond from sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 03:33 AM
4	What is the equivalent of red pill truth for woman? Wouldn't anyone rather be single than be in a relationship with someone they're not attracted to? How exactly would a sexual relationship work if you felt zero attraction to the person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 03:24 AM
3	What is the equivalent of red pill truth for woman? You don't have to go to someone's profile to downvote as long as you have sub themes turned off. I have them turned off because I find them annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 03:22 AM
1	What is a pickme? How exactly does some women being pressured into things mean all women in general are weak and have no agency? That makes zero sense. It seems like this is the standard sociopath argument though, like any time a man victimizes a woman, for some reason illogical sociopaths have to come out and say "oh so if it's the man's fault for victimizing her and not her own fault for being victimized, that must mean all women are dumb and have no agency and shouldn't have rights!" I'm not sure if the people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 11:12 AM
2	What is a pickme? Obviously not all women do this. But the ones who keep having casual sex despite not getting much or any physical pleasure are generally people not strong enough to stand up for themselves and say no, lots of women do get pressured into sex they don’t want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 02:06 AM
3	What is a pickme? I’ve seen like a million posts on Reddit by women talking about how their male partner never gives them an orgasm, never goes down on her or does any foreplay, never even attempts to make her enjoy it but just basically sticks it in and uses her body to get off, often even does stuff that is painful or degrading that she doesn’t enjoy at all, but they still stay with the guy and keep sleeping with him. It doesn’t seem like that’s very uncommon at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 02:02 AM
3	What is a pickme? Kind of like how a lot of people will use “simp” against any guy who is nice to a woman for any reason, or who agrees with a woman’s opinion in an online argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 01:58 AM
4	What is a pickme? That’s a pretty low age to draw the line, the human brain doesn’t finish developing until around age 25. Even the body doesn’t finish developing until around age 20, 18 year olds are still adolescents. It’s actually kind of weird that society even considers adolescent teens to be adults, they’re not mentally or physically adults from a scientific perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 01:44 AM
1	I am tired of guys here repeating that "guys do not care about the education or success of women." The person you responded to was using what's called the "general you" in English. They didn't mean you specifically. You said to look at men's actions. That person responded that what they've observed is men taking the action of dating and marrying women they met in their post-grad programs. They were saying men's actions don't show what you claim, that men's actions don't show men avoiding educated women with careers. They weren't asking about your personal experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/20 04:14 AM
1	I am tired of guys here repeating that "guys do not care about the education or success of women." Well statistically men mostly marry within their own economic class and education level, so actually their actions show they want someone of their own economic class and education level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/20 04:10 AM
1	I am tired of guys here repeating that "guys do not care about the education or success of women." Yeah but that's because women make less than men overall, so it would be statistically impossible for a large proportion of men to be marrying someone who makes more money than them. Even if a guy marries a girl with a really similar career she'll probably make less. But most people are married to others with a fairly similar income level with the man making just slightly more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/20 04:06 AM
2	I am tired of guys here repeating that "guys do not care about the education or success of women." It's pretty rare either way. People almost always marry someone within their own economic class. When I was getting my degree in economics, we actually learned in one of my classes that people marrying outside their own economic class is more rare than any other marital difference—like, people are more likely to marry someone of a different race or religion than they are to marry someone of a different economic class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/20 03:58 AM
1	I am tired of guys here repeating that "guys do not care about the education or success of women." Yeah this is true, I'm on disability and I've been rejected for that reason more than any other. Guys do not want to date someone who will never be able to work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/20 03:49 AM
3	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? I'm completely positive I exist though. I could be in a simulation and you all are the ones who don't exist, no way to tell for sure, but the one thing I can be sure of is that I definitely exist. So, if anything, there's no proof there's any such thing as women who like dominant guys. I only have proof of me existing, so all I can know for sure is that females who like submissive males exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 04:26 AM
2	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 10:45 PM
5	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? I just googled it and found multiple different studies saying the same thing. Try google.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 10:31 PM
5	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? Just google it, these are pretty well established statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:57 PM
2	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? Well that's good you can live with it and get happiness from having found love. You seem very stoic about it, I guess that must be part of the changes you made to be considered more acceptable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:56 PM
4	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? That sucks! I sympathize with you. I couldn't do what you're doing but I understand it. I'm autistic and pretty staunchly refuse to change anything about myself regardless of how socially unacceptable it's considered because it would make me miserable to conform to neurotypical society, I just couldn't spend 95% of my life doing stuff I hate. It does make it pretty impossible to get a relationship but being thin and female I can at least get nice FWBs who do what I want sexually and are friends …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:41 PM
13	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? That studies prove unmarried women live longer, which means married women die sooner, so clearly it's the men sucking the life out of women. Statistics also show married men live longer than unmarried men. It's literally just a fact that being with a woman makes a man live longer, while being with a man makes a woman die sooner. So it's pretty obvious to see who is sucking the life out of whom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:21 PM
3	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? Why on earth didn't you just choose a dominant, possibly older woman? I'm dominant and I love younger submissive guys who don't do any of the masculine stuff you listed that you hate doing. Sure you may not love being a submissive sexually but just doing that for a dominant girl is way less work than spending 95% of your waking hours doing stuff you hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:09 PM
0	Her Looksmatch Is A Mens Rights Activist In the US 60% of women and 70% of men are overweight, so yeah in the US the average person is overweight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 02:56 AM
20	Ugly men who want sympathy for having to date ugly women are fucking retarded Statistically 70% of men and 60% of women in the US are overweight. So the way the math works out it's way more likely for a fat guy to be able to get a fit girl than the other way around. Plus men care about looks more in general so you're just going to find more thin girls willing to date a fat guy that the other way around. So I don't think it's very hard for a healthy weight guy to find a healthy weight girl to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 11:02 PM
1	Why are white man / ethnic woman couples so much more common than other way around? Rap groups aren't "boy bands." And guys in boy bands are marketable because they're attractive. So if I said "I don't use an umbrella unless it's raining" you'd believe I said I don't ever use an umbrella? If you seriously believe that sentence says that I don't ever use umbrellas, it really seems like you're the one struggling with logic and critical thinking. Again I never said I don't care about height at all, I said I don't care about it unless a guy is shorter than me. Do you like, not unde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 06:21 AM
1	Why are white man / ethnic woman couples so much more common than other way around? What boy bands have ugly or obese members? I’ve certainly never seen one, they’re all attractive. The guys who get popular and have screaming fangirls are physically attractive guys, they’re literally chosen for being attractive. It seems like you have some kind of reading comprehension issue, honestly. Like...the sentence clearly says I don’t care about height as long as the guy is taller than me. Which clearly means if he’s shorter than me then I do care. It’s like an if - then statement. IF h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 01:49 AM
1	Why are white man / ethnic woman couples so much more common than other way around? Those guys don’t get that status for being unattractive, the only way they’re able to attain the status in the first place is because they’re physically attractive to women. You’re never going to see an obese boy band member. Seems like you should read that sentence again...I said I don’t care about height as long as the guy is taller than me. I didn’t say I didn’t care about height at all. I said if the guy is taller than me don’t care about it. Which logically means if he’s shorter than me I d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 06:10 AM
1	Why are white man / ethnic woman couples so much more common than other way around? no one likes how Asian men look Yeah that’s why kpop guys have millions of screaming fangirls... In my opinion, on average East Asian guys are far more attractive than guys of other races. I hope it doesn’t come off as racist to say that, like obviously they don’t all look the same, but just on average they tend to have more attractive features. They often have cuter faces with softer features, age well and have less wrinkles as they get older, are statistically way less likely to go bald than a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 04:32 AM
1	Most of the time when a guy pumps and dumps a girl it's not something he's planned and premeditated but a side effect of post nut clarity. I don’t know, I have a medical disorder where I can’t have any kind of penetrative sex and I’ve never had a guy stop wanting to see me after hooking up except once when he gave me oral and left and then wasn’t interested in hooking up again. But I have a general rule that I don’t reciprocate oral unless it turns into a consistent FWB thing. In all cases where it’s gotten to the point where I reciprocated he’s come back for a year or more at least. Granted it’s not like anyone wants to commit to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/20 04:59 AM
9	what goes through your mind when you sleep with someone you find unattractive? I definitely wouldn't call sex without an orgasm fun at all. In fact getting turned out without coming is extremely physically uncomfortable, I'd even call it painful. It's the complete opposite of "fun." So I absolutely won't have sex with a guy unless I'm extremely confident he's going to give me an orgasm. Just masturbating and making myself come would be infinitely better than having sex with a guy and not coming at all. So that's why a lot of women are picky about who they have sex with. A …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 09:21 AM
1	What are reasons why a guy would ghost a woman forever after regularly hooking up? It seems like you're really misinterpreting what I said. I didn't say girls don't like nice guys, I said girls don't like guys if the ONLY notable thing about them is that they're nice. The very next sentence you quoted even specifically said that it's not that girls don't like nice guys, it's that they don't like them if their best or only positive quality is being nice, so I'm not sure why you argued with that by saying you disagree because you like a guy who is nice. And when girls call guys …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 12:38 AM
1	What are reasons why a guy would ghost a woman forever after regularly hooking up? Well like people always say, "nice" is baseline, it's like the basic minimum of human decency everyone expects. Most people are nice. That's why when girls call guys "nice" it usually means they're not into them—not that they don't like guys who are nice, but if a guy's best/only positive quality is that he's nice then his personality is actually really boring. So if the best this guy had to say about you is that you're sweet and nice, sounds like he thought your personality was just boring, tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/19 11:49 PM
1	What are reasons why a guy would ghost a woman forever after regularly hooking up? Your personality. If he never wanted to spend time with you except to have sex and never went out anywhere with you, he didn't like your personality, even as a friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/19 06:35 AM
2	14 Actual Examples Of Things To Say To A Woman Yeah I don't get why this is supposed to work. If a guy started teasing me about a quality I don't have, like if he was saying I'm messy when I'm clearly not, I'd just think he was dumb and unobservant. And if he makes fun of a bad quality I actually do have that could easily feel like an actual insult, which obviously isn't attractive. If a guy I barely even know is insulting me I'd consider that a big red flag.	/r/seduction	27/04/19 12:23 PM
1	If you think robots can or will replace men for women you need to rethink life. Whatever dude, my future 18-year-old anime boy sexbot will be the coolest thing ever.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/19 12:01 AM
35	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? Oh, no, I’m a total dom and am only into submissive guys. But I think a lot of RP guys are submissives...I mean think about the “anger phase.” The entire deal there is that they’re SO angry and sad that being submissive and sweet didn’t get them a girl. Most RP guys are subs at heart...actual dominant guys are just dominant in the first place, they don’t need to go on a nerdy internet forum to learn to be dominant, and they don’t go through an “anger phase” when they find out girls don’t love su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 01:22 PM
17	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? As I said...I’m not into my own pain. I’m into CBT (cock and balls torture), pegging, edging, sounding...I mean I could go on. I have a lot of kinks, none of them involve ME being in pain though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 01:08 PM
19	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? Oh, blech. So gross! I’m definitely into having orgasms, no interest in pain at all. I mean, not my own pain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 12:35 PM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? Absolutely!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 11:53 AM
14	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? Man this is such a mix of things I hate and like. I’m SUPER into the many worlds theory of quantum mechanics, like that is actually one of my top interests. I could talk forever about that. Like I can’t even really go into it that much because I basically start sounding crazy after like five minutes. I’m not fat, I’m actually underweight because I’m autistic so I have sensory issues with the taste, smell, and texture of food and can’t eat most of it. I can’t cook at all and would never bother to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 11:48 AM
2	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? I suppose it depends what you consider interesting. As an autistic person, I think all autistic people are unique and interesting and all neurotypicals are essentially the same. I mean I wasn’t being ironic or making a joke when I said I’m autistic, I’m literally autistic. We’re all different and interesting. All neurotypicals are exactly the same. I’m not anything like any neurotypical. So I think most neurotypicals would at least find me “interesting” even if they don’t like me—they definitely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 11:04 AM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? True I’m not attractive at all, and very kinky and interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 10:12 AM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? Man none of this is you sending a hot pic. Dick or gtfo	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 10:05 AM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? This still isn’t a pic of you. If you’re really that hot why can’t you show me? I don’t think she’s “hamstering,” a lot of women have TONS of options and can easily afford to discard attractive guys if their personalities suck, like they legitimately do lose attraction to guys if their personalities suck because they have so many options that are just as attractive but have better personalities. Personally I’m an autistic loser and don’t have these options so I’d hook up with a hot guy regardles…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 09:58 AM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? Dude I can’t tell whether someone is attractive by a description, I’d need a picture. I mean I keep hearing this stuff about how you’re young and hot. I definitely feel like I need a pic to verify that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 09:49 AM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? I don’t see how that helps. If you’re actually a hot 18 year old I’d need to see that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 09:34 AM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? What do you look like then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 09:29 AM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? Is there a contest I missed? This thread was started by a guy saying women are inferior to men and the whole conversation is about which gender is inferior and why. And yeah obviously we waste massive amounts of money on the military just sitting around as well. We ought to disband the entire thing and just not start any wars and make it clear we’ll nuke anyone who tries to start one with us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/18 03:17 AM
2	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? He had millions of willing accomplices. The vast majority of them were poor. That was kind of the whole point I was making about most people being too stupid to even be selfish, they do dumb stuff that’s totally against their own self interest in order to help rich people get even richer. Yeah, most of spending in the US is just inefficient and not helpful, there are better options we could be using, but the ones in charge only care about keeping their power and getting richer themselves and peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/18 05:47 PM
1	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? I said that extremely rich people can get away with it, but that it matters for 99% of people whether they commit violent crimes, so I don’t see how an example of one seriously rich and powerful person who got away with it contradicts my point. Those charts don’t even show the whole budget, just a small percentage of it. But regardless a lot of the money we currently spend on social programs is wasted anyways due to inefficiency, but either way we could afford social programs that actually help …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/18 04:32 PM
6	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? I think it’s because in really religious countries, women aren’t even allowed to be educated and also just generally really oppressed and not allowed to make decisions for themselves. Even so, there’s still only a very small difference between the percentage of women and men who are religious, like the percentage of women is only slightly higher overall. But if you look at countries where women are allowed to get an education and have more freedom, women are less likely to be on the side of the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/18 04:28 PM
6	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? I think in other countries too men are more likely to vote for whichever party is the Invisible Sky Wizard Party.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/18 04:03 PM
3	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? As I said, I was referencing a pretty basic morality based on committing violent crimes. I’m pretty sure people care if you commit violent crimes. True if you’re rich ENOUGH you have a shot at getting away with it, but that’s only a tiny percentage of people. For 99% of people, it definitely matters a lot whether you commit violent crimes. The stuff you’re saying about politicians really isn’t true at all. Most politicians spend mainly on pointless wars that benefit nobody except helping the ult…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/18 03:55 PM
13	Is this the primary source of contention between TRP and TBP??? That doesn’t seem true at all. My main standards for judging people is morality, which I think makes the most sense as something to judge people on, and men commit over 90% of all violent crimes, so clearly women are more more moral. Secondary to morality I’d judge on how logical someone is. A higher proportion of men vote for political candidates who are into science denial, so I’d say women come out on top there too. Men are really only superior in terms of physical strength, which has little …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/18 02:29 PM
3	[FR] From 0 to a 100 real quick. 28yr old feminist There really doesn’t. If I’m climbing towards orgasm the LAST thing I want to do is stop. If you’re not saying it’s desirable, then what do you mean by all this “people who have bad sex can’t even imagine it” stuff?	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/18 08:57 AM
3	[FR] From 0 to a 100 real quick. 28yr old feminist I don’t understand why it would be desirable to have your partner attempt to run away during sex. Yeah it’s true, I can’t imagine someone stopping in the middle of sex and attempting to run away...pretty sure that’s a good thing. Generally people who are enjoying sex don’t want to stop in the middle, get up and walk away.	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/18 08:31 AM
1	Q4Women: Those that like younger men; why? Yeah but the only reason men age worse is because it's not considered socially normal for men to take care of their skin so most don't. If you're really worried, just make sure to take really good care of your skin and you too can age well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/17 04:55 PM
1	Q4Women: Those that like younger men; why? Intelligence is largely genetic, age doesn't make you smarter. More knowledgeable maybe, but your IQ is pretty fixed throughout life. I don't like dominance at all, I'm only attracted to submissive people. Younger guys are way, way more attractive physically, and also I tend to have more in common with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/17 04:46 PM
1	Q4Women: Those that like younger men; why? I feel like this question has some kind of point I'm missing, what does that have to do with anything? Yes though, I really like rain, I live in a place where it rains nearly every day and at this point feel weird if it doesn't rain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/17 04:43 PM
3	Q4Women: Those that like younger men; why? What? The whole point of poolboys is that they're young, that's why the idea is a sex symbol. Most actors who are famous sex symbols are also young. They didn't choose 40 year old dudes to play roles in Twilight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/17 04:27 PM
1	The Most Honest Girl on Tinder That's just the study showing that there's not much difference in fertility between women in their late 20s and early 30s. You need to look further down the page for the studies about teen fertility. It says the average age of first menarch is 13, and about 80% are anovulatory (not releasing an egg during most cycles) during the first year, 50% after the third year, and 10% after the 6th year- fertility rises as they approach their 20s.	/r/MGTOW	31/01/17 02:33 AM
13	The Most Honest Girl on Tinder Human female fertility peaks in the early to mid 20s, not the teens. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_and_female_fertility	/r/MGTOW	23/12/16 06:07 AM
19	The Most Honest Girl on Tinder It's not true about 17 year olds. Human female fertility peaks in the early to mid 20s, not the teens. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_and_female_fertility And it's a myth that it was ever common for people to get married to 12 year olds. Only the elite and royalty did that- the same people who married their cousins and siblings, which was also thought of as weird and gross by the masses. The thing is the human female body isn't really made to carry pregnancies during the teen years, there's…	/r/MGTOW	23/12/16 06:06 AM
1	Help! I have a rich wife(Xpost from twochromosomes) I hope I'm following all the rules. I did read them. You won't get paid, because women can always get "Chads" to rail them for free- I mean come on, are you serious? There's a reason why straight male prostitutes aren't really a thing- there's no market for them, since any woman can get that for free.	/r/askTRP	05/03/16 11:22 AM
-1	Why do the girls I date get so offended by innocuous racist jokes? Just out of sheer curiosity, what is the point of responding like this? Like, is it just that you don't want to learn actual facts about what autism is or means? Like you're just opposed on principle to actually knowing what you're talking about when you ask if someone is on the spectrum? Or some other reason that I can't fathom? The humans are weird.	/r/askTRP	25/01/16 06:15 AM
0	Why do the girls I date get so offended by innocuous racist jokes? This is a terrible question. I'm autistic and I'm so tired of the fact that when someone does something objectively awful, people are all "Well maybe that person is autistic." We just don't understand social rules that are pointless, like asking someone how they are when you don't actually want to know. We're not more inclined to be racist. It's not actually a "fact" that white workers are better than Mexican workers- if this guy were actually autistic, he'd know the difference between a fact an…	/r/askTRP	25/01/16 05:47 AM
1	CMV: AWALT is sexist I did my college cluster in Queer Theory and also have a minor in sociology, pretty sure I know more about it than you from spending a day reading stuff on the internet. But I guess it's easy to just claim someone hasn't done any critical thinking when you're not educated enough on the subject to actually debate it. Is your usual debate tactic to just resort to ad hominem attacks by falsely claiming someone hasn't done any critical thinking and got their opinion off of a blog?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 06:22 AM
0	CMV: AWALT is sexist That's...not how social constructs work. Like, at all. Just because society pressures people to do something, that doesn't mean 100% of people will conform. The fact that all people don't conform doesn't disprove the existence of social constructs. If gender weren't a social construct, if it were biological instread, wouldn't trans people not even exist at all? Like why would someone biologically male feel and act female? It's much easier to defy a social construct than it is to defy biology. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/15 09:26 AM
0	CMV: AWALT is sexist In Queer Theory it's believed that biological sex is also a social construct. The reason is more complex than I'm willing to explain in a Reddit comment, but you can Google it. But regardless, I still don't get what you're trying to say with your conclusion. Like...are you claiming that a trans woman, who was assigned male at birth, is actually biologically female, but society pressures her to go against that? And therefore gender isn't socially constructed because the gender of the trans person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/15 06:54 PM
0	CMV: AWALT is sexist I legitimately have no idea what you're trying to say. Since gender is a social construct, you can identify with any gender you want, and don't necessarily have to identify with the one you were assigned at birth. Trans people are just people who identify with a gender that's different from the one society assigned them at birth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/15 05:07 AM
1	CMV: AWALT is sexist If you actually read my original comment, I specifically said it was about the verbal section. The whole point is that when females do better on a section, they assume bias and change it until they don't- but if males are doing better on a section they don't consider that there might be bias. Just like you're assuming that if females are doing well with math grades, it's bias against males- but if males are doing better on math parts of a standardized test, you think that can't be bias. You real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 11:10 PM
0	CMV: AWALT is sexist That's not even remotely true. For people who follow Queer Theory, of the type you'd learn in a college, the whole idea is that all genders are socially constructed, therefore someone who is afab (assigned female at birth) identifying as a man is just as valid as that person identifying as a woman, which is just as valid as them identifying as agender, or demigender, or anything else because it's all equally made up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 11:03 PM
0	CMV: AWALT is sexist Pretty sure I call it pseudo science because literally everything is a pseudo science besides stuff like chemistry and physics. And being able to make up hypotheses that are falsifiable doesn't mean it's not a pseudo science. I could invent a religion right now where I worship a god who likes a particular shade of green, and then estimate that at least 60% of the grass in the world will be that shade of green if my god exists, and then go out and test to see if that's true, and then claim my god…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 10:58 PM
-1	CMV: AWALT is sexist But the question was why evolutionary psychology was singled out among the pseudo-sciences. It's singled out because it's the only pseudo-science where there are literally no existant things that can be studied or quantified- it's all random guesses about the past based on nothing more than modern stereotypes. And yeah, in the present, there are differences between men and women...but those differences have shifted a ton over time and across cultures. So are the differences genetic, or are males…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 01:04 PM
-5	CMV: AWALT is sexist http://www.ams.org/notices/201201/rtx120100010p.pdf Gender bias not genetic, differs between cultures (in terms of males having genius level IQs more often than females- if it were genetic we wouldn't see cultures where this is not the case, yet we do, as shown in this study) http://www.fairtest.org/facts/genderbias.htm Explanation of the various ways standardized testing has been proven to be biased against girls, including the fact that they added more sports questions to adjust the test when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 12:21 PM
-6	CMV: AWALT is sexist That was one study from like 15 years ago that has been pretty thoroughly debunked. Also, if you think IQ tests are an empirical measure of intelligence then...then just, lol. Like...I'd say a much better indicator of logical reasoning skills would be whether you can use your logic skills to see what's wrong with IQ tests and why they're not an actual measure of intelligence. Like...do you know what happened with the SATs? Originally girls were scoring higher than boys on the verbal section and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 11:21 AM
-2	CMV: AWALT is sexist Because all the other psuedo-sciences are at least based on things that exist currently and can be studied and quantified. Evolutionary psychology is based entirely on things from the past that necessarily can't possibly be studied in any way, shape, or form, and is therefore entirely based on random assumptions with zero scientific backing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 08:42 AM
-5	CMV: AWALT is sexist The reason is because when someone says women are less rational than men, it's clear that the MOTIVATION for saying that comes from misogyny. Because there's certainly no scientific evidence for it- in fact, there's plenty of scientific evidence showing women are just as intelligent and rational as men, on average. It's like if you said "black people tend to have darker skin than white people" and tried to compare that to saying "black people are dumber than white people." You can see how the fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 08:15 AM
5	CMV: AWALT is sexist Well...yeah. OP is sexist. A lot of people believe that gender is entirely socially constructed and there are no differences. Of course, anyone who says there are differences is sexist, by definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 08:03 AM
1	CMV: AWALT is sexist But actual neuroscience says that's not true. The human brain doesn't finish developing until around the age of 25, for both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 07:57 AM
-1	Men discussing the negative aspects of female sexual nature on a large scale is a NEW concept Saying men don't fight for custody because their attorneys tell them not to is just conjecture, do you have any actual studies proving that? The thing is that no one who makes 8 apples a month is marrying someone who makes 2 apples a month. Statistically, virtually everyone marries someone within their own economic class. Economic class is the biggest predictor of who you'll marry, even more than race. Marriages between someone who makes 80k a year and someone who makes 20k a year are extremely,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 07:14 PM
1	Men discussing the negative aspects of female sexual nature on a large scale is a NEW concept You should look up the actual statistics. The 60% figure IS for primary custody. It's true that in the majority of divorces, parents just agree on joint custody without ever fighting it out in court. If the mothers have primary residential custody, it's because that's what the parents mutually agreed upon, without having to go to court and have a verdict declaring that. It's only a minority of divorces where the parents actually go to court and fight it out for sole custody. But in the cases whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 07:05 PM
2	Men discussing the negative aspects of female sexual nature on a large scale is a NEW concept The thing is that statistically, men who fight for custody of their children win it 60% of the time, so the courts are biased IN FAVOR of males in custody battles. The only reason single mothers are more common than single fathers is that there are more men who don't want any responsibility for their children- there are way more deadbeats dads than deadbeat moms. When men fight for custody, they win it most of the time, you can Google it. Also alimony is very rare and only happens in around 5% o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 11:43 AM
1	Why do people think sexbots will cause "further" societal decrease? If that's the case they'd be barely better than RealDolls and you don't see men giving up women for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/15 08:51 AM
4	Q4BP: Are the men in these two videos jerks? I think the problem is that women are socialized to squeal and giggle and pretend to be scared of anything adventurous- men aren't socialized that way, they're socialized to be stoic and put on a brave face. At the same time, women are socialized to be people pleasers, to go along with things just to keep up the harmony even if they don't really like it. Ask women sometime- it's VERY common for them for giggle (laugh nervously) when they're subjected to something that makes them uncomfortable. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 12:11 PM
2	Why do people think sexbots will cause "further" societal decrease? I suppose. I think that's what everyone really wants, even if they don't admit it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 11:07 AM
2	Why do people think sexbots will cause "further" societal decrease? Well, what would you require for your sexbot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 11:06 AM
2	Why do people think sexbots will cause "further" societal decrease? I'm a woman and I get regularly depressed about the fact that I probably won't live long enough to see the invention of true, fully functioning sexbots. I'm sure a sexbot would be way better than a human...I mean he would look exactly like I wanted and never age or change. His personality would be exactly what I programmed him to be. He'd share all my interests and opinions, and he'd do everything I told him to. He'd be my slave and like it. When I got tired of being around him he'd just go in a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 10:40 AM
6	Why do people think sexbots will cause "further" societal decrease? Yeah I really don't see how it would be a problem. But I honestly don't think many people are actually worried about this, really the only time I see sexbots brought up at all are on TRP and here on PPD. Even if sexbots made all men go "MGTOW," women could just buy their own sexbots, so it wouldn't matter. I don't see why it would make women try harder to be appealing to men, though- why would I try at all to be appealing to men when I could simply buy a male sexbot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 10:34 AM
1	The female appropriation of nerd culture This argument is ridiculous. Do you not understand how the free market works? Every customer should not be expected to be a content creator. It's totally reasonable for customers to demand that established companies make things they want to buy, rather than becoming developers themselves and making their own stuff. A large amount of gamers are women, so companies are going to want to make games that appeal to women...especially since making games that appeal to women will draw even more women to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 10:22 AM
3	The female appropriation of nerd culture This is literally how the free market works. If a company knows that lots of its customers will be offended by something and it will therefore cause them to lose business, they won't do that thing. It's not "censorship" it's good business sense. But apparently you find it "chilling" when companies cater to their paying customers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 09:52 AM
3	CMV: Women only like men for their wealth, status and power So how was that not the implication? If Person 1 says a thing, and then Person 2 repeats that exact thing but in a sarcastic voice, the implication is "Boy it sure was dumb what Person 1 just said!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 02:09 AM
3	CMV: Women only like men for their wealth, status and power Yes, I saw the set up...the dentist guy asked the girl if she was a pole dancer, a degrading question. Then he came up and said the "exact same thing"...except he said it SARCASTICALLY, in a way that showed he'd heard what the dentist guy said, so the implication was that he was making fun of the dentist guy for asking her such a rude question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 02:00 AM
5	CMV: Women only like men for their wealth, status and power I watched a couple minutes of that and like...the man asked the woman if she was a pole dancer. Literally he was trying to degrade her by implying she must be a stripper. And the guy making the video thinks she was mad because the guy was a "provider"? Not because he was being totally rude and demeaning? And then after she got upset about it the second guy spoke up and asked if she was a pole dancer except...he was asking it in a sarcastic way, he clearly heard what the first guy said and asked …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 01:44 AM
4	CMV: Women only like men for their wealth, status and power Every time I've seen the "what if she was your wife/daughter/mother" thing, it's been in relation to things like abuse, rape, and sexual harassment. Basically, it's a strategy to try to get men to see women as human beings, people who don't deserve to have crimes committed against them, people who don't deserve to be treated rudely just for existing. There's this idea in feminism that women, as a group, aren't really seen as being fully human- men are the default humans, who are seen as fully de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 01:24 AM
1	Both pills: Explain your flair I love yaoi/yuri, slash/femmeslash, shipping and fandom. And I've met basically all of my sex partners and friends through fandom. I am a stereotypical fangirl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 12:14 AM
1	If every time a man speaks to me, he's trying to have sex with me, then why all the complaints about men being falsely accused of sexual harassment in the workplace? I'm not sure why people act like punishing thoughts is totalitarian. In reality, our legal system is already based on this. It's the entire reason why involuntary manslaughter and first degree murder are VERY different crimes- they're different SOLELY based on what you were thinking when you killed that person, on what your motivation was. So why should thoughts and motivation not also be considered in crimes like sexual harassment? Of course, in reality, people go to jail based on their thought…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 11:04 PM
1	Eggman breaks down why women can't be lonely incels and more Yeah, I'm autistic and have also been diagnosed with multiple mental illnesses including agoraphobia, OCD, PTSD, and clinical depression. I understand the behavior that results from my autism and mental illnesses is annoying to people and socially inappropriate, but I literally can't help it. I've been through years and years of therapy and been on more psych meds than I can even remember, and nothing has ever helped. I met Brandon (the one who stabbed me with a fork) at a Pokemon TGC tournament…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/15 08:45 AM
1	Eggman breaks down why women can't be lonely incels and more Telling me to get better at screening people is essentially useless advice...I mean if I was capable of just getting better at screening people, I wouldn't have ended up in these situations in the first place. I have no idea how to screen people. I've met most of my FWBs through the internet, and I kind of feel like it's something I should quit doing because it never, ever works out well for me. People who think they like me online almost invariably decide they can't stand me once they spend som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/15 07:21 AM
1	Eggman breaks down why women can't be lonely incels and more The reason he screamed at me and hit me is because we were having an argument about the bathroom that he destroyed- he thought I was being unreasonable because I wouldn't let him use my bathroom since he destroyed his. He says the reason he destroyed the bathroom is because he's clinically depressed and couldn't help doing it. Believe me I fucking wish I were making this up. My last roommate was also a nerdy virgin NEET FWB of mine (though he did pay rent with his disability checks) and he ended…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/15 06:48 AM
1	Eggman breaks down why women can't be lonely incels and more Right now I owe my apartment complex a ton of money because I met a guy online who was a nerdy virgin NEET guy and became FWB with him and let him move in with me as a roommate, and spent thousands of dollars supporting him, and he totally destroyed parts of the apartment beyond repair before hitting me, screaming in my face that I'm a bitch and moving out to go back to live with his parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/15 06:37 AM
2	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? But do you notice that all the stuff a woman is expected to do in order to be "good in bed" is stuff that is physically painful or humiliating for her? To me, the entire point of sex is that it's pleasurable, why would I even want to bother with it at all if it's just going to be painful and unpleasant? But guys think that if you actually want sex to be enjoyable instead of painful and unpleasant, you're "insisting on being bad in bed" and "prude" and "not fun" and "obviously not even attracted …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/15 05:31 AM
1	Eggman breaks down why women can't be lonely incels and more As I said in the post you're responding to, the guys I've chased were unemployed dudes. So no, not billionaires. I've actually had sex with more than one guy who was involuntarily a virgin in his 20s. I'm a nerd and never even associate in any way with anyone who isn't also a nerd. So, yeah the guys I go after are nerdy, unemployed, NEET guys, mostly virgins. As I said, they're willing to be my FWB in exchange for me paying for all their stuff. That's the best I can do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/15 03:18 AM
2	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? It seems like an awful lot of guys get their romantic ideals from watching some anime or sitcom or movie, like even some action movie where the hero gets the girl in the end tells them that they can win a girl. I don't think banning would work because it would just drive it underground and make it more abusive as a result, I think the best thing we can do is educate people on how porn isn't a good representation of real sex and most of the people in porn say the sex is miserable and unpleasant a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 07:31 PM
1	The Captain/First mate dynamic doesn't work. But...maybe if all the evidence you have consists of first-hand experiences based on a few girls you know, you shouldn't jump to conclusions and assume that means it's "natural"? And I've seen RP guys literally say that women have no interests of their own at all and only get them from guys, to the point of saying that if a woman has any interests or beliefs you should assume she's a "slut" because she must have gotten those interests from a guy she fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 07:21 PM
0	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? Like someone else said, the emotional, romantic stuff influences everyone, everyone gets influenced by sitcoms or Disney movies or whatever...and yeah that's bad. But porn is kind of a separate issue. Because it's generally only boys getting influenced by hardcore porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 07:11 PM
1	The Captain/First mate dynamic doesn't work. Have you noticed that when a guy and a girl start dating, if the girl really likes the guy she starts taking on the guy's hobbies and interests? This is a thing I see on RP but don't notice in any aspect of actual real life. None of my interests come from guys I've dated, my major interests have existed since childhood. But I do feel like it's a problem that guys seem to think that if you have ANY interest that isn't makeup or fashion, it's somehow fake or gleaned from a guy? Like, I'm really ob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 06:40 PM
3	Q4BP: Where do you draw a line on manipulation? The definition is a covert INFLUENCE that is one of those three things (deceptive, indirect, or abusive.) When you buy a present for your partner covertly, are you trying to influence them through deceptive or abusive means? Because yeah, I think most people would say that if you're only buying a present for your partner to INFLUENCE them into doing something, and you don't make that overt (as in "I will buy you X in exchange for Y") then yes most people will say you are being a jerk, because if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 06:02 PM
5	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? And not even remotely close the amount of porn 12 year old boys consume every single day. That's my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 05:53 PM
2	Q4BP: Where do you draw a line on manipulation? The definition says covert influence that is deceptive, indirect, OR abusive. So any of those three count, because that's what the word "or" means. I...I mean honestly I'm not sure if you're just being disingenuous or if you're legitimately not that bright and literally don't understand what "or" means? When you buy gifts covertly, are you doing that as a means to influence your partner through indirect or abusive means? Because...again, that's what the definition of manipulative is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 05:44 PM
2	Eggman breaks down why women can't be lonely incels and more And what if you couldn't talk to women? It's so ridiculously ableist when people act like it's SO SIMPLE to just improve your looks, just talk to people, just fix your mental disorders, like yeah it's SO EASY to just automatically fix everything and become a socially acceptable person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 05:34 PM
3	Eggman breaks down why women can't be lonely incels and more Absolutely not. I absolutely cannot get a relationship, and the only FWBs I've been able to get are unemployed guys who want to leech off of me. That is literally the best I can do- a guy who is willing to be my FWB in exchange for me paying for all his stuff. Honestly I did once have a relationship- I've had one boyfriend in my entire life (I'm 37) and he was a fundamentalist Christian who refused to have any form of sex with me and had failed out of college and couldn't hold a job. So in many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 04:25 PM
6	Q4BP: Where do you draw a line on manipulation? Remember the definition of manipulation is to COVERTLY influence. So yes, if you're doing it covertly (not overtly), it is by definition manipulation, and if you're not doing it covertly, then by definition it is not manipulation. So yes, the "unspoken" and "indirect communication" aspects of it are exactly what makes it manipulation, by the very definition of manipulation. If you try to get someone to do something in any way besides stating it overtly, it is by definition manipulation. That is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 03:55 PM
4	To turn a PPD question around: Women, if your fiance told you that you cannot have his name when you marry; how would you feel about that? But I have the legal right to change my name to literally anything I want. Even if I'm not married to a guy, or even dating him at all, I could go down to the courthouse and pay a small fee and get my last name changed to be the same as his, and that's my legal right. On the other hand, you in no way have the legal right to force sex on someone who doesn't want to have sex with you, because that's a violation of their bodily autonomy. So the situations aren't remotely similar at all. In one situ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 03:47 PM
4	Q4BP: Where do you draw a line on manipulation? All the examples of dread game I've seen are very covert and deceptive, mostly involving doing things to make her THINK you're cheating when in reality you are not actually cheating. And certainly nothing overt. Are you seriously saying it counts as dread game to actually say "I will give you a relationship in exchange for you respecting me"? Because I doubt anyone in RP would advise anyone to say something overt like that. If you're actually trying to compare it to literally saying "I will give…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 03:41 PM
5	Q4BP: Where do you draw a line on manipulation? I'm against the police force as an institution and support anarchist solutions for keeping the peace. I'm...not sure I've ever seen anyone actually agree that it's OK that huge corporations use emotional manipulation to make people buy things they don't need. Reddit in general, and BP in particular, are generally pretty aware that the government is using the fake threat of terrorism to control us and take away our freedoms, so this is a weird thing to even bring up, of course most people on BP a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 03:28 PM
3	Q4BP: Where do you draw a line on manipulation? Definition of manipulation: "Manipulation is a way to covertly influence someone with indirect, deceptive, or abusive tactics. " So being honest and specifically, overtly offering X in exchange for Y is not manipulation, by definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 03:23 PM
1	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? Spanking is just creepy to me, it has these weird parent/child incest tones and that's not sexy AT ALL. Anal sex seems so pointless for women. There are literally no nerve endings inside the anus except for the prostate, and women don't have prostates. So why would a woman want to do that? I mean, I like getting rim jobs, but that's because all the sensitive nerve endings are outside the anus, there are none inside, putting something inside will do nothing for me. I'll definitely fuck a guy with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 03:15 PM
3	It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There \| VICE \| United States I didn't say education equals intelligence, I said specifically "women would prefer someone on their own level of education", that says nothing about intelligence. And yeah, you could have made more money if you didn't go to college...so again, women aren't actually hypergamous, right, since they prefer someone with their same level of education over someone who makes more money?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 03:08 PM
5	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? I think the reason it's called entitlement is because a lot of people will say things like you are, calling people "bad in bed" and "not fun" if they don't like the specific kinky things you do, like you're judging them. Like a lot more men nowadays feel like this kinky stuff is just to be expected and if a woman doesn't like it, she sucks as a partner and is boring. Rather than phrasing it like a personal preference. Like people will act as if someone is being outright unreasonable if they don'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:57 PM
6	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? Nobody is saying the kinky stuff literally didn't exist before, they're saying it wasn't expected as a requirement in the average relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:48 PM
8	Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn? I think it's telling that you have to mention 50 Shades specifically because it's literally the ONE example of mega-popular porn for women. On the other hand, studies show that on average boys start watching hardcore pornography around age 12. Boys are often spending hours a day watching hundreds, thousands of different porn videos, during the time when their sexuality is just developing, while bored housewives have this one book...it's not really comparable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:42 PM
8	CMV: Cat Calling But the reason they feel guilty about it is because they KNOW cat-calling is considered rude and demeaning. If it weren't considered that, they wouldn't feel guilty. So all the people cat-calling also know it's considered rude and demeaning, since everyone knows that. So yeah, if you're purposefully doing something you know is generally considered rude and demeaning...you're doing it to be rude and demean people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:33 PM
4	It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There \| VICE \| United States So I guess this proves that women actually aren't hypergamous after all, since they'd prefer a guy on their own level of education rather than a guy who actually makes more money than them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:24 PM
19	CMV: Cat Calling I've never heard a single instance where a man cat-calling a woman actually resulted in the two of them having sex or a relationship. So I find it highly unlikely that cat-calling is some kind of natural instinct, because why would men evolve to do something that is a terrible reproductive strategy? And you have no proof at all that cat-calling picks up when women wear revealing clothing, that's just a random thing you're saying with no evidence. Like someone else mentioned, Muslim women wearing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:02 PM
1	Sex negative feminist are scared of sex bots No, it's about being against modern sex positivity- like it started out with good intentions but at this point there's a lot of prude-shaming, and telling people they're terrible partners if they're not willing to oblige their partners by engaging in sex and kinks they're not comfortable with, and telling women they have to go out and have as much casual sex as men in order to be equal to them, and ever more violent and degrading porn and BDSM becoming mainstream, including fetishes that glorify…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/15 02:21 AM
6	Does anyone here actually believe that the more sexual partners a woman has, the uglier her vagina looks? I don't watch porn, so I have no idea if what you're saying about porn stars is even true or not. But it's pretty ridiculous if you actually think all of science is controlled by some giant feminist conspriracy, despite most scientists being men. Like it's hard to even respond to someone who just believes in crazy conspiracies and literally disregards all scientific evidence as part of the conspiracy. But TRP is a bastion of logic and "reals over feels", supposedly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/15 02:15 AM
7	Does anyone here actually believe that the more sexual partners a woman has, the uglier her vagina looks? It's not a "belief" though, it's a medical fact. The vagina is made to push out a baby, it doesn't get stretched out permanently by a penis. I don't personally have penetrative sex (at least, not the kind where I'm the one getting penetrated) so it's not like I have a personal reason to care about this, it's just generally annoying when people are like "I refuse to believe facts!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 10:38 PM
2	Sex negative feminist are scared of sex bots I'm a sex negative feminist, do you actually want to know what it is? I'm 100% in favor of sexbots, though, being against sexbots really is NOT a stance that sex negative feminists have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 10:03 PM
21	Sex negative feminist are scared of sex bots I had a discussion on PPD about this a few days ago with a guy who claimed feminists were against sex bots, but he couldn't come up with any links to prove that besides multiple links to the same person, Kathleen Richardson. I looked at the linked video and YET AGAIN it's complaining about a paper written by Kathleen Richardson. "Feminists" aren't again sexbots, there is literally one crazy person, Karhleen Richardson, who seems to have an issue with sexbots. And for some odd reason TRP is obses…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 09:53 PM
1	BP vs RP: What N count for a woman precludes her from being marriage material? Yeah, I would say it's pretty avareage. I mean, I'm 37, and first started having sex when I was 17. Fifteen people over the span of 20 years doesn't seem like a lot to me, especially considering I don't do relationships so I've been single pretty much that whole time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/15 09:55 PM
1	BP vs RP: What N count for a woman precludes her from being marriage material? In terms of social status a fat person is similar to a man with a low partner count. A woman with a high partner count would be similar to, I don't know, an average person? There's not as much stigma as there used to be. Basically I just have a fetish for virgins, it's hard to explain why you find something hot. Plus when I try to explain it I tend to get called creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/15 02:42 AM
1	Discuss: Is it abuse for a man to threaten divorce over no sex? Everyone isn't a victim or being assaulted all the time. It's NOT that hard to obtain enthuastic consent. I mean, if the people you're having sex with find you so unappealing that in your mind enthuastic consent is some ridiculous standard that could never be met, you need to not be having sex with those people. I've had plenty of sex with plenty of people where no one was being assaulted, it's called only having sex when both people actually want to. If one spouse truly feels they were raped to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 09:05 PM
1	Discuss: Is it abuse for a man to threaten divorce over no sex? People on here seem so weirdly unaware of how harsh Social Justice circles are on female rapists. I constantly see posts on Tumblr calling women disgusting rapists for having sex with a 17 year old and being a couple years older, or failing to obtain enthuastic constant. Yeah, it would be rape if one person is "meh" about it. But nobody is going to burst into your bedroom and declare the consent wasn't entusiastic enough- like obviously no one will even know about it unless one person feels vict…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 08:44 PM
1	Do any of you actually believe any of the Tumblr type stuff that keeps getting associated with TBP? I originally met my fwb when he was 16 and I was 23. I grew up in a state where 16 is the legal age of consent, so there was nothing illegal about it. We actually lied to his parents and told them I went to his high school. Though they eventually found out the truth and he got grounded lol. Fifteen years later and his parents still hate me. But yeah, so I'm biased on the subject, I always feel bad knowing that if my SJ circle knew about my past, they would literally think I'm a rapist. I was act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 08:25 PM
1	BP vs RP: What N count for a woman precludes her from being marriage material? I think it's kind of different. Like, if a fat person only wanted to date skinny people, a lot of people would call that hypocritical. But if a thin person only wanted to date fat people, few would say that's hypocritical. I'm sure you're aware that it's generally considered socially undesirable for a man to have a low partner count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 08:13 PM
1	Discuss: Is it abuse for a man to threaten divorce over no sex? But a man's yes doesn't count either if it's not enthuastic consent, so this doesn't grant women any less agency than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 08:05 PM
1	I think people miss the point with the whole Fat Acceptance thing Well I see women getting attacked all the time in SJ circles. Such as the fact that everyone hates Caitlyn Jenner for being an awful homophobe. So yeah, if a guy is against abortion, he will be mocked, that's an opinion against women's rights. And I know you don't believe this despite it being literally indisputably true, but men are advantaged over women in society. So comparing someone like Roosh to a feminist is like comparing the KKK to the NAACP, or comparing the Wesboro Baptist Curch to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 12:59 PM
2	Discuss: Is it abuse for a man to threaten divorce over no sex? Because it's not enthusiastic consent if someone is only agreeing to sex under some form of threat (such as threat of divorce) and that goes for anyone of any gender, not just a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 12:53 PM
1	I think people miss the point with the whole Fat Acceptance thing So is this discussion about literally anyone who calls themselves a "feminist" or is it about the Tumblr Social Justice movement? Because Tumblr SJ fucking HATES Jezebel, like, A LOT. Seriously. We hate Jezebel so fucking much. Like, our thoughts on Jezebel are basically, "Pretty much almost as bad as Cosmo, but not as comical???" And I mean, I agree with the link you posted regarding Fedoras of OKC? But literally the only kind of posts I ever saw reblogged from there were the ones where the guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 12:27 PM
5	BP vs RP: What N count for a woman precludes her from being marriage material? I wouldn't date a guy whose partner count was anything above 3...I'd really prefer less, I'd really prefer 0, but 3 is the absolute most I've ever accepted out of the 15 guys I've slept with. But most of the guys I've slept with have been virgins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 12:12 PM
1	I think people miss the point with the whole Fat Acceptance thing I think you're probably thinking of troll blogs created by 4chan, and then posted to TiA, because the people on TiA aren't smart enough to tell the difference between a troll blog and the real thing. Because really, I've been an "SJW" for years and follow all the major social justice blogs, and I haven't seen this cyberbullying or doxxing that Reddit claims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 12:03 PM
0	Do any of you actually believe any of the Tumblr type stuff that keeps getting associated with TBP? Do you have any proof at at that the Tumblr community defended her after finding out she was a pedo? Because I see no evidence of that in your links. I've seen the SJ community absolutely crucify a trans woman for being 19 and hitting on a 16 year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 12:00 PM
1	All: What are terms, phrases or concepts that TRP and RPW use that could be translated into nicer, more PC language? Good for you. I bet you go outside looking like a charity shop reject bin dragged through a hedge.' I literally do not own any pants that aren't sweat pants. So, yeah, pretty much. I just wouldn't want to be with someone if I had WORK to get them to want to have sex with me. That sounds so depressing. I'm childfree so it's really not going to be an issue for me personally, but a lot of kids say they would have rather had divorced and happy parents than to live in an unhappy home where their pare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 11:48 AM
1	I think people miss the point with the whole Fat Acceptance thing I'm a dude. TBP is not, contrary to popular belief, comprised entirely of Tumblrinas. And it's highly unfortunate that it's not, because we're the ones who actually DO care about men who are oppressed due the fact that they have autism (nerds/virgins in fedoras- this is ableism and sexism) or the fact that they're bronies (gender non-conforming guys- this is sexism and transphobia.) We are literally the ones who most support the guys who have it bad in life- but sure, we're somehow the bad guys,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 11:33 AM
1	All: What are terms, phrases or concepts that TRP and RPW use that could be translated into nicer, more PC language? Just so you know, you did the you're/your mistake again. Well as I said, if someone is consistently refusing sex, I do consider that a dealbreaker. I wouldn't blame anyone who left a marriage under those circumstances...and you say that should be a red flair, but I literally have a social justice blog on Tumblr, and I can promise you that every person you call an "SJW" or "Tumblrinia" thinks the same. We have zero interest in being with someone we have no attraction to, and would rather be divor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 11:15 AM
1	All: What are terms, phrases or concepts that TRP and RPW use that could be translated into nicer, more PC language? Well, to be fair, the marriage vows say "forsaking all others," so cheating is verboten, but there's nothing in the marriage vows that say "must have sex any time I want." But I responded to that topic saying that if the person you're married to truly isn't interested in sex anymore, you should divorce immediately. Because why stay married to someone who isn't interested in sex with you? It seems fairly pointless, and no one will be happy in that situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 09:52 AM
3	Discuss: Is it abuse for a man to threaten divorce over no sex? I think if you're married to someone who doesn't want to have sex with you ever, you should 100% divorce, no ultimatums, just divorce- aren't you the ones who say that desire can't be negotiated? Honestly, if she's only having sex with you to prevent a divorce, then she doesn't really want the sex and frankly, that basically is rape. If she has no desire for you the marriage is over- why continue with someone who only views you as a friend or less?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 09:04 AM
1	All: What are terms, phrases or concepts that TRP and RPW use that could be translated into nicer, more PC language? I would complain about "confidence and leadership," especially from someone who doesn't know the difference between "you're" and "your." Seriously though, I would never agree with the idea that i want "confidence and leadership." Though, I do agree that sex is important to a relationship...would most people in the modern day really dispute this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 08:57 AM
-1	Do any of you actually believe any of the Tumblr type stuff that keeps getting associated with TBP? But you realize none of these things are connected to Tumblr Social Justice, right? Like, that saying about meat and dogs and bones...just TRY sending that to any of the popular SJ blogs, I will bet you ten billion dollars they'll say that statement is misogynist and body-shaming. It's body-shaming thin women and Tumblr is NOT on board with that, they're not on board with body-shaming anyone, at all. Also, try asking a popular SJ blog what they think about whether females can rape males...ask on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 08:02 AM
-1	Do any of you actually believe any of the Tumblr type stuff that keeps getting associated with TBP? I have a social justice blog on Tumblr, and follow pretty much all of the major social blogs, and none of the things you're saying are anything close to what Tumblr believes. Especially not that stuff about female rapists not existing or not being as bad. I just recently saw a post on my dash with thousands of notes about a 21 year old woman dating a 17 year old guy and everyone was calling her a rapist and a pedophile. This happens constantly- literally if you turn 18, as either a female or a m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 07:52 AM
1	People are missing the real problem behind a possible 'sex robot revolution'. I tend to think that we'll have solar power down when oil starts getting really scarce. It's a basic economic principle- we don't have decent solar power right now because using oil is still cheaper. Once it gets to the point where oil is so scarce that inventing efficient solar power is actually cheaper than drilling out the last of our oil supplies, we simply will invent solar and wind power- when the market has a need, it will be filled, that's how economics works. We COULD do it now, but won…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 02:30 PM
3	TRPers, sorry if I am misunderstanding you, but do some of you think there is a moral difference between genders? Well I was referring to the fact that the most advanced form of morality, according to that test, is saying either that he should steal the medicine because a human life is worth more than property rights, or that he shouldn't steal the medicine because someone else might need it just as much- it's the 6th and highest form of morality, the "universal human ethics" stage. He was saying men tend to score highest on that test, and I'm saying the highest score actually seems to be predicated on empa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 02:13 PM
1	People are missing the real problem behind a possible 'sex robot revolution'. Agreed. Basic Income will help with the "less people" thing, though, as people who aren't totally impoverished tend to breed much less. And don't you think the main power source for the machines that create for us will just be the sun? That's not going to run out for quite a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 01:43 PM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? Literally every feminist I know is like a million percent supportive of the HPV vaccine and I've never heard one complaint about it. Why would they not want to prevent cervical cancer and genital warts in women? Are you sure you aren't confusing feminists with anti-vaxxers? Because your whole idea of what feminists think just seems to be totally detached from reality. And legally they can only do research on people who volunteer, are you claiming feminists were against women choosing to voluntee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 01:25 PM
1	People are missing the real problem behind a possible 'sex robot revolution'. We're getting there, many economists are already saying that society is becoming so automated that in the next few decades we'll absolutely need to implement Basic Income because there simply will not be enough jobs for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 01:04 PM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? You're right in saying that it's a myth about Super Bowl Sunday being the worst day for domestic violence, that's not true. It was a chain email, a lot of silly chain emails go viral and people start believing them. But what you're saying about healthcare is really misleading. The thing is, the vast majority of gender neutral healthcare is based on men. This is why everyone still thinks a pain in your left arm is the sign of a heart attack- it IS for men, but it's totally different for women, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 12:57 PM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? But she clearly is, since literally no other feminists are talking about this at all, in any way? Like seriously I'm an actual, what you would call, "Tumblr Feminist" and have never seen a single person mention sexbots ever, at all, literally no feminists care about this one way or another. And of all the 3 links you posted, that one person is the only one who comes up as opposing sexbots. The burden of proof is on the one who makes the claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 12:44 PM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? Honestly though this situation won't happen. The people rich enough to get nanobot brain replacements are the people who are rich enough to, well, run society. Nobody will tell them they're not human. If anything, they'll have enough power to start saying that people who have purely organic brains are now less than human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 12:02 PM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? Why would it be fake? Who are you to say that a fully functioning sexbot isn't as "real" as you are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 11:49 AM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? I'm female and I think I could feel more intimate with a robot than with a human. Maybe it's just me because I'm autistic and all. But I think a robot would be more my speed, really, I'd be able to relate to the robot better. The reason I keep responding to things in this topic is because I'm super, super into the whole idea of sexbots, in the sense of feeling regularly depressed about the fact that they probably won't exist in my lifetime. But honestly, I don't think you can condition anyone ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 11:24 AM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? Would we REALLY be extinct, though? I think if we created such robots, who were in our image and had our sentience, our intelligence, they would be our true ancestors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 11:17 AM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? The first link leads to a page which has a dead link in the part where it claims to link to feminists who oppose sexbots. Both the second AND the third links link the exact same person, Kathleen Richardson, who seems to be the one crazy person who seems to care about banning sexbots in any way. Do you have any proof that ANYONE besides one Kathleen Richardson actually wants to ban sexbots?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 11:05 AM
2	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? Someone managed to find a website created by one individual crazy person who is against the possible sexbot future, and they posted it to RP as "proof" that feminists are against sexbots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 10:55 AM
1	In the future, sex toys may offer unprecedented simulated sexual experiences, what ethical concerns and trends will arise from this? I read the topic on RP claiming that "feminists" want to ban sexbots, and the link relating to this supposed campaign for banning went to a webpage that seemed to be owned by one individual crazy person, whom no one has ever heard of or cares about. I mean I've been a feminist for like 20 years and never yet heard any opinion against sexbots, at all. Literally this is not an issue feminists even care about any in sense. Like it's nice that you found one crazy person who made a webpage and that y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 10:46 AM
0	People are missing the real problem behind a possible 'sex robot revolution'. Well- I guess capitalism has done its job. Only someone who is completely indoctrinated and brainwashed by capitalism would think it's a BAD thing that society will eventually become fully automated. Think about what you're saying- someday soon, machines will be able to produce enough resources for us ALL to live comfortably! And your concern is...that there won't be enough jobs left for people to work to earn money to afford those goods? L-O-fucking L, do you understand that money will mean not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 10:39 AM
2	Red pill and being silly in relationships In the US the majority of women are overweight, so just by virtue of not being fat she's already above average, ie a 6 at least. And she has a cute face and overall has no major defects, which pretty much gets her another point at least if you're actually comparing her on a scale including all other humans. It just goes to show that RP men have ridiculously unrealistic standards, you can look at a girl who is quite clearly above average, and call her average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 10:19 AM
2	Red pill and being silly in relationships I'm honestly trying to figure out if this is a joke...I mean, the first link you posted, that's so obviously the hotter girl...but based on context, it seems you believe the girl in the second link is hotter? Which...seems weird, because I thought RP was super into young girls? And the girl in the second link looks about 10-15 years older than the girl in the first link. I literally cannot even figure out what is going on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 10:03 AM
2	Red pill and being silly in relationships I suppose that's the problem with nerdy/geeky/awkward men. If the woman isn't an "HB8/9" it doesn't even count. And how would you feel? If the girls you actually had the most in common with, who were actually the most compatible with you, were like, "Nah, you're not a 9/10, so fuck you, I'd rather be with someone hotter who doesn't even know how to have fun." Because that's how it is for us- there are already only a small percentage of nerdy, average-looking guys who we could even potentially ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 09:58 AM
3	Red pill and being silly in relationships It's because we constantly see posts in RP where they talk about feeling utterly tortured and defeated because they can't really show vulnerability or be themselves around women, how they have to be always "on" and it's so exhausting and it's so unfair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 09:40 AM
3	If being a ''strong independent woman'' is so empowering. why are so many women unhappy? Well, I suppose it cheers me up some, being disabled and impoverished and living alone, that women who can actually work and support themselves are even more miserable than me, apparently. Though, I do think it's extremely ableist to relate the ideas of "strong" and "independant" to feminism...like, so disabled women who AREN'T strong or independent somehow don't deserve normal human rights? That's fucked up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 09:27 AM
2	TRPers, sorry if I am misunderstanding you, but do some of you think there is a moral difference between genders? It's confusing to me why boys would tend to rank higher, because it seems to me that the highest level of moral development actually represents a more empathetic standard- what can be more empathetic than understanding that a human life is worth more than money- or understanding that other people may need the medicine just as much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 08:59 AM
0	TheRedPill and female guilt Yeah, automation is really making a situation where the majority of people seriously just don't need to work. It's sad that even if we had a Star Trek situation where everything could be provided without cost, so many jerks would just be like "Well the poor should still die just because they aren't doing enough pointless busywork!!!!" But fuck those people, we should institute Basic Income anyways. If women want a leader so badly, why have we fought SO hard for equal rights, for the right to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 09:27 AM
1	TheRedPill and female guilt A lot of people don't like their jobs, that's exactly why we need Basic Income. I disagree that we're a long way off from it- we're already in a situation where we have more empty houses than homeless people, where we throw out 3x as much food as it would take to feed all the hungry people, where the amount spent on the administration of welfare and social security is so much that it would cover every person having their basic needs met. We have PLENTY of money and resources RIGHT NOW to secure …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 07:12 AM
2	Why do you think women tell men they want nice guys? I've never claimed that I want ugly nice guys. I want guys who are attractive (in my estimation) and who also do everything I tell them to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 06:58 AM
3	TheRedPill and female guilt I think that's so false though because my bff is 5'11 and she always likes short guys and they refuse to date her because they say her height makes them feel "emasculated." Finally she ended up with a guy taller than her because all of the shorter guys refused to date her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 06:34 AM
1	TheRedPill and female guilt Well the OP is obviously talking about a society where more women would have to marry men they hate, since the entire point of the OP is there are these men that no one would want, but if we were in the past some women would be forced to marry them because of financial concerns. I'm a socialist and a huge supporter of Basic Income, so I disagree with the idea that anyone should have a job they hate, but I think having a job you hate isn't as bad as having to be a 24/7 sex slave to someone you ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 06:30 AM
1	TheRedPill and female guilt I just think if someone is NEET it's because they have some kind of condition. And I say that as someone who is NEET herself. If you're NEET, you're not normal, there is some problem going on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 06:09 AM
1	TheRedPill and female guilt Well if you actually read my post one of my points was about how short men have it bad because of overly strict gender roles that say men always have to be the tallest/strongest/biggest. Anyways I'm barely over 5'1" so you're still much taller than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 06:07 AM
1	TheRedPill and female guilt So what do you think makes them incel? Like if you read Wizardchan or whatever, most of them seem to be NEET.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 04:50 AM
5	Low SMV women still get laid She's not anywhere close to obese. Obesity is a medical condition and she doesn't even come close...she's fat but not obese at all. And she's fat in the way many guys find attractive, with huge boobs and an ass but a relatively small waist. I mean I don't even like fat girls in general but I'd have sex with a girl who had a body like her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 04:34 AM
4	TheRedPill and female guilt Yeah, people who get labelled as "SJWs" are basically just people who have gone beyond feminism and have recognized ALL the ways in which people are oppressed- not just based on gender but also based on race, being able-bodied, not having any mental disabilities or differences, social class, amount of money you make, etc. Basically it's not the patriarchy oppressing women, it's kyriarchy oppressing everyone who isn't a rich white cis able-bodied neurotypical white male. I know a lot of men seem …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 04:07 AM
5	TheRedPill and female guilt Well you CAN say something back, it's a free country. Just that she would then be free to call you an oppressor or whatever. That's how freedom of speech works. It's always weird to me how anti-SJ people think that if someone would complain about them saying something, that means they "can't" say it. Getting criticism for what you say isn't the same as not being able to say it. And being straight and white and male ARE attributes that give you privilege, yet you might be oppressed on another axi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 03:47 AM
10	TheRedPill and female guilt You ever notice that nearly all incel men are autistic, or have some other kind of similar mental condition? The fact that they're shunned is because of ableism in our society. Asian men are shunned because of racism. Short men are shunned because of overly strict gender roles that say men always have to be the tallest/biggest/strongest. And who is actually trying to solve these problems? Who is accepting of these men and telling them it's not their fault, it's the fault of our racist, ableist, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 03:26 AM
19	TheRedPill and female guilt So...you realize that without women's liberation, it's the women who suffer, right? Women end up having to be the property of men they don't even like, because that's the only way they can survive since they're not allowed to work or make money of their own. So how can you support that, knowing it's at the expense of other people? Knowing that it causes the unhappiness of many women? It's also at the expense of civilization in general, since lots of women have brilliant minds and have invented a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/15 03:17 AM
0	Is 3rd Wave Feminism Not A Tacit Admission of Female Inferiority? Feminism isn't about equality, it's about liberation. I think someone killing their abuser is perfectly justified. There's no rationalization needed, it's self-defense. Choosing to kill your abuser takes a lot of personal agency. It's not their fault they live in an unfair society that punishes them for doing what's right. That's why we need liberation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/15 02:25 AM
1	Is it possible to be a swinger/have open relationships as a man without just becoming a "cuck"? I could never be with just one man. I'd literally rather die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/15 06:08 PM
1	Millennials, are you not having sex anymore? Or alternatively, less sex than the preceding generations? Well I'm Gen-X but I'd be extremely put off if a guy tried to kiss me without asking. Every guy I have sex with, it's because I ask him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/15 05:40 PM
0	Can we at least all agree that a lot of men are boot-licking, groveling, pansies? Can we at least all agree that a lot of men are boot-licking, groveling, pansies? No. If more men were like this, I'd be getting a lot more action. Men like this are rare, and TRP is destroying the few that are left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/15 05:29 PM
2	Why do two of the most popular romantic movies movies of all time seem against the concept of hypergamy? This is why PUA handbooks say if you go to Scandinavian countries, countries that actually have real social safety nets, it's almost impossible to pick up women. Because women who know they won't literally end up starving in the streets if they don't get married are not women who will settle for an ugly/mean/etc man who has money. So a woman's desire for money/status isn't innate at all, it's a product of society. If she already has money and status- or even just lives in a society where she kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/15 05:11 PM
-2	Is 3rd Wave Feminism Not A Tacit Admission of Female Inferiority? Statistics show that virtually all women in prison are abuse victims- almost all female "murderers" are women who killed their abusers. Almost all females in on drug charges are users who went down for the crimes of their drug-dealing boyfriends because they were so low on the chain that they couldn't provide any useful info about dealers to get their sentence reduced. It's only because of misogyny that they're even in prison at all. The reason their sentences are less for committing the "same" …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/15 04:56 PM
0	The difference between a hard "no" and "not right now, give me more time" from a woman. TRP does not advocate rape. This is a silly thing to say. The entire point of freedom of speech and freedom of expression is that you can't be thrown in jail for your speech/expression, and I certainly never said anyone should be thrown in jail for what they say. I just think some media creators should make the choice to be less evil and not produce stuff that glorifies rape and violence- they don't HAVE to, like under fascism, but I think they should, from a moral perspective. And if they won't do that, then capitalists c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 08:42 AM
7	Why does it matter if TRP is manipulative or misogynistic? One of those who talks about actual facts instead of getting emotional and basing my opinion on a misunderstood meme? Yeah, I guess I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 03:28 AM
0	The difference between a hard "no" and "not right now, give me more time" from a woman. TRP does not advocate rape. Well in my opinion Rockstar certainly does. I'm no fan of GTA, frankly I think it tends to attract mentally unstable people because of course it does, who else wants to play games about torture and hooker murder? But Marilyn Manson literally does everything he can to make sure his fans aren't awful, he makes statements all the time and he just generally lives as a decent person, so really he's already doing all he can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 03:24 AM
1	The difference between a hard "no" and "not right now, give me more time" from a woman. TRP does not advocate rape. I don't save links, but it was definitely posted in TRP and then posted to TBP. The Internet is always kind of weird to me because like...I KNOW some people lie on the Internet because I've seen proof that they do so I guess it must happen but I just....can't understand why, maybe it's because of my autism but I just literally don't understand why someone would lie on the Internet like what would you even gain from that it makes no sense. But very little of human social interaction makes sense t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 03:13 AM
1	The difference between a hard "no" and "not right now, give me more time" from a woman. TRP does not advocate rape. So doesn't that show that there's some kind of problem, if it tends to attract the type of people who are angry rapists? Because there are plenty of communities that DON'T tend to attract angry rapists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 03:06 AM
9	Why does it matter if TRP is manipulative or misogynistic? You don't understand the male tears meme. Literally no one brings up "male tears" in response to suicide. Actually the high rate of male suicide is, in feminist circles, attributed to toxic masculinity (which means unhealthy gender roles that the patriarchy forces on men- in this case, the unhealthy gender role that men can't express emotions or ask for help, which worsens psychological problems and causes suicide.) The male tears meme is solely about males who are crying about losing their priv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 02:37 AM
1	The difference between a hard "no" and "not right now, give me more time" from a woman. TRP does not advocate rape. But if they're not representative then why are they so frequent? There are literally SO MANY posts like that in TRP and PPD. In other online communities I frequent, I generally see ZERO posts advocating rape. So it seems obvious that there's something about TRP ideas that is advocating rape and/or attracting the type of men who rape. There was even a popular "reformed redpiller" post about a guy who actually attempted rape because of what he learned from TRP, and the attempted rape is what made …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 02:11 AM
11	Why does it matter if TRP is manipulative or misogynistic? That seems incongruous with saying that women have been screwing you over so long that you'd now laugh if one of your sex partners was killing herself over you. That sounds like hatred to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 02:03 AM
10	Why does it matter if TRP is manipulative or misogynistic? How can that not make you unhappy? Genuine question. I can't imagine wanting to have sex at all with someone I hate so much that I'd be happy to see them slit their wrists. That sounds like a miserable life. Like why is having sex with someone you hate any better than just using a fleshlight? What's even the point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 01:37 AM
0	CMV: False benevolence and the BP. Why TRP is opposed. If he's made it to his 20s as an involuntary virgin and suffers from depression there's a near-100% chance he has low confidence and is naturally submissive. A naturally submissive male will never be truly happy trying to turn himself into a dominant and be in a relationship with a submissive woman, that's why TRP has an "anger phase," none of them are happy with what TRP sells them. They would be happier if they embraced their submissiveness and dated dominant women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 01:32 AM
1	The difference between a hard "no" and "not right now, give me more time" from a woman. TRP does not advocate rape. But then why are there constantly so many posts on TRP advocating rape? Like there was one post where a guy literally said you should subtly threaten to murder a girl if she won't have sex with you. His theory was that the woman really wants to have sex, but she has a "slut shield," and threatening murder will allow her to rationalize and tell herself "Well this doesn't make me a slut, I just have to do it so I don't get murdered." And a guy in PPD made a bunch of comments where he said that if …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 01:11 AM
9	Why does it matter if TRP is manipulative or misogynistic? So you'd really be happy if your sex partners were slitting their wrists in the bathrooms afterwards? It wouldn't make you unhappy to know you'd abandoned morals and were hurting people solely for the sake of getting laid? Is getting laid really that important that you'd be willing to sink that low, to become the type of person who is fine sitting there while someone slits their wrists over you? Isn't going that far to get laid like the total opposite of "taking the pussy off the pedestal"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/15 12:43 AM
1	In Which Roosh V is Assaulted in Montreal, Canada So how can you not believe with live in a patriarchy? The actual definition of a patriarchy is a society where men hold the vast majority of power positions, ie high-ranking government officials, religious leaders, wealth holders, and media creators. In our society, most of the House, Senate and Supreme Court are made up of men, we've never had a woman president, almost all religious leaders are men- many of the more popular religions don't even allow women leaders- men hold most of the wealth a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/15 08:14 AM
1	In Which Roosh V is Assaulted in Montreal, Canada I'm comparing it in principle- the example was to show that most people agree that violence is acceptable in some contexts, even though people like to lie and say that they're totally against violence in all instances. Also, I was talking about a communist revolution in that part, so it literally would be a war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/15 08:06 AM
5	All hands on deck: Sex bots Luckily for women, we'll just have sexbots who eat us out all the time without ever asking anything in return and never refuse to do housework and never get fat or old or bald. Ugh, why do I keep clicking on these topics about sexbots, I was born in the wrong generation, why couldn't I have been born in a time when sexbots exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/15 03:34 PM
1	In Which Roosh V is Assaulted in Montreal, Canada I don't understand how people can claim to have morals while at the same time saying they think "morals are subjective." Morals aren't subjective, some things are moral and others are immoral, and the things I believe in are moral because obviously they are, if I didn't truly believe that then why would those be my morals? I wouldn't have chosen those as my morals if I didn't believe they were correct. If you've chosen a particular set of morals but still believe morals are "subjective," obvious…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/15 02:20 PM
-1	Blue pills/feminists verify just how correct Red pill values are Literally no one in social justice circles would ever say "all men should die," I mean first of all if they said all men should die that would include transgender men, nobody in those circles would ever say transgender people should die. It would also include black men and they certainly wouldn't say that, they're actually talking all the time about how cops need to stop murdering black men. Now sometimes they do make fun of cis straight white men, but still no one literally believes they should…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/15 05:09 PM
-1	Blue pills/feminists verify just how correct Red pill values are SRS is definitely feminist, yeah...SRS is basically no different whatsoever to social justice circles on Tumblr, the opinions are exactly the same. TBP can be, but I see some pretty bigoted things there...I mean I got to this topic by a post in TBP complaining about the OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/15 04:58 PM
2	Blue pills/feminists verify just how correct Red pill values are I realize you don't believe the people in social justice circles on Tumblr are the "real" feminists, but according to what feminism is actually defined as academically, they really are much much closer to actual feminist views than most other groups on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/15 02:53 AM
-5	Blue pills/feminists verify just how correct Red pill values are I really wouldn't call those posters "feminists." In social justice circles on Tumblr, nobody would say these things- most of those quotes are actually extremely ableist, classist, and misogynist (calling a man, or anyone, a "b*tch" is misogynist.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/15 02:42 AM
1	Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas? You don't have to have seen Twilight to know what Edward looks like...I've never seen any of the movies, but I know what he looks like because I've seen plenty of pictures online. Well, also because I'm a huge Harry Potter fan and I remember when the 4th movie came out and all my friends were going bonkers over how hot Cedric Diggory was (the actor who played Cedric later went on to play Edward.) Anyways I'm pretty sure most people see Edward as looking feminine. I mean pretty much the most comm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/15 10:50 PM
0	Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas? I mean, I have no idea how anyone could prove or disprove whether women who like Twilight are more likely to be fat, suburban or boring than anyone else. Especially boring since that's so subjective. It's also always weird to me how people use "suburban" as an insult, considering the majority of people in the US live in the suburbs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/15 08:08 PM
3	Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas? That just says that young women often like guys around their own age, it doesn't explain why they seem to be particularly attracted to feminine/androgynous guys around their own age. You really don't think Edward looks feminine? Justin Bieber also had a contingent of middle aged fans. I actually used to be really into him, but then he got that awful haircut and those ugly tattoos and started acting like a jerk and started making annoying R&B music.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/15 06:02 PM
1	Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas? Those kinds of guys are popular with young women, but still, why? Men don't generally go through a youthful phase of being very attracted to masculine women. And aren't young women the target of TRP anyways? Also, those androgynous guys tend to have pretty big adult fan bases- look at all the "Twi-moms" who were attracted to the "pretty boys" in the Twilight movies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/15 05:39 PM
2	Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas? It seems like you're just dodging the question. The question is, why is prettiness in males considered hot at all, if women are supposedly only attracted to hyper-masculine alphas? And status doesn't explain it, the OP addresses that. But also, look at the kinds of guys you see in, for example, yaoi, which is pretty much the biggest area of porn made by and for women. All those guys are fairly feminine looking, and they obviously don't have any status or money since they are drawings, and women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/15 05:13 PM
1	Artificial wombs/sperm and sex robots. I'm sure eventually there will nanotechnology that can duplicate a human brain and people will be able to just live forever as robots. We may be one of the last generations of humans that actually has to die. It's very depressing for those of us alive right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/15 09:19 AM
-1	"Be yourself" is not bad advice. "don't be a bitch" You say this like it's easy. For women on the spectrum, it isn't easy, it isn't even possible without a HUGE amount of studying and faking your personality. I've worked just as hard to get laid as any guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/15 01:31 PM
0	"Be yourself" is not bad advice. Literally anyone can be manipulated if you're good enough at manipulating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/15 01:17 PM
1	"Be yourself" is not bad advice. No, sorry. As someone who has a social disorder, I understand the desire to just be yourself. I always wanted to be, and my girlfriends would say, "But just giggle and pretend to be stupid, don't talk about science, guys don't want to talk about that with girls, and I KNOW you don't see the point of these social conventions and they're not natural for you, but just follow them anyways and pretend like it is natural, and if you do that, then a guy will fall in love with you and THEN you can revea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/15 01:00 PM
3	Artificial wombs/sperm and sex robots. If I could have an attractive sexbot who would look 18 forever, and do exactly what I say all the time and have exactly the personality I want, why would I ever again bother with a human male? I think about this a lot, and then get really depressed over the fact that I'll almost surely be dead before this kind of technology exists. But if it did exist, I'd spend exactly zero time trying to get with a "high value alpha male," and instead spend all my time saving money for a sexbot. Would attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/15 11:03 AM
1	The "Slut vs. Stud" debate. So if a woman gets pregnant on accident and doesn't have a father who was arranged up front...then what happens? Either she'll be forced to get an abortion, or she'll have the baby and then either the father or all the taxpayers will be forced to care for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/15 02:42 PM
1	The "Slut vs. Stud" debate. I've never even read that book...it has nothing to do with that specific book, it's about the actual facts of how animals evolve. These facts about testicle size existed when I was studying anthropology in the 90s, way before that book was even thought of. I'm not even sure what you're talking about since I haven't read that particular book, but how do you think male human testicles evolved to be so large if females weren't promiscuous?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/15 02:39 PM
1	The "Slut vs. Stud" debate. So basically your system is just a fantasy where all women choose what you think they should choose? In reality, women can choose to have a baby without an involved father- it may not be a good or smart decision, but you can't force that decision, unless you're saying you should force women to have abortions against their will, which is a huge violation of bodily autonomy. I mean...it really seems like you're basing your view on some ideal world where no one would choose anything that goes again…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/15 10:43 AM
1	The "Slut vs. Stud" debate. It seems like you know absolutely nothing about anthropology and are, for some reason, just saying a bunch of common pop culture tropes and calling them "science." If you actually read more science, you'd know that humans are social creatures and have always lived in tribes. The idea of one monogamous couple fending for themselves is a very modern idea. Humans originally lived in huge multi-generational households full of people who all helped each other survive, among neighbors who would also h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/15 09:00 AM
1	The "Slut vs. Stud" debate. The thing is that child support laws are based on what's in the best interest of the child. It's not some award for the mother. If the father should be able to reject parenthood, then who will support the baby if the mother is too poor to do it on her own? We already have a situation where single mothers are the most impoverished group in the US. And kids growing up in poverty hurts all of society- kids who grow up in poverty are more likely to commit crimes and more likely to be on welfare as a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/15 08:49 AM
4	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? That study doesn't say women lie more, it says when they do lie, they're better at not getting caught. Statistics on how many people cheat aren't based on how many people get caught, they're based on anonymous surveys where people have no reason to lie. Not that nobody lies on anonymous surveys, but there's nothing to say women lie on them more than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 09:06 PM
3	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? I just Googled it: "Differences in sexual infidelity as a function of gender have been commonly reported. It is more common for men compared to women to engage in extradyadic relationships. The National Health and Social Life Survey found that 4% of married men, 16% of cohabiting men, and 37% of dating men engaged in acts of sexual infidelity compared to 1% of married women, 8% of cohabiting women, and 17% of women in dating relationships (Lalasz & Weigel, 2011)." So no, according to statistics …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 05:33 PM
4	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? But statistically men actually commit adultery at higher rates than women, and they also abuse their spouse at much higher rates, so a big chunk of the 66-70% of women filing are doing so because they were "eventually broken by their partner's behavior" too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 03:35 PM
6	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? So around 30-34% of men initiate divorce...not even remotely close to 30% of mothers abandon their children, so how can you compare a man's love for his wife to a mother's love for her children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 03:23 PM
17	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? So what exactly is the nuance? If it's that difficult for a man to lose love for a woman, then shouldn't men almost never dump or divorce women? Shouldn't a woman getting dumped be as rare as a mother abandoning her child?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 03:12 PM
18	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? So a sizable portion of men wouldn't dump a woman for any less than committing a felony? Come on. Pretty much every woman ever has been dumped for way less than committing a felony.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 02:41 PM
7	BP: Given the choice between having romantic relations with someone IRL who browses r/TheRedPill or r/foreveralone, who would you choose? But the thing is, if you believe in RP philosophy it's really unlikely you'd want to be with a girl like me. For instance, your use of the word "bitchy" there? If I were dating you I'd inform you that's a misogynist slur and expect you to never use that word again. And the kind of guys I date, when I tell them that they immediately apologize for using the word and actually never use it again. Basically, a RedPill guy would hate me, and would most likely argue and fight against the things I told …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/15 10:02 PM
6	BP: Given the choice between having romantic relations with someone IRL who browses r/TheRedPill or r/foreveralone, who would you choose? I've met every guy I've had sex with over the last 15 years through Pokemon. So Pokemon TCG tournaments, Pokemon forums, standing around in public talking about Pokemon...I don't even do it on purpose, I actually have several other interests, but literally every time I end up finding a guy I want to have sex with, it's through Pokemon. So uh, maybe start liking Pokemon if you don't already?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/15 09:47 PM
7	BP: Given the choice between having romantic relations with someone IRL who browses r/TheRedPill or r/foreveralone, who would you choose? I've actually had sex with some foreveralone/kissless virgins. I mean, they didn't actually go to that specific Reddit forum. And they weren't misogynists like a lot of the guys in foreveralone seem to be. Anyways I'd definitely choose the foreveralone guy. I've never really been clear on why other people don't seem to want to be with someone who just does whatever they say. That's a huge benefit to being with a foreveralone guy, he'll just do whatever you tell him to. Why would I not want to ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/15 09:14 PM
1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Like I said, I'm average looking, so I guess probably a 5. This is me as Felicia: http://auroramoon.com/pics/felicia.jpg	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/15 08:55 PM
1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? I've never seen The Big Bang Theory, but my mom really likes that show and she's always saying I'm exactly like Sheldon. I'm not very good with humor, honestly. Yeah, I mean that's pretty much what I already do, I try to attract guys with my looks. I've been to anime and gaming cons as Felicia from Darkstalkers and Hitomi from DOA Xtreme Beach Volleyball. When I was dressed as Hitomi, a fat guy literally told me I was hot and then turned me down when I asked him to have sex. Guys will think I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/15 08:37 PM
1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Yeah, I definitely have ZERO ability to read any kind of non-verbal cue. I also have trouble with any kind of nuances in speech- like I have trouble detecting sarcasm or understanding metaphors, and I can't really understand what someone is trying to get across if they're being subtle at all. Basically I won't understand what someone is trying to get across to me unless they actually say it in a literal way. My roommate sometimes calls me "an overly logical robot."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/15 02:58 PM
1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? I don't think complaining on the Internet about being rejected really qualifies as any kind of useful skill. I really have been fired from like 20 jobs, I'm actually in the process of applying for disability right now because it's become clear that it's genuinely impossible for me to hold a job. There's something about me that just rubs people the wrong way, people hate being around me in person. I've been to more psychologists, psychiatrists and therapists than I could count. Nobody actually kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/15 02:17 PM
5	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? Well currently there is no way to change the brain, if someone's brain was formed with a higher amount of testosterone in the womb, you can't just change that, you can't change the way he brain has developed, you can't alter the amount of white matter in a brain, you can't change the way the brain developed as a result of particular hormones. I mean you realize the brain IS a physical component, right? If your brain physically develops in one way, that is a physical problem. It's actually MUCH e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/15 01:03 AM
0	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? But attraction isn't random, that's the point. It's not just a huge coincidence that most cis people aren't attracted to trans people, and that most white people aren't attracted to black people. Maybe in some cases it's just a random preference, but really, when it's so widespread, either it's a social thing informing this preference or else it's some innate thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 11:14 PM
1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Probably because I'm average looking and have a horrible personality. My personality is seriously horrible, I've literally been fired from like 20 jobs because of my horrible personality. I have a social disorder and don't understand how to interact with humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 10:52 PM
1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Don't know if you read my edit- they don't tell me why, I just walk up to them and try to talk to them and they turn their whole body away from me and pretend like I'm not talking to them, so obviously they don't tell me why they're rejecting me, since they won't even speak to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 10:43 PM
2	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Because they reject me. Edit: I mean, do you know what it's like to walk up to a fat guy at an anime con and try to talk to him and he turns his body away from you and pretends like you're not talking to him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 10:38 PM
0	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? I'm bisexual too, so gender isn't a dealbreaker for me either, but I understand that some people are strictly straight or gay and gender is a dealbreaker for them. I get that everyone has different dealbreakers, but like, if there are a ton of white people who think being black is a dealbreaker, or if there are a ton of cis people who think being trans is a dealbreaker, then maybe we need to ask if that's being influenced by our racist and transphobic society? Or do you think it's just natural a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 10:34 PM
1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? I wish I could choose from the top 80% of guys. Sadly I cannot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 10:30 PM
8	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? But it is, because medically a transgender person has a brain that doesn't match their body. And your brain has a "body map" inside it that tells it how your body is supposed to be- this is why, if you lose a limb, you'll get phantom limb syndrome. So if you're trans, you have the brain of the other sex, and your brain will have a body map that does not match what your body is, and this will cause you dysphoria. And this dysphoria will cause you great mental anguish, mental anguish so bad that i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 10:23 PM
2	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? But people need to realize that what they're attracted to often hinges on what society and the media portrays as attractive. Attraction isn't totally innate...if it were, then why is it that most straight men these days are attracted to a shaved pubic region, whereas men a generation ago would never have even thought to be attracted to that? Why is it that men a few hundred years ago were attracted to fat women, but men now are more attracted to thin women? Obviously the media and society have a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 10:16 PM
-1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? I'm always the one to approach, nobody has approached me since I was a teen a couple decades ago. When I was younger, I used to think it was OK to just go up to guys and ask if they wanted to have sex. Guys hate that more than you would think. It never worked so I stopped doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 09:48 PM
2	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? Why, exactly, do you not need to justify not being attracted to someone? Like in the example I pointed out, white people who say they'd never date a black person- they don't need to justify that at all? There's absolutely no cause to believe they may be racist if they don't justify it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 09:42 PM
9	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? Right. So you're telling me, instead of coming to terms with the organs in your body, it's better to use surgery, a recent invention, to alter yourself in order to feel more comfortable, rather than maturing and growing up like people have done for thousands of years. That's like saying that if you're diabetic you should live with it instead of getting insulin injections because insulin injections are a recent invention. Using the medical intervention available to fix your biological problem doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 09:39 PM
10	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? But from an actual scientific standpoint, transgender people actually have the brain of the other sex. Like transgender men who are born female actually have brains that are constructed like the brains of men who were born male, and transgender women who are born male actually have brains that are constructed like women who were born female. So it is scientific. I don't see how being transgender makes someone less confident. Their brain doesn't match up to their body, that's a problem they were …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 09:31 PM
9	How do you feel about all-women's colleges accepting trans students? So basically she thinks because something is HER experience, that must be the same experience everyone else has. Yeah that's still not solipsism, solipsism means that you literally do not believe anything besides your own mind exists, it has nothing to do with thinking the lives of other people are the same as your life. If you're a solipsist, you could totally understand that others' lives are different than yours, you'd just believe that all of those others are simply illusions and don't actua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 09:12 PM
6	RPW I want to hear you defend RP Men You said that the reason women can unconditionally love children and men can't is because of hormonal things that happen during pregnancy and breast feeding and men don't have those experiences. Well an adoptive mother also wouldn't have those experiences...so how is that not what you said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 09:06 PM
11	How do you feel about all-women's colleges accepting trans students? But that's not how RPers use the word "solipsism" at all. TRP invented an entirely new definition for the word. It's supposed to be a philosophical stance where you basically believe that all you can truly know is that you yourself exist ("I think, therefore I am") and therefore everything else could very well be an illusion. Like maybe I'm a brain in a jar and nothing in this world even exists. But TRP uses it to mean like, women thinking that their opinions are shared by everyone else in the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 08:44 PM
4	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Nah, the guy could walk into a gay bar and do that and end up getting laid and not arrested. Guys can get laid anytime, they're just being too picky about gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 08:37 PM
2	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Also you might be surprised how picky an overweight, jobless basement dweller can be. I've definitely been turned down by many guys like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 08:27 PM
3	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? Some women ARE hideous and/or wildly defective in personality or character. They're still women, so it's not accurate to say that ALL women can easily get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 08:22 PM
-1	Why are most PUA's, TRP's and people trying to learn seduction mostly men? I definitely disagree that a woman can always get guys more attractive than her. I mean, the topic here is women with social disorders. As such a person, I can tell you that having a social disorder definitely knocks you down several pegs. I'm only average looking, but most of the guys I've had sex with are below average looking. I generally can't get guys in my own league looks-wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 08:14 PM
4	Straight BP men and straight BP women, would you engage in romantic and/or sexual relations with a MtF transgender and a FtM transgender (respectively)? Gay BP men and gay BP women, would you engage in relations with a gay FtM transgender and a gay MtF transgender? You're being sarcastic but actually I am shocked that AskWomen is this transphobic. And I know people will try to claim that it's not transphobic...but unless you don't see trans men as being REALLY men, then what reason would you really have to not date them? It's like those people who say they'd never date a black person but they claim they're totally not racist. I've dated a trans person before, it's really not a big deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 08:05 PM
0	RPW I want to hear you defend RP Men So you're saying that an adoptive mother can't unconditionally love her child because she didn't go through pregnancy and breast feeding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 07:48 PM
0	Red Pill Women, how would your relationship dynamic change if you had to be your SO's caretaker for a period of time? Absolutely; you're not going to find a single person who's going to disagree that being well dressed, valuable employee with an interesting array of hobbies are positives. Well, come on, of course you can find a single person who disagrees with that. Most communists and anarchists, for example. Seeing as how there is no moral consumption in late stage capitalism, I don't see anything at all positive about being well-dressed or a valuable employee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/15 06:09 AM
1	Evolution and Natural Selection But the majority of women in the world have dark hair. Virtually everyone other than white people have black hair, and most white people have dark hair too...only a tiny percentage of the population are blondes and redheads. You seriously believe women only have a miniscule amount of hair? All I can think is that you've just never seen what a woman looks like when she doesn't shave. Have you ever even seen older porn from the 70s and 80s, before it came in style for women to shave their pubic ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/15 12:20 AM
1	Red Pillers: How come women can't love men unconditionally but men can love women conditionally? Not having sex with others is definitely something she can involuntarily fail at- even today there are places in the world where women are put to death for being raped, because their husbands consider them worthless once another man has had sex with them. Sorry, I know this conversation is a couple days old and basically over, I haven't been on for a couple days and I couldn't let this go without pointing out that women can involuntarily fail at being monogamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/15 11:33 PM
2	Evolution and Natural Selection You're talking as if the only possible root cause must be biological, and that's not the case. Think how much the idea of what's attractive has changed over time- like that fat women were attractive during a time when you had to be rich to be fat, and now thin women are attractive since only rich people can afford healthy food and gym memberships. So maybe men want to be powerful because of current societal reasons, not because of any evolutionarily viable reasons. You have this fallacious RP be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/15 12:35 PM
2	Evolution and Natural Selection You can say it's natural instinct, but you really have no proof for that, maybe it's just because that's what the media pushed to you as a kid. And it just literally doesn't make sense when you say hair is masculine, apish, and unattractive...women do naturally have hair on their legs and arms and many other places, so there's nothing inherently masculine or apish or unattractive about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/15 10:48 AM
2	Evolution and Natural Selection Yeah, it takes a genius to invent a bow and arrow...but it also takes a really smart person to even be able to use a bow and arrow. Because think about it...can you teach an animal to use a bow and arrow? In humans, intelligence is paramount, because we need that intelligence to even use advanced tools and weapons. Have you heard of the concept of a "male power fantasy"? Basically men love the idea of being muscular and strong, so they produce fictional characters like that, not for women to ogl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/15 10:13 AM
7	Red Pillers: How come women can't love men unconditionally but men can love women conditionally? You say men have long loved women who don't do anything, but I'm not sure why you're saying that. It seems to me that men have long discarded any woman who didn't do exactly what he wanted- if she didn't have sex with him, if she cheated on him, if she was infertile and couldn't give him children, even if she gave him children and those children weren't boys, because back then they didn't know that it was the man's sperm that determined the sex of the child, and they were eager to blame women fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/15 07:36 AM
3	Evolution and Natural Selection This is actually a question I've often wondered about...the thing is, even in prehistoric times, brains were more important than brawn. Because really, how did we get to the top of the food chain? Was it through physical strength? Obviously not, we're actually really weak and slow compared to most animals. Almost every animal can either outfight or outrun us. But we're smarter than everything else on this planet, and that's why we're at the top. This is why, back in the days before we were homo …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/15 07:08 AM
10	Red Pillers: How come women can't love men unconditionally but men can love women conditionally? But this is what confuses me about the RP theory of love- that they say men love the woman herself, while a woman loves what a man can do for her. If you truly love the woman, and not what she can do for you, does that mean you'd keep loving her even if she quit doing anything beneficial for you? Like if she stopped giving you sex or affection, was lazy and refused to work but also refused to clean the house, cheated on you, etc? You'd still love her and stay with her, because you love her and n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/15 06:13 AM
1	A survey for sexually experienced women (with high partner counts) 5-6 I guess. Maybe a 6-7 when I first had sex at age 17. I'm 36 and have had 15 partners- 9 FWBs, 1 FB (fuck buddy, which is a lot different from an FWB), 2 ONS, 3 STRs (all 3 short term relationships happened in my teen years) and zero LTRs. My first partner was someone I didn't even like or find attractive, but at the time I was a nerdy teenager and no guy had ever shown interest in me, and when I had crushes on guys they'd reject me and then make fun of me in front of the whole school. So whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/15 03:42 AM
1	CMV: I'm entitled to sex. So I'm genuinely curious as to what you mean when you say "entitled." Feeling entitled means you feel it is a right you should have. For instance, people who think everyone is entitled to a living wage believe corporations should be compelled by law to pay all workers a living wage. People who believe everyone is entitled to basic necessities like food and shelter believe that the government should compel people to pay taxes and then use that tax money to give food and shelter to people in need.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/14 06:44 AM
2	Why are some universally-recognized-as-bad men so romantically and sexually successful? I spent my 20s being rejected so frequently by guys that it was a running joke among my friends that I'd been rejected more than any other human alive. There were tons of times when I tried to talk to a guy in a social setting and he silently turned away from me and pretended I wasn't speaking to him. I definitely did not get "validation just from breathing air." I eventually fixed this problem, and it relates to the OP's question about whether "bad girls" do better. Basically, I stopped being n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/14 11:25 AM
2	Which do bluepillers dislike more, "nice guys" or redpillers? Is Oktoberfest now a celebration of deflowering virgins? If so, I guess the answer is yes xD	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/14 06:03 PM
3	Which do bluepillers dislike more, "nice guys" or redpillers? You seem to have no idea what "betas" actually think/say. As a girl with a virgin fetish, I can tell you that no beta boys say, or indicate, what you've outlined above. I've had sex with an awful lot of virgins, who I guess would be labelled as "beta" in your ideology, and exactly NONE of them have insulted me over my sexual past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/14 03:17 PM
2	BPers, here are pictures of two males. Which do you think has a much easier time getting women to have sex with him, and why? Well I don't think it's fair to throw girls who like the Boston bomber in there with the others. The girls who are into the Boston bomber are all conspiracy theorists who believe that the government did 9/11 and that the government is responsible for all terror attacks, and that therefore the Boston bomber is totally innocent and was framed by the evil government. So that's not hybristophilia, they don't believe he committed a crime, they believe he's a victim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/14 05:42 AM
9	BPers, here are pictures of two males. Which do you think has a much easier time getting women to have sex with him, and why? But RPers are always talking about wanting to bang beautiful women who have terrible, even evil personalities. Does this speak to the bad decision making that is inherent in men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/14 05:36 AM
3	Red or reddish pillers, in what way do you dislike r/theredpill? Blue or blueish pillers, in what ways do you like it? I actually think he's a literal psychopath, and I believe the woman who accused him of rape. Plus he admitted to having an adulterous affair with another woman besides Monica Lewinsky, and then another woman said she had an affair with him and apologized to Hillary. Exactly how many times does one have to cheat before they're counted as a serial cheater?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/14 10:50 PM
1	Red or reddish pillers, in what way do you dislike r/theredpill? Blue or blueish pillers, in what ways do you like it? I honestly can't tell if you're kidding with this comment. Bill Clinton is a womanizing jerk. And everyone knows he's an adulterer. How is cheating on your wife "nice"? Part of my comment was talking about how people find cheaters attractive, because cheating is a jerk thing to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/14 09:45 PM
2	Serious question for RPers: I am a female who is super attracted to [your definition of] "beta" males. How do you reconcile this with your beliefs? I'm not the person you were originally replying to, but I want to say that I've also had several anime nerds reject sexual advances from me. I wouldn't say I'm beautiful, but I wouldn't say I'm ugly, either. I've never been overweight. I'm pretty much just plain and average looking. I was actually just posting about all the rejection I've faced in another topic on PPD- I don't know, I guess today is my day for complaining about all the nerds who rejected me in my 20s. I fixed it though and haven…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/14 08:40 PM
3	Red or reddish pillers, in what way do you dislike r/theredpill? Blue or blueish pillers, in what ways do you like it? I disagree with like 99% of what TRP says- I'm a feminist, and I actually have a social justice blog on Tumblr. The one thing I agree with about RedPill is that I do believe people are attracted to jerks. I do believe that if you're nice, no one will be attracted to you. I just think TRP misses the fact that this is true for everyone, not just one specific gender. Studies have been done showing that disagreeableness positively correlates with sexual success, and that's true across genders. I cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/14 08:05 PM
3	What are your honest (use throwaway if needed) opinions on homosexuality? What you don't seem to realize is that you're being a pozphobe and that's why you're getting downvoted. And I'm sorry to inform you, but being a pozphobe is a real thing. You are bigoted against people who are HIV+ and that is irrational, because HIV is now treatable and no longer a death sentence, and it's also preventable with condoms, so there's no reason to be a pozphobe. And also your 4% statistic is super, super debatable, because people are notorious liars on sex surveys, especially when …	/r/TRPOffTopic	07/06/14 03:54 PM