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| 1 | If You’ve Been Ghosted, Time Passes, & You Come Back, what should you say?Yeah, except when I want somebody, she never makes moves. I don’t know why. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | If You’ve Been Ghosted, Time Passes, & You Come Back, what should you say?That’s what I mean. Especially because unfortunately, with some women, you have to do everything. You have to do all the approaching, all the face-revealing, everything. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | She said i talk too muchEither you’re dating a Zoomer who thinks it’s unmanly to even speak, or you really do talk too much. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagWeirdly enough, men & women are doing this. But while there are idiots who call everything a simp, simping never works in real life or on anybody other than Millennials. Guaranteed it doesn’t work on Zoomers. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Here’s the “medication” you need. GABA Rhodelia Acetyl L Carnatine Brocco Max None of which are actual medications. They are all vitamins. Then, jog every chance you get, & lift weights. Martial arts help too. Then adopt artistic hobbies like guitar & painting, & also real world hobbies like science & scripture. Then cut out porn. & finally, practice. The first couple are always the hardest. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Here’s the “medication” you need. GABA Rhodelia Acetyl L Carnatine Brocco Max None of which are actual medications. They are all vitamins. Then, jog every chance you get, & lift weights. Martial arts help too. Then adopt artistic hobbies like guitar & painting, & also real world hobbies like science & scripture. Then cut out porn. & finally, practice. The first couple are always the hardest. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meHumans didn’t evolve for one-night stands. They evolved for taking care of babies. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How about instead of surgery, the short guys get out of this mindset that being short will prevent them from having girlfriends? I’ve been turned down in favor of shorter guys than me multiple times, & for many reasons, good & bad. Height only universally affects your odds if you keep picking the woman versions of dudebros, which are sadly the ones men socially pressure each other to fetishize. If you expand your tastes outside of this one narrow outlet, you’ll find a lot of women who will pick … | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Leagues aren’t real, or at least, not in the way that we like to think they are. Height only really impacts your odds if you’re into the female equivalents of dudebros. Outside of that, a lot of other factors come into play. Get a good fashion sense, do a lot of physical work to lower the cortisol, develop hobbies related to studying the real world like science, languages, & history. & above all else, find women everywhere, but never on Facebook, as you’ll be outcompeted by angry hateful guys wh… | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 04:19 AM |
| 0 | Is it just me or do women evaluate what you are now, not so much your potentialLet’s be realistic; would you really want to pick somebody for what they COULD be but may never be? Especially if you’ve been in a series of bad relationships solely due to choosing out of mere potential? Exactly. For those of you still struggling...take some time off. Seriously. Find new things to define yourselves with so that you’re more than potential. Wanna know the main reason I post more here than elsewhere? Because sadly I used to define myself by my success in dating & that’s the thing … | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 11:22 PM |
| 9 | Do small women even like small guys?I actually got rejected by a short girl I used to talk to in favor of a short guy. She probably had both a lot of really good & really bad reasons to do this: Good reasons: Even though my approach with her got good later on, it was awkward at first, partly due to my ignorance, partly because she was new to me, & partly because I misread my own calendar & accidentally rushed things. They were a bit closer in age. My hygiene was good, but it probably didn’t always seem that way because of my thick… | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You’re welcome. 🙂 As for your face, are you Indian, Southeast Asian, Central Asian, or East African, by any chance? Because the most commonly represented forms of beauty are European, Northeast Asian, West African, & Northern Native American. That’s a lot, but there are huge groups of people not represented in the media in terms of beauty, even though they have beautiful people too. So maybe you are good-looking & it’s just not given a lot of media representation. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sounds like you may not have a conventionally beautiful face, but have a great personality & you’re gradually developing a hot body (but aren’t there yet...I don’t think...) You know what that means? It means that you’ll attract few losers & many winners. If you have to wait a bit it’s solely because losers outnumber winners. As for how to get winners, just be willing to smile, approach, & speak. No need to over pursue, but these days, it seems more common for women to under pursue rather than o… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | When a female flakesSome women who flake so easily won’t flake on a guy with a personality more to her taste; whether it’s better or worse than yours may depend, or may not matter, point is, it may mean you’re not “the one”. Never judge a woman by how good she looks or even how well you know her; looks & rapport are extremely deceptive for men. Judge her by how she treats you. Guys who date women that are either pretty or seem safe, at the expense of being treated badly all the time, & have to change their personal… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh, that actually looks good! That being said, I’m getting the impression that your obsession with perfect minimalism is a bit rigid & solely designed to impress women. You can’t do that, because revolving your entire style around your impressing women is not only unattractive to her, but it’s also very bad for your self-esteem. You should shoot for minimalism in most ways most of the time, but have a slight dash of variety every once in a while, like a nice dark coat or a nice red scarf on occa… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Depends; what is your idea of minimalism? | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It depends. If she's a good catch, dress with polos & Henleys (though bowling shirts are fine), be sure the colors match your eyes, wear belts, brush your hair, wear a watch, wear brown or black shoes, a nice jacket or coat when it's winter, etc. - the right mix of casual, formal, & flat out swaggerific. If she's a bad catch, don’t put any thought into it at all. Just try to look as unfeminine as possible. Or dress like. Beavis & Butt-Head. For bonus points, be sure to bitch about guys who dress… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | How important is being funny?If a good catch? Extremely important. If a bad catch? Extremely unimportant. What’s really important with a bad catch is be Edward Cullen or be a bully. That’s why it’s important to learn how to be funny. If you aren’t, then you are going to mostly wind up with toxic women. The good ones like guys who can be interesting without being assholes, so being funny is key. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Speaking as dominant male (but prefers submissive women), these are my two cents: This whole notion that doms have to do 200% of the approaching is a newer one than you think; back in the 1950s, women, who usually had the more submissive roles, were actually approaching far more than they are today, partly because they needed relationships to get stability, but also because they just generally were more enthused about masculine males & settling down. You obviously don't need to & perhaps even sh… | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I dunno man; I used to believe this myself, turning down a great match for me online because I thought I found somebody just as good in real life, & so I assumed, a safer choice. I was dead wrong, & I am still ruing that decision to this day. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works”LoL, nope! Do that too! It’s a lot of things, some my fault, some not. It’s not for lack of height or lack of approach though. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works”6’00”. I get turned down for shorter guys on a regular basis. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works”I got turned down in favor of short people multiple times, give me a break. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 01:37 AM |
| 2 | PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works”Aside from valid points raised, I'm also, from personal observations & experiences, under the impression that they tend to, perhaps not always even knowingly, seem like the only options to young women because they tend to successfully undermine the social proof of other men by speaking negatively against them & treating them like second-class citizens. By contrast, normal-ass guys don't speak shit behind the backs of other guys & treat everybody appropriately to their roles in the occupation & s… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 01:36 AM |
| 3 | What kind of (non sexual) skills impress women?What skills impress mature women? The skills to take care of yourself, earn assets, & make something of yourself. Contrary to popular belief, it isn't that decent women only love poor men & slutty women only love rich men. Technically, it's wildly varied, as of the 21st century, with equal pay & social media & everything. This is because conditions have changed, so some of the more toxic women who don't want anything short of a short-term emotional thrill can just go anywhere & may find guys who… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 0 | What They Don't Tell YouDon't expect much, it's not an easy concept to explain in few words because it destroys so much of what we would like to believe is true... Basically, people tell you that you should be as unneedy as possible with your approach to women, but this rule only applies to most women. There's a huge exception to this rule, and that exception would be the mainstream English-speaking cultures (and probably of any Germanic family language, like German, Norwegian, etc.). We take these for granted because … | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 0 | What They Don't Tell YouI wouldn’t even say Western women, because Hispanics are Western too, & they actually, contrary to the stereotypes, seem to hate grandiosity & desperation unless it comes from a place of real talent &/or success that could appeal to a lot of women. Scarcity mindset behaviors without something to back it up seems to disgust Hispanics, & in my opinion, rightly so. So what kinds of women love constant validation-seeking? Generally speaking, ones invested in cultures that speak Germanic languages. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 06:08 PM |
| – | I Should Have Texted HerBut it is the lack of texting, right? | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 11:54 PM |
| – | Should I text tonight?Okay, so I won’t be too uncaring? | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 03:39 AM |
| – | Approaching Cars?Should I just ask her later in passing conversation then? Just ask after the fact “hey, I noticed that guy approached your car while you were in it. Is he bothering you?” | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Approaching Cars?He’s been cock-blocking me; he’s not with her & yet butts in sometimes when I am around her, or goes the other extreme & runs away as soon as I arrive like he’s intimidated by me. He hangs around parking lots waiting for her when he should be working. Still, unless we get more feedback that says otherwise, I’ll try not to approach her in her car often or ever. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Reminder not to rely too much on dating advice from the opposite sex...Yeah, basically, my mom says, "let them come to you", but otherbwomen say "let the men come to me." It's a wildly different mindset. My mom's objectively terrible for dating advice with younger, fully westernized women. For Latinas, Slavs, and Asians, her advice is pitch-perfect, better than what any man could possibly offer. But when it comes to the fully Westernized chicks...not so much. Her advice never works for them. It's not that women can't give dating advice, it's that they can't give da… | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Something most men mess up inOh, totally. I see attractive women with short men. True, the women are nearly always slightly shorter, but not by much. What makes things more interesting is that these short men seem to get away with more audacious behavior like walking to her car when she's still in it among other things I’m just too tall to pull off, probably because they're short and non-threatening at a first glance and this extreme boldness actually serves as intense compensation for how non-threatening they are. Of cours… | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What makes girls interested in a guy who's got nothing to offer besides being good looking?Maybe he's also a huge introvert? These days, extroversion is out, introversion is in. Extroversion is now equated to childishness and stupidity, and introversion is now equated to maturity and wisdom. Yeah, it's stupid, but that's the current trend. | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Reminder not to rely too much on dating advice from the opposite sex...How old are these girls? What kinds of people are they? In many ways, I found the dating advice of women to be better than men...as long as they are the same kinds of people as your love interest. The real trip is that women sometimes project themselves in the advice, and also that standards that women follow in dating often change somewhat faster than the standards that men follow. For example, my mom says don't chase and let her come to you, because the zeitgeist of her generation was that wom… | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | How to walk?You're actually walking better than most guys. Most guys slouch and use T-rex arms, which is really unattractive. If you don't like your arms, just move them opposite to the movements of your legs, it's way more normal-looking and it's also pretty attractive. | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Something most men mess up inDude, I'm handsome, and I can tell you, I've had no end of trouble where ugly people actually often succeed, at least when it comes to white western women. It really comes down to if they can tell if you're only seeking out a girlfriend, or if you can make a more sincere connection, which can be remedied by just being her friend and asking about her for the first couple of weeks. It also can come down to how obviously stressed you are talking to her, which can be remedied by frequent bodybuildin… | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | When and How to Recover?That may be, but my fear is that it's because I asked her out too soon & too weakly. I would hate that, killing her interest because I jumped the gun. I wonder if anybody on this subreddit knows how to recover from that kind of mistake. This isn't just one-itis; she literally had all of the dream girl qualities I desired before I even knew her. One-itis usually is what happens when a guy retroactively decides his dream-girl qualities fit a specific person he already knew. Plus, could be useful k… | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 12:53 PM |
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