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I moved into an apartment nearby. She was nice enough to help me out with moving and finances.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 03:27 PM
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I am trying my hardest to be friends with her for the sake of my kids. It’s not easy, and many days I’m still bitter about everything. But it doesn’t benefit the kids to see me angry all the time.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 11:38 PM
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Air fryer, my guy. A freaking life saver.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 07:50 AM
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Man I have the same anxiety! Never worried about it with the ex. But now it borders on ED because the performance anxiety is so bad.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 01:35 AM
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My application never asked those questions so I don’t really have an answer for that
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 01:05 AM
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Yeah that's exactly how I filled mine out. Single, my income only. Previous address as marital home.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 04:51 AM
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The guy she's with is trash to already be with her while she was still living with you. It sucks. I still have moments where I dwell on my ex with her boyfriend but it has gotten better.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 10:50 AM
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The pussy pool 😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 12:13 AM
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Nah. Sex with my girlfriend now is WAYYYY more adventurous and fun than it ever was with my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 12:11 AM
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Man this is exactly why I didn't go digging too hard to find anything. It was bad enough knowing that it happened. I absolutely did not need to dwell on the details.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 03:20 PM
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Soon to be ex wife
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 11:04 AM
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Because she has told me
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 05:33 PM
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Married for 14 years, with her for 23 years. Since sophomore year of high school. Turned 37 this year.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 04:20 PM
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4 kids ranging from 13 to 1. My in laws (or ex in laws, I guess) watch them whenever I need them to but I get made to feel like shit from the ex because she sees it as giving up time with them.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 12:53 AM
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My finances are fine and she's not going for child support. Just an agreement to split the expenses for the kids when they arise.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 12:13 AM
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Boy I feel ya. Mine gets an attitude anytime I do something she doesn’t know the details of, yet if I ask about her day she tells me to piss off.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 12:20 AM
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🙋🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 12:00 AM
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Yuuuuuup. Together for 22 years, married for 13. I always told her she was beautiful but she never listened. Never dressed sexy. Vanilla in bed. Wouldn’t try anything new. Boy as soon as we separated she acts and dresses like she’s going to the Playboy mansion. Thongs and lingerie everywhere. Completely unfair.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 03:48 AM
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Yeah my STBXW was the same way. Lucky to get it twice a year. Funny how she’s now fucking her new boyfriend of a couple months left and right 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 05:22 PM
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Man I hope mine goes as good as this did. I just got to get over myself and my worry about her being with other men. In my eyes, we're still married so what she's doing is wrong but then I have to realize that she's not mine anymore. Only on paper am I still married.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/23 02:00 AM
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Yeah if ya'll bang that's considered reconciliation and the timer starts over
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 01:13 AM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 09:00 AM
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OK I'm trying to understand this. You say she swallowed everytime. Like, she wouldn't let you cum anywhere else or in her? Or are we strictly talking about just blowjobs here?
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 08:36 AM
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Yup. Mine did the same thing. The ONLY reason she cleans it now is because her boyfriend comes over for pussy play time. If he didn't come over, she wouldn't touch a damn thing.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 08:32 AM
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Never did the fucking laundry, dishes or took the trash out. To this day when I go pick up the kids for my time there is still trash pouring out of the can. It's pathetic.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 08:30 AM
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Man that last sentence is the answer. She's in awe of a new dick and that's all she can see. My STBXW is the same way, though not to the extent of abandoning the kids (though she did lie to the babysitter saying she had to work late when in fact she was going to get fucked)
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 06:53 AM
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I'm right there with you, man. Knowing my wife is with another guy and he's bending her over every chance he gets kills me. 4 kids together, and I get the ol "Oh I like you but I don't love you Anymore". Like, how the fuck can 22 years together just all of a sudden mean jack nothing?
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 03:19 AM
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Well that sounds like a great idea!
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:34 AM
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Does being separated only and still married count for that? Because my still wife is already fucking someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:33 AM
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Man it’s so hard to get out of the house, though. I work 7 days on 7 off and for my off days the kids are with me , so I really have no true days off to just go out there anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 03:40 PM
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Yeah she told me this morning they fucked because she was mad at me. Done with the bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 02:03 PM
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What really bothers me is that we’ve only been separated for a little over a month, no papers have been filed and there are 4 kids to worry about. And she’s out fucking about, leaving the kids with her parents while she goes off being a whore.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 11:51 AM
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Whelp, just got confirmation that she did in fact fuck him. So I’m just ready to get this over with.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 11:45 AM
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Man I feel you. My wife and I knew each other since sophomore year of high school. We’re both 37 now and separated a month ago. I supported her through her going to college and getting her RN, getting weight loss surgery and even bought our first house together last year, after which I put 50K of my retirement into to make it how she wanted. Now all of a sudden I did nothing for her and she’s not happy and hasn’t been for years. I can’t help you because we just separated a month ago and she’s al…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 08:52 AM
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Thanks for all the comments, and they all align with how I’ve been feeling. I honestly think I’m more hurt from the fact that she moved on so quickly. She was never this sexual when she was with me, so I guess that says a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 01:50 PM
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Man that’s hard to do with 4 kids. We have to have some communication, unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 11:27 AM
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We were talking outside of our home and about to leave for our daughters 6th grade graduation. I couldn’t simply leave. And I could tell something was on her mind so I asked her what happened. This is the response I get 😒
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 10:26 AM
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Your situation is very similar to mine, minus the lesbian bit. I know I pushed my wife away over the years, but it doesn’t make this any easier. I unfortunately have no advice for you because I am struggling daily with this, but know that you are not alone.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 08:24 AM
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