| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 66 | Basic redditor starterpackThat guy has a good sense of humor and a silky voice, therefore probably not an incel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:17 PM |
| 22 | Guy keeps spreadsheets and rates sex with his GF....didn’t fit in the screenshot but he also has spreadsheets of all his ex’s too 🤮🤮🤮 why oh whyyyyIf a serious boyfriend won't let you look at his phone, he is hiding something or secretive- not long term relationship material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Man who was rightfully put on a sex offender registry for dating an underage girl as an adult gets fawning sympathy from “male advocates” who are mad our “gynocentric society” won’t let them date 14 year olds.There is no exception if he is 18 and her parents choose to press charges. If the parents are getting creep vibes to the point they press charges, something aint right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:37 AM |
| 38 | Gaslighting at its finest!Never met a man that didn't gaslight every argument. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:38 AM |
| 12 | Why Are One Night Stands Being Advertised to Girls as “Strong and Empowering” instead of “Risky and Reckless”?Male incels and teenage boys love to give worthless relationship advice on reddit for some strange reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:14 AM |
| 21 | Elon musk LVM tweeted “take the red pill” and Grimes mom called him out.I appreciate your open mind, but judging someone for their past behavior isn't (necessarily) ignorant. Being open-minded about a dude that's giving a LOT of signs of being a creep is specifically what got us FDS-ers into some pretty big messes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:27 PM |
| 19 | Elon musk LVM tweeted “take the red pill” and Grimes mom called him out.The meaning of the term "red pill" has changed from 2001 when the Matrix was popular and now. It has many more connotations in American society, and I think it is safe to assume that most men under 50 are aware of what it means now vs. when the movie came out. (Elon is socially awkward, and I will throw you a bone and say it's totally possible he was talking about the concept in the movie. But I doubt it.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:12 PM |
| 40 | How about no?LOL sis, all the guys your age are losers for the next few years. Smart woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:56 AM |
| 147 | it's 2020, take care of your kings ❤This is going to totally confuse LVM incapable of nuanced humor and self awareness. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:49 PM |
| 9 | Get outSex that frequent leads to infections for women. UTI, bacterial vaginosis, yeast infection, bladder inflammation... I bet her boyfriend isn't even aware of those concerns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 40 | GiGi Engle, who we’ve called out here multiple times for giving absolutely harmful anti-woman bad sex advice, has written for almost every single major magazine imaginable. Why is this horrible woman allowed to speak for and to us like this?Oh no... Not another columnist advising for "monogam-ish" relationships. I'd like to see the long term success rates for couples that do that irresponsible crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Rip singlesOh the cringe 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:33 AM |
| 6 | Rip singlesWhat does holding fish in pictures mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 09:01 AM |
| 16 | A Little Inspiration!Not a bad mom if you're just trying to set an example for how women should get treated in relationships by not putting up with unfairness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 08:58 AM |
| 43 | Looks are everything until it’s an inconvenience 🙄What an epic queen. I stopped doing all that in my last relationship because I lost all attraction to him, and he didn't notice. 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:11 AM |
| 46 | "My nipples are bleeding and sore bcs our child has been biting them during breastfeeding" "a gOoD mOtHeR dOeS wHaT iS bEsT fOr hEr cHiLd, eVeN wHeN sHe iS iN pAiN"- proceeds to hide the breastfeeding formula.Seriously, I feel you. I want a child, but I'm 36 and have yet to find a male worth procreating with. I would rather avoid having kids than bring someone into this world without a decent father. Single mothers are like super heroes in my mind, and I'm not sure I could cut it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 5 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowLOL You are awesome for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 33 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowWhile I appreciate you sharing your comment, your first points are tone deaf. I left my forever-boyfriend I was with for 14 years and lost everything. It was a 50/50 financial relationship, so all my money went towards bills and he used "his" spending money on furniture, electronics, cars, ect. He said none of that stuff was mine, because technically he bought it. I can't afford a lawyer. And it is a misogynistic myth that courts always give the woman the child- 50% of the time the father tries … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:12 PM |
| 20 | Get the cat, ditch the bfEven in my worst pick-me days, I would have never entertained the thought of choosing a man over my cat. The AUDACITY of your ex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 10:54 AM |
| 23 | The average advice that all failed Low-value men on Reddit love to give out. 😂Lol!! I know you're being totally sarcastic, but it still made me mad at my ex-boyfriend. That was spot on, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:37 AM |
| 12 | The average advice that all failed Low-value men on Reddit love to give out. 😂We are glad to have you ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | When she's finally ready to settle downYikes 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Ben Shapiro is a professional motley-minded imbecileJordan Peterson doesn't go with the others. But the other 3 are major red flags!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:37 PM |
| 31 | Quality LVM- good news, he’s single now ladies!I worked with a 21 year old man who thought breasts were cleavages, and nipples were called breasts, had never heard of an areola. Oh lord, the laughter that boy blessed me with... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:33 PM |
| 60 | Bold of men who have mommy issues going on but let's blame it all on women, shall we?r/fightporn loves blaming women for assault. Some of the commenters seem to really get off on watching women get pulverized by their partners. A video of a drunk man getting slapped by a woman than proceeding to nearly beat her to death was almost unanimously in favor of the man "defending himself." No, he retaliated, and with 1000 times the force. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 12:52 PM |
| 29 | On 90 Day Fiance Rose stands up for herself and calls out Big Ed for humiliating her and lying. Reminder to not take shit from men 💅Imagine having more than enough money to treat the love of your life's medical issue, but being like "nah." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Loving and caring HVM men BINGO for you fine ladies ❤I wouldn't say student loans lower a man's value at all. If he got the degree and can afford to pay the minimum payment, that's just part of his path to success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:48 AM |
| 8 | Loving and caring HVM men BINGO for you fine ladies ❤Once we researched the amount of abuse going on in the industry, and the long term effects on the consumer's brain... Many, if not all of us at FDS have decided we cannot honestly be attracted to a man that watches it. (Also, in my experience, i dated a guy that watched it, and he rarely wanted real sex compared to guys that don't watch it when they have a girlfriend. And when he did, he wanted to include slapping, anal, ect.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:43 AM |
| 34 | Take a seat, Declan.What could an 11 year old girl possibly have done that would still affect what is now a grown man? That's embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 12:06 PM |
| 11 | Take a seat, Declan.Your observation seriously just blew my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 12:04 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know what’s worse, the audacity or the fact that these were all from different profiles 🙄You're right, this book says Tantra, not Kama Sutra. Like this guy knows the first thing about Buddhist meditation or Tibet. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Thoughtful BrotherNo hard feelings from me as well. Your heart is clearly in the right place whether or not we agree, and your experience is valid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 09:06 PM |
| 58 | I don’t know what’s worse, the audacity or the fact that these were all from different profiles 🙄The kama sutra is more about making a new wife emotionally comfortable than the one chapter on sex positions. Idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:32 PM |
| 24 | Thoughtful BrotherYou're probably the only one on this subreddit thar feels that way. Women learn how to be treated by men by the males in their family. This brother is just showing his sister she is worthy of love and attention when she's feeling rejected. My father used to take me on outings like this so I would expect to be treated to dates when I got older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:28 PM |
| 38 | Sometimes the AITA sub has weird judgements, but comments like these are gold (link for the post in the comments)It's become obvious to me that these immature abusive men date younger women (girls), so they can get away with their shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:22 AM |
| 7 | This is a daily reminder to take zero shit from men!This one is so cute too ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:17 AM |
| 170 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...He hated those women more than he loved his own child. For shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?Tell her, and show screenshots. There's a chance she is a really good person, and would be kind to you in return. There's a chance you could save a good person from years of pain. Or she could turn out to be an immature brat stuck in denial and lash out, but I personally believe this is less likely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 13 | 32 ? His triple chin says 52😂😂Just what every man wants to hear. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:10 PM |
| 23 | That’s what happened when he watched too much pornI have always believed men like this are homophobic closeted-homosexuals that lack all self awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 12:25 PM |
| 44 | Sharing this for the queens who need to read this as much as I do. 💛I was thinking about my old dusty again. I needed this reminder, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 12:01 PM |
| 12 | Since joining FDS, I will no longer tolerate “rough sex”I had a very brief "friendship" like this. Made me miss the old days when guys came too early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:03 PM |
| 16 | Since joining FDS, I will no longer tolerate “rough sex”Agreed! ❤ In my comment, I meant PIV shouldn't last 2 hours, especially rough PIV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 158 | Since joining FDS, I will no longer tolerate “rough sex”It seems not-normal to go for 2 hours. I imagine this is related to death grip syndrome, and sounds frustrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Can you even?!He needs to shower with some Head n Shoulders 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:37 AM |
| 3 | A year ago, I would have agreed with this intentionally reductive/misleading bullshit. Thanks to this sub for helping me recognize the pickme mindsets that continue to pit women against themselves. Never devalue yourself for basic boyfriend courtesy.My relationship involves video games and mutual me-time. We still snuggle and share snacks and kisses during these activities. We don't "ignore" each other. But personal space is different for everyone, and deserves respect as long as everyone feels happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?That's so heartbreaking. My heart goes out to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Which one should I follow? I like the advice on this sub and was wondering which of these posts would be more beneficial for me in the dating scene. Personally I'd feel bad if someone judged me on looks.The scale goes up to 10. How are you insanely attracted to a 2? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?That is so depraved. It is clear he would have LOVED to have been with her sooner, if only the pesky law weren't in the way. 🤢 He isn't even the least bit ashamed of being an ephebophile either (grown man attracted to teenage girls.) As an adult woman, I bet you were so repulsed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:36 PM |
| 4 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?No asshole is an asshole 100% of the time. Just because you can come up with petty examples of times he wasn't a monster, doesn't change the fact this man is a monster. He is definitely monster even if he has some morals. He doesn't have the morals that matter, the ones that determine if someone is a decent human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:30 PM |
| 13 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?He sounds like he has a mental illness or a personality disorder, and frankly, he 100% among the lowest of LVM. You did nothing wrong by snooping on a liar. You followed your intuition and caught him. Never feel guilty for that. Or for being a Becky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel their relationship is improving because of staying inside together?I love seeing positivity about good men on this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:09 PM |
| 18 | Husband has a porn collection of one of his studentsIf I had not snooped, I would have never known my ex was on heroin and inviting his dealer/prostitute into OUR home when I had to travel for work. It's not like he was ever going to confirm my suspicions willingly. Just imagine what my life would be like by now had I not discovered the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:58 PM |
| 8 | “Relationships are hard” is a myth spread by pickmes who find validation in struggle love.I'll have to look that one up. He has the best advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:28 PM |
| 20 | A Simple Rule to Live By...This was the EXACT message I wish someone said to me years ago! I swear I would have listened, but people don't spell it out to those close to them very often. I got out almost a year ago, but I still read your post a few times over just in case I forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 03:58 PM |
| 5 | No, he wasn’t confused. He wasn’t unsure either...Old weeb balding ass 🤣 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 14 | Pickmeisha needing advice. What would FDS women do next?I 100% agree with you, but in this case she told him she was busy babysitting until 11, so that's when she wanted to talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:21 PM |
| 15 | Depravity in AITA: husband gets wife pregnant, cheats on her, abandons her for another woman; stress causes wife to go through traumatic pregnancy and she gives birth to stillborn and handles funeral alone. Reddit: wife is the asshole. Fuck this website.You sound so much more intelligent and experienced than all of those other comments. I hope she sees yours and considers it. Poor thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:38 PM |
| 7 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"I just cried over the beauty of your parent's relationship at 7 in the morning. ❤ He sounds like the archetype of a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:27 PM |
| 3 | LOLI especially love how Karen is a 10 and the commitment-phobe is an ugly slob. This cartoonist gets us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:21 PM |
| 28 | So many men have exes with BPD that it should be considered an epidemic at this pointThis exact scenario happened to me. It took spending time in mental hospital and professionals observing us during visiting hours for a counselor to suggest it might be him, not me that's my problem. He stormed out after less than 5 mimutes because I got weepy and he "doesn't do hospitals." I had to sit alone and watch the other women get joy from seeing their partners/family for the next 25 minutes. I'll never forget that day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:41 AM |
| 9 | So many men have exes with BPD that it should be considered an epidemic at this pointINFP here too, cheers ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:30 AM |
| 21 | PSA: BPD men are perpetually the victim, and they will *never* change.If your experience was like mine, I bet you were emotionally neglected/stonewalled nearly every time because you didn't express the anger "correctly." Even if you were reasonably emotional and not aggressive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:24 AM |
| 28 | Don't Marry Men who won't care for themselvesReading this was eerie. I was a red-pilled pickme for 14 years with a man exactly like this. But once he turned to heroin, I was done trying. I wish I found this sub YEARS ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:51 AM |
| 6 | Why peel a potatoIt also causes skin tags down there eventually. Those have to be removed by a dermatologist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:26 PM |
| 6 | It's over."Begging for scraps and remembering the good times just so you're not alone." 😞 I used to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:38 AM |
| 11 | This Subreddit is so valuable to late-diagnosed women with Autism/Asperger's Syndrome <3Most people play video games. It's the addicts we need to avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:28 AM |
| 10 | So called “Conservative” and “Trad-Con” men don’t want to financially support their wivesI've noticed there is a coorelation with pedophilia. I've often wondered if predators use people's faith and trust in fellow church members to make them easier to groom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:12 AM |
| 38 | On “Choosing Beggars” sub. A 22 year old pretty girl with the most basic of requirements being roasted by LVMs. Reddit is a cesspool of raggedy ass losers.You must personally know my ex, that was so spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:17 PM |
| 7 | I don't know who needs to read this today, but your happiness is worth everything. don't let useless men dictate your life. let them go.That sounds so incredibly stressful. Try to stay safe and do whatever self care you can in the meantime. Glad you have professionals who can help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:47 PM |
| 148 | 90s TV Shows were all about “empowered” women giving up their hopes, goals, potential, and dreams to slum it with their low achieving boyfriends. No wonder Millennial dating is messed up. Topanga I am so disappoint, sis.A gorgeous woman proposing on bended knee as she professes to give up Yale University for a boy. Oh, the cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 4 | been there and trying not to do thatYou make a valid point 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:19 PM |
| 29 | "I was blindsided!!!"The children likely miss you too. That man is such a selfish loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Another Low Effort Male who “Doesn’t want to make a big deal” about Valentine’s DayYou just hit the nail on the head. Speaking your partner's love language to them should feel priceless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 10:02 AM |
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