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Need to shelf the work plate. You’re unattainable right now. She’ll lose attraction once she’s got you on lock. Then you’re out of luck on many levels. Classic case of “I love two women, now what?” She don’t really know you like house plate and might just leave cause you eat pizza wrong. You kick your foreign girl to the curb you run the risk of her being spiteful due to all the things she will have to go through and she’ll ruin you on general principle alone. Girl at work can be spun for years …
/r/askTRP17/10/17 10:57 PM
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Consult a divorce lawyer first. Adultery doesn't matter in many US states. All of this advice varies from state to state. Stop working. You've somehow just gotten laid off. This will help you when they calculate child support and alimony. Continue the facade that you're looking for work and in the meantime become a stay at home dad. Cash out your retirement funds and keep it in cash outside a financial institution. This can be explained that it was done since you lost your employment. She'll hav…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 02:40 AM
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There was a post on Reddit of a person who went through the same thing. It was on the /askreddit forum if I remember correctly. Search it out when you have time. He would make two copies of any document he had for proof. Blind CC all emails to himself. Never be alone with the person and always have someone credible around to back up any statements he said. Might want to invest in a recorder. Many free apps for your phone out there. Other than self protection kill her with kindness. Be kind and s…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 02:16 PM
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You can search the number on the net and find out who's it is. Plenty of services out there. You already have your suspicions which on many other forums outside of Reddit say is almost always correct. Just that alone is going to ruin your marriage down the road. So it's some beta and finally laid pipe in your girl, huh? Guess who's gonna be around when you're off doing manly shit and not giving her the attention she demands? He'll always be at the back door. Play aloof and keep an abundance ment…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:18 AM
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You are in a relationship with a Borderline woman. Get away from her now. Do it in a calm and quiet manner preferably in general public or if you can do it over text. You aren't even close to being red pilled enough to do this face to face and the colossal shit tests that will follow. Easily looking at a DV charge or worse she cuts you. Your life will be a living hell and if you have a child with this person any sense of a normal life will be gone unless you fall off the Earth. These type of peo…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 02:02 AM
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As a father who went through this in a sense I can tell you that the resentment you will feel towards her will override any sense of moral you may have. It will cause brutal fights or stonewalls and impact the child in a negative way. My youngest one (9 months at the time) is the happiest, because that one didn't know what it was like to have mommy and daddy together, the family experience or have to live through the arguing, hostility and negativity within the household. My uncle told me one ti…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:24 AM
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Hahaha.... That's classic. Went full retard on your oneitis. Don't apologize it won't solve anything. She's asking about Snap, because she wants you to feel like shit for what you said and come crawling back so she can crush you and make you pay for what you said. Best to just walk away. It was a childish thing to do, but use it as a learning lesson and don't repeat in the future.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:14 AM
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Interesting question as I run into these women myself and see the glaring differences between the professional and bar girl/college ho/single mom. Best strategy that has worked for me is to include them in a conversation in some way. Ask questions relevant to their profession and find a way to weave that into their interests. Make them feel important. Since they have money they travel as you stated so ask if they've been to "Insert Island/Temple/Location here". Ask them questions and seem engros…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 06:53 PM
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Never degrade an offer of free beer. That's just disrespectful. Alpha widow this one or get ready to in the near future.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 04:12 PM
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Forget about women, social media, dating apps, etc. You have to start from scratch and bringing another person into your depressive vortex won't help. Stop the video game bull shit. Put it down and don't fire it up again until you flat bench 225 lbs. for 5 reps. Time to start small to move big. Take a shower and put on clean clothes and leave your house. 3 steps to start climbing out of your abyss. While you're walking about focus on your posture and don't listen to anything, but nature around y…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:35 AM
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For me personally I dropped the excess weight that I'd packed on from drinking alcohol and being sedentary. The misery diet from the divorce helped dramatically, but I kept it off by lifting and maintaining a strict diet like I did before I met my ex. I also: Reduced my alcohol consumption to almost nothing. Purchased clothing that was fitted or close to it. Classic looks not the hot shit today. Got lasik surgery so no more glasses or contacts. Cut my hair to something from this decade and let m…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:55 PM
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Same thing happened to me OP only I didn't know anything until it was far too gone. I trusted her as well and was blind sided in the end. I woke up to him texting her after midnight. Red Flag 1 and you should've checked those messages at that moment. Trust, but verify if you must. Sketch that she checked her phone at Midnight to begin with. She told me she didn't have to tell me as it was none of my business and to trust her. Red Flag 2 ~ Bullshit she didn't have to tell you and bravo with the "…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 07:02 AM
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Start volunteering or working for organizations that put on 5K walk run events. Cancer Society is a big one. Fit college girls volunteering and older professional women looking for a purpose. None of them show up hung over looking like a hot mess after a night of railing.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:46 PM
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Edit ~ This question was asked on two other internet boards with the same results. One board said this was a spam post. Delete this shit.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:41 PM
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Stop apologizing.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 10:14 PM
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Things were looking good until you asked her on a date-date and hind sight is crystal clear. You came on too strong with this one. Nothing wrong with catching up, but as most have said text for logistics. After the charm line you should have cut the conversation off by saying you were off to somewhere. Oh well lesson learned. She took over the conversation with some power talk and you said "sorry". Never apologize for asking a woman out.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 10:13 PM
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Good man. By the way; OLD is garbage. Bottom of the barrel women. There are many threads on many sites talking about how bad it is and how many people are giving up on Social sites going back "old school" face to face talking for hook ups. Tinder is for fucking and chucking. Red Pill 101 ~ Work on your real life social presence and verbal skills. TRP knew this years ago.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:20 PM
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Yes. It's an epidemic. In her mind this is going to end like a Disney fairy tail. It's not covered here a lot, but mid 30s is common for girls to spin off the rails with no concern for anyone but themselves and wrap themselves in delusions that end happily ever after. Some do end well most don't. One day you won't care either way. As you've been out of the scene for a minute I'll tell you this. You are ahead of the game if you take care of your health. Your finances are in order and your career …
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:15 PM
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Just had this conversation with a friend today about women and what they bring to the table. My credit score is 827 now and I'm damn proud of that, but I'd never ever tell a woman my holdings or anything remotely concerning my finances in any type of conversation.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 01:10 AM
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Easy solution since he's already wanting to walk. Six month plan - Start pulling the money from shared accounts. Sell you stuff. Covertly quit your job and start living off savings or her. Go out once on the weekends and come home the next morning. Laugh off any argument and never escalate the situation. Slowly build up to a couple nights a week and coming home smelling like strippers, drugs, and alcohol. Sleep on the couch. Try to stretch as long as you can until she files. Divorce court will s…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 05:46 PM
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Community States for those ignorant enough to lose half their belongings and partial sanity: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, Wisconsin. Personally I just laughed when I seen he was divorcing. Wasn't surprised in the least.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 02:35 PM
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Sorry man.. I gave up. I paused after seeing Sasha wrote the Shades book and checked out mentally after reading that I had to accept and let sink in the women have fantastic memories and I should be lucky they chose to sleep with me. I do not accept that. I won't even entertain the BP thought process or read any of that non sense so I stopped. Thanks for taking the time though to write out something for the newer guys.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 09:39 PM
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This is good advice that I learned the hard way. The guy was actually a mixture of religious and moral fanatic, white knight, clean lifestyle, and very low SMV. We had been friends for close to 4 years. Luckily the guy is no longer around and it worked out for me in the end, but it could have easily ended exactly as the OP stated under the religious and moral fanatic header. If I went through that situation before TRP I would have reacted with hurt and bewilderment. After TRP it was just another…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 05:42 PM
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The whole thing was disgusting and got worse than I stated in writing. Ended in a nightmare fashion. She'd have an orgasm then start farting and it smelled so bad. Walk across the room to get a drink and fart. Go to the bathroom to cut some lines and fart. I do think she had IBS and couldn't control it with all the drugs and alcohol in her system. She dropped a loaf then didn't flush the toilet so I had to look at that as I took a piss. Think of a C level exec in a board room. Great shape from w…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 07:16 PM
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Just dropped a potential plate because of this. I'd known her for about two years. Petite blonde, D cup, and the tightest I've been with since I was in my teenage years. No children and a good job. From the surface she had her shit together. Reminded me of the blonde dermatologist from NYC who was out doing blow at 3 in the morning with some chads while her BP husband was at home with the kids. She OD and got left in the walkway of the dope house. First time out with her. Nice dinner, vino, and …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 03:08 AM
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Truly hope you follow through with this. 48 Laws has become my new manual for life and I've used it countless times successfully. It has never proved wrong in my life good or bad.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 07:08 PM
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My plate told me she had 500 mails from match.com in one month and replied to one. The guy she replied to she is with now and has been with for over 7 years. She told me this after our third session of kink that night.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:55 PM
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Red Flag 1: She can't handle alcohol Red Flag 2: Her friend is looking for some strange, bored in the relationship, wants to party, or wtf ever Red Flag 3: They hang out all day, but now must go to a bar to "talk" and have a fun Come on man... Seriously? You're rationalizing a potential implosion. serious GF of 2 years, live together, great relationship, she's a homely, feminine girl who is crazy about me. Doesn't mean anything in the grand scheme of life. Both are fairly conservative; not party…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:23 PM
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InforMedic I know you're new around here so I'll give you some tips. Find out what a Beta Orbiter is, because you fit the profile from your post. Go over to The Red Pill and read the links under the Theory Reading. If your head is twisted up mentally that you don't want to read I'll tell you straight. You are being kept on a long leash as a backup to her backup plan. She isn't interested. There my be other social dynamics between you two that we the readers aren't aware of. This person is not ob…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:11 PM
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PPD is very real. My ex got it after each child. During the last round she was cowering in the corner speaking in tongues while staring off into space. Pulled the same shit as OPs ex too.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:59 PM
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TRP hitting with some knowledge this week. Nice to see I wasn't alone this week. It must be in the air, because the same thing is going on here. Everything was starting to fire on all cylinders and game was working perfectly. Brought her into my frame and she was coming around more and interested. I opened up to much in conversation and started being too nice. Looking out for her interests and striking up conversation out of the blue (BP all day). Got sent to the orbiter atmosphere greeted with …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 11:16 PM
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Actually he grabbed his friend then started talking shit to some girl. So he escalated the problem dumb ass. Then is surprised a bunch of white knights come to her rescue. Next time grab your friend and pull him away and don't say a word or walk the fuck away and let him handle it. Also you are full of shit of deescalation happening on it's own. Walking away from a situation is deescalation, not mouthing off to a pissed off woman is deescalation, agreeing with someone who disagrees is deescalati…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 03:47 AM
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I use TouchCopy on my PC. I also use Recorder HD app to record conversations when necessary. You can lock the phone and the app still runs. Copy the file from the phone to a hard drive as a .wav file. TouchCopy backs up everything from my phone. Text messages are saved in one HTML formatted page with pictures included. I then back that up to cloud storage and two external drives. One being a USB stick that gets put into a fireproof safe at the end of the year. Paranoid or extra cautious I'm not …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:29 PM
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Even if you are 10 men strong walk away. The lasting damage of criminal offenses will come back to haunt you decades later in life. A bullet or knife through your chest cavity will cause damage for life if you survive. Always deescalate a situation that could lead to violence. Disassociate yourself from the situation and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 01:09 PM
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20 seconds in and my ears hurt. Couldn't do it. You can make a general assumption by the cheeks and the upper arms of a girl in her mid 20s how unappealing or fat she will be in the future. This girl pumps out out a kid or two and she'll blossom and make some beta chump miserable for years to come. On a side note where I came from Fuckboy meant a pithy flamboyant homosexual. We also called him a Funboi. We called girls like this cumdumpsters. I see the times have changed.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 12:31 AM
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In some states here in the US an establishment can lose their alcohol license, be sued and held liable for any damage created after a patron has left the establishment while clearly impaired. Example: The number of drinks consumed has been proven by either video, audio, or paper receipts show that the person would clearly be impaired before leaving and that person gets into an auto accident and kills someone. The victims family has right to sue the establishment for compensation. The state will …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 09:09 PM
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Eli Lilly - NYSE: LLY Pfizer - NYSE: PFE Largest anti depressant manufactures and pays dividends. You could just say "fuck it" and make a complete portfolio of stocks that focuses directly on the suffering of post wall single and childless women. Some of the greatest amounts of wealth the world has ever witnessed came from the suffering of others.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 08:28 PM
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I read a post on Reddit this week from a user who had been on so many online dates and had so much sex that she now couldn't bear to listen to another guy talk about his mother and how she finds it hard to connect with any man now. She openly admitted she had no care to listen to a mans story or that she would ever care to meet his mother. That sex was now baseless and unappealing due to having so much of it with strangers. She felt as if men were jacking off inside her when having sex. All I co…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 03:30 AM
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No fault divorce is a disaster and yet not one person at the legislative level is trying to repeal or fix it. I told a 17 year old guy today in the course of conversation: You get married and all is great. You have no children and are living the dream. Then one day you cheat on your wife she finds out and divorces you. She gets 50% of everything you own and a percentage of your pay for years to come. Sounds fair right? He says, yes. You get married and all is great. You have no children and are …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 03:12 AM
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In some states you cannot represent yourself when it comes to child custody cases. You can come up with a parenting plan that is agreed upon and this has to be drawn up by a lawyer and signed by a judge. Things like contempt of court cases after the fact you can file yourself though. I agree though it is a racket/scam. Think of what good that $50K could have done for you and your child. The courts really don't care about you and your issues. Children are temporary and age out of the system and e…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:33 AM
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Same here. Blue as a berry and a weak broken man at the time. We built an entire life together and as soon as I found out there was another guy. Boom over. No fighting. No arguing. No begging. Nothing. I made my case clear when she started in on me. One time and one time only. "The day you dropped your panties for another man was the day you lost all wife privileges. Don't contact me again unless it involves our children" That was the last thing I ever said to her and have not had one face to fa…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:05 PM
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Nothing special about the time or place. It was just conducive to my work at the time. I was starting a new project that was going to take up a lot of my free time and she wanted me to move closer to my work and stay away until things cooled down. She was also talking about things I had never heard of before. Things like 2/3 visitations and every other weekend. It was like she became this paralegal overnight. I knew right then it was over. I only became aware of the real plan two months after we…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 06:03 AM
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I second this opinion of a Divorce Section. Field Reports only allowed. With and without children. It would educate many men here as to the harsh realities of a system they may only see once in their lifetimes. Every person who's been divorced comes out the other side a very different person. Educated in a way you never wanted and almost jaded to a point of broken. Instead of the mantra of never get married we could enlighten our members to the harsh realities it would be well receipted. Watchin…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:33 PM
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You learned as did many other men. You simply were not lucky enough to leave the house before things escalated. Your story has helped and will help others. I know this, because when I started seeing probably the same things you did I searched on the internet for answers. TRPers will see this and file it mentally for later. First thing I seen was "If an argument escalates to the point where physical contact is imminent. Leave immediately." Next came "Do not ever move out of your house it will be …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:20 PM
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Most of my friends are blue in nature. They have their moments, but after being here for a while I can see the social interactions and failures of such. One I cannot figure out for the life of me. He's been through the divorce raping twice and is RP in nature. I've watched him pass shit test after shit test, but I'll be damned if he isn't going to marry again. The one that was the Bluest I cut completely out of my life. He was going through a rough time with life direction and family around the …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:27 PM
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From Slashdot today: Yahoo chief executive Marissa Mayer has announced plans to cut the company's workforce by 15% and close five foreign offices by the end of 2016 after announcing a $4.4bn loss. Yahoo shares have fallen 33% over the past year, including a 17% drop in the last three months. Its shares fell again in after-hours trading after Mayer announced her plan. Yahoo expects its workforce to be down to 9,000 and have fewer than 1,000 contractors by end of 2016. About a third of Yahoo's wor…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 06:49 PM
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Commented for bookmark. I've joined the club. Thank you for creating one.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 06:10 PM
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You are in a difficult position for sure. Coming from this type of life myself I feel for you and understand your position. Your father is a lost cause. He is too old and conditioned to be malleable and will live this hell until death or divorce. To look at the different ways this could play out you need to concern yourself with the legal angle. If you contact Social Services or Police you run the risk of having being blamed and having the tables turned on you. You will be the one to go to juven…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 08:51 PM
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The judges decision to give the child to the grandparents then state that for her entire life she has a disassociated personality is contradictory to reality. A personality disorder is generally developed in the 2-3 year range and then solidified in the early teen years. Most times a person with a disorder is said to have had a traumatic event early in childhood resulting in this. Speculation on my part, but more than likely something similar had happened to her and her parents failed her in man…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 07:36 PM
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If anything I was offering support to not look back on his past years with regret. Only be happy he could move on and learn from it, but honestly what the fuck ever. I'm not into arguing on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 02:20 AM
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I'd do the same. Instead of posting my shame on a web site looking for support. Cook up all the food you can shove in your belly and some for the road then bundle up and head out. There is no way I'd stay another night in that house. Some are saying he should have joined in and ngaf, his heart hit his toes when he walked in on her deep throating. This was probably his first heart break and getting hard won't be happening for a while anyways. He was just too invested in this one and we've all bee…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 02:10 AM
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The day you wake up and realize you've done nothing with your time but amass useless pixel pictures is the day you look back and realize you were a fool. It's an awakening from the human condition. It's the same as the guy at the age of 35 looks back on his 20s and regrets all the money he spent on booze. Same as the person who realizes everything they lost to partying or drugs or drag racing or whatever. There is always a better purpose you could spend your time on, but as for most you have to …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:18 AM
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My thoughts exactly... "Where have all the nice guys gone?"
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:32 AM
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I've walked a mile in your shoes. I laugh about it now then shudder, but you're not alone. Hooked up with a fat, frizzy haired mess from a dating site. Went out in public with her and I had a woman in line at a store openly laugh as she left while looking at her and me. I personally felt embarrassed for being with this person. Had horrible starfish sex and she bled all over my bed and ruined my sheets. I'm about vomiting thinking about the smell that rolled off as I steam cleaned / wet vacced th…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:13 AM
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You were treating your co worker as a child that must abide by your bidding. Then when he didn't comply you got ruffled and had to rationalize his and your behavior. You focused on his looks and his popularity and it was the beginning of your snowball into resentment. Now you are beside yourself mentally blaming everyone, but yourself. It wasn't his looks, popularity, or the way he treated you. It was you not getting your way that started your negative train of thought and resentment. Kind of li…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 02:26 AM
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Home Brewing - beer, whiskey, vodka, moonshine. Make your own stills which will involve copper pipe work and soldering. Dive right into all grain brewing and perfect the art. Grilling - Everything Both take time to perfect and impresses everyone when done correctly and nothing tastes better than a well cooked steak and a beer you made from scratch.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 02:16 PM
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Procedure cost me $70 due to my insurance coverage. I got the snip and not the laser. It didn't really feel like it set me free. I already have children. I still have protected sex, because of STDs. I did it because my ex kept "forgetting" to take her BC. She left me before my I was completely healed. I don't tell any of the women I sleep with that I've had it done. I've heard many guys having the procedure done and back to work like nothing happened in three days. That was not my case. The nurs…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:44 AM
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Second this opinion. If you have an Apple device cloud it with itunes. Take your USB Flash drive and label it on the cap or casing and place it in a fire proof safe. Off loaded to an external is good, but also make a copy on your OS drive. Now you have four copies that are accessible and added to at any time. On a side note I always thought Mormon girls were submissive and make good LTRs. Did not know Mormon girls were this far left of center.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 04:34 AM
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She invited herself to move in with you making her your responsibility for when she gets into any sort of predicament. - Flag 1 She tells you up front that you will have to support her. - Flag 2 You told her in no uncertain terms you are not having any more bambinos. Pulls the old "I might forgot to take my BC or tell you.. Tee hee hee." joke. - Flag 3 and 4 This woman is looking for beta bucks so bad she can't contain her thoughts from passing her mouth filter.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 03:19 AM
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They just changed the laws here. 25% of gross of the non custodial and is the max and can only be reevaluated every three years. Also the judge has the right to make you pay based on your ?job title? not really sure of the correct word, but if you are an unemployed doctor you will still pay based on your doctor salary not your current income. It has to go through the child support office no matter what anyone has agreed to. One of you has to carry insurance on the children, which factors into su…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 08:17 PM
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I agree 100% it's a damned if you or don't situation and it is much better for a child to be raised by their mother than some stranger, but if said woman gets a burr up her ass and files for divorce you will be paying based on zero income calculations. If at all possible be a stay at home father, next best thing is shift work with you both on opposite shifts. Very hard to do, but possible. It doesn't matter if you were married or not when it comes to child support and in my neck of the woods thi…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 08:04 PM
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Very unfortunate. He wanted to do the right thing based on what he's been lead to believe would make him happy and will pay dearly for it. If he hasn't been served yet it would be best if he filed before she does. All dependent on your location, but best case scenario is she walks away from the house for more alimony. Child support is set based on visitation and I'm sure she will make sure he gets the obligatory 4 days a month. If he is lucky he will get 50/50. It won't matter though she hasn't …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:47 PM
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Don't post with a [Vulgar language] tag. That is not necessary here. You are not speaking with sensitive children. Now it is time to learn something, because this is going to happen all throughout your life and you have two options. You can cry about it and be resentful or you can profit from it in one form or another. Offer your services for a set amount of something be it sex, items, money or whatever will not be traced back to you or get you expelled. You will have to play it right, because i…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 08:30 PM
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Yesterday the web was a buzz with a social media hash tag of 2016wastehistime or something else ridiculous. The things shown were just deplorable. Treating anyone that way is deplorable and yet it was cheered and looked at as some form of joke and any guy who spoke up was ridiculed and told to stop whining. Things like this is why men are learning at a younger age and going their own way and men are waking up earlier because of the drama they are put through at a young age. The things they have …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 04:20 PM
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That is an angle many are not taking into account. These type of people are very damaged people who lie, cheat and steal with no regard. For one whore to come out and say another whore raped her is comical. Especially when both are well known to being into submission and bondage. And honestly this allegation won't ruin whatever reputation they had/have and won't really matter when trying to get a real job in the real world. It will be the miles of cock Stoya took up the ass and all the throat lo…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:16 PM
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She's just following the blueprint we are all familiar with here at TRP. When running in the circles of sharks you know precisely what you are doing. Look pretty, lock down a provider, get kids, divorce rape, collect pay checks, never work again and live each day as a vacation. That whole debacle of her divorce from Sheen and knowing what I know now you can put together easily with just a cursory glance over her public persona she was a hard core party girl and the designer drugs warped her a bi…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:30 AM
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One friend of mine proposed for a third time. He's been taking to the cleaners twice. He was homeless two years ago and his two children from the second marriage won't talk to him or visit. He just got caught up on support payments and currently lives with the woman and her two almost adult children. I listened to him tell me he was never going to be with a woman who wouldn't let him do what he wants to when he wants to. Listen to him tell me he doesn't ever want to go through a divorce again. N…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:11 AM
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I was eharmony for a year. Went on two dates. The first date I found out quickly these girls lie on the pictures, but I was thirsty and tolerated it for about 3 months trying to obtain the comfort of a relationship I had before. Eventually she pressed the wrong button and I nexted her. The second date the woman showed up looking busted, in a broke down car and talked like she was medicated. Just started digesting TRP and I rolled with it for some practice. After dinner we went on a walk through …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:55 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ on a stick.... I'm going to give my car a tune up now. Thanks for the daily dose of red pill reality.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:31 PM
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Very good points: Make sure you have a better idea of what women tend to fawn over Go after girls that are receptive to your level of attractiveness Something I am coming to terms with: Women don't love you. They love the idea of you. Very powerful when combined.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 03:20 AM
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The anger phase is a legitimate part of the process of grieving. What ever it is you are grieving. It is a psychological and emotional necessary step in healing. It can take years to overcome. Everyone has a different path to walk to become a better version of themselves. The rest of this post comes from my point of view so it will be self centered with a bunch of me, myself and I. I love women as much as any heterosexual man loves a woman for all they are. It is a womans nature to do some thing…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 02:55 AM
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Was sitting at the main desk working on a problem related to my job and heard a nurse say "If I was 20 years younger.. wow" to her female boss and they snickered. After working with her for the day joking and telling stories I felt I had built up a good enough repose with her and said "whaaaattt...?" With a sly smile. She brushed it off and both women laughed. Two days later I was brought into my managers office and reprimanded, because a woman I was working next to two days prior reported that …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:04 PM
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Halloween is for my children. If I dressing as an idiot impresses them and makes them happy then I am doing well as their father and building a stronger bond with them. If I was a twenty something college student trying to slay co eds the whole scenario would be different. I'm not. I am a father and this day was about them. I wore the pink tiara that repeatedly fell off my daughters head and walked around with a idgaf attitude while wearing it, because I honestly didn't give a fuck. I was there …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:34 PM
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This story is covered in Divorce Corp. that is on or has just been added to Netflix. It shows a non flinching view into family courts and does not discriminate based on gender. This documentary is talked about often here and it a good thing that Netflix picked this up and presented it on their trending ribbon. Watch the documentary. If that does not scare you into never getting married; Nothing will. When ever you start to get onitis and are thinking it's all going to be OK. You should take the …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:03 AM
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I'll drop my coin at this well too. I also became a self help junkie part in why I stuck around here. I went to a concert last night and realized how horrible my social ineptitude was. I was surrounded by 20 something college girls and it became painfully real how bad my ability to speak to others actually was. Cold approach wasn't an issue. I didn't give a shit about any of these girls. It just became evident I had no idea what to say or how to carry on a conversation. Some schlub my age who wa…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:43 PM
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Just to add to this - Use the application F.B. Purity to block the annoying "You might also know" links from FB and not accidentally see her profile pop up.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:36 PM
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You are thinking about this logically and correctly. Another person here advocates this. At first I disagreed and kept my opinion to myself. After taking time to think about it this is the best solution to having children without playing Russian Roulette with the mother. There are hidden gems that having children with a women you LTR or marry that people don't talk much about or is not taken into account until it's too late. These are things you know might happen, but you don't really believe th…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:03 AM
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I'll answer your question as it's presented. From this point on when I say my wife I mean my ex. I was never married, but we were together 15 years and have three children. I fell into the beta roll at the very end of my relationship. It was my downfall. I watched the children while she worked at night. I cooked, cleaned, and raised the children putting my wants and needs last. I was always alone even with a house full of people. I did most things alpha for years, but it became tiresome. After m…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:29 AM
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The people saying things like, "Trust" and "it is the one who raises the child that is the father" are speaking out of ignorance. I raised a child that wasn't mine for 15 years. That person has more contact with the biological father who only came around once in 20 years. That "child" no longer contacts me and gives me no credit for raising them. I've read more than one story about a man raising another mans child only to get sent to the void after the biological parent leaves the union. It is v…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 12:17 AM
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When there is a surplus of women, or a perceived surplus of women, the whole mating system tends to shift towards short-term dating. Marriages become unstable. Divorces increase. Men don’t have to commit, so they pursue a short-term mating strategy. Men are making that shift, and women are forced to go along with it in order to mate at all. I add nothing of value to this conversation. I would just like to state: Here is another article independent of what is linked or side barred here stating wh…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:42 PM
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Arnold wasn't pushing real weight because he was a body builder? Really... Forget about Arnold then and go look at Dorian Yates. You've been lifting for 20 years so you should know all about him. Google Image Dorian Yates bench press. I personally only press with "suicide grip" which used to be called "monkey grip" and have never ever had an issue with it. Started using it in '94 myself after watching my room mate press 8 plates this way. He taught me and I use it for all barbell presses. I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:35 AM
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women seem strangely uninterested in seeing things from the perspective of a man. What you stated here and other things that have been posted in this forum in the last two days have helped me in my understanding. This was my greatest weakness. It truly was the crack in my psyche that began my downfall into depression and hopelessness. Speaking from a place of logic when in conflict I would lose my mind in not understanding how women close to me could not see the issue from my point of view and u…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:08 AM
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The real lesbian is doing all things beta. She will live in pain for a long time. She knows the woman she loves is straight and the relationship will implode soon enough. Who will pay for what will be the true mystery. The man will pay support for the children simply because he is the father. One of them states that legally they are not married so alimony and property may not be a thing. If the lesbian leaves she's taking her child and the man is going to pay support and probably be a weekend da…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 01:06 PM
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There is a book out there called convict conditioning if you are overweight and don't want to be in a gym quite yet. You can buy a set of Olympic weights from Craigslist for under $100 if you have room. Growing up poor I didn't have $100 so I used coffee cans filled with cement and some stolen rebar. This was great for straight bar curls and overhead triceps extensions. Any container filled with cement and a bar set in between will work. Coffee can for curls, flower pot for kettle ball, five gal…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 12:20 AM
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I'm a year removed from my LTR with a Bipolar woman. I'm just now understanding how bad it really was. The crazy making insanity by a person with no perception of reality is impossible to hold any frame with. Over time your frame will break down and you start to rationalize a lot that you otherwise would not. That is why your father sits in the background. He got tired of arguing with an adult child and rationalized that being quite is better than being angry. There can be power in vulnerability…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:44 AM
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Not trying to hijack the thread, but I see a lot here about having kids and not getting married. I added context instead of hard points for reference. I was in a 15 year LTR and have three children with her. Her child from the previous life came with the package. This is how I did it: Six months after the birth of my first born I was getting hammered on getting married. By her, my parents, her parents, and friends. I bought her an engagement ring from the mall and gave it to her in the parking l…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:57 AM
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As others have stated BJJ and Muay Thai are best for self defense and are available in most areas. The number one best defense is self control and avoiding the violence. Very odd things happen in fights. You can easily be killed or severely handicapped as a result. BJJ and MT will give you a serious boost of confidence too. You can find a good BJJ and MT studio on Google. If you go to the MT club and see blood stains on the canvas you are in a good place. Personally I was in a situation last nig…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:30 AM
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Not sure how to post a new one, but yeah. Thank you red pill for saving my life. Thank you my friends you were right. You were right.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 05:21 AM
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I've had my run of soulless lizards before I began my last relationship. Flesh peddlers who believe you are an ignorant ATM. There is good reason 99% of all sex workers are broken, addicted, pathological and poor at 40. Take a good long look at the 1% that were greatly successful. Look at them physically after years of abuse and plastic surgery. Look at their marriages or lack of and you'll see how broken even they are. Back on subject of the post... At the end of the movie the girl who was enga…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:24 AM
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Watched this yesterday. Wasn't that bad of a documentary and I wasn't too surprised by what I saw. The guy pimping these girls was a piece of trash. Not for what he was doing, but simply that is what he is. He was the same as a low level drug pusher and had an IQ equivalent of your inbred white trash cowboy. He flipped burgers before pimping and posts an add on Craigslist. Picks a trick up from the airport and gets her work. Not his fault they do this. Personally I've always been under the impre…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 08:16 PM
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I'm not sure if you are speaking of US law and if so what state, but I can say without a doubt that where I live in the US this is not true. I was with a woman for 15 years and had 3 children. I never married her and only had our mortgage in both of our names. I never shared any type of financial accounts. Her money was hers and my money was mine. I purchased Tesla stock and she purchased candy bars. The only thing she got from our 15 year cohabitation was half of the equity in the home and chil…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:37 PM
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My god... I have so much to learn...
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 02:16 AM
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You don't need one to cohabit with a woman. You don't need one to fuck. You don't >need one to have kids. Hell, if you got your shit together you don't need one to get >custody. That leaves some tax breaks in exchange for some extreme risk of financial ruin due >to unhappy. This is the truth... I never stated this in conversation, but I'll begin to now if it is ever brought up again. My point of view was always business orientated. Would you go into a business agreement knowing that 10 years dow…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:04 PM
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This is where it eventually will end for this man. The bar is always raised and it is an amusing game for her. She leads him by the nose ring until she is tired of him and will leave in one fashion or another. He will get divorced raped and she will move on to the next target. Never fall for this game and stand your ground when it is presented to you and it will be presented to you in one fashion or another. For a woman marriage is the end game for all relationships. Theoretically your testicles…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:39 PM
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I feel that some of this has to do with the fact that they will rationalize in their head that they can leave, bang some scumbag and their ever loving husband will take them back if they pour enough charm on. They feel attractive and desired with a new sense of confidence. In the beginning the ones left behind grovel, cry and beg. The one leaving keeps that memory fresh in their minds and think it will carry them through. The greatest thing are places like TRP. If you truly loved your partner an…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:35 AM
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You can take your time and make sure a woman fits to most of your perspective levels and 10 years down the road it will change and you will be out of luck. No matter how well you sift through the dirt and rubble to find your diamond she can turn to coal over time and there isn't anything you can do about it. I've always said to my partner. "What do you need male friends for? Are you going to talk about knitting and kittens? You have a man you don't need male friends unless they are gay and I've …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 01:59 AM
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I just dropped a woman last week that behaved like this. I've been out of the game for over 15 years and was very perplexed on why she was expecting fancy dinners, expensive bottles of wine and such. Over conversation I find her ex husband was a very successful person and traded her in for a younger model. She wasn't attractive at all. Her online profile looked great. In person I was very disheartened. Fat gut, hunch back, had a wandering eye too. Her demanding mannerisms and jealousy just made …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:17 AM
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Ever watched a full blown bipolar episode? Now imagine your children having to live with that insanity. For weeks at a time. They watched their mother go from loving housewife and caring mother to unstable psychotic paranoid angry whore in under a month. I won't get into specifics, but it seriously messed up the older two. I was the only rational parent and became a rock in the storm. The baby is fine. The middle one I'm still working with and is adapting well. The eldest had a seriously hard ti…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:37 AM
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That is what I found as well. Thought it didn't fit the context of the sentence at the time, but I guess it could after re-reading it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:23 AM
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What does the acronym CONUS mean?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:16 PM
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I'll share... I was pretty Alpha most of my life. Not 100% or had the skills given here at TRP and really didn't have any game I was just a good looking guy who lifted weights and liked to drink. I had no problems hooking up and I met a girl through some plate I was smashing at the time and we hit it off. I was in a transitional period and moving into a new house. She tagged along, but never lived with me. When I was ready to leave her I got the news she was pregnant. Through out the years I imp…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:41 PM
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This has been approached by a very narrow mind set. There are many women who sell sex without any involvement of a pimp. They keep all the money for themselves and answer to no one. Nobody forces them to do anything. They can get a job like the rest of society, but chose to sell themselves. So who is to blame and who will be punished when the woman selling her ass is both the pimp and the prostitute? Is she still a victim?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 03:52 PM
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I too never married. I fought against it for years and this was the best decision I ever made. You are correct. They might as well be waving the red flag of China while on fire and running along the beach of the Red Sea. I have educated myself to see the dysfunction a mile away. This forum is part of my journey to enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:14 AM
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Funny you say this as I have heard it before from others. I also raised another mans daughter. She too has turned into a nightmare of sorts in her own glory. Him and I never got along and never spoke to each other until I reached out to him after I booted the ex. So he and I buried the hatchet and made amends. I wanted to help him rebuild his relationship with his child that he was alienated from years ago. His child reached out to him asking for money and when he refused he got a verbal lashing…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:09 AM
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Actually in my early days I would have never depended on anyone to do anything like that except myself. As time goes by and you grow into a LTR you begin to think your SO is your partner. A partner brings value to a relationship and grows with you. They need you to guide them less and they grow into a person that will adapt and share some type of vision that is parallel to yours. Emotionally stunted women do not though. They become more of a problem and less of a partner. I found this out the ha…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:58 AM
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I got the same QA from my first counselor. I left and went to a new one. I sought her out due to her specialization in Borderline Personality Disorder. Within 10 minutes I knew this counselor was for me. Grew apart? No, she never grew out of the self absorbed child stage. Co-parenting? No, more like parallel parenting. She is their friend and I am the parent. I am happier and getting better everyday. I never realized how much I tolerated. Two weeks after she left I could honestly feel the tensio…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:53 AM
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Couldn't agree more... You can get paternity tests from Amazon. It will not hold up in court, but will give you a piece of mind and help with any type of exit strategy. You will need one for paternity claims and child support anyways so this can save you a ton of money if they come back as yours and you feel no need to have the courts do it. You will need to sign a contract stating they are yours and have it filed with your state. If you can, start saving cash out of the banking system and keep …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:42 PM
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Taking into consideration the summerization of the article I'd like to present the situation as a point of reflection as I am working on my 7th month single after a 15 year relationship. I was with my partner for 15 years. I listened to her ramble on for years. Talk about nothing of importance non stop until my ears rang. Nothing was ever solved. It was simply frivolous talk that looped into circles and could go on for hours. After about 3 years into our relationship I listened carefully and tim…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:12 PM
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