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When I act like this is when I get laid. I guess it’s what these crazy women want. When I take them out for coffee they ghost me. Fucking crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 07:27 PM
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Setting boundaries , communication. You have to take the lead. Introduce god in your family. Wish I would’ve done this things. Too late for me
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 04:53 PM
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2 kids 7 and 15. Together/married 16 years. We didn’t respect each other reason for divorce. We both agreed time to end the marriage 8 months ago.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 04:52 PM
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Damn brother sorry to hear that man. It does hurt like hell. Be strong brother. God bless
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/25 10:19 PM
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Damn, this is exactly it. Got divorced for a reason and that reason is still the same. I know because I have to communicate with her regarding our kids. I know she is till a narcissist and manipulative person. I’m not no saint either, I have to work on my self like you said. Fix ourselves before we go wreck someone else
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/25 08:00 PM
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Only time will heal this shit brother. Just want it to move faster
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/25 05:22 PM
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I haven’t found anyone, nor am I looking for it. I have mixed emotions man. I was too with my ex wife for 16 years. Even though it was a very rocky relationship, I miss the good memories and the family feeling. Like you said, everything is meh. I do not have the strength or motivation to seek a partner. I don’t think anything will be able to replace my family I had. It is a painful feeling. Like you said, I wish there was a Time Machine. The saying “you don’t know what you have until you lose it…
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/25 02:39 PM
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I’m at this stage too man. I was ok until she told me she found someone new. That’s when it really hit me that it was over. My god. I never in a million years imagined I would be divorced. I have turned to god to guide me man. I can’t do this by myself. I pray for his mercy and to do with my life what he thinks is best for me. God bless you man. Stay strong. I humiliated my self to her like I never would’ve of thought. It’s embarrassing. God has a plan for all of us. Let it play out.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 01:53 PM
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This was last night. My mind was out of control. I’m a not like that at all. But, it got the best of me last night. Never again!
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 08:24 PM
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I needed this man. Im here crying like a little bitch, I called 988 again just to talk to someone man. I am destroyed . I know it’s temporary. I just feel a huge hole in my chest. It’s a pain I have never felt before. I just want time to pass for all this to go away. All I know in this life is to be a family man. I don’t drink or smoke. No social life. My life was devoted to my family. And that no longer exists. That’s what is hitting me the hardest.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 03:15 PM
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God Damn I’m laughing at this comment 🤣🤣🤣 those are the exact words she told me when I filed. She said “I did not fight for her “ like wtf??? You wanted this???
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/25 10:32 PM
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Absolutely man, that’s the way. This way we can be the best version of our selves. I know a lot of stuff I can work on. Stop watching porn, be a better leader, find friends. Get IT certs. Start business. There is so much to develop on. Ps. Porn is a big one and has fucked me up mentally. I fight this deamon everyday
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/25 06:21 PM
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I just feel we shouldn’t need anyone to be happy you know. We need to be stronger men, get our shit together, start a business, get in shape and one we are at a good mental state then we can find someone. That just means we are dependent on someone for our happiness you know.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/25 06:14 PM
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Fuck man, all that shit is cruel. But, keep your head up. The only advice I give. Stay away from drugs and alcohol. I’m trying to that my self.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 09:01 PM
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🙏
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 08:45 PM
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Thank you brother!
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 08:32 PM
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They are gutless
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 06:32 PM
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I can see this as good advice. Tough, but I know you are right
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 06:31 PM
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This ^
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 01:34 PM
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Slept 2 hours man, my head hurts. I never had a life without her. I was 15 and she was 15 when we met. We went through life together. I don’t know anything else
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 01:00 PM
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Thanks everyone. I’ll get though it. Time heals. Never saw it coming from my life partner of 16 years. She set the bar way too high for all these women out there. She was a good woman , but didn’t respect me and I guess neither did I. Fuck…. Wish I could have changed some stuff. Sucks man. I just want the time to pass . Pain is fucking unbearable. I called the suicide hot line last night. I’m not going to kill my self, but I needed to talk to someone. I have many deamons inside of me I need to g…
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 12:52 PM
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I am not very attractive but I got the dating apps and I’m upfront to them. I just want to get laid no strings attached. Some have gone for it. I’m too cheap to pay $300-$600 for a damn chic.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 08:35 PM
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Where do you find the escorts? Serious question lol
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 04:09 PM
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Go to the gym brother. It really clears your mind
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/25 05:33 PM
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