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Rant/VentingDolorousRedd/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:03 AM
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DolorousRedd/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:57 AM
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If I let somebody let me feel like shit for something I enjoy, I'm submitting to their frame. I think it can display a lot of confidence to back your "low-SMV" interests. I like this, and I don't care what you think about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:16 AM
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It's not gay if you're only practicing for women. A purely technical masculine exercise.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 07:54 AM
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Great post mate. It's actually kind of smacked me in the face to be honest. Every girl I've slept with I've done it in the same evening, or I've at least made progress toward it in the same evening. I've always been comfortable flirting and approaching women in person so I attributed it to having to fumble around with messages trying to get into a physical meeting. But this, this makes so much more sense. There's girls who have given me all the IOI's I'd need to bang them, but for whatever reaso…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:25 AM
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The only way to win is to not play. The only correct answer to shit seeking to get under your skin is a smile, a laugh or a middle finger as you walk away.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:42 PM
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Gender is a social construct, it doesn't even matter. Now start calling me the correct pronoun, you cisscum.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:38 PM
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I agree. Emotional investment is like financial investment. There is a finite amount of resources you can spread. Investing any of your emotions in that trash is detrimental to yourself and trying to spread the infectious rage is detrimental to the community, whether archived or not. You've saved them a click, but you've also bought them malleable minds more prepared to engage it when they come across it on social media or other similar platforms. They owe you a commission.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:57 AM
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I had two friends from high school kill themselves before I'd turned 20. I doubt that's unique to me. Yet people still think it's okay to tell young men who are feeling depressed not to follow professional advice. As a community, we'll joyously marvel at the feminist hamster ignoring science and in the same breath tell the most statistically likely group to take their own lives to suck it up and lift some weights, bro. I was at my most depressed when I was the physically strongest I've ever been…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:49 PM
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Glad I got it across. Even this mindset is hard to maintain since sometimes it just seems that some people have it so great. Just keep in mind what "great" really is: a bunch of chemicals rolling around in your brain right now.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:30 AM
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Don't put men on a pedestal. They are X/Y, they get off on dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin. They have Testosterone. And so do you. You're a bundle of chemicals. So are they. Men are naturally Alpha. It is nurture which changes things, not nature. Can anybody see your inner turmoil? Do they see your stomach drop? No, so why assume that others do not have a similar experience? This is my own opinion but rightly or wrongly I think it helps to view people as exceptionally arrogant monkeys. We are not …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 04:27 AM
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Show Robb and Book Robb are both different. Show Robb is just fucking stupid, Book Robb is also not too bright, but it's because he's mourning his father and trying to do as he would.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:57 AM
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The slaves were never freed, the marketing just changed. I wrote a pretty long comment on that idea on Archwingers post that I won't bother re-typing here, but we're all thralls unless we actively try to avoid it. Student loans->home loan->family to support->next generation of slaves.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 01:06 AM
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SA top order choked against the Zimbots, imagine how they'll go against a decent team.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:53 AM
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The slaves were never freed; the marketing just changed. There is a system. It's not a conspiracy, but rather a web of organisations and ideals that have unintentionally threaded themselves together to create a production line of fiscal slaves. It begins during your final years of school. Why are we learning this? So you can get a degree of course. From the school and societies perspective, that's very important. It'll be hard to reach the highest echelons of earners without one. I feel like it'…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:45 AM
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I can't help but look back and laugh at moments in my life that were basically "please fuck me" but I was too blind and/or scared to see.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 10:56 PM
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If she was worth being your girlfriend, you wouldn't want to cheat on her.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:14 AM
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When humans are confronted with something which challenges their beliefs, it doesn't make them want to change. It makes them more staunch in their own incorrect position. (1) It's why things we call "RP truths" aren't offensive when presented casually and indirectly. If you tell a staunch feminist that what she believes is wrong, it'll only further her opposition. Tell her, say, that a good man should lead in the bed room (implying women are submissive, but not directly challenging her beliefs) …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 03:48 AM
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What a tosser. I find it so frustrating that the modern world equates outrage with morality.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 12:39 AM
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I just want that man to go retire with his family. Which means he'll be dead soon.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:48 AM
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ASOIAF is incredible. The characters are so real, the story is gripping and the prose is great (except for feast time...). TWOW can't come soon enough. To go more in-depth, a few of the passages/characters I feel are relateable to TRP include (I haven't read the books in a while so some points might be a little off: And spoilers, obviously. Dany - AF/BB, Alpha Widow. Jorah tries to friendzone his way into her bed and gets nowhere. Daario Naharis is cocky and violent. He fucks her "every way a ma…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 02:23 AM
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I don't believe violence is right or wrong, it just is. I'll fight for self defence or defence of another, but a wolf does not concern himself with the opinions of the sheep. I don't care about perceived slights enough to want to physically hurt somebody - it isn't worth it legally and to me it indicates insecurity. I don't have anything to prove to people.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:02 PM
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Two chapters into Atlas Shrugged and it's hard to absorb the philosophy when the writing is so dull.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 08:56 PM
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How much would you recommend investing initially? Either as a % of income or just a base level to make it reasonably useful.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 08:50 PM
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I don't have any idea what I want to do with my life. I have no direction. I was told this was a problem, but as a man, what I do with my life does not matter. Disposability can be your greatest freedom or your greatest sorrow. You get to choose. That's not to say I don't have goals. However, they're all related to improving my life and myself. There is no "I am going to be an x" or "I am going to spend my life doing y". I am not the same as I was yesterday nor will I be the same tomorrow. Oppor…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:24 PM
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Yep. If you aren't putting on weight, you aren't eating enough. If you were eating enough and training wrong, you'd at least be getting fat.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:44 AM
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It may be from a one episode Simpsons character, but it's still one of my favourites: "Life is hard, right? Wrong. Life is easy, you suck!"
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:35 AM
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How to cure depression: talk to a doctor. Not that this is bad advice, since a lot these things will be advised by a psychologist but even then, it adds some real world accountability to your progress. A doctor, in tandem with a psychologist/therapist if need be, can get to know you and what the best course of action is. It's easy to say, "just do this, bro" but those who have experienced severe depressive episodes know it isn't that easy. One size isn't going to fit all and no online guide is g…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 02:43 AM
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Life is nothing more than a long, drawn out series of chemical reactions. There is no point.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:43 PM
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I was actually stoked when I found this sub. I was questioning what was going on around me and asking myself, "fuck, am I the only who thinks about this? I must be wrong." Continue being miserable and confused. Turns out I wasn't the only one.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:53 AM
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I think you've taken "maintaining frame" a little too literally. I like the bottom section though. It's good to have some plates to test things out on.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:50 AM
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Women are just as strong and capable until they have to compete against a man.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 12:28 AM
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An artist is building something and the woman wants to be a part of that.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 07:48 AM
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I think it's childish to get upset about that.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 09:41 AM
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First of all, nice name. ;) Secondly, how did you transition from LTR -> Plate?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:18 AM
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The only person you can rely on to fix your problems is you. If you don't like it, do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 11:03 PM
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Generalizing concepts is different to generalizing members.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 01:14 AM
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It's certainly a more positive trait than doing anything for a pussy. Seeking sex through TRP methods doesn't equal having no desire but for it. Of course. As much as I dislike the split I can't deny it's very present.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:40 AM
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The way you tied Group 1 to undiscerning pussy obsession is definitely placing them below Group 2, who have too much pride to be victims to biology. I do not mean to imply any of us are special butterflies (I believe far from that), apologies if it read that way. Individuals in the sense of being sin It isn't about being unique, rather it's about speaking for yourself rather than surrendering your point of view to a group. Being placed in a group, that's unavoidable. Choosing to place yourself i…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:30 AM
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Generalization only divides us. And what is language policing? Is it like fat shaming? Oh you're right, but don't say that? We spend a lot of time here speaking about how important tone and connotation is in communication and I think all my points were fair. There is a definite distinction between how the two groups are presented.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:29 AM
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Firstly, you're putting words in other peoples mouths. Don't do that. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, this also comes across as a very poorly veiled attempt to lionize your "Group 2" over "Group 1". It's like anti-pussy propaganda. Let's look at some of the language. Firstly, "This group claims" vs "This group believes". The description of Group 1 is written in ultimatums and absolutes - "should immeadiately", "as many as possible", "every day", "absolutely", "thoroughly", "if he does …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:09 PM
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Women define masculinity. They have for millions of years. It's no coincidence that the traits we call masculine (for example, strength) are the ones women find most desirable. Survival of the fittest, natural selection, evolution - alpha traits survive because women let them. If women had decided they were attracted to men who were shorter, would the average height of men have risen so dramatically over our history like it has? No, it wouldn't have, it would've shrunk. And being tall would not …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:22 AM
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Just taking the piss brother. I agree with you - some need to face up to their immorality.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:20 AM
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Throughout my high school career, I pondered many of the higher mysteries of life. While other students wasted their potential with sex, drugs and companionship (needless distractions which I didn't want anyway), I used the Spark Notes of The Prince and a worksheet on Satre to pass English class in between whacking off and eating cheezels. I saw Ayn Rand mentioned on Mad Men and I got the grasp of that too. Needless to say, I became quite the scholar. Then, I skimmed a couple of posts the sideba…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:05 AM
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I like to call women darl, love, honey, sweetheart, to fuck around with them. One night, an obnoxiously drunk backpacker from the US was staying at the same hostel as us. She was in our room wanting to share some drinks. "How are you darl?" "I have a name" "I'm sure you do love" "Stop calling me love! My name is Annoying Drunk American" "Sorry love" Me and my mates had a lot of fun winding up this bitch who wouldn't leave us alone, while she chucked a tantrum about us not calling her Annoying Dr…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 11:49 PM
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I'm 6'5, about 97kg, so I tower over women but I'm not exceptionally muscular. I've heard before "you're so intimidating" and not always in a good way. I always try to be conscious of initiating kino too quickly when I haven't established I'm a funny, friendly dude because when I do, I do seem pretty threatening to a woman who is half my size and I blow an opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 11:45 PM
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I think most people overall are capable of being bisexual in the right circumstance. Take a look at prisons. For women, it's much less of a mental and physical shift than it is for us dudes. For homosexuality in men, it goes from penetrating to being penetrated. For women, it more or less stays the same but with a different gender.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 11:41 PM
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This is my favourite field report I've read. Good stuff mate.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 11:22 PM
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Buying a new bookcase because I've filled the old one(s).
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 09:48 PM
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If you don't like something, change it. If it's something you can't change, move on.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:28 AM
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I may have to actually read this book now.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:27 AM
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I like to be very open about myself, especially my sexuality. My friends like to bring stories of my shenanigans up around new people, because they all know and love the stories (occasionally to try and cut me down, but that later). I've got them down to a fine art now - I know where all the jokes should go, the pacing, the punchlines. I've never written them down, but I've told them so many times they just roll off my tongue. I win a lot of friends with them in a single night. A friend of mine …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:41 AM
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There was a good post in the last week about calling vs texting. Giving her a phone call sets you apart from the pack who are messaging her the same old stuff. In the same way, the more dudes who default to online dating to avoid approach anxiety, the more those of us with the sack to approach a woman in person become all the more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:28 AM
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Ha. I used to hate this shit, not it just makes me laugh. It's so delusional to think you get to define what attractive is for other people.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:20 AM
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I'm 20. I'm never going to be this young again. I'm not going to waste that by not trying to pick up women.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 10:47 PM
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The greater my relationship with my father, the more at ease I am.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 10:41 PM
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Bipolar. Not an interest, but it's the only thing I'll straight up deny. Only my mother and father know, and that's because it was unavoidable. It's a struggle at times, but I'm proud I've managed to avoid using others as a crutch. Oh, and pro wrestling.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:57 AM
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Never try to have a friendship with a girl you want to fuck. It's that simple.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:47 AM
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You've got to respect yourself if you want the respect of others.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:46 PM
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I was getting with a girl who I met through friends from the next city over. I was down there and we met up. I asked her to come to a dinner our mutual friends had planned. She said she wanted too but I'd taken too long and she had a new date. An orbiter, let's call him Joe, well she told him to tell me to ask her (since I hadn't been talking to her) but he didn't. Whatever, I thought. I was still first choice. Then I found out her new date was one of Joe's best pals from outside our group, and …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:26 AM
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Every social interaction is a game, and the first one to get angry loses. Don't frown at fools, smile at them. Getting angry is giving them power over you.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:28 AM
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Great post OP. Hating what you can't control, in this case women, is immature. Children throw tantrums; men take action.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:25 AM
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There is no unconditional love outside of a family. You love how they make you feel or what they give/have done to/for you. "You" are the sum of your actions, traits and emotions and if those change substantially, then you are no longer the "you" that is loved. My interpretation of AWALT is taken from the belief I outlined above. A woman doesn't "love" you in the sense that we've been trained to believe love worked - it is absolutely conditional, and that's why she chose you over all the other d…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 12:38 AM
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Humans are irrational, fallible and flawed. The strongest have their weaknesses, and the weakest have their strengths. I don't find the terms Alpha and Beta useful when describing people. It indicates there is some kind of sliding scale when like you said, different alphas can be in mutually exclusive groups. One alpha behaviour does not make you alpha, nor one beta action make you beta. We should hold ourselves to a higher standard with our discussions. We shouldn't say "Arnold Schwarzenegger w…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 11:36 PM
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Forget about your penis. They won't care about it unless you do.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 12:42 AM
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Yes. One thing I do, almost subconciously sometimes, is project myself as just a bit smarter than them. When I'm talking to a girl I know is pretty intelligent, I bring up topics I never would with a girl who just drinks and posts Instagram photos. I want to be intelligent enough to make myself interesting, but not so smart they feel like we have 'nothing in common'.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 12:41 AM
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Ugh. In Australia, we have a program called Q&A. Basically a panel show with politicians, scientists, authors, artists on current issues submitted by the audience. They had an all-female panel once. One woman was a genuine researcher, the others were there because they were feminine activists or authors or other tripe like that. The subject came to single mothers. The researcher brought up her scientific research that young men without a father (or maybe it was both, can't recall) had a much hig…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 12:34 AM
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"20 years old and a virgin...Maybe my experience is to limited" ...what experience?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 12:21 AM
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Quick story. There was a girl I was talking too earlier this year. We had mutual friends, but they all lived in another city. I'd met her once, we'd chatted a bit over Facebook the weeks after that, but since she lived so far (~3 hours on a train), I stopped initiating any contact with her. Long story short, I was in her city for a week, one night she texted me telling her she was going out. Then she left her friends, I picked her up in a taxi, she came back to my hostel and drank with me and my…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:27 AM
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I can't wait till I'm old enough to that nothing will surpass what I'm listening too now. Listening to mainstream radio doesn't mean you like music - it means you don't like silence. There's great bands of all genres around, it's about finding them. We're blessed down here to have a government run station sanctioned to play 40% Aussie music that does non-mainstream stuff (well, 90% of it is). There's a massive range of songs, a lot I know people don't like, but at least there's a wide range of m…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:35 AM
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If you can do something quickly, it's not very valuable. Women included.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 09:06 AM
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I got laid before I came here because women would find me attractive. I had the tall, athletic thing going for me, but also the pussy pedestal problem and most of the other typical "beta" tendencies working against me. I fucked up way more opportunities than I took, but I still took some. I got laid in spite of my beta tendencies, as most of us did before we came here, rather than because of them. If you are a high SMV like you say, I'd bet that's the case.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:09 AM
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"I see a lot of people getting angry about the latest fembait or whatever insert celebrity here said about women. WHO CARES. Looking at that shit will help your mood? Will improve your day? Will you become a better person? The answer is a solid no. " I've been thinking about posting something on this for a while. Do not feed the animals. Whatever your own personal pet peeve is, do not feed the animals. And they will die. The particularly combative feminists thrive on controversy. They want guys …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 02:56 AM
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There's some overlap here with important lifting cues in the Big Two. Deadlift - Shoulders back, cock out. Squat - Chest out, Feet planted, push your knees out. No coincidence there. It's easier to fold your knees in, let your chest fold, keep your hips back. It takes strength to maintain these positions, and damned if they don't look better with some big muscles to go with them. Just lifting your chest and pulling back your shoulders makes an upper body look wider.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 03:20 AM
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Give me drunk and 14% over sober and 8% every day of the week. Can't see a six pack in public.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:01 AM
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International Men's Day is much like the gender it represents. If it doesn't provide something to women, the world won't care.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 04:01 AM
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The Daily Telegraph is a biased piece of tabloid trash. It's just fucking rubbish. And Bondi? Really? Bondi is not only in the most affluent part of the most expensive city to live in Australia (the Eastern Suburbs), it's an ultra popular tourist spot. A lot of those dudes would've been from overseas or out of town on a holiday. A lot of immigrants also set up in Sydney, but not many in Bondi. I don't know much about NYC, but I do know Bondi is as upper class, Anglo-Saxon as it gets in Sydney. H…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:16 AM
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Paul Gallen says cunt - $35,000 Auva'a hits his wife - $2000 It's a joke. Outrage has become worth more than currency.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:17 PM
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My experience, perhaps that of others too, was women I wasn't actively trying to fuck I found it easy to "hold frame" around. The hottest girls at my school I ended up becoming on better terms with than the others (unfortunately, as a stupid femiman, I didn't make a move). I'd agree and amplify, and generally not give a shit, sure they were hot, but there was no outcome for me. They were "out of my league". I was just enjoying myself. A woman I was trying to fuck? All I could think of was the ou…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:10 PM
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Too often charisma is associated with verbosity. Some charismatic guys do talk a lot, but that's a means to express that charisma rather than the source of it. It's because of the confidence and emotion behind what they say rather than how much they say. It's much harder to say too little than it is to say too much.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:03 PM
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Karl is hilarious. His finest moment: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WK2YVTl8Jko
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:49 PM
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Yeah, for sure. They're the guidance that should be sought though, rather than a woman, friend or other confidant.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 12:40 AM
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I had my own problems with depression. Talking to professionals is the best thing you can do. Don't seek sympathy - it will only make it worse. Only your mother cares. Doctors and therapists on the other hand can provide help, which is what is needed. You don't need a shoulder to cry on, you need a hand to help lift you out. When you have tonsilitis, you don't find a woman to cry to. You find a doctor. Mental illness is still illness and those people you're wasting your time talking to about it …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:36 AM
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"When virtuous men take office I think they are prompted by this fear; and then they approach it not as a blessing or with any prospect of good fortune: they face it as a compulsory task because they can find none superior to whom they might entrust it. Were there a city of good men, it is probable that men would contend to escape office as they now contend to gain it, and it would then be clearly shown that a true ruler is in reality one who seeks not his own advantage but the advantage of the …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:22 AM
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I think there should be an addition to the only certainties in life are death and taxes - your sisters and daughters are going to get fucked. It's inevitable. I want to see my sisters, and daughters if I had any, live a happy life and sex is going to be a part of that. I care more about my friends than some pussy. There's billions of vagina's, why do I need his sisters?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 11:24 PM
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Wildling culture is very RP in my books. IIRC there is no or a very watered down sense of marriage - the strongest men take the highest SMV women and they submit if he's good enough to steal them from their man. And of course, "we do not kneel".
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:07 AM
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