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| 3 | The Wages of Selecting a Bad Man.Message the moderators. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 3 | The Wages of Selecting a Bad Man.Yes, I will tell you I'll have the last word. It might be about you, but it's on my subreddit. If you don't want people drawing conclusions about you based on what you write about yourself in public, don't publish it. I didn't twist anything. You wrote that you're distrustful of men, suspicious, always on guard, and you'll make men "audition" for the right to date you because you've been burned. Here's what you wrote about how you'll treat men, the "Man Who Will Love You Next": My past will caus… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/19 08:47 PM |
| 3 | The Wages of Selecting a Bad Man.I'll have the last word here. 1) Of course most men here were mistreated by women or others, or rejected by women. There isn't a man alive who hasn't had a woman rip his heart from his chest. 2) This blog is about the kinds of men women select for sex, child-siring, and relationships. And men like "R" are sexually attractive men. Bad Men. Women KNOW they are Bad Men. That's what women like about these men. They're "Bad". They can't be controlled. They won't be bent to the whims and fancies of a … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The Wages of Selecting a Bad Man.Disagree. Yes, abusers do come with warning signs and flashing red beacons. --drinking problems. --PTSD from military service. --in "recovery" from a drug or alcohol problem. --inability to hold a job, finish school, finish anything, or accomplish anything of any distinction at all. --inability to support oneself beyond age 25. --women who have made it to 30 yet were unable to keep a relationship going or secure a marriage proposal. --anyone raised by a single mother. --women who are sluts or wh… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | The Wages of Selecting a Bad Man.If this is alyssa: 1) I'm glad you have a good family. That's wonderful. 2) We don't know you so well. All we know is what you've posted about yourself. And you have posted A LOT about yourself. That said, if you post it, it's there for public consumption. No one is "attacking" you. We are showing men who and what women are - what they do, who they choose to have sex with, who they choose to procreate with. That's all. We have not done anything other than comment on information you chose to make… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | WAATGM dating bingo!"My Child(ren) is/are My World" "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve my best" "Tired of the games" "No fuckboys/fuckbois/fuccbois" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Are we meant to ID them now?I see you post mostly at AskFeminists. What’s your interest in this subreddit? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/02/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Are we meant to ID them now?I’m gonna check that because I don’t believe for one minute that you can send someone to prison without a sowing of criminal intent beyond a reasonable doubt | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/02/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Are we meant to ID them now?Well, It's not really that simple. At least in the US to get him for statutory rape or having sex with an underage person, you'd have to prove that the offender knew he was having sex with an underage person. In other words, he knew she was underage but did it anyway. Here, the facts in the story are that the 12 year old girl lied about her age and told police that, going so far as to tell police "yeah, i lied about my age and he didn't know i was 12". SO he didn't know she was 12 and she agrees… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/02/19 09:21 PM |
| 25 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single MotherThe exception that proves the rule. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 13 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single MotherI mean I suppose you could have a relationship with a single mom, but not live with her and minimize interaction with the kids. But then single mom will move on the minute she finds a beta provider. SO be it in that case. You could also do what my red pill-suppositoried friend did, and marry a single mom (with 4 kids!) and say "what's yours is yours, what's mine is mine, i'm not supporting your kids ever but they can live with us". But in this situation i just don't see how you avoid spending mo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 10:15 PM |
| 3 | What's "Misogyny"?I know. Was more directed to the ongoing comments downthread. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 09:51 PM |
| 3 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single Motherthat's a little much.... I feel for the guy. He just won't accept that red pill..... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 09:27 PM |
| 9 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single Motherpretty much.... Seen it up close and personal with too many friends and family. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 09:27 PM |
| 23 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single MotherYour handyman friend is a saint. A not very worldly wise saint, but one nonetheless. He's also got too much gentle as a dove and way too little wise as a serpent. He probably had no kids of his own and so did his best with these stepkids, because he had wanted a family but couldn't have his own. I would not have any sort of relationship with these horrible shitstain excuses for humans his adult stepkids are. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 08:07 PM |
| 10 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single Mother*Shrug It's just that I've seen it too many times. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 07:35 PM |
| 28 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single MotherI've got one acquaintance who was divorced about 7 years ago. Family court rammed a red pill up his ass. He married again with a prenup, and told his second wife flat out "finances are all separate, you pay for your shit I pay for mine, the house is in my name only, I am not paying one dime to support your kids. They can live with us but not one dime of my money will support them - no food no groceries no clothes no school shit no extras no nothing. When they get older, no cars no insurance of a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 07:30 PM |
| 51 | She’s not interested in overweight menThe entitlement is strong in this one. Reason is because in the past 5 or so years, she's gone home with a couple of in shape washboard ab 8 inch cock Chads who did her with drunken gusto and then deleted her number after realizing how hard it was to pull their arms out from under her weighty body and using her to get out of their pickup slumps. So, you see, that's her standard now. That's what she's entitled to. "Because I was able to get Chad and Brad to fuck me once or twice, I am entitled to… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 07:11 PM |
| 74 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single MotherSorry, but your friend is a cuck. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 07:02 PM |
| 109 | The Future Of The Man Who Marries The Single MotherListen man. I've just seen it too many times. I've seen all of these horror show shitshow dumpster fire trainwrecks, and more. Could you marry a single mom and the kids be OK? Sure. Could you marry a single mom and she stays with you for the rest of your life; she "did it right" this time, she finally "got it right"? Yes. Could your single mom finally be a mature grownup who will compromise and take you as you are and accept you as her husband and make it work day by day with you? It's possible.… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 06:55 PM |
| 19 | 3 kids and still no good man... Why won't you love me!!Thugs in training Sluts in training Little future juvenile delinquents Carjackers in training Little Timmy's 5 and cute now. Wait till he turns 16 and is a hulking mass of testosterone, rage, and mommy issues. Wait till all that resentment his mother has been stoking comes exploding out. Wait till all that rage he has at his dad for leaving him comes out. Wait till you call the cops to your house because Timmy is in a drug fueled rage and there's an acrid smell coming from his room. Wait till yo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | What's "Misogyny"?Everyone: In my view it doesn't do a lot of good to talk about religion and Christian theology about adultery, fornication, etc. Reason being that few people agree on it and even fewer understand it. I'm not really sure I understand it fully. We're not here to teach or exhort on Christian sexual morality. Plus, I don't want to alienate our nonChristian brothers. Let's just keep a lid on this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 13 | 3 kids and still no good man... Why won't you love me!!The kid is the meal ticket, but only so far. It's MUCH worse than you wrote. This woman is looking for a beta simp chump to get his checkbook out, start paying the bills, and move her and her thugs/sluts in training into his 3 BR bungalow. This woman advertises that Mr. Beta Chump will get some fun time sex in return for the massive time and money investment expected of him. It's a ruse, all of it. She intends to use and abuse a poor simp chump like the guys she liked fucking used and abused her… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 03:41 PM |
| 22 | 3 kids and still no good man... Why won't you love me!!No. "Very adventurous" = code for to all you players and hot guys out there, know that all this "wanna settle down, I'm a nice girl want a nice guy" is bullshit, I am totally down for hooking up if you're hot enough, if i feel like it, and if the nice guys I am trying to lock down won't find out about it | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 03:37 PM |
| 22 | 3 kids and still no good man... Why won't you love me!!So you enjoyed the games and being used before you had the 3rd kid? Of course she enjoyed the games and being used. She was "winning" at that game. And she was giving as good as she got. She was using men as they were using her. But it's all fun and games until she started "losing" the game. It's all fun and games until she was getting used more than using. It's fun and games until the bill comes due. And the bill has come due. Someone has to start paying that bill. And as usual, Alpha McGorgeou… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 03:22 PM |
| – | 3 kids and still no good man... Why won't you love me!!thanks for finding this, IceWarrior. This is a really great one. You can always tell these are bailouts. *single mom of three I have my kids week on week off my kids are my whole world Sounds like parenting Karate Kid style. Week on, week off (wax on, wax off). How can those kids be your whole world if you have them only every other week? Aren't they like just 50% of your world? Like only a hemisphere? And then comes the part where you know it's a bailout. All the cliches: Just looking for someb… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 02:42 PM |
| 31 | Achievement Unlocked: I’m finding that men today are perfectly happy with going on dates with several women each week and committing to zero.Stop spreading your legs so easily then. "But but but then I might have to lower my standards and date less attractive men because the hotties I like demand sex NOW NOW NOW." "And that means my choices aren't Alpha McGorgeous and Harley McChadboy and Fuckbuddy Rockbanddrummer and Felonious Thuggerson. It means I get stuck with Louie Lawyer or Paul Plumber or Tom Teacher or Alan Accountant. Sheeit. Who's gonna get me my weed and pills?" "But then I might have to pick just one guy and stick with h… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 02:19 PM |
| 30 | Achievement Unlocked: I’m finding that men today are perfectly happy with going on dates with several women each week and committing to zero.I’m finding that men today are perfectly happy with going on dates with several women each week and committing to zero. And continuing this. Because they’re getting every benefit of a relationship and feeling like a player, without having to actually commit. No they're not getting "every benefit of a relationship". At most, they get rapid sex and some validation. Also, "every benefit of a relationship" and "feeling like a player" don't go together. The entire point of being in a relationship is … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 5 | "I don't understand why I'm posed to be alone or why I can't find a guy to jus be real wit me."Yeah. I don’t get how people don’t understand this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | OK, this is my last attempt to get to you guys, otherwise, good luck out there and try not to do anything stupidwhat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 10:37 PM |
| 8 | What's "Misogyny"?Heh. "Femsplaining". "Femsplaining" is shaming language. I also assign this term to woman's tendency to speak with "authority" on subjects they don't know much about. I also use it to describe women's projection of what they want/think/need onto men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.Yeah, no ending it. If you really feel that way, turn off your computer right now and get help. And don't come back here for a really really long time. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 08:10 PM |
| 8 | LTR ending due to relocation?Choose door No. 1. Every time. You're not married. You have your life in DC/NoVa. Consider this: for her, med school is more important than staying with you. And going cross-country to med school is more important than staying with you. If her relationship with you were THAT important to her, she'd forego med school. Or, at least, go to one of the fine med schools around DC/NoVa. Consider that she's asking you to do something for her that, well, she's not willing to do for you. And that makes co… | /r/askMRP | 06/02/19 06:28 PM |
| 8 | What's "Misogyny"?You just have to remember the cardinal rule of 21st Century america: No woman is ever to be inconvenienced in any way, shape, manner or form. You are not to expect anything of a woman. You are not to have standards for her. You are not to question her. No one is permitted to hold her responsible or accountable to anyone, for anything. You are to believe everything she says as Gospel and as if it were handed to you on tablets at Mt. Sinai. You are to allow her to do and say whatever she wants. An… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 06:00 PM |
| 13 | What's "Misogyny"?Work speech rape - a male boss "mansplaining" to you. Work conduct rape - a male boss giving you orders and evaluating your job performance Bus rape, subway rape - a man refusing to give up his seat to you or "manspreading" Credibility rape - when you accuse a man of real rape and others don't believe you/question the veracity of your claim/request supporting evidence for your claim | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 05:51 PM |
| 39 | What's "Misogyny"?Gawd! YES!! why didn't I think of that? Misogyny: Anything that hurts a woman's feelings. Anything said or done by any man anywhere that a woman does not like. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 03:33 PM |
| 12 | [48F] She seems nice."Horrid spelling", Hmm. OK. I will kno wen I respond ur (your) idk wat Bitch you better be one hot 48 year old to be flipping this kind of shit in an OLD profile. Because no woman, i don't care how hot or how velvety her pussy, is worth this kind of strident cuntiness. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 03:31 PM |
| 51 | "I don't understand why I'm posed to be alone or why I can't find a guy to jus be real wit me."Dearie, you might find this relevant. TLDR: Your mixed race child shows you have a preference for dating and sexing black men. It means your dating pool will probably be limited to black men, and white men who don't care about the fact that you will not prefer them, and will probably cheat on them when Tyrone comes back around. Don't think that men don't see this and draw conclusions about it. We do. We also know what you mean by not wanting to "be alone" and you wanting "a guy to jus be real wi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 03:26 PM |
| 19 | What's "Misogyny"?being "unattractive" being deemed unattractive | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.In the years since I was in law school, many schools have begun etiquette classes. "Finishing school", so to speak. I shit you not: teaching budding fledgling lawyers how to comport themselves at formal events. Learning which fork is for what. Basic social skills. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 12:21 AM |
| 4 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.Chill, sweetheart. You're gonna get a coronary. Take a brief timeout, cupcake. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/19 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.Mom's job is to love your kids up and go "there there let me help your widdle boo boo mama kiss it make it all better pumpkin wumpkin". Dad's job is to encourage and push your kids and go "get yourself up, dust yourself off, shake it off, and keep going" and "I know it hurts but there's stuff to do and you've gotta do it so let's keep going". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm only with you because I have no choice.Exactly right. "I'm with you only because I have no money and I need a place for the kids but that doesn't mean we're together" and "I'm with you only because I have no choice"? That's ILYBINILWY. He needs to stop giving her any attention, and take total control of all the finances. Pull the plug on the house right now. Then do all the rest of it. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm only with you because I have no choice.This. All of this. The First mistake was his giving up a good job to move closer to her parents, probably because that's what she wanted. He should have just said "no". "No, we're not doing that." "No, we can't afford it." "No, i have a good job here that I will not give up." | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 04:20 PM |
| 3 | I'm only with you because I have no choice.Nah. In most states residential real estate contracts have what are called "liquidated damages" provisions, meaning if the buyer breaches by backing out, he pays a set amount of money, usually $1000 or the earnest money, whatever it is. That's because many times the contracts are contingent on financing, and a buyer sometimes can't get financing on favorable terms. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 04:16 PM |
| 10 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.Here's another goddamn thing I am so sick of. I am sick of people telling boys and men to "be more attractive" without telling them HOW to be more attractive and WHAT "attractive" and "arousing" is. We're spending all this time telling boys to be "nice" without telling them what kinds of men girls like to fuck. We're spending all this time telling boys to draw all their validation from what other people (especially girls) think of them. What we should be doing is telling teen boys and young men … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 03:25 PM |
| 22 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.See what happens when 40, 50, 55 year old men and women have kids? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 02:49 PM |
| 15 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.Shit. We USED TO do this in the US. It was called high school and college team athletics. It was called Boy Scouts. It was called men's clubs. It was called stag bars, poker games, and pool halls. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 02:47 PM |
| 21 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.TLDR: Women don't like it when men say "I don't like this thing about dating". Because to women, men saying "I don't like X" is complaining; because that's what women do. Women get together to commiserate and bellyache and whine and bitch together. Women also don't like it because when men say "I don't like this thing about dating", they hear "I don't like this thing about women" or "I don't like women" or "I don't like MY woman". But to men, when we hear "I don't like X" it means "I want a solu… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 02:44 PM |
| 8 | [43F] "I have a 5 year old who is my world, and the sperm donor is not in her life. Looking for something real and long-term with that special someone that I know is out there."Hi. It's just about the end for me. Washed up formerly good looking woman, wasted my youth letting a dickbag knock me up at 19 and had my first at 20. Then got knocked up again at 38 to recapture my lost youth. Can't you all see how high value I am? Anyway, I had my girlfriend take this super classy pic of me at the truck stop women's restroom. See the cheap framed prints of Velvet Elvis back there? See Velvis? See the cheap wall mounted vending machine for either knockoff off brand perfumes, fe… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 02:25 PM |
| 17 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.Yeah. there's a difference between overcoming pain and stopping pain. There's a difference between surmounting an obstacle and avoiding it. We have, now, 2 or 3 generations of men who have been doing things to stop pain and avoid obstacles. And so they have never learned to go through pain and thus overcome it. They do not master anything; they simply manage things. They do not overcome and surmount obstacles or problems; they just avoid them. Management is not mastery. Avoidance is not victory.… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 02:18 PM |
| 49 | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.Following up on this earlier point: There was a reason why boys were taken from their mothers when they were around 10, 11, 12 years old and called into the company of older boys and men, away from women. Those boys needed to go through the rite of passage from boyhood into manhood. They needed to learn, to push themselves, to problem solve, to grow and develop and break through. And it was painful. There was breakage. There were injuries. There were failures. There was loss. There were tears an… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 01:48 PM |
| – | Our younger generation is being taught to associate ANY form of male frustration or basic guy talk as "incel" behavior, and this misconception, stigma and censorship is why we will continue to allow "incel" comments in this community.This is a new description of an old problem/issue. Since about, oh, forever, both men and women have shamed and excoriated and run down men for the very innocuous activity of noting the existence of things that don't work for them in dating, mating, sex, and marriage. Or, men will note there are things they don't understand. Or men will say they need help with certain things. Men talk about things they don't like. Men note "this doesn't work for me" and "I don't do well in this area" and "I am n… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 01:36 PM |
| 12 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.You're welcome to go be disappointed somewhere else. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/19 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Firstly, get the fuck out!Yeah. If a woman discovers her husband's infidelity and files for divorce because of it, a court will inject punitive elements into its rulings. The court will punish him for cheating. Courts aren't supposed to punish either party for "fault". But, they will punish a husband for infidelity. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/19 12:44 AM |
| 76 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.Remember this in your relationship: Your girl will always forgive you for being an asshole. She will NEVER forgive you for being a pussy. THis is why assholes succeed and nice guys finish last - because the lovable asshole gets forgiven; while the earnest nice man gets shunted aside and forgotten. Happens EVERY time. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 08:00 PM |
| 49 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.Because it makes everyone feel good about themselves. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 07:51 PM |
| 24 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.Yeah. When girls would say to me "I found you so attractive because you're just such a nice guy", at that time, to them, "nice guy" means man who i am sexually attracted to and with whom I feel safe in giving uncommitted sex to. It has nothing to do with your demeanor or personality. It has to do with the fact that you made her feel safe enough for fucking. She then has to rationalize her giving it up without commitment. Well, to her, she MUST have done so because you were nice. Because she is n… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 101 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.Not even "how to get girls". It was "How do you get girls to like you?" or "What do girls like in a guy?" I'd even ask my dad and male teachers and Scout leaders this. The uniform response was "Be kind. Be nice. Girls love kindness and niceness. Girls want guys who are kind and nice to them. From girls it was the ever popular "Just be nice, just be yourself, and someday someone will love you just for who you are!" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 07:41 PM |
| 26 | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.But what we were told was But that's not real. It never actually works this way. No girl refuses a man who treats her right. No woman of any self-respect will put out for a guy who treats her badly. Yet, when I would get laid really quickly in college and then out working, you know what they would all say to me? "You just seem like you're a really nice guy." **Facepalm | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 07:39 PM |
| – | Why men think niceness is supposed to ELICIT a sexual response. Explanation in comments.This has been explained SO many times. 1) Because everyone around us told us this and trained us in it , steeped us in it , from our earliest memories. 2) Because girls told us this (while at the same time whitewashing and obscuring and explaining away what they were actually DOING). 3) BEcause we lacked the frame of reference to judge it differently, because we did not have the experience or perspective or knowledge to question it. 4) Because we trusted people who were older than we were and wh… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 07:00 PM |
| 5 | My terrible life and how you can get there too! (Analysis in comments)No, I disagree. She's still good looking enough to get someone interested in her. She always has been. It's just that she will have to compromise because perfect unicorn Chad CEO/Very Nice Man is not coming and never will. Especially not to Florence, SC. When she was in her 20s, if she had wanted to get a man, if it was important to her, she could have done that. When she was 31 and had just taken the teaching job at Francis Marion, if she had wanted a man for marriage, if it was really importan… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 05:47 PM |
| 6 | [28F] "30 is getting close, I enjoyed my youth, and now it's time to get serious about life. Looking for someone with high goals and old school morals like myself.""30 is getting close, it's time to get serious about life." Fucked around long enough. Time to find a guy to start taking care of me and paying the bills. "I want to meet someone with high goals and teh same old school morals as myself." I want to meet someone who can pay for shit i want and need, and who will believe me when I lie to him that I have integrity. "I wanna have just as much fun in my 30s, i just don't wanna do it alone" I need to find the unicorn - the hot Chad alpha who will stay … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 03:18 PM |
| 9 | Where have all the beta men when I need them gone? Analysis In Comments (Fixed Link)i can't believe more people didn't pickup on this. If you're a single woman, San Francisco can't be a good place to try to find straight men, even for hookups. All the hot men are gay.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Advice for Men.In this context, it's lying - to yourself, to your friends, to your employers, etc. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Over 20 point bullet checklist....This compelled me to make my first post.....Sometimes you want to ask these girls.... Are you fucking serious? What the holy fuck is your major malfunction? It really is a result of women being told by everyone around them that they can "have it all". It's also a result of people (mostly men) falling all over themselves taking care of, helping, and giving free shit to, women, all in the hopes of getting into their pants. This has caused massive entitlement complexes in women. The entitlement women show is frankly beyond ridiculous. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I really dont know how to caption thisThat is HILARIOUS | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Advice for Men.BT: Sorry to hear the women in Canada are so terrible. Some women are friendly. Some are real cunts. Most want to use you and take advantage of you. I have to agree that Justin Trudeau is a grade A first class pussy bitchboi. I'm 50. You're 53 or 54. Most of the single women in our age group are divorced. That's most of what you'll be dealing with. I am still married. I can tell you that if this marriage ends for any reason, I will never remarry. I'll happily date and have sex with trainwreck wo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:41 PM |
| 0 | WAATGM In The MakingI'm torn here. If she's not sexually attracted to the guy, she should cut him loose. I can't believe a woman can't lock down a decently good looking guy who can and will partner up with her and support her, so long as she's using what she's got to her advantage and is prioritizing marriage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:30 PM |
| 3 | "Last month I had sex with 5 different men. Now I'm pregnant and don't know who the father is. How can I legally figure out who the father is for child support?"There are thousands of stories just like that in The Big City. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 6 | "Last month I had sex with 5 different men. Now I'm pregnant and don't know who the father is. How can I legally figure out who the father is for child support?"Something I've discovered is that the wholesome woman is a whore for the right guy. (Ask me how I know.) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:27 PM |
| 11 | "Last month I had sex with 5 different men. Now I'm pregnant and don't know who the father is. How can I legally figure out who the father is for child support?"Due respect, the cops are never going to get involved in this. The top comment in the original linked post was the answer. What will happen is that she has to file 5 paternity suits, either all together or in serial fashion. And all 5 men will be ordered to submit DNA for testing. It's really funny.... IF a woman wants to determine if you're the daddy, it's ok and she can get a court to order it. If YOU want to find out if you are or are not the daddy, everyone loses their minds. I had my kids D… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:26 PM |
| 2 | "Last month I had sex with 5 different men. Now I'm pregnant and don't know who the father is. How can I legally figure out who the father is for child support?"I agree. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | [19F] "I'm pregnant with twin girls and my baby daddy is not in the picture. Looking for someone who wants to have at least 6 more kids with me."SMH | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 10:17 PM |
| – | My terrible life and how you can get there too! (Analysis in comments)I think it always helps to find out about the person behind the posting. The blogger in this profile is one Mary R. Dittman, M.B.A. Born 1969. From Tucson, AZ. BS in Marketing, University of Nevada-Reno. MBA, Francis Marion University, Florence, SC. Is an "instructor" and "lecturer" in the School of Business at Francis Marion. A couple of things here. She's an "instructor" and "lecturer" at the collegiate level. She and the university call her a "professor", but she's not. Usually that term is r… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 05:29 PM |
| 3 | My terrible life and how you can get there too! (Analysis in comments)Good analysis. I'm gonna sticky something. Hope you don't mind. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 04:36 PM |
| 14 | The girl who posted this was the stuck up hot girl in high school and is now a 32 year old single motherCan we bring back women who act like women, engaging in pleasant conversation, dressing like women instead of wannabe men or tomboys or two buck whores, and having cheerful dispositions? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Advice for Men.BT: I take it you're in the UK, with your reference to your son's "mum". I'm familiar with the market in the US Midwest, from roughly Ohio and Michigan to the Great Plains and from North Dakota to Kansas. So i don't know how it is in the UK in your age range. In mine, from what i can see and hear (I'm married so i don't date), the women in my age range are either professionals who are looking for The Most Interesting Man In The World, or dumpster fire trainwrecks looking for men who don't have r… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/19 04:22 PM |
| 71 | Saturday hypocrisy of women brought to you by Imgur!In that first one, notice the interviewer. as she bites her lip she simultaneously moves her left hand over her groin area like she’s going to diddle herself; then drops her hand as if she caught herself in an unguarded moment. But, no, muscles totally turns girls off. Totally. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/19 08:05 PM |
| 49 | Saturday hypocrisy of women brought to you by Imgur!But guiz, muscles and good bodies are totes gross and we don’t like them!! No sir!! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Men.It is. The mods can just post what they want. And occasionally the mods get asked for advice on this or that in the course of a discussion. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Advice for Men.No, I really don't have it together. I've just seen some things and been through some things and connected some dots, with a lot of help from a lot of other men. And I can write about it. I'm really sorry about your wife's passing. I am sure she was a great woman. And I'm sorry you are back out there again. The one bright spot is how many women are out there in the 35 to 55 age range who are all about hooking up fun dating. Makes them feel like they're 23 again. And from what I hear, it is like … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 09:29 PM |
| 8 | Advice for Men.It's really sad how we have to learn things the hard way. We don't take the advice we're given until it happens to us. Until we get used and fucked over, and THEN we remember what we were told that our parents, teachers, and every other adult around us tried to drown out. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Advice for Men.all people in it are really that dichotomous and are divided into two blocks, Didn't say that. Life, and humans, exist on a spectrum. and like women are some monolithic entity. Didn't say that either. Women have a nature. A feature of that nature is a tendency toward using a dual mating strategy (alpha fucks, beta bucks). Does that mean all women use this? No. Does it mean all women use it in a whipsawing extreme way? No. Does it mean they exist along a spectrum? Yes. When I'm angry, disappointe… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 09:24 PM |
| 12 | Enjoy being alone and lonely ladies, you've earned it.How dare you give them facts! Hatefacts! Thoughtcrime! Hatespeech! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Desperate times call for desperate measuresIn my opinion, here's why you do not date a single mom. 1) I want MY OWN kids, not her and some other man's kids. I am not going to deal with an out of control kid who won't listen to me and his/her mother who won't let me do what needs to be done. 2) I won't come first 3) I am not willing to fix a single mom's fuckups, nor am i willing to pay for it (and if i do get involved with a single mom i WILL end up paying for it) 4) Single moms are trainwreck shitshow dumpster fire hot messes 5) baby da… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 07:05 PM |
| 8 | Actually, she should have offered to pay for his romantic dining experience. Unless of course, she is a slut and will be putting out on the first date, but it then why even bother.The man's proper response is not "let's go dutch". THe proper response should have been up there at "Dinner tomorrow?" The response should have been "nah. Let's get drinks, 9 pm at [insert name of place you select, where you are a regular and you know people]. Get an uber and meet me there." If she responds with "no, dinner" or No, i wanna eat or anything else other than "OK great" or the like, then you disengage. NEVER NEVER NEVER get food on a first date. (1) you don't want her getting used to… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Advice for womenDon't worry about not being able to grow super long hair. As long as it's a feminine style, you're fine. Some women just can't grow long hair, or they really don't like it when they do. Just make it feminine so there's no mistaking that you're a woman. Yeah, cursing/swearing (a lot) just makes you look like a bitch. Even if you're not. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Advice for womenGood for you. Best of luck to you. I really do mean that. And I am sorry about your dad's death and that your mom gave you bad advice. As you can see, your education and career have not brought you fulfillment or happiness. I sincerely wish you the best. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/19 06:11 PM |
| 17 | First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedbackI am just wondering if there are examples out there where a man can go through this with the wife, recognize his failings, improve, and then still have a good marriage with the same woman. Most of the time it doesn't work. I personally believe a wife affair is almost always fatal to a marriage. It's easier to come back from husband fucking around than it is a wife fucking around. This is because husbands and wives cheat for different reasons. When a husband cheats, most of the time he's not look… | /r/askMRP | 31/01/19 11:08 PM |
| 15 | Advice for Men.Frame just means the overall attitude and structure of your life and which then forms the structure and direction of the sexual relationship(s) you have. Relationships take place in either the man's frame, or the woman's frame. One person is always dominant in that relationship. In any relationship between two people, one person is dominant and the other is submissive. Which person occupies the dom and which occupies the sub may shift and change. But there is always a dom and a sub. The dom is t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 10:45 PM |
| 37 | Advice for Men.Yeah, what you said. I could write a post on this. I wish that the world was Blue Pill, where we can all be nice to each other, where I don't have to be an asshole to get what I want and need, and where girls are sexually attracted to the nice guys who walk them to and from their English class during junior year. Where you take a girl in a poodle skirt to the malt shop and you get one malt with two straws. I wish I lived in John Hughes' "She's Having A Baby" world, where you can be taciturn and … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 10:35 PM |
| 3 | "People take the nice guys bullshit too far. Nice guys do exist. They are genuinely nice. Their frustration does not mean they aren't really nice."done | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Cock carousel rider misses out on a good manI don't know if someone mentioned this already, but notice this: She meets "Dave" on OKC and dates for a month. Takes it slow on sex and tells him she wants to take it slow. Then she meets another guy on OKC and has first date sex with him after getting drunk. Here's what she says about it: Now the way I fucked up is I went on a date with another guy from OKC on friday and ended up getting a little too drunk and had sex with him, probably the worst sex I've ever had. Translation: Hooked up with … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Cock carousel rider misses out on a good manAnd he didn't explain. He just acted. there's nothing to be gained from explaining. Just do it and move on. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 06:19 PM |
| 3 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.So? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 04:17 PM |
| 2 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.But the choices in partner that young people make, not just partner choice btw but many aspects of life, are naturally different from when they are older. Spoken like a woman who knows nothing about what men do, or even what women do. Women follow the dual mating strategy. Fun hot guys for fun hot sex; then settle for less attractive men who will wife you up when you're older and less attractive. Women have great relationships with those hot guys; then use, abuse, exploit, and take advantage of … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 04:15 PM |
| – | "People take the nice guys bullshit too far. Nice guys do exist. They are genuinely nice. Their frustration does not mean they aren't really nice."This "nice guy" and "NiceGuy"TM stuff gets talked about a lot at that sub that rhymes with Derple Sill Rebate. Nice Guy: Genuinely nice guy. Affable. Friendly. Kind. Polite. Erroneously believes that his niceness is sexually attractive to women, and believes this because everyone in his life taught him this, and girls and women growing up told him this. And he believes it because as a young man he lacked the facts and frame of reference necessary to challenge it and because he believed others wo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 03:10 PM |
| 4 | "People take the nice guys bullshit too far. Nice guys do exist. They are genuinely nice. Their frustration does not mean they aren't really nice."i don't understand this response in context with the linked post. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/19 02:52 PM |
| 6 | Wants basic communication skills..... but still communicates like a 13y.o.why I support a guy who grabs women by the pussy. 1) Because a guy who doesn't give a shit that people get mad that he said "grab 'em by the pussy" is a guy that gets shit done. 2) Because it's fun to see liberals lose their shit over the guy. His political opponents are literally out of their minds every time he comes on the tube. They have absolutely NO idea how to deal with a man who says "i really don't care that this offends you, no, i will not apologize, I am right and you are wrong, and i… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/01/19 11:30 PM |
| 7 | Good questionHeather wants to know where all the sexy men are for marriage. Her definition of "good man" now is "sexy man who is willing to support me and marry me and be nice to me and pay all my bills". ten to 15 years ago, her definition of "good man" was "hot sexy man who fucks the shit out of me and is nice to me but doesn't hassle me and bother me all the time, sees me a couple or three times a week maybe, is hot enough that my friends want to fuck him, and he could cheat on me but he doesn't" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/01/19 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Advice for womenGross. Thanks for that visual. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/01/19 06:16 PM |
| 10 | Advice for womenIf it's just "amusement" why did you come here debating me and taking issue with the post? You get the last word, and then we can put an end to this increasingly pointless exchange. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 10:45 PM |
| 9 | Advice for womenI didn't say it was an attack. You may not comment "whatever you want" here. Perhaps you can do so elsewhere; but you can't do that here. We have our own subreddit rules and expect you to follow them. It's not about having a "safe space". It is simply that this is one place where telling men what they need to do isn't allowed. It might very well be that men need to step up their game to find a good woman. But that isn't the topic under discussion here. Saying "men do it too" is an effort to dist… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 10:33 PM |
| 11 | Advice for womenMeh. I wrote this only because someone asked me for advice. She asked, I told her. I won't make them listen. She who has ears to hear, let her hear. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Advice for womenYou're welcome. I hope this helped you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 07:50 PM |
| 11 | Advice for womenIf a woman wants a "good man", she needs to be a good woman. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 07:50 PM |
| 9 | Advice for womenFor sure. There are many women who follow this, and it works out for them. That said, AWALT, so caveat emptor. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 07:41 PM |
| 11 | Advice for womenI removed your comment because we're not about "but Men Do It Too" here. With all due respect, we are fully aware there are a lot of men who are assholes who don't take care of themselves. The entire world reminds us of all these things. The entire world tells us men how terrible and worthless we are. This is one place the world does not get to excuse women by pointing out the flaws and faults of men. you're welcome to comment here and talk with us. What you're not welcome to do is to detract fr… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Advice for womenThank you. I mean, the only reason I wrote this particular post was because a woman in a comment subthread asked me for advice on how a woman can avoid being a gold digger. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 07:10 PM |
| 50 | Advice for womenParticularly not those pointing to who richly deserve it, because I can muster up enough empathy to put myself in another's shoes, I also can muster up empathy. But only for those who don't complain that their predicament is always other people's fault. The women we write about here blame everyone else except themselves for their problems. If they want to know the cause of their problems, they need only look in a mirror. Women live life on easy mode, from cradle to grave. The modern American wom… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 06:30 PM |
| 37 | Advice for womenYes. Good point. This is the second best bit of advice in my opinion. The absolute worst problem most women have is that they're bitches. Bitchiness in all its forms (mental illness, emotional dysregulation, narcissism, self-centeredness, selfishness, lack of consideration, being demanding, etc. ) is the number one reason why women fail at getting what they want from men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Advice for womenYeah. Good points. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 06:14 PM |
| 115 | Advice for womenThere is no disrespect or awful things here. These are men talking to men. While we have no problem with women reading and commenting here, women are not the intended audience. This is a subreddit by men, for men, in which men talk to men about things important to men. This is a subreddit in which men educate each other about women to avoid, descriptions of women to avoid, and why such women should be avoided. We are not disrespectful to "women" and do not say awful things about "women". We are … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 10 | Advice for womenDon't try to change him. Yes. Exactly. Do not marry the guy unless you're happy with him just as he is. Because if he's worth a shit, he will not change, and he especially will not change for you. If he will change just because you want him to, you will lose attraction so fast it'll make your head spin, and your pussy will turn into the Sahara Desert, to your extreme unhappiness. He won't be able to pass shit tests. He won't be there to help or protect you. And your relationship will be doomed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Advice for womenThank you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 05:47 PM |
| 19 | Advice for womenI have no problem with girls going to college. I have no problem with girls working. What i have a problem with is girls PRIORITIZING college and career to the detriment of and exclusion of everything else, thinking that "it will just happen" or "there will always be great guys around for marriage later". No, it will not just happen, and no, there are not always great guys around. I would hope that the experience of the last 20 or so years would have shown us that. There are NOT always great guy… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 05:45 PM |
| 24 | Advice for womenpeople who think they can't learn basic house work and have a degree, you are stupid This. I am soooo tired of hearing how being a housewife is the hardest job in the world. No it is not. I can get basic housework done in 4 hours tops and stay on top of it. That's, if i don't have a job. even if i have a job, the basics can still get done adequately enough. There is this thought that housework has to be done absolutely perfectly. No it does not. It is not difficult. It can be time consuming. But… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 05:43 PM |
| 28 | Advice for womenYou're welcome. Glad you like. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 04:18 PM |
| 18 | Advice for womenI always enjoy reading these I write them only because I'm asked to. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/19 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Are you MAN enough to handle this recently forced off the carousel narcissist?These are the kinds of women that hook up with the very few attractive men between ages 35-50, and get married to the divorced schlubs looking for a mommy. "Looking for a MAN who can handle an independent and ambitious lady" Need a man who will hang around and can handle my cuntiness. ENFJ A Myers Briggs Personality Type. Wikipedia describes: ENFJs are idealist organizers, driven to implement their vision of what is best for humanity. They often act as catalysts for human growth because of their… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Links to Womanese to English Translators.Thanks for coming to our little corner. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 09:12 PM |
| 23 | “Interestingly, ‘the good ones ’didn't even show up until my mid-late twenties,’ 2,500 upvoteshere's the problem though: Those Beta bux guys aren't "good men". They're marriage minded and have some resources. They'll make decent dads. They're not sexually attractive, though, and that will frustrate and piss off these women as time wears on. It's why we have a 50% divorce rate in the US. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 07:49 PM |
| 11 | “Interestingly, ‘the good ones ’didn't even show up until my mid-late twenties,’ 2,500 upvotesSome bobs and billys were improving their SMVs. Lots of Bobs and Billys are schlubs, plodding along, and just waiting to get scooped up by some bitch who will use them, exploit them, spermjack them for their one designer kid, then frivorce them and take half their shit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 07:47 PM |
| 5 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.You can PM me with your view if you want. Up to you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 07:41 PM |
| 10 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.What i meant was "if the choice is between "a bitch" and "no woman", then the better choice is always "no woman"." It is always better to be with no one than to be with someone who is wrong for you, mean to you, and mistreats you. We're not really an advice subreddit. And the only things you can do are in your sphere of personal influence. "Society" is not going to be fixed, at least not in the West. I am assuming you're in the united states so this advice is for women in the US. If you're in an… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.No, a mod removed it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 06:45 PM |
| 2 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.It's from a removed link. EDIT: Here's the subthread where the removed comment was. At least you can get some context from it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 06:38 PM |
| 24 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.I didn't say there are no good women. This conversation has now devolved, as they always do, to "not all women are like that". OK. I'm not concerned about what is damaging to women. Women have done enough damage to themselves. Nothing I say or do could come anywhere close to the damage women have inflicted on themselves, each other, and society. I'm not here to fix society or help women's perceptions of men. I'm not even here to help "men". I'm here to put the truth out there for anyone who want… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 05:19 PM |
| 63 | This princess is back on the market and now accepting beta cuck applications!! Must be a real man, loyal, stable, conflict free and of course loves kids in a I-Don't-Want-Any-Of-My-Own kinda way.Even in my bluest of blue pill days, I knew this was bad news. I knew single moms were bad news. What we didn't have way back then (in the days when phones were used for talking to people) were pregnant women seeking to date. They actually had some sense of shame, some sense that doing that would be all sorts of inappropriate, and would either get abortions or put the kids up for adoption. Oh well. Let the cucking commence. Some desperate simp somewhere will wife that up. And adopt the kid. And … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 04:10 PM |
| 24 | Are you fucking kidding me?! (Comments for analysis.)He got good advice in that thread. This guy's 35 year old GF who he's been dating for 3 months is definitely a borderline, probably a drug addict, and possibly a stone cold psychopath. No 35 year old woman loses custody of her kid unless shes (a) mentally retarded to the point of needing a guardian; (b) certifiably insane, (c) has been living out of her car, or (d) hopelessly addicted to at least 2 intoxicants. One of those things is going on. He just hasnt been there long enough to see it. And … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 03:54 PM |
| 18 | She left a relationship to ride the carousel and now she wants the relationship back.I had a great guy and moved across country with him. I broke up with him because of my undiagnosed personality disorder, depression, mental issues, inability/unwillingness to bond, and inability to regulate my emotions. I sought solace in sex with other men and of course found that to be empty. Now I have to come onto a subreddit to write a stream of consciousness post about how I know breaking up with him was best for both of us, but not really. I wish I had him back because he loved me, and i … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 03:34 PM |
| 7 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Here's the real reason for the protest from Christofeminists. I do not like that you men are holding up a mirror to me. I do not like that you are judging ME because I have tattoos. I don't like that you judge me because I've sinned and had premarital sex. I don't like you calling me out for my sin. That hurts me. You are unfairly reminding me that I did things I should not have done, that I am a hypocrite, and that I don't really live by the things I profess to believe. And I don't live by thos… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 03:07 PM |
| 3 | I’m the woman of a LIFETIME! You must treat me the way I deserve to be treated, take me out to fancy dinners and travel with me! If you’re not as attractive as me then we’re NOT compatible! Not here for hookups...Where are all the real men at? (About section in comments)love it | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 02:53 PM |
| 3 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.If it makes you feel better to call me a hypocrite, fine. It means all you can really do here is feebly call me names. I've carried this little subdebate as far as I'm willing. I don't care what you think of this, I don't care that you don't like it, and I don't care that you think I'm a hypocrite. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 02:48 PM |
| 27 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.I don't think most women are ever going to really understand what's going on with today's men. We don't write these posts for women. Women are not the intended audience. Your reality is different because you're a woman. The issues we write about here are issues that women never face. Women have other women to write about and expound on the issues you face. Women's issues aren't my problem. You don't know any guys IRL who are like this because the men you date and know are all either naturals who… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 02:43 PM |
| 6 | I’m the woman of a LIFETIME! You must treat me the way I deserve to be treated, take me out to fancy dinners and travel with me! If you’re not as attractive as me then we’re NOT compatible! Not here for hookups...Where are all the real men at? (About section in comments)Awesome. I love these. Keeps the translator fresh. I can't copypast the original text here so you might have to toggle between this and the original. 33 years old. Very physically attractive. Top 10% for her age, top 15% overall. This woman is accustomed to being among the hottest women in the room wherever she is. She is hot, she knows she is hot, and she will make sure you know she is hot. She gets attention from all men and gets only with the most physically attractive men. Start at the top: … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 02:31 PM |
| 6 | I’m the woman of a LIFETIME! You must treat me the way I deserve to be treated, take me out to fancy dinners and travel with me! If you’re not as attractive as me then we’re NOT compatible! Not here for hookups...Where are all the real men at? (About section in comments)Do you have a car? Prefer not to say I am impoverished and unemployed, and my car was repo'd about a month or so ago | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 02:10 PM |
| 7 | I’m the woman of a LIFETIME! You must treat me the way I deserve to be treated, take me out to fancy dinners and travel with me! If you’re not as attractive as me then we’re NOT compatible! Not here for hookups...Where are all the real men at? (About section in comments)Do you drink: Prefer not to say I am an alcoholic | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 02:09 PM |
| 6 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.No, I can judge them for anything I want, anytime I want, regardless of my circumstances. If I'm fat and I reject women for being fat, it doesn't make me a "hypocrite". It just makes me honest. Now, i might not be able to date thin or fit or in-shape women. But I can still judge women on being fat despite my being fat myself. I can still judge them as unattractive and still say I don't want to date/fuck them. By this standard, women are "hypocrites" all the time. Women want the benefits of men's… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 01:58 PM |
| 27 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.This is a real issue. Men are shamed all over the place for having preferences on this. Men are just about ostracized from society for merely saying "I have a problem with having a relationship with a woman who fucked 30 guys before, because it means she either will cheat on me, or will use me and dump me, or doesn't know how to do this long term. I'll fuck her all day long. But I will not wife her up." The entire world absolutely excoriates men for this. And sure. He wouldn't be a good match if… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 01:50 PM |
| 61 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.We aren’t talking just about past experience; we’re talking about how many as well. It’s not about “can’t deal with” your past. It’s about “don’t want to deal with” your past and “don’t need those problems in my life”. If you have expectations for him, it’s only fair that he can have expectations for you. I’m also sure you’ll find plenty of hot guys to pump and dump you , and plenty of slobbering simps who’ll do whatever you demand. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 12:58 PM |
| 10 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.The slut will find a man to wife her up. He just won't be the most attractive man she could have locked down, had she done so 10 years and 10 men before. She could have done better. And she will know it, and she will make sure he knows it, and she will resent him for it forever. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/19 12:32 AM |
| 13 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Ouch. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 11:57 PM |
| 14 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Both men and women get to have their own preferences. Men can't dictate to women what men they'll fuck. Women can't dictate to men what women they want to fuck/commit to. If a man wants/prefers a slim, athletic woman, then he can reject women who are....not slim or athletic. And he can do that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 10:37 PM |
| 10 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Sure. Not many. But that's beside the point. Don't get lost in the weeds on "well, do you REALLY want a virgin cuz you have to wait for sex??" The point is, that's his decision to make based on criteria he alone selects. If he's willing to wait, that's his call. If he has to have a virgin, that's his call. (He'll probably fuck other women on the side. Also his call.) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 09:32 PM |
| 4 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.?? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 09:17 PM |
| 58 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Know why it gets to them? Because they know men don't like it. They know it devalues them. They know it opens them up to judgment. They know men can and will reject them if they knew the truth. And women hate judgment and rejection. And man, do they REALLY hate it when some beta judges and rejects them. They know hot, high value men will fuck them all day long and twice on Sunday, but won't commit to them. And they know those men won't commit to them because they can get higher value women (poss… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 09:01 PM |
| 13 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Hell. No one has to be honest or consistent about their standards. You, I, they, and everyone else has a right to do whatever they want with their standards. You can change them. You can lie about them. You can refuse to disclose them. You can apply them to some people and not to others. When you apply them, you can do so inconsistently. You do not have to be principled about how you judge and reject women. You can do whatever you want with them. Women do, and will, all the time. No reason men s… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 08:57 PM |
| 24 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.I agree that's true, that's what "a few" means. The point is that she doesn't get to decide whether men are OK with that. The point is that if he's not OK with a few, then he's not, and that's the end of the matter. it's no skin off her nose. She can move on and find plenty of men who will accept her having had "a few" prior sex partners. Women have a much, much easier time of this than men do. The average woman, having had something between 6 and 8 prior partners, will have absolutely no troubl… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 54 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.There was a dustup a few months ago where a Christian blogger named Lori Alexander wrote a post about the plainly observable fact that men prefer virgins with no tattoos and no debt for marriage. Pretty tame, right? The Christofeminist blogosphere had a shit fit. How DARE you men call these women names! How DARE you say that tattooed women who've had some sex and some college debt are terrible women! These are GREAT women! So what if they'd had sex or have tattoos! So what if they have some coll… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 08:18 PM |
| 34 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Yeah, that's true. But the point is that she doesn't get to decide what the parameters are. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 08:07 PM |
| 17 | PSA: When a woman says "A few sex partners SHOULD be OK", she means "You cannot judge women on criteria I don't like." Yes, you can.Yeah. It doesn't matter what they say, whether it's true or not. It might very well be true that a particular woman's had only 2 or 3 sex partners. She doesn't get to decide whether the man she's presenting herself to thinks that's OK. She doesn't get to make that call. He does. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Bouncer talesYep. Shave it. But, you must get a body. You must work out and lose weight. You can't be bald and flabby. Just won't work. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | When she changes her profile from "My pussy need some dick."*SMH | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30I'm thinking it probably is. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Don't Show Up.3 - they psychoanalyze you. Everything you do has some "dysfunctional" reason. They do this so they can control you and shame you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30How do we explain old farts (50+ year olds) who still desire hot men? Their ovaries are raisins by that age, so why? 1) Because her getting a hot man (usually but not always a younger man) validates and affirms her continued worth as an attractive woman. She can say to herself and the world "I've still got it. I can still get a hot man for sex." Women need that validation like humans need to breathe air. As women get to their late 40s, their sex lives start to resemble that of average young men … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 08:59 PM |
| 15 | She's been single since the end of 2017 and it's because she tries too hard to impress, obviously.First pic: Everyone look at my beta orbiter, and how he pathetically does the "lean in" in all these pics. Look at the last one, where he puts his head on my shoulder. Aww. There there, little one. Second pic I love this man because he brings fun, excitement, drama, unpredictability, and great sex. "I think ima date white guys only from now on LMAO" This man who brought fun, excitement, drama, unpredictability and great sex also wouldn't commit to me and one day just up and left me. I need a man… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 08:50 PM |
| 11 | Links to Womanese to English Translators."Are you still with [insert name of past/present girlfriend/wife]?" (I'm thinking about fucking you and I might, if you aren't with [name of GF/wife].) "We're not having sex." (I'm thinking of having sex with you. Maybe not tonight, but soon.) "I just don't want to get serious." (I don't want to get serious WITH YOU.) "I'm just not looking for a relationship now." (I don't want a relationship WITH YOU.) "You're a really nice guy." (I'm not sexually attracted to you.) "I have a boyfriend." (I'm n… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Woman leaves boyfriend cause he's to "boring" for her. Runs of to Europe and comes back to find no one wants to deal with her and no "decent" man wants her. Now her ex has money and she's instantly still in love with him.Jane would like to have a word with her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30You might find this interesting. I know exactly what you're talking about. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 06:31 PM |
| 3 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30It's on a sliding scale most of the time. Most women are kind of sexually attracted. Sort of. They're "willing" to have sex with their husbands. They'll do it. Like channel surfing or something to pass the time. It's OK. It'll do. Most women really do like their husbands, at least at first. Even love them. Love them like brothers, or like really really really good friends. They get along. They like doing some things together. They're comfortable. Get five or so years under your belt. Let life ha… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 05:55 PM |
| 4 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30Let me translate this: "Your judging women is making me feel bad. And because you made me feel bad, you are a bad man. I feel judged and possibly rejected." Too bad. Sorry-not sorry. He gets to decide the criteria he wants. Period. End of story. If that's "caveman", so be it. Women do not get to dictate to men what men should want, need, desire, think is important, think is attractive, or think is best for them. Women do not get to police men's wants, needs and desires. Women do not get to dicta… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 05:09 PM |
| 3 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30Take it easy on the debate. I'm going to give you a little leeway here. but we are not going to do this "men do it too" or shaming men here. If you feel a need to hamsterize women having premarital sex as "not a problem" because "men do it too", take it somewhere else. What you have a problem with is a man judging a woman on criteria HE ALONE selected. Well, too fucking bad. He gets to do that. Sorry-not sorry. If a man decides HIS woman having a few premarital sex partners is a problem, then it… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 05:05 PM |
| 4 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30Possibly, though wild mood swings can indicate a more serious problem, like borderline personality disorder or some other Cluster B disorder or a substance abuse problem. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 04:35 PM |
| 13 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30I would LOVE to see the comments to this one. Watching hamsters run at light speed. EDIT: I saw them. Actually they were pretty good and accurate. Summed up, it was "if you can't be attracted to him, cut him loose". I hope she does cut him loose. Her young age gives her more time. If she were older she would hamsterize and talk herself into "attraction" to him and ruin both their lives. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 04:13 PM |
| 43 | You guys will see this one feature in here when she turns 30It's well established when women enter their estrus/ovulation phase, they show more sexual attraction for bad boys and hot guys; and when they're not ovulating, they settle into nice guys and comfort. Reason: When she ovulates she's looking for alpha sperm. She's aware of her need for hot guy with good body, nice cock and great genes to get her pregnant. When she's not ovulating, she's looking for nice, affable, friendly guy to give her resources. So what she's saying is that when she ovulates, … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.These guys used to be much more common but are getting less common. Most of these men don't have the financial reserves this woman demands. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 03:17 PM |
| 8 | [28F] Divorced w/ children: "Why is it so hard to find a nice guy. Guess I'll never know."Translation of post and comments: I had a sort of kind of decent guy, I guess, but my marriage failed for one reason or another. Sperm donorfather of my kids. I'll eat fast food (if you're hot). I don't need flowers (just your dick, if you're hot). I'll do these prole white trash working class dates, if you're hot. My marriage failed and I know why - because I'm a bitch, because i picked a shitbag as my sperm donor kids' father, and because I work too hard and didn't prioritize my marriage or my… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 02:18 PM |
| 12 | [28F] Divorced w/ children: "Why is it so hard to find a nice guy. Guess I'll never know."Yeah, but girls will still tell you that they can get sex anytime they want and it doesnt really mean anything to them we want commitment (from hot sexy men howz come we cant get that) we want good men to commit to us (but only hot sexy men) is that too much to ask? They dont get it. Sex is not nothing. Sex is not worthless. They're still getting hot guys to fuck them. They're still getting attention. They're still getting hot dick. Only catch: They can't keep it, it's not theirs, they have to b… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 01:59 PM |
| 8 | [28F] Divorced w/ children: "Why is it so hard to find a nice guy. Guess I'll never know."Answers her own question. That's it right there: Alpha fucks, chooses a douche to father her children, ignores and friendzones non-douches. What more do you need to know? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 01:55 PM |
| 4 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.In so many words, yes. We were headed for divorce, so i just said "fuck it, I'm not changing or doing anything else anymore; I'm doing what i want. Stay or go, I don't care." That worked better than anything. She stayed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/19 01:49 PM |
| 11 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.It's really hard to explain to people. We always get the "talk to us about your feeeeelings and share with us and communicate with us and love us!" To which i always respond I tried that. Over and over and over again. I talked. ANd talked and talked and talked. And yelled and shouted and cried and prayed and begged and pleaded and scraped and commiserated and shared. I tried changing, I tried not changing. I tried talking in different ways. I tried fighting. I tried not fighting. I did everythin… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 08:57 PM |
| 10 | Broke up with her lovely boyfriend from college to discover new dick..ehm.. worlds. 10 years later, her SMV drops, no one wifes her up. and she's dreaming of getting back together with him, even willing to risk his new relationship.Translation: My career, having fun, and fucking other guys were more important than finding a man i can be sexually attracted to, doing what i can for him, loving him, supporting him in his mission and life purpose, and being there for him. And now I've got my career, had fun and got to fuck other guys, now finding a man is important to me. I should be able to get one of those men, but I can't. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 06:42 PM |
| 20 | Broke up with her lovely boyfriend from college to discover new dick..ehm.. worlds. 10 years later, her SMV drops, no one wifes her up. and she's dreaming of getting back together with him, even willing to risk his new relationship."See the world" = fuck strange cock, go fuck other guys | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 06:39 PM |
| 3 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.Well, the bottom 80% get some sex, sometimes. It goes something like this: top 10%: 9s, 10s Swimming in pussy. Get laid with no effort. Next 10%: Plenty of pussy. get laid with little effort. Next 10%: 8s, a few 7s Can get laid with a lot of effort, occasional ONS or short term relationship, getting the castoffs of the top 20%. Usually have to commit. Get average amounts of sex, once a week or once every other week. Next 30%: 4s through 6s: Cannot get anything short term. Only way they can get l… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 05:25 PM |
| 6 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.every man, EVERY man, must learn AF/BB. It is the way of the world now. Men have no excuse for not knowing AF/BB. Alphas lay, betas pay. Alpha seed, beta need. Alphas fornicate, betas masturbate. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Broke up with her lovely boyfriend from college to discover new dick..ehm.. worlds. 10 years later, her SMV drops, no one wifes her up. and she's dreaming of getting back together with him, even willing to risk his new relationship.women are wired to forget a man ever existed the moment he is no longer committed to her or she can't keep him attached to her. Or, when she simply has no further use for him. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 04:04 PM |
| 6 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.Here's a good start. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 03:46 PM |
| 20 | Broke up with her lovely boyfriend from college to discover new dick..ehm.. worlds. 10 years later, her SMV drops, no one wifes her up. and she's dreaming of getting back together with him, even willing to risk his new relationship.Leave them alone. I had a great girl my freshman and sophomore years of college. I broke her heart. Except for a couple of instances of running into her back when we were in school, I left her alone. To do otherwise would be the height of cruelty. We have nothing to talk about. The only reason i would have to actually contact her would be morbid creepy curiosity. And other than her having hated me for a year or so and my being pushed aside for the guy who became her husband, I'm pretty sure she … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | “Just because I slept with them on the first night theyre less interested because Im now a slut who sleeps around with everyone? Hm”it's kinda gross actually | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 03:25 PM |
| 13 | [21F] "I'm a stripper with NO luck finding a gentleman who 100% respects me and treats me like the princess I am". If you read "princess" like "prince$$", it makes more sense.A few thoughts. --When women say they want "respect", they mean they want the respect that men give other men. They want admiration and deference. Or, at the very least, they want to be seen as an equal, a peer. In my book, most women don't get those levels of respect because they haven't been earned. Don't ever "respect" a woman you're fucking or in a relationship with. She really doesn't want you to "respect" her, and if you do "respect" her, you will soon not be fucking her or in a relationsh… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 03:05 PM |
| 14 | About to be born againHai guyz! Here's what I left out of my profile! --Reformed slut --started having sex at 15, did a DP a few times --finally figured out that the slut ho-bag lifestyle wasn't getting me that hot sexy Christian man i could show my parents and friends --so here i am, having to settle, because I couldn't get one of the hot guys i was fucking to commit to me --but I know all I have to put in here are the words "christian", "conservative", "old fashion(ed)," "hopeless romantic", and "start a family", a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | I'm A Single Mom But I Refuse To Date A Single Dadtranslation: I'm selfish, self centered, and self absorbed. The entire world revolves around me. Men must serve my interests, always, at all times. I will never ever give one inch, while men must compromise all the way. I will never ever meet a man halfway. I'll come 1%, he has to come the other 99%. I will never ever give you anything you want; but you must give me everything I want. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Recently single, mother of two, requesting 6”2, hilarious rich guy. 50k in the UK is wayyyy above the average wage btwMake no mistake about this, gents: This woman will get what she wants. Some beta simp chump making a good 60K a year will wife that up in a heartbeat because that's the hottest piece of ass he's ever gotten to even breathe the same air as, much less date, much less get a starfish fuck from. She'll land on her feet. Women with any looks and sense at all always do. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 02:18 PM |
| 11 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.Nah. I read "playboy" as "man who can get casual sex from a lot of women". Most men can't get casual sex from a lot of women, even if they have good jobs and waste their money. I know tons, TONS, of men with good jobs who can't get shit from women. Used to be if you had a good job, you could get someone interested in you for a long term relationship. Not any more - women have their own jobs and they don't need you. They have to WANT you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 6 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.It's been done. But i'll see if i can find one that's already been done. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 01:26 PM |
| 50 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.Good bot | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 12:16 AM |
| 28 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.Lot more men not marrying, at least not until later. Like, much later, late 30s or early 40s. Most people do still get married. I don't think most men become players. I think for a lot of men it gets easier to get laid as they get older. But most men between age 35 and 55 are not fucking 22 year old bar sluts and grad students. Most men of that vintage are getting STRs and fits-and-starts relationships with women roughly their own ages. That's especially divorced men and men who didn't marry. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 11:27 PM |
| 30 | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.Or, they are like this woman: Who will never ever compromise. Who will expect the sun, moon and stars from him, with no discussion of what she will offer him. Who will accept a boring beta she isn't sexually attracted to and then frivorce him 10 years and 2 kids later because she's "just not haaaaaaappy". Let me tell you what will happen with her. She'll get one of these guys, and then get immediately frustrated with him because he's so.... boring. She will not want to fuck him. And she won't kn… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 11:17 PM |
| – | A "Red Pilled Woman" Asks The Big Question at Purple Pill Debate.Note: 1) Women always define "good man" in ways that serve the feminine imperative. Her definition is "has money I can use, is minimally good looking, low N, and is boring." Her definition is essentially boring useful think-ahead plan-ahead beta with money she can utilize. 2) There used to be lots of men like this. Not so many now. Know why? Because being this is not rewarded anymore, if it ever was. Men like this are laughed at, used, and taken advantage of, and ultimately rejected. Do not thin… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.Black poindexter = Carlton | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 10:42 PM |
| 12 | The inverse of a guy in the friendzone: a woman who cannot get a commitment from her FWB. She would make a great gf, she swears!Inverse of the friendzone: The Fuckzone. The woman who puts out in the hopes that rapid sex will get a high value man to commit. Too bad she doesn't realize: Men aren't machines you put sex coins into and then you get a boyfriend/commitment. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.There's also no such thing as a vagina carousel, because the term "carousel" indicates that taking a ride is as easy as finding a horsie you like and hopping on for your turn. Most men don't do that, because they can't. Because each man must build himself and then build his own carousel from the ground up, with no help, and in fact with everyone else tearing down the work he does. So he doesn't just get to "hop on". He has to build it first, while everyone else does their level best to burn down… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 09:30 PM |
| 9 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.Yep. Because she's just going to do it anyway. But now she'll lie about it and cheat on him behind his back. The very suggestion for an open relationship -- not saying "I am going to do this" or even "I want an open relationship", but just floating the trial balloon, just "Hey, hun, what do you think about us maybe thinking about doing an open relationship? Just thinking out loud here." is her essentially telling you this: Hubby/BF, you really just don't do it for me. I'm really not sexually att… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 09:23 PM |
| 8 | The inverse of a guy in the friendzone: a woman who cannot get a commitment from her FWB. She would make a great gf, she swears!So I’ve been seeing this guy pretty regularly for the past 3, almost 4 months. We have been hooking up and drinking together about once a week. This started right after I broke up with my ex so I thought of this guy as kind of a rebound... Women always put the best face on their sexual conduct. They don't have a fuckbuddy or a FWB. They're "seeing" a guy(s). They're "dating" a man (men). No, dear, you were not "seeing" this guy. He's your fuckbuddy. At best you two are FwBs. On at least one of t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Advice: 28 y/o Childless Female.Copying the OP in case it is deleted. Hi, I am a 28 year old childless female and I would like your brutal, honest advice. I do not know if this is against the rules of the subreddit, but I think that you men (and some women) would be the best people to ask for a reality check. Background: My mother and I do not have a good relationship at all, but my relationship with my father is the best that I have in my family. They have been divorced for 26 years, and they met when my mother paged my fathe… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 4 | I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To DateMen are afraid to make moves because they don't want to lose their jobs or have what they do blasted across social media. Men are afraid to make moves because one wrong move, one wrong thing said, you push too hard, you come on too strong, could land you in jail or homeless or jobless or make you a defendant in a career destroying bankrupting lawsuit. It used to be if you came on too strong or offended some girl, the only real consequence was that you couldn't fuck her or her friends. Now? The c… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 06:33 PM |
| 5 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.I (23F) have been dating my boyfriend (22M) for 1.5 years and I want to be with him in the long run... Eventually. I can tell he wants to be together for a long time ("forever") but I feel like I'm too young to be in a serious relationship right now. I'm currently in a serious relationship with my boyfriend but I'm too young for that. I don't really know what I want. Yes I do! I want to have my cake and eat it too. I want to keep my boyfriend, but i want to have sex with other men. I want him to… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | I’m overweight but you can’t be!This is typical abundance mentality. Fact is, she can be chubby and as long as she's cute, there'll be no shortage of decent men who would relationship her. There will be hot men who will put her on the roster as the second or third string booty call - the chick called on to do the heavy lifting when the first string hotties are doing someone something else. The chick called on at 12 midnight when he needs to slum it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 06:05 PM |
| 7 | “Just because I slept with them on the first night theyre less interested because Im now a slut who sleeps around with everyone? Hm”Some girls just have hanging labia. Not sure that taking 20 or so cocks gives them an Arby's pussy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 06:02 PM |
| 7 | how did I end up single, alone, and worthless? where are all the good men! the patriarchy did this!Or do what shittons of women did before: get some college, get a job working for a company, fuck a few of the men there, marry one of them, and quit. Or fuck the boss, marry him, and quit. And both types of women usually did just fine for the rest of their lives. Sure, maybe a few - A FEW - of those men cheated on their wives. So what? Most didn't, because most men CANNOT cheat. And if those men could cheat, most of those women stayed, because (1) he was the best she had ever done and could do a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 05:55 PM |
| 2 | She's currently 19. Kids father has never even seen the baby. She's been single for more than 2 years. Quit her job at McDonalds and now spends most of her time posting get rich quick scams of FB.Good point. All we ever hear about is "how the man is the problem" and "the men are the problem here" and "but men do it too!" I don't care. I hear 24/7/365 about all the shit men do. I hear all the time about the problems men cause. That is all causing us to be oblivious to what women are doing to cause problems. We need to spend just a little time focusing on what women are doing to cause the problems so men can see it. It's fine to acknowledge men cause problems in the 5 billion other places … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | All these demands, but what do you bring to the table??I wonder what her response would be? Entitled asshole! Who do you think you are demanding all that, you sexist throwback pig! /s | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Advice: 28 y/o Childless Female.r/redpillwives would be better than r/redpillwomen. r/redpillwomen has a lot of TRP male moderators and commenters who will tell you to be happy with being a man's "plate" and maybe settling for a long term relationship that doesn't involve marriage. They're giving you advice men would give you for the purpose of keeping you where you are now - riding the ponies on the carousel and not getting what you want from a man. r/redpillwives used to do a much, much better job of this. Where you are goin… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Advice: 28 y/o Childless Female.Nope. We're the best people to ask for advice. She's not going to get it from women. Women will just pat her on the head, say "you go gurl!" and send her back out. Red Pill Wives would do a better job, or at least it used to. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Advice: 28 y/o Childless Female.Hi OP. I am going to assume a few things that might or might not be true. I will assume that you really are who you represent yourself to be. I will assume that that photo you linked to at the end of your post is you. I will also assume you're not trolling, and you're sincere in your request for advice and brutal honesty. I question whether I'm being trolled here, because your post shows a level of insight most women don't seem to have. Your post writes and sounds like a man disguising his writi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Are you tall, educated, and want kids? Are you in luck!Gross | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Advice: 28 y/o Childless Female.I will give this a full write up in the morning. OP, if everything you say is true and this is a genuine post, there is hope for you. But you don’t have a lot of time. You need to get to work on this today. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Today. At the end of your post, is that a link to a photo of you? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.I'm convinced a lot of white women are dating black men because of --black men are more masculine, or are perceived as more masculine, than most white men --perceived "bad boy"/rebel --rebelling against parents' wishes --so low value they can't date white men And yeah, a lot of black men want to date white women because --"ratchets" --unattractive black women --perceived higher status of white women vs. black women --dating/fucking a white woman transfers her higher status to him | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/01/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.You might be correct that socioeconomics has something to do with the failure of BM/WW pairings. I don't need to know WHY those pairings fail more often than other pairings; I just need to know that they DO fail more often. I suspect based on observation that there's lots of factors at play in BM/WW pair failures. --immaturity and inexperience --insurmountable cultural differences and pressures --pressures from family and friends --his need for more pussy and his inability to restrain himself --… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 10:50 PM |
| 6 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.Yes to all of it, young padawan. People make decisions about these things all the time. It's just that in most of the world, men, especially white men, are not allowed to talk about making those decisions, or the bases for the decisions. Women are allowed to. Black men have been talking about this for a long time now. (Black women don't like this and they give as good as they get, but black men are mostly out of fucks to give about that.) We discriminate all the time when it comes to who to date… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Tramp Pantylamb is done with the fuck boys in life and now wants a nice guy to treat her right.I just want a nice guy who will treat me right. Tired of the games and the players. I wanna settle down and get me a nice guy to get married to. --Says young Shelfie woman showing ass cheek | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Something about cakeIf all she can get is attractive men who want sex, and unattractive men offering commitment, and she can't get a merger to "attractive sexy man offering commitment", then she needs to do one or both: 1) Lower her standards 2) Get more attractive. Offer more. Be prettier. Lose weight. Learn domestic skills. Be nicer. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.So the only interracial pairings with failure rates lower than WM/WW are AM/WW and WM/AW The highest divorce rates are BM/BW, followed by BM/WW. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.Help us explain the table. Does the table tell us that the highest rates of divorce, at the top, are BM/BW marriages marriages? Then the next highest rate is BM/WW? Then the next highest are black/white pairings in general, then WM/BW? And so on? Down to the lowest divorce rates are in marriages where M and W are both Asian? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.I dunno man. I don't necessarily have a good answer for you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.Yeah, biracial or fully black is how it works in practice in the US with children of one black and one white parent. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 05:10 PM |
| 13 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.People might not like it, but you do have a right to be racist hold prejudices about race in dating, mating, sex and marriage, and make decisions based on those prejudices. FIFY. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 03:52 PM |
| 10 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.Except that having racial dating preferences is not racist in any way, shape, manner or form. It might be prejudiced. But, then, people are allowed to have prejudices in dating, mating, sex, reproduction, and marriage. Even if they're not "allowed" to have prejudices, they still have those prejudices and act upon and make decisions based on those prejudices. If a black woman dates only black men because she believes white men are not sexy enough, not attractive enough, and act in certain ways sh… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.There's more to making a long term relationship work than sexual attraction and mutual affection. Somewhere, that black woman you know is saying much the same things, most likely: I loved 496466. I really did. I was really happy with him. I met his family. I was with him a long time, and we had a good thing going. But I knew I'd never marry him. I never told him this, but I would never and could never have a white child in my life. I think he would never have been happy having a black wife. For … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 03:40 PM |
| 9 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.if you see those, report them and they'll be banned. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.OK. I really don't think that posting or participating here is your cup of tea. So let's part ways here. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.The mere mention of race in conjunction with dating is not racism. No, I don't know what comments you're referring to. Racist comments are removed and the commenters are banned. I suspect you have a different definition of "racism" than the moderators do. If you see comments you think are racist or violate the guidelines, report them and the moderators will take care of it. If you have other questions or statements, take them to modmail. I don't see that you've commented here much. You might wan… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 02:43 PM |
| 16 | Setting The Record Straight on Racial Preferences in Dating.A few are, and they're removed and banned. Saying "I don't want to support a woman with a biracial child" is not racist. Saying "I don't want to date a woman with a biracial child" is not racist. Refusing to date or marry a woman with a biracial child is not racist. Refusing to be the second choice financial bailout for a woman with a biracial child whose father has abandoned that child, is not racist. Pointing out that these things happen is not racist. Pointing out that a woman who bore a chil… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/01/19 02:30 PM |
| 33 | “I have no problem getting a guy to spend the night. People always ask how I’m still single.”Best comment. The world is full of nice, kind, friendly, genuinely good and affable men. They take girls they meet on the major OLD sites on dinner dates. Then they never hear from them again. "I can get these girls to go on dates with me! I just can't get relationships with them!" "I can get these girls to eat food and drink booze that I pay for! I just can't get them into bed!" Why no the gurlz wanna fuck me? Why iz I just a walking talking ATM for gurlz to take money from? Why no the guyz wan… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 05:55 PM |
| 5 | One of Our Patron Saints Holds Forth on Being Damaged Goods.Women can choose whatever men they want, for whatever reasons they want. They can pick hot guys for sex. They can pick beta bitchbois for marriage. What they CANNOT do is expect to be relieved of the consequences of those choices. What I WILL NOT LET THEM do is complain with impunity about the consequences which naturally and logically flowed from their choices and decisions. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 04:34 PM |
| 5 | One of Our Patron Saints Holds Forth on Being Damaged Goods.Really? $urely you mu$t under$tand $ome women'$ rea$on$ for doing tho$e thing$. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 04:32 PM |
| 40 | Not her fault she's a single mom, it's everyone else's.Some fucks just can't see the facts, or see the facts and then let their feelings get out of hand. Listen you fucktards: I care about facts. I don't care about your feelings. Want to talk facts? Fine. Want to talk about what happens when interracial couplings happen? I'm all for it. But i don't give half a shit about how you FEEL about any of it. And I don't care about the fact that certain fucktards wish it was them fucking and chucking her, and not some black kid. Talk about facts, not feeling… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 02:28 PM |
| 207 | Not her fault she's a single mom, it's everyone else's.Yeah, he's a piece of shit for knocking her up and skipping out. And she's stupid. The point is that while some women have a preference for dating men of other races it isn't racist to say that. It also isn't racist to say that this black man knocking up this white girl and then skipping out on her is to be expected, because statistically that's what happens. She's stupid for letting a black man knock her up not because of the child or her racial preferences. She's stupid because she practically… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 14 | Not her fault she's a single mom, it's everyone else's.Yeah, he's a piece of shit for knocking her up and skipping out. And she's stupid. The point is that while some women have a preference for dating men of other races it isn't racist to say that. It also isn't racist to say that this black man knocking up this white girl and then skipping out on her is to be expected, because statistically that's what happens. The black man/white woman interracial coupling has by far and away the highest failure rates among all male-female pairings. They almost a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 350 | Not her fault she's a single mom, it's everyone else's.Look at how single motherhood aged this young woman. First picture, top left, dated Nov 29, 2017. Cute. Hopeful. Pretty smile. Cheerful. She's probably 21 or 22. Third picture, right, dated January 15, 2019 (two days ago): Forlorn. Disheveled. Despondent. Falling apart. Unhappy. Cynical smirk. Saddled with burden and obligation she's facing alone. She's only 24 at the most. She's supposed to be at the peak of her SMV and it's already gone. She's already careening toward The Wall. Most guys would… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 01:55 PM |
| 9 | One of Our Patron Saints Holds Forth on Being Damaged Goods.and the divorce lawyers. and the feminists. and the bloggers at Jezebel and Feministing. And the WaPoChiTribNYSlimesLATABCCBSNBCCNBCMSNBC. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 09:25 PM |
| 17 | One of Our Patron Saints Holds Forth on Being Damaged Goods.She could be a Dubai porta potty. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 09:20 PM |
| 20 | Amy Horton just published another article today! She gives advice to single women. Do not settle for anyone but your magical soulmate. It is worth the wait, be patient.So.... Just be nice, just be yourself, and someday someone will love you just for who you are. And he will show up when you least expect him to. And he will be your Soulmate, your Special Snowflake. He is The Most Perfectest Man Ever. Despite my total and utter inability to get this for myself, I am supremely confident that you will get this for yourself. I know what I am talking about. You should totally listen to me cuz I knows what I am talking about. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 09:17 PM |
| 42 | One of Our Patron Saints Holds Forth on Being Damaged Goods.I can't figure this out. It could be a couple of things. 1) Damaged women really don't know or understand what they are doing. 2) They do know what they're doing. They just don't want to write about it and confess what they did, because of shame, embarrassment, guilt, or whatever other negative feelings facing the truth produces. The more i think about this, the more i suspect it's the latter. Women sleep with men but don't talk about it. Women do all sorts of things with all sorts of people sav… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Don't Show Up.can't disagree with that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Don't Show Up.fucking brilliant Be attractive. Don't take any of them seriously. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Anecdotally, from my observation, yes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | OP’s boyfriend walks out on her after finding out her body count is higher than Ted Bundy’sIn this particular case and based on the question presented, the number isn't the problem. If she loves this man and wants to be intimate with him, she should want him to know all of her. Everything about her. She can't or won't do that. She wants to hold back part of herself because her fear is more important to her than her relationship with a man she says she loves. That makes her an asshole. She won't let go of him despite the fact that that's best, and she won't accept his judgment of her w… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Our good old friend Amy Horton is at it again. Upset that men won't spoil her rotten when taking her out on dates.Amy Horton's writings are a gold mine of WAATGM/Red Pill goodness. I have no idea when this was written, i really don't. Because according to her website "amyhorton - dot - net", she is now in a relationship. At least that's what the latest post there says. If you want to know what a damaged goods woman looks like, this is the post for you. It's got it all: heartbreak, anxiety attacks, self-protection, animosity, suspicion, distrust, dysfunction, fear, distorted views on men and relationships, u… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 02:37 PM |
| 39 | [20F] "I have a 2 year old daughter and currently pregnant with my son. Looking for the right guy who will be there for my kids and I, and treat us the way we deserve to be treated."The "pregnant baby mama looking for beta provider after alpha baby daddy skipped out" profiles sure are getting more common, aren't they? This one is the "short bus special ed" version. Or the "Birth control? What's that?" edition. Or the "no shame I really just need a guy's money" edition. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 02:36 PM |
| 40 | GF gets drunk and accidentally slips into a dickMy thoughts: 1) She'd planned this for a long time. She planned logistics by getting the dogsitting house. She told her BF that this was staff only; no significant others. She picked out the guy 2) She'd either been fucking him for a while before this staff party; or she kept on fucking him afterwards. (Notice her standoffishness after the party: Bitchiness, refusing sex. 3) The BF is a beta bitchboi. One of his GF's friends derisively calls him "Garfield" - like the cartoon cat. Fat, slovenly, … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | (X-Post)80 different dudes by age 22 and no shame at allThis was posted yesterday here. Good comments there too. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Here you go. you could have googled that, you know. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Why Men Don't Show Up.If a woman made it to age 30 without a marriage proposal or is still single, there's a reason. Something went very, very wrong somewhere. Usually it's one or more of the following: --she's a bitch --she's a slut --she's crazy - mental illness, emotional disturbance, depression, addiction, personality disorder (undiagnosed or recently diagnosed) --she's unavailable - education/job/travel/activity --she's physically unattractive | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 02:03 PM |
| 8 | OP’s boyfriend walks out on her after finding out her body count is higher than Ted Bundy’sshe's an asshole because she's a liar. She doesn't really love him. If she did love him she would not hesitate to tell him the truth. She would risk his judgment and rejection and be OK with it no matter what happens. this is the start of what will be years of wondering why the quality men don't want to marry her, and only want to fuck her and leave. That's the money shot right there. High value men are going to pump and dump her. And sadly, most people will not tell her the truth about this bec… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 12:31 AM |
| 16 | OP’s boyfriend walks out on her after finding out her body count is higher than Ted Bundy’sThe funny thing is, if i posted that stickied comment over at AITA, I'd probably get banned for "slut shaming". When that's not slut shaming at all. It's just "You're the asshole because you can't accept that your past bothers him, and if you really loved him his rejection of you because of that past should be OK with you. You're the asshole because you resisted telling him the truth. You're the asshole because you say you love him, but you really don't, because if you did you would have told hi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | I don't do coffee dates lolI've always heard coffee is not good for dates because you don't want your date hyped up and hopped up on caffeine. You want her mellowed out on alcohol. You don't want dinner or food either. You don't want her stomach all full of food which will just give her gas, indigestion, or heartburn. You don't want her carrying a brick in her stomach. She won't feel like having sex later. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 12:23 AM |
| 6 | I don't do coffee dates lolYou're getting off light. Don't make a scene, don't bitch and complain. Pay the tab, give her cash for a ride home, and leave. Just my thought. You don't want to be a total asshole dickhead about it; you don't want her to blast you on social media and have it go viral. End it, toss the bill on the table, and politely and quickly excuse yourself. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 12:18 AM |
| 15 | I don't do coffee dates lolThis reminds me of Roosh's stance on this, which i read long ago. Except he would shame her. Say something like "you lied to me. You don't look like your pictures. Goodbye". I have to say, i don't see the point. Just delete, block and move on.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Sorry, not going to let that much negativity on this board. If you really feel this way, turn off your computer and go get help. Right now. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 12:04 AM |
| 25 | Why Men Don't Show Up.I probably should have added "not insane". Not "well adjusted". Not "mentally healthy". All she has to be is "not insane". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:58 PM |
| 30 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Most therapists are worthless. 1) The APA has come out with guidelines on treating men - "Masculinity is toxic; traditional masculinity is "harmful"." 2) Any therapist worth his/her salt should do the following: "You are not coming in here once a week and talking for years to me. I don't want to listen to you whine and complain for years on end about how shitty your life is while you do nothing to improve it. I will diagnose you and give you homework, and you will do that work and report to me o… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Nope. We don't contact OPs. Maybe she'll read it. If she does, well, OK. But, I doubt she'll ever see this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:34 PM |
| 17 | I don't do coffee dates lolGood points all. If she's interested, she'll agree to what you propose or give you another date. If she says "i'm not available that date" and doesn't propose another date, she's not interested. NEXT. If she says "I don't want to do that", reiterate that's what you want to do. If she still balks, NEXT. If she doesn't reply to one text, maybe an oversight. If she doesn't reply to two texts, she's not interested. NEXT. If you text her again after that, you're wasting your time and you're creeping … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Most of us are here for the lulz. Mostly, I don't care about loser guys who don't have their shit together. Most of those guys are such because that's what they want to be and they don't care. If they don't care, I see no reason why I should. In my view, most men pretty much know what their "leagues" are, and stay within them. Most men learn pretty early on what they can pull and what they can't. Thanks for your input. feel free to stick around. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Sure, no problem. Generally we're not a dating advice or sex advice site. We just like teaching guys about the true nature of women, and laughing at women who richly deserve to be laughed at. You're welcome to comment and browse around. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:22 PM |
| 13 | Why Men Don't Show Up.You might not like what u/determinedlogic99 is telling us, but he's speaking truth. It's how it is: If you're tall and good looking, in shape and a cop, women love that. So i totally believe if he is what he says he is, he's getting more ass than a toilet seat, especially if he lives in a major metro. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:18 PM |
| 30 | I don't do coffee dates lolAdmittedly, coffee date is lame. So is "what are you expecting from Tinder?" Drink dates only, around 8 or 9 pm. And don't ever ask what a woman expects from an online dating/hookup app. It's the same every time: If you're hot, she expects to get laid; if you're not, she expects to get paid. If you're hot, she's down for a hookup; if you're not, she'll milk you for everything you're worth. Invite her for a drink, no more than an hour. That's more than enough time for her to know whether she's at… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 11:12 PM |
| 32 | Why Men Don't Show Up.It's not an accident that most therapists are themselves in therapy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Don't Show Up.No debating, sweetheart. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 09:46 PM |
| 29 | OP’s boyfriend walks out on her after finding out her body count is higher than Ted Bundy’sThis doesn't surprise me at all. It's very very easy for a woman to get laid. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 09:28 PM |
| 15 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Meh. Men didn't nope out because the post is full of shaming language or because the author was passive aggressively snarky. Men passed on it because the men who get laid do so without going to meetups and because most of the rest of the men will have to do more work than the women are worth. Most men say "yeah, sorry-not sorry, not paying full price for well-worn goods" and "yeah, sorry-not sorry, not gonna bust my ass to impress some worn out cynical 37 year old divorcee who will eventually ju… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 09:27 PM |
| 23 | Single moms been posting this latelyNo pussy is worth my own self respect, though. Because we both know you won't let me anywhere near your heart and you won't let me do what needs to be done with your child. We both know you're about getting money, time and resources from me, while you offer me nothing but a used up banged out body and a stack of bills to pay. No thanks. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 09:24 PM |
| 10 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Great comment. Thank you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 09:05 PM |
| 29 | OP’s boyfriend walks out on her after finding out her body count is higher than Ted Bundy’sAs I said up there -- If she really loved this man, really cared about him, she should want him to know her. All of her. Every bit of her. Women are always saying they want intimacy with a man. Well, "intimacy" means closeness, inside the inner sanctum, knowing everything. To know and be known. Fully. "Intimacy" is not "You can know what i want you to know" or "I'll tell you what I think you want to hear." It's honesty. Total and complete honesty. Your life laid out like an open book. That's wha… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 08:58 PM |
| 15 | Why Men Don't Show Up.And I'm not even saying 80% of men are incels. Most of that bottom 80% of men get some sex sometimes. Most of them are not living in grinding inceldom. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 08:54 PM |
| – | OP’s boyfriend walks out on her after finding out her body count is higher than Ted Bundy’sShe's the asshole. The number isn't the problem. The problem is the fact that she sees this as a guy she wants to marry and says she loves him, or feels like she loves him, and yet can't look him in the eye on this subject. What we don't know is if he felt like he loved her and wanted to marry her. I've said before, I'll say again: If you're a man, and a woman is demanding exclusivity and unfettered access to your time, money and resources, you're entitled to know whatever you want to know. here… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 08:49 PM |
| 8 | Why Men Don't Show Up.First, we care about not fat, pretty, and nice. Then, once we get that out of the way, then we can talk about all the cool shit you've done and you know. Yes, the other things we care about. Eventually. After not fat, pretty, and nice. But intelligence, pedigree, education, and job are not attractive. They are things we might want. But they are not attractive. They are not things that capture a man's interest. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 08:10 PM |
| 18 | Our good old friend Amy Horton is at it again. Upset that men won't spoil her rotten when taking her out on dates.This is a great point. If she is not showing clear interest in you, if she is not chasing you, if she is not making her interest crystal clear, move on. Let her drop and move on. She's either interested or she's not. She's either sexually attracted, or she's not. You aren't going to "get her to like you". She either already likes you, or she doesn't. It really is counterintuitive because men are really trained hard that they have to do all this work, show all this interest, chase her hard, and l… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 07:52 PM |
| 32 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Nor would they require help from a meetup or online dating. For women who are not mentally retarded, have some common sense, and are not ugly or fat, (in other words, at least 65% of all females over age 18) meeting men is the Easiest. Thing. In. The. World. Valuable women do not need online dating or meetups to meet men. If they don't have the looks, connections or social aptitude to meet men outside of online dating or meetups, then they aren't all that, are they? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 07:47 PM |
| 12 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Well, yeah, true. It's stated this way for generalization and for hyperbole. Sure, those bottom 80%ers can get someone. But they'll have to work for it, and they'll have to spend for it, and they'll always be on edge waiting for that sword of Damocles to fall, and even then they might not get what they're "paying" and "working" for. Most men get some sex, sometimes. It's just that for an event like this, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Why is an average guy going to show up there and just get… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 97 | Why Men Don't Show Up.It's not even unemployed, uneducated or great mom material. It's just --are you not fat? --are you pretty? --are you not a bitch? Even this is too much to ask nowadays. I'm not asking for hot or nice. I'm asking for "pretty to me" and "not a bitch". "Pretty to me" and "not a bitch" is someone i can work with. "Pretty to me" and "not a bitch" is a really, REALLY low bar. And a lot of women can't meet even that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 06:54 PM |
| 47 | Why Men Don't Show Up.They're NPCs. They're sexual blanks. They're "males". They register only as male meatbags. Women don't see them as men. Just as "males". Barely even human. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 06:38 PM |
| 78 | Why Men Don't Show Up.every hot girl has at least one FWB set up. It's just another manifestation of branch-swinging. Accept it and respond accordingly - limit your investment until you see if she's really into you; if she's not obviously into you, move on. This rule/observation is one of the last hurdles most red pilled men clear; one of the last red pill principles most men finally accept. It's one of the last bits of the pill that gets down and digested. It's just a very, very difficult thing to face - that girl y… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 06:36 PM |
| 25 | Why Men Don't Show Up.No, it's anecdotal. Like, tens of thousands of anecdotes. Just watching women. Just watching what they do. Who they date. Who they fuck. Who they marry. Who they divorce. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 06:30 PM |
| 18 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Yeah, i didn't see any comments at all. Link? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 06:16 PM |
| 30 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Yeah, this is true. I probably should have included this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Local columnist notices gender imbalance in dating events, wonders WAATGMThis is it right here. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 05:12 PM |
| 39 | Local columnist notices gender imbalance in dating events, wonders WAATGMNo. This woman is complaining about a dearth of sexually attractive men available for "dating" (i.e. hooking up) and maybe marriage. What's going on here is yet another "I just don't get where the men are. Why won't you Peter Pan manboys stop playing video games and doing your bro culture bullshit and start wifing up these really smart, accomplished, socially aware, funny women?!" BS. They just don't get it. Right now there's two kinds of men. The first kind are the sexually attractive men who d… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Tired of losing guys after riding the carouselProbably not. Though I don't know, because I'm not a physician, a geneticist, or an epidemiologist. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 04:50 PM |
| 31 | Tired of losing guys after riding the carouselIt's been hypothesized that unprotected sex with numerous men can cause microchimerism where the woman's body retains some of the man's DNA. The theory is that the woman's body absorbs the semen which contains the man's DNA and that genetic material just stays in her body for the rest of her life. It's also theorized that a woman retains fetal cells after abortion or miscarriage which can also cause microchimerism. It's theorized. There's no scientific evidence that establishes it can occur. Tha… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/19 12:35 AM |
| 4 | "Women who date assholes in their youth don't deserve sympathy."One of the PPD mods posted that sometimes young women just don't know what's up. To them [men, red pillers], women have endless options and are making a choice to be with a shitty partner. However, like lots of young people, they simply don't know better. They don't know what red flags are worth paying attention to, they don't know they can do better, they don't know when to cut and run from a bad relationship. They really can't seem to realize that everyone's just trying to do the best they can… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 11:59 PM |
| 29 | Tired of losing guys after riding the carouselYou're referring to telegony, and in humans it's theoretical. The only scientific evidence for telegony was done on fruit flies. There's no scientific evidence for telegony in humans. It's an interesting theory, though. And there's some anecdotal speculation about it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 11:21 PM |
| 60 | Tired of losing guys after riding the carouselYeah. Women want to be responsible and strong and independent in every area of their lives EXCEPT living with consequences and EXCEPT being responsible when things don't work out and EXCEPT being accountable to someone else. When you point out that actions have consequences and that sleeping with a bunch of different men gives you HPV and herpes and antibiotics resistant gonorrhea and men don't want to commit to that and they ESPECIALLY don't want to wait and pay full price for what you were giv… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 10:21 PM |
| 57 | Tired of losing guys after riding the carouselDon't be shamed by anyone telling you her past is none of your business. Sure, before we're exclusive, you don't have to tell me jack about your past. But when she comes to me demanding my exclusivity, my commitment, and access to my time, money and resources, I have the right to know whatever i want to know, and to find it out by any legal means necessary. And you are never, ever going to get a fully accurate response here. Best you'll get is an approximation, based on what info you can find ou… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 10:06 PM |
| 45 | Tired of losing guys after riding the carousel... I was young and many of my past sexual experiences are not even fully consensual. I was often pressured into sex I don't want and did not enjoy by people I don't find attractive because I was young and naive. I find the judgement of people to be unfair. I have an underlying insecurity that men are forever going to view me as 'that slut' and not 'wife material'. I don't think I deserve this just because I made mistakes in the past. Especially because I was vulnerable and was taken advantage o… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 09:57 PM |
| 129 | Tired of losing guys after riding the carouselI am so tired of hearing this shit. I wish women would just own this. "Yeah, i fucked a lot of guys while i was drunk/high/stoned, while sober, and everywhere in between. Some of them I hated. Some of them I loved. Most of the sex was crappy, some of it was meh, some of it was exciting, and a few times it was rip roaringly toe curlingly kneebreakingly hot. "I had my reasons for fucking them. Sometimes I used them, sometimes they used me, sometimes we used each other. I did it because I could, be… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 09:37 PM |
| 3 | 30 F spends her best years destroying her ability to pair bond.Your wish is my command. See my post below. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | 30 F spends her best years destroying her ability to pair bond.Ok. Well, good on you, and I hope you keep posting. Just don't go over to an original poster's post and make nasty comments, or any comments, really. Just not helpful. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | 30 F spends her best years destroying her ability to pair bond.It means don't go to someone else's original post and comment there. They'll review your post history and see you posted here, then come over here and downvote, shittalk, complain, debate, etc. I've made the exact same mistake. It just causes hostility and animosity and attracts unwanted attention. Like most things in my life, i had to learn it the hard way. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 07:11 PM |
| 13 | 30 F spends her best years destroying her ability to pair bond.Notice how the hamster rationalizes. Here's what she's really saying: I can't pair bond and i can't trust men. I got burned and hurt in the past because of all these men I had sex with, who i couldn't have. I have trust issues and past hurt and pain that I haven't dealt with. I'm attracted to unavailable men and jerks, and I push them away, because I don't want those men getting too close to me and I know they'll leave anyway. I can't have a guy get close to me and intimate with me because they … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Single mothers are the best girlfriends! Don't believe your own bad experiences and observations, just read this propaganda piece.If there's anyone who does not belong on a pedestal, it's single mothers. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Single mothers are the best girlfriends! Don't believe your own bad experiences and observations, just read this propaganda piece.Herewith, the truth about dating single mothers and why they are the worst partners. --They have no time. They are working and parenting. Scheduling a date with them is like trying to get an appointment with the President. --They are stressed out, neurotic, cash poor, time poor, drama-filled messes. They have no time for anything. They're always broke. They have to deal with their ex husbands/baby daddies. They still suffer from most of the same problems that torpedoed their relationships with t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 02:53 PM |
| 6 | 36/F I've got a 10 y/o, she comes first, I want a nice beta man to marry me and take care of my kid and cats. You can see from my face I hate being a cashier. I don't want to have another kid with beta.I'm 36, i have a 10 year old daughter. My ex doesn't pay child support. I've got my job and her and that's about it. I hate my life. I'm having a really hard time making ends meet. I'm looking for a nice respectful man I can control. I need him to start paying the bills. I also need a babysitter, like, really really bad. This single mom stuff is harder than i thought. See this face? This is what being stressed out to within an inch of your life looks like. I am like this close to checking into t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 02:35 PM |
| 29 | "Here Again" should start getting comfortable, because dating purgatory is where the home is now.This is a 35 year old divorcee who's discovered, quite painfully, that she can't "date" (i.e. hook up, have sex, get men to date her and spend money on her) as if she was still 23. The "my kids come first" is an effort to take and keep control. It's her trying to set the tone for whatever happens after. It's her frame, all the time. If she's a mom 24/7, how does she have time to date? If she's not going to come to my place and i can't hang out there, well, when are we going to see each other? Ah… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 02:30 PM |
| 12 | Feminist discusses her frustrations with dating and lack of chivalry "Do I want a free meal? Well, who doesn’t?"Well, chivalry is gone because women wanted it that way. Chivalrous men were cast aside in favor of the unrestrained bad boys. I'd like feminine women, as i'm sure most men would. 1) I'm old fashioned. Kind of. 2) I like a girl to be grateful and gracious when i take her to dinner. 3) I like holding the door for a girl without her yelling at me she can do it herself and don't need no maaayunnn to do it for her. 4) I like to look across a table or a bar at a smiling girl with a pleasant expressio… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 02:17 PM |
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