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| 1 | Let’s talk hobbies! What are your current hobbies? What’s a hobby you’re interested in starting?I play games a lot right now, currently beyond excited about Horizon: Forbidden West releasing on Friday. Aloy is one of the best, most badass women in games ever. Bar none. I've played the first HZD more than 3 times? I also indoor climb, cook/bake, write fanficton, read (books and fic ha), I like cool rocks and pagan/witchy/spiritual things I'm including my "fangirl/nerdy/geeky" hobbies because I've seen other people on this sub be a hesitant to talk about their interests and it makes me sad. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?yeah FUCK THAT GUY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:30 PM |
| 12 | 10 year age gapYes. If you are asking, you already know. But! As a 24 year old that went out with a 34 year old, I can tell you he will talk endlessly about himself, make remarks about how young and inexperienced and behind you are, and then in a few days text you about how it won't work out because you're "just at different places in your life." What the fuck were you expecting, Patrick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:15 PM |
| 10 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?Dodging the HELL out of these bullets. And I guess I meant more late 20s early, early, 30s? That's my pool now at 25. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 02:01 PM |
| 14 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?My step dad ruined a shoulder surgery, his bicep and tendons DISCONNECTED FROM THE JOINT. As in, a strange lump in his arm where his muscles should have been taut and working. He waited more than a WEEK to see anyone and now he needs an entire replacement. WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:58 PM |
| 17 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?ooooo this is a great point. adjusting expectations before a conversation even starts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:53 PM |
| 42 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?To your first point, absolutely. On family vacations I took as a younger person, the trip had to be planned ahead of time so we could reserve spots for excursions or tours. Half of the trip was already spoken for before we packed our bags. We still had days to explore on our own time, but the big ticket, meaningful, educational experiences take forethought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:33 AM |
| 66 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?I think you got it- they see it as a challenge or a conquest. An "in order to___". It's like playing survivorman in Thailand or Brazil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:14 AM |
| 10 | In praise of being a mean womanI've said to people, "God FORBID I am ever remembered for being 'nice'," any time they bring it up as a "pro" for a man. The bar is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:37 AM |
| 11 | Disgusted by BDSM "community".That last line hit me in the gut, omg. Thank you for putting it in that perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 08:03 PM |
| 10 | Disgusted by BDSM "community".Congrats- I’m proud of you. I did kink from the exact ages you mentioned and I’m still working on my healing. I don’t have a fetlock anymore- I deleted it years ago- but I’m in the same boat where it’s all just…. Glorified abuse and outsourced self harm to me now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 11 | Ladies please share your experiences with gamer guysI remember being kept up at night by his awful clacky mechanical keyboard and three giant bright screens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about picky eaters.I know, you're right. I had a lapse and I'm off it again. Thanks for the kick in the pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 03:13 PM |
| 31 | Let's talk about picky eaters.The no vegetable ones are worse than the no international foods ones. It's like dealing with a toddler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:18 PM |
| 20 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Ugh, great, as if their insecurities around cooking could be fixed by targeting you, and not.... learning. Also, yes, guys who can't cook are usually unhealthy and thus worse in bed than someone who can take care of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:06 PM |
| 27 | Let's talk about picky eaters.It's such a turnoff for me. When they act like YOU'RE the weird one for liking other foods?? I see red. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 105 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Oh I HATE the "maybe I'll cook for you" crap. Because for him it's a maybe but there's an expectation that I'll cook at some point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 21 | Let's talk about picky eaters.I thought back and remembered this is not the first time I've ghosted a guy for being picky. NO REGRETS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 16 | Let's talk about picky eaters.It does feel like some gray area/case by case basis. If this guy had been like, "I've never had Indian food, but can we go to your favorite spot and I'll try it?" Would have been much, much better than "ew that's spicy." I do have a friend that is a picky eater, and he's kind of... ashamed about it? Something about his childhood and never being made to eat other things, so he keeps it quiet and doesn't make a fuss at restaurants where there's nothing he wants. I don't take issue with it so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 52 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Yeah. With the eating, I was thinking I might could make it work if he was willing to try new stuff, because not everyone was raised or grew to try all sorts of food, but god as soon as he said no cooking I was OUT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:44 PM |
| 67 | Let's talk about picky eaters.My idiot step dad like.... can't eat unless my mom makes and presents something to him. She's pretty over it. We will be out and about and step dad will call lie "idk what to eat" when the fridge is FULL. And he will panic and go get fast food. I can't deal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 33 | Let's talk about picky eaters.I agree with textures. Certain preparations of eggplant give me the ick. I understand stuff like that. I... kind of get it with spice tolerance, but I need a certain level of tolerance. I once went on a date with a guy for tacos. I got a taco with a sauce on it that barely registers as a tingle for me, and when he tried it, he almost cried and got upset with me for not warning him. I do not have a super high spice tolerance. This was a weird date for me and it didn't progress much further than t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:24 PM |
| 123 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Oh SNAP, didn't even think of that. Great point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of men who do live feedings for pets like large snakes, snapping turtles, etc?I own a snake. A small corn, he will never get large enough to eat anything larger than an adult mouse or small rat. I ONLY feed frozen thawed because it is the safest for the snake and most humane for the mice. I once had a very disturbing conversation with a man at the reptarium where I get my snake’s mice. He wanted to know what I had, what I fed it, why I’d never done live or tried larger animals. He was so pushy and creepy, and pouted when I stood my ground. I said I wanted my snake to be h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | What are your best tips for letting go of the IDEA you have a person?I'm going to follow some of the advice in the other comments and write out the nightmare scenario for my current object of infatuation: I come home from my long day teaching college-level classes and he's "too tired" from his manual labor job to cook dinner or even help me with the decision around food. He's in this manual labor job because he gave up his stable job so he could go road tripping with friends for a few months and didn't have a plan for after the fact. His unsold paintings pile up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | What are your best tips for letting go of the IDEA you have a person?I spy some Ursula K. LeGuin, love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?I came here to say Bedelia and I'm so glad she's already listed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 59 | Pickme wife becomes a "life coach" to deal with the inequity in her marriageOh look it's my mom, gaslighting herself into staying in her marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | FDS approved fiction?I haven't gotten there yet- soon! I have a reading list a mile long since finishing grad school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 09:15 PM |
| 5 | FDS approved fiction?NK Jemisin for sure. Maybe some leguin. The ACOTAR series by Sarah J Maas starts.... rough but that's kind of the point for the MC's development and I personally find her partner FDS approved aside from the standard fantasy novel trope of.... 500 year old elf man with a younger human girl. It happens. ACOTAR also get's smutty as heck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 09:02 PM |
| 3 | my complicated relationship with beauty attracted LV people. but working through it put me on the path to HV people.I think this was thoughtfully written- thank you! I didn't realize but this is what I've been doing for a while now... examining wardrobe and expression and whatnot. I recently had an intense shroom trip and in this state I remember looking at all my potions and lotions on my counter and my makeup bag going, "Look at all this STUFF! So much STUFF just to keep you pretty... but what for??" I'm still fighting the urge to get rid of 80% of my products now, I don't want to do anything drastic, but w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:15 PM |
| 33 | Powertools aren't hard to use. Full on Elle Woods-ed a person today.This is a good point. As a very independent and very single woman, it's not an issue for me currently. But I can see it as something to monitor in the future with relationsips | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about video games?I love video games. I love world building and storytelling, more specifically, which means I'm very picky about my games. When I do play, I don't let it control my life, I don't dump money into them constantly, and I don't have any weird superiority over which console vs PC. Alloy from Horizon Zero Dawn is a total badass and a HVM all the way. There's a scene in which a king hits on her, and one of the dialogue options is a not so kind putting him in his place, and he accepts it and apologizes f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 11:31 PM |
| 11 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:It's really been like a switch was turned in my head. It's kind of weird, even. Best of luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:13 AM |
| 14 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:I've never tried lucid dreaming but thank you for sharing your experience and the VERY VALID advice in the last paragraph. The last thing I want is for someone to try and have a bad trip because of my post. There's always other steps to take than jumping right in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:12 AM |
| 5 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:I understand. If I tried this a year, or even six months ago, it wouldn't have gone nearly as well. I gotten to a certain point, a great point even, but I just couldn't move past no matter what I did, so I felt I was ready to try the extra help. I hope some day you get to try again and with more success :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:49 AM |
| 26 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:Things got dicey in the shower. I saw skeletal monsters snapping at me and I growled at them and they went away. Like some have pointed out, shrooms aren't a fix for everyone. But they may have the potential to unlock some mental or emotional blocks in our blindspots- stuff you don't even know you don't know about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 18 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:I echo this sentiment even though I didn't talk to a professional. It's not something that would have ever been greenlit in my state by a professional so I spoke at length with other people in my life with much more experience before I did this. I am not in any way recommending this to anyone with any sort of authority, and thank you for the clarification and wisdom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 8 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:OH well there you have it. Luckily, shrooms aren't related to MJ, so you could be safe to try those, if you decide to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 13 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:Oh, definitely. This is not a one stop fix, and it will not work for everyone and could even go poorly. I'm sorry you had such an awful experience. I personally was not diagnosed with depression and I had prior experience and preparation for what I was attempting as well as friends close by in case I called for help, so I felt it was safe to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 10 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:I think the important factor when trying them is having a friend or safe person to guide and help you through. I don't know that you need to do MJ before shrooms, but either way, start small I say so you know what to expect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 27 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:Weed can be very downing for me too. Shrooms can have a similar giggliness to weed but without the tired/groggy. I've also been working on this new mindset for a couple years, and got even more serious help in the past 18 months or so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳I hate Andy Dwyer and the "lovable idiot" trope SO MUCH. I had one of these in my friend group, even got suckered into his bullshit and hooked up with him years ago. He can't hold down a job and alienated everyone else in the group because he's just sooooooo forgetful and and bumbling and it's just not his fault :(((((((( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Targeted advice from FDS “older sisters” needed for “younger sisters” (adolescent and early 20’s) 👩👧As a.... young? Middle? FDSer, I would love a big sister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | The F*ck boy hotline. See? Men know what they’re doing.I feel like his shoulders are….. half the width that makes sense for that giant bobblehead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:06 PM |
| 3 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsIts more indicative that he watches and likes the content on adult swim enough to have a t-shirt. Adult swim is mostly trash cartoons that encourage lvm/nvm behavior imo. The way my friend put it, he wanted a Rick and Morty or family guy Tshirt, but dialed it back to the plain adult swim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 04:27 AM |
| 3 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsOh well cool! Best of luck in your practice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:41 AM |
| 3 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsOh god I never thought of it this way. That's awful but you're onto something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:38 AM |
| 6 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsOh, doi, are you a weaver, by your username? I've done a little fiber crafting here and there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 08:17 PM |
| 10 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsOh you don't have to tell me twice. I have 0 intention of dating a creative, even though I'm a creative myself. I don't think the personalities match and like you said, creative men are some of the worst I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 08:05 PM |
| 13 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsIt is. I have zero basis to put my thoughts there. I don't know her that well and I don't know him at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:48 PM |
| 19 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsRight it is so pathetic. Cannot take it seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:37 PM |
| 19 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsGod what a fucking loser that guy was. But that's what I want to say to so many people... If course they like me! I'm amazing. I'm hilarious and I can make friends with a rock if I have to. NO SHIT ol Kyle likes me, especially because I was trying to get known and make connections in this space they work at. You're a role model now congrats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:29 PM |
| 30 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsBusiness trip overseas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:45 PM |
| 17 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsAfter I shut this down she was like "well there's my friend so and so" and I was like man her judgement is not good why would I want any of these people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 16 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsHe was already laying it on thick when we were hanging out in the group setting. It was cringe. I'm trying to break into this bubble though, because it's a pretty exclusive bubble and there aren't other bubbles in reach. So I'm navigating cautiously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 25 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsRight???? She wasn't like, "well Kyle could be a good catch" or "maybe Kyle?" It was verbatim, "I'd love..." And it was someone that I've hung out with ONCE after the first time I ever saw her in person too. What does she know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 49 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsThey just want you to be miserable too, so they feel less trapped in a shitty loveless relationship with their toddler that can also drive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:51 PM |
| 83 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsShe's married, or else I would have tried it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:47 PM |
| 51 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsRight???? So hard to not be insulted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:04 PM |
| 20 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsI mean you're not wrong. Its less... Height more... "Must be able to deadlift at least your bodyweight" to get into my bedroom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 169 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsLol he deserves exactly what he's earned. And where's the "you deserve a nice man," instead of what he's thrown away three times now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 370 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsY'all I got my first reported post!!! I triggered some poor lil piss baby out there with my mean nasty bad words. Best trophy reddit has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:55 PM |
| 150 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsI was like, "friend, if I can look at someone and say to myself 'yeah I can beat the shit out of that person if I need to'.... Yeah I'm not attracted to them." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:37 PM |
| 33 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsLol I would have but she's married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 347 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsOh I shut it down hard. I didn't say that in the post, oops. I was like "(friend) absolutely not. Never. No." And gave other reasons that were gentler than the ones above but god. I had the feeling she was testing the waters on his behalf and I can't think of anything more unattractive or pathetic than a man using a woman to snare other women. Gag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Being a Cool Girl is a trapYeah, her friends knew. I'm very very removed from the situation but I still considered her more friend than acquaintance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:09 PM |
| 149 | Being a Cool Girl is a trapI've seen this exact thing. I'm also a creative in a big city, trying to make my way into the scene, and god the amount of cool, gorgeous, talented women I see carting around these absolute skid marks they call their partners is.... exhausting. These men are the physical embodiment of mediocrity and their art is rarely good, and if it is, their attitudes are that much worse. They've got god complexes sandwiched in inferiority complexes mixed in with mommy issues and it's all one steaming pile st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.Kitchen appliances are such a money suck, and things like "unitaskers"- do you need that special avocado slicer, do you not have.... a knife? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 4 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.The sense I forget about often is smell- it's why I've gotten a couple nice perfumes and I keep candles around now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 5 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.Hell yeah I took an afternoon nap yesterday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLDAnother one to avoid OR use as a test would be mentioning your fitness routine or goals, if you have any. Depending on the guy, they could neg or talk down about your program, or get real insecure, REAL fast. I'm a weightlifter, but my build is broad and I don't look like an instagram fitness model, which they then take issue with and question if I REALLY work out. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLDI used to do this too! Or they would ask for my recipes and I just tell them to google what they want to eat, ha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLDBeen here. I also specialize in pin up art, aside from my academic practice, so I learned quickly to keep that hush hush. I don't know why my ability to draw beautiful and liberated women somehow = slutty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 43 | Never date someone who criticizes your fitness routine.This! And respecting your diet. I have dietary restrictions AND health goals. Asking someone to choose a restaurant that has gluten, dairy, and corn free options- god you'd think I was asking them to hand feed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 12 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.currently doing the snowball! Never thought of the restaurant/appetizers thing, either. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:12 PM |
| 6 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.This is a great one, and one I never would have thought of! Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 19 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.I have about 15 plants I've collected over the years, lol. but they definitely bring a lot of character to my space. I also meal prep. Money and nutrition is one reason, but I also have myriad dietary restrictions that make eating out difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 11 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.Congratulations! I'm a little witchy, too. I got a stainless steel gua sha tool and that + face massage is such a great night time ritual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 21 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.Bubble baths are definitely a go to. With maybe a bath bomb or soaking salt and a candle. I try to save, but we are at a very tight paycheck to paycheck place right now. I got stuff on the horizon- soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:06 PM |
| 6 | An idea/game to try? Your affordable treat/splurge and financial advice for those of us still starting out or working on leveling up.yes! this looks so good, thank you for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyWhen my step mom started dating my dad, he didn't eat veggies. He had a giant tub of that mixable fiber for drinks. Luckily my step mom taught all of us how to make tasty veggies and got us out of the "burgers and fries" of every weekend visit I had. Bleh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:01 PM |
| 196 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyMust eat vegetables. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:37 PM |
| 10 | It's that time of the week again! Mods will be posting pictures of hotties for your reviewing pleasure!Can I submit a request for Mads Mikkelsen? The way he is with his wife Hanne and his kids is great, but I also happen to think he's hot as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Never go to a "life coach"Yes, 99% of "life coaches" are completely full of shit. BUT, if you can find one of the 1%, it's amazing. I've been working with a life coach for more than a year and the changes I've made and my progress with her help have been... insane. I don't even recognize myself anymore, and I've grown immensely. That said, this person was trained through a decent program that, to my knowledge (close family are have also gone through the program) they are not referral based. Obviously, LC isn't for everyo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Another post to say "thank you" and to say to the newcomers, Give it time!! Also this might be some helpful advice for recovering kinkme's.Sure, I won't be able to reply in ernest till later but I'll get to it when I can :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:08 PM |
| 32 | Another post to say "thank you" and to say to the newcomers, Give it time!! Also this might be some helpful advice for recovering kinkme's.I will NOT roast you what works works the earth is sexy as hell. There are men that Jack it to the jack in the box mascot you're doing fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 11 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamI see it every day at my job and it drives me NUTS. These ladies are dressed up, hair done, makeup (what I can see past masks), often heels and the whole nine yards. Guys are in ill-fitting jeans or, sometimes (gag) basketball shorts, t-shirts, and an unmoisturized face with an $8 haircut they did not style. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 80 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."amen- single for life if I have to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 33 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."we have cookies and peace of mind in this club! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 430 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal.""spinster" at seven-and-twenty. 27?! I'm 25 this year- guess I'm a spinster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 5 | If someone doesn't appreciate the humanities and thinks STEM is the only way to show academic prowess, next them.As an MFA, thank you for this. I get unmatched by STEM and finance bro's all the time. Not much of a loss, but it is annoying asf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Helping other women out - stranger editionthank you for helping this person out- we all need to look out for eachother. Yesterday at the post office, I held the door open for an older lady as I walked in. As I was leaving, there was a middle aged dude close behind me. I did not hold the door for him, lol. Never doing shit for men ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 9 | I’m feeling so jaded after getting out of my last relationship and finding this sub. Can I hear about the HVM in your lives? I need to know they’re still out there.I have two HVM I'm glad to call my friends. One is dating another friend of mine. He absolutely spoils her, is a gentleman when we all hang out (he will carry stuff for me and his gf, pay for all our meals) he surprises her with thoughtful gifts all the time and I know he's never raised his voice. He takes coaching if he steps over a boundary and cleans it up. He also laughs at the LVM I show him from OLD or other interactions in my life, because he knows they're losers and isn't defensive of hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 6 | You might be an FDSer if...I mean I play video games but everything else tracks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?I like them to be interesting and smart- I hate feeling like I'm being held back or not understood by the person I'm seeing. I don't like blondes. I actually REALLY like body hair, and that, muscled but not lean kinda thing. Functional sorta blacksmith fit where they're built like a barrel. I like scruffy facial hair but not full beards because I'm terrified of getting beard-fished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 22 | Don't romanticize the idea of someone who you're unsure about.Hey it's great you realized your difficulties around attachment and took steps to grow and protect yourself. I once followed someone, purely for thirst purposes, like, I never talked to them because I didn't want their personality to ruin it, I just wanted to look at them, but I could see when I started fantasizing or idealizing, and I unfollowed them. It's just smart self care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 12 | Don't romanticize the idea of someone who you're unsure about.This is the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:34 PM |
| 98 | Don't romanticize the idea of someone who you're unsure about.You make a great point- I never save them in my phone. I'd like to add, DO NOT follow them on social media. Hell, don't even look at it beyond making sure he doesn't follow a ton of softcore porn accounts. If he follows me, fine, but once the "talking stage" has run its course, I remove them as a follower or block them. They don't have a right to your life if they won't put the minimum effort into keeping your time and attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Everything you need to know about a man you can learn from his bathroomBringing me flashbacks of a NVM I knew years ago that didn't even have a SHOWER CURTAIN. He just angled the shower nozzle at the wall. He asked a friend and I to help him decorate his apartment. Dude was talking about nice lamps and we were like SHOWER CURTAIN FIRST. He'd been there for a month already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?The art materials I use are specialized and fussy. They require special prep, special handling and safety precautions, specific measurements. The whole nine yards. Guys that have LITERALLY never used resin or the like will try to tell me how to work with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Oh, THIS is what it's supposed to be like??? (or, two dates with a man that might not be 100% shit)a whole new wooooooorld | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Oh, THIS is what it's supposed to be like??? (or, two dates with a man that might not be 100% shit)Roger that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Looking for FDS Friendly Song Recommendations to Add to My PlaylistHere's my similar playlist! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3BXafPBcraRINKNpn7rdVt?si=rR4Vok5bTCSlckA2qotGJw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 3 | How I Deliberately Revamped my OLD Profile to Attract HVM and Deter LVM (Example Profile and Rational Included)This was so thorough and so helpful, I appreciate it! Best of luck, I hope your awesome profile keeps the unmentionables at bay and draws in some choice HVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 12 | Reminder: You are NOT "too much."Yesssss!!! Exactly this I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:44 PM |
| 2 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Lol we have to stick together! I hate bringing up skincare to guys and they're like "lol I never wash my face" like its cute??? Makes me want to throw up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.The story is so good!! I'll probably end up getting a ps5 just to play the sequel haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.I've learned a lot though trial and error and youtube. As a general rule, people tend to overwater. Try the book "The New Plant Parent" By Derryl Cheng. A lot of plants actually need to dry out some between waterings or have specific needs to their genus. You will kill a few plants as you start. Don't get anything too high end till you learn a bit more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 5 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Hoes mad. I got a couple hate messages, both had grammar errors. Can't do anything but laugh and block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.I have not, what's your take on it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:55 PM |
| 8 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Or not had me 20-odd years ago. She's made her choices, and now watching her try to make peace with them is hard. If anything I'm more determined to not end up like her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 12 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Lol the PhD rings true. I'm getting my master's and so, SO many high school only guys have the gall to bark up this tree. It's ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 8 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.I kind of see her point, but I need some overlap?? Somewhere? Museums and sports games are entirely different things with different vibes and contexts, I don't know how they work together. Makes more sense if its "he likes science museum, you like art museum, make a day of both" She's very much projecting though. She's worked on her own ultimatum for Step Dad and it's in progress but its looooong overdue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:34 PM |
| 17 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.I have plant things on my profile too, so they know. And yes, my cat is a delight. He's glorious floof. Anyone that doesn't care about him can up and leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Level Up- your favorite clothing sources?Seconding Nordstrom Rack and I love Madewell, JCrew's sister store. They can lean into the baggy boho but I have a few things from them that aren't like that and I love them. In the exact same boat when it comes to bust/athletic shoulders and curves. I can never find dresses that work for me, so when I do, I just have a rule that I buy it if it's less than $100. It's taken me a LONG time to work on my wardrobe. As much as I like the style of some Urban outfitters things, they do not gel with my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:20 PM |
| 15 | I’m tired of our culture celebrating Male Incompetence. Male incompetence isn’t funny and endearing, it’s childish, unattractive, and infuriating!!🤬Before FDS, I thought the Andy Dwyer character from Parks and Rec was cute, kinda dumb but well-meaning and he dotes on April. He felt like a pet that drives? I guess? Anymore I can't stand that character or the like. It drives me up the fucking wall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 51 | Pickmeisha surpreme Emily Ratakowski clowns around to entertain her unimpressed LVM 🤡Ugh. Dated a LVM that was obsessed with her. She and I do not have similar body types and he noted that often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 79 | Can HV traits cancel out LV traits?If I handed you a glorious piece of chocolate cake (or whatever dessert/treat you love) and said there was a tiny piece of dog shit in there somewhere, would you still eat it? Just a tiny piece. You might not even notice it that much if you didn't think about it. But you'd know it was there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Kinkmeisha Reform School 101: The BasicsSo, where do fellow recovering kinkmeshias get their "material"? I'm trying to get into written stuff because its much gentler imagery, but I struggle finding ones that are good/realistic and not just as riddled with weird kinks as porn videos. Anyone that does not want to publicly comment can message me and I'll add their suggestions :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | HVM trait - celebrating your interests, quirks and hobbies. Men who make fun of you or make you feel badly for these things do not deserve you (more details in the comments).I even commented this before I read your comment about your HVM. I'm also a woo woo astrology tarot universe forces lover. And I collect bugs and talk to animals and make weird mushroom art. So, it helped even more! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:10 AM |
| 11 | HVM trait - celebrating your interests, quirks and hobbies. Men who make fun of you or make you feel badly for these things do not deserve you (more details in the comments).This came at a great time for me... I've been in my head about some of my interests and hobbies and how "weird" they are and if I'd find a guy that was ok with them, much less celebrated. So thanks for posting this :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 03:41 PM |
| 27 | Boyfriend introduced me to this sub and made fun of it, turns out I love it.Stop waiting around for him to change. He will not change. He's using you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 12:30 PM |
| 13 | This piece of shit sent me two videos of women he was fucking from behind, telling me I should have been in their places. He probably filmed them without their consent. Absolutely disgusting.He looks like a fucking toe with pubes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:27 AM |
| 29 | Men are perverts and they know itIf anyone is unaware, this is Louis CK. And a lot of his work is just "I'm a gross disgusting man hahaha and I'm divorced and sad isn't that crazy hahaha" He had a show on Netflix in which is character/he got to bang a hot young girl because she "just likes older dudes" and she got off on how much older he was. He's been "cancelled" in today's terms for allegations of exposing himself to a few women in a dressing or hotel room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | "How To Be A Heartbreaker" by 'Marina and the Diamonds' is FDS in song formThese are both on my "Queen Mix" playlist! I love them. Haven't shared it here because I want it more fleshed out. If anyone has other song suggestions lmk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 20 | What are the typical true motivations of LV exes who contact you to "apologize"?It's NEVER for YOUR benefit. It's ONLY for them. Especially now, they can't run anymore, run from the shitty things they've done that continue to eat at what's left of their conscience. There's no parties. No gym highs. No Pickmes keeping them distracted and numb to their poor behavior. Their weed guy is running low and they just have no other choice but to be alone with their thoughts without any filter or buffer and it HURTS because they have no emotional maturity or facilities. So they think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 06:56 PM |
| 13 | Make sure you're not with him just because you want something to love.I have a lot of houseplants for this reason. And a cat. And a snake. I have enough things demanding my time, attention, and love that I feel no need for a partner. If one comes along that I like and is genuinely great and adds to my life, fine, but until then I have enough babysitting to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | A collection of disgusting OLD profiles I've compiled over the last month or so for your viewing (dis)pleasure. Some of these are DOOZIES.For clarification, the long second image is the written profile of the greasy idiot in the blue shirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 4 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Right?! I was thinking what poor dumb pickme has this worked on??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:54 PM |
| 3 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?I just love being condescending :/ I can't help it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:53 PM |
| 5 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Use it well!! It will not fail you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:52 PM |
| 42 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Yeah! Can't wait to be disappointed in the future too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:32 AM |
| 25 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Lol Honey is only ever a condescending term for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:31 AM |
| 28 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?TRUE THO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 29 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?I bet they complain about how stuck up we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:40 AM |
| 30 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Oh that's spicy I like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:01 AM |
| 25 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Indeed it is! I honestly have no time or room for their shit ha ha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:54 PM |
| 52 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Right? Two fuckups back to back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:54 PM |
| 93 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Yes! I would have driven to HIM. Maybe the "effort" was him clearing off his bed and scrubbing the toilet stains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Midsommar -- A Leveling Up FableThis movie is worth the few scenes of icky/gore. I'm bad with gore but I didn't even care- LOVED this movie. My reaction to the end was similar to the VVitch... just a "good for her" a la Lucille Bluth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:20 PM |
| 16 | A tip on finding HVMs: go for athletic guys who train for NON-AESTHETIC goals. Avoid men who are into bodybuilding or are extremely preoccupied with their looks.100% this. I've worked in gyms, dated aesthetic weightlifters, and the insecurity they walk around with is staggering. The last one I dated pointed out the stretch marks on my breasts, which are large, hence stretch marks, and made a disparaging comment. And I pointed out the stretch marks on his ass because of the "30 pounds of muscle he packed on bruh" and he got UPSET. Also a lot of the exercises they do for aesthetics are UNSAFE AS HELL. Every time I'm in the gym and I see someone pushing a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.Lol challengers and chargers getting called out in this sub. Basically no military EVER is what I'm hearing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:57 AM |
| 10 | What do you tell yourself if he picks another girl over you?Bullet. Fucking. Dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:28 AM |
| 8 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.They don't have any of their own- so they give some to the truck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 06:51 PM |
| 40 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.So much better they pay more for insurance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 05:03 PM |
| 12 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.Y I K E S glad you're out of that one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:37 PM |
| 36 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.Exactly right. My SD drove said family business into the ground because he couldn't handle money wisely. Even with a master's in finance. I'm slowly but surely getting my mom educated, but it's hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:12 PM |
| 8 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?I made home made peach cobbler. Twice. Have yall ever peeled a peach?? Don't recommend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself?I've been making my bed every day, I've purchased and begun research on a workout and meal plan (I have to confirm with my chiropractor), I'm on top of plant care, school work, and received approval for outside employment as a TA so I can do even more to prepare for my future after school! Thanks for this. I don't always remember to check in with myself and acknowledge the good/cool things I'm doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 23 | Excuse me while I throw upHe's a rough looking 30. At best he's a desperate liar. At worst he's a predator. I don't consider copy-pasta to be "effort" either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Name Some Ridiculous Pickmeisha Songs or Lyrics You’ve HeardAw man. I didn't know that was the context. I still don't like the song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Name Some Ridiculous Pickmeisha Songs or Lyrics You’ve HeardThere's a song where the lyrics go, "I'm gonna fix you with my love," and every time it came on at the place I worked I wanted to slam my head through the counter top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:53 AM |
| 33 | Conscience is the enemy of FDSI agree. And half the time it not even conscience, it's just the unyielding, compulsory patriarchal socialization to only be nice, cute, quiet, passive, and accommodating at all times, regardless of what gets thrown at us. Tear them the fuck apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:48 AM |
| 7 | Start a thread of FDS-friendly books, cartoons, and TV shows for kidsShe-Ra! The new one on Netflix, NOT the old one from the 80's. I wrote a paper comparing the two versions and the old one is rife with eyebrow-raising PickMe happenings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | STOP unintentionally giving LVM your mental and emotional energy in your daily lifeStitch n bitch is great! Yarn and fiber is frustrating and makes for easy general complain time. Except hopefully at the end of it you have a scarf and not just dredged up trauma and sadness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | STOP unintentionally giving LVM your mental and emotional energy in your daily lifeThat sucks you had to drop your friends. I hope you can surround yourself with new people that lift you up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about sending additional photos?I know!!! Brie is a low level cheese and he was still lacking. Nexted over gross lies and cheese ignorance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:34 AM |
| 6 | How do you feel about sending additional photos?I'd been talking about brie. He'd never heard of it??? (red flag #1) He tried to initiate conversation again by asking about the cheese. Didn't work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:49 AM |
| 5 | How do you feel about sending additional photos?Once had a guy lie about being a dermatologist to get photos. My dumb ass almost fell for it because I'm so crazy about skincare and was excited to have someone to talk products with :/ When I called him out he tried to win me back with cheese. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:52 AM |
| 16 | What FDS strategy have you found to be most useful for you personally?It's hard to pick for me... But I think straight up not giving them the time of day, worrying myself over men's opinions, and just living my life has been the best wakeup call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:24 AM |
| 8 | Gather 'round the fire, sisters, and I shall spin for you the tale of The Meat Guy (or, the worst date I've ever been on)Some sad shitwipe sent me a hate message over this story. High honors! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:54 AM |
| 41 | Why "Don't talk about politics/religion/kids" on a first date is a prolific piece of advice on reddit, and why you should do it anyway.UGH even as a vetting before hooking up, even if there's no intention of dating. I went on a little dinner date before the deed with a guy once and AFTER THE FACT he mentioned he was pro-life. I was already planning on running but I RAN. Politics were his pillow talk. Like, oh good, I definitely had sex with someone that doesn't see me as a human being. I know a lot of them don't, but usually they're not so obvious about it, and you can pretend for the act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:04 PM |
| 13 | Gather 'round the fire, sisters, and I shall spin for you the tale of The Meat Guy (or, the worst date I've ever been on)It was so so bad. I couldn't believe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 13 | Gather 'round the fire, sisters, and I shall spin for you the tale of The Meat Guy (or, the worst date I've ever been on)Thanks! I took my time, haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 5 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Thank you this really means a lot :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 4 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Ah! This looks promising. Bookmarked for later. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 7 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Go forth and get some cute undies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 10 | I took out some piercings yesterday.They do! And its not crazy. They definitely have a free ship threshold, and a "sign up for emails get coupon" and maybe also a referral thing? If you wanna DM me they might give out codes for money off. I'll look into it. But highly recommend either way :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 7 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Yes! It's been tied in with my Konmari journey for sure. It's so cleansing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 40 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Love this! I've gotten rid of all my Victoria secret stuff because they're a trash company with low quality stuff. I found a Canadian brand called Blush. Woman owned and fair trade, with GORGEOUS pieces. Their fancy lingerie has the perfect "granny panties but make it fashion" aesthetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 3 | I took out some piercings yesterday.I'd say they're perfectly helpful on their own. Especially because there are so many episodes with different topics/focuses. They do mention the other work/parts but I don't see it as pushy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 30 | I took out some piercings yesterday.I agree! I will probably get some other piercings down the line, but ones for ME. These piercings weren't serving me, so they had to go. Glad you got your nose redone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 26 | I took out some piercings yesterday.That last line hits hard. I'm really glad I'm here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:43 PM |
| 19 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Thank you, that means a lot And the Podcasts are The Life Coach School by Brooke Castillo. I listen on Stitcher! I also edited the post to add them at the bottom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:37 PM |
| 11 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Thank you! It's a new era for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:28 PM |
| 11 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Brooke Castillo! The Life Coach School. I found it on Stitcher. My mom is going through her full training process/membership. I'm just doing podcasts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Getting a plant helped me focus on myself and change old habitsI'm in the exact same boat- I'm so glad you've found somewhere to put all your love. I have about 50 plants, and if you ever decide to get more, most social media plant communities are super wholesome and supportive. It's an easy hobby to fall headfirst into! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:58 AM |
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