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| 15 | Dealing with jealousy. | Inner Game | DoubleSpinalTap | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 03:20 PM |
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| 2 | The Actual Rules of Alpha-Male.Garnered from David DeAngelo? | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Ahem, seddit, can't you give me tips on how to attract/seduce a man? 23 [F] hereIf you don't do something he will have absolutely no idea that you're into him. Men need to be hit over the head with this kind of thing, we are much worse at picking up on subtle hints. Christ, when I was younger I even missed the hints I'm recommending. Also, you don't need to do this all the time; it's about building that moment when it does come and you finally get him alone face to face. In group situations, act normally, but actively include him in the discussion. People love to have their… | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 06:19 PM |
| 9 | Ahem, seddit, can't you give me tips on how to attract/seduce a man? 23 [F] hereI find kino works really well on me. Lightly touch his arm when you're laughing at a joke he made, better yet do that head down look into the eyes thing at the same time. Pretend he's the only person in the room and give him all of your attention which will make him feel good. Invite him to a social gathering, or tell him that you're looking forward to seeing him at a common event. When you see him at the event, corner him for some one on one conversation and again give him all your attention. W… | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you show interest in a girl you've just met without getting thrown into her pile of male worshippers?As soon as you realize you're attracted physically to a girl, start trying to figure out if you like her personality; the fact that you're qualifying her and not yourself to her will immediately get picked up and take you out of the 'male worshipper' category. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed ApproachJavaroma in Yellowknife, NT | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed ApproachI think he was just put off because he was trying to work and she was not getting the hint that he wanted to be left alone. It was annoying before it was creepy. | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 12:20 AM |
| 9 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed ApproachI have a coffee shop interaction story as well, but this time it was a woman trying to open: Inside the coffee shop there is an arrangement of two leather chairs opposite a leather couch with a long low table in between. I was occupying one of the chairs, and there was a man opposite me on the couch. We were both on our laptops and minding our own business. A middle-eastern looking woman, likely around 40 years old and with the whole head wrap thing going on, but face showing, walks in and enqui… | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 06:55 PM |
| 26 | I am new to drinking, please explain hard liquor to me like I am 10 so I don't come across like a doofus on datesVodka and tequila are the prime suspects in making me vomit... | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"?Just watched part of Horrible Bosses and I got the impression that Jenifer Aniston is way out of my league. God she's gorgeous, and fabulously wealthy, and like 25 years older than me...still. The things I would do to her... | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 06:57 PM |
| 9 | Are "funny" t-shirts a good or bad thing?Dude. Those shirts are childish as fuck. I would highly recommend that you never wear one for any reason. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 08:42 PM |
| 0 | What sort of tricks do you guys use to get women to be more comfortable with initiating physical contact with you?Something that worked well for me last weekend was moving the girls bangs off her forehead with one finger and making deep eye contact. Soon after I told her to kiss me 'just to see what it was like' and we were making out soon thereafter. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 01:03 PM |
| 3 | A Sermon: Louie CK, the inner/outer game divide, and why you are here for the wrong reasons.Ok, I agree. But you're so damn presumptive with your title. Look at my posts in seddit from yesterday and the day before! I'll even share one with you here: 'I can't tell you how happy I am to have come across this community. You guys all hide behind 'picking up chicks' (which is a fantastic goal, don't get me wrong), but then what it basically comes down to is, hey, forget the chicks! Live your own life first and stop putting so much emphasis on women, that's what's screwing you up in the firs… | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Dealing with jealousy.I can't tell you how happy I am to have come across this community. You guys all hide behind 'picking up chicks' (which is a fantastic goal, don't get me wrong), but then what it basically comes down to is, hey, forget the chicks! Live your own life first and stop putting so much emphasis on women, that's what's screwing you up in the first place! Live your own life first, and the rest will follow. It's truly self help hidden under the guise of picking up women. It's fantastic, and I'm super exc… | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 01:37 AM |
| 7 | Dealing with jealousy.You know why I know this is true? I recently broke up with a girl (for various reasons, mostly I gave up my power and couldn't get it back) and I was jealous when she would go on a trip to visit her best friend (a guy) and think that she was sleeping with him or something. But it's really because I was quite bored when she wasn't around, and I needed her around to have fun. I'm not content with my own life as it stands, and I needed her to make me happy. From everything I've learned, this is bas… | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with jealousy.I think we're coming from a very similar place. I too am looking for a girl that I can trust absolutely, and it seems like I won't be happy until I find that. How can you love somebody without trusting them? And you hear all these horror stories about somebody trusting someone and then being cheated on. What helps me a little is understanding that there are guys AND girls who cheat, and there are also guys AND girls that don't. I also hear all the the other guys in this thread, and from a deeper… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with jealousy.Sigh pretty much yes to all of these, especially the 'girl will leave if she has options'. I have a lot of work to do! Thanks for the response, it is very helpful. I've already decided to focus on my own life a lot more so I can be happy alone. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Throwaway here. Need to get something off my chest.Man, I'm really trying to force myself to do this right now because I'm committed to changing, but it is super difficult. I broke up with this girl I cared about because I gave up nearly ALL of my power, and I keep wanting to text her and take her back. But I'm pretty sure the reason that I cared for her is because I just didn't want to be alone. It's time to not give a shit about her specific approval, and I'm going to be alone and work on myself for as long as it takes to make that happen. Fuc… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 02:56 PM |
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