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Problem is you are equating the importance of getting laid for woman with getting laid for men. 1) When you're 30+ and single getting laid in general is easy 2) Woman especially older woman crave male companionship (ie more than sex) wayyy more than a single older man does. Men are mostly cool with just getting laid at that point. 3) This does create a significant power shift in the older age groups I do get your point, but the take home message is, all things being equal getting older hurts wom…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 06:52 AM
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Not everything but a few things. A little white lie every now and again is OK for the greater good don't worry brah.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:46 PM
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You're a bad liar. I don't disagree with the message of the post, but I'm certain you are lying about this particular event. If you want to know what / how your phrasing gives it away feel free to ask.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:08 AM
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lol nice try manlet scum facial aesthetics + height > everything You're making the mistake of thinking because men don't notice those things as much and think any less of another men, that woman don't aswell.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 05:42 PM
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Same here man summer I go ham with the boys eating a lot of trash so this comes in handy. I sware i would be 3-5% higher in bf if I was doing the exact same exercise but not being meticulous about meal timing etc
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 09:04 PM
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Thats where the growth hormone comes in bro. GH is muscle protective which is why whenever i do IF and cardio I also pin that morning.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 09:02 PM
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What I've been doing for a while is fasted cardio (with a ghrp+ghrh) then lift later in the day inject again and eat big. Aside from gear this has to be the quickest most effective way to lose fat and gain muscle. ie say last meal was 8 pm previous night...cardio at 8am don't eat until atleast 12 or 2pm but keep it fat/protein mainly then lift a couple hours later and have your big meal
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:03 PM
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Pic with a dog always worked for me I don't have an above average face and never posted any pics where you could tell if i am jacked or not and i get plenty responses. So basically just an average face with a smile plus a dog. Then once I have the # and sext, send pics etc it is a pleasant surprise to them that I'm a jacked beast! I can't say if it is the same for woman, but out of all the girls I meet I've been the most into the very few who actually end up looking BETTER in real life versus pi…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 09:07 PM
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alpha does not only apply to woman tons of guys with looks and natural game who are losers natural alpha loser dead end personal trainer vs natual alpha wall street banking machine! the most natural alpha i know is a mess because all he cares about is pussy cars and thrill seeking behaviour...even squandared a pro sports career beasue of it
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 04:55 PM
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man this sub is goin downhill
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 05:26 AM
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aromatase inhibitors GH and anabolics like var will if you do it before your plates close. Otherwise forget it!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 12:39 AM
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ahahhahaahha patriarchy is responsible for this pressure on men c'mon b0ss
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:40 PM
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I go to a notorious feminist promoting uni downtown in Canadas biggest city...but if it weren't for the internet I would be clueless about feminsm, MRA, RP etc. I'm in a science program where we have almost no exposure to that BS, and I find most colleagues are either neutral or RP minded towards the issue. I notice young men who go into the more useless degrees end up being male and/or white guilt having shells of a man with the machismo levels of Rick Moranis. Whether this is the cause of brai…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:29 PM
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It is also MENS fault brothers... I'm guilty of it myself and have many friends who are good looking capable guys but maybe not SUPER confident and resort to online dating sites or tinder to get laid by 5's. I now resent this behaviour. Infact I'm much happier in an LTR with a 7.5+. If you are a single man make it count and aim for the best you can get or else you will not improve yourself at all, stay stagnant, and if you get a decent gf/wife one day you will surely not know how to handle it in…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:08 PM
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The idea that monogamy is virtuous can come from your own standards you set. If you can raise children and keep a family strong whilst also having tons of woman on the side without having to give them resources, then A+. But there is also nothing wrong with monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 08:52 PM
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This is true. And like you say it makes a man all the more virtuous to be able to be monogamous after experiencing high # of 8-10's. Just like it takes a virtuous woman to halt hypergamy after experiencing a true alpha. Thing is in a monogamous relationship between a high quality man and a high quality woman, the woman needs would be more satiated than the mans. Woman need to appreciate that sacrifice. Being able to overcome natural tendencies and strive for an objective good/virtue is what make…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:46 PM
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If you are going to use her the way you plan you must be prepared to do it at the expense of your ego. Do not use and 'abuse'. Use and manipulate. Use her as much as you can but when the time comes that all ties have to be cut, make her think it is her decision. Don't let your ego get in the way, even if you have to act like a bitch just to get rid of her it's much better than being a G and having her go haywire and hate your guts.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 05:45 AM
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Referring to point #1 I noticed the same thing. I'm the same height and whenever dealing with a girl shorter than me and the topic of height comes up they sa 'i thought u were over 6ft'. I thought about it and realised out of the buddies I have there are some 6'1, 6'2 guys, but the only ones i really look at and identify as tall are 6'3+...In otherwords, if you are 4+ inches taller she will think your 'tall'
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 12:00 AM
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I do agree that the number is not the end all be all but it can be important when considered with other things. It comes down more to past behavior as whole...You could have a woman single all her 20s who sleeps with 2 guys a year...or a woman who is in 2 4-year monogmous LTRs in her 20s then sleeps with 10 guys a year in the years she is single. She could have a career...a dog...something that gives responsibility and detracts from the instant gratification mentality. She could be the type to r…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:41 AM
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If I had a nickle for every time this happened to a guy I know... Always the exact same methodology too...From what I have observed, all girls who pull the break thing are getting smashed by some other guy or at the absolute least going out with / spending time with and heavily considering it. Then you can further divide that in to tww groups of girls 1) The ones that trickle truth that they 'well i did hang out with this guy and he just kissed me thats it' or 2) The ones that flat out lie/deny.…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 12:02 AM
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im actually back to 190 already i just didn't want to rant on about things. 200 was the breaking point and that was months ago!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 07:53 PM
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Most people that just look average are carrying around 10-20lbs of useless weight that would go away with small changes. I'm 5'10 and went from 180 to 200 the last 2 years, and at a distance I look the same but my jawline has dissappeared and with my shirt off while I still have muscle and even a measly 4pack you can see fat in places where it wasn't before (lower belly and love handles) Keeping bf% is pretty damn important for aesthetics and i think it plays a big role subconsciously on judging…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 10:10 PM
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Try your hand at a tranny bro that may be the only way
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 05:17 PM
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Ohh all the time. And I always admit to it but say i do so infrequently. I frame it more as 'if i haven't seen you in a week or so i need to jerk off so i don't destory you with a huge load or only last a minute'.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:57 PM
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The best way to hack your T is through diet, but it is a bit expensive and inconvenient (exercise too of course). Grassfed beef, chicken etc high fat high cholesterol you will become a beast
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:54 PM
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I'm sure others have the same experience, but whenever I get a new girl I usually just forget about porn and go weeks sometimes months without it. Then slowly I get bored and will watch again. I don't think it really means the girl isn't doing her job. Atleast in my experiance when I have a new girl it isn't a guarentee I'll be seeing her everyday to get off so even if it is new It's hard to go to long without some release.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 06:41 PM
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post pic of your face with sunglasses or eyes blurred out im curious most guys with that attidute so caught up on looks are feminine/ladylike. Not saying you are but I'm expecting that you have more of a babyface pretty boy face instead of the strong jawed stubble strong brow look. if that is the case then you are probably being rejected based on not having masculine traits (perhaps the woman are even ovulating in this time and craving masculine traits) if you have an aesthetically amazing face …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 06:52 PM
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I've heard the exact same line from my LTR. And it is not just the RP principal you speak of in action, but also that any decent woman knows they would not be happy with ONLY that security/money alone. If a richer version of you came along it would be audios amigo.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 03:58 PM
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rantings of a low SMV male smh...
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:31 AM
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UV rays the #1 worst thing for your skin long term
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 11:54 PM
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Status > Everything Keep in mind this is just shit she is saying. Even these soulless bimbos will be crazy about you if you physically emotionally and intellectually dominate them. It just happens to be much easier to draw them into your world when you have status.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:20 AM
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You should get haircuts and style yourself in general based on your ohter physical traits Just do a quick google you see what kind of style works with certain facial features etc No doubt though most guys cant pull off long hair and especially if you are thinning it needs to be short and neat. Buzz those sides and keep the top longer but make sure there is a contrast between the two.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:41 PM
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IMO it is not that black and white. The number isn't as important as the actual behavior/tendency. A woman could be high libido but only sleeps with top notch guys after getting comfortable, is always safe etc Or a woman could be low confidence and sleep with guys for validation. There is definitely a difference. Many partners is not ideal, but a low confiidence woman who has slept with one person via an unhealthy LTR would still be less trustworthy than a woman who has been around.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 04:45 PM
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A lot of amused mastery and agree/amplify is painfully corny and not always necessary. You always have the option to just blow by it ie completely ignore like you couldn't care less. ''Your best means of maintaining your dominant frame is to give her shit, even when she's not actively shit-testing you.'' This is very true and will decrease the amount of shit tests you end up getting. In the generic example of 'i dont date assholes', no need to even acknowledge it. Especially in the context of ea…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:38 PM
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Cool idea and I enjoy your writing brother. I agree woman do not consciously understand what you bolded. IMO the way to get around that is a combination of 1) being alpha 2) picking a girl who was raised well and genuinely sees a married life with kids as a 'reward'...The problem there though is that most little girls don't grow up with that mentality instilled in them, they see people divorcing, single moms etc all the time
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:55 PM
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http://www.google.co...6058781A2?cl=en '' 2.7 Conclusions Our results clearly show that Finasteride, Dutasteride and related compounds can exert neuroprotective effects in different experimental paradigms, related to human neurodegenerative diseases and conditions, like epilepsy, Morbus Alzheimer, Morbus Parkinson and others, via a novel mechanism which involves voltage-gated potassium channel beta subunits (Kvbeta) and several members of SLC family, (in particular Ant1 of the MPTP) as, previous…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:41 PM
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I know many pro athletes and they are all the same. Have a beautiful 9-10/10 girlfriend/wife at home and cheat on them with whatever decent girl they can get while on the road or out on the town. Just the way it goes. Most of the gfs/wifes probably know deep down but they rather be 'x athletes wife/gf' and be cheated on than not be an athlete wife/gf at all.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 08:19 PM
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My mother said 'what a stupid commercial' after it ended. To most of the older generation commercials like these are blatantly and overtly pushing an agenda.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:20 AM
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It is true if there are tons of men out there who buy in to the female imperative.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:41 AM
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Remember to a woman any guy below her SMV does not even exist to her. Guys who are close to her SMV she will automatically assume are attainable and are plotting to fuck her and guys several points above they will be left wondering 'does he like me? what does he think of me?'. But because womans perceptions are so distorted now, they think they hold sexual power over the vast majority of men around them (and it is generally true too).
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:43 PM
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The thread is for fatloss so it makes zero sense to reccomend starchy carbs. Yes ofcoruse there will be tons of people who can lose fat and get jacked and still ear carbs but to optimize fatloss there is no way around reccomending 1) Lower insulin as much as possible 2) lower cortisol as much as possible 3) lower estrogen If you took a card case fatso and had to get him to lose weight this would be the best thing to do also good fats and proteins eg liver kidenys with tons of fat soluble vitamin…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 10:09 PM
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I can't think of a specific study (perhaps try googling), but it is just sciene brah. Insulin is low in the morning and growth hormone is high which leads to more fat burning. Here is an article about it http://www.coachcalorie.com/insulin-sensitivity-and-fatloss/ However you will notice the author suggest eating all your carbs in the morning or after workout which I disagree with. It makes sense to eat carbs in the morning only if you are NOT exercising regularly in the morning. If you are exer…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 10:05 PM
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Budd you got it mostly wrong. You need to up your fat intake, ditch breakfast, ditch carbs altogether. When you wake up your body is primed for fat burnign so big breakfasts with carbs is coutner productive. Quickest way to drop fat is to do light cardio in the morning and dont eat after or eat light fat/protein. Try intermittent fasting too ie only eat from 12-8pm everyday
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 08:03 PM
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Hmm yes of course - the root of the problem is society does not accept abortion enough! Forget taking responsibility and the fact a woman has complete control of her reproduction. Forget condoms, IUDS, birth control, morning after pills etc. Even though a safe responsibility woman can be 99.9% of the time avoid an abortion, most pregnancies are an accident and it is not their fault! FOH
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 03:21 AM
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You don't have to be a 10 to use tinder with success. Myself and my buddies do fine with girls our league or for an easier kill a point or two below. Remember that most guys even good looking ones are duds who don't know what they are doing.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:12 AM
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Budd girls get literally 100s of messages a day I've seen it with my own eyes. And I'm talkin 7-8s.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:47 PM
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We use general rules to hedge in our favor. Having a high partner count says way more negative than positive things about a womans potential to be good LTR material High partner count for men this is not the case.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:48 AM
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That can be even worse in some cases (common-law). You'll end up owing child support and alimony if you 'separate' and if you have any debt your girlfriend will not incur it (she would if you are married)
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:30 PM
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I want kids and I want them to have a good mother. Kids raised with both parents are much better off according to the data we have. I would 'settle' in certain areas as long as it was increasing the chances of having a good mother and a healthy marriage. ie Do everything to hedge in my favor but know there is no certainty anyway you cut it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:10 AM
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Christianity: We are all sinners and can be saved only by the grace of god / acceptance of Christ TRP: We are the way we are and woman are the way they are and it is neither moral nor immoral but here is a strategy to best deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 04:33 AM
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The sad reality is that rape is a hard crime to prosecute. And I fear that feminists are ignoring that reality and trying to stifle proper judicial and due process. Most of the time their is only proof of sex occurring, and if a woman wasn't violently raped, it is very hard to prove if that sex was consensual or not unless their is hard evidence (ie witnesses, being drugged etc) No problem with the raising awareness part and educating people on what rape is and isn't as long as it does not have …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:52 PM
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The KEY to skincare is starting early ie preventative measures. Start using retin-a (active ingrediant tretinoin); it is prescribed by docs for acne or to help with scarring but is excellent for anti-aging. Won't miraculously change your skin but has many benifits and overtime it will pay dividends. Vit-C serums also and certain supplements. But retin-a for sure is an easy one to get and use.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:53 PM
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I've seen it happen. The common denominator amongst the few succesful ones was the guy being 1-2 points higher SMV, the couple not being under 25, and the girl having a history of long term relationships before it. High N-count is not ideal but low N-count also does not offer any protection if you chose the wrong woman. EVERY woman nowadays goes through their wild phase, the best ones to pick are the ones who do not remain single for long periods of time.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:45 AM
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next time don't take shrooms before making a post, but... a girl saying your ugly does not mean she is being honest and wont end up takin da pipe
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:47 PM
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I had a similar revelation to you my brother. The truth is virtually all woman keep contact with other guys outside their marriage/LTR. Heard of the book the key logger? Even if they never intend to act on anything, they need the validation. They need the security. They must know for sure, they must actual feel some sort of external desire. Could be a beta orbiter they never would sleep with, could be some stud they already slept with in the past and dont plan to but just like the reminder of be…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:17 AM
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Ah true man, very slick maneuver. I think that scenario is the perfect way to instill dread but in a healthy manner. I'm tempted to use it myself ahah - but in your case the comment made actually happened. It's beautiful when you run dread and can actually see the hamster spinning and know there are questions from your girl soon to follow. Don't lie brah you felt power thirsty in that moment :P
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:09 AM
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Did you make that comment right after she made the one about the doctor?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:30 AM
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I would look into melatonin. You would only need a very small dose. I think there is a study on attractiveness and skin color and a tan does help. But of course sun exposure is bad in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 06:55 PM
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Lol don't worry brah did not actually say that
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 01:40 AM
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Current LTR has one. Most only consider it after 35 when they can't take the pill. Not even sure if doctors would give it to younger woman?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 11:49 PM
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Lol thats smart. My buddy would always say to girls, 'wow my sister has the same ____ (purse, shoes, etc)' even though he doesn't jhave a sister, just to open aha
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:52 PM
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Ya I agree man. I used to do that, get the number and dip, but staying for a bit longer to talk is better especially for future encounters.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:51 PM
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Ya I have to agree with the guys below, I'd honestly guess you and kempff are virgin manlets by the way you act. That or poor understanding of the sidebar or nuts.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:47 PM
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Bro did you even read my post? It is just another tool in the arsenal. What's wrong with having fun, being inventive/creative in wheeling broads? I'm not 'starting out', I approach normally go out have a social circle etc etc Every field report is the same shit over and over, simply confirmation of what we already know works. I'm bringing something new to the table! I didn't literally say whooopsiedaisys btw I encourage you to try new stuff and have fun with it.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:45 PM
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Chill out, buddy.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 03:02 AM
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some girls have them very rarely they can get themselves off with ease yet go through dozens of partners and have very few read the sex god method book
/r/askTRP04/11/14 02:59 AM
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You need to have high standards if you want to learn the important lessons life and be succesful. Sure banging woman points below you is nice makes you feel confident etc but it requires limited game. Go for gold brah!
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 01:28 AM
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Every time your girl does this at the wrong time let her know. Beleive me it only makes you look like a little fg8 if it is out of insecurity jelously, but when you call her out for manners or poor behaviour, if she loves you, she will be ashamed and look liek a sad puppy that just dissappointed her master.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:45 PM
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I'd say indians and asians have it the toughest. I can't even count the amount of brown/asian girls who I have heard say ''I've never dated a brown/asian guy''...I would be pissed if I was a brown asian guy and these used up white CC riders hit the wall and want someone from their own race to settle down with. But you know what, it is the same in the white race too. The white chicks will go for the top white guys then want to settle with middle of the back beta shlubs.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:41 PM
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Bro keep dummying her with zero regard for her well being! I know it sounds bad, but this is actually the best possible thing you can do, because.... 1) You get physical and emotional satisfaction from it 2) You are fucking her up ever worse, making the red flags she sends out to the next guy she is involved with even more obvious This woman is not and will never be relationship material, so you must treat her accordingly. For you, for her, for any future guy she encounters. You are doing the wo…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:39 PM
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This is child abuse. Any adult that took part in letting this happened should be criminally charged.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 06:40 AM
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I think some form of companionship would help you greatly. You don't want to live life in your head or on the internet. Making some friends, having conversations, doing activities etc, all while focusing on the important things / goals in life sounds like a good route for you.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 04:59 AM
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Part of being a good person, unlike the typical spineless gutless shmucks inhabiting this planet, is to transcend your nature. Do what you believe is right philosophically/ethically/morally in spite of your 'biological imperatives'. RP preaches woman are incapable of this, stripping them of moral agency. Yet men who have their own biological imperatives are somehow superior. We really can't have it both ways, RP sexual strategy is completely amoral and you just do whatever the hell you want in r…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:07 AM
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Texting is hit or miss, just do it for your own entertainment, keep it brief. Some will say don't ask questions, wait a lot before u respond, be aloof etc, iits all bogus unless you have already established attraction. I do this and it always works with atleast 1 person. ill send it to a couple broads if im bored alone in the evening ''where r u lets meet up now'' they usuall laugh or go ''what the hell'', ''are u serious'' I say ''im in the car give me ur coordinates'' they laugh more etc if th…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 10:59 PM
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I have a similar arrangement atm. I notice the 40s broads are way cooler than the 30s. Woman go through phases, and when they have failed marriages etc and kind of accept they arn't getting the happily ever after, some become pretty cool. The woman I'm with is awesome. No headaches, supportive, does pay for a lot of stuff, basically gave me one of her cars etc but the actual relationshup is better than all that stuff. I am concerned about the future though -_- but I don't think Ill regret it.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 03:33 AM
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1 of 2 things will happen if you passed 1) She will tell you in a week(s) time that her dates suck and she just wants to spend time with you 2) Shes a megaslut and will fuck u and others happily OR If you failed, she will start flaking on you. If she's your average girl, I'm predicting #1. Let us know what happens brah.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:38 PM
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Appreciate the lengthy response brother. I think I get what your saying. And it is a very beautiful concept in philosophy we could discuss at length. There are many parallels to be drawn between RP philosophy and other areas of study. I did say that the inconsistencies are in the RP thinkers not necessarily the philosophy. And I chose to draw the comparison to atheism (and how it relates to theology or philophy in general, science etc) because there is a lot we could compare between the two. Wit…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:05 PM
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Molyneux is a philosopher and therefore deals with universals principals. He applies the same standard of ethics to woman and men of course. RP philosophy suggest to do otherwise, and like Lr_muffintoes said, within the context of male-female interactions, this(RP) is effective.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:26 PM
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There are some inconsistencies/incoherence in RP thinkers, not necessarily the philosophy. Not even saying you are one them bro, just speaking to whoever is reading. I notice a lot of people pick and chose RP principals to follow. If you chose RP philosophy you have to accept all realities of the world view. Just as if your an atheist you should be prepared to entertain the nihilistic nature/outcome of your worldview (a la nietzsche). It's like you hold these beliefs about woman, talk about true…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:18 PM
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In other words, men have complete control and responsibility as long as they hold frame, implement RP philosophy etc, except they cannot change a woman's nature. See that is why it IS about control. If it weren't, then we wouldn't value ''virtuous'' ''good'' woman over shitty ones. We would think all woman are equal and mold them at our own whimsical discretion.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:06 PM
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I get what you are saying brother thanks for making the point clear.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:03 PM
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What so a drunk woman who gets into a car and kills someone isn't responsible? Again I think you are taking one instance and extrapolating it. And why does being a leader and setting a standard have to be about control? The other party is free to leave or disagree at anytime. If someone has a theory or philosophy I agree with and I decide to follow it, does that mean they have control over me?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 12:05 AM
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What you did was took that example of sex and extrapolated it to woman very nature and their entire emotional --> rational behavior. And I do believe woman are way worse at backwards rationalizing and acting off emotion etc
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 11:20 PM
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Bro the part you are not understanding is that it is pretty egotistical and narcissistic to [assuming you are so in control], want those things out of an adult relationship. If woman are so graetly affected by your actions, decisions and presence - why not hold them to the same standard you hold yourself? Hold them accountable for their actions, their being. Unless you think woman are literally incapable of this, yet men somehow are capable.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 11:16 PM
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Your stripping woman of responsibility, agency and humanity. And there is not much basis for what you're saying, outside of your own experiences. I understand the biological/evolution part of RP, but you're taking it too far brah.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 11:07 PM
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We get it a lot of woman are at the mercy of their emotions, just as the vast majority of men are. And you want to keep these people far away from you if you have any intention of building good relationships with healthy people. I'm not knocking the strategy of even saying your wrong, but do you really want the basis of an adult relationship to be like this???
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 10:57 PM
3

im datin a single mom...the kid (5) has a dad and they;re both well off financially its actually a very good relationship inb4 year down the road i come back with a horror story *shes twice my age, would never get involved with single mom when im older
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:23 PM
5

It's not simply 'if they are unhappy'. There are plenty of unhappy woman who stay faithful in relationships. It's just that they think they have a man who is better than them and desired by other woman. The girl in your story was just bored.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 12:47 AM
1

Tough call. If you decide to be the bigger man and not fuck a girl with a bf, she'll just find someone else. Id you don't do it and tell the bf, it may not make a difference, the gf would lie away and the beta bozo would dismiss it. If you fuck her and tell the bf your potentially putting yourself in a sticky situation for the sake of a complete stranger. If you fuck her and not tell her bf he is gettin screwed. You can't win brah!
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:33 PM
8

Funny cause i notice being sleepy/dopey I have zero anxiety and am way better socially... Tired game#!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 06:05 AM
1

give it a shot if u know hairloss will bother u a lot...if u have side effects, which is rare, drop it.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:32 PM
2

It's actually a little more complicated than that. You get the 'gene' from your mothers side but your dads genetics does a lot to determine the severity of the baldness.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:04 PM
1

When you have multiple plates on the go this type of concern is not even present in your mind. Maybe nothing happens, maybe it takes a 2 or 3 meet ups etc
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:19 PM
6

No not really. None that I would reach out to to spend time together. Simply because I've yet to meet a woman who I enjoy hanging out with (without sex) equal to or more than one of my male friends.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:47 AM
2

They essentially use it as an interview for sex...If they are below 6 then a lot of times they'll already agree to the close before meeting. If they are not 'looking for a relationship' and agree to meet you, its as simple as not messing up and creating some attraction goin for it and your in brah. Lots of girls i talk to say most dates go brutally the guys are retards and way smoother online....your way better off chatting less to them and saying lets meet up pretty early on or their imaginatio…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:01 AM
1

Older woman put out fast u need to escalate quickly so you don't waste time. You probably had a chance, as she accepted to meet up with you, but you blew it man.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 08:39 PM
5

Dont engage with her childish behavior. It is the same as dealing with a child man.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:46 AM
1

If you are observant and listen carefully to the words people use you will start noticing when their pattern of behavior change...hell I even notice when I do it myself.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 06:46 AM
4

stoped reading at 'fucktards'...gotta be a real fuckin jerk job to use that word ur posts are annoying dude, r u a troll?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 01:28 AM
7

Brah proverbs is full of great advice on dealing with woman....Solomon took TRP!
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 02:44 AM
2

will do brother thx for lettin me know
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 04:19 PM
46

lol @ helps you pin finaplex you got yourself a keeper kiddo - please proceed to treat her like the princess she is to ensure she wont realize your a douche and go anywhere!
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:57 AM
2

whatever man ream them out after u fuck them...it will probably have an even greater impact. Convince them to leave their bf, make them fall for u, let them try and branch swing then tell her shes worthless scum...do whatever the hell u want lol it really doesn't matter its not gonna change a damn thing. You can chose to not participate whatsoever, that is fine, and like u say ur an alpha and theres no shortage of woman. To be honest most 'alphas' just move to the next one or put very limited ef…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 06:00 AM
1

What a lot on here forget IMO is that the 'beta bux' (which you are misunderstanding btw) or being with a beta while still fucking alphas on the side is not because of alphaness of the alpha, but because of the woman. They are just the recipients of the reward because they are alpha. This is also why when people inject morality in these types of topics it is useless. 99% of the woman who cheat are going to do it anyways, it doesn't require skillful manipulation on the mans part, just a woman who…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 05:09 AM
1

She doesn't want to completely give up the validation that comes from having you in her life knowing how you feel about her...if u were to pull the same thing on her she would throw a tantrum and never talk to you again. She is being selfish!
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 05:07 PM
1

Being observant and listening carefully is so key...IMO some of the most importnat things and automatic deal breakers for me are 1) How they handle critism 2) Their view on certain negative behaviour 3) They're abilisty to recognize and take accountability for their actions. Just an example, and this wasn;'t even of a woman..but my friend ex husband cheated on her. I remember her saying that he also cheated on a previosu ex wife. When I said, 'why would u get involved with such a man!'...she sai…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:05 PM
1

interesting point about having somethign to lose over it... this may be my own defense mechanism, but ive only engaged in LTRs where the girl has invested much more into me and where our lives are quite seperate. I feel like it makes me keep a healthy perspecitve as far as the quality of the relationship and the character of the person im with...if it ends, i basically go back to my pre LTR life which was fine, there isn';t much fallout with nbecause no living together, no mutual friends, not in…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:58 PM
1

Well man I think this comes down to the way you are behaving...You're thinking logically ie ''i get more ripped, my girl will be more attracted'', and while this should hold true you also have to reinforce the 'new ripped you' with the proper behavior. Mild dread game is likely necessary my friend. Flirt with other woman in front of your wife (not overtly but in a suggestive way that will make her flirt back).
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:44 AM
7

''Be like water'' - Bruce Lee Actually u dont want to be like a lake brah aim to be like a mountain
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:36 AM
1

my physique was established and has since gone downhill ! over the last few months i bulked up but am not nearly as cut as i used too..got tons of comments from my homies about arms lookin big and askin if ive been goin to the gym etc but nothing from girls gf wants me to be fat tub of goo and said she'd be insecure if i got into top physical form lol
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:33 AM
1

nooo but she mentioned the jawline was one of the first things she noticed and will throwin in comments about it here and there
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:51 AM
1

Well Im in an LTR. Past plates usually commented on body GF comments on jawline moreso
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:06 AM
3

yes man mostly for the V shape cut type of thing at the lower abs pelvis area also comments for jawline, black ass (not sure if good or bad), small ears, gimongo schlong obviously aswell nothing for arms or quads which men will compliment you definitly want to go for the cut look over the bulky look
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 01:45 AM
7

Do what you think is right. This is my motto! Under all circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 01:26 AM
3

I am happy for you man! These woman like yours do exist. However, I wouldn't weigh that factor as heavily as the above poster does. They could be 30 with many partners but qualify in all other areas. Or you could have someone with 2 partners from LTRs and she cheated on both them.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 05:37 PM
4

brother we must accept that every woman who has not always been in long term relationships ie has been single for periods of time since they lost their virginity, will have large partner counts.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 05:25 PM
1

well whole purpose of the post was to show female perspecitive not anything to do with 'girl/plate im gaming check it out'
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:15 AM
2

This may be controversial, and I promise you I am not trying to purposely be unsympathetic , but perhaps go fuck a solid prozi/escourt then regroup and go from there. I say this for two reasons 1) While you have many problems, and this does not directly solve them, being a kissless virgin will most certainly contribute to the anxiety you involving woman. 2) Two of my close friends, both solid looking dudes, decent social skills, lost their virginity to hookers. They were essentially just inexper…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:16 AM
3

ya common dude a guy cant take a couple minutes out a day to txt some slu?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:03 AM
5

Man I really would not use prescription AIs unless they are necessary for health or you are on meds that will increase estradiol
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:42 AM
1

I think man TRP people forget majority of men are also 'emotional' and act based on emotions rather than logic. But it is more difficult IMO for woman to separate themselves from their emotions.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:20 PM
1

No I don't hold this as a rigid belief, but the evidence I've observed indicates woman on average are 'more intellectual' or 'more intelligent', but men do have a greater capacity in these realms. Ie more male 'geniuses' 'great thinkers' 'intellects' etc but also a huge variance so many more low intelligence/intellect men than woman. You could blame society for that if you wish but my belief is that all things being equal this would still be the case. Men are designed and at a biological advanta…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:11 PM
0

TRP looks at the bigger picture and will leave you in a better place in the long run if you follow it...PUA is just skills/techniques that you should learn
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:53 AM
1

''2. Desire for companionship from the opposite gender: Very high for men, fairly low for women.'' This is dead wrong bro. Also 3 and 4 are basically the same. These pillars make little sense IMO.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 06:32 PM
1

Like all these guys are saying tinder is not a good example of what is capable in the real world for guys under 8 or so... Woman judge on behaviour cues more than we do and on tinder all they get is a face so of course they are going to be very selective and only go for the best looking guys because that is their ONLY judging criteria at the given time...whereas for men looks are virtually are only judging criteria all the time Also I have two friends who use tinder...one has MAJOR success while…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:01 PM
1

thanks for the advice so far it has been 1.5 yrs and we have lots of sex, as much as we can...even BJs in the car if we just meet up for lunch, she is always willing to please. Although we do only see each other about 2 times a week. i assume this will dwindle to a degree over time
/r/askTRP19/06/14 10:32 PM
17

The only 'negative' emotion you can ever express to your SO is anger. I noticed this growing up with my dad...deaths in the family, tough times, u name it etc..never seen this guy budge except for the odd outburst of anger and being pissed off
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 08:11 PM
5

It is actaully astouding. Us RPers always think the girl know exactly what she doing but honestly many beleive they can innocently spend time with a guy and he does not want to have sex with them. IMO females genuinly like male company and attention whereas us males way rather spend time with a fellow bro than waste our time with a female if there is no sex involed (unless perhaps they are existing friend, ex, ex-plate, we are already having gf etc) If your girl is interested she will want to sp…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:00 PM
1

Brother of course when it comes to online dating/apps it will always reveal woman only find a small % of men attractive and aim for the top 10%! But remember that in the real world this is very different...woman respond WAY more to behavioral cues...they will even convince themselves that a man is better looking then they are in reality if that mans behavior makes him attractive to her...or if they find out a man has status etc for things like online dating ya if u want decent girls u need facia…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:08 PM
3

does she know you have side-pieces?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:01 PM
1

Is true! Major difference is men have way more realistic and healthy expectations.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 05:34 AM
0

yea u may be right but honestly one month, doesn't seeem like a solid trust was built. Just stick to your guns next time and do what you think is right i have a tendancy to do what you do ie be emotionally unavailable or emotionally passive if you will, but at the same time maintain frame. this isn't necessarilly a bad approach but if you ffind a good girl you could fuck things up and in the long run it will give you more problems
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:28 AM
-1

dude girls are retarded stop fretting about what she said..u did nothing wrong so just tell her the truth if she cant accept it move on i get the wierdest shit tests even in my LTR be it 'how many girls u slept with' a year in after the question has been asked already 'are we exclusive' after a clear agreement has been made 'i dont trust u' out of no where...honestly i have no idea what these mean they could be projections on her part or dread and it doesn't matter to me aslong as her actions/be…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:21 AM
2

I'll take a hot 40s who takes care of her self and aged well over a hot 30s any day. I really like woman 40+ actually. My age range will always be 16-20 and 38-45.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:11 AM
1

too old perhaps use phrasing that alludes to 'we are at different places in our life' versus 'you are too old'
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 07:01 PM
2

What would you rather be, 6'1 decent face but skinny and boyish? Or 5'9 jacked and manly looking?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:51 PM
2

How can you be sure you've never been cheated on brah? I don't disagree with what your saying. I think even a good woman with integrity would upgrade and leave for a better man if there was some chance of actually being with that better man. But in truth more men in happy relationships would opt for a quick fuck with no desire of seeing that woman again or leaving the one they got at home. Any woman doing that is not happy and would leave if a better man with a better offer came along.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:49 PM
3

im dating one and she is great treats me very well and not much effort is required on my end. definitely could not get that kind of thing from a younger girl just make sure u constantly throw in reminders that shes too old and it could never work out / wont last long
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 08:34 AM
2

It's like saying if you are American you are a part of Imperialism...smh
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 10:45 PM
2

THE LAST EMPEROR!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:45 AM
11

puttin ma nigga
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 03:20 AM
3

RIP spunkybd lol just playin bro....you love this girl? and her kids? Invest majority of your love in yourself and your child you will be fine brah
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:25 AM
21

one bright spot is the advice given by the woman
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 08:31 PM
-3

first time gf gave me bj i didnt cum she was very offended and worked hard to fix her errors, bjs now many per week cum in mouth yes is great
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 07:13 PM
6

I read Rollo Tomassi's War Brides and it scared the shit out of me
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:32 AM
17

Do not let your mother be alone and speak with your sister! She will try and manipulate her for sure...Make sure you are there for your sister and that both of you are there for your dad. Someone I know is going through virtually the exact same thing, now the divorced mother is out partying all the time and completely neglected their 16 yo daughter, daughter hates the mom, daughter spending a lot of time with the dad and it is helping them both. It's absolutely insane how the wife cheated, had b…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:22 AM
1

What you mention in #3 is so so key brah. Listen and carefully observe..hold frame...when arguments/discussions like these come along you'll always be right and she will almost always admit it after the fact and love you more for it.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 03:25 AM
-2

Regardless of the womans history if you can have her full respect and attention ie like a loving daughter would have for her father then she will be loyal and if you dont fuck up she will remain that way.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:23 PM
1

This is true. I've never been in a position with an LTR where they try and take sex away or reduce it, has only happened as a powerplay by plates. But if after years the sex was still decent (but had declined a bit) yet all other aspects were good I wouldn't be worried. I think since a mans sexual appetite and drive is much bigger that in cases woman have to learn and accept that and aim to please anyways even if they are not immensely turned on all the time, which happens.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:44 PM
2

I agree and you bring up a good point. I believe maintaining your frame overall is more important. I can think of multiple friends in relationships that had the sex dry up and they just cheat on their gfs and their gfs stay faithful though, so it can go both ways. Perhaps the fact they do cheat and and don't really put too much into the fact they are not having as much sex with their gf helps them maintain frame.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:22 PM
-2

You are right but it is realistic to have these expectations for the long term....Things will dry up to an extent, and it doesn't mean the woman will necessarily stray. I'd say if the sex dies down but the woman still makes efforts to please a man by doing other things she's always done it isn't a huge deal.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:29 AM
-1

I don't think it is the biggest guage to be honest...A man maintaing fram is more important IMO
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:12 AM
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