| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | Mother’s Day debacle | Need Support | Dragonite_23 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Going through separation now | Rant | Dragonite_23 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 07:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | I love my wife with my whole heart, but she wants a divorce.I’m sorry you’re going through this. It feels impossible and was the hardest thing I’ve been through too. I found videos from Dr. Maika Steinborn and Rachel Sloan on YouTube extremely helpful. They have a lot of great videos and tips to help regulate your system but also help with self confidence and knowing it wasn’t only you that led here. Good luck on this journey! We’re all in it together while we’re also all in it alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/26 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Frozen and struggling so badI’m sorry you’re going through this. I found videos from Dr. Maika Steinborn and Rachel Sloan on YouTube extremely helpful. They have a lot of great videos and tips to help regulate your system but also help with self confidence and knowing it wasn’t only you that led here. Good luck on this journey! We’re all in it together while we’re also all in it alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/26 10:56 AM |
| 1 | I tried to overcome infidelity and couldn’t and now I don’t feel wellKeep in mind that all of those feelings can exist at the same time. You can be upset, angry, and pissed that she cheated, and you can also at the same time, want to be with your spouse, who you built a life with and feel guilty about leaving that. It took me a little while to work through my resentment, and I didn’t have the infidelity in my situation. I don’t think I could personally get over that, and I would choose divorce instead. Which is sad, but that’s me. I’m also military. My wife and I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 12:17 PM |
| 1 | HELP. HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS?Sorry to hear you’re going through this. I’m still in mine and it’s tough every day and impossible when the random moments and feelings come up. Lack of sleep, eating, and concentration, sadness, and anger are completely natural. It affected me on and off for a long time. I’m a few months into my separation and my eating is great now, my concentration is pretty good, and my sleep is getting a lot better but still a work in progress. Look up videos from Dr. Maika Steinborn and Rachel Sloan on You… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/26 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Spinning the blockWhat did these women want? And what was more and more and more? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/26 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Having an argument and not blowing up is a great feelingThat’s awesome, great job! Which advice helped you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Whelp, didn’t think it would happen…It sucks, he was your past, present, and future. It’s gonna take time. Feel what you need to feel! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/26 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Deployed. Called the kids and got to hear about the new bf at the house.I get it. Overall and I wouldn’t have wanted that when I was deployed. Good luck to you, in every way needed! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/26 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Going through separation nowThanks! I’m working on being true to myself and the kids and helping her out less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Going through separation nowThanks for sharing. That’s what I’m seeing more and more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Divorce analysisCan you tell us more about the relationships after that were part of the process? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Going through separation nowYeah, I’ve been trying to sit with my emotions to feel and process them. I’ve had a lot of guilt feeling like I could’ve done better and sooner. I’m angry at her for not trusting me or trying with me, especially with her acknowledging her part in our communication. I feel hopeless and devastated that our family and kids will be broken up. The thought of finding someone that will be kind, care for me, and compliment me makes me happy and brings me some hope, but jumping into the dating scene (may… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 08:21 PM |
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