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I really don't think a couple lines about basic subjects really helps anyone much. Seddit is flooded with 'x easy tips to get laid', but there's hardly any comprehensive articles being posted. I'm merely suggesting to OP that that would help him and people on seddit more.
/r/seduction18/11/13 09:17 AM
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This post is made every couple of weeks. Rather than summing up the absolute basics of seduction, why not write a more comprehensive post about something you're good at or might have something new to share about? This really doesn't help anyone.
/r/seduction17/11/13 11:24 PM
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The worst thing that can happen is that you get punched in the face or kicked in the balls. So what? Your mindset is the key here. Nobody has any reason to attack someone for simply walking up and talking to someone, and it wont happen that easily. You need to just take the plunge and try a couple of times to find out if your fears are real. And the worst case scenario really isnt that bad, so you might as well try.
/r/seduction14/11/13 01:36 PM
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This. If you're not fazed by it, who gives a fuck.
/r/seduction10/11/13 03:12 PM
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People ask stuff like this all the time, but I never see people respond. What you need to do is simply build bigger social circles and join more of them in your area. You'll find people who you can approach with soon enough, and that's usually better than finding some random dude on seddit.
/r/seduction05/11/13 04:26 PM
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But who doesn't want to read another 10 EASY STEPS TO GET YOUR SICK DUCKED?
/r/seduction05/11/13 03:10 PM
3

Awesome job, be sure to keep doing stuff like this
/r/seduction04/11/13 11:08 AM
6

The main thing to take away from this:You don't need an excuse to talk to women, don't go looking for one and say hi already. No excuses.
/r/seduction17/09/13 09:39 PM
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This kind of question is what askseddit is for. No, don't buy her a present. You could buy her a drink or something, just keep it modest.
/r/seduction31/08/13 05:29 PM
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There's nothing wrong with doing that, I really don't think this situation is problematic as all, if you just accept and own the fact that you're busy
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:11 PM
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Let me get this straight. You approached her to be her friend, then shut down when she friendzoned you? I don't think there's a trick to stop you from feeling that way when it happens, but just realize how silly and irrelevant it really is. Just be her friend, man.
/r/seduction23/08/13 09:19 AM
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Average people are inexperienced compared to people who devote a lot of time and effort to seduction. Is his point that hard to grasp, or are you just looking for a way to feel bad?
/r/seduction20/06/13 10:19 AM
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"Waiting for an approach tell" "it says to the guys you may approach me now" lol
/r/seduction27/10/12 10:59 PM
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I'm only here after a year and a half of pickup. Put in the work and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction22/09/12 08:36 AM
2

My kino escalation ladder is simple. I start with arm touches and quickly go to lower back and thigh touches. I grab her hand, hold on for a couple seconds and let go again. I touch her neck, pull her a little closer and whisper something in her ear. I lean in, grab a hand, and kiss her. I grab a boob when it seems appropriate. EDIT: Also, what you say doesn't matter much if your body language, tonality and pacing are good.
/r/seduction21/09/12 01:22 PM
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If you mean appearance, I've been working out for a year and a half now, been paying attention to diet, learned dress sense. But I don't think that's what matters most. Girl's coming over in half an hour, I'll ask her what she thinks of my looks.
/r/seduction21/09/12 01:19 PM
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You can do it however. By teasing her, using double entendres, telling a story, or by bluntly starting a thread about sex. I think we talked about previous relationships right before, not sure how we got to sex as subject. Sorry, it was two weeks ago. ;)
/r/seduction20/09/12 08:59 PM
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Ask her out. Keep the conversation short and simple and get a date asap. You'll find out if she's interested pretty easily, just ask her on a date. What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:30 PM
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17, and I've been here for over a year.
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:44 AM
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Haha, jammer! :>
/r/seduction05/08/12 07:26 PM
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Gracias! I will remember it always.
/r/seduction05/08/12 06:31 PM
1

Anytime! I also have a crosspost up on /r/trueplayer.
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:14 PM
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http://pastebin.com/V8eHn2KW
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:08 PM
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I sent a message to the seddit mods, I don't know why. :(
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:01 PM
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Kinda hurts man, it took a long time to type out. :(
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:53 PM
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Awesome to hear! It's great fun, what rules would you change?
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:48 PM
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Ik woon rond Hilversum, sup?
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:40 PM
2

You know it.
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:40 PM
1

Precisely, you get it! Doing weird shit is what I live for! <3
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:14 PM
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If you're vertically challenged it's not a good idea, but most of my mates are pretty fit. You're free to change any challenges if you want to, but you get the idea. Get them out there out of their comfort zone!
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:13 PM
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The general idea is to get your bros comfortable with talking to girls. You can teach them pickup in the process of playing, and more when they're sober if they're interested. It really is an awesome night out!
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:00 PM
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That's cool. It's fine to try, just don't expect anything. Chase other girls in the meantime.
/r/seduction04/07/12 11:40 AM
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It's possible to get out of the friendzone, but it's really not worth the effort usually. Approach other girls, see how you feel then.
/r/seduction04/07/12 10:48 AM
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If you're not in the field, ask yourself what the fuck you're doing in here.
/r/seduction04/07/12 10:39 AM
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Do the salesman jig another way. make it silly, light hearted and funny, don't go into job talk so much. Thread the conversation away after a while. You probably could have closed there, next time if a set leaves, just ask instead of letting them run away. Take the shot, however low your chances.
/r/seduction06/03/12 10:15 PM
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I enjoy getting high, but not when I'm gonna pick up. Talking smoothly ends up sounding like garbled nonsense. I found that drunk pickup works better, but don't drink too much, or you might regret what you've done in the morning. >_>
/r/seduction24/02/12 06:48 AM
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This should be in r/askseddit. Why don't you shoot her a text and see what happens?
/r/seduction24/02/12 06:02 AM
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I'm in the hilversum area, not too far away from Amsterdam. It seems like most people quickly evolve to using natural game as they progress and get more confident. It seems like in the end, less is more when it comes to seduction.
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:56 AM
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This is awesome, I haven't seen posts by other Dutch sedditors often, and certainly not ones like this. Awesome stuff mate. Do you still practice mm as meticulously as that?
/r/seduction22/02/12 11:27 AM
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The awesome dude inside you is finally showing himself, welcome to him! If you're insecure about how you look, start lifting weights. It makes you feel and look even more awesome. R/fitness is a good place to start, or the sticky over at 4chan's /fit/. Do mind that hooking a hot girl won't always be this easy. ;)
/r/seduction20/02/12 07:04 AM
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Don't fucking kill yourself. You sound like a baby. waaah, girls won't fuck me. Start improving yourself and your life. You're doing something wrong, why not approach a hundred girls and find out how to improve upon that? Just go out. If you were expecting pats on the back and pity, you're not getting them from me.
/r/seduction16/02/12 07:34 AM
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Hand grabbing is one of the first things I do once I established some basic contact. While talking, or after a trigger like something funny she said or whatever, grab her hand, hold it for a couple seconds and let go. It's easy and in my experience gets your intentions across and builds attraction very quickly. Also, I fucking love holding/touching hands.
/r/seduction15/02/12 08:55 PM
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What's up with the board game?
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:47 PM
0

How's life brah? edit: some kind of verification would be nice <3
/r/seduction12/02/12 02:48 PM
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Yes, actually! Yesterday night, with a girl I've actually known for a year or two. Definitely had some fun, touched her (and her friend) in some inappropriate places. Gonna do it properly, cold approaching, another time.
/r/seduction04/02/12 02:23 PM
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Props man, glad my line worked for you <3
/r/seduction04/02/12 11:18 AM
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'I've had a crush on you for years.' Preferably used on girls you don't know, as opener. See if you can make it work.
/r/seduction03/02/12 02:27 PM
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You have the wrong mindset, you chode. This girl is not a 'perfect 10'. Get your head out of your arse. If you're coming from an angle like that, you might as well just fap to her pictures and call it a night.
/r/seduction01/02/12 09:56 AM
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What we're thinking of doing as segments, at least for the first time, is looking at some FRs on seddit, answering questions from listeners, creating (silly) challenges for sedditors and being funny as hell. What else would you guys like to hear? Also, suggestions of topics for our first cast are welcome!
/r/seduction30/01/12 09:36 PM
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'Yeah, my leg was amputated, wanna see where they put the bone?'
/r/seduction26/01/12 03:44 PM
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So brave.
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:34 PM
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CAPTAIN, THE CRAZY DETECTOR, IT'S OFF THE CHARTS. WHAT DO WE DO? I THINK IT WAS A BAD IDEA TO SAIL THIS CLOSE TO THE CRAZY, WHAT IF WE SINK?! Edit: Downvotes, really?
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:28 PM
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I hate that sonofabitch.
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:26 PM
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That's fine, I can also do skype or anything else really.
/r/seduction13/01/12 11:41 PM
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Good job. Don't ever wuss out. Pain of growing a pair versus the pain of regret. I know which one I'd rather choose.
/r/seduction13/01/12 10:45 PM
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I'm always up for some free coaching if people want it. Won't fly over to chill with you, but I can help you get started with seduction if you want to.
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:46 PM
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Kissing is fun. Enjoy the moment.
/r/seduction11/01/12 09:22 PM
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likd
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:43 PM
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I never said life changing. Little things together will slowly build confidence. Perhaps the video game one is a bad example.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:04 PM
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Sedditor Good question! It's a very gradual process. Some people advocate putting on a mask of sorts, faking it till you make it. I'm not sure whether I agree with that. Confidence can be created by stepping out of your comfort zone. Scared of talking to strangers? Go say hi to random people in the mall. Next time, hold a conversation for a minute or so. And so on. Do this with different aspects of your life. For example: Try lifting heavier weights, learn to do a certain dance, or beat a really…
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:54 PM
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Sedditor I can't speak for everyone here, but I know at least some of us, including myself, have come from a background where we had no friends at all and didn't know at all how to handle friendships/the other gender/going out. Personallly, I got sick of that and found seduction looking for a way out of it. It has helped me a lot, and I'm a lot happier now than I was before. I don't block that period out of my mind, I have some great memories of it, but I wouldn't want to go back to that time.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:50 PM
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Sedditor Pick up some hobbies! Take some classes to things you think you might enjoy. It'll bring you into contact with people, and you'll learn something whilst doing it! Be sure to talk to people there and try to befriend them. Asking a dude for his telephone number isn't weird if you just had a good time together, ask him to hang out with you again and see what happens. There are usually many different ways to get into contact with people, try some different things and see what you enjoy. If …
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:47 PM
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Try going out sober, and actively focussing on escalating.
/r/seduction27/12/11 11:52 AM
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Sounds pretty good! Send me a message sometime and we'll figure out what to do.
/r/seduction27/12/11 11:09 AM
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Start small. Treat yourself to nice things once in a while, and make a point of it. When you're comfortable with that, try and find out what you want. The key is being comfortable with it, it shouldn't make you unhappy.
/r/seduction26/12/11 09:02 PM
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Sounds pretty good. Well. Hilversum is a bit of a shithole, there's a couple of bars where people my age hang, and that's it. Better off going out in Amsterdam, I'd say.
/r/seduction26/12/11 07:03 PM
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I live in the hilversum area, but I'm only 17, so unless you're around my age, it'll be a bit difficult!
/r/seduction26/12/11 04:01 PM
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Good seeing that there are more Dutch puas! Good job on the close, looks like it went pretty much perfectly! Keep going out, have fun and keep closing.
/r/seduction26/12/11 02:15 PM
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You didn't escalate. You should make clear that you're interested by touching, teasing and building sexual tension. Just 'talking' won't help here.
/r/seduction02/12/11 11:25 AM
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HAVE FUN! Dance, drink a bit if you enjoy it, make friends! Make being around you the best thing to do in the venue. Good luck!
/r/seduction18/11/11 07:52 PM
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Talk less, kino more! I enjoy it when they save me the task of talking, and all I need to do is steer them in the right direction, but kino becomes so much more important! Keep touching that girl, if talking doesn't work, go to body language communication.
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:50 AM
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My wing and I are 16 as well, don't think that's a problem!
/r/seduction05/11/11 08:41 PM
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Good job, you just generalized two populations of over 300 million people.
/r/seduction29/10/11 09:07 AM
2

What do I teach a beginner when I go out with him? He has read basic material, should I tell him what to do, when to approach, basically guide him through the whole thing, or let him be and give him pointers when he needs them? Good bits of advice for someone who as far as I have seen, is a really fast learner, but is only just starting.
/r/seduction27/10/11 06:47 PM
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So that still means that being chivalrous gives higher value than not being it? You're not really making a point here.
/r/seduction27/10/11 05:53 AM
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Don't follow the 'rules' of pickup so narrowly, bend them, see what works for you. Something isn't working for you now, you just need to find a way to improve on it. See this as a sticking point, work on it like you would on any other. Find out what you want to achieve in life and work towards it. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/10/11 06:18 AM
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Just fucking approach. Use kino. Escalate. All you need.
/r/seduction22/10/11 07:55 PM
2

I downloaded it a couple days ago and will try and use it for a bit. Looks pretty intuitive.
/r/seduction21/10/11 06:43 PM
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That's a good definition. One to show the haters.
/r/seduction21/10/11 12:22 PM
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I enjoy playing multiplayer games, like lol and SC2, but single player games have mostly lost their appeal to me. I still enjoy some games now and again, but for the most part my 900 euro pc is just standing there and playing music now. 900 euro music and reddit machine, with some games thrown in now and again? Totally worth it.
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:49 PM
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Go in, work the group, find a target, escalate.
/r/seduction18/10/11 04:52 PM
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Assume attraction and approach.
/r/seduction15/10/11 06:03 PM
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Don't think about it. I know people who look like they took a nose dive off the ugly tree and hit any branch on the way down and still get more chicks than I do. Confidence and body language will get everyone far.
/r/seduction15/10/11 05:59 PM
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A good female friend of mine told me last week that the number one and two things girls talk about are boys and gossip. They don't really break it down as much as we do, but to be fair, people here do that more than most! And in a population of 3 billion, you can't say that they 'do' or 'don't do' it, there's simply too much difference between people to be able to generalize like that.
/r/seduction15/10/11 05:41 PM
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Tall men just need to get their shit together, same as with short and average men. All of your 4 points pretty much apply to anyone. Stand proud, relax, project your voice, and be a better man.
/r/seduction15/10/11 04:40 PM
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Yeah, that's what I imagine we need, something that catches the eye.
/r/seduction14/10/11 08:09 PM
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I guess that makes sense. A nice big link to askseddit and a comprehensive guide to beginners would be awesome and fix a lot of the issues both newcomers and seasoned sedditors have.
/r/seduction14/10/11 05:44 PM
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I mostly meant seddit, askseddit and seddelite. Not trying to advertise highsed here if you meant that! ;p
/r/seduction14/10/11 05:37 PM
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Great! This reddit could use some cleaning up and polish. It's very unclear how the whole 'seddit cluster' of reddits work for newcomers, so nice and clear links that are very visible would work well, as well as a streamlined sidebar.
/r/seduction14/10/11 05:30 PM
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Great, make us proud Curveball!
/r/seduction14/10/11 04:41 PM
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Nice. Keep up that frame of not giving a fuck about others so much. Just have fun, and keep having fun.
/r/seduction10/09/11 11:12 AM
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Bullet points need a space after the *. :) Going down after being rejected for the kiss? Bold, but if she was into it, why not. Try and relax more, eventually you'll get into it and you can be yourself much easier.
/r/seduction10/09/11 10:46 AM
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Open with a 7pool, rush past her defenses and finish her off by pushing into her natural with a large roach force. ;)
/r/seduction09/09/11 08:05 PM
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Toned abs Nope. Abs=low bodyfat. Don't expect to do yoga and suddenly have 6pack abs, without changing your diet etc. Totally agree with the flexibity and mental benefits though.
/r/seduction05/08/11 11:24 AM
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Nice job on that last set. I have no idea why that set at the bar would react like that, that's weird as hell. Well, it looks like you've learnt quite a lot from this, good work.
/r/seduction05/08/11 11:18 AM
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I am everything but a natural. Most of the time you would see me, I'd be behind my computer doing jack shit. Heck, I still do that. You need to learn to enjoy the little things in social interaction. Enjoy getting to know people, enjoy getting them to like you, enjoy flirting! A few months ago, talking to a girl would have me all clammy and shaking, now I fucking love it, charming them, kino-ing, all that good stuff. I had trouble with meeting new people in general. I learnt to love everything a…
/r/seduction26/07/11 10:04 PM
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YES! This is what I keep saying, just act like a careless child! Fuck the world, fuck their problems, fuck your problems, you're having fun!
/r/seduction26/07/11 07:33 PM
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Go ahead and be assertive about it. He might just like it.
/r/seduction25/07/11 08:43 PM
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If you're there first, get a table and read seddit on your phone or whatever, that's what I do. Don't stare at her as she walks in though.
/r/seduction21/07/11 12:14 PM
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Fuck yeah Ratatat.
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:03 PM
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I think you have a distorted image of our subreddit. I can't speak for everyone here, but I'll tell my own story for a bit. Half a year ago, I could barely hold a conversation with a girl. I didn't know how attracting girls worked, and I didn't stop to think about it. After finding some books and this subreddit, I found that it works differently from what I thought. You don't get girls to like you by talking to them all day every day without doing anything, and I realized the problem wasn't with…
/r/seduction18/07/11 12:31 PM
2

Somewhere in the HSDJ bible there's a bit about walking with swagger. Go about 3/4 of your normal speed, and as you walk, move your hands a bit in front and behind your body. Not so much that it looks ridiculous, but just a bit. Find a mirror and try it out, I like it myself.
/r/seduction15/07/11 09:01 PM
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To people who think it's 'not like them', it is! It's like learning a new skill, getting a new habit, it's all about personal development and growth. You are simply becoming a more complete person. Possible exceptions are those who simply spit canned material at club sluts, but if that's their cup of tea, whatever. Read the posts of Pook. You'll see exactly what I mean.
/r/seduction15/07/11 08:32 PM
2

Sounds great!
/r/seduction18/06/11 05:35 PM
2

And not a single fuck was given. Good luck, my friend, keep it up.
/r/seduction17/06/11 11:43 AM
2

Good luck. :) My greatest issue was, and sometimes still is, thinking too much. Just winging it works way better for me.
/r/seduction16/06/11 01:30 PM
2

Now, don't overthink this. Just ring her sometime when you are free the next day. If she can't, she'll say so.
/r/seduction16/06/11 01:24 PM
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Sounds like it went well. Who cares you didn't say goodbye? You are a man, you have shit to do, better things to worry about. Just don't blow it now. ;)
/r/seduction16/06/11 11:54 AM
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Nice try, yelp.com marketing guy! But in all seriousness, sounds like you applied MM pretty much spot on. Thanks for posting!
/r/seduction27/04/11 09:08 PM
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Why would you work out 6 times a week? Assuming you're not an advanced body builder you'd be better of doing heavy compounds 3 times a week. If you're a beginner, try Starting Strength or Practical Programmer. If you're intermediate, perhaps the Texas Method or a proper push/pull would be good.
/r/seduction26/04/11 03:00 PM
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Germans, especially the younger generations, speak great English. I think you'll be fine.
/r/seduction25/04/11 09:33 PM
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Maintaining conversational flow: conversation threading. Look it up, it works wonders. Basically, you don't always respond to the whole sentence she's saying, but to bits of it. To vaguely quote someone else on here: "I'm going to the mall later today to buy some jeans with my friend over there" There are countless options here, you can talk about the mall, jeans, her friend. Girls give you plenty to talk about if you listen well. Good luck!
/r/seduction11/04/11 04:50 PM
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Sounds like it went well! I'm eager to hear more on this.
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:53 PM
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