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4

You wont know unless you throw yourself into the fire and ask her out
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:51 AM
24

Ignore her and move on
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:50 AM
1

Absolutely, I’ll try it though cause I can log what I got wrong in every approach
/r/seduction18/08/22 04:12 AM
1

I absolutely love pickup but Im not sure if I should log it, maybe I should just to keep track of things.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:43 AM
1

Yea, it happens
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:42 AM
1

Should we be logging this stuff?
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:02 AM
1

Huh, seems I got lucky then
/r/seduction17/08/22 12:54 AM
1

Daygame is harder
/r/seduction17/08/22 12:53 AM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:47 AM
1

I actually dated a russian woman recently and she always insisted on splitting the bill
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:22 PM
1

If she knows you and you get along have at it
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:11 PM
1

But wouldnt you rather pull 8’s-9’s? Not that he cant but him and I usually differ when it comes to women
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:20 PM
1

Yeah so yeah maybe hes more handsome than me, he pulls more quantity than me but most of the girls he gets are 6’s or 7’s imo (he has bad taste lmaoo)
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:10 PM
1

Perhaps hes more handsome than me? Is that what you mean?
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:06 PM
1

He carries himself way more confidently than I do My point is, you can be a short king and still pull
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:02 PM
8

Yessirski 🤪
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:01 PM
6

Accurate af 😂
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:16 AM
2

You’re overcomplicating things, the only way to get better at talking to women is through exposure therapy. Throwing yourself into the fire and making women part of your daily life (doesnt matter if its just friendly) will help you get over this insecurity of yours
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:05 AM
1

Bro I have a friend thats 5’4 and he literally pulls more than me being 5’11 Height is not an excuse
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:58 AM
87

This. I was texting this girl from school for a few months and everytime I set up something with her she would cancel at the last moment. I was always the one to text her first, so I just stopped texting her altogether and she came back to me so I had to block her cause if she dont want this D someone else can get it
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:56 AM
1

Take her out to drinks close to her place, initiate physical contact asap. Once you start kissing her and tension starts building up ask her if she wants to get out of there, works for me
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:11 PM
1

If you’re in college all your classmates are potential wingmen
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:09 PM
1

Height won’t make or break your game king. In fact, I have a close friend from back in high school that’s about 5’6 and yet he was so confident in himself that he pulled a lot of chicks (even if the majority were 6’s or 7’s)
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:06 PM
1

Its a numbers game my guy: cold approach isnt good at getting you a lot of chicks, its good at building character. You’ll be rejected close to 90% of the time but it is imperative to achieve failure in order to get good at the game. Like the great Tom Platz one said “The only place to go from failure is to win.” Cold approach will do wonders for you when it comes to desensitizing yourself to rejection, once you get there you’ll be approaching chicks like its nothing and while it might not bump u…
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:29 AM
1

I mean you can hold it if you learn how to do it, but usually its just your body not coming
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:03 AM
1

Distract yourself beforehand. Enjoy the process, lasting longer relies on enjoying the experience thoroughly imo. Put on some music. And overall carry a laid back lifestyle cause if youre anxious and fidgety all the time that’ll translate into short sex sessions
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:06 PM
2

I’ve heard that premature men incorporate pelvic floor exercices. Then, it could all be mental, youre so self conscious and anxious about coming quick that you inevitably do it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:19 PM
1

Do you rush everything? Like do you go into the session horny af and with that animalistic instinct?
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:15 PM
1

Quick tip: jerk off before you go see her, it’ll release some of the built up tension and anxiety. Also, if you’re the type of guy that comes prematurely you’ll want to avoid as much as possible any positions where she has the most control over the movement (i.e cowgirl) Do this and you’ll last up to an hour and a half!
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:07 PM
5

Good sex to me is when everything that you suggest is okay with her , little spanking and choking, all consensual. Also, making her come (even better if its several times) feels great, you just feel a great sense of accomplishment and it looks so hot when their eyes roll back and their legs shake
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:04 PM
1

H&M; great and inexpensive, you can get great trousers and the muscle fit tees are fucking amazing (If you got good biceps and shoulders people will notice), wouldn’t recommend the jeans tho, for jeans I’d recommend Pacsun although its a bit pricier. When it comes to perfumes, I dont know much since I only wear a couple but Ive heard Zara has good and inexpensive fragrances. Get you a pair of AF1’s or Dunks, super versatile and stylish
/r/seduction07/08/22 04:24 AM
1

Sounds brilliant, too bad I dont have any gay friends to hit any of those clubs
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:07 AM
4

Elaborate please
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:43 PM
4

What you need is sex, In order to get laid (without the emotional attachments) you need to work on your mindset first; you gotta stop viewing them as the prize and view them like a normal human being. YOURE THE PRIZE, dont have any intentions with any of them
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:43 AM
21

So the strategy is to go to a gay bar and wait for the women to come to you? Seems very passive (no pun intended)
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:34 AM
11

Soo whats the strategy? What I understood is hes upset caude theres straight people in gay clubs
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:32 AM
1

This
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:45 PM
1

They’re everywhere
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:18 AM
5

Bro you gotta stop thinking about girls like a monster thats gonna eat you alive, being terrified of women only leads to loneliness. Theyre human beings, nothing more, nothing else, no reason to be afraid of striking up a casual conversation about literally ANYTHING (could be the weather or her sneakers, no wrong answers) , only exposure will make you progress. Also, this might sound misogynistic but how can you be afraid of a 150lb piece of meat at 6”6???? Keep your head up king, and work on yo…
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:14 AM
1

Depends on the girl; I always offer to walk them home and 80% of the time they invite me in. It all depends on the girl and your own game
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:04 AM
4

Throw yourself into the fire if you want some sloppy toppy; you got this king! The outcome of tonight dont matter keep your head up no matter what!
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:58 AM
1

Most accurate affirmation ever
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:19 AM
1

Hang out at the bar
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:46 PM
1

This is the way
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:38 PM
1

Keep your head up king, life goes on
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:37 PM
1

Women make no sense, it happens lol you just gotta get used to it and move on to the next one, they probably blocked you but Im unaware of the reason
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:14 AM
7

Dont ask if she has a bf, if she does she’ll mention it in case shes not interested. If you ask if she has a bf you might come off as afraid from barriers, be bold and flirty
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:50 PM
1

Im researching how to eat pussy properly brother
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:50 PM
1

Lmaooo, I fkn hate eating pussy I never even offer to eat pussy but You gotta do what you gotta do
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:49 PM
1

Oh god I’m already distrustful of women and you tell me this No don’t worry I always take them to nice places
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:49 PM
1

Sounds good to me lol
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:05 AM
1

Lmaoo
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:27 AM
1

Well I dont know for a fact if theyre messing around, perhaps the fact she gave me her number despite being in a relationship is a red flag if what youre seeking is a serious relationship?
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:14 AM
1

I believe she’s bi, also older women are my thing lol
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:11 PM
1

Wym
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:52 PM
1

You gotta go through trial and error; do it and fail to find something that works for you and gets you results. Theres no cookie cutter approaches to seduction.
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:28 PM
2

Shell cheat on you?
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:03 PM
1

She said she hasnt been with a man since college or high school, cant remember exactly. She’s turning 33 so that was a long ass time ago. Also yeah, I got backup plans
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:22 PM
3

I wasnt looking at her as long term material tbh, I dont look at any of the women Ive met that way. I just want to get in, get out and get going. I’m too broken inside to trust women and try to set up a serious long term relationship with them, call me a misogynist for looking at them as nothing else than a means of having sex, but I just cant do It, I dont trust women and dont think I’ll do anytime soon. Thats why I stick to casual sex, I want nothing more than that, I dont mind being treated a…
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:16 PM
3

Well, Im not looking for a relationship and I dont take women seriously. So being a quote on quote backup guy doesnt bother me in the slightest because I just want one thing and If I do get it Ill just stop talking to her like I do w everyone else
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:10 PM
1

Lmaoo
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:07 PM
1

That's always a possibility but I met her in like a really nice neighborhood and apparently she has an online coaching business?
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:45 AM
2

well we were talking for about 20 mins and right when I was about to leave I asked for her number and she said okay but I gotta tell you I have a girlfriend, she said she'd like to hang out "as friends" but that's not gonna stop me from shooting my shot
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:18 AM
1

you think so?
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:08 AM
2

Oh, I wasnt actually going to tell her that, I was just going to ask her out lmao
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:32 AM
6

I appreciate the comment btw
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:11 AM
3

I got other options I was just wondering
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:10 AM
2

Okay then, Ill try to set up a date just with her this weekend and see how it goes
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:27 PM
1

Sounds good
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:18 PM
0

Will do, thank you brother
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:18 PM
1

Also, If I get to set up a date this weekend do you think I should escalate immediately? I usually try to get laid on the first date but Im wondering if in this specific scenario I should build up over the course of several dates
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:03 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:01 PM
0

May I ask why
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:44 PM
1

I have no idea I guess I’ll have to find out, all I know is they havent seen each other in a long ass time and the gf is coming back next week
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:40 PM
3

Well, I guess we’ll see how it works out, nothing else to do but go all in
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:37 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:32 PM
2

Absolutely, this is the way, fortunately for me fall semester is right around the corner and you know what that means: freshmen
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:28 PM
5

Great! I dont have any false expectations fortunately but wanted to confirm what the correct approach would be
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:23 PM
6

Thats what I though the correct approach would be: to treat her like any other single woman I’m trying to smash. Soo, just talk to her like any of the other girls right?
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:19 PM
1

Yeah I was going to do the usual and see if it worked out lol
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:11 PM
14

Bro code does not apply here does it
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:10 PM
9

I was just thinking about that
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:09 PM
12

Hit a man in the top try see a man topless even the stick is gay
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:09 PM
-22

Lol, how tf do I get in the panties of a taken woman, I know how to get into a single womans panties but this is quite new to me
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:03 PM
18

Girlfriends not in the country atm, so I guess I’ll ask her if shes free
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:43 PM
1

Dress like a 20yr old I guess?
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:35 PM
16

On the street
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:58 AM
8

Text her back, tf
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:16 PM
6

Nope, I would never date someone that degrades me just for being a man.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:00 PM
3

Lots of guys get offended when taking no for an answer, youd be surprised how many times I’ve seen girls saying “you dont reject them because you gotta stay safe” claiming that women get murdered for rejecting guys. So they resort to acting interested and then ghosting
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:55 PM
1

Oh no I was genuinely wondering if you’d hit on someone you dint find attractive
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:27 AM
10

Lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:23 AM
4

Whys that
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:20 AM
7

Oh, yeah you’re absolutely right
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:13 AM
54

Would you hit on a girl that you dont find attractive?
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:10 AM
9

This!
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:41 AM
1

Bro you’re literally more fun than me; all I do is study and be an amateur powerlifter🤨 Latin american dances are one hell of a pussy magnet you should put that to use. Also you go to SALSA CLUBS and dont engage with women there??!
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:49 PM
1

I haven’t discovered any particular pattern that works unfortunately. But like I said earlier, Im straightforward, ask her stuff and display interest and if there are things in common you have a great topic of conversation
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:47 PM
1

Thats a great start. Youre not a boring person whatsoever, you just dont know how to convey emotions in your conversations imo. In my experience I realized that women like attention and having someone that listens to them. Like my conversations are 20% talking about myself and 80% asking her stuff about her and discussing whatever shes talking about. Another example, there was this one time where I was out with a girl and was asking her what her life story was, turned out she and I had a lot in …
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:45 PM
1

Yes it is possible, believe me there have been days where I havent gotten a single number. Im not a pua guru, im a human that makes mistakes like you do
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:40 PM
1

Then improve on that! What are your hobbies?
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:39 PM
1

It doesnt work magically lol, I like everybody fail a lot of the time
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:38 PM
0

Conversations are meant to be natural, humans arent robots
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:36 PM
1

Ill give you a quick example, there was this one time where I got an older womans number and was texting her in order to arrange a date. I invited her for drinks and she asked if Im old enough to drink (where im from drinking age is 18 not 21) and I replied with Im old enough for a lot of things. You might ask why I said that, and the answer is because she was hesitant to go out with me because of the age gap Edit: I bagged her
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:35 PM
0

Im not saying not to have a conversation, I never said that you just walk up to a woman and say you like her and she’ll automatically give you her number. Of course cold approaches are conversations, have you ever done a cold approach yourself?
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:33 PM
0

Im not allergic to details its just that no conversation is the same as the last one. “It unravels” I meant the interaction as in words just come out of your mouth. Idk where youre from but where Im from most girls appreciate the attention, that being said , even if theyre receptive and willing to engage in a conversation with you and seem interested it does not mean youll get a number or a date eventually in all cases
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:30 PM
1

You know youre getting closer when you dont think about it and just do it. You know when youre there when mentally there’s absolutely no difference between a casual conversation and one where youre hitting on a girl
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:23 PM
2

Bro I do a lot of cold approaches and literally the thing I say every single time is hey you walked past me and thought you were beatiful, nothing more to it. From there if the girl is receptive you engage in a conversation by asking her what shes up to, whatever comes to mind an it all unravels from there and leads to dates
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:22 PM
0

Practice and it will
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:20 PM
2

Im not telling you to put them on a pedestal im telling you to be forward
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:20 PM
1

Absolutely
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:19 PM
2

In my experience being forward has worked just fine, I dont like reading in between the lines so why would I make them do it
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:18 PM
2

You cant force yourself into flirting 😕
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:16 PM
2

Theres a difference between a casual conversation w someone and flirting. You say stuff like you look amazing, whatever comes to mind when flirting. In a casual conversation you would say oh how was your day, blank and boring stuff
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:00 PM
0

By being flirty? Idk how else to put it
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:58 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:19 AM
-2

Not if you dont know how to do it
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:19 AM
1

I really suggest exposing yourself to conversations with women (doesnt have to be flirting immediately you can stick to strictly friendly and casual conversations), like with all things you improve through trial and error We’re all gonna make it brah
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:27 AM
19

Id suggest doing some cold approaches, but dont rely on them entirely for meeting women. Whenever youre doing your daily tasks just strike up a conversation with a woman, it can be about virtually anything : ranging from the simplest things like “i thought you were beautiful” to a bit more complex and less superficial things like “I saw you were reading ___ have you read ___?” I cannot stretch this enough, flirting is not supposed to be mechanic and automatic, it should be natural and fluid but …
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:12 AM
3

Dont overthink it brah. Things go wrong when you start premeditating things when it comes to flirting
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:11 AM
3

You can say Im not feeling this and leave 🤷🏿‍♂️ just be honest
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:43 PM
2

Look for older women around your area and talk to them
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:33 AM
1

It wouldve been 100 times worse if she had dragged me for my small peepee 🥺🥺🥺🥺
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:27 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:25 PM
1

Duly noted
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:23 PM
2

The interaction was fairly short, around 2-3 minutes so I agree, perhaps it wouldve been easier to read noticeable body language had it been longer
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:20 PM
2

If anything I think proceeding to talk shit on the gram when the individual already knows what gym you go to and what hours youre there is further exposing yourself
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:19 PM
1

Aka zyzz
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:15 PM
-1

Sickkunt : A common male who had achieved alpha status by having the physique of a Greek god.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:15 PM
0

Nope not the first time someone pretends, but definitely the first time I meet a rat that talks shit behind my back lol
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:14 PM
2

You think the guy would care? You think all those guys that murdered girls cared if its a public thing? They didnt and they wont why do you think girls being murdered is still a thing
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:13 PM
2

I dont care if shes interested or not, shes a bitch for taking it to social media and not saying it to face
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:12 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:11 PM
2

Thats downright stupid: If you talk shit about the guy, and the guy is some sicko, he already knows what gym you go to and what hours youre there. Youre just further exposing yourself lol Your logic makes no sense youre just as moronic as she is lol
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:10 PM
2

Talking shit behind someones back is a BITCH MOVE, thats the worst thing you can possibly do. If you feel one way about something or someone you own it and say it to face, not hide in a little hole like a rat and talk shit
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:08 PM
2

Her? Definitely
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:05 PM
4

Absolutely
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:02 PM
2

Yeah thats pretty much what I would say if I saw her again, I dont think I will tho because I workout at night, I went exclusively in the morning yesterday because I had stuff to do
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:02 PM
6

Begging after being rejected is a no in my book
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:57 PM
3

Lesson learned
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:56 PM
1

Absolutely, Im not saying she should have rejected me, I dont mind rejection. What I dont like is talking shit behind peoples backs
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:55 PM
1

I agree, I was hitting chest and doing heavy deads and was HORNY AF 😳. Id only done it twice before and it had went well so I said screw it and went for it Ill just stick to daygame hahahaha
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:54 PM
6

Agree
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:52 PM
1

I did it when she was resting in between sets
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:51 PM
13

Appreciate it brah, lesson learned, wont ever hit on a girl at the gym again. Ill just focus on being a sickunt
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:49 PM
2

Will do, I tried to switch it up a bit and it backfired lol
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:47 PM
7

This is the way, now time to keep catching these sick chest pumps
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:47 PM
9

She described the interaction precisely, she repeated every word I said lol AND said my name on the stories
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:46 PM
4

No I dont rant on social media I tend to keep shit to myself because bitching isnt gonna do anything
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:46 PM
3

Absolutely
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:45 PM
3

I get the acting nice part, again, WHAT YOU DONT DO IS DRAG THEM THROUGH THE MUD. If anything thats just exposing yourself
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:43 PM
1

You cant tell, what you dont do is act nice and then proceed to talk shit on the gram and drag a person through the mud.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:41 PM
8

Yea, I was absolutely disgusted after I saw that shit. I blocked her and moved on with my day
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:40 PM
0

Yeah, bitch move
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:39 PM
1

I do acknowledge that there are men who are animals and do not take no for an aswer, I however, am a civilized individual and it wasnt like I was gonna bash her head in with a dumbbell. Either way, that was a bitch move, period
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:38 PM
9

Nope, she shouldve kept it real and tell me I was bothering her
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:36 PM
39

Wheres the self respect brah? 🤨
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:17 PM
12

Yeah thats pretty much what I was going to do
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:13 PM
8

Will do too; just keep getting these sick pumps and focus on being a full time sickunt!
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:13 PM
26

I actually hadnt thought of that
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:12 PM
6

Me either
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:12 PM
9

I will
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:04 PM
6

I wouldve done the same thing, good job OP
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:54 AM
1

Always establish physical contact on the first date, if you dont, it can be hard to get out of that position
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:10 AM
8

Yea, own that shit brah.
/r/seduction31/05/22 01:47 AM
1

A wingman can help
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:13 AM
1

Daygame
/r/seduction20/05/22 02:50 AM
5

Lots of signals like smiling and you guessed it, eye contact! Not saying it’s coincidental, im saying it COULD BE coincidental, but that shouldn’t stop you from shooting your shot. Ive shot my shot at plenty of women that didnt show any signs before me approaching
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:39 AM
10

Eye contact could be completely coincidental, Ive been there Shoot your shot though, if she rejects you, use the pain to push through your workouts
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:35 AM
9

Success depends on your ability to handle rejection. That being said, whenever rejected, just move on to the next one
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:45 AM
11

Yes, women that joke a lot, make sexual jokes. And women that despite knowing I have due assignments up my ass (same for her) will invite me to get drinks
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:44 AM
5

I love women that act silly and reckless
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:35 AM
4

This
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:34 AM
1

Pardon?
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:49 PM
1

Sometimes
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:44 PM
0

This
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:32 AM
1

You’ll want to give her space as well as giving yourself space. You can go up to her on your break and chat for 5 mins or so and ask if shes free after work. Then go on your way. Give her space and time, avoid being intense with these kind of girls since youll just scare them away. Keep the interaction ongoing without putting her on a pedestal, imagine yourself as having many other options and being careless about rejection or approval. Keep it up king, youll do well
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:01 PM
1

The thing about dating is (this is just my opinion) no amount of reading and theory will make you better at it. You can read a seduction book every single day and binge watch seduction coaches but it wont make you better at it; if anything you might learn a few tricks but you wont know how to implement them. It all comes with practice, practice, practice and application. Imagine wanting to go from a 225 bench press to a 315 bench. You can read all you want about technique (bracing, leg drive…) b…
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:58 PM
2

Seems creepy, bad Chad move. Youll make them feel like theyre about to be kidnapped
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:52 PM
12

Its simple, make her feel god about herself but dont put her on a pedestal Pretty intuitive
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:51 PM
3

You did good by establishing an interaction. Since she’s shy she might come off as cold when texting, dont let this discourage you. Dont be needy and try to spend time w/ her on your breaks at any cost. Instead invite her to get drinks after work Keep it up
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:50 PM
2

I know, we all were
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:29 PM
2

I mean its true, I dont see why music would be a problem you still have to approach at the clubs
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:54 PM
13

How do you think men get girls at the club? By communicating telepathically?
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:46 AM
10

Simple, walk up to her
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:45 AM
10

No , you gotta man up and go talk to her. Its all in pr nothing
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:52 AM
1

Get friends that will actually congratulate you on your success Or learn to stop seeking validation from others. I believe the latter is the way to go
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:25 PM
5

Step 1- No ones out of your league Step 2 - Approach That sums it up
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:56 PM
9

Campus
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:52 PM
1

Exactly, looks definitely influence your sex life a lot but approaches are the make or break factor
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:45 AM
2

Because they put the work in and so should you
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:26 PM
2

Or maybe start slow and do TRT doses for a month or so, I’ve heard of depression and confidence issue cases that have been treated with testosterone
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:41 PM
8

First, work on your conversation skills by doing cold approaches, second, hop on tren
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:33 PM
2

Exactly, I was never as outgoing as I am now (thanks to cold approaches), by throwing yourself into the fire you build character and you learn to handle any kind of situation. Also, cold approaches give you a huge confidence boost when youre successful at it, this has chbaged the way I carry myself around and Ive noticed women staring at me way more often on the street. This is the way
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:35 PM
5

Cold approach is much better for self development imo, you lose all fear towards women and that can translate into many other social situations like job interviews for example. Cold approaches are also more fun, and you stand out when doing them.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:04 AM
24

This is the way
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:53 PM
1

Very interesting post!
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:58 AM
1

Hmm sounds interesting, Ill try it out I have nothing to lose and everything to win
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:06 AM
2

Yeah all of my approaches are bout 5 minutes and most of them lead to dates
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:40 PM
1

Well the reason I dont make plans then and there is because my schedule isnt always free and Im sure theirs isn’t either. Which is why imo making plans then and there might seem needy
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:53 PM
0

I wont
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:15 PM
1

And yeah, I guess you could say that my approach was coming from another simp, so be it. It works, even if it is like that. Thats exactly why shes just another woman in my contact list.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:02 PM
1

The problem is actually the following: I dont mind getting rejected because Ive been rejected before. The thing is that I like many other men was terrified of throwing myself into the fire and approaching women, Im past that now. Still men have confidence issues and it just gets worse when theyre rejected/ghosted. I do realize now that I was bitching and complaining despite the fact that im not entitled to anything from her, and I was complaining because she wasnt being honest and truthful, whic…
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:01 PM
1

I guess it does seem like Im trying too hard , but Im not shes just like any other girl I approach on the street and I behave the same with all of them
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:54 PM
1

Id say about 5 minutes
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:17 PM
1

Why are you so butthurt, its not you im trying to stick my dick into lol
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:13 PM
1

I guess youre right
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:11 PM
1

Should I? Ive been told to never text a second time if she doesnt answer the first one
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:11 PM
1

It was literally hey you walked past me and I thought you were beautiful, nothing special
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:10 PM
1

I moved on, thats why I got another date tonight
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:08 PM
1

Hahahah, you could always try solo night game, havent delved into that myself. Im sure there must be a lively area not too far from yours
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:38 AM
1

I do it when I walk my dog or when running my everyday errands, the difference is I live in an area full of bars, restaurants and best of all foreign women
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:37 AM
4

Didnt I just say Ill keep being toxic? Didnt I acknowledge it? Lmao Get out of here you clown youre just a sweaty guy behind a phone screen that gets no pussy
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:35 AM
1

Wise words
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:32 AM
8

Oh trust me they are, but anyways go on about your life
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:30 AM
1

As you said, I moved on and even though today wasnt the greatest of days results wise, I already got a date and a fuck session tomorrow. This is the way
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:29 AM
1

Nope i dont get attached but it grinds my gears a bit hahahah, cant help it
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:28 AM
2

Exactly!
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:27 AM
2

This is the way, still pisses me off hahahaha
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:27 AM
9

I didnt practice my opener in front of a mirror haha, I went through trial and error and now say what comes naturally. But oh well, I guess Ill keep being toxic because I like cold approaches as toxic as that may be, and It yields great results, this is just an isolated event 😁. Try to spread your toxicity mentality shit somewhere else
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:26 AM
10

I dont see how getting to know women to go on dates could be toxic
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:19 AM
10

How would you go about it then, or do you not do cold approaches at all
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:15 AM
2

Seems counterintuitive
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:14 AM
14

What would be your ideal approach then, enlighten me
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:13 AM
7

What I said when I approached was the following: “Hey how are you doing? You walked past me and I thought you were beautiful”
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:12 AM
3

It could be that I made her uncomfortable but nothing made it seem that way. She was smiling all the time and asked me stuff about me, if she was uncomfortable do you think she would have kept the conversation going?
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:10 AM
13

Well, too bad so many men get aggressive when rejected, it truly is a shame that women have to lie instead of saying no.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:08 AM
6

The interaction did go that way, but again, she might have just been polite, what do I know
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:02 AM
7

This is the way
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:57 AM
1

Yes thats exactly what I do and it worked out just fine, until now 😱
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:55 AM
1

Could be, I just havent met any girls that reply a first text after a day yet
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:51 AM
48

Blunt
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:50 AM
0

I just got started with this cold approach stuff, like I stated earlier its difficult for me to form connections and dont seek them actively at least not for now. Im still getting over my confidence issues so Im not willing to be open and honest if that means it might harm my results. I appreciate the lecture
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:50 AM
-1

The reason I lied was because If I said the truth she would have thought “oh im just another girl that hes trying to bang” seems like a turnoff dont tou rhink?
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:35 AM
2

Well, I personally am a very troubled individual and have confidence issues, I do my best to not get attached to anyone and avoid connections (not that Ive had any in my 20 years). So no, nothing besides her looks made me ask her out on a date, and nothing besides the other girls looks make me ask them out on a date because I seek nothing but sex
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:32 AM
2

Well I made it clear that I approached her because of her looks, can’t think of a way of approaching girls and not making it about her looks
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:23 AM
1

Also, If you knew you do cold approaches often and she asks if you do, would you lie?
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:22 AM
2

When you do cold approaches do you ever make plans then and there?
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:20 AM
12

Comment of the day
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:08 AM
-7

Complicated beings
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:07 AM
-3

I never push for sex, I try not to come off as needy. Okay Ill just pretend she doesnt have a boyfriend. If things go south, thankfully I have a fuck session with someone else before the date.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:06 AM
1

But do you ever stop getting pissed off by it?
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:46 AM
-7

I have someone else, I just want as many as possible
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:44 AM
2

Is that so? Ive read posts about women saying “If I give him my number I want him to text me I dont want to wait” But anyways, I will try it
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:43 AM
9

You have to throw yourself into the fire, I was just like you, terrified of approaching girls, and I wish I started sooner. This might seem sexist but think to yourself and internalize “How can I be afraid of talking to a 160 pound piece of meat” , Its absurd once you think about it. The first few times youll almost piss yourself, your heart will be racing, youre gonna stutter and have trouble finding your words. But only through trial and error will you get over that fear, only by throwing your…
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:41 AM
6

Yes I have been approached by salesmen and like you say sometimes it is hard to turn them away. However, I do think getting a number and being ghosted afterwards pisses me off than being rejected rudely, and I have experienced it.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:37 AM
10

Could be, Id rather be rejected in a rude way than get a number even though she doesnt want to give it to me
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:28 AM
5

I’ve been told they lose interest if you text them a day later, so thats why I text the same day (but not immediately), I wait a few hours and then go in
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:27 AM
20

I dont think Im ready to stop, Im just getting started!!
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:16 AM
1

Thank you 🥰
/r/seduction15/02/22 04:10 AM
2

Have at it!
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:07 PM
1

Cold approaches
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:17 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:43 PM
6

Thank you!
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:43 PM
2

I’d say I’ve done around 15 so far, but I’ve been told to do 20+ per day. I live in Mexico, I do it when I walk my dog and I walk him on a street thats known here for being abundant with beautiful foreign women but you can do it when running your everyday errands
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:47 AM
2

I know it gets them every single time!
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:43 AM
3

This cold approach stuff has helped me out immensely, I feel happier and more outgoing ever since I started doing it
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:42 AM
3

If she does have a boyfriend reply with “But Im better looking though”, that makes them crack up. Insist but not too much, If she says no a 2nd or 3rd time say bye and walk away
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:42 AM
8

I say the same stuff every time: -Hey how are you you walked past me and I though you were beautiful. -Whats your name? -Im Insert name , nice to meet you What are you up to right now? -Oh thats nice (Lead the conversation from there, it depends on the circumstances and situation) -You got a boyfriend or something? -Since you dont have a boyfriend id like to take you out some day give me your number (Hand her your phone)
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:39 AM
4

Also girls my age usually say they have a boyfriend
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:35 AM
3

Yes I have, I actually got this 22 yr old Polish girls number , still gotta plan a date. I do approach women my age but it leads to less results imo
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:35 AM
4

I dont particularly target 30-40 yr olds its just that theres a lot of foreign women that age around my area. I approach whatever catches my eye, but I do think women closer to my age are less receptive
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:33 AM
3

I do it when walking my dog, older as in 30-40, Im 20
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:28 AM
5

I also think older women are way more receptive to being approached
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:27 AM
2

I also got a date planned with another girl tomorrow, hopefully thatll lead to something
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:27 AM
12

About 2 weeks, I have gotten a couple of numbers but I havent been doing nearly as many cold approaches to get say 10+ numbers
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:26 AM
27

Sometimes it leads to numbers sometimes it doesnt. I walked up to her and asked how she was doing, told her I thought she was beautiful, did a bit of small talk and then asked for her number and she gave it to me. I texted her a bit later and we planned on a date next week, however she asked if Id like to join her for dinner the same day, I agreed and everything went smooth, then I walked her to her apartment and asked If I could use her bathroom, we started kissing and the rest is history
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:24 AM
18

Cold approach on the street
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:20 AM
1

Makes sense. Plan of approach is going for some drinks, chat, flirt, the usual. Once the date is over I’ll walk her home and see if she offers me to come in.
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:47 AM
2

I agree with you
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:30 AM
1

I don't even know why
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:09 AM
0

Personally I think monogamy isnt meant for me. Like I stated earlier I have a very high sex drive and sex would be really important for me in a relationship to keep a healthy state of mind and body. So I would definitely break up over not having enough sex. On top of that its difficult for me to form connections with people, I proactively try not to get attached to anyone
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:59 PM
1

God, never done more than 4 approaches in a si gle day, will work on it
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:42 PM
1

So Ive been told this is a numbers game and frankly I dont approach as much as I should, I still get anxious when I want to. But today I want to change that, I want to do at least 10 approaches instead of my usual 1-4
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:47 PM
1

Pretty much the same stuff I say, except I don't ask what they're up to
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:37 PM
1

Haven't really payed attention to my body language when approaching, but what I do is talk loud and calmly (I sort of slow down my speech speed) maintain eye contact and smile (I have a resting bitch face so I feel like I can be intimidating at times) and I always spray myself with Dior Sauvage (basic, I know) before going out, I rock a beardstache and a French crop and I'll be honest I wear a lot of ripped jeans and Jordans, I go with whatever tee I feel like wearing and sometimes throw a jacke…
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:34 PM
2

I do it with the goal of improving my social skills and improving my anxiety, as I stated earlier, I was deprived of social contact and depressed for a long time.
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:59 AM
0

How do you go about your cold approaches, what do you say
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:04 AM
1

Wise words, I’ll approach as many women as possible tomorrow. I did get a number this week and texting the girl currently, hoping to get laid
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:58 AM
2

Sounds like a good idea, Im starting my first year of uni (again) in 2 weeks, hopefully that'll help since I was deprived of any kind of social contact during covid, I had just moved to France for uni but unfortunately the locked down again, I only went to university 2 days and spent the remaining 8 months locked in my apartment. Lowest point in my life. Currently the only things I do are : hit the gym (planning on competing in powerlifting) and approaching women on the street because I find it …
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:48 AM
0

The neighborhood I live in is filled with nice restaurants and bars. Such a shame I dont go to bars alone
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:42 AM
1

Im not the type of guy that goes to bars by himself to be honest. Back in high school I would go out every single weekend without exception. Covid hit and due to some bad choices I didnt get to enjoy my first year of uni, dropped out and Im going to start fresh in my home country, havent been to a bar/club in over 2 years.
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:41 AM
1

Given that youre a girl I would like to know, how would you like guys to cold approach you? I always wave first and when they're paying attention to me I tell them I saw them walk past me and I thought they were beautiful, then I ask for their name and introduce myself and shake their hand, then I ask if they're single and if they are I suggest taking them out sometime and ask for their number. ​ Any suggestions on how to improve this
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:28 AM
1

One thing that has helped me is internalizing how absurd it is to be intimidated by 150 lb humans, when you're above 175
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:21 AM
1

Wise words
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:35 PM
1

Seems a bit unorthodox, I might try it out but it seems like it would give me less control over the situation
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:34 PM
1

Yep, I always do that and its worked out well so far. Plus its the first compliment that comes to mind
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:32 PM
3

She was facing me directly and smiling the whole time, she rejected me and thats no big deal bc I just got another number so things are going great! Ill just polish my approaching skills and keep grinding
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:26 AM
1

Thank you, I told her I thought she was beautiful and then asked if she had a boyfriend and she replied with no, I proceeded to ask how about you give me your number Id like to take you out sometime and then she said what she said
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:04 AM
2

Agree, I just rubbed it off and went my way. I’m curently trying to get back my confidence because It was absolutely destroyed since the start of rhe pandemic Whats worse Is I was fairly successful with girls back in high school and had a great time but I have to recover lost time
/r/seduction29/01/22 12:28 AM
4

Absolutely, I initally thought it was a no but just wanted to make sure. Also Ive approached 6 girls randomly and this is the first one that rejects me
/r/seduction29/01/22 12:15 AM
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