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Thank you so much 🙂
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 02:57 AM
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Yeah the process gives anxiety, especially when you have to see them after separation and answer questions in court. I wish you good luck. Be kind.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 10:51 AM
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Thank you 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 05:57 PM
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Thank you and yeah I am already 9 sessions into therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 05:48 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing this, it definitely gives me a lot of hope.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 05:24 PM
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Thank you 🙏 I was doing better being in no contact for months but now as the time to see her again is coming close, I am getting anxious
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/25 03:57 PM
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Yeah, I am slowly trying to accept it and once it’s done, I think I will get a step ahead in getting a closure. Right now she hold a lot of power over me without even being there
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/25 01:57 PM
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Sorry to hear that man! While you are searching for answers, I don’t think any answer in this world will actually soothe you. In the end you will just have to accept this harsh reality that she doesn’t want to be with you, doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you, it’s just how some humans and some situations in life are. I know your mind will keep searching for answers but slowly with time you will be able to accept it. Wish you all the strength to go through this process, take care!
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 10:01 AM
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Thank you 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 12:27 AM
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Thank you 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 12:26 AM
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Thank you brother, best wishes to you too!
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/25 12:11 PM
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See here you will read all the stories of people who had bad experiences mostly. So it’s good to know how things can go wrong but also try to take opinions of people who are happily married.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 06:31 AM
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That’s good :)
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 05:29 AM
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Feel free to share your story!
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 03:59 PM
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?
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 03:52 PM
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Thank you, yes I have started reading Meditations
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 03:52 PM
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obrigado. sim, estou tentando focar em mim mesmo e no meu crescimento. Boa sorte para você também. gostaria de aprimorar sua experiência
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 12:38 AM
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Thank you for sharing this. I will definitely find places to go consistently. Right now I can think of gym and my swimming class.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/25 04:07 PM
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Thank you so much for that. I needed that! I have to focus on myself!
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/25 02:27 AM
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😅
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/25 02:15 AM
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6 sessions done and continuing!
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 04:21 PM
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Would love to hear your experiences 🙂
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 04:20 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/25 11:54 AM
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Yes
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/25 10:57 AM
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Yeah, I am figuring it out myself but I feel very lonely
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 04:13 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 04:05 PM
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Thanks man! More strength to you 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 03:54 PM
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Thanks man, yes I am trying to.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 03:41 PM
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I might take some time
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 03:14 PM
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Good luck to you too! We’ve got this!
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 03:13 PM
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Numbers are surging in India as well! Faster way? Dating?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 03:13 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story! We don’t have children. And yeah I understand I need to focus on myself. I am trying to tire myself by keeping busy, but on weekends it gets very difficult. But yeah I have hope that with time the hurt will reduce. Thanks man and more strength to you and your daughter 🤗
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 03:27 PM
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Exactly same here. I know even I will not be able to trust her again. But yeah in my case she wouldn’t look back ever is what I feel from her reactions lately.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:56 PM
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Thank you so much man!
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:36 PM
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Thank you so much! Yes I removed her from my social media and also uninstalled the social media apps for a while.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:12 PM
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Yeah that’s one perspective. Thanks! But for me as it came as a surprise, I am still figuring out what happened since how long was she planning but I know there is no use of it now and no answers will really give me a closure.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:09 PM
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Thank you! Yeah I have started therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:08 PM
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As she already planned this for months so she looks moved on now. But as it came as surprise for me, I am taking time to deal with it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:06 PM
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I feel it man, going through similar thing. Mine asked for divorce out of nowhere and now we are in process and is enjoying her life.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 03:36 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I don’t really know your story but the chances of reconciliation are always very low. But at least you gave it a try so be proud of it that you tried till last, but I would suggest don’t do it again! As the more you do the more distant they will become and things could get bitter.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 01:16 PM
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Thank you 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/25 01:39 PM
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😓
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 05:07 AM
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Thanks man!
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/25 06:57 AM
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No children
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/25 02:58 AM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 07:42 AM
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Just watched the videos on YouTube and yeah most of points add up, maybe they were avoidant
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 06:19 AM
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Because I saw their posts on social media
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 04:32 AM
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Thank you, I will check it out
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 04:30 AM
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On it, thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 04:29 AM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 03:14 PM
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Hats off!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 02:02 PM
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I am going to gym 5 days a week since one month, still don’t feel any improvement physically or mentally. Have got skinnier as I am not eating as much as I used and already lost 7 kgs. Not able to do anything else and just sit at home alone in a room on weekends. Would try the book you suggested. Currently I am reading - The Power of Now and The Art of Being alone. The thing if I read something which reminds me of her behaviour then I correlate that oh she used to do this or she is like that tha…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 01:58 PM
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I don’t cook. Don’t have any such hobby. I just go out for long evening and started gym in the morning but then I end up crying between the exercise sets
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 11:34 AM
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Currently I am not even sure what pleases me. And getting courage to do anything, just getting hurt by thinking and seeing how she is moving on and is so happy and strong
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 11:21 AM
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Seeing her so happy and in such a strong body language looks like she moved on ages ago. But in the court she acts like she is so upset with all this. Her different colors have made me mad into thinking. She is sooooo fake. She doesn’t care at all and looking at her like that makes me damn miserable that I am not able to do anything not even able to feed myself. I still have to see her in court few more times and I need courage to see her
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:47 AM
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Thanks man, we don’t have kids, waiting for divorce to be done to go full no contact
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:46 AM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:39 AM
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Waiting for divorce to get finalised then will go in full no contact Seeing her so happy and in such a strong body language looks like she moved on ages ago. But in the court she acts like she is so upset with all this. Her different colors have made me mad into thinking. She is sooooo fake. She doesn’t care at all and looking at her like that makes me damn miserable that I am not able to do anything not even able to feed myself. I still have to see her in court few more times and I need courage…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:38 AM
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Seeing her so happy and in such a strong body language looks like she moved on ages ago. But in the court she acts like she is so upset with all this. Her different colors have made me mad into thinking. She is sooooo fake. She doesn’t care at all and looking at her like that makes me damn miserable that I am not able to do anything not even able to feed myself. I still have to see her in court few more times and I need courage to see her
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:35 AM
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Thank you for this.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:31 AM
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Our it’s us who are hurting while they are happy in their new lives
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:27 AM
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Wow! I might just die in anxiety with all thay
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 08:07 AM
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Thinking to do it
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 07:35 AM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 06:38 AM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 06:25 AM
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Thank you! But whenever I try or think of doing something to get better or sometimes I don’t even understand what should I do and I end up crying
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 05:23 AM
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Thank you brother! Just hoping for things to hurt less when I see her moving on and when I have to face her in court
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 04:55 AM
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I mean how fair all this is to the man. We give care love and power of our to someone and then just play with it as per their mood. And then the stress of the divorce process which is most stressful for men
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 04:40 AM
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How bad!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 02:58 AM
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Why are things so unfair
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 04:05 PM
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Planning to remove social media once divorce is finalised. It hurts what she did to me
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 03:54 PM
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I am trying gym but not helping much. Social media I am thinking to remove once divorce is finalised. My self esteem has taken bad hit
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 03:53 PM
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Waiting for the day when I can thank God for what is happening now in my life!
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 03:48 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 05:13 PM
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Makes sense, would try it more
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 05:12 PM
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Hope I get to move on soon, currently not able to take interest in anything
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 04:17 PM
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Thank you so much, would definitely try it. Wish you the best too.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 08:01 AM
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