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This. Unless you live in Cali, spending $100 on the first date is insane for 99% of guys. I go out with 4-6 NEW girls every month. I would be homeless if I spent that much. I keep it at $35 max
/r/seduction08/01/25 12:57 AM
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I can guarantee she never showed up either if you forgot. I’m assuming you didn’t text each other before the date?
/r/seduction22/11/24 10:25 PM
3

Am I the only one who somewhat agrees with OP? I used to be charming and taking my time with girls which would result to sex a couple years ago. I’ve noticed nowadays if I don’t move quick the girls will leave me on read and move on. The norm has changed unfortunately.
/r/seduction15/11/24 09:29 PM
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This is a great take that I’ve thought about but I have a hard time processing something: I know if I was interested in a girl I would never ghost unless she says something extremely out of line. So when I reverse the roles; I’m nothing but respectful to girls on dates, we have good laughs, maybe throw in a flirty comment here and there but yet I still get ghosted. I don’t mentally see how me being more sexually forward will up my success rate. Honestly my thought for my lack of success is that …
/r/seduction29/10/24 07:07 PM
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This. There’s way too many simps following wanna-be IG models, liking their pics, commenting, DMing. If men, as a whole, stopped being so needy we would gain all the power back.
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:09 PM
1

Very interesting point about the “threat level” I’m definitely on the bulkier/muscular side. I’ll keep this in mind, thanks!
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:17 AM
1

I respect this. I’m looking to settle down but I guess my old self might be showing in ways I’m not aware of
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:09 PM
7

This was beautiful. I’ll keep this in mind, thank you.
/r/seduction29/07/24 07:57 PM
16

I see why you’re confused. I see nothing wrong with what you said based on her actions during the date. Seems like you went to a loud bar/club, maybe she was drunk and simply wanted to let loose? Also It’s possible she regrets coming on to you so strong leading her to feel like a sl*t thus blocking you. It’s confusing for sure. Don’t let it get it you, I’ve had similar experiences as well.
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:49 PM
3

I’m Spanish OP curious to know what you sent her. I’ll let you know what I think
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:30 PM
1

Will do!
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:43 AM
4

I got too comfortable lol lesson learned
/r/seduction26/07/24 09:42 PM
6

I showed too much interest. I was basically a dog happily wagging his tail. Only did it because she was too.. it’s okay to flirt/show interest but don’t make the rookie mistake I made and over do it.
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:07 PM
7

Solid advice, I was planning to take this route. Thanks!
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:44 PM
4

Played as in she made me feel she was extremely interested; talked about future dates we should do, meeting her grandparents, talk about how we are so compatible, etc. My only mistake was showing too much interests. I was simply matching her energy
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:11 PM
3

Man it sucks.. I just turned 27
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:58 PM
-1

She was fairly consistent with texting before the date. A girl who’s interested would not leave a guy they like on read. Yes it’s only been half a day but I’ve been down this road before. I will update this post in a week to prove my point
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:58 PM
6

Damn well said. As someone who feels like OP, I needed this. Thank you!
/r/seduction20/07/24 12:23 AM
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It’s definitely an ego thing. I don’t want to ask as it could make me look insecure
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:51 PM
4

I’m 6’2 and date girls who are 5’2 thru 5’4. I stand straight and look down with my eyes. NEVER LEAN, makes you look weak and makes it look like you have a hunch back.
/r/seduction12/07/24 04:31 PM
2

What do you prefer; online dating or in person? How successful were you at both?
/r/seduction11/07/24 02:51 PM
3

How often do your date lead to sex?
/r/seduction01/07/24 12:21 AM
0

The realest comment, I respect it. You’re right
/r/seduction24/05/24 11:32 AM
2

No she said her mom would love me
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:45 PM
1

As one of them reply’s mentioned I’m looking for a relationship. But honestly at this point I might just go for a kiss now. Maybe a kiss will keep them around longer since we both have a little more “skin in the game” I guess.
/r/seduction23/05/24 07:31 PM
90

Genuinely curious to see what you look like
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:05 PM
50

That’s insane. 40-50 dates and slept with 20?? How? I went on 10 dates last month and they all ghosted me after the first date. What do you talk about during the dates? Do you typically kiss on the first date? Where do you take them on first date? Your date to slept ratio is insane. Provide your wisdom to us lol
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:10 AM
2

I appreciate it, I will check out the podcast. Thanks bro
/r/seduction11/05/24 09:07 PM
3

I did. Exactly why I’m bringing up the point. What is the probability of having 10 failed first date in a row and then 5 successful in a row. Near 0, I have a better chance of winning the lottery than to get a results above
/r/seduction30/04/24 03:05 AM
1

Exactly. I respect the intention of the group but horrible execution. If it was used as intended and not a gossip group I wouldn’t have a problem with it.
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:29 AM
2

Buddy. I have full access to the page. I can see everything.
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:23 AM
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The truest comment here.
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:27 PM
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Nothing about ACTUAL dates. I would hope if you get threaten you wouldn’t go out with that person.. common sense, right? Ofc that happens. Women match with hundreds of men, even if they KNOW they will not go out with them, simply for validation. There’s bond to be a couple petty dicks out there who get upset for being led on. That stat has nothing to do with the conversation I was having. Try again bud.
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:24 PM
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Yes lol that’s how they get away with it
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:35 PM
1

Yeah you won’t see it if you set your gender to male
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:33 PM
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I get laid that’s why I’m concern, I’m bond to get outted in the group lol. The fact you have to bring up you get laid speaks volumes. You must be the guy who claims he’s packing but then whips out 4 inches
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:28 PM
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The ladies are going to love your comment big fella lol Exact reasons women aren’t held accountable because weak men like you defend them
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:20 PM
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That’s a HORRIBLE stats to bring up. Narrow it down to a stat about online dating then I will shut up. Based of those stats I guess I will go and start my own group since 33% of men experience violence. causation does not equal correlation. Please go back to school and take a basic statistic. That’s like me saying stop drinking water you’ll drown; over 3million die a year!!! when in reality 98% comes from water pathogens, ocean/lake drownings, etc. I’m done entertaining the blind. Have a nice da…
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:04 PM
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Statistically how often does it happen? Clearly not enough to warrant it as some kind of epidemic. Yes it happens, so does dying on an airplane. Likelihood - near 0.01%.. and the average male is harmless. Go on a date with a guy with tattoos on his face and holding guns on his pics then you might be in trouble. Go on a date with Steve who online profile has pics of him volunteering, at church, corporate job title with a findable LinkedIn; safe to say your chances of being accosted are near nonex…
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:52 PM
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I see your logic but your far outweighing the pros.. Apps have verification process, and even if you can fake it. When you go on dates you go to a public place; you are 100% safe. Of course, if youre stupid, you shouldn't go to a guys place you haven't met first (I've seen this way to many time).. that's like me walking downtown at night by myself, bad idea. Online dating is like buying from FB Marketplace - you approach it logically; meet in public. You don't meet them at their house or in a da…
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:17 PM
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Doesn’t help you comment on a throwaway but I do see your point. & no I’m not creepy. Being creepy is subjective. However, one can get easily posted and get trashed on. As someone who sleeps around a lot, I bound to get commented on if I get posted
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:38 PM
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Youre not on FB but your face will be. If you suddenly don’t start getting matches or get an influx of flaking. You know why
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:33 PM
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If you don’t online date, yes it doesn’t apply to you. If you do, you’re screwed.
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:31 PM
3

Depends where you live. Some are small. I live in a major city, as mentioned, they have 31k in my group. 2 months ago it was at 24k.. it’s growing fast
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:29 PM
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Yes they do. Most of the 20-29 girls I match with are on there
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:28 PM
1

Amen brother
/r/seduction23/04/24 05:54 PM
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Curious on why? She asked if I wanted to try her drink and I told her she can try mine, which she did. I know for a fact I wouldn’t want to put my mouth on another girl drink I didn’t find attractive.
/r/seduction23/04/24 02:48 AM
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No lol the bar is right in front of us. They clearly see all my movements
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:42 PM
1

The part about her doing the assignment for you is negging
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:28 PM
1

I disagree with this take. OP execution when telling her was trash which came off bad and made her run. Don’t apologize OP just move on and don’t neg to that degree until you have the confidence to do so.
/r/seduction19/04/24 06:48 PM
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Even if you don’t get off Instagram/etc. Stop liking their pictures, you’re doing nothing but feeding their ego.
/r/seduction04/04/24 01:46 PM
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DONT be hard on her gym form, provide minimum/no guidance unless she asks. I made that mistake once. I acted like a coach by trying to impress her with my gym knowledge and could tell I was annoying her , I still cringe lol.
/r/seduction30/03/24 11:37 PM
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Agree to many idiots in the comment, this is a good guide. I’m 2 for 2 on picking up girls at the gym.
/r/seduction03/03/24 10:24 PM
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If it’s a ONS, her place. If it’s more of a casual/FWB then my place.
/r/seduction07/02/24 05:32 AM
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In all honestly this is what we all need to hear, thanks OP.
/r/seduction31/05/23 12:22 AM
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I agree with all the key lesson except the first one. It’s not that she wants the “cream of the crop” but rather you’re just not her type. by no means am I a model but have traits most girls seek (tall, white teeth, muscular, good career, etc) yet fast forward months after being ghosted by a girl(s) I see them posting guys that clearly have nothing going for them (smoking, no career, shitty tats, etc). It’s not about you, it’s about them seeking someone that aligns with what they deem attractive…
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:24 PM
1

Keep us updated OP!
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:01 PM
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“be confident” yet I bet she’s never approached a guy sober before, there’s more too it than just being confident. This post had good intentions but it’s extremely shallow.
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:27 AM
1

It’s not creepy lol you’re just not used to it. It’s completely normal
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:27 PM
6

maybe don’t be creepy? if you’re chill you won’t give off creep vibes. Unless you have amazing insta pics or mass following I would 100% recommend not going for the insta
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:18 PM
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don’t get her insta lmao. you’ll be lost in her dm.
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:06 PM
1

100% this OP. Don’t bother and move on
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:46 PM
8

proud of you OP ✊🏼 don’t stop here keep approaching
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:59 AM
48

I’m not sure how things work in your country but I think it’s safe to say don’t ask her what’s in her bag.. she could think you’re a thief or something
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:20 PM
1

proud of you!
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:18 PM
4

don’t say this lmao. that “i mean” can really turn ppl off. Say what 1hatethis said “Sure. Come over tomorrow evening”
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:05 AM
1

women want men too lol they’re just good at hiding it
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:51 PM
11

bullet point 2 is enough to know she isn’t interested. A girl who liked you would have dropped everything and went out with you. move on buddy it happens.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:13 PM
1

lame dude just keep it causal. You already secured the bag, don’t fumble it trying to be clever.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:38 PM
12

promise you it hasn’t been 6 months. she has other dudes on the side.
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:31 AM
4

move on. My success rate when a girl says that is 0%
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:18 PM
201

her backup didn’t work so she wants to talk now.
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:40 PM
35

proud of you, you have awaken the inner chad in you
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:00 PM
1

it’s over bro, sorry.
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:40 PM
1

make it joke out of it. she’s trying to see how you response.
/r/seduction22/12/21 04:34 PM
1

It’s over but don’t pay for anything as she might be using you. As mentioned before friends pay 50/50
/r/seduction11/12/21 10:22 PM
0

The second I saw 5 paragraph conversation is the second I knew you don’t have game. Keep things minimum regardless how long her “paragraphs” are. Stop with the emojis, “lol”, “haha”, “lmao”. Treat them like you don’t care to lose them and I promise your chances will increase
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:07 PM
0

The best answer I can give you from personal experience is that it’s okay to be excited but be one or two notches below her excitement level. Don’t match and don’t ever surpass her level of excitement!
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:33 PM
3

Same outcome no matter the gender. If I’m into you you better believe I’ll reply back.
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:28 PM
107

This is great advice! As someone with experience with women I have encounter this way too many times. Guys, as a heads up, once this happen chances are nothing will come out of it; 75% of the time you mirror her she’ll just stop replying. My advice would be once you start to see this type of behavior cut her loose. If she likes you she will come back
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:11 PM
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