Girl I’m seeing never flirts back?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-08-02T14:12:33+00:00

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Western-Month-3877 · 2024-08-02T13:04:55+00:00

She could think flirting thru texts kinda cringe, which what I would think.

But why flirting if you already slept with her. It’s like you got the main entree but you still want to have an appetizer lol. Don’t make her the “man in relationship”, it’s usually girls who complain why their man give her the cold shoulder even after she already spread her legs for her.

Quiet_Badger3509 · 2024-08-02T12:49:09+00:00

Tell her she's boring....when she asks why, tell her cuz she doesn't flirt back.. and laugh about it

50ate · 2024-08-02T13:01:06+00:00

If you are looking for an LTR, move on If you are looking just for fun, don't bother keeping looking out

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-08-02T13:07:36+00:00

Women and men both make the same mistakes when it comes to polarity.

Both genders often think that traits that are attractive to them are also attractive to the opposite gender.

Example: women are attracted to guys with options, so often they think we are turned on by the same so they actually start talking about other guys to us. It gives us a kinda ick factor but they think it's a turn on.

Same applies to flirting. Women are not turned on by the same kind of flirting we are, we like when they are sweet and bubbly, they like when we are stoic and cold. So sometimes they do what they like thinking we like the same.

She, in her own mind, might be thinking not exerting effort into flirting with you actually is a form a flirting with you because that lack of effort is what she likes.

driller20 · 2024-08-02T13:24:33+00:00

Ignore it, clearly she doesnt resonate with it so just accept it.

Imagine she sends you otaku memes all day and you ignore them. You dont hate her, but you dont give a F about otaku memes.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-08-02T13:28:59+00:00

Here's the thing: not all women like being flirted with over text - coming from a guy she's dating. If she doesn't respond to it, stop doing it. Or if it's important to you, find another woman to date

Title	Girl I’m seeing never flirts back?
Author	EdUNC-
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	August 2, 2024 12:38 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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