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I'll probably still hang with her as friends but not text and snap back and forth all the time anymore. Theres probably a gray area where I'm fine being friends but I wouldnt be against more. Idk if that's too much though to even outside think it might happen eventually
/r/seduction29/10/20 11:40 PM
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Thanks for the answer, definitely helps a bit to just think to go for it. I am making a conscious effort to make more eye contact all the time but it's really difficult because I find myself focusing on eye contact and when to look away and where while in a conversation and not fully listening. Or passing girls on the sidewalk I'm constantly thinking of where I should be looking.
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:42 AM
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Yeah I know that's definitely the right thing just thought it was odd so wanted to see what others thought. Also with tinder in general I was thinking what reason is there not to jokingly call someone out or send another message a couple days later? You dont know the person and literally have nothing to lose so might as well try I'd think
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:38 PM
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That's what I was kinda thinking, I dont know this girl and literally have nothing to lose by jokingly calling her out in a couple days or whatever. Better chance than doing nothing
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:37 PM
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I'm actually Amish but I have found a way to sneak access to the internet but none of my friends or family know and would cut it off instantly if they found out. It's a bit of a culture shock suddenly entering this technology filled world I wasn't born in, but I'm ready and willing to learn!
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:04 AM
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I appreciate the answer, but I'm stuck at an even simpler step than that. I can't even figure out how to begin to talk to her. It's not like I sit anywhere near her in class, so not really sure how to even begin a conversation without it being weird.
/r/seduction24/02/19 02:19 AM
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That seems smart, never thought of something like that. But I'm also curious on the side of how do I even go about talking to her in the first place? Am I just overthinking it? It seems difficult to somehow time it to be near her leaving class so I can introduce myself and talk to her or whatever.That also seems weird to me
/r/seduction23/02/19 04:11 AM
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Damn that hits home haha, I always just will over analyze everything and end up not talking to anyone or doing anything
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:27 AM
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This is something I've been actively telling myself I need to start doing and become good at, but I just have no clue what to say to strike up a conversation. I have to actively think and tell myself to say things to people but then I overthink and have no idea what to say.
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:15 AM
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Do you mean like sunglasses? I feel like less people would make eye contact with you if they cant see your eyes
/r/seduction02/01/19 05:00 AM
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Yeah that's what I figured thanks. It's a little late to rush now for me but I went to a few houses throughout my first couple years and I just have a problem with getting myself to be social. So right now I'm focusing more on being more social so I can expand my social circle/get invited to parties and all that. Any advice would be welcome
/r/seduction04/04/18 04:21 AM
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Maybe it's different since I'm in college, but how would it be different to just become friends with the girl? I'm interested in widening my social circle also so if a girl seems cool I'd like to become acquaintances or friends
/r/seduction02/04/18 02:24 AM
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So how does this work in regards to talking to a girl that you just got her number? I'm just curious, because all your examples are very unique cases I think. I can't just sit back and have women chase me, so I do I balance finding them and getting them interested with being non-needy? Like I talked to a girl and got her snapchat but she isn't crazy interested so how can I go about getting her without being needy
/r/seduction02/04/18 01:20 AM
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But do I have to catch her eye? I've never had good luck with just hoping to catch a girl's eye, wouldn't it be better to just say something to her or go up to her? Especially if I had already said hi to her an hour earlier?
/r/seduction31/03/18 10:25 PM
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That's probably why I'm asking the question don't ya think
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:17 AM
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Ok I'll keep that in mind thanks man
/r/seduction29/03/18 12:11 AM
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The question is how to practice. I can't just tell a friend to sit somewhere and look at me when I walk up quickly so I can practice continuing eye contact
/r/seduction29/03/18 12:10 AM
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I've thought about doing this before but whenever I think I'll try I don't see anyone looking at me to get a chance. And then it seems kinda creepy because I find myself looking at people who are intentionally looking away ya know
/r/seduction28/03/18 11:32 PM
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Have you done this and had it work for you? It seems questionable
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:55 PM
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I'll try and just talk to her when I can, so do I just have to hope she hits me up when she's single again?
/r/seduction24/03/18 05:19 PM
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Yeah I'm not tryna waste time waiting to bump into her after class. She has a boyfriend anyway it turns out
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:22 PM
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Thanks man, it all makes a lot of sense I guess I'm just not sure of myself with these things. It's probably bad to speculate, but it seems a bit odd to me that she'd give me her number and laugh when I texted her hey it's the hot guy you met earlier and stuff when she had a boyfriend. It's just reassuring to think maybe she was interested or whatever but has a boyfriend so can't do anything
/r/seduction23/03/18 05:07 AM
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Yeah it's honestly feels nice just having tried. i'm not sure what you mean by not being cold and not chasing exactly. Like I obviously am not going to try to text her or hang out but if I see her after class I think I'll say hi and just be cool and talk. Is that what you mean?
/r/seduction22/03/18 09:23 PM
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Yeah you're right. She said she has a boyfriend, just wondering how should I respond and should I just treat her no different if I talk to her in person?
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:59 PM
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Good advice. Just wondering now though haha she responded and was all oh I'm sorry I have a boyfriend sorry if I gave the wrong impression. 1) I feel like I should respond just like haha no big deal so it's clear I'm not some creepy stalker 2) now if I see her after class should I still just act like I would have all along? I think I should just treat her the same and just continue doing what I do ya know
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:54 PM
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Yeah that's what I was thinking I'll just talk to her and enjoy myself
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:40 PM
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Is it normal/possible for a girl to just not respond for a long time and then answer? I actually went and lifted this morning just for that reason. Yeah I don't plan on texting her. We have a class together, should I talk to her after or ignore her completely? Thanks for all the help
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:14 PM
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Yeah I like the simplicity of coffee. I texted her and asked already and she just hasn't replied lol definitely worse than saying no
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:14 AM
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Yeah we had to go different ways so I just asked her right before since spring break was coming up and I didn't want to have the regret of not asking or anything for a week. I texted her and asked to get coffee earlier and she hasn't responded so all this worrying about it was just a waste I guess.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:55 AM
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Alright cool, I texted her and thought that the worst she can do is say no but now I realized it would be even worse if she just didn't respond lol
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:46 AM
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Yeah that's something I need to work on too, I don't really have anything like that. Definitely a good idea though and I'll work on exploring my interests
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:43 AM
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We have class together and I talked with her one day after while walking back and asked for it lol
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:41 AM
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Ok thanks for your advice, is an intro or something necessary? I just ask because I'd prefer to keep the text short and also I want to ask her immediately because last time I texted her I was going to ask after a couple messages but she stopped responding.
/r/seduction22/03/18 12:19 AM
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/r/seduction22/03/18 12:16 AM
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Yeah that's definitely something I need to work on. I think I just need to stop overthinking this and just ask her to something so I can figure out if she's interested or not so I can move on.
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:59 PM
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Maybe I'm in a weird situation, but the closest my friends and I get to doing anything I could invite her to is possibly getting together to drink and watch basketball Friday night. Also, I feel more nervous having a girl meet my friends than I would my parents lol they would be so much worse. I also don't know this girl well enough to know if she even is the type to drink/watch basketball. I don't really have any experience with this so I could totally be wrong on what is a normal/ok thing to a…
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:25 PM
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Yeah we haven't talked much but she seemed interested when we were. Even if my friends and I did do anything like that I don't know if I'd want to invite a girl I barely know to meet my friends. Is coffee not casual enough? I thought it would be something relatively low pressure just where I can get a chance to talk to her more.
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:07 PM
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Ok thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:46 AM
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Is there any way to be better at that besides practice? I just automatically will answer something simple that kills the conversation then thunk about it and wish I had said something different.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:51 AM
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So I basically just need to always be looking to talk to whoever I can? Like right now I find myself always avoiding eye contact and trying to stare straight ahead and things like that. Is it just that I need to always be trying to socialize with anybody then?
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:31 AM
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You make a good point, I was already thinking this girl is way out of my league and probably thinks I'm creepy before I got off the plane. Then I was nervous to message her since I figured she'd ignore me or get mad. I also got worried over her not adding me back on snapchat. Even if she doesn't tell me when she's going out, it could just be that she wants to spend time with her best friend she came to visit and not add a random guy. I guess it just takes me posting something here to finally thi…
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:06 AM
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Yeah so far the best thing I've started to realize is that there are so many attractive girls that are fun to talk to. Honestly I just started trying to improve myself last week and I've only talked to two, but they were both so easy to talk to and seemed to be enjoying talking. So although I know there are so many girls when I think about it, it will take more approaches to get it deeply ingrained that there are so many other ones out there
/r/seduction13/03/18 03:05 AM
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Yeah I obviously need to get over the neediness (that's the best description I can think of lol) but I think it's somewhat important so I can know what to improve on. Like if she wasn't interested that's good to know so I can improve my game. But maybe I'm just over thinking it and am being unconfident since she did continue the conversation when it would lull so it's not like she was trying to get away. She was like smoothing the same part of her hair the whole time so maybe she was just bored.
/r/seduction13/03/18 02:47 AM
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Yeah I definitely made a mistake getting Snapchat instead, I had already kind of given up. Maybe it's that same mindset that I had no chance that is causing me to think her not adding me back actually means something
/r/seduction13/03/18 02:41 AM
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Ok that makes sense then, thanks. Curious, the girl I talked to on the plane didn't add me back on Snapchat? I haven't snapped her yet, but we talked for a couple hours and it's not like she was giving any indication she wanted to end the conversation. But I assume not adding me back means she has absolutely no interest, just talked to me then since she had nothing better to do lol
/r/seduction13/03/18 02:23 AM
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What lol
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:43 AM
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Yeah it might be worth it just to try. She's a girl I'd definitely not mind just being friends with since she'd add a lot to my social circle. What do you mean by if you're not feeling that connection to ask her to grab some coffee? I was thinking about asking her to coffee to get to know her. Why is that a last resort?
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:09 AM
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Thanks for the explanation, that makes a lot of sense. I guess I just felt rushed a bit. More importantly, I assume I don't have to just write these girls off because of this right? One I already know I have no chance with so I'm not even going to try but the other I see 3 times a week after class so I can probably talk to her again and try to mention setting something up then text her about it?
/r/seduction12/03/18 03:42 AM
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Those make sense, the two times it happened to me were the first two girls I've approached ever really so I don't have much background. They both didn't give any resistance though. One was on a plane so I didn't try to build much attraction physically just teased her and we enjoyed ourselves. Is it possible the way I've asked has just been abrupt and they didn't expect it? As in I just brought it up without trying to skirt around it
/r/seduction12/03/18 03:25 AM
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Easy with the confident man lol. Maybe I just have low self esteem
/r/seduction12/03/18 02:08 AM
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By that point I has kinda given up on having anything more because she's just so ridiculously out of my league. What are your thoughts on how girls act when asked for their numbers? Like she kind of laughed and it seemed almost like she thought it was weird I was asking
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:37 AM
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I don't know if it's just me but calling seems kinda weird in college especially when I've talked to her for all of 5 minutes after class. Maybe I just don't understand
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:46 PM
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Yeah you're definitely right, I was a little rushed getting her number since we were walking the same direction but I wasn't gonna keep following her so I just said I had to go and asked for number
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:33 AM
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Thanks for the explanation, definitely the best thing is just to go have fun and not care about her. I guess it doesn't matter at all why she is acting how she is, even if it's some stupid intentionally waiting for whatever reason. Like I just met her yesterday but it's hard to have a conversation over text with 2-3 hours at least between messages. The idea was to ask her to do something after a couple messages but it's not even possible to get to that point lol. We're in college and spring brea…
/r/seduction09/03/18 03:58 AM
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Yeah I guess I'll have to start going for stuff like this since there's really nothing else
/r/seduction08/03/18 11:04 PM
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Yeah, but I doubt I'd get anything anyway. Just wanted to know if there was any other options
/r/seduction08/03/18 11:04 PM
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Yeah definitely, ice cream is nice but its 20 degrees here now. I feel like theres not many options besides coffee (which I don't drink). Lunch or dinner is just too much I think. It's not a great time to just hang out and talk in my mind.
/r/seduction08/03/18 05:20 PM
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Yeah I'll try and experiment with both ways just to see which I like. I see what you mean about not making the comments about looks; it probably does seem kind of needy. Beyond that, i'm just wondering where to go with it now. As in, spring break is next week so its either try and get a date in the next few days which is unlikely during the week with homework and whatever or just not talk to her for a week? Would it be completely lame to ask her to come by somewhere I'm doing homework on campus …
/r/seduction08/03/18 12:53 AM
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I'm just an idiot, sorry for bothering, I'm deleting the post lol
/r/seduction08/03/18 12:29 AM
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sorry im very new to this and my biggest problem right now is neediness while texting: its always been an issue. What I actually said was more along the lines of hey its that hot guy you talked to earlier. Kinda lazy but its somewhat interesting. Correct me if I'm wrong, but since I didn't really make my intentions obvious when I met her I wanted to suggest something like that over text to make sure it was clear I wasn't looking to just be her friend.
/r/seduction08/03/18 12:25 AM
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If she says never does it look bad if I then try to make out with her?
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:40 PM
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I think from what you said I understand conceptually the difference between direct and indirect approach, but can you tell me simply what a direct approach would actually consist of? I'm just not sure what it would be. I mostly talk to girls I see after class or out somewhere during the day so the idea of a direct approach seems less suitable to me, is that reasonable?
/r/seduction05/03/18 11:47 PM
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This makes sense to me, but I feel like many girls reactively look away either to the side or down when I try to make eye contact. How do I tell the difference between uninterested or just shy/intimidated? I feel like this approach might work best when girls are drunk or something. But what about going to class or during class etc?
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:57 PM
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