| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Mark Manson readers, how many of you write?Don't know why this is being downvoted, I think the 3rd person journaling is a great tip. The way I heard it is to sit down every night before bed, and write a play by play account of your day in the 3rd person. | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like they can get better girls in person than on Tinder?I've downloaded and deleted Tinder maybe four times now. Tinder is dumb. | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to find good places to meet women/girlsThanks, that's actually something I've considered. For whatever reason, I've been terrified of dancing for forever, so it'd definitely be good to get out of my shell, so to speak. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to find good places to meet women/girlsI never said I was surprised that I'm not drowning in girls. Frankly, I get why I'm not. Asking for advice on how to change that, not some backhanded criticism. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | "Start making yourself into the type of person people want to be around"This is a good alternative to BJJ as well. | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 08:08 AM |
| 7 | "Start making yourself into the type of person people want to be around"Dude, BJJ is probably the most rewarding and fulfilling thing I've ever become involved with. Seriously can't imagine my life without it. I know you mentioned cost is an issue, but if you're interested, a lot of academies have trial periods. Check it out for sure. But also, a lot of BJJ professors are pretty reasonable, and you might be able to work something out. Check r/bjj for more info. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 05:56 PM |
| 1 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.This is an excellent post, definitely hits the nail on the head for me. Thank you my friend. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Inner Game for Men - In A NutshellSuper solid post though dude! | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Inner Game for Men - In A NutshellFirst time I've seen #yolo since sophomore year of high school! Can't say I missed it | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Blushing and turning red in social situationsI'm guessing you're referring to asian glow. I'm half, but I haven't drunk enough to know whether I have it or not. A good amount of my friends do, including one who just rushed a frat. Oh well, hahaha! | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 05:12 PM |
| 6 | “You are really nice and that scares me.”If you are dead emotionally, how can you save someone else? | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Never had a girlfriend or a relationshipLegend | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 05:42 AM |
| 6 | Overcoming sexual anxiety as a virginActually I'm terrible at math, so guess I'll think of it as a complex literary analysis instead. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual anxiety as a virginI think that's a valid point. For the longest time, I really wanted to loose it with someone 'special', and in my mind, I hoped it would be a chick who was also a virgin. But at this point, I kind of just want to get a move on. Impulsive, maybe, but really I'm tired of waiting. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual anxiety as a virginWow this is great, thanks for the time you put into this. I'll definitely check it out. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual anxiety as a virginActually virtually nothing. It's actually something I enjoy, I'm just brining it up in reference to dick size. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 06:52 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned from TinderOk. I was thinking about making a separate post on this, but because you brought it up, what do you think about asking Tinder girls in person or over text etc, "what do you want out of Tinder" or "why are you on Tinder?" Some girls specify what they're down for in their taglines, but is it a safe assumption that most are just looking for hookups or FWB? | /r/seduction | 30/08/14 05:43 PM |
| 0 | At what point do you get the feeling the universe is telling you to not go after women right now?I'm totally aware of that, but thanks dude. | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 04:22 AM |
| 0 | At what point do you get the feeling the universe is telling you to not go after women right now?Dude, not to sound like an ass, but I'm going to UChicago. We're practically know for being Harvard's uglier, less social, more intellectual, bastard brother. | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 01:10 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you get the feeling the universe is telling you to not go after women right now?Look man, I've actually felt the same way lately. I'm 18, and I've basically come to the conclusion that high school chicks are fucking insane little girls that are halfway between woman and girl and have no idea what they want. Between bad luck and me being lame in the past, nothing good has happened. But now, I feel like I'm ready, but at the same time, I have no interest in girls my age. I'm taking a gap year before college, but all I can do is hope that college will be different and prepare … | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, advice please on a gap year and beyondBelieve it or not, an older friend from Brazilian Jiu-jitsu and his fiancee BOTH told me the exact same thing at a gym get-together/birthday party last night. I've know him for about six months, and her like two hours, but still, they were basically like "Look kiddo, once you hit 24, girls will stop liking morons, and will want dudes like you." It was a casual affair, and we mostly just talked about fighting and BJJ, but I guess I must have come off as pretty mature, well-spoken, etc to her. No … | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Seddit: What's your schedule like?Wake up, train BJJ, go to work, go home and relax, cook, clean, etc then train again, eat, sleep. My work hours are pretty flexible, and I can often shift things around, giving me ample time to socialize, especially on weekends. | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Breaking down the distinction between a hang out and a dateThat makes a lot of sense, thanks. | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Gap year opportunities- Germany vs. England?Forsure, I didn't clarify that earlier. I edited the main body of text. | /r/seduction | 02/08/14 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Gap year opportunities- Germany vs. England?Yeah I address that in the edit portion. I wasn't more clear earlier. | /r/seduction | 02/08/14 07:34 AM |
| 1 | 5'1 shy guy in high school. Got anything?Dude as an eighteen year old, who just graduated, #5 is just what I needed to see tonight. Unfortunately, my high school experience was kinda like what you summed up above–not many close friends, no hot girlfriend, unconfident, aloof etc. A bit depressing really. On the plus side, I'm in great shape, not bad looking, and going to a phenomenal school full of like-minded people with after taking a gap year. Looking to put high school behind me now and move on to the real shit. Thanks for this man. | /r/seduction | 27/07/14 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Looking for Mountain View area Wings!Yeah man, let me know how things go for you. | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Looking for Mountain View area Wings!Not sure if I'm qualified, but just thought I'd mention that I'm 18, living in that area. Castro definitely has a lot of girls, on weekdays too. Basically the whole town, especially Castro has really come to life lately. Probably cause Google. | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 08:35 PM |
| 25 | Need alcohol before you head out to be confident? Here's my tip."Everything you need is already inside you." | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Popular acculturation- Your top 5 books, movies, etc (Inspired by Models)Well of course I'm more interested in what I care about. In fact, I'm pretty passionate about my own interests. Ultimately that gives me a good amount of mileage. I just want some baseline knowledge on what you guys think has made a large impact on popular culture and get out of my niche just a little bit. | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Facebook chattingCan you elaborate on this some more? I have some ideas, but I'm not entirely sure, and I think this has happened to me. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 10:19 PM |
| 6 | We all have our individual things to work on, but something that has really helped me is learning to not explain everything I do.I definitely do this. It's something I've become more aware of recently, but thanks for brining it some attention. I think it's pretty crucial. | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Super motivated to change my fucking lifeYeah, I typically only vape/smoke about twice a week. Though nowadays everyone has a justification for weed, I do find it beneficial, in that it takes me into a state of mind in which I can more objectively assess and reflect on life without beating myself up too much. But yes, you are correct; I've definitely felt the side effects of 4-5 times a week. It's all about moderation and balance. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Super motivated to change my fucking lifeThanks man! I really appreciate it all of your help. I'll keep you posted! | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Lost, confused, and conflict between personal traits and "Alpha male" characteristicsAs for practicing now, I'm thinking the same thing. Bit of a basic question, but what should I really be 'practicing' in the first place? Overall I know I should be more outgoing and confident. I feel like that's just the tip of the iceberg, but still a big step out of the norm/my comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Depressed and confused...I honestly have no idea how people hook up, find girlfriends, get married etc.Dude are you me? | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 05:30 AM |
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