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| 9 | Does the maturity gained from the mental challenges you’ve faced disconnect your from others?I relate to this 100% I think it's because what people without trauma consider stressful is what we consider easy. Almost as if your tolerance for emotional pain has increased. So it needs to be hit harder than average for it to move you. It's amazing for keeping frame. But it does isolate you. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 09:42 PM |
| 4 | No BS ways to raise self esteem?Take control of what you can control. At first it may only be really small things like keeping a clean house. As time goes on you'll be able to discern between things you can actually control and things you can only influence. My lower self esteem used to come from things I thought I could control but in actuality can only influence. I.E peoples opinions, life events etc. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 07:15 AM |
| 10 | What non-TRP books made a big impact on you?The art of war. That book is pure poetry along with with full of wisdom | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 03:35 AM |
| -1 | Ways to overcome the BP mindset that women don't have abundance? (we don't understand how much they do)Women don't have as much abundance as you think. It only appears like that the surface. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | The death of the Modern ManI mainly use the example of a cold shower. The meaning behind my post is that life is too easy for us as a whole. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 08:29 PM |
| 79 | The death of the Modern ManI agree with this while simultaneously disagreeing. I was in Asda the other day and I looked at the sweet isle. And it just got me thinking about how hundreds of years ago. We wouldn't have been able to just walk in a get anything we want. I feel like the issue isn't food or porn etc but the ease in which we can get things nowadays. The human spirit (male or female) is a powerhouse of ingenuity, creativity, drive and ambition. And it's because of those traits that we have all the luxuries we hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 10:20 AM |
| 8 | Women apologizingIt's quite interesting how women act when you are higher smv isn't it? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Patrice O’NealDepends on the situation. Sometimes you ignore. Sometimes you address it directly. E.g I had one girl, finished fucking when out of nowhere asks me if I would sleep with any other girl we worked with (I shat where I ate. Don't judge me 😅) I knew what she was asking. So I flat out told her yes I would and gave names. She got pissed and went to sleep. Woke up next morning and she said sorry in the way women do...she let me cum in her mouth (she hates cum). So it really does depend on your ability … | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 09:59 AM |
| 20 | Whats the best underrated or not very obvious advice uve gotten from TRP?Just understanding the smv chart. It's actually really helped me. 18-22, 23-30 and 30+. In an really unexpected way. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 10 | New girlfriend (22) is incredibly private about our relationship. Has no social media.Of course there is balance in all things. Red Pill or not. But a girl who won't shut up about your relationship can be just as irritating as her not speaking about it all can be worrying. And girl who doesn't have or really use social media is rare enough as it is. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 09:25 AM |
| 56 | New girlfriend (22) is incredibly private about our relationship. Has no social media.Dude. That's awesome. I've been with girls who wouldn't shut their fucking mouths about our relationship. Trust me. It's a good thing. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | If girl chooses a more awkward dorky kind of guy over a Chad what does she see in him that makes him more appealing?I've seen it happen. It's quite interesting. I watched her pick the guy she knew she could get commitment from but then throw IOI's to the other guy. The first guy who committed, she is trying to push him into a moving in together (they've been together less than 6 months). But yet she still throws herself at the other guy who is definitely more alpha. It's pretty funny. I guess you could sum it up a the dorky guy being her backup plan. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | What’s more important than women to you?Protecting what is mine. My friends, my family, my girl but most of all my peace of mind. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Are these my only options?This answer really helps. As I stated in my post, and I am genuinely not trying to brag. I get alot of women who try to swing to me. And while I flirt and enjoy the attention (who doesn't like girls hitting on them), I struggle with allowing them to make the jump. If I could overcome that, then i honestly would have quite a few to choose from. But I don't know man... | /r/askMRP | 31/07/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Are these my only options?Would you consider branch swinging a red flag? Or just a feature? | /r/askMRP | 31/07/20 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Are these my only options?I have been doing alot more internal work as opposed to external as of late. I've dealt with childhood traumas etc and am genuinely feeling alot better within myself. I guess I believe these are my only options become they are the only ones presented to me at the moment. I am still young I guess. I am also trying to be realistic, looking for a (my version of a) unicorn seems like a waste to be honest. Thanks for the response man. | /r/askMRP | 31/07/20 11:03 AM |
| 4 | I shittested girls for the past month. Learnt that girls have absolutely 0 self-esteem and are just a few words away from lashing at you.The fuck is wrong with some people man. You went around insulting and people didn't like it...what a fucking surprise. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 25 | Why do girls after there heartbroken destroy themselvesTrue. Before I started improving myself, I hit rock bottom through self destruction before realising "this ain't it chief" | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 3 | How does a typical "non red pill" relationship go? How do guys even survive?This is an amazing answer. Didn't see it this way. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Promoting an alpha widow (slight oneitis)True. Fair enough. Appreciate the answer. Thanks anyways man. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Promoting an alpha widow (slight oneitis)I appreciate your answer man. As I've said in my post. I have doubts and that's why I'm hesitant. What type of red flags did your girl have? I can't lie. There is slight oneitis but not enough to ignore these doubts I have. I mean I can find someone else. But that's what makes oneitis such a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Promoting an alpha widow (slight oneitis)Different director. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Promoting an alpha widow (slight oneitis)This is the kind of gold I was looking for. As for the phone. She gives me complete access to it. So I know there isn't (or there could be - but I'm confident enough) My biggest doubt is her friends to be honest. They are literally the type of girl red pill warns about. But even then, all of them have atleast tried it with me once (we worked together so I declined). "Promotion is never without risk" this is exactly what I needed to hear. Honestly thanks for the answer bro. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Most girls are sad and attentation / validation whoring so much because of quarantine?It's because you see the worst of humanity in those types of place. Both men and women. When you come out of the hood you see the worst of masculinity is constantly drawn attention to but the worst of femininity isn't. Making it easier to slide under the radar. Which you haven't got time for. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | People who grew up in poverty and without a father in the houseI decided my father was a weak man and worked to not be him. Simple as that. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 24 | Plates with fucked up backgrounds behaving better?I've noticed this as well. I think it's because trauma forces you to grow or wallow in your pain. Women who decide not to wallow in the pain typically behave better. They seem to also understand the extent of "pussypass". Having a vagina does not make you impervious to trauma. And in my experience realise you need to offer more than just that. However they also need stronger men than average because if they could push themselves out of their own trauma why would they need you? This is where most… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Is forgiveness the most worst/beta trait ever?Forgiveness does not mean reconcilliation of the relationship | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:01 AM |
| 14 | Blowing It UpAt the end of the day man. I still do believe everyone should live their life as they choose. If she leaves me for someone I perceive as beneath me (its happened) I usually get frustrated at myself for choosing someone so stupid. And at the end of the day...why do I care what she thinks? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 07:31 AM |
| 264 | Blowing It UpEven before finding this sub. I always told myself that if a woman is going to leave me for someone else or choose someone else. She needs to make sure the guy in question has 2 things. 1) He has to be better than me because hell...I can't blame her for leveling up. And why trade in your Ferrari for a Ford. 2) He needs to work as hard or harder than me. Because it might not be today or even a year from now. I will surpass him while remembering how you chose someone else. Living with this philoso… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 12:06 AM |
| 5 | What’s the craziest thing you’ve said to a girl?On a date. Her: What do boners feel like Me: Give me your hand, I'll show you Before I became aware of the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | what age do girls get nervous being single?In my experience/observations. 24 + as well. It's not so much panic sort of they start to want commitment a but more. By 30, full panic is completely in. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Do your women cum often?Yes. But only because I can't fucking last to save my life. So I learnt how to use my tongue. Never listen to anything she says during sex (within reason of course) but how her body responds. The body never lies. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Top shy to send IOI's?Man. Now that I've had someone say it to me. It seems so obvious. Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Top shy to send IOI's?That's a good point. What I maybe should have stated is that she sort of seems to freeze up when the topic of anything sexual is brought up which confuses me. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 07:23 AM |
| 3 | What is the endgame for redpilled men?A life you enjoy | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on treating people with respect but knowing some people take that as an opporunity to try to feel superior or disrespect you, how do you treat people?If I give you my wallet and say take 50 pounds. And you take 50 pounds. That's me being nice. But If I say take and you take 100, and I let you...that's weakness. Kindness without a limiter is weakness. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Spirituality.Spiritually led me to the red pill. There are aspects of the red pill I dislike but this overarching message (one of claiming your masculinity) is what I like. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | As a redpiller what identifies you as the best option for a women ? What do you give women in return ?My presence makes people feel calm. My confidence is infectious (been told people feel strong when they are with me). I'm funny. I'm also focused on creating value for myself instead of complaining about how life sucks (that alone puts you above most men and women). And while I'm not the most positive person. My actions are that of a positive person. I.e resilience, discipline etc. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 08:10 AM |
| 14 | Oneitis won't leave me be?100% bro and will do. Looking back I'm grateful she rejected me. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 04:17 PM |
| 12 | Oneitis won't leave me be?The explanation was that 1) She has never seen me as more than a friend. 2) She has met someone else, she went into a (looking back on it) a stupidly detailed explanation as to how they met 😂😂 3) She uses sex a method of attaining relationships. 4) About other men she has been with. I just smiled and said okay. Good luck with finding what you're looking for.. Maybe that was too much. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you guys had a legit spiritual awakening?I actually became red pill through spirituality. So yes the two can entwine | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever reflected on your RP life during post nut clarity? - Tell storiesIt's amazing how true this is. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I can't stop thinking about how RP these Weeknd lyrics are."No disrespect when i say if you love me. Better fuck like your scared to lose your place to the girl next door, hell no i don't want her. I'm just giving you incentive, inspiration while i go out on these sold out tours" Dread game Loaded gun by 6lack | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Is being short the worst card to be dealtNo. It's a shit test. I've had multiple girls taller than me approach me. One thing they have all asked was "does being shorter than me make you feel insecure" in some variation. "Why would it?" And they don't bring it up again. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 04:10 PM |
| 4 | If your girlfriend left, what would you miss? [A Patrice Series]Patrice O'Neal was a fucking G. It's such a shame he is gone. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/19 09:40 AM |
| 4 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?The thing is when I first met the more attractive girl. I was interested. We flirted, got IOI's (eye contact, touch, she even invited me to her house at one point). Thing is as I got to know her. And learnt about her personality. She became ugly to me. Thats when I met her friend. Who while "less attractive" became more attractive as I got to know her. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?I'm just joking man. By no. You could be right. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?😂😂😂 First things first. Yugioh is awesome. Second she can't seem to stop touching me when we are alone. She now started making sexual jokes like "spank me" | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?What I struggle to understand is why a women would cock block a man she isn't interested in? While I know women don't always thinking logically. It confuses the shit out of me. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 03:22 PM |
| 10 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?That's what I've been debating about. Just finding a new girl because it's not my job to raise anyone's confidence. But I think I will follow the advice everyone gave here. If it still doesn't work. Oh well. More girls exist. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 02:17 PM |
| 38 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?This sound like very good advice. My gut agrees with this actually. I mean its easier to do because I actually can't stand the more attractive one. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 12:58 PM |
| 17 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?That could very well be it. Never did think of it like that. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 12:56 PM |
| 3 | my currently LTR blames all of her " bad luck" on being cursed or possessed in her 20s.I thought I was the only one 😂😂 | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy and ”the Hood”Don't get me wrong. I don't blame women. Not in the slightest. I would not either. But when you have been there (like society's version of a loser) it changes your perspective. But it's sometimes hard, when you know that at your worst. You are not worth shit to anyone. I was never helped. I weren't on drugs apart from sleeping pills (trauma is a bitch). And I'm only 23 years old. I appreciate hypergamy but its that exact same hypergamy that has me view women as people I wouldn't risk building wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/19 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy and ”the Hood”This hits deeply. I grew up in the hood. I don't live there and now live in london earning 30k a year. Not much but my sights are on more. I have an idea that women ain't shit simply because when I was homeless, no one gave a shit. Hypergamy is the only thing that made me believe I was worth "loving". Now that I am aware of it. I believe red pill 100%. "Shorty name. I get to that later. To me there all the same" pretty much sums how I view women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach being the benefited party of branch swinging?If you can take a girl from someone. She can get taken from you. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | A sign of Low SMV?Thanks for the response. I go to the gym 4 times a week. I earn good money (for my age - I'm 23). Have my own place etc. I do have a baby face. Like really bad 😅. And while it is okay for now. I am a relationship minded person (even if it is red pill on hard mode). In the future I would prefer to not have this issue... | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | What happens when two people pleasers get in a relationship?Probably alot of resentment. People pleasers are usually shitty receivers. So both would either end up trying to outdo one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I hang out with an Alpha guy who brags about beating up girls?I feel quite strongly on this topic because I watched my father do it my mother. There can be a very fine line between violence and protection. Violence in my eyes should only be used as a form of protection. And even then. Only as a last resort. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | More interest before LiftingYou've made the assumption that I go to the gym for women and not for me. I'm just asking about something I've noticed. I have no intention of changing for women. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | More interest before LiftingWhile that was one of my 1st assumptions. I also figured it was my male hamster. "They're attracted, just intimidated". Don't get me wrong, I still get IOI, it's just there alot more subtle and while before they were obvious. That's one thing my gut is telling me though...That I can no longer rely on being pursued and will have to start approaching. Which honestly I don't mind. But without the obvious IOI'S it's a bit harder. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | More interest before LiftingNo they weren't. To me they were HB7+, I have an unusual taste in girls so someone's HB10 is my HB6 and vice versa. Although the girls in my friend group have been flirting HEAVY. It almost makes me a tad uncomfortable. As I don't find them attractive as partners. I did think of the whole intimidated idea. But figured it was just my male hamster. And yeah of course. I need to be the one to approach. It's just weird that now I am willing to exit my comfort zone I get less IOI'S. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 01:40 PM |
| 13 | Should I hang out with an Alpha guy who brags about beating up girls?Fuck no bro. Red pill or not, beating women is an extremely shitty thing to do. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 12:54 PM |
| 3 | More interest before LiftingI was borderline anorexic. I have put on weight. But not enough that you can't see my 6 pack however. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Nexted my 6 years LTR and feeling lost. What now?"A king is not defined by his throne, his crown or even the queen on his arm, but by his spirit" This is something I told myself after I experienced a soul crushing breakup. Use that spirit bro. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 10:43 PM |
| 12 | What red pill facts surprised you the most?Same here actually. Redpill just sort of pushed me over the edge. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 10:17 AM |
| 15 | What was your red pill moment?Got into a relationship. She left without notice. And by notice she just left the country, her friends were the ones to tell me. She comes back. Next time I see her she has a new boyfriend. I was hurt but more confused if anything. Friends sort of disappeared on me. So I focused on getting my mind right. After doing that. I started hitting the gym. And then after the new attention from women and shit. I found the red pill. Thing is it didn't give me a new way of thinking but explained everything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Am I being unrealistic?Fair enough. Thing is I don't mind being shit tested, its just when its done in a way that seems like I owe her something is when it pisses me off. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unrealistic?Most no. A few yes (like 2 or 3 - no longer see them though) But those ones I don't lose attraction to because they don't randomly shit test me out no where in a disrespectful way. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Am I being unrealistic?I think this sums up exactly what has been happening for me as well. Do you push through it? I don't see it as worth it to be honest... | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unrealistic?Demand things. Or just flat out being rude. I've had a few girls tell me to do things. This usually happens after I do something nice for them. Not like buy flowers but like human decency type things. e.g "clean this for me" "go get me my bag" I've had girls try run dread game on me. I sort of just soft next. I think it could be because I am more of a beta. I like doings things for decent people (man or woman). Its seems like If I do something for a girl I'm attracted to. She seems to push the e… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 12:32 AM |
| 15 | All fat guys who lost weight how do you stay motivated?Never rely on motivation. Rely on discipline. 9 times out 10 a person needs discipline. Not motivation. But try taking reading about people's experiences about how life changed after becoming fitter. That may provide some temporary motivation. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 05:59 AM |
| 17 | Q4Men: why is it bad that women want to be treated like princesses?This is the crux of it all. I don't mind being your knight in shining armour. But you have to be atleast my queen in victoria secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 7 | How to deal with someone trying to contact you after ghosting you? Do you go savage or not?If you nexted her. Then anything she does after the fact shouldn't change how you feel about her. Also might want to look into solving your parental issues. Those are more important than anything she can do for you. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Further Improving your SMVAlright thanks man. Any books you would specifically recommend? Reason I ask this. Back when I was more beta. I used to get crazy IOI from strangers. But not from the girls in my friend group. Now I get none from strangers but girls in my friend sort of throw themselves at me now. I don't go for it. They're friends but still it's mad confusing. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 08:55 AM |
| 6 | LTR is "just dropping something off" at her ex's houseI don't think its beta to be honest. It's only beta if you give more an explanation than necessary. Her: Why are you leaving You: You broke a boundary...whatever you say. Her: Whatever she says You at this point have made your point clear. Anything additional just makes you weak. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 08:48 AM |
| 2 | What is your mission?Show people what actualized potential looks like. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Music?6lack | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | If you don't enter her frame?I nexted her. I don't need the stress but I was just curious. I was more of a beta when we were together but 2 years later. Our paths ended up crossing. And I figured why not. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is this what frame is?I think you described it perfectly. I also just had an experience that confirms how important it is. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Whats your gym fuel?To create a congruence between how I feel and how I look. Mentally I feel incredibly powerful (overcome alot of shit that most won't go through) but physically I looked scrawny. I didn't like that. So I gym to make the the two equal. But it's sort of impossible because I am always wanting to improve my mental. But I'm happy for my body to lag behind as long as it's still improving. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 08:27 AM |
| 7 | What kind of jobs do you guys work, and how has TRP helped you guys secure these kinds of jobs?I'm a waiter. My goal is to end up as a fine dining restaurant manager. Not really considered impressive by any means but it's what I want to do. I'm in england and am on 24k a year right now. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Stupid Question: How did you know your game was working?That would be the obvious. Yes | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Fake it till you make it: TRP vs. realityGreat answer man. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 08:37 AM |
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