ElysiumFields Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
53	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all)		ElysiumFields	/r/seduction	12/08/12 01:03 PM
6	Where do you draw the line?	Inner Game	ElysiumFields	/r/seduction	22/10/12 01:58 PM

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3	Where do you draw the line? Appreciate your response. My best mate has a similar perspective 'If she's going to cheat, she'll cheat. If its not with you it will be someone else, so it may as well be you'. I'm more inclined to befriend this woman under the pretense that she's married and avoid any potential shitstorm. Besides, she'd be fantastic as a wingwoman, has social connections and has some attractive single friends. I gain a friend and this opens up additional avenues.	/r/seduction	22/10/12 05:01 PM
1	Where do you draw the line? Appreciate your response. We've never broached the subject of her husband so it's not something I'm abundantly clear about. She hasn't mentioned they're in an open marriage, but she has made it evident that she wants this under wraps. This indicates to me that it's not as free and easy as assumed. She is aware that I see and sleep with multiple women so any form of relationship from my perspective is definitely off the cards. I think she's mostly happy with her marriage (I mean, she hasn't indic…	/r/seduction	22/10/12 04:35 PM
1	Where do you draw the line? Thanks for the response :) I'm of similar mind. It's not as though I have a lack of women in my life since I tend to maintain a few casual relationships. I am, however, intrigued as to how other Sedditors see the situation and what their approach might be. I appreciate your time.	/r/seduction	22/10/12 02:33 PM
0	Where do you draw the line? Its progressed somewhat - turns out we have a mutual acquaintance and I ran into her on another night out. After the acquaintance left it dialed up a notch. I wasn't entirely certain how comfortable I was with the situation and backed off. She has subsequently pursued me and is definitely keen. I'm not overtly concerned about the husband as I believe he's more the provider type. So do you use your Seddit powers for good or for 'evil'?	/r/seduction	22/10/12 02:27 PM
1	I totally messed it up. I've never had such a shot to my self confidence in my light. Help me!! Don't stress it dude. Shit happens. Chalk it up to experience and move on. Next time, be assertive and just be honest. She's better off knowing you're a virgin with the capability of getting better (your first time might be embarassingly quick or lacklustre) than just outright shit in bed. Besides, some women fantasize about taking a guys virginity. So next time? Be confident, shoot her a smile and say something along the lines of "Yeah, it's my first time, but I learn quickly. Show me what you …	/r/seduction	20/10/12 05:03 PM
2	How to dress like a boss while maintaining my heterosexuality. Who gives a fuck? I'm thin, dress reasonably well (pretty much similarly to you) and get called gay but I don't let it affect my frame. Instead I treat it like an IOI...because in most cases it is. If it's a girl I've been interacting with I'll fire back a quick remark like "let see just how gay I am", kino and triangulate then just lean in for the kiss. It's happened quite a bit.	/r/seduction	11/10/12 12:28 PM
1	Cool Hobbies/Rec Classes to be involved in? You're getting there, well done! You're absolutely right. passion is critical. It needs to be a genuine love for your hobby and not something you do to pick up or as a means of validating yourself. I'm a musician, yet I will never volunteer the information freely to a woman because it might seem as though I'm trying to impress her, when quite frankly, it should be the other way around. She will find out eventually, but it will not be because I'm attempting to impress her with my feats or accompl…	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:38 PM
2	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. In the instance of the shy guy - I have a friend like this. He's absolutely awesome, but he has the WORST case of oneitis. He is so unbelievably in love with this girl, however, he is terrified to escalate because he may potentially ruin their relationship if he's rejected. It may be that you're encountering his type, in which case the shy guy will never take the initiative. So what do you do as a girl in this situation? Kiss him. Seriously, just go for it. Sometimes the onus is on the girl to m…	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:20 PM
2	Difference in methods around the world I've never really used anything I thought was cheesey - which seems to account for the majority of lines / techniques used in PUA material. Providing you understand the 'WHY' you can adjust accordingly and come up with material that is more culturally or geographically appropriate.	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:04 PM
1	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) Awesome work man. Definitely makes me want to work more on my dancing!	/r/seduction	13/08/12 08:56 AM
0	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) I wouldn't necessarily consider myself any more than average. Girls usually refer to me as 'cute'. I'd say I dress a cut above most guys so I think this helps.	/r/seduction	13/08/12 08:50 AM
1	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) I expect that's it. She's expressing disbelief at her own feelings that you're as awesome as she thinks you are. I think it might also be that her experiences thus far have taught her that most men will place her on a pedestal, attempt to impress her and behave nervously. RSD is helping me to dispel a lot of my own anxiety and become a lot more calm and centred when interacting with women - which is who I am at my core anyway. I've begun to realise that (For me anyway) peacock-y behaviour works …	/r/seduction	13/08/12 05:02 AM
2	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) See my response above. Whether you choose to believe it is your own prerogative. I have nothing to prove, however, I thought the community might appreciate my experience :)	/r/seduction	13/08/12 04:35 AM
2	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) I'm 28, but I look early 20's. Girls always assume I'm 21-24. I'd guess that this girl was 21-24. In all honesty, despite my relative inexperience in the seduction community, my own experience has taught me that age isn't relevant to any interaction. It's only relevant if you make it relevant. If you look young, make sure you dress appropriately so you don't seem young (if that makes sense?)	/r/seduction	13/08/12 04:33 AM
1	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) Next time I'll stop midthrust and take a photo because 'the guys on the internet will never believe me'. I shared my experience because it shows that non verbal communication can be powerful. Secondly, you don't need to show social value or social proof directly. A woman can sense this indirectly through your interactions with others and the way in which they respond to you. So if the conversation is anchored to me, people appear to be having fun and people are constantly seeking me out (includi…	/r/seduction	13/08/12 04:21 AM
2	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) Thanks for your kind words :) I couldn't agree with you more! Living outside of your comfort zone is absolutely necessary to success in all walks of life. It's how we grow and evolve as individuals. What I was trying to suggest was that if it is overly conflicting and it is not aligned to your personality, it will show in your interactions with others. For example, I might come off as a newb, but I don't use standard openers. I will use whatever weird and wonderful tools in the environment aroun…	/r/seduction	12/08/12 03:02 PM
3	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) I've closed without a word on two previous occasions, however, in those instances I've had a significant edge and high situational value (spinning tracks at a rave with over 1k punters). The RSD program is Tylers Blueprint Decoded. It might be a little dated by now, but its provided me with a much needed boost to my inner game and has thus far helped to round me out as an individual (which is what led me here in the beginning). If there's anything else I should be looking into, by all means plea…	/r/seduction	12/08/12 02:12 PM
4	[FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all) Thanks. I appreciate the words of encouragement :)	/r/seduction	12/08/12 02:03 PM