This might belong here, it might not. I just want to share my experiences and thoughts from last night.

Last night:

HB9 is wearing a black figure hugging dress, dangerous curves, beautiful dazzling hazel eyes and a stunning smile to match. When I walked through the door, I made intense eye contact and smiled slyly before turning to the host and starting a conversation. There was a constant crowd of men around her and new men approaching with seeming regularity. I’d catch her eye occasionally as I continue to move around the room. We’d make eye contact and I’d smile at her. No more.

I’m talking to a friend and I notice she’s eating what appears to be chocolate. We make eye contact again. I excuse myself from the conversation, walk up to her smiling and motion for her to share. She giggles, breaks off a piece and feeds it to me. She breaks off another piece, hands it to me and as I’m feeding it to her she makes intense eye contact and sucks on my finger. Fuck me, it’s on. I take her by the hand, lead her to the bathroom, close the door and push her up against the wall. 5 minutes later I have her bent over the sink, panties on the floor. No conversation has taken place up to this point. We kiss goodbye, I get her number but no name.

What I took away from this experience:

Verbal communication isn’t always necessary and its important to differentiate yourself (without seeming to do so). People can take their cues from others. That girl across the room (in this case the HB9) can see how people react to you, she can see that others seek you out (A HB 8 that I ended up taking home, yes, two F closes in one night) and you are a conversational anchor. Women are like sharks, they can sense the blood in the water. It reached a point where I had three women simultaneously vying for my attention. Whilst I am reasonably new to this community, thus far I've learnt that whilst there are a LOT of different programmes out there, it's imperative to find one that is aligned to your core values. If it doesnt feel natural and you don't feel comfortable with the material, find one that suits you and works at building your weaknesses. I began looking into RSD recently after a terrible breakup left me in tatters. Whilst I’m only partially through the programme ( been taking my time and really trying to wrap my head around it), I can see the longer term benefits being applicable to multiple facets of my life. In essence, I’ve found what is working for me. RSD has made it possible to anchor a conversation, bring value and find my core confidence.

My Question

Lastly, a question to all you more experienced Sedditors. At one point the HB8 that I briefly mentioned said to me “I feel like you have a wall up. There is no way that you could be this calm and laidback”. Is that some form of shit test or is it just a compliment and I'm looking into it too deeply? I just simply responded to her with “What you see is what you get dollface”, smiled and resumed the conversation with the two guys I’d been talking to. Was that the right way to respond?