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I don't have "girlfriends," but I find MOST of the girls through parties or other social events. However, I meet girls in a lot of different ways, for example the most recent girl was from my Calc class I took over the summer.
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:07 PM
8

This isn't some kind of race or competition. How could somebody be "ahead" of me?
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:14 AM
5

I first subbed here 2 years ago. And I've had "success" for awhile but only now do I feel I've reached a level that can't be taken from me.
/r/seduction23/08/15 08:07 PM
39

I will check on the sub from time to time still, I just don't want to see the posts on my front page haha
/r/seduction23/08/15 06:23 PM
56

Not a chance. Seems like a huge circlejerk of "being alpha and not beta"...not something I want to be a part of.
/r/seduction23/08/15 05:37 PM
2

I've had this happen to me. You just have to know genuinely if the girl has your best interests or not. I've had girls pretend to be helping me, but in reality are hurting me to keep me available for a chance that they could have me. Which is annoying. But I've also known 1 or 2 really great wingwomen who I am actually good friends with who have gotten me laid many times.
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:09 PM
3

This is stupid. Being genuinely funny doesn't "communicate that you've had to be funny to get by life" nor does it represent low value. If you're funny and you have good game, you'll get laid easily.
/r/seduction07/08/15 03:13 PM
22

If she was letting you put your hand on her thigh right off the bat during the car ride, you would have had to fuck up real bad to not end up f-closing aha. Good for you bro!
/r/seduction06/04/15 02:22 AM
1

Good article but some of the "correct" shit test responses are a little too forward for my liking. "Oh I guess I'll just have to fuck your friend then" and "yeah but when I saw your titties blah blah blah." Just comes off as rude.
/r/seduction04/04/15 07:20 PM
3

I'm curious as to what context you'd use his line in. I feel like if I wanted to join a social group at some kind of event I would simply introduce myself or make a comment about something to one or two people in the group and naturally merge in. That line, in the way I'm imagining it, would create an awkward silence after they say yes. Sort of like a "ok you can join..now what?"
/r/seduction28/11/14 08:17 PM
1

Sit next to her instead of opposite of her. I disagree with this one. If you table/environment isn't right, it is actually just weird.
/r/seduction24/11/14 11:05 PM
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I think it did bother you a little if you made a post about it.
/r/seduction12/09/14 12:48 PM
1

Escalation ladder. It works.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:23 PM
2

That compliment in specific just seems over the top and very movie-like and Romeo and Juliet-esque.
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:17 PM
1

It depends. I do tone it down a ton with girls I'm not interested or unavailable girls. I like knowing I have the power to turn it up if I wanted to though.
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:05 PM
3

He explained how to show your interest in her. That doesn't mean it'll make her interested in you. Move on and keep trying :)
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:03 PM
3

I would say this but would say it in a way that she wouldn't know if I'm being sarcastic or not. Compliments like that on the first few dates are not good
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:01 PM
1

I do it by flirting subtly and being sarcastic in a funny way. I only do it to people I like. And then from there: kino, and the natural progression. But it all starts with flirting and eye contact.
/r/seduction26/08/14 05:57 PM
15

But I wouldn't choose either if I didn't have to. Raizos guide was terrible but this one isn't exactly good.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:41 PM
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I don't know why you implied that studying for a degree that you genuinely want AND "finding yourself" in college are mutually exclusive. You can go to college for many reasons not just to get a degree.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:38 PM
1

Sure but don't dwell on it.
/r/seduction04/08/14 02:57 AM
4

With that attitude you're completely right :)
/r/seduction03/08/14 08:20 PM
6

FORD. Family, occupation, recreation, dreams. Ask about her, tell her about yours. The conversation should never die.
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:18 PM
1

I will come full stocked with condoms, and I am not opposed to a relationship in college.
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:16 PM
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What do you mean by this?
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:15 PM
1

Nothing in particular. It was more gradual rather than big jumps.
/r/seduction03/08/14 05:23 PM
9

You probably said lets test that and waited for a reaction. If you're gonna say let's test that you have to go in for it.
/r/seduction03/08/14 04:56 PM
5

My hypothesis is that there are simply more girls that are willing to kiss you than fuck you on any given night. You could do the same things every night and get laid 4 times in a row, then only get makeouts the next 10. But I would say, and I'm no expert, is you need to turn her on. No girl goes home with a guy because she THINKS it's a good idea. She feels it. Kiss her, but then stop, make her want more. After the first kiss, kino has no limits and I don't need to tell you how to get a girl ho…
/r/seduction03/08/14 04:26 PM
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Dude I just looked at the fucking picture. You look good! Read this: YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON HOLDING YOURSELF BACK. Your current mindset is toxic!
/r/seduction03/08/14 03:40 PM
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I'd say its best to show interest in sublte ways. Sarcasm, kino, strong eye contact, engaging, etc. Its much more effective and 'safer' than saying "I like you" straight up or confusing "showing interest" with being a pushover. This is all in the context of trying to hookup with a girl for the first few times.
/r/seduction03/08/14 03:15 PM
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I get the impression that many people started reading about Seduction much later in their life. It really is a blessing to have discovered this so early. It's more than picking up girls. Its about, when the fun is over, finding a soulmate. If I have been through different types of girls I know exactly what I want. And when I find that person I will know how to get her. It's exciting to think about.
/r/seduction03/08/14 03:05 PM
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Yeah I really do feel blessed to start early.
/r/seduction03/08/14 03:03 PM
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I simply did interesting things, but not for the sake of becoming interesting. That was simply a by product. I started my own online business, I trained Muay Thai for 7 months, and I'm confident in general. When I'm talking to a girl I like to believe what I'm saying is important. Even if it's not, the person you're talking to will think it is. Be passionate in what you do. But if you aren't, at the very least pretend that you are when explaining things about your life.
/r/seduction03/08/14 03:02 PM
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Where I'm from it goes both ways. Giving head to a girl means eating her out haha
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:59 PM
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Yup Rutgers NB!
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:59 PM
2

I entirely understand what you're trying to convey. I've been in situations where we're talking but the sexual tension is so strong that we know what we're saying is all fluff and it's pretty hot in my opinion.
/r/seduction03/08/14 02:40 AM
0

How'd she message you on Facebook?
/r/seduction24/07/14 11:49 PM
1

Hmm, too available. Maybe that's what it is. Thank you!
/r/seduction16/07/14 06:23 PM
1

Quite possibly true. I'm 18 and just graduated high school. And me and my peers are so accustomed to texting all the time. It's just normal. Maybe I should back off a bit despite constant texting being the norm.
/r/seduction16/07/14 05:33 PM
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I definitely frame the proposal in a way like "I am doing something that's pretty fun, do you want to come when I do it?" I am not like "hey I have no plans/cancelled all my plans for you. Let's hangout." Would it be worthwhile to post some text chats of the flakes?
/r/seduction16/07/14 05:18 PM
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They dont get attracted to you because of it. They do it because they already are attracted to you.
/r/seduction28/05/14 01:51 PM
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I really like that Approach Anxiety program, I am going to start it up soon.
/r/seduction13/05/14 02:01 AM
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Absolutely not.
/r/seduction04/05/14 02:57 AM
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Oh you mistook what I was saying! She knew I didn't actually know her Dad, she was just playing along with the story for the sake of it.
/r/seduction04/05/14 02:57 AM
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Ok I will ask her!
/r/seduction04/05/14 01:44 AM
1

True. How does an ice cream date sound?
/r/seduction04/05/14 01:33 AM
1

I figured the Starbucks would fix that. Dates aren't common among my age group so anything I do will be more than generic. But how does ice cream sound?
/r/seduction04/05/14 01:33 AM
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Well a movie is an easy place to hook up.
/r/seduction03/05/14 09:25 PM
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Who says she has to?
/r/seduction03/05/14 09:25 PM
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I wouldn't have gotten laid without Seddit. And I'm in Jersey!
/r/seduction03/05/14 05:03 PM
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I'm proud of you dude. I'm 17 and am in the same boat as you: Seduction has changed my life and I am seeing results just like you. Where are you from?
/r/seduction03/05/14 04:22 PM
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There must be something wrong with that 31 year old woman with a DAUGHTER if she is casually hooking up with a 16 year old! Was she drunk? From the pictures it seemed like a drunk-type of night. But anywho, congrats!
/r/seduction03/05/14 04:14 PM
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It took me a LOT of smooth talking to get her in bed You need to share this stuff. Otherwise the field report is pretty crap and more bragging than anything else.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:55 AM
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You're thinking too much. You can easily gauge the interest of a girl when you say "ok me and my friend are going to get going, give me your number so we can hangout soon." You will be able to tell immediately if she is really interested - and even if she hides it well - you have her number and have a chance to make something happen. You'll have a lot of chances to make your intent clear.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:33 AM
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You're in the wrong mindset. When you approach - all you're doing is talking to them. You and your friend are having a conversation with a group of girls and nothing more. If you enjoy talking to them, but the logistics don't work out to continue hanging out - before you leave you get the number of at least one girl which is hopefully the one you like. Asking to go on a date in front of friends like that is extremely high pressure and more ideal for a solo approach. Get a #-close is not a waste …
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:26 AM
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Is this the first time you met this girl? She seems kind of easy considering, which is not an insult to her but more of a detriment to the amount of work you actually had to put into getting the f-close.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:18 AM
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Seems like good advice!
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:11 AM
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Well you won't typically isolate a girl when day gaming like you're describing. She's with her friends. It isn't like a club/bar where it's pretty common for a girl to separate with her friends to hook up with a guy. What you do it approach the group, and address everybody in the group. Chances are somebody in their group will do most of the talking and will hold the conversation. Just interact naturally with everybody and if your friend is good it'll all be a smooth interaction. Then you get so…
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:09 AM
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The problem is that since everyone sort of knows each other either directly or through someone else, I have serious anxiety over approaching a girl in this scenario. I've heard some of my girl friends talk about how so-and-so approached them at the bar and tried to pick them up and they thought it was gross etc. The fear of being talked about like that keeps me from approaching any girl. This is where you're going wrong. You're scared of "being the creep." And it's so easy to NOT be the creep. J…
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:06 AM
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ur a good kisser haha I am imagining somebody saying the haha
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:01 AM
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Not true.
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:05 PM
3

You seem like a good writer. You painted an image of a Daisy and Gatsby type of date in my head and it seemed extremely romantic and exciting. Great job!
/r/seduction09/04/14 10:53 PM
1

The real question is this: how hot are these girls? Anybody can have sex with a girl below a 5.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:40 AM
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I kept solid eye contact all night. Honestly the only thing that stopped me at the end of the night was myself thinking the seatbelt thing meant she wanted to leave.
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:33 PM
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Yeah I really messed up. But that's what I'm asking - what can I do now?
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:10 PM
1

We were on the same page until you said "come off as creepy." Can you give an example? The "getting around it method" is completely focused on inner-game. In my head I'm simply pretending the girl is already taken to get myself in the proper mindset. How would this come across as creepy?
/r/seduction18/12/13 02:31 AM
1

So face the fear head on instead of trying to find a way around it, basically?
/r/seduction18/12/13 02:14 AM
1

As much as I agree with your plan, and appreciate what you said, I don't think it is relevant to the question I asked. I 100% think that if I was looking for a girlfriend who truly matched my personality that is how it'd be done. I'm asking a totally different, more specific question.
/r/seduction18/12/13 01:15 AM
1

So just pretend every girl has a girlfriend and I'll get into that mindset?
/r/seduction18/12/13 12:08 AM
1

Well I wouldn't call it hitting on her, because it's mostly sexual jokes. For example with the girl mentioned in OP, we had to go up to the front of the room get rulers to measure something. She asked what we're measuring and I said "my penis." She then replied with "oh then I should get two rulers?" That is on the extreme end of the sexual jokes, but the flirting is definitely not one-sided. I want to create a two-sided flirty relationship with a single girl because than she is actually an opti…
/r/seduction17/12/13 09:08 PM
2

Actually this made me think of something else. I have an irrational fear that if I perhaps start massaging a girl in class she'll loudly exclaim "what are you doing?" in a disgusting manner despite this never happening. If the girl is single and she said that, I'd feel embarrassed and defeated and it'd look like my attempt at kino failed and everybody would see. If the girl is taken and she said that (although in my head this irrational fear is less likely to happen) I have something to fall bac…
/r/seduction17/12/13 09:05 PM
1

What's an example of a man pushing back?
/r/seduction27/10/13 03:27 PM
1

This is exactly the word I was looking for! "Dominate." So what do you suggest to do when you run into this type of girl, say at a party. What things do you do?
/r/seduction27/10/13 12:51 PM
2

Wow you really put my thoughts into words here. I never knew how to say this.
/r/seduction29/08/13 04:46 AM
1

Based off of your original question I'd say you're at a party so what I said only applies to that
/r/seduction25/08/13 09:11 PM
4

Be passionate. Grab her hips. Then rub your thumbs on her cheeks while holding her head. Very lightly and seductively pull her hair. Grab her ass. If she responds well to this (her not stopping you is responding well, if she breathes heavier or at a different pace that's even better) then you kiss her neck and pull her close. Your dick should be touching her. No space in between. Rinse and repeat. She'll love it. After 10 minutes try and say "want to go somewhere alone?" You're in.
/r/seduction25/08/13 06:14 PM
16

Yeah that Instagram line was pretty weird.
/r/seduction11/07/13 02:27 PM
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"always make bold statements, not delicate questions," because common, if u take out the uncertainties, where are the fun at right? You ask questions when you're curious I think he meant of instead of asking "where are you from?" or "what are your hobbies?" to state something akin to "You definitely sound like you're from Alabama or something," and "You definitely work out, you must be a runner."
/r/seduction10/07/13 02:54 PM
73

Why the fuck are you all downvoting these comments? A girl comes on to share her perspective so we can learn something and you all downvote her? Bunch of clowns.
/r/seduction02/07/13 02:58 PM
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This won't help you get over your AA.
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:51 PM
1

Yes, they do.
/r/seduction09/05/13 11:09 AM
8

This isn't a trick at all. More like the whole foundation of proper pickup.
/r/seduction08/05/13 09:50 PM
1

The person who said it to her worded it differently. "You want to right down my number, right? That's what you were doing?" is much better than "You asked for my #!" Simply because they will either accept or reject you immediately so you don't have to follow up with the terrible line of "oh, we'll you'll want it after this conversation. Hi, I'm --------" Also she mentioned she never gets hit on, so it must have been a breath of fresh air for her. This won't work on all girls.
/r/seduction24/12/12 02:53 PM
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This wouldn't work sorry.
/r/seduction23/12/12 03:26 PM
7

This wasn't really a field report, but nice post.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:24 PM
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Well I didn't mean all in one text. The ellipticals were supposed to represent replies to her messages, aka a conversation. Sorry for being unclear.
/r/seduction19/11/12 11:22 PM
2

Well, yes. If you say something like "can't wait to make you moan tonight ;)" where she can't tell if you're serious or kidding: that is hot. (Note: The ellipticals below are supposed to represent replies to her messages, aka a conversation) On the flip side, you say something like "guess what we're doing when you come over...no guess...we're gonna have sex maybe if you want only if you want to though...oh you cant make it anymore....ok hope you feel better" - then you look lame.
/r/seduction19/11/12 11:14 PM
1

Some good what? Maybe I do have it? You'd be surprised. Btw any suggestions for doing something other than "hanging out?"
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:46 PM
1

What do you mean duke it out? Like we both hangout with her at the same time? That seems a little impossible. We promised no talking shit about each other at all and I will stand by that and I hope he does. I'm guessing whoever has a better game/whoever takes their time out to hangout with her will get the leg up. You can't kiss a girl through texting. Although, he is only a friend in my "group." We have a large group which creates mini-groups inside the group. And he is not in my "mini-group" s…
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:31 PM
1

Well I'm awake now after a long night and still no reply and usually I'll get a reply at this point so I'm going to leave it at 1) wrong number 2) not interested in either of us or 3) not interested in me. And yes Seduction and other books/PUA's have definitely taught me things I would have never known otherwise and am a much more confident person solely because of it.
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:20 PM
4

I don't know how you managed to word that without sounding creepy. This reply was fucking flawless, I have no idea how you worded it so perfectly! It turned me on...
/r/seduction03/10/12 09:42 PM
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Did you have a full orgasm or was it just precum? If the latter, you could have thrown a condom over it and you would have been fine.
/r/seduction20/08/12 04:05 PM
0

To me, I just ignore posts like this. You only truly learn from doing it yourself or reading field reports. Posts like this don't help.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:50 PM
11

Sorry this wavelength crap is some pseudo-psychological bullshit.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:34 AM
0

This didn't happen...
/r/seduction13/08/12 03:20 AM
0

There was a party i my town last night. Didn't go. :(
/r/seduction22/07/12 12:33 PM
1

What college is that? Thats cheao!
/r/seduction15/07/12 03:39 AM
1

But I'm asking about me. I can be an asshole, but I want to know what your idea of being an asshole is.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:26 PM
2

Can you give some examples of being a douchebag to women? Just being cold hearted?
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:46 AM
1

It sort of sucks because this is the first time I went out and took a risk and this happens. I guess all the other people liked me so it wasn't a loss.
/r/seduction09/07/12 03:05 AM
1

I thought that too, but is that enough to make the girl completely shut me down? I made no advances as I really wasn't looking to hook up, but she obviously would like nothing to do with me whereas a few hours ago she would have gone either way. edit: I would also to like to add, everybody in the group knew eachother beforehand. Two of the girls were sisters and one of them was a friend from their town. I had just met them that night.
/r/seduction09/07/12 12:26 AM
1

Guess it depends on the club.
/r/seduction02/07/12 03:55 PM
10

Look at her, and put your hand out while smiling. Not hard.
/r/seduction02/07/12 02:27 AM
1

Please do.
/r/seduction30/06/12 12:53 AM
1

Maybe you took too long and they lost interest?
/r/seduction29/06/12 05:40 PM
2

Also, if any of you have actually talked to these girls you'll realize...not many people approach them. And they wonder why (depending on the person). If you go up and talk to them, they will be happy. This is how the hottest girl in my sophomore year of college ended up with the punt returner of the football team. He just talked to her, no one else did.
/r/seduction29/06/12 05:26 PM
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Well at that point you just need to filter out the desperate ones like him. It is 100% up to you, but you could be missing out on some really great guys and opportunities because of a few (or actually a lot) bad eggs. I'm not pushing you to do anything differently because I know nothing about you, but if you ever want to meet a bunch of new people, numbers are the way to go. Not Facebook. One my friends is also like you with numbers, she hardly gives it out. "If I see you again, I'll see you aga…
/r/seduction29/06/12 05:25 PM
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Facebooking is the worst imo. For starters, it is difficult, you have to get their (probably fake) name, look it up, browse through all the others with that name and add them. And even once you added them, Facebook only makes things worse. You meet people because you want to get to know them. If they are interesting you want to learn about them (or you just want sex, but whatever). Facebook basically eliminates a lot of that. The person is no longer a mystery, you can learn so much about them th…
/r/seduction29/06/12 05:07 PM
5

Hmm...with the mistake of talking to you for 5 minutes and thinking that's enough to get your number, is this at a party/bar/club only? Because what if a guy saw you on the street, and wanting to get to know you stopped you to talk for about 5 minutes, got your number to arrange a meeting later, and then went on his way. Or are you not interested in meeting new people like that?
/r/seduction29/06/12 04:42 PM
1

Gay guys are the greatest wingman. I speak from experience, and your FR just backs it up even more. I don't know how they do it.
/r/seduction29/06/12 01:55 AM
21

That is an important detail, ya know.
/r/seduction12/06/12 05:01 PM
4

Ask for the number. Seriously, if she is willing to give you her number, she will give it to you if you ask. If she never was from the start, playing tricks won't do anything.
/r/seduction10/06/12 05:44 PM
1

That was smooth.
/r/seduction01/06/12 03:01 AM
11

You aren't a "bad" texter. You're playing games, and she doesn't like that. And you have bad jokes. So she ignored you.
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:56 AM
2

And people actually responded? If I was in a group and a random guy came over and asked that we'd probably just be like "uhm...idk?"
/r/seduction13/05/12 11:39 AM
2

Can you give an example of some stories from the 2nd one?
/r/seduction12/05/12 03:39 PM
2

Confused about the shoulder touch....the way I'm imagining it, the touch would be very awkward. Can you give more context?
/r/seduction12/05/12 03:21 PM
1

You don't need to use words to build attraction. Learn to dance, and once you know how all you need to do is smile and take a girls hand and show her a good time. You don't need to grind.
/r/seduction12/05/12 03:05 PM
1

Yeah..I just don't like going in for it unless a) it is a goodbye kiss that we both know we want b) I say something along the lines of 'what would you do if I kissed you?' Otherwise I feel nervous.
/r/seduction10/05/12 01:42 AM
0

What is 'the community?'
/r/seduction09/05/12 05:36 PM
1

I'm not giving anybody advice...I'm simply telling people what works for me. What happens after that isn't my concern, really/
/r/seduction08/05/12 11:02 PM
2

You need to figure out what puts you "in state" and do that everytime. This is what I do...it is really weird. I just think to myself "I want this girl to rub my dick" With my clothes on, just over the pants. I want to make her WANT to rub it. For some reason this immediately puts me in state. I know what to say, and I just naturally get sociable. I go from talking to nobody to talking to everybody. I can even talk with dudes too, after I thought about wanting a girl to rub me. I know it sounds …
/r/seduction08/05/12 12:26 AM
1

A girl probably won't just come over via text unless you have had some experience physically. I mean just basic kino, if she made it obvious she wanted you one night but nothing happened..somehow make her feel that way again and she'll come over. No fucking winky faces, man.
/r/seduction08/05/12 12:21 AM
1

Ok, now I know you're just an idiot who reads what he wants to read. I said that in my first reply to your original comment.
/r/seduction30/04/12 11:19 PM
4

As a teenager in the 15-17 range...cruises are awesome because they have places where teens go to meet up. A "teen center" if you will. It is awesome, everybody is willing and wanting to meet others and you do not feel worried at all about approaching anybody. And it is SO, SO easy to get with girls on a cruise as a teen. Sadly, I have no information (and will be as stuck as you) if I go on a cruise when I'm 18.
/r/seduction30/04/12 11:10 PM
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Lol you really are hopeless. This wasn't even a complaint, it was a question. It is extremely logical that if you always get attractive girls without having to deal with the anxiety of approaching them, once you get them you lose motivation to pursue farther. But if I approached girls myself and tried for girls who didn't show interest in me; when I get them it will be something new and worthwhile. It is like a spoiled kid always getting presents, eventually he'll think nothing of it. But then w…
/r/seduction30/04/12 11:04 PM
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I'm confused...wouldn't a girl probably just say "Uhm....ok, so what?" after you said this: "Oh, you see, I'm a feminist," I began. "I think women deserve equal rights and should be allowed to wear suits if they so choose!" Especially the bitchy type. Am I wrong?
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:59 PM
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Obviously the exact way I explained it in OP. I get to the peak, and lose motivation and stop talking to the girl. If you weren't an arrogant dick you'd realize I'm not asking why my "methods aren't working," like you are assuming. I'm asking why I lose motivation with girls, and I found out it is because I only go for girls who showed interest in me first. Once again, a result of you not reading the thread. You have 3-4 comments in /r/seduction, all downvoted because of your attitude and the fa…
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:38 PM
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If you actually read the thread and comments you'd know I don't GO for girls and only let them come to me, which is why I feel this way. No one needs assholes like you, fuck off and don't jump to conclusions.
/r/seduction30/04/12 09:43 PM
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Hmm..can you give an example of how this would be beneficial to me?
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:59 PM
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Did you even read the thread?
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:56 PM
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That is also it. I'm 100% fine with masturbating to a porn video or admittedly, to the girl in question rather then actually going to meet up with her when she has told me she would. And after I do, I lose most interest in the girl :/ So basically..I need to go for girls rather than let them come to me and then stop masturbating. This could get tough.
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:10 PM
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ImKumarYo might have got it. I didn't suffer any trauma/get hurt/am sexually unconfident/am gay.
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:01 PM
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Holy shit that might be it. The only girls I've hooked up with came to me. They showed interest in me first and I just followed up.
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:00 PM
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I went on a cruise where almost every night there was dance parties. When I did dance I feel like I got weird looks. But people told me I looked fine. It is probably all in your head.
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:07 PM
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Yeah man, that girl was just a bitch. Sorry she ruined your night.
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:05 PM
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Think about it...they automatically assume you're an out going guy who is capable of making friends. They subconsciously think "if they like him I could like him too." But if you're alone they think the opposite, a majority of the time.
/r/seduction29/04/12 07:40 PM
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You simply missed your chance, is all.
/r/seduction29/04/12 07:39 PM
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