Where do you draw the line?

puaCurveBall · 2012-10-22T15:35:07+00:00

Sometimes, I am so surrounded by poly types that I lose perspective, but are you 100% sure the husband isn't ok with this?

She might just mean that only sex is on the table and not a relationship, at least that is how I would interpet it.... lots of people have open marriages.

I'd ask her in person (while escalating) if she has an arrangement with her husband, and just probe into why she is looking outside the marriage if not. If she is otherwise happy and just needs a sexual outlet, then GO FOR IT.

Personally, if she was having issues in marriage and this was acting out so it could lead to end of marriage (self-sabotage), then I'd stay away. So it all comes down to whether she is happy with him or not.

MARSpu · 2012-10-22T23:38:57+00:00

Wherever I feel is necessary.

bl1y · 2012-10-22T14:09:32+00:00

She talked to you and flirted because she liked the attention. It doesn't sound like she really wants to have sex with you if she threw out the 'oh btw I'm married' bomb. If she did, she wouldn't have said anything. And if you do go for it, hope and pray that her husband isn't some jacked motherfucker who can take you down.

Shohn64 · 2012-10-22T16:49:14+00:00

Back when I first started seduction, my line was the ring - if she had one, she was off limits (engaged or married) - a boyfriend didn't matter (see any of my posts on the matter).

That changed about 6 months ago when I slept with an engaged woman. There's a post around here somewhere on it), so I drew the line at married, or with kids, or somewhere there.

That was fine until this last weekend when I made out with a married chick wiith 3 kids whose husband is a cop, as well as a 6 month pregnant chick.

I guess the moral of my post is - you can have your lines, but they can/will change. Be prepared in the event it happens.

(Before I get shit for "being a homewrecker", girls who cheat cheat anyways - I'm no longer invoived with that engaged chick, and she's still screwing around on her fiance with another guy. The married chick is iin the middle of divorce proceedings)

paulgualtieri · 2012-10-23T02:59:06+00:00

Fuck her, obviously. I don't know the guy.

naitch · 2012-10-22T23:19:35+00:00

I respect the ring and have turned down (likely) pussy because of it.

I wouldn't judge you for going for it, personally, but that's one of my lines. I grew up in a very close, stable two-parent family and I value the integrity of marriage highly. But that's just a function of my biography and outlook. Just a look at the divorce statistics will tell you marriage isn't sacred for everyone. So if it isn't one of your own moral lines, don't be afraid to go for it. Obviously she doesn't take her marriage very seriously.

Title	Where do you draw the line?
Author	ElysiumFields
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	October 22, 2012 1:58 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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