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| 1 | I will tell you one of the best places to meet womenThere are a lot of ways to give a good vibe. You can be her friend or you can play the game. If you're trying to be her friend and get to know her then build rapport. Statement -> Question is the easiest routine to get to know someone. I watch tennis, great match this weekend, do you? It's much better than going full interview mode. If you're trying to build attraction then talk about cool shit in your life that would be considered a DHV. Being funny works but don't overplay it. Don't tell her s… | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 06:42 AM |
| 4 | How can you express your sexuality without being creepy but not asexual with a girl?By working up to it. Basically all the emotional progression models say the same thing, make her attracted and escalate. Don't make her bored and escalate because then it's sorta creepy. In a way it's like throwing a spell over a girl and making her think to herself "well he's good enough to fuck." Except that's only part of the spell, because if you build comfort well enough, you can have a significant connection with her too. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 02:29 AM |
| 0 | I will tell you one of the best places to meet womenThe thing you're not understanding is, initiative is attractive. Initiative being the ability to to what you want to do without distractions. It's a trait of a high value man. If you just got off tour from doing a concert, would you think you're interrupting a girl reading? Probably not. You're thinking too much of what they're feeling. And if you really get that vibe, eject. It doesn't matter how attractive you are when you approach; your job is to get in there, give her a solid base of good em… | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I will tell you one of the best places to meet womenHave you ever worked sales? You often how to plow through this. If anything just start casually and eject. Start slow. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 02:21 AM |
| 2 | I will tell you one of the best places to meet womenI used to wing a man in his late 30s. I hope when I'm old I have the skillset to pull this shit off better. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Im am reading a lot about game and improving myself but I don't have time to practice. Any tips?There's an old guide in the community that basically says, your gaming-to-learning(reading) ratio should be 4:1. I'm sure it was in fact more. So keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 12:18 AM |
| 1 | TOUGH through it: Going out alone [Daygaming]Solo game is hard but rewarding. I've done both. Sometimes your crew can hold you down. Sometimes you'll have wings but they'll be too lazy to wing. Keep at it; you learn more that way. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Tinder:Lots of single line replies and no interest in meetingYeah, I was thinking the same thing: qualification. Qualification comes after attraction, so if you're getting replies, maybe try qualifying and screening 'em. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 12:10 AM |
| 2 | It's Who You Are Being. NOT What You Are Saying.No, it's a mix of both. You're arguing a fallacy that's in line with the nature vs. nurture debate; it's a false dichotomy. Outer game and inner game. NOT just inner game. If you have strong inner game but weak outer game, you can lose. If you have strong outer game but weak inner game, you can lose. If you have strong inner and outer game, you can STILL lose... but having solid foundations in both lessen the likelihood of rejection. For example: strong inner game, weak outer game: you're natura… | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How does everyone feel about the website "girlschase.com"It's good, though a little light in content. But there are good articles there. | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Women's challengesThat depends how you define "true PUAs." Personally I think "true" anythings are unnecessary categorizations. But let's draw some basic lines around the skillset of a PUA: the ability to memorize lines and recite them in public at the right times(calibration, social intuition) knowledge and discipline of body language, as well as other non-verbals the ability to maintain a positive mindset in the face of rejection the ability to build good logistics for picking up a girl the attraction triggers … | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 11:33 PM |
| 2 | How do guys go out alone?It's hard, but you know what else is really hard? Literally anything worth doing in this world. I used to go out alone a lot. You get used to it. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 09:50 PM |
| 1 | This is literally the best example of the cool/funny kind of confidence I've ever seen.You're actually wrong. If she wanted to leave, she would have. Your argument of it being a social pressure isn't proof for anything, all you're saying it might have been this or that. The truth is, if she wanted to leave she could have, and there's no use in taking that away from him. Even if she stayed because he was playing a clown, she still stayed. The first time I was watching this video I paused at an awkward time and saw one of the girl with a really cringey expression at the dude. But th… | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 04:51 AM |
| 3 | In your experience, what behaviors separate a guy women want to fuck/date from a guy they just want to be friends with?Behaviors that trigger attraction(there are a few universal ones) in women. And no, I don't just mean "being attractive." LoveSystems has a few pinned down: LOOKS AND HEALTH For every woman who says looks don’t matter, they do. Looks don’t matter as much for most women as for most men, but they matter. Make the most of your looks. Any guy can become plausibly good-looking enough to be with beautiful women with a trip to the mall and a fashionable haircut. Being good-looking as a man is much more… | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Is being short is a really big deal ?No. Something no one here is looking at, is that looks matter less to women than to men. Men rate looks to be a much more important quality than women do, and if you show a girl that you're dominant/that you can compensate by not being "physically overpowering" to her with looks, you'll be fine. One of the good ways to do this is to learn game. You know game, you can show her some attitude. Women are more emotional than men are, don't forget that, so a lot of the feelings you give her are valuab… | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How to Pick Up Girls (A Guide by Girls for Boys - from VICE): "Most of our very first PUA experiences were smuggling our way into a club with a fake ID just so some Julian Assange-looking weasel-in-a-waistcoat could tell us he can read palms."Okay. Arms, fine. There's a lot of psychological ideas that rise to the social level from time to time. I don't mean to say you'll never see it happen, but honestly, and in my honest opinion, there's too much misinformation to weed out than to ask the question in the first place. It's much better to simply understand what women want(which is an overcomplicated question in the first place - it's actually really easy) from an honest perspective than to ask them and receive a partially-dishonest an… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How to Pick Up Girls (A Guide by Girls for Boys - from VICE): "Most of our very first PUA experiences were smuggling our way into a club with a fake ID just so some Julian Assange-looking weasel-in-a-waistcoat could tell us he can read palms."I will respond to your comment effectively without tl;dr'ing it because I can immediately see a number of mistakes you made on your part. You are certainly on the right track though. The argument states that since women generally do not partake in the act of picking up women they know very little how to do so Yes, because the person has no experience in playing the violin and so he (or she for this matter) cannot teach something they dont know. and no. See, here's the thing. Part of the process … | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to Pick Up Girls (A Guide by Girls for Boys - from VICE): "Most of our very first PUA experiences were smuggling our way into a club with a fake ID just so some Julian Assange-looking weasel-in-a-waistcoat could tell us he can read palms."It's okay. Thankfully the report button exists and we don't have to deal with trolls like yourself in any subreddit. Bye weirdo. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | What you cannot learn from /r/askwomen/See how you're argument is wrong? No... no I don't, and none of what you said provides any striking evidence of why it's wrong. I suggest you look up what a fallacious argument is, because substituting one to justify the other does not hold any water. LOL I'm not racist cuz I have a lot of black friends. I'm glad you felt the need to respond to the entirety of what I said and not just the first line. It's clear to me that you're emotionally bothered about something because you are currently inca… | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What you cannot learn from /r/askwomen/Regardless of whether he's being a nerd or not, calling him a nerd adds nothing to the discussion. Do you think if you call him a nerd, he's going to suddenly change his ways? That's called trolling dude, and I'm pretty sure inflammatory comments aren't met with smiles around here. Not exactly a great way to start out a comment, unless you're fishing for upvotes with your posturing. You can't break down women into a few simple variables. OP deleted his post now, but assumimg you're referring to … | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 08:14 PM |
| 3 | What you cannot learn from /r/askwomen/Hi HappyJerk. My name is MarsPU. I used to post here a lot and have been a long-time member of self-help communities like this one. What you're saying is not only wrong but based on various false assumptions. Allow me to elaborate, and as you stated yourself, please do not take offense; I don't plan on using harsh language but my words escape me from time to time. Firstly, stop the name calling. This is a seduction community. You aren't improving it by throwing out useless ad hominems. The only … | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:27 PM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.I'm shit testing you son YOU GUNNA TAKE THAT?! | /r/seduction | 10/10/13 01:43 AM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.Honestly this is going to sound really weird, and I for the life of me can't figure out why, but I think it was taken down. I tried a good number of keywords and I did a quick run through RSD. Maybe post on their forums and ask for it(or why it's not around)? Sorry bud wish I could help more. | /r/seduction | 10/10/13 12:14 AM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.I don't do Guelph. I am in the Niagara region though. My schedule is pretty full right now - I'm already behind on my studies again and plan to do some catching-up during reading week but maybe I can hitch a ride to there sometime and chill with ya for a bit. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 09:14 PM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.No no if I remember correctly, Tyler was making a specific point about business engagements and meetings, saying that you shouldn't try and employ pickup tactics in the corporate world. I haven't been on RSD in forever man; the article I posted here was from my RSD Facebook group but it's been some time since I've put some time over on RSDn. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 09:13 PM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.I must have looked for the video at least 3 times today. Sorry. I couldn't find it. I think Tyler might have removed it for some reason. I couldn't even find it on RSDn. On my life though I did not make this video up. I remember watching it at least twice and speaking to a few of my friends about it. It was basically Tyler stating that when it comes to business engagements, turn the game off. If you can find it, let me know. I don't know why I can't. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 04:18 AM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.Actually, I said just tone them down a little. But I agree with what you're saying: pickup technique does not equate to cold approaches. Cold approaches are a way of getting your foot into the door and sometimes that is necessary to get inside altogether(you miss 100% of the shots you don't take etc.) but you can still tackle things from a different angle. | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 07:16 PM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.I don't recommend you completely stop them though. I just suggest you tone them down for a college environment. If I said the former somewhere, I know I definitely stated the latter as well. | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 07:13 PM |
| 1 | On our city's RSD facebook group, I wrote up a post on college game. It generated a good amount of positive responses and feedback and I want to share it with you guys here, since UniSeddit is lacking signs of life.Well sometimes that doesn't always happen, and you'll be left thinking what if. Well that often always happens. Consider the context of a cold approach for a second: you're at a bar. You've never seen the people around you before. There is a great chance you'll never see them again, at least not in the same situation or the same way you see them now. Suddenly, you have more incentive to talk to them, then say a college environment where you'll be seeing the same faces for at least 2 or 3 more we… | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 07:11 PM |
| 1 | UniSeddit is dead. Can we get some college game discussion going?I made a post on the RSD Facebook group about college game. I wrote it this year, at the end of July, just before colleges started opening up for the fall season. I'm pasting it below for you. I received a lot of great responses and people were in agreeance with pretty much everything I said. Just a heads up, it's a wall of text, so here it comes. Enjoy. What's good players. It's officially July 31st here in Toronto. That means that a good portion of our blessed community has about a month left … | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Female Pick-Up Artist Arden Leigh's response to attempted 'slut-shaming' by authors of the The RulesLink is broken. | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Alright seddit, I need some help.There's something PUAs used to a lot more called false time constraints. The theory behind them is that if you tell someone you don't have much time, they'll perceive your more busy and thus will invest more into you. In other words, you're a big deal. But, you have a real time restraint here. You're in town for 2 days. You don't need anything false for that part of things. If I were you, I'd text her, let her know that you're not around for much longer, and ask her for her schedule so you can m… | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to Demonstrating High ValueSomeone was at the King ama :) | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Long Term Game and Social Circle Management: The Secrets to My Success [LONG GUIDE: AMA!]Awesome guide. Reminds me of the series that Braddock released on social circle maintenance. You can actually watch a shortened version of it for college life on Youtube. Always a fan of these types of guides. Thanks! Fundamentals of College Game btw, by Braddock(mentioned above) | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up. I went out and got drunk last night with friends, with the plan of meeting up with this girl I've been trying to get, instead she came over to my friend's place after hours, and I did nothing.Kino escalation ladder bro. If you're already alone with her, all the better. | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Hard TruthsIt's funny because generally I would take the nihilistic stance that you do in your post. In this case, I don't(or I do towards what you said). Though I feel a lot of the points there are pushing PUA propaganda, like the last one, most of them are pretty solid. And sure, they are snippets and ultimately short snippets can't be fully grasped in our day-to-day activities, but this is a seduction forum, and these are some great seduction tips that have been field tested time and time again. Take, f… | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Eliminating approach anxiety using a clear process?I'm using your own words man. Basically, you said we can't tell what's on a women's mind or what gets her attracted to men since attraction is extremely contextual, but here are some things to get a women attracted to you. Savvy? And of course, if women put up with a ton of bullshit openers to have fun and get laid, then why not use them? It's not like you're subtracting value that way. Women accept ton of less than ideal openers because it's damn near impossible to live in objective physical re… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Eliminating approach anxiety using a clear process?Attraction isn't as contextual as you think. You walk into a. a lecture hall, b. a doctor's office, and c. a coffee shop, surrounded by giggling fabulous women. In all three scenarios, it's all too likely that people who are watching you will perceive you as attractive. Attraction isn't a logical thing; it's an emotional process, that tingly feeling that girls get between their legs. People don't feel attracted to someone and then tell themselves "well he's wearing ripped jeans so I'm not attrac… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Eliminating approach anxiety using a clear process?That's exactly what I'm talking about: just open. Most of the time, to ease your approach anxiety, you don't need to progress anywhere with your conversations. You can just compliment someone's shoes or ask the time or where the nearby Starbucks is. Many books actually advocate doing just that, actually, and I can tell you from history that that's what I used to do to get in the social vibe. You and FutureSource are overthinking things - opening isn't having a conversation with someone. Opening … | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 10:07 PM |
| -2 | Eliminating approach anxiety using a clear process?You can't eliminate approach anxiety, you can only learn to better control it and channel it constructively. In my opinion, forget the smile experiments and just open. Your approaches don't have to lead anywhere for you to calm your aa down a little. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Expanding on Seddit's definition of "preselection."Haha look i know what he was saying, the way it was phrased irked me a little. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Expanding on Seddit's definition of "preselection."Yeah, at the end of your sentence there, that sounds a lot better than what you put in your post. I know what you're getting at but it sounds a little reactive is all I'm speaking about. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Expanding on Seddit's definition of "preselection."Good post. The only thing I wasn't crazy for was Any woman who has given you a single inch of wiggle room during an interaction, has preselected you on some level. I mean, seperate from whether it's true or not(at one level, you're the one approaching and the woman is the one deciding, so ultimately this has some relevance), it just seems like a reactive inner state to be in, waiting for someone to give you a "single inch of wiggle room." Just saying. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 03:28 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Lmao, you can't break psychological science down to nothing is proven to exist. In general, nothing is proven to exist. Studies are there to approximate what objective truth is, but everything changes from instance to instance. There are some firm scientific psychological studies, mind you, like Skinner's theory of reinforcement. With all that said, Freud is VERY SHAKEY psychology and he's the only man that really brought out what the ego is. Everything after that was non-scientific self-help fu… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.And for your lower value thing, that's not how the brain works. The brain doesn't communicate with itself that way. Value is both a perceivable phenomenon and an emotional one inside. What if you "tell your brain" this then?: "I am a high value individual but sometimes I say weird things. And that's okay because everyone does it. But I'm willing to improve and learn ways to say less weird things." Is that low value? Let me draw on the example of dancing here because I practice hip hop dance. Whe… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 07:07 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Describe to me some traits that would be a surefire tell for whether someone is being spontaneous or not please. If we're going to discount what I previously said about spontaneity, that's fine, but I want you to tell me how spontaneous people act from an outside source point of view. It's not me who doesn't understand what being a natural is. I'm totally cool with naturals. I'm just tired of seeing the same unnecessary "natural game" argument being brought up. According to how the community def… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 06:59 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.I don't know if I can boss. My opinion on these things are mostly through experience. I didn't have anyone tell me that people form routines naturally. It just came to me. When I found others that felt that way, they were just there to reinforce how I already felt. But if you really want, maybe you could look a bit deeper into pickup material. Mystery is a very evolutionary theory kinda guy. After I started understanding where his concepts of game came from, I understood why he wants you to do t… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 06:10 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Hey man, it's no prob. I don't want to throw anyone off their horse or whatever, I'm just trying to give my two cents on the whole PUA matter. I love RSD and it's motivational bits are really encouraging. I just feel like acting as though RSD is an entirely new paradigm of game is ridiculous. It isn't. They have some cool ideas that are definitely worth messing around with but they still function in the same box that game has been set in for years now. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 02:31 PM |
| 3 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Hm, maybe I do. I'll check on that! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 01:27 AM |
| 2 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.What are you talking about? Regardless of whether you memorize lines from a piece of paper, you're still reciting memorized lines. Did you not read what I said? I have plenty of times went in "natural" but the point is even as a natural, you're reciting routines and things you learned. Your personality determines which lines you accept and reject, be it from the computer or from your friends. Sorry bud. Try getting an idea of what I said. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Topics of conversation when you make first contactNp man. Make sure you don't use it too many times though. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 01:03 AM |
| 0 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.I don't have anything "quick" for you. I haven't touched the RSD forums for a long while because everyone there seemed tooled out of their minds. When I started to open the eyes of some people, my threads started getting locked. It was seriously a joke. However, I did speak to Tyler on several occassions and found he was a very open-minded individual, even against harsh criticism(against himself). But. For a few examples. 1. "Not giving a fuck" while teaching techniques - many instructors teach … | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 01:02 AM |
| 0 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.You are not supposed to take it too seriously as a manual. It's just a bunch of loose ideas that may help you or may not. It is not a "program" or a "guide". Of course. That's why I said the Mystery Method is more comprehensive than RSD. It gives a structure and a breakdown of not only different phases of an interaction but also what is acceptable/unacceptable in the paradigm of MM. I like RSD's eastern philosophy concepts too but I feel whenever they brush against the ego, what the instructors … | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:53 AM |
| 2 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Subcommunication is always there and people are in general brilliant. I like to think of the way every person thinks as a universe in itself. But that doesn't mean that people are going to accurately pick up on the subcommunication. Lots of elements of communication are missed, at least on a conscious level, in face-to-face conversation. Otherwise, fake it 'til you make it wouldn't be so widely praised. Unfortunately, Owen himself is wrong in "the self is always coming through." Well, not really… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:49 AM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.I actually met a guy in my college just like this. I found out he was in the RSD priv. Facebook group and approached him about it. He told me RSD helps him through the tough times. It's good that there's a strong source of motivation out there but I still don't find RSD's material very appealing, primarily because it's not very structured and chaotic to the point of being contradicting(and sometimes, outright bad). | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:14 AM |
| 0 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.What you mean to say is that you have no conscious desire to learn canned routines. Everyone wants to sound badass in one way or another. Everyone has an inherent drive to learn canned routines. Some people are more comfortable with one source over another but that doesn't mean that you have no desire to learn canned routines. You just like to learn them in other ways. Which is again no big deal, and we shouldn't judge and shame others for how they develop their stories. Couple that with a recen… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:11 AM |
| 4 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Contrarily, not using canned game ultimately relies on you … trusting yourself Definitely a good point. Yet I feel the exact same can be said for canned material. Learning the material is only half the battle. Verbal communication only encompasses a small fraction of what's communicated. Though memorizing lines can be easy, there's a crazy amount of social knowledge required to pull them off at the right time in the right place, in the right way. And again, my above point was made using your "ca… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:03 AM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Tic tac toe is a very simple game to understand. Of course it doesn't take 7 years to master. 7 years breaks down to roughly 10,000 hours if I can remember my google search from a few hours ago. This is, according to earlier studies, how long it takes to get comfortable and thoroughly understand a skill. I agree with your Project Hollywood point-of-view but being someone who's working towards the professional speaking profession, I can't share your view with the amounts of money with pickup advi… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 11:37 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Oh, and I should have left a few more notes. RSD's "deep inner game stuff" is about as deep as a high school philosophy and psychology course. Again, not to sound condescending, but it is what it is. Secondly, Mystery has some powerful inner game information as well. Try and remain open-minded towards this sort of thing and not simply blindfold yourself because it isn't "natural" or there's not enough inner game involved. EDIT And I don't think Mystery Method is a good foundation but it provides… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 11:18 PM |
| 4 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Something you'll realize as you get more into this thing… everything at one level or another is canned game. People formed canned material and "conversational reflexes" towards certain topics and things. It's cuz we're creatures of habit. So even if you don't study canned material, you're still using it. You're just not reading it from the internet or a book. You might overhear it from your friend or use something from your own experience, but the point is, everyone does it and not using it(or a… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 11:15 PM |
| 2 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.I know it's becoming popular to pass the PUA community off as a pile of sales BS but it takes roughly seven years to master a skill set. PUA material itself isn't sales BS, it's simply a number of techniques out there to up your chances of getting laid. In that way I guess it's sorta like sales material, which helps you close a sale, but just because some PUAs only teach inner game topics does not mean that the entire community is bunk. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Dancing TipsWhat this guy said. When you learn the foundations of your dance style, you'll further learn how to apply it to different music. I do an outdated style of hip hop dancing and I'm not anything good at it yet but I see videos of professionals using the style and they're able to adapt it to music that isn't exclusively reserved for that style. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.I've actually watched the Blueprint Decoded. It's a great overview on game and how to structure it but it barely provides a structure for it. In other words, it doesn't teach much game and is more about the way you should learn and practice it. What it does teach isn't very original in the community either. Right now I have a belief, that when you master something well enough you can pass a number of strange things off as "advice." Like, for example, you can tell everyone that drinking green tea… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 09:36 PM |
| 2 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.The Game or The Mystery Method(I don't feel too highly about the game) is extensively more useful and more comprehensive to developing game than anything Tyler has put out so far, Blueprint Decoded included. I'm not riding Mystery's dick, in fact I barely read about the guy anymore, but comparing MM to RSD is like comparing a seduction coach to a life coach or a manual to a general overview of a topic. In fact, many RSD instructors rely on or have relied on MM in the past for their structure of … | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 09:24 PM |
| 16 | Topics of conversation when you make first contactYou were probably nervous. I know you're saying you weren't but nervousness and anxiety can exhibit itself in many forms, not just the awkward or the fidgety side we here most about. Nervousness can pidgeonhole conversation topics or block out options that you aren't comfortable with. That all said, sometimes what I do is fall back on the ol' statement -> question. If you're good enough, you can cut out the question part altogether. But basically, it's making a statement about something and then… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 09:17 PM |
| 1 | LIVE: sitting in a club feeling like a complete loser.I can tell you're a knowledgeable person. That's good. I used to look into all sorts of inner psychology too - personality types, spirituality, role models, all that fun stuff. The truth is, you are naturally successful at social skills. Most of them, anyway. If you go through your life on a daily basis without for the most part throwing everyone off, that means that you're naturally successful at social skills required to function in your environment. That means that, if you get onto a bus 99% … | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 10:45 PM |
| 1 | LIVE: sitting in a club feeling like a complete loser.You aren't stupid but you certainly aren't anything above human. People have all sorts of irrational biases and excuses for not doing things. You aren't any different. Have a good time and stop looking for reasons why you shouldn't do just that. | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, let's talk: inner game and making friends for college.Yup. Dude, totally right. That's why i want to dedicate part of this discussion to inner game, not particularly the social aspects of it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I am reading The Mystery MethodHere's a good study tip: consider the context for what you're reading. The Mystery Method and many other seduction theories are for short-term cold approaches, not for forming social circles or maintaining a solid group of friends. Kinda like a light switch. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Can general nervousness, unrelated to you, cause a girl to give false IOI's?IOIs are indicators of interest. They aren't specific to you. If you're on a movie date with a girl and Brad Pitt flashes up on screen, she might flip her hair to one side. Last summer I was with a girl on a bar patio. A large jacked white guy walked by me and sat behind me. I saw this guy catch my girl's eye and she flicked her hair at him. You can bet that shit made me nervous though. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit! I unsubscribed from here some time ago but I had a newbie friend of mine ask some "whys" about seduction. I gave a reasonable response and figured I would share it with this community. [q&a inside]Of course you understand that there are some men who are more adept at nonverbal communication (for example) than some women. From my studies, which are of course where my thoughts are centered around, women have 14-16 "slots" in their brain for understanding and participating in social activity. Men have 4-6. This was based on MRI scans. Aside from that, I think we can both agree that women still often take the caregiving positions over men nowadays. Professions like teaching, nursing, and even… | /r/seduction | 07/01/13 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit! I unsubscribed from here some time ago but I had a newbie friend of mine ask some "whys" about seduction. I gave a reasonable response and figured I would share it with this community. [q&a inside]I don't find this theory to be very fulfilled but it brought up some interesting points for why women are better in social situations than men, such as the fact that women are often placed into the roles of caregivers to develop skillsets outside of verbal communication. Calling me misognistic for saying that actually made me laugh though. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit! I unsubscribed from here some time ago but I had a newbie friend of mine ask some "whys" about seduction. I gave a reasonable response and figured I would share it with this community. [q&a inside]No, it's the west Toastmaster's body language guide. I have notes on it all over my mac. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit! I unsubscribed from here some time ago but I had a newbie friend of mine ask some "whys" about seduction. I gave a reasonable response and figured I would share it with this community. [q&a inside]Too much self-help bs, not enough action. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit! I unsubscribed from here some time ago but I had a newbie friend of mine ask some "whys" about seduction. I gave a reasonable response and figured I would share it with this community. [q&a inside]I find your tone to be a bit contemptful but I will bite. Firstly, I will restate that I am not claiming that I hate women for what they are. Furthermore, I am not claiming that women are any better than men. Misogny is the hatred of women, implied or overt. I am simply stating that women are better in a good chunk of social areas than men are. I am explicitly stating that I do not endorse hatred of women, so your argument is already sinking. Secondly, I will state that none of my above findings… | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Tales from the Cool Kids Table - Including building your Social Empire, Why you don't get invited, and How to be one of the GuysI have a good question for you actually. This has been my concern for the past weeks specifically. I am terrific at meeting people for the first time. Back when I used to do telemarketing, people I would close on the phones told me I was charming and that they loved me. (We even had a running tally on the whiteboards for about 3 or 4 days to count how many people admitted their love for me) However, I am absolutely terrible at maintaining relationships. I fall out of "the loop" a lot and when I … | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 09:24 AM |
| 1 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?Guy lashed out at the community. Some of my post has valuable snippets of the troll on the wild. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Hey sedditors! Quick question here!Change her mood, not her mind. You aren't walking a tightrope here. You can direct the conversation in any way possible. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 07:02 AM |
| 4 | If she's Awkward After Rejecting You, You Win!It actually does. lol | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 11:58 PM |
| 1 | It seems the further I get into seduction, the worse I feel when there is a 'cold streak'It's a rabbit hole. Down you go. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 02:09 AM |
| 2 | After a couple of dates, she reports back to you "there is no chemistry,": Does that essentially mean 'sorry, you have no game'?Yes. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with a boyfriend when talking to a girl you didn't know was takenThe bark is worse than the bite. Things usually don't escalate physically. If they do, congratulations, you have a new story to tell your friends. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Honestly, do you game better while drunk or sober?Alcoholics anxiety | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever done a PUA Bootcamp. Is it worth the money?People say yes. Nature dictates no. Use your better judgement. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Meditation: Fucking do it!That would be your goal then. Everything we do has a goal, whether we put conscious thought into it or not. Even the drifters of society have a goal of trying to find their place. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Meditation: Fucking do it!Meditate towards what goal, exactly? Meditation, like anything else, needs to have a conclusion supplied to it. You need to be meditating for a reason, even if that reason is finding a reason to meditate or simply relaxing. If you're meditating to relax and clear your thoughts, stare at something in front of you for 10-15 minutes. Keep yourself in the present. Listen to sounds around you. Feel the air around you. Breathe deeply through your nose and out your mouth, 5 seconds each motion. Alterna… | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Five Things that Women look for in Men and How To grow into the roleIn most cases, asking a fish what kind of lure and bait they like would be the ideal situation. However, attraction, and by extension, seduction is not a verbal or a logical process. The biggest issue gurus advocate for not listening to women for advice is that they simply do not know what they want. I don't feel the need to explain this too much because I'm sure we're all familiar with that one girl that always posts about nice guys but ends up dating assholes. This example specifically is brou… | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Owen from RSD:"Insecurities? If You're Gonna Do This, Shut The F@#$ Up, And LET'S GET ON WITH IT!"If you're telling someone to have fun who doesn't ordinarily have fun, you're manipulating them to do something different. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Owen from RSD:"Insecurities? If You're Gonna Do This, Shut The F@#$ Up, And LET'S GET ON WITH IT!"Manipulation is not normally seen as a bad thing. Let me explain. Let's say we're trying to get the number 2 but we only have access to the number 1. What do we do? We add 1 and 1 and make 2. This is manipulation. We're manipulating an equation to get a desired result. Manipulation isn't a bad thing. Great commanders have inspired their armies to win wars against other armies. Professional speakers are paid a lot of money to inspire starving salesman to produce better results. Is this a bad thin… | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Owen from RSD:"Insecurities? If You're Gonna Do This, Shut The F@#$ Up, And LET'S GET ON WITH IT!"I'm talking about the pickup community in general and including RSD, bro. Regardless of which way you slice the pie, RSD teaches you techniques for manipulation. I'd like to stress that I don't have an issue with manipulation. When it comes to manipulating social interactions, what's key is changing your behaviors. That in itself removes a portion of your personality and of who you are so you can be a better individual. An example would be a guy who isn't interested in accumulating much wealth, … | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Owen from RSD:"Insecurities? If You're Gonna Do This, Shut The F@#$ Up, And LET'S GET ON WITH IT!"Sorry buddy, I love my chode friends to death. As soon as you submerse yourself in the world of pickup, you start becoming less and less genuine. Learning about social interactions is essentially learning how to act socially, and generally when people learn about that shit, they try to learn how to act the best way, which unfortunately detaches themselves from their own personality. At least for an amount of time - usually when people start learning this shit. I understand the whole "hang out wi… | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Scientific proof showing cold showers REDUCES testosterone.Probably. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Owen from RSD:"Insecurities? If You're Gonna Do This, Shut The F@#$ Up, And LET'S GET ON WITH IT!"I left a post above about how some friends have told me Tyler really doesn't have many friends. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Owen from RSD:"Insecurities? If You're Gonna Do This, Shut The F@#$ Up, And LET'S GET ON WITH IT!"I know some guys from my city that know Tyler. They confirm that Tyler really doesn't have many friends. He often tries to chill with guys from bootcamps and even sends them a call but many guys don't bother responding to him. Tyler personally seems like a cool guy to hang with but also seems really wishy washy. Like, any guy that outright admits that he doesn't want to deal with his problems but would rather float above that level of consciousness should be approached cautiously imo. Ofc this i… | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Scientific proof showing cold showers REDUCES testosterone.To be fair, being ignorant of evolutionary factors is silly as well. The reason many early PUAs advocated techniques such as pulling your shoulders back and talking slower and with a deeper voice is because it all conveys a more masculine demeanor. Touching men and women conveys dominance, as many political leaders will attest to, and having a deeper voice is related to higher testosterone levels. Pulling your shoulders back and straightening your back is what monkeys do when in threat to show u… | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 05:20 AM |
| 2 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.Does it? All I'm really stating is that people avoid pain. Defense mechanisms exist as a way of coping with that. Removing the ego as a whole is unrealistic. I agree with your statement though. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 08:12 PM |
| 2 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.defensiveness is natural and removing it is unrealistic That is what I'm presenting, yes. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.Awesome. Thank you for the rebuttal. I'll be sure to look into the man. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 07:12 PM |
| 2 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.Prego | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 06:07 PM |
| 3 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.Theoretically, it would probably be better to live non-ironically. But ask yourself this. If we agree that it's impossible for someone to keep their ego out of sight indefinitely, then what makes you think it's possible to live without irony altogether? Do you think it's ever been done in society? Has there ever been sincerity in our words if our ego is always in play? I think part of being human is lying and "living without irony" as the author puts it. These balance of shallow and deep, health… | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.Thank you, I have been getting a lot more confident in my writing abilities in the past few weeks. I like the article and the language she uses but her argument isn't suggesting anything different than the typical ego destruction I've been reading about. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 05:08 PM |
| 38 | How to Live Without Irony. Cross-Post from r/Psychology. This is a good article for inner game on a META level.This is a pretty cool article but allow me to offer up a rebuttal. What the author is suggesting is true and all but beyond that, I can't see what's wrong with living with irony. We're humans. Our brains are always going to try and avoid pain, whether we live ironically or otherwise. It's not possible to rid ourselves 100% of defense mechanisms because our ego is always there. We're the middle grounds between apes and another higher-conscious being and we still carry our primate emotional facili… | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 05:00 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012Ice cream and yogurt places work great. Who isn't down for a small treat? Maybe a bite before that and something silly. I dunno. Be creative. It doesn't necessarily matter where you go. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 01:11 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012Well yeah. Just treat her like your little sister. Working from this frame generally holds a lot of flirting and more playful things. You could always just pretend you are together with her as well, even if you're not. Again, great flirting there. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:45 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012It's no big deal man. What's important is you got a date. Just try and keep an eye on the logistics for next time. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:22 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012I just typed up a lengthy response on getting laid cuz I thought that's what you wanted. Lol If you're into friendzoning her, it's a lot more simple. Just act like she's your lil sis. If you don't have one, use your imagination. Ruffle her hair. Politely slap her bum. Call her a princess and tease her a lot. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012What about escalation? It's not uncommon to get laid at a party. If you run into her, hook her and isolate. See if you can head back to your place if you're uncomfortable with fucking in a loud environment. Alternatively, if you don't run into her, you can always pull her from a club. It's all your strategy here. You know what you're more comfortable with than I am. Personally I would go for the close at the party if I ran into her. Again, I wouldn't go out of my way to run into her, but if I di… | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 12:02 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012Yeah. But cabs are another breed altogether. You could hitch a cab ride home with her if you're okay with the fare and everything. Some people are not. Don't let chicks mess with your head like that. If you can make it into a funny story, like a comedian would on stage, power to you. If not, just brush it off. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:58 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012You're alone with this girl at either one of your places. Have you had sex? Do you want to lay her? What is your "general flirting" physical presence leading up to? What are you working towards when you touch her? If you want to fuck her, why are you concerned about not necessarily making it sexual? | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:50 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012First, you need to clarify your logistics and how you're going to conclude the night. What are you expecting to do? Not having a car or decent transportation makes it a challenge to pull anyone back to your place for a one night stand. Make sure you know what you're doing before you try and convince others. Next up, just tell them you lost your license. Make up a funny story from here. Realistically, any way to bounce a shit test is just to ignore or have fun with it. A good way to not draw atte… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:48 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012Approach her, not exclusively, but as another person in the party to have fun with. Consider the environment you're in: you're at a house party. No one is seriously willing to commit to anything there, aside from maybe a short game of beer pong. Have fun with everyone and don't exclusively keep an eye out for this one girl. When she's in the direction that you happen to be walking, talk to her like you'd do anyone else. Don't go out of your way to do so. Basically, talk to everyone from the star… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:45 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012If it's been a few months, not a few days, you sure should; first impressions fade slowly. Reapproach her in a casual, lighthearted way, not in a serious "errr uhh so yeah last time we didn't hit it off, we try for babby now?" way. Coffee, ice cream, laser quest, a bar, something. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:17 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012The best way to show her that you're mature is to pretend she isn't there. Not in an asshole way, of course, but realize that you have a tremendous amount of options surrounding you and that this girl is nothing in the grand scheme of your life. With that said, don't focus too much on getting a response from her. The best way you'll attract her is by showing her that you're a man of value, which unfortunately means keeping her off your mind. A man of value priorities other people and events over… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:14 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012"Hey ___ ! Great to meet another traveler(or something you connected on last night)!" Be fun, casual, and try and connect on a part of your night you spent with her. If she doesn't text back, it's no big deal. Don't try and force it out of her. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:12 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/16/2012First, bring her back to your place. Not to fuck but just to get her comfortable with your setup. Make up some shit about how you need to shower or you forgot your keys or something. This is important, so that when she returns, she won't be as anxious. Next you're going to want to have a plan of where to go. Pick 2-3 destinations and end your date at your house. They can be anywhere. One of my previous dates was ice cream and then a bar. I didn't take the girl home because of logistics but the i… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 11:10 PM |
| 9 | Looks Don't MatterI don't agree with your league sentiment. It's a way of pidgeonholing yourself into mediocre and lower women. Naturally we do this, but we can artificially wander out of it by upping our standards through things like effective goal setting. However, everything else you say is true. Anyone who is telling you that looks do not matter is feeding you bullshit and has a vested interest in what they're conveying. Years of scientific endeavors have revealed to us that looks do matter. The secret here i… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:14 AM |
| 13 | Tips on Human Sexuality from a Psycho-biologistOh my god a TALKING WOLF WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 10:37 PM |
| 33 | Tips on Human Sexuality from a Psycho-biologistOh my god he KILLS BIOLOGISTS SOMEONE DETAIN HIM | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 08:48 PM |
| 2 | F(T)=A, An RSD Freetour takeawayBecause tons of RSD concepts are just regurgitated material from various self-help books. Do you really think RSD came up with the idea of being in state? That doesn't go to say that RSD is shit; everything in life is stolen at this point, and it doesn't matter which starting point we learn at as long as we're learning, but still. That's RSD for ya. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 10:07 PM |
| -2 | Nightgame: "Buy me a drink?"+1 on this definitely feels too much, like you're jumping through the hoop she offers you. Not a good plan of attack. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I am Mark Manson: Former PUA Coach, Self Development blogger, Entrepreneur, AMAJust a toss-in here: it isn't necessary to be honest about your lack of experience with the girl. This doesn't mean you should lie but it doesn't mean you should tell her outright that being around girls bother you. Basically, just because you can say it doesn't mean you should. As long as your honest to yourself about this shit. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Tyler talks about learning, being passionate, and believing in yourself.No. In my opinion, neither of them are great role models. Mystery knows his shit about evolutionary psychology but grew up in a dysfunctional family and Tyler openly admits that he'd rather "rise above his level of consciousness" than address his own issues. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Tyler talks about learning, being passionate, and believing in yourself.Tyler is not pickup artist. He's a self-development coach. He reads a lot and has a large community, Real Social Dynamics, based on self-development. You'll see a lot of his advice overlapping and contradicting at times because he really enjoys sponging up knowledge from different sources. The reason I say he isn't a pickup artist is because he simply isn't in the game to primarily sleep with women anymore. In one of Mystery's latest videos, for example, Mystery clearly states that he is a picku… | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I am Mark Manson: Former PUA Coach, Self Development blogger, Entrepreneur, AMAthank you, good sir! | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 06:40 PM |
| -1 | I am Mark Manson: Former PUA Coach, Self Development blogger, Entrepreneur, AMAI don't know... I've messed with CBT before. It's great to bring things up on paper but it's not as direct as actually experiencing those emotions and dealing with them on set. CBT isn't heavily scientific, either. I know that the PUA world is full of bullshit but one thing I've noticed is that approaching, not even for the sake of playing the number game but just for getting out of the house and out of your head, really does bring you to a more stable state of mind. CBT could never bring me tha… | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 11:09 AM |
| 0 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutSome good, some bad. First, it's a great financial benefit. Though alcohol can become a crutch for your game, doesn't mean it needs to be. Avoiding alcohol because you're afraid of becoming reliant on it is just as bad as being afraid of approaching without alcohol. Both are out of fears. (your second point) Adding onto this, you connect another one of the big fears of the community - approach anxiety - to not drinking alcohol. Regardless of whether you're working with or without alcohol, it's i… | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 03:15 AM |
| 10 | If you where teaching this to someone new, what would you say are the 5 basic skills that must be mastered to become truly successful?This. Practice, practice, practice. I keep seeing comments mentioning abundance mentality, confidence, different techniques, being attractive, etc. NONE of that shit will happen if you don't approach. You need to approach for any of this to solidify. You think sitting at home and reading about what you should do in x situation or with y girl will actually help you? Maybe on a very shallow level, but once people start getting to know you, all of your little meditation sessions won't mean shit. Pr… | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 06:08 AM |
| 0 | What's is like to be 'value giver': to have 'value', to create 'value'My claim is not that talking to many people in succession will grant him any value. I've already stated that he won't gain anymore materialistic value from simply blurting out random things to random people. He might, but the framework of this experiment doesn't mean that he will. This experiment is designed to show the OP what it feels like to have value on an emotional level. At this point, I could go off on some pseudo-science shit, but to be honest, I'm tired and I find it challenging at tim… | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What's is like to be 'value giver': to have 'value', to create 'value'Have you done it before? | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Where is the line between stubbornness and assertiveness?Me: Ha! Well I am italian, and all italians are stubborn. Problem with that? shit eating grin Agree and amplify, my friend. | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Where is the line between stubbornness and assertiveness?Being stubborn is when you're decision-making is heavily biased, but you yourself probably don't realize this, so you're stubborn about getting something and justify that stubbornness in many ways. Sometimes you'll realize you're being stubborn and tell others that too, which is what assertiveness is. Assertiveness is more of knowing that you have the ability to get something and so you use your known power to get things done. | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What's is like to be 'value giver': to have 'value', to create 'value'It's not a demonstration of giving value; it's a demonstration of feeling what having value feels like. Giving value for the sake of giving value is not really giving value at all. | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 07:03 PM |
| 13 | What's is like to be 'value giver': to have 'value', to create 'value'Here is a simple test you can do to feel what having value feels like. Go to a mall, maybe somewhere where you won't be known very well, and open a bunch of sets consecutively. By consecutively, I mean quickly, and by quickly, I mean no hesitation or rationalization. Just do it. Jump from person to person like you're playing a quick-bladed assassin in some sort of fantasy RPG and talk. Notice how your attitude changes. Don't focus on it and don't stop opening sets to pull out a notebook and spen… | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 02:40 AM |
| 1 | I like /r/seduction, but I don't quite get the "game"Thanks. I got a shitload of university work as is but I was reading a book on the basis of manipulation before I started studying. It's some really cool stuff. | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 02:01 AM |
| 6 | I like /r/seduction, but I don't quite get the "game"I genuinely didn't read your post. I just messaged one of my facebook friends about how people can understand a higher deity though and I figured I would drop you a perspective from a good psychological point of view, based on your title. Game is game theory. It's what makes people humans. It's rationale. It's logic. It's being able to think ahead. It can be considered Machievellian by some but by many people of the seduction community, "value-giving." At the root of it, game is being able to th… | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Master Class.What are you talking about? He's not insisting that you learn everything about body language from a book, he's suggesting you read about it and then apply it. Unfortunately men are not quick to pick up on body language. Believe it or not, people are stupid. Sometimes people might not notice your shoulders pulled back or your firm eye contact. It's important to read about these things and apply them. His third point that you addressed is exactly what abundance mentality is - the need to not compe… | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Being Comfortable with Silence [Discussion]It's your job as the male to make decisions. These decisions don't have to be centered around conversations. Silence generally speaks a lot more than words. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Being Comfortable with Silence [Discussion]sugoii story onii-chan | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 03:14 AM |
| -7 | Kino, does it still work if its not done intentionally?No. Only intentional kino works, just as only intentional lines or body language works. Unintentional kino will never work. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 07:14 AM |
| 0 | This just happend to me: Kiss close at my place and then she left.You got gamed son. Neg moar. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:44 PM |
| 8 | Cat fightsYeah, breathe in, breathe out If ya iced up, pull ya sleeves out Push a big truck, pull ya keys out Girls go wild and pull ya deez out Breathe in, breathe out Let them hoes fight, pull her weave out If a nigga act up, pull a Desert E's out When I pull the piece out niggas like "Peace out!" | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Moving Through CrowdsI tap people on their inner elbow to get them to move. My brother has told me this looks a little strange at times but it works like magic. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Where do you draw the line?Wherever I feel is necessary. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:38 PM |
| 10 | I figured kino outWell... yes and no. It depends on how you view natural. There is certain light kino that you might consider natural, like you said fist bumping and like shoulder checks and fun stuff like that. But a lot of the hot and heavier kino requires you to really break out of the guidelines that society dictates for you and become more of a sexual deviant. For example, I dunno about you, but I wouldn't consider it "natural" to rub a girl's inner thigh at a bar. That's an unnatural thing, even for a bar s… | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 08:43 AM |
| 14 | Above The Game Part 1: Primer On Who You Will BecomeDirected by TofuTofu. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 05:50 AM |
| 13 | Halloween is approaching...Do's and Don't's?Do dress up, convey yourself as light-hearted as fun, and bring the party. Don't rape anyone. Pumpkins included. I know it's tempting but try and contain yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.Naturally, as humans, we don't like being uncomfortable. He might have just shrugged off the more exhausting Freudian approach and gone with the Tolle one. I know I have many times. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.Of course, hence the "staying above the level of consciousness" he touches on. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.Yup reference points really make or break someone here. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.Well like I was saying... their material is good. It really is. Learning is done in many ways and having someone teach you it is one of the better ways. I think RSD material can benefit many people and I respect Tyler and the other instructors for their experience and their teachings. But as you saw in the video, Tyler explicitly stated that he has issues that he is not willing to look at. That to me simply comes off as submissive, as not having the willpower to "fix yourself." Confidence doesn'… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.The RSD instructors present themselves as male role models, yet they don't even have their own shit straight. Dunno about you but there's no way I'd like to model a guy who's so fucked up, decides to "rise above consciousness" instead of actually looking at his past. (his explanation from the link) | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 10:15 PM |
| 25 | Noobies, guys struggling with this, please watch this excellent video by Tyler of RSD.Nah. A lot of Tyler's shit I like. A lot of it, I don't like. It seems him and a lot of the RSD cast release conflicting material depending on the book of the week for them. I agree with Tyler's one point, which is admit you suck. Because we all suck at some things yet no one really enjoys admitting these things. However denying yourself from doing certain things like smoking weed or pushing for that makeout because you need to consider yourself a loser is stupid. This is even more apparent when… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever just decided to be really blunt with their target?Right then and there. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone ever just decided to be really blunt with their target?We ended up fucking. She was like orly at first... then it happened. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 04:03 AM |
| 9 | Has anyone ever just decided to be really blunt with their target?Fuck the apocalypse opener. That's some anonymous guy saying that he used it in a bar. Who knows if it's actually been done. I'm saying that to tell you that I've been blunt. One time I remember specifically. The girl was very giggly and it was a day 2 at a bar. I looked at her straight in the eyes and imagined her naked. Then I coldly stated that I wanted to fuck her so badly right then and there. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 03:45 AM |
| 13 | Why is self-confidence more of a turn-on to women than it is to men?Why is being assertive more attractive to women than it is to men? Why do men generally snap back when they're being intimidated, while women display submissive properties if not get a tingly feeling between their legs? Why is "being in tune with your emotions" a feminine property, while "being successful" a masculine one? Evolution and evolved psychology from previous mammalian states, my friend. Men are gatherers of status while women are much less concerned about that. Confidence is a state o… | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Opinions(ego) vs. Facts [Inner Game]FACT SON | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Opinions(ego) vs. Facts [Inner Game]Dude, the shirt was mayonnaise. Not yellow. FUCKING MAYONNAISE! | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Opinions(ego) vs. Facts [Inner Game]God's work son. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:09 PM |
| 46 | Opinions(ego) vs. Facts [Inner Game]You fucked up now, son. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 01:19 AM |
| -1 | [xMODx] AMA Tonight with Todd Van DeHey from RSD!It's cool man, i'm not here for the interview really, it's just a trend i've noticed with lots of rsd instructors, specifically tyler. actually i am here for the interview. what's the good word on college game? it's been about 4 weeks into university for me and i dont have a stable circle, yet im afraid to venture off and find one for the sake of getting a rep. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 04:45 AM |
| -2 | [xMODx] AMA Tonight with Todd Van DeHey from RSD!Nah, I'm with this guy actually. not sure if you're done your ama but RSD hands out tons of mixed messages. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 04:17 AM |
| 0 | "You've been hitting on every girl here" - Overdoing it?missed my point but ok, agree to disagree | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 05:31 PM |
| 0 | "You've been hitting on every girl here" - Overdoing it?Dude, i agree with most IOIs being shit tests. because they are. they're a way of a lady asking if you can walk the walk and talk the talk. that's simple enough. but sometimes, just sometimes, a lady will throw out a shit test to suggest you to leave. This is because people are generally passive-aggressive with these things. as i stated above, let's say a lady was genuinely annoyed at you. she might toss out something along the lines of "you have a high voice, did you know that?" which is a way … | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 04:31 PM |
| 2 | "You've been hitting on every girl here" - Overdoing it?It's a passive aggressive approach at asking someone to leave. Realistically any sort of problem someone brings up can be considered a shit test and responded to as such. why else do you think salesman are brought up to respond to issues in a certain way? agree bounce close let's say I approach a girl and she doesn't like what i'm wearing, so she wants me to leave, but she's too passive to actually directly tell me off. she could in this spot throw me a shit test and turn her shoulder the other … | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 04:24 AM |
| 3 | "You've been hitting on every girl here" - Overdoing it?haha... what? No they arent. shit tests might not be someone verbally checking you out. someone might throw out a shit test because they're genuinely annoyed of you and want you to leave. Would you call that an IOI? i'd call that passive-aggressively asking someone to leave. the majority of shit tests can be considered them tho. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Who else believes that "Approach Anxiety" is merely a label that we have created so that those of us, myself included, can say that we "have" something that is preventing us from getting what we want - thus, creating an excuse and a reason for our inexperience?yeah duuude. it's all part of the system. aa doesn't actually exist out of an identity we give ourselves... man! nah. aa exists because evolutionarily, we have a reason to fear walking up to 4 or 5 other apes of a different tribe alone. we are animals, after all. aa is a label as well, as anything can be, but a lot of these processes have been passed down through ancestors. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How to get yourself out of a "funk" quickly?Well... yes, you can read about that. and what you're describing is all true and realistic. however as humans, we have a sense of narcissism to all of us. you need to realize that words are just words on a page. that's just what they are. and people need to truly experience what you're describing for them to grasp what we really are. That's why nowadays, i always advocate not giving a fuck for the sake of not giving a fuck makes no sense. it causes needless anxiety. you simply cannot recreate a … | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Books to read after The Game and How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleHere's a little neat thought i pulled out some time ago when i was caught up in my self-help phase. All self-help books strive to do one of two things: either make you more dominant or less dominant in your interactions and your workflow. This is simply because your dominance essentially what the natural principles of mammalian life are based on, and as people, we're mammals. So by enhancing or reducing or dominant state of mind, self help books essentially strive to restore men and women to the… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 12:10 AM |
| 7 | Was at a party last night, opened a girl, and everything was going well. Out of nowhere some douche swoops in and literally blocks me from talking to her. How can I handle these situations?Sugar, babe, who gives a shit? most women don't give a fuck with what you call em, as long as you outright dont shout out whore or anything ridic. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Was at a party last night, opened a girl, and everything was going well. Out of nowhere some douche swoops in and literally blocks me from talking to her. How can I handle these situations?Yup, gotta stand your ground. chances are, aint shit happened between them, especially if she wasnt vibing with him. at least grab her # next time so you can text her in between his douchings. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 06:36 AM |
| 1 | The 2 Shampoo Bottles ChallengeCold water shower bumps up your testosterone a couple of notches. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 10:15 PM |
| 1 | The 2 Shampoo Bottles ChallengeBengay down there. Don't bash until you try. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Need advice: best friend is a cockblockerUhh no, sorry. He might just have a very convincing personality. this "real friends" thing has to stop. real friends value the time they spend with you, period. some real friends are bad at math. some real friends are good with women. sometimes it's a challenge to bring them to your level with these things because their personality simply won't allow it. that and alcohol. With all that said, and without this real friend nonsense, make sure you're clear about your intentions. don't be afraid to d… | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, we need to talkYou wanna resolve things in a bloodier way? | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Why talent is overrated when shooting street photography... with many fantastic and applicable points to learning about pickup.THIS IS SEDDIT RASFGDHGJRGRHAS | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, we need to talkSo whadoyou say to somebody to hate? | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Lying about your ageI was operating under the assumption that this was a ONS. I still don't think that it would have much of an impact on a relationship if it was meant to last to begin with, though. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:19 AM |
| -2 | A gold mine of pickuo you may have never known: PetsmartOh stop it you! | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:17 PM |
| -1 | A gold mine of pickuo you may have never known: PetsmartOh stop it you! | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:17 PM |
| 2 | One thing I hate about the online pickup community.There's a pua torrent site out there as well. I'd lend you my account if some guys on the other board didn't get it banned. bitseduce or something | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Don't look at me like I'm stupid, but what's a "Kino"?The sidebar mentions that kino is touching. I'd like to expand on that a little. Kino stands for kinaesthetic, which further symbolizes the connection between the mind and the body. That's why when we talk about kino here, we talk about touching; because touching is an external pressure that has an internal impact. When we talk about escalating with kino, we're talking about going up a ladder in terms of touching to produce a desired result... which is usually a sexual one. A good example of thi… | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 09:23 PM |
| -1 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”HOW ABOUT SOME DICK? | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How to respond? I keep noticing that when girls bring up their exes, they talk about he was infatuated with herIf you don't like it, verbally tell her to cut that shit out or adjust your body language to be more closed when she starts talking about it. Physically turn your back to her, go talk to someone else, etc. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:40 PM |
| -6 | A gold mine of pickuo you may have never known: Petsmartpickuo | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:38 PM |
| 0 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”We definitely have agreeable responses. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:34 PM |
| 0 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”Just ignore the bads and trace the goods. Seddit has been following a decrease in quality for some time now. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:33 PM |
| 0 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”You keep using that word "creep." I do not think you effectively know what it means. I challenge you to define it. I don't think people are equations to solve, but if you're feeling overly horny one day and you want to fuck the living shit out of a girl you spot in front of you, then I also believe it's important to be confident that you have the tools to do so. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Lying about your ageIn most situations, I'd agree with you. In the case of college, I'll disagree. If gaining a reputation hinders my results, I think I'll work with developing and gaming my social circles that way, as opposed to outright cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Lying about your ageAs a guy in college right now, you couldn't be more wrong. Ever heard of a reputation? | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Lying about your ageLying about your age isn't what I would call a major consequence... what's the worst that can happen here? Oh, you lose the girl. Damn, I'm sure that'll have a big impact on your future. That said, some women will not fuck anyone under a certain age. Usually it's 25 or some junk. I think that is personally ridiculous, though justifiable, and is a very shallow way of pidgeonholing a lot of guys into "yes" or "no." It's really up to the person rocking it, though. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 04:02 AM |
| 0 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”Oh, and as a response, many vets of the dating scene will outright say that you shouldn't take a women's opinion for truth when she's speaking of dating men. As much as I don't like to be mysognistic, I couldn't agree more, because there are all sorts of mixed signals brought forth from what they say and want, what they say and mean, and what they really actually want. I'm not here to clear that up but just bring it to light. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”Strategies exist to find a conclusion. That is simply the purpose of a strategy. Even the most vague of strategies, like telling someone to wander around so that they can find their purpose in life, still has a end to it - the end is finding your purpose. Focusing on sex isn't terrible in itself; you need to build those reference points somehow and you won't build them confidently unless you really tunnel vision yourself into a goal. However, focusing on sex as your primary focus in life and not… | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:43 AM |
| 0 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”Thought I read some feminist articles on her blog, actually. Correct me if I'm wrong, though. I didn't look too much into it - had too much fun typing up my post. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:29 AM |
| 3 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”No, the reason women put up shit tests are to test guys to see if they're true to what they're saying. In other words, to see if the walk the walk just as much as they talk the talk. In reality, sex is both for men and for women one of the most pleasurable experiences we can engage in, as studies have shown. Unfortunately, because people can't simply express themselves genuinely and get laid efficiently off that - again, this operates off of how tension works - there is need to apply tactics in … | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 08:49 PM |
| 0 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”I just picked up that the author is a feminist, so Saying one party is wholly at fault and the other is infallible is ignorant yeah... I feel like I wasted a hell of a time typing that up. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 08:39 PM |
| 49 | “Women are people, not puzzle boxes.”At first, I was in agreeance with you. Then I realized your thread was basically one of those we shouldn't make strategies out of these sort of things because it dehumanizes them threads, which crop up from time to time. So I figured I'd chime in. Firstly, sex and fucking. Sex is different from fucking. If you want to fuck a dime, that's fine. If you want to have sex with one, that is just as fine, too. But know there is a difference which is proportionate to how the two terms are thrown around.… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Baby/Male attractiveness increase proven911: Can you describe the man for us? Mom: He's wearing a black fuzzy hat with platform boots. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How many of you guys have bagged milfs? Especially the 19-21 year old guys? Any tips?I can contribute to this. Go direct ASAP. A wild milf appeared on my phone 2 months after I initially jotted down her number and I immediately escalated by texting back that instead of going out for drinks, we should just fuck. Later that week, she was over at my place. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 06:11 PM |
| 8 | The Big Compliance Test ListThis man has a point. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 11:41 PM |
| -6 | There's no material on dating, what the fuck are you supposed to do on dates?There's no material on dates? What are you talking about? Sit next to her and escalate physically while talking about intimate subjects. Geez. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 08:36 PM |
| -4 | How old is everyone here?12 | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How old is everyone here?'97 baby and it goes on and on | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...Thanks. Too much retardation for me to address in that comment but I'm glad you see the cool factor in me. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...You're really cool, you know that? I just wanted to reconfirm your cool identity. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:11 PM |
| 0 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...rebel4evr | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Went Out got #'s Don't get replies.This is what you call flaking. It happens to the best of us. Don't look too much into it. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:02 PM |
| 4 | The Big Compliance Test ListAlternatively... mess her hair up. I know this sound silly, but I for one am a fan of "sex hair." You know, that messy hair that a girl has right after sex. I love it and I make it super clear to the girl after I throw her hair all over. I've never received a firm negative reaction from this... usually it'd be a small pout and then I'd explain that I love messy hair and it looks great on them. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 06:57 PM |
| 3 | The Big Compliance Test ListHe is. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 06:54 PM |
| 14 | The Big Compliance Test ListPositive mindset people! Positive mindset! | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 06:53 PM |
| 140 | The Big Compliance Test ListFinal point of OP Allow me to rape you Ultimate compliance test | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 06:27 PM |
| 8 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...ASK HIM | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 05:03 AM |
| 16 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...Ask him how many he's had in his chair. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 04:50 AM |
| -3 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...You can't iamrite ur amirite faget | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 04:49 AM |
| 10 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...Why are you on this forum if you aren't pursuing your own interests? I mean that in a serious, genuine way, not a derogatory one. This shit isn't here to fill the void in your life called "life." You need to have something going for you before you can start practising seduction. Otherwise it's just going to fuck with your head. Even Mystery, one of the most controversial and depressive names in the world of pickup right now, was a magician. He did gigs on the side. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Is this book kidding me?The point isn't the length of what's being stated... it's the emotions associated with it. Sure, it's a definite exaggeration, but really try to see what the author was trying to convey. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 02:06 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up, basically. Not gonna lie, it hurts to get rejected. How do you deal with it?Feelings should never resisted and utilized where necessary. Lift some weights, write a song, call a friend... do whatever gets you off. Anger is a great motivator. You can try and deconstruct what went wrong if that's your fancy but I don't recommend delving too deeply into this. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 11:46 PM |
| -5 | Advice from a friend - For those who are attracted to girls who are attracted to youWell no shit. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 02:24 AM |
| 2 | how do you get over being just plain bad at talking to people.Talk to people. Usually with issues related to social interactions, the immediate action should be simply to break the negative feedback cycle. In this situation, just talk to people. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 07:48 PM |
| 2 | The Art of Complimenting. "You stand to gain many advantages and avoid many disadvantages by becoming better at the art of complimenting others. All of these advantages are more likely to accrue if your compliments are authentic and not fake."People will always find ways to rationalize things that they agree with. While I agree that complimenting has it's moments, I think that it's more appropriate to keep some things to yourself. Every great leader has their stage tricks. Complimenting serves as a way of generating rapport but sometimes, rapport shouldn't be what you're shooting for. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How NOT to act around your SO, when in the presence of other potentials. A viewpoint from evolutionary biochemisty.Share just as much investment with the world around you as you do with your SO. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 07:02 PM |
| 2 | I've never been a physical person, and kino is something I'm having trouble wrapping my head around. Can I get some advice from some experts?Actually, kino stands for kinaesthetic, which in turn represents the connection between the mind and the body. Basically when you touch people something happens. Studies have shown that hugging people, for example, forces both parties to release a brain chemical that makes each other more comfortable with the other(I don't have that study but it was posted here some time ago). Likewise, when we talk about kino, we talk about moving up a ladder, because we know that, for example, touching someone… | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you find sets to open in a place where you might gain a "reputation"?I call those coffee shop approaches. Yeah they help. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you find sets to open in a place where you might gain a "reputation"?I actually do this... a lot. I used to practice monologues. It's not quite the same though haha | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Advice for an extremely ugly guyAdvice for an extremely ugly guy Well, I'd be pretty normal looking if it weren't for the missing eye. Lol. Get an eye patch or forget about the eye. Own the look. I guarantee that having a strange eye like yours will net you some points in the intriguing department. People aren't used to having others make eye contact with only a single eye - that isn't a bad thing and can very well be a good one. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:18 PM |
| 4 | How would you handle a really successful, older HB?Yup, came here to say this. Judging by exactly what she was talking about, she wants to fuck and likely settle down. It's up to you whether you want to pursue that. Her biological clock is counting down. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you find sets to open in a place where you might gain a "reputation"?I'll mess around with this. I also know jets of exhales have similar affects to shouting. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you find sets to open in a place where you might gain a "reputation"?Right. It's not an uncommon topic so I know people are gonna vibe with me on it. I've read of different breathing techniques before and they do help. Just curious though, do people really pay that much attention to how someone's breathing? | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you find sets to open in a place where you might gain a "reputation"?Not necessarily "less than alpha." I don't strive for perfection or for being alpha anymore, really. I just strive to be better than some bad habits of mine, which somehow disappear when I run some approaches. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 06:38 PM |
| 0 | How do you find sets to open in a place where you might gain a "reputation"?An approach doesn't have to ruin my reputation. However, to be really in a "cool" state of mind, a lot of my approaches start out "un-cool." Like, jittery and shit. Eventually after 4 or 5 of these, my anxiety is gone and I just feel more grounded. I have some firm self-consciousness and I'm also able to convey myself in a more assertive way. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you find sets to open in a place where you might gain a "reputation"?Well, look. Usually, before I hit a venue, I open sets along the way. I still open sets in the venue but the ones along the way serve as sets that are there to push me outside of my comfort zone. I do some stupid shit in these sets most of the time, so when I'm at a bar or a club, my boundaries are more solidly defined. It's like the phrase "you sit where you stand." What reputation do I have to protect? None, really. I don't know too many people yet. Still, I don't want to display too many subm… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Need some help talking to girls in collegeYeah, dude, what? That first line is dry. Like, sandy dry. It just calls out "I'm trying to start a conversation with you!" with a raspy voice. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 06:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm having trouble surviving Frosh Week... WTF?Boss explanation. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leaderEye contact apparently isn't big in the animal kingdom. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm not having fun. . .Dude, look. You aren't the only one. Everyone avoids things. Even someone with the most perfect family, if you can picture that, will avoid things they don't like. Why? Because that's how our brains function. We don't like pain and we don't like feeling uncomfortable. Just know that you truly are not the only one here. Everyone avoids things. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 03:41 AM |
| 1 | How does a girl have an awesome one night stand?Seducing and attracting are two completely different things. Seducing is the end action when you get in bed with someone. It's when you convince the other party to sleep with you. Attraction is attracting someone to you. A gay man can attract a girl to him but wouldn't seduce them. You need to be attractive to efficiently seduce, though. They aren't mutually exclusive but they are different in their respective departments. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | My problem with SedditThe problem with this post is that you're categorizing yourself as a true introvert. Your ego is putting up some defence mechanisms to stop yourself from expending energy in something that it may not like. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 07:35 PM |
| 2 | I'm not having fun. . .Some of these nights I literally just want to fucking yell as loud as possible. Not as an attempt to draw attention but just as a release. A need to feel animality and a primal surge. And what's holding you back from doing this, exactly? There's a reason monkeys howled, you know, and it wasn't to make a fool of themselves or act like complete idiots. Try this sometime; it's more of a release than you may think. Anyways. Sometimes your readings are a way of holding onto your past. You might not m… | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there a preferable venue for PUA?I would have to say lounges, as well. It's a shame that they're a tad more difficult to spot in most cities than bars or nightclubs. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Got AMOG'ed, last night. Looking for a good retort.He nailed you pretty good though. He definitely caught onto your friend zoning tactic with the guy - you know he had some influence over the girls, so you decided to go and close him down as a friend - and he pulled the chicks away accordingly. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I haven't had my own group of "boys" (friend circle of guys that I'm close to, not kids) since early high school...any advice?I was in the same boat as you are. I still am... sorta. I met two of my boys from the pickup community ironically but our pack disbanded - one left for another country, I'm in another city for school. Making guy friends its hard. Like, it's hard. You can't throw around cheesy pickup gimmicks like hey what's your porn star name dawg or like oh you know how to give the perfect high five? here lemme show you because, you know... masculinity. That said, genuine connections on topics men care about s… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:20 AM |
| 1 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Yeah. Drop the first sentence I left; I didn't mean to smack you over the head. Good stuff. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Oh wow, last night was awful for me. How do I give less of a fuck?Laugh off last night. That's how you give less of a fuck. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 07:47 PM |
| 7 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!tl;dr I didn't do it, therefore it's not possible I'll just give a breakdown of what's worked for me. I literally had a date this summer from a girl I met on Facebook... that I originally didn't know. The date went over well. Texting should be short and sweet and should follow one of two things: either building rapport or setting up a date. Anything more and you'll be sending mixed signals. Coupled with the elements of an interaction you lose out on when you text - voice, touch, smell, etc. - th… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Balls18/F/UK | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Want to make progress? This the best advice...Practice doesn't make perfect, but it'll sure as hell make you a much better person. (assuming you're applying assertive behaviours at the right moments) | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:40 PM |
| 2 | /r/seduction I need your help! Got a #, but I'm leaving town tomorrow.Your priorities are not the girl. Your priorities are college. I've had a bunch of dates this summer that I'd had to let go of because I'm leaving for college in another city on Sunday too. With that in mind, ask her what her schedule is looking like from day x - day y so you can schedule her in. I don't recommend shooting for one today or tomorrow because it's going to be hella rushed. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:36 PM |
| 1 | "If it makes you nervous, you're doing it right"ANYTHING OP C'MON WE'RE TRYING TO WORD WITH YA HERE BUDDY | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:00 AM |
| -1 | College protip: know one girl in every sorority if your campus has a Greek system.Dude, what? Ontariofag here... I've been seeing Kappa posts sprout up on Facebook for months now. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:40 AM |
| 28 | A girl so hot she makes you beta again. Am I just crushing?It's not beta to feel emotions. It's human. It's beta behaviour to adjust those emotions like a beta male would. Emotions should never be resisted though utilized where possible. Alpha males are not cold-hearted beings, nor are they warm and fuzzy with everyone. They simply fit their emotions and spend their energy in a different way. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Determining the girls availability for the date.What's your schedule like? | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Let's share some beta stories to encourage each otherI'd wonder why a rapist hadn't fucked me either. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 05:15 PM |
| 6 | I'm at a bar sitting next to a guy who I am POSITIVE is on seddit. He has the potential to be charming, but it's so obvious he's trying. What should I do?Talk to him. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend, but if i was single i really would give you my number!" - Shit test?How exactly do you expect us to answer whether it was a shit test or not? Determining that won't serve much purpose either. The point is, play it off, as you would any sort of social test. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 12:48 AM |
| 1 | She was fully compliant yet still resistant to kissing [mini FR incl.]Okay, maybe not max compliance, but usually when I hit that point, we're good for the bed. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 04:14 AM |
| 5 | Can anyone distill 50 Shades of Grey, once and for all?but the book is not instructive in this. As a guy who's actually taken the time to read the novel - yes, you read that right - that is simply not true. The author makes it clear on how the actions of the lead male dictate how attractive he is. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 02:27 AM |
| 2 | What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community?Point retracted then. To be honest though, Tyler isn't a terrible-looking guy. With his head shaved and his clothes more tailored, I wouldn't call him ugly by any stretch. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 02:24 AM |
| 2 | What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community?RSD Tyler? | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community?No one that has any relevance in the community has claimed looks don't count. Quit propagating this lie. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 08:42 PM |
| 1 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"The reason I said actually connected to her emotionally is because I mean genuinely connected that way. People who get friendzoned but secretly want to fuck the chick generally plan to do so from the start, to the point where it hinders his behaviors so that they distance themselves away from the present and emotions. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 08:27 PM |
| 4 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"If you're actually connected to getting to know her emotionally, physical escalation naturally follows suit. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Gents, let's talk about gaming up girls on FB you don't know.I'm actually dating a girl I met on Facebook without not having met her once prior to our FB thing. I basically just messaged her, asking what I should name the skunks that were shuffling around my backyard. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Accent adviceDude. You have an english accent. Game set and match. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 04:40 AM |
| 0 | Why Looks Don't MatterYou stated that it's easy to agree with generations of science and avoid introspection. One would assume from there that you're telling others that they're avoiding introspection, when the argument I'm putting forth is how our evolution operates. Introspection and biologically-related arguments are not mutually exclusive, either. Let me rephrase it my way, then. If I said to you, It's easy to say that and avoid biological and behavior sciences. I understand. But life is found rooted in your gene… | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 04:10 AM |
| 0 | Why Looks Don't MatterI didn't say they are the #1 determining factor. I said looks matter because evolution. You can try and flip the script on me all you want by stating that I'm avoiding something, while you outright ignore years of compiled evidence and scientific studies that refute your short-term motivational shenanigans, but that doesn't change what is and what isn't there. Try again. PS. It's a good idea not to attack someone's personal identity but rather, the argument being put out, when you're debating. I… | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 03:55 AM |
| 1 | I was in bed with a girl, making out, about to have sex for the first time, and I fucking jizzed in my pants. Seddit, please help me. Fuck. (NSFW?)Google. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Interesting article on Jerks, Confidence, Rudeness and Social StatusIf that's what you're striving for, then you're striving for an ideal that is not only unrealistic but also unobtainable if you don't plan on going through the trials of being an asshole. Sorry. All great leaders go through similar growth process. Rationalize after you've been through hell, not before. "For well you know that it's a fool who plays it cool. By making his world a little colder." | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 12:13 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop being jealous and get women?Approach. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Forms of physical and aesthetic self improvementDressing better doesn't necessarily imply clothes that fit. My brother does a lot of hip hop work - dancing and that sort of thing - and he's always telling me my clothes are too tight. I've been messing with his gear ever since... it's much more loose-fitting but it conveys a different message. Basically, get comfortable with your style, if not find it. I'm still a sharp dressing guy but I'm more open-minded after living with the little guy for some time. Hair grooming... yeah, there's definite… | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 12:03 AM |
| 15 | Read this! It will change your life and bring your pick-up to the next level!Reading this won't change your life; incorporating it will. Therein lies the challenge. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Trying to organise first date..any way to salvage this?Hey, works for me. But what do I know? Most people I date have jobs and aren't free 100% of the time. And then you need to account for anxiety and depression, which people feel too. Sometimes, people just genuinely don't want to leave their bedrooms, so "that day" might not be a good idea at all. But again, what do I know? lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Trying to organise first date..any way to salvage this?In my experience, I've had tons of successful dates and not a single unsuccessful attempt at one from asking for the schedule. She isn't there to give you a date; assuming that will only make your interaction with her weak. You're there to coordinate with her, to find a time to see her, not to ask her for a date. Any lady doesn't have more power than you do here. I think your approach lies in an insecurity that is pretty visible. Also, as per my last FR, I've literally gotten a girl to respond m… | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Trying to organise first date..any way to salvage this?That sounds too stuffy, forced, and needy. Don't do that. Instead, try "Hi X! I just chugged some fruit punch and remembered you! Lol. What's your schedule looking like?" You aren't likely to get a good response if you immediately tell her to sit down the next day for a date. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I was in bed with a girl, making out, about to have sex for the first time, and I fucking jizzed in my pants. Seddit, please help me. Fuck. (NSFW?)The washroom was a good recovery. I know it's difficult to feel like sex just after you came but at the very least, try not to toss out some half-assed excuse, even if you decide not to get sexual with her. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 04:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Car sex.Well then you just aren't mature. Welcome to the real world. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 04:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Car sex.Well it's only a little drop... and we're absolutely seeing each other again, for something much more intimate. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 05:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Car sex.Not butt naked. There was lots of foreplay and dry humping. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Why Looks Don't MatterWhy looks do matter: evolution. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Trouble in paradise - a date and an AFC bugging me [FR incl.]Right. I spoke about this with a few other gal pals and have reached the same conclusion. Thanks homie. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Trouble in paradise - a date and an AFC bugging me [FR incl.]I'm still in my cocoon in terms of being a social butterfly but this is a friend I've known for some time. He's a very big AFC. AFCs have that sort of behavior. Should I be upset at him for being AFC? Maybe. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Trouble in paradise - a date and an AFC bugging me [FR incl.]which is what it seems he is wanting to do Agreed... but when you're desperate, you don't look at things as a whole. If the positions were reversed - that is to say, if others stepped into the exact frame of mind as my friend - then yeah, anyone would do it. I've been in an anxious state of mind and have noticed my ridiculous-but-seemingly-normal behaviors. I've had people poke at them and tell me to relax, too. I know what that's like. I agree that you don't fuck over friends and I wouldn't fuc… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Trouble in paradise - a date and an AFC bugging me [FR incl.]It's not that he's not my friend... he just has no game. We all express irregular behaviors when we're in an anxious and needy state of mind. I've known the guy for a lot of my life but we haven't seen each other for some time up until recently. I appreciate the advice, though. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 02:11 AM |
| 1 | A Quote Important To All Of SedditWell I was gunna push for top comment... but then I saw this asshole. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 08:41 PM |
| 2 | my "drug test" routineIt's only illegal if you alert the authorities. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 08:11 PM |
| 32 | my "drug test" routineAre you on drugs? hold out your arm for me here... | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 02:46 AM |
| -10 | What unexpected things have you said/done that have turned out absolutely amazing?Did you have sexual intercourse with her? | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 05:48 AM |
| 14 | What unexpected things have you said/done that have turned out absolutely amazing?Thank you, detective. Someone write a book about this man. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 05:47 AM |
| 6 | What unexpected things have you said/done that have turned out absolutely amazing?Try this at a mall when a girl just doesn't seem to want to quit staring. Verbally challenge her to a staring contest. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Flirting while high.. : treesYup. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Canadian Sedditors, I created a guide on where to meet beautiful women in Canada. I hope you find this useful!No mention of the Madison... I am disappointed, TenMagnet. Especially since I found you there a few months back. Haha | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 06:59 PM |
| 2 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMAHey Cajun. Just sshowing some love from Toronto. I remember meeting you and TenMagnet at the Madison some time ago. Hope you're still alive and healthy over there! | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:18 AM |
| 10 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMAOf course. It's a well known fact that period blood attracts bears. I'm sure Cajun carries around a weapon just for the occasion. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Wedding dance coming up, any tips?Open a few sets before the wedding. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 10:18 PM |
| 3 | A book for College Guys with AA that also includes dating tipsDisagree. To bump up notyalc32's comment(I agree with it): I disagree with asad16. In bars, you can get rejected and come off as a douche and that's that. But in college, you have a reputation around campus. If you get labeled as the creepy guy who only wants sex, it'll spread through different circles of friends. It's explained in the book, the differences between normal game and college game. College is an enormous social circle but it's also a place where you gain a reputation. I don't like t… | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 10:15 PM |
| 9 | RationalPUA's Three Part Guide to University Excellence - Part I: The Epitome of ExperimentationBe careful when citing Freud. He doesn't have the most accurate psychology teachings. That said, you went about the id, ego, and superego, which fine. Great read. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The 30 day challenge and rejection therapy - what are some other good programs to work through?It's an older guide for pushing your boundaries for 30 days by doing challenges like "compliment a girl on her eye colour" and the like. I've never gotten to the later stages of it because I picked up a girl before finishing but the goal is to get laid before 30 days. Written by Style I think. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 04:05 AM |
| 8 | Gym Game"Hey... I like the way you ride. How about some dick?" | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Can one not enjoy activities/hobbies that are not normally considered "attractive" and still succeed?Every hobby is attractive. People just have an issue displaying them as such. Love, and do what thou wilt. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 05:53 AM |
| 1 | With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it.It was my first set so I was kinda hooked and taken aback when she said no... still had a great night afterwards. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 12:04 AM |
| 1 | With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it.If it were a shit test, I would have responded with something like "yeah I probably wouldn't wanna go out with me either. I can be crazy and a little strange sometimes. Plus hitting on myself would be weird." or just ignore it | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 10:24 PM |
| 6 | With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it.Dude, every chick wants to go out with me. They just haven't realized it yet. | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 10:23 PM |
| 1 | With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it.Fistpump buddies. Like pumping your fist in the air to dance. I'm italian so... | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Asked to submit my "sudden moment of clarity" story with Seddit.Thanks for your story. Glad you are on your way, son. | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 03:28 PM |
| 22 | With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it.I once had two chicks scream and run from me because I asked them to be my fist pump buddies. I guess in a club setting, it sounded more like fuck buddies. Moral of the story: they wanted to fuck. | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 03:25 PM |
| 13 | With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it.One time I went through a full approach with a girl at a bar. She was smiling, laughing, I had some playful kino flowing... then I said I'd love to take her out for coffee. No. What do you mean no? We have such a fine connection, I'd love to see you some more. It's okay. I don't know what I learned from this. | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Does a list of openers/conversation threads exist?Statement -> Question til you hook | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Style - Tyler Durden relationship. Questions about "The Game".I can't find it, but some time ago I found an audio interview with one of the guys from The Game. It wasn't Style or Mystery but the man explicitly stated that most of the shit in The Game was made up. Style also pointed out that parts of the book were made up in his AMA interview. | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone feel immensely better after they get touched by anyone really?There's a lot of strange quirks involved with pickup. Taking up space, for example, makes you feel more dominant. | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 02:59 AM |
| 2 | I feel as if my "Nice Guy" persona is hurting me more than helping meSo throw it away. | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 12:45 AM |
| 1 | On being honestEvery man has something to hide. That's unfortunately why we repress emotions and memories. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 11:53 PM |
| 0 | *VIDEO* 40 PUA RoutinesNot sure if serious. His username here is abcsofattraction. His youtube account is abcofattraction. You really had to look through his comment history? | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Style - Tyler Durden relationship. Questions about "The Game".mostly fiction* as admitted by many sources | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 11:33 PM |
| 3 | David Wygant's two mp3'sI SEA what you did there. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . piratesbay | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Science and art aren't mutually exclusive. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 10:14 PM |
| 3 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Oh. I thought you knew of an actual program of study. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How can I become funnier?Though I've never heard the "comedy has to be you" advice, I can definitely echo it. The only downside is, sometimes people won't "get" you. For myself, I'm really good at observing shit around me and just laughing at how things pull together. Some people aren't able to connect the dots here as well as I am. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Who got you into this?My dick and my lack of security in social aspects of my life. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:21 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Where does one study public speaking? | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:20 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Sometimes you just post so people can ask about your name, don't you? | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:19 PM |
| 4 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?I read a fuckload of material back in late high school. I was an anti-social loser but I laced my boots up on my own through practise and fortunately am now able to reap the benefits without any heavy effort. Reading should be kept to a minimum, though. A study founded awhile ago found that the more people read - or was it the smarter people got? Whatever, I'm sure that's connected to reading, too - the more introverted they got. Words are completely useless unless experienced. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:18 PM |
| 6 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Well sir, I believe you have won this thread. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Ace. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:15 PM |
| 1 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...Right. I wasn't accusing DebonairM of anything, I was just putting out a "sometimes" thing. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Short [FR] K-Close, Couldn't F-Close thanks to a cockblock, but I get to see her again in a few weeks, need a text message decipheredSet up a date and fuck her. That's all there is to it. Her text message is telling you to keep your game on, so when you see her again, she'll be hot and ready for some sweet sweet romancing. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How can I become funnier?Comedy is all about delivery. Everyone will tell you that. You can immediately connect comedy to storytelling, then. Watch comedians, pay attention to the pauses and how they deliver jokes, and practise. Practise to yourself, to others, and to that weird jar of something that's been sitting in your fridge for years. The second part of having material is owning it and being comfortable with it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Alpha StyleI got fashion advice from my ex and it was great. Really helped me understand fashion a little better. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:24 PM |
| 1 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...Having nothing to talk about is sometimes an issue of not valuing your opinion enough to put anything out there. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Alpha StyleHaha naw. This site is cool for collecting different looks but most people wouldn't be caught dead wearing that shit in public. A lot of it is for gallery purposes, not for actually wearing out. EDIT: Men specifically. Girls are more open-minded towards fashion. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:49 PM |
| -2 | To PUA's: Are you happy?No, I'm fucking tired. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 11:54 AM |
| -4 | Womanese, womanese, womanese. Seddit: What are your favorite examples?Not rape if she doesn... wait a second...... | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 05:36 AM |
| 2 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...I accept cookies and flowers, but only orchids, roses can go fuck themselves. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...Yup, definitely something to read. I posted a similar link to my wall some time ago. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 02:10 AM |
| 2 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...The effort is always worth the perceived reward, though. That's how the mammalian brain works. The issue arises because introverts are not as good at controlling more extroverted states of the brain - being energetic, hotheaded, fired-up, "in state", etc. - and because of this, even though the brain actually gives huge reward chemical dumps for being in these situations, introverts get scared of exposing themselves to such environments. Because those dumps are the exact things they aren't good a… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Living with my parentsHer place, in public, or hotel. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How do you get in state?Do something outside of your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:43 AM |
| 25 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...An introvert's nightmare is probably being deprived of their own quiet time, to be honest. How an introvert and and extrovert learn are the defining features between the two of them. You should realize, though, that blame never should go on one party. Someone might not be very interesting to talk to, but on the flipside, you just might not be the individual that's rousing her emotions. I've cracked open a few walnuts of conversations back when I was practising conversing a lot more harder and I … | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Love life turned dry, Help me recover it.Fyde? Have you met lefty? Srs-mode: If she's too far out of your way, don't ditch your life to see her. You know what you're doing there and she knows what she's doing there. Don't escalate over Facebook; either straight offer a date or just flirt. Don't send mixed signals over comfort. Long-term relationships are tough, so godspeed on that. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:38 AM |
| -4 | Womanese, womanese, womanese. Seddit: What are your favorite examples?"I have a boyfriend." I don't want this interaction to escalate to that level/I'm a challenge/I don't see the reason that we should become intimate yet "No" or anything she does to push me away I want to fuck you (applies to me specifically) | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:32 AM |
| 3 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...For everyone, it's a temporary excursion. That's why it needs to be done consistently, to really get those neurons firing. I know enough about the brain to tell you that there are concrete distinctions in the brain for introverts and extroverts. That isn't an excuse, which is the point I'm only trying to make; being an introvert doesn't necessarily mean you have to act like an introvert or stay within whatever boundaries you define for being one. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:29 AM |
| 1 | how to deal with temporary appearance issues (pimples)?I used to be on acutane. I had good success even when my face literally had pimples on top of pimples. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:26 AM |
| 15 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...It is most definitely a zone. As already stated, I'm not denying introverts and extroverts exist. What I mean by a zone is a comfort zone. Everyone has them, both introverts and extroverts, and sometimes by identifying as a type of person, we don't feel the need to push past those zones. Let me tell you something. I used to be terribly introverted. I was raised on video games, microwavables, and television by my mom. I didn't have a prominent fatherly figure in my life. I learned pickup by hand,… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:16 AM |
| 1 | thedarkline insights: avoiding flakestl;dr balance comfort and attraction for healthy relationships. Generic but good refresher post. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:56 AM |
| 28 | 10 Myths About Introverts | Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to...Seriously, fuck all this write up on introverts. As soon as you start identifying with a group, it's hard to stop identifying with them. Introverts exist but that isn't a reason to not leave that zone on your own will. I think articles like this often serve a second purpose to feed our own ego. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Life isn't a movie.All of them? | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Life isn't a movie.umad? | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 03:54 AM |
| 17 | Life isn't a movie.This is true; it is difficult to speak with a dick in your mouth. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 03:53 AM |
| 7 | Life isn't a movie.To be fair, emulating others is a great therapy and the importance of following a male role model can not be stressed more. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 03:51 AM |
| 27 | Want to get better at banter and the alpha attitude? Watch Archer. Seriously.Everyone step the fuck back, I got this. Click the god damn link; I guarantee you won't regret it. There are a few other videos like this on YouTube as well. | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.Oh god Axe. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 03:47 PM |
| 3 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.And remember, there is no need to drop the ego. You cannot drop it. If you try to drop it, you will attain to a certain subtle ego again which says, "I have become humble." Don't try to be humble. That's again ego in hiding - but it's not dead. Don't try to be humble. Nobody can try humility, and nobody can create humility through any effort of his own - no. When the ego is no more, a humbleness comes to you. It is not a creation. It is a shadow of the real center. And a really humble man is nei… | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.Amen. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 03:35 PM |
| 5 | If texting/chatting with someone, say "bye!" not "bye" when you're done.generally I already explained that in real life, there are a number of factors to mask excitement with masculinity. Voice tonality, body posture, eye contact, etc. all of which are removed through texts. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 03:20 PM |
| 1 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.Approach situations in the past where you have displayed victim qualities with the intention of laying down new, assertive qualities. (not actually acting like a douche, though it's my advice) | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 12:40 PM |
| 43 | If texting/chatting with someone, say "bye!" not "bye" when you're done.Generally, when using any sort of text messaging, you can choose between the masculine or the feminine position. (this is because texts drop a huge amount of interaction, like body language, breathing, facial expressions, etc.) Using exclamation marks generally imply the feminine. "Hey!" "We should go see this!" "Bye!" Using periods generally implies the masculine. "Hey." "We should go see this." "Bye." Personally I go feminine over texts and let my masculine side show in real life. It's your ch… | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 12:27 PM |
| 1 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.Fuck up gloriously for awhile. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 12:17 PM |
| 1 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.As a guy learning hip hop from his brother, dancing really isn't that hard. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 12:16 PM |
| 5 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.Because Seddit is a community that really isn't science-heavy, I try to tailor my posts towards being that way. I could have just as easily written about the neurotransmitters but I feel not many would have picked up on it. Let me leave you with a little less generalized bro-psychology, then. This is how the mammalian brain works: behavior x generated y outcome. That seems simple enough, and soon enough, we start forming patterns based on those experiences. Those patterns serve as future social … | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 12:08 PM |
| 40 | 'Are you guys dating ?'"Yeah, we totally are." arm around her waist/shoulder, proceed to give her looks/kino Dude, when someone basically throws you a roleplay script, go with it. Everyone loves a break from reality. Remember, when you're handed a shit test or a test of some sort, either a. agree + amplify it("yeah, we totally are") or b. ignore it. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:28 AM |
| 10 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.The white knights are not present yet. They're either expressing themselves in the downvotes I got or they're just simply passive. Give them a few more hours. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:20 AM |
| 17 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.I was going to give you shit for the title, just as planned | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 01:11 AM |
| 15 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.I completely agree with you, which is exactly what I was getting at here if you're going to get to the stage of "being a natural" and adapting all sorts of real cool tricks and social articulations, you need to go through the phase of being a douchebag. It's the perfect mixture that you're never going to find unless you seriously stretch your boundaries. Most of the people here on Seddit don't know how to structure their interactions, which is acceptable, but how do you ever expect to learn or f… | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Go to female-centric exercise classes (Spinning, Zumba, etc..)I'm generalizing. Sure, some people might go for other reasons. I feel the prime reason you'd find anyone at the gym is for fitness, which is to get in shape and get healthy, which often stems from an insecurity. (nothing wrong with this because it's very common and insecurities often lead to inspirational points) If you're going to tell me you go to the gym to socialize, you're rationalizing. The point of the post regardless is to point out that acting like women are on a pedestal at a gym is f… | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 01:42 AM |
| 19 | Go to female-centric exercise classes (Spinning, Zumba, etc..)Sigh. This is why I really sometimes dislike female opinions on a seduction forum. You are a woman. We are men. We are both in the gym for the exact same reason. Some men feel less insecure as others, however all men and women are in the gym for the exact same reason as one another; they feel insecure about some part of their body and are working to improve it. Ladies are not anymore special in this situation than men are. Secondly, OP not once mentioned seduction at all. OP mentioned meeting wo… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What was your worst "needy" moment in your lifetime, Seddit?Was there any blowing of the jobs involved? | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:55 PM |
| 2 | I get eye raped all the time at work, don't know what to do with it please helpRun around the eye clockwise. Don't try touching or hopping on it in any way; it only damages you. You just need to circle around it a few times and it'll die. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Hey, you. Why do you give a fuck?Very good way to put things into perspective, Throwaway. EDIT: Can you recommend any short reads for buddhist teachings? | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:45 PM |
| 1 | What was your worst "needy" moment in your lifetime, Seddit?Proceed... | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:10 PM |
| -3 | My thoughts on avoiding "the nice guy syndrome".Don’t overstep your boundaries. Instead, take your interactions with women to the next level. lol | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 10:34 PM |
| 3 | How do I successfully invite/get invited (by)people to do something fun?Value. People generally invite others out that fulfill a certain role. If you're really funny, for example, who wouldn't want you at a party? | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 09:43 PM |
| 1 | WHY YOU SHOULD FORGET ABOUT IOIsI mean, naturally, sure, people could use IOIs for that exact reason, just as anyone could use anything they learn to feed their own ego and anxieties. But that doesn't mean that they were developed for that reason... | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:10 PM |
| 6 | WHY YOU SHOULD FORGET ABOUT IOIsThis is a key concept. Don't wait for "permission" to do something, DO it and THEN adjust your behavior depending on the consequences. Uhh, sorry to burst your bubble, but this was exactly what IOIs were about. You do something, gauge with IOIs, and then proceed accordingly. But yes, your post is good. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Hand them your cell phone when asking for a number. Here's why.Better yet, forget asking for a number. Why bother? It puts the other party in a dominant role. Think about it: you're asking someone for their number. You're immediately granting them the power to decide when it's just a simple phone number. Geez. Try "let's exchange numbers." It levels the playing field a little better. "Can I get your number" is like being a dog, kneeling at her feet, and waiting for a bone. | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 01:03 PM |
| 1 | DJ Fuji just let out an amazing post on congruence - The Congruence ParadoxI think Fuji is spot on with what he's talking about. He's really only describing how people use congruence as an excuse to not make certain attitudes congruent with themselves. The whole mohawk thing was to make a point on keeping a solid frame. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)adjusts monocle | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)Sex is a huge part of putting on that great alpha male image we all strive for. It's great for relationships, for more sex, and for a multitude of other reasons, most of which I can't even begin to pitch because my mind is dozing off now. It's just not in the scope of seduction because seduction is the act of seducing a chick for the bedroom. I completely understand where you come from but that other guy needs an attitude rework. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 09:03 AM |
| -1 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)Because I told you that sex isn't part of seduction, I'm more riled up than you are? You just told a moderator what belongs and what doesn't belong on their board. You completely missed the exact scope of what is and what isn't seduction. You continued a problem that was already solved 2 hours after it finished. You even insulted the man for no given reason. I think it might be a good time for a nice stretch or an evening walk. Have a good night. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)Seduction ends at sex. That is the exact scope of seduction - from meeting to seducing. Most seduction manuals have a seperate volume for sex game because it's not part of pickup. The exact definition of seduction ends at sex, too. You must be really insecure about something to get rattled over a simple request to repost a thread. Maybe you should call a friend or go for a walk instead of lashing out on another seddit user. In no way has this personally affected you; curveball was only requestin… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 04:03 AM |
| -2 | Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason)To be fair, seduction literally ends at sex. It starts at meeting someone and ends at getting them undressed and bedding them. That's the actual definition. Sex is generally left out of or seperated from seduction books as well because it's a different category and a different game plan altogether. Once you have her seduced and undressed, the tables are pretty well set. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Where are the best places to meet happy, fun and attractive American citizens?Wherever you are. The energy you put out is the energy you'll likely have returned. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Souring a venue?Yup. Great social proofing, right here. I don't like to view meeting people as a game, but generally when I go to bars, I like to consider it like a game, where I make some of my own objectives to meet the people working there, like the front staff and the waiters and all that, before running anything. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever heard of the Dark Triad personality group? Do you think there's anything that can be learned from it?I think those two terms are the same but because of society's misconceptions of what a personality is, we defined a new term to use for what's already there. People will act different in a job interview than around good friends, yet both are aspects of a personality. You won't act cocky-funny in certain situations, for example, yet people may still think of you as such. No one acts serious all the time, yet we often define people's personality as being serious, playful, rude, etc. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever heard of the Dark Triad personality group? Do you think there's anything that can be learned from it?I agree with you. I find that personalities are generally stable over a lifetime. My issue is with the term personality, which people feel to be a universal thing in an individual. Everyone has multiple personalities - how we act alone, with strangers, with good friends, on stage, etc. - and these often differ from one another. Society seems to think that personality is the term to use when we describe how someone acts altogether, though. It's a natural process to reject behaviors and beliefs th… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever heard of the Dark Triad personality group? Do you think there's anything that can be learned from it?Right now we're theorizing, though. There isn't solid evidence in the realm of what is and isn't passed down yet as personalities, either. Neuroscience is still a relatively new science altogether. Mind you, "actual" personality isn't a solid region at all. Personalities fluctuate all the time - not a single person has a strict personality. They vary depending on the situation we're thrown in. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 12:04 AM |
| -1 | Want 10x more confidence? Stop Watching Porn [Video]They can be viewed in a scientific manner. Anecdotal experiences can be looked at scientifically. Regardless, my point is still Telling us something is "scientific" is vague and misleading. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 12:01 AM |
| 4 | How to make things sexual?Talking about it actually makes things worse. I don't know about this. Talking about it in the wrong way definitely makes things worse, though. I have a friend in real life who has no issue getting sexual with every single girl in his life. He has tons of girls in his life. He has never been with any of them, though. Why? Because he exhibits sexuality in a comical way, which makes him come off as a gay best friend. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever heard of the Dark Triad personality group? Do you think there's anything that can be learned from it?These personality features aren't acquired traits, you're born with them, and it takes medication and therapy to rid someone of them. This is very opinionated. If you work hard enough to build a habit, you'll find ways to build it imo. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 11:19 PM |
| -1 | Want 10x more confidence? Stop Watching Porn [Video]the videos by the professors are all scientific. Sure they are. All the posts on /r/seduction are scientific. If we stay on 4chan long enough, we can form scientific conclusions on how the community generally acts. What's your point? Telling us something is "scientific" is vague and misleading. There are no well-supported scientific studies over at NoFap, just as there are none on that YourBrainOnPorn website. Chances are, if any of these studies are funded, they'd be funded by the porn industry… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Want 10x more confidence? Stop Watching Porn [Video]I don't think that revolves around watching porn, though, but around the way we display that to everyone else. If you watch porn and try and hide it, then yeah, when you actually whip your dick out for the girl, you're probably going to feel guilty and insecure in some parts. I know a really down to earth fellow who watches porn and talks openly about it, even on Facebook, and still gets a moderate amount of ass. Right now he even has a banging hot girlfriend. I'm sure you can think of a few peo… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 11:10 PM |
| -2 | Want 10x more confidence? Stop Watching Porn [Video]I just think of it this way: if you make out watching porn to be a big deal, you'll probably return to it a lot quicker because you'll put the act on a pedestal. It'll become a ritual, where you'll end up in a cycle of fapping but not wanting to come, which will result in you still cumming from the excitement of doing something bad and naughty, but wasting more time in the process. Do what you love and love what you do. If you want to fap, fap. If you don't, don't. Don't resent yourself in eithe… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Leaving her better than you found her - is it truly possible? What do you guys think?The blogging description of alpha males needs to die. What is so wrong with just referring to men as "the ideal mate?" Jesus. As for the article itself, it's shit. If you believe you will leave her in a better place than when you first met, you will. If you don't believe it, then you won't. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Cracked Article on all the bullshit/misogyny in the Mystery MethodI love Cracked. They're a great site that writes tons of comedy material for a wide variety of audiences. When I was a kid, my dad showed me a Cracked magazine dealing with the Simpsons and Pokemon. After reading that, I learned to take things a lot less seriously and give a lot less of a fuck when things I liked were taken apart for joking purposes. I'm glad they have an online resource now for this kind of thing. With that said, Cracked is still primarily a humor outlet. What does that mean? T… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm at the end of my rope guys.There are many ways attraction is built, even before you utter a single vowel. Just having presence in a location can be an incredible way to demonstrate value and have someone attracted to you. Displaying confidence to approach out of the blue is another good way of building it. Don't do awkward things. Do do what you want. Make sure what you do is more for your own amusement rather than the amusement of others. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys! New here....As long as you stay gentlemen enough On the flipside, it's terribly important to test your own limits. The way people use the word gentleman nowadays is more of a rationalization for their own beliefs, as opposed to actually having a certain flair to your actions. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I'm having this problem that I can't figure out a solution to.You don't feel fear and you don't feel anything. This is a statement. Sometimes, we don't feel fear. We don't even feel anxiety. Anxiety is born out of competition, and sometimes that competition makes us so anxious that we unconsciously rule ourselves out of the race. The same can be said with pickup. If you do 100 approaches and every single one of them ends up in a failure, you may subconsciously eliminate yourself from approaching or even dating. You may consciously even end up hating relati… | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Asked for digits, got rejected like a BOSS...BOSS! People here are going to take you down a notch because they feel it was a shitty way to leave an interaction. Fuck that! It sounds hilarious, the way you walked away from it with that line. Great way to agree + amplify this chick's rejection so that you reject her. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Ideas for quests to level up?lol'd | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Dating for Nice Guys Pt. 11: Physical appearance + insecurities + confidenceYour blogging style is very similar to my ex's(hi Amy!). This sums it up nicely though Do not aspire to be arrogant, but do aspire to be confident and more comfortable with yourself | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Highly effective textual deflakerWell yeah. There's that, but I wouldn't discredit all text game because a guy failed to build interest in the actual interaction. There is some really cool stuff out there, even if it's not for seduction purposes. Chances are though, yeah, if you fucked up initially, you aren't getting laid off of some miracle textwork. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Highly effective textual deflakerOn the flip side, women sometimes will make types of communication difficult if they are interested in you, to see if you'll chase and if you are worth it, or maybe to condition you. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Highly effective textual deflakerSounds cheesy in a pickup way. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 01:21 AM |
| 1 | She talked to me about her BF...You should have told her you don't care. Because unless you do, you should have been clear about that. No one likes to listen to that shit. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 01:12 AM |
| -1 | Undeniable Proof That Women Crave Mind-Blowing SexThe polite society? Lol. I think it's time we stopped using such misdirected terms. Through our history, we have been conditioned to love women. We have beautiful paintings of the female body, solely for the purpose of expressing the love for this figure, even if the said individual is doing absolutely nothing in the paintings. Many of our other art forms resemble different aspects of ladies as well - the arches of a women's tits or ass can be found in our own infinite history. Don't even get me… | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 11:01 PM |
| 2 | I'm in a slump. What can I do to immediately make my life more interesting?Right. And the people that rant on Facebook don't get much positive attention either, unless they balance it with some. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Was there an opportunity to #close here? [small report leading up to question]I guess I let the anxiety of the moment play on my #close. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Was there an opportunity to #close here? [small report leading up to question]Set aside seduction altogether. This girl is great. We vibe on great levels. We have the same interests in great topics. She's a passionate painter and I want to learn how to paint, though she's a very creative individual as well. I just want to keep in better contact than over Facebook. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 07:00 AM |
| 0 | How do you balance "not giving a fuck" and reputation?Just do it. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:09 AM |
| 1 | What exactly does a wingman do?Prioritize. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How badly does a monotone voice affect your game?Tonality is learned. Look up some monologues, print them out, and practise reciting them in front of your mirror and over a recorder. Play them back and get comfortable with your voice and it's many displays. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:08 AM |
| 5 | I'm in a slump. What can I do to immediately make my life more interesting?The only viable answer here that anyone should suggest is anything you want to do. Do what you love and absolutely love what you do. You don't need to have a crazy life to have crazy stories. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Returning to your comfort zone every few weeks? Click here!I like to replace words in my vocabulary frequently. | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 11:49 PM |
| 1 | A broken man struggling to keep the alpha male mask on...serious case of oneitis. Please do help me..."Alpha mask" lol gl with that | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Mystery Method has set off some worries of mine a little bit.That was the actual point of Chris Rock's routine, by the way: no matter what you communicate as a guy, you'll always communicate "want some dick" as well. It's on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Mystery Method has set off some worries of mine a little bit.Yeah, MM and MB are like that. I like the idea behind it, because it makes sense - not showing interest until you receive it. From experience, I really haven't had much success showing interest first, which has been a lot of the time, which is why I'm trying to refine my approach now. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Mystery Method has set off some worries of mine a little bit.I've grown thick skin when playing the game and then shaved it off later. Why? Because thick skin might patch up some scars but the scars are still there. Sure I was over my AA and I was in "not give a fuck" mode a lot but I wasn't gaining anything beyond a loss of time. I hadn't made anymore friends and I wasn't getting laid. I was just going out for the sake of going out. I was desensitizing for the sake of doing so, without doing anything with my desensitized state. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Mystery Method has set off some worries of mine a little bit.As I said, I've been involved with the game for awhile. I know the ins and outs, I know what approach anxiety is, I know to fail is to succeed. I'm looking for something beyond generic advice from someone who's been in the situation I described. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?"Doesn't matter. No one is preventing you from literally watching a movie or making cupcakes with her. The point is, because you have her in your space and alone, you can escalate freely... while watching Titanic or whatever filler you have on the screen. | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?"Don't get me wrong; I'm not dismissing your points. Going direct will net you results at times. My last lay was from a girl who texted me months later, asking me out for drinks. My response was exactly "or sex?" and that is exactly how it ended. Women don't want to be shamed for it, though. I guess it comes with having a non-judgemental vibe about yourself, as well. Let's be honest here: if you were a chick, would you really like to be known as the one that slept around? As the one that, when di… | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?"The last two aren't very direct. In any event, for situations like this, it's surprisingly not a good idea to be direct. Women don't want to feel dirty and shamed when they go and visit a guy alone so they're always looking for an excuse. There's nothing actually wrong with it, it's just the way women are conditioned, what with the term slut being flung around so frequently and having such an impact on them. | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 04:08 AM |
| 8 | Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?"Women pick up on the whole "you, me, alone, my place" vibe pretty well. Just mention anything involving you two alone at your home. She'll understand. | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Value Statements vs. Qualifying?Qualification is a phase that comes after attraction. The reason for this is simply because if you show too much interest in someone too early, you'll probably come off as needy or someone who's looking for friends or more. This is why displaying attractive attributes about yourself should come before qualifying. Value statements are statements that show you have value. For example, I love my life. That shows you're very secure with yourself in many ways. I play a lot of sports would be another … | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 09:29 PM |
| 39 | Personal handshake tip when meeting a lady for 1st time.proceeds to beat said lady in the face, Batman-style, all the while tossing in grunts and groans from The Dark Knight | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 09:24 PM |
| 5 | DAE find yourself knowing what you should do yet still not being able to do it?All the time. Just work at it. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Seven Seduction sinsI agree with your points. However, I feel a lot of what you have to say is hinted at with less assertive undertones. Allow me to explain. Patience is less of a matter of patience but more of a matter of priority. If you want to cultivate a friendship with someone, feel free to. The same goes for a long term relationship ordeal. However, if you want to try for that one night stand, you have every right to as well. No one is asking you to choose between one or the other. Selfish women have more ch… | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Mystery coming back. "Ultimate pickup artist convention". Others speaking there including Tyler and Jeffy from RSDEscalating, SNL, making shit happen in the same night, phone numbers often lead to flaking, etc. etc. | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Really good sexual escalation guidePoint taken. What I meant was, they are a great way of generating money. So, "professional" stage. I didn't mean professional like solid. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 09:04 AM |
| 1 | How to flirt 'safely'?Guess Accessories. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 09:04 AM |
| 8 | something i found on r/fitness that fits right here on r/seductionLet me explain what this man is talking about a little further, because some people are a little too downvote-happy in this thread. Firstly, no one is invading your personal space, so quit downvoting. No one here is a lunkhead, a meathead, or anyone who resembles this both physically and mentally. Quit downvoting people for expressing their opinion on fitness. Now, onto what I was going to say: fitness centers are often a trap for a lot of guys. You go in, you work out; you come out, you look be… | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 11:13 PM |
| 8 | Really good sexual escalation guideMissed the point by a mile. You wouldn't ask Michael Jordan to teach you the game of basketball if he didn't know how to dribble. Blogs are a professional stage. You are the writer. You are selling products on your blog. Therefore, writing is part of your profession. "Litlery" is ridiculously unprofessional. If you're honestly defending that point, my criticism to you is that you should quit blogging altogether. It's you that needs to open their mind to criticism and to what you do for a living. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.I'm actually getting it from my city and pop cult. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 10:27 PM |
| 4 | I've started experimenting with getting girls to buy me drinks.Powermeat'd | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 10:50 PM |
| 1 | What do all the things (like FR) mean?Yup. HB3, HB5, HB10 = Hot blonde/brunette/whatever 1-10. A lot of people disagree with the rating system nowadays because of subjectivity, personality, etc. etc. but you'll still see it come up every so often. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What do all the things (like FR) mean?FR is field report. Any close is like closing a sale. K close = kiss close. #close = Phone # close. F close = fuck close. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.So we're in agreement then. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.Personally, between my crew down in the city, we never use that term anymore. We just brag about the behaviors we found were good. I see where you're coming from. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:57 PM |
| 1 | A little question about showing interest.You qualify yourself to her after she takes an interest in you. Otherwise, it's likely that you'll come off as needy... as in, you're taking interest in her first. Which shows you aren't hard to get or playing high value. You want to be the individual that has a million stories from 12 countries that she has never heard of... before you start asking her about herself. http://www.lovesystems.com/dating-advice/approaching/triad Scroll down for the emotional progression model. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:53 PM |
| 11 | I've started experimenting with getting girls to buy me drinks.NO! I WANT IT NOW! | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.This is why it's challenging to define. Everyone has their own theories on alpha males. I'll agree with you on the point of having black-and-white sections for alpha and beta is ridiculous, but I feel that the more things change, the more they remain the same. Hunting might not be a survival instinct for men anymore but like you said, the situations have changed and we have evolved, and we have adapted those old survival instincts for more modern situations. Money is a form of bio-survival pack … | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:50 PM |
| 5 | I've started experimenting with getting girls to buy me drinks.Well? What's the routine? It's like a cliffhanger here... | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.That is exactly what I am saying. People are more complex than monkeys or wolves or whatever-have-you across many different domains. Does that go to say that magically, we should rule out the term alpha males for people? I don't think so; I just think it means that it's more challenging to define. If you choose to deny the fact that alpha males do exist in the animal kingdom, and we are essentially animals, then that isn't improving your game at all. That's just remaining ignorant of what's arou… | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.All of this shit is made up. What? No, it's not made up. Alpha males do exist. If you study certain animal circles, it's easy to understand that. The word you're looking for is misused. People will use the term alpha to describe a good play they made that night or a good behavior they adopted even if it's not truly alpha. That does not mean that alpha males don't exist, though. You shouldn't completely zone out a concept that has shown itself in many animal societies simply because you don't wan… | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.Alpha is kind of a made up concept. That is a terribly vague statement. Being an alpha male is not a kind of made up concept. Being a modern alpha male is a misunderstood concept because we have more thought processes in the realm of dating than our monkey ancestry line. Therefore, it's difficult to accurately define. In any event, alpha males do indeed exist. Maybe it's a good idea to ignore that. Maybe it's not. It's your choice to decide that. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.It's a pickup blog. If you expected anything more, you shouldn't be on pickup blogs in the first place. Lol | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:26 PM |
| 1 | My theory on the BEST way to stimulate almost guaranteed emotional investment from a girl....Agree or Disagree?True, true. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.Totally agreed. I know I stereotyped an entire generation and there definitely are exceptions, but I know you can feel what I'm getting at. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 02:09 AM |
| 1 | A quick (60s) video about what is confidence - simple thoughts, but not necessarily obvious :)Yup. Dude definitely has some points. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Yo seddit, what's the call on body hair?Yes for chest, no for below. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 12:17 AM |
| 3 | A quick (60s) video about what is confidence - simple thoughts, but not necessarily obvious :)You forgot to mention 60 seconds. Give the guy 4 minutes and I'm sure he would be able to unclutter your points. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 12:10 AM |
| 1 | A quick (60s) video about what is confidence - simple thoughts, but not necessarily obvious :)Ironically enough, this man is into pickup. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Guitar players of seduction, how do you handle girls when playing guitarIgnore them. Do your thing. | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why It’s So Hard: Dating For Modern MenAll psychology is built that way. But yes, if you don't treat Freud with a grain of salt(or coke, if you will), you are doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 11:55 PM |
| -7 | How to unseduce a girl?Break off contact with her for about 3 months and then friendzone her. Alternatively, just go right at the friendzone part. | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 11:55 PM |
| -1 | My theory on the BEST way to stimulate almost guaranteed emotional investment from a girl....Agree or Disagree?tl;dr is to get the girl to reveal intimate details about herself to you. Does anyone even read the emotional progression model anymore? This is called getting the girl to qualify herself to you. It's done after you demonstrate attractive qualities. It's a formula for creating tension, which builds attraction in any event. | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.Well, here's the thing. Alpha males are generally defined as being terrifically masculine. They essentially know what their self-worth is and have no issue expressing themselves, be it telling someone off or just greeting them. There's also a whole lot of subcommunication points that get thrown into the equation here which pretty much conveys "I am the boss." Alpha gay males replace the masculine attitude with a feminine one, which is a lot more fun but not as "solid." With that said, playing th… | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Reinventing myself. What I've learned:Good man. You are worth it. Sometimes it takes a little convincing, is all. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 01:47 AM |
| 1 | The magic of Touch... as our sticking points.Thanks. Yeah, it's a sticking point for tons of us. Most people are unfortunately imprinted with a not-so-great touchy personality. That's when we do see touchy people, we point them out. Kino definitely has an everyday application. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The magic of Touch... as our sticking points.My issue is more with escalating for the nitty-gritty stuff and displaying assertive kino. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 03:24 PM |
| 1 | The magic of Touch... as our sticking points.Easy kino is fine with me. High fives are easy enough to throw around. So is hugging and shaking hands. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 02:34 PM |
| 2 | A Note on Sex, Women and Marriage: To My Son on His Twenty-First BirthdayThis is exactly how I felt when I skimmed the article. I wouldn't say it's great seduction advice but it definitely sounds like a dad trying to get through to his son. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 03:07 AM |
| 2 | The magic of Touch... as our sticking points.That sucks, man. Pick it up! | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 03:04 AM |
| 3 | The magic of Touch... as our sticking points.Thanks Throwaway. Always great to see your posts crop up. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl here. Guys rarely approach me. Seddit, why do you choose the girls you choose?Why don't you approach, then? | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 08:21 PM |
| 1 | The Great ExperimentTry Montreal. | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The Great ExperimentRegardless, I'm definitely going to try this out myself. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The Great ExperimentThis would make a fabulous book. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Hey you. Stop trying to cure your approach anxiety. Stop that shit.The first thing I would like to point out here is that to move from one emotional state to another, we need to realize, accept, and understand that state. If we're angry and we want to calm down, it's best to identify the source of the anger or at the very least, accept that we are angry. With this in mind, anxiety is no different. Pushing away anxiety isn't even a stupid idea; it just doesn't work. It goes against the very laws of nature. Nothing ever completely disappears on this planet. I mea… | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Hey you. Stop trying to cure your approach anxiety. Stop that shit.Yeah. You can condition yourself to push above it. You can get addicted to that feeling of adrenaline. Many new pickup folks always say how they really enjoy the rush of the approach. But as for fully getting rid of it? Nada. Running away from it is the worst idea. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Hey you. Stop trying to cure your approach anxiety. Stop that shit.There's an incredible amount of entertainers who admit to having stage fright their entire career. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Hey you. Stop trying to cure your approach anxiety. Stop that shit.It's pretty important. I'll admit that we aren't a slave to our emotions, but that's different than running away from something we don't like. To move beyond something, we first have to understand and accept it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | RSD Free Tour video on success - Failure is the fucking default if you don't take action!Failure is inevitable. Success is elusive. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 03:09 PM |
| -1 | Movies like "The Notebook" have brainwashed men, ruining our success with women. Look at this example.Old news, bro. Try examining "the customer is always right" next time. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 04:32 PM |
| -1 | Sunglasses & eye contactAt the toilet store. Duh. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 05:46 PM |
| -1 | Sunglasses & eye contactExchange your rape goggles for a pair of fitted aviators. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 04:35 PM |
| 2 | An enigma wrapped in a fucking riddleI know what you're saying. It's a trap we all fall into. It's a time sink though. Forget about what she's trying to do with you and figure out what you're going to do with her. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I constantly feel like I only blend into the background of everybody else's life.I haven't suggested anything or given advice. If you want to change in any way, you first should locate where you are to begin with. Beliefs are enforced by real world experience but anyone can change a belief simply by finding evidence to another belief. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 04:31 PM |
| 6 | I constantly feel like I only blend into the background of everybody else's life.Nope. Doing what he's doing is the first step to changing. You have to identify where you are to move onto a better stage. We can't just push bad feelings away, as much as we'd like to. Also, if no one thinks he's interesting enough to care. You're affirming OP's belief, but that's all it is: a belief. Beliefs can be changed. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 03:46 PM |
| 8 | An enigma wrapped in a fucking riddleWho gives a fuck? Not to throw you off, but seriously, who gives a flying fuck? Look at yourself; you're trying to "decode" another human being. Set aside your brain power for something that's a lot more worthwhile than trying to understand how a single organism is trying to fit you into her life. She's obviously a creepy bitch and there's a phrase around here - "don't stick your dick in crazies." Forget about her. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Get Girl friendsYou tryin' to hit on me bro? | /r/seduction | 11/04/12 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Get Girl friendsTrolling used to be a term for picking up women, funny enough. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 11:50 PM |
| 7 | Get Girl friendsYou don't even have to be amazing at seduction. You just have to accept responsibility for your interactions, your behaviors, and ultimately, your life. Women may try to toss you into the friendzone; it is still your choice to put yourself there. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 11:49 PM |
| 1 | A nice reminder: Be flirty, always. Anything could be a shit test.Can I chew on your arm? | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 11:48 PM |
| 1 | A nice reminder: Be flirty, always. Anything could be a shit test.I mean specifically the sentence Tofu. A nice reminder: Be flirty, always. Anything could be a shit test. It just sounds like he's being friendly to avoid shit tests out of fear. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 10:30 PM |
| 5 | A nice reminder: Be flirty, always. Anything could be a shit test.The article is a good read. This point in your title doesn't do it for me though Anything could be a shit test. If you're being flirty or developing behaviors out of a fear, you won't see very deep change. Being flirty always because anything can be a shit test isn't a very deep developemental approach. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 06:10 PM |
| -2 | "Are you gay?" AMOG destroyerNah. Point still holds. Have fun with your crippling limiting belief though, homie. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 04:04 AM |
| 0 | "Are you gay?" AMOG destroyerThat chasm is much smaller than you think, actually. But just viewing that chasm is what Theillbehaviored is referring to and as I pointed out above, seduction probably isn't for you. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 12:23 AM |
| 2 | "Are you gay?" AMOG destroyerThe only person considered to be an alpha male in this situation was OP. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 12:21 AM |
| 15 | "Are you gay?" AMOG destroyerThe situation presented made no room for a fight to break out. Also, if you're constantly going to view different tactics as "will this cause a fight or not", seduction is probably not for you. | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Will sudden change be weird?No, though it's ordinary to ask a question like that. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How the Stoics Got Laid: 5 Lessons on Meeting Women From Stoic PhilosophyWhat I mean is, watered-down philosophy books that are built for those people that pop into Chapters looking for a quick fix for their materialistic lifestyles. I'm interested in the philosophy, not in the way these philosophies are sold today. I've already checked out Cicero but I couldn't find any firm readings on him. Haven't heard of Seneca though, so I'll probably browse around for him. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How the Stoics Got Laid: 5 Lessons on Meeting Women From Stoic PhilosophyI've always known pickup is connected to stoicism. Are there any books that are really heavy on the philosophy side of things that anyone can recommend? "A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy" just sounds like another typical off-the-shelf pseudo-happiness book. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"Don't bash it til you try it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 02:43 PM |
| 7 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"Yes. Don't try to get me too drunk; I don't usually put out on the first date. Alternatively, Yes. We're going to have wild monkey sex in a dark sketchy alley afterwards. Lube up! | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 02:31 PM |
| 20 | Guys, I just did it, my third direct approachFailure is inevitable. Success is elusive. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How to spin not having a facebook?Just a pointer: you might want to actually delete your Facebook instead of just deactivating it. Facebook keeps all your information unless you confirm your deletion with them, even if it's "deactivated." | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Reverse engineer a sedditor's behavior?Let him do what he does. It's good that you understand what he's motivated to do. Let him act. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 03:27 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Fingerblasting a girl within a minute of meeting herGlad to see the FRs going up Tofu. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 03:12 PM |
| 1 | A simple game to play to help you get into your zoneDon't let me get into my zone. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 04:20 PM |
| 1 | A simple game to play to help you get into your zoneI'm definitely in my zone. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 04:10 PM |
| 2 | My review of the Simple Pickup guys and Tyler Durden (RSD) after having seen both in field during the past weekGood stuff Tofu. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Got called a wonanizer on facebook. Good or bad?You mad? If so, yes, it's a bad thing. In any event, it shouldn't affect you. Facebook is Facebook. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like seduction is just draining?It's also a terrible mentality of pickup. | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever feel like seduction is just draining?Girl's don't qualify themselves, they don't have a comfort mode, or a social mode, they don't have shit-tests, they don't have LMR, they don't talk in 'threads'. Girls do qualify themselves, they do have comfort mode and a social mode, they do present shit tests and LMR, and they do talk in threads. Admittedly, these concepts are exactly concepts but they are ways of explaining very real interaction experiences. You can't merely break them down to say they don't exist at all, because they do. Th… | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 09:22 PM |
| 2 | The hivemind doesn't think too highly of usSPOILERS: You are part of that very hivemind. | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Becoming the flirty guy in the workplaceAMA | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 05:29 PM |
| 1 | best way to handle a HB flirting with other guys in order to make you jealous?Ignore. | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 05:18 PM |
| -1 | [Reminder] Being an aspiring PuA/Seducer does not mean you take value from otherstl;dr OP got AMOG'd | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How can I hit up a girl that I haven't talked to in a while?Hey fuck you my ass isn't that fat. | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 11:58 PM |
| 5 | How can I hit up a girl that I haven't talked to in a while?I whole-heartedly disagree with your statement; I believe the correct variable is actually significantly lower: 0.000246%. | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 05:39 PM |
| 1 | “I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.”That was the vibe I got from your post. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 08:06 PM |
| 1 | “I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.”I'm only judging your view from what you said. To me, this stands out as a bad mindset to have when it comes to dating Now really think for a minute what type of person people would think you are if you refused to pay for a girl that you asked out. What does that say about you? and But if I ask her out, I pay. Neither of those points matter. Neither of them. Believe it or not, women and people in general will not like you any better for paying for their dinner. It's a cop out for actually creati… | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 07:27 PM |
| 1 | “I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.”Your advice is fucking stupid because you're suggesting to pay for your date on the first date. You're a generous person. That's cool. I'm generous as well. Generosity shows itself in many different ways. Money is a single form. Showing a girl a good night is another form of being generous. I would not pay for a girl's dinner on our first date because I value my time and my money and I am comfortable with showing my date a good time otherwise. The way you phrase what your argument shows that the… | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Simple Pickup [first] Uncut FootageGood call. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Simple Pickup [first] Uncut FootageI posted some in another post above. This is a good example of being biased and ignoring the whole picture while only looking at the negatives. She didn't outright reject him, she was touching his arms after the kiss, she was more than compliant to put her arms around him, and she even pulled on his jacket. Everything I'm describing is around the 4:00 mark. Yes, she telling him that he was a good kisser does say something, as much as you'd like to ignore it. Perhaps the girl was only trying to p… | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Simple Pickup [first] Uncut FootageCool. Now list the signs that she was attracted. Oh, what's that? You won't do it? It's okay, I wouldn't either if I was trying to convince someone that it was almost a rape situation. Also, your language is incredibly dramatic. Relax, drama queen, no one asked Brad out to the prom yet. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 01:58 AM |
| -3 | Simple Pickup [first] Uncut FootageDid you miss the part where she rejected him? No? You sure? Oh, right; that's because she didn't. Her language gave more room for kissing. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Simple Pickup [first] Uncut FootageThis is a good example of being biased and ignoring the whole picture while only looking at the negatives. She didn't outright reject him, she was touching his arms after the kiss, she was more than compliant to put her arms around him, and she even pulled on his jacket. Everything I'm describing is around the 4:00 mark. Yes, she telling him that he was a good kisser does say something, as much as you'd like to ignore it. I didn't enjoy the video very much either - to me, it just seemed like she… | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 01:51 AM |
| 2 | How I Handled A FlakeAt one level or another, it is there choice to lazy around. But is it a conscious decision? Probably not. They've accepted their situation at one level or another and thus, made the choice to live their lifestyle, but they probably feel victimized by their environment which results in them getting less done. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 01:15 AM |
| 26 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMAit was just a talk show You know you've made it big when.......... so did you actually try and pick her up, or was she just attracted because of your general pickup knowledge? We all saw those hair flicks she gave you, bro. | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 04:55 PM |
| 28 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMADid you ever score with Jessica Alba? | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 04:49 PM |
| 27 | In a rut? not taking action? Read this.I just picked my nose and now have a nosebleed. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How I Handled A Flakeword | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 02:51 AM |
| 12 | Escalation is literally the most important thing you can do.Never give up! Trust your instincts! | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 05:18 AM |
| 3 | How I Handled A FlakeTo me, success is always improving, which is somewhat contradictory to being happy. You can't be successful without setting goals... the very definition is succeeding in something. If your goal is to live happy the most simple way possible, then I suppose lazying around would make you successful in that aspect. If you don't have any goals because you're lazying around, that's a different story though. Again, all perspective, haha. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 12:15 AM |
| 2 | How I Handled A FlakeWhich comes back to it all being in perspective. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 08:33 PM |
| 6 | How I Handled A FlakeI disagree with that statement. I could sit around and smoke weed for every single day of my life without getting a single thing accomplished. I would enjoy every second of it. I could, on the flipside, actually start a business, become a successful man, net me all sorts of wild and crazy fame, and live a life that is overall more successful and exciting. It's all in perspective. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 07:06 PM |
| 2 | The Final Word on Indirect Game (Hopefully)This is an impossibility because all girls are different. Right. However, there are patterns between people that allow us to understand what works and what doesn't - what can be used to make someone comfortable and what doesn't - what is a socially-acceptable topic and what isn't. Sure, everyone is different, but there are common grounds for what people respond to. Everyone rationalizes their beliefs so I won't deny that I do too. I do go out and actively pursue girls. Yes, sometimes if you drop… | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The Final Word on Indirect Game (Hopefully)Agreed. The only thing I'm noting is that you shouldn't take it personally because you never put your entire self on the line to begin with. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Sedditors what are some of your favorite PUA movies?You know what's really cool? There's this guy on YouTube who examines movies and breaks them down into PUA techniques. I wish he would do more of them cuz I've only seen 2 or 3 and I think it's a really cool idea. Here's the one on Casino Royale. Californication breakdown. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 04:10 AM |
| 2 | The Final Word on Indirect Game (Hopefully)Yes, that's what I mean. She doesn't know the whole you, so she really can't reject the whole you, no matter how much you put on the line. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 04:00 AM |
| 2 | The Final Word on Indirect Game (Hopefully)That would depend on your intentions to begin with, though. I'll admit that I feel that a guy's intention when talking to a girl, at some level, is to get laid. The same can be said for women backwards. However, let's say I walked into a store looking for a job and greeted the lady at the counter. I made some really good talk with her before leaving her my resume. The chat session we had opened up a job opportunity that originally wasn't there. (this actually happened today) Would that mean that… | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 11:28 PM |
| 3 | The Final Word on Indirect Game (Hopefully)I'm really glad you responded because I'd like to know your actual philosophy behind this. Attraction is something that is given or not. There are a tremendous amount of factors related to attraction, from sight to even smell. The way I feel attraction can be built is through your actions. I really think this is going to come down to how we define attraction, though. Take, for example, people telling their target that they are skydivers. Or surfers. Or people not texting back right away. These a… | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 11:19 PM |
| 8 | The Final Word on Indirect Game (Hopefully)Though I do support your effort on putting an end to indirect game, I find your article to be poorly written in some parts. You outright state that if you are not attractive in appearance, women will reject you, which is not true. Women will reject you if they are not attracted to you but physical attraction is only one part of the equation that builds attraction. You go on to say this No, she’s not rejecting your opener, but the guy who hit on her. which is an incredibly false statement. The re… | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 07:51 PM |
| 10 | Wtf, people keep trying to Alpha me..The only viable explanation. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 05:37 PM |
| 2 | A challenge for seddit to hold me toDO EM UP DO EM UP | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 10:14 PM |
| 90 | All you guys who fear to talk to girls are insaneRisk is a real thing. Your perception of it is not. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 10:11 PM |
| 91 | All you guys who fear to talk to girls are insanesocially accepted levels of insanity Incredible. Simple and to-the-point. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 09:33 PM |
| 1 | How is the 80/20 rule applicable?This is a response I was more expecting to here. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Good Cracked article with a few scientifically-validated things to increase your attractiveness to the opposite sex.u irked bruh? | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 02:39 PM |
| 4 | How is the 80/20 rule applicable?This theory isn't very analytical, actually. No theory here is. It's the way people use them that makes it analytical. Analyzing things is a natural process. The not giving a fuck advice here is spot on, but being outcome-independent and goal-oriented are two entirely different processes. If you are entirely non-outcome independent and non-reflective towards everything you do, do not expect any improvements. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 01:42 AM |
| 1 | [Video] Qualification & Showing Interest by Psych Dating Coach (Master Instructor: The Tao of Dj Fuji)I'm about 10 minutes into the video. This is some really good stuff. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 11:42 PM |
| 3 | We are Simple Pickup AMAWord. I expected it to have earned you some rep but I wasn't sure how far others would take it. Doesn't matter in the end, really, so props for having that good composure. So what do you three study, anyways? I know tons of guys in the community that are into engineering. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 04:05 AM |
| 1 | We are Simple Pickup AMAWhat's even more funny is that 1. I know this guy personally and 2. he has the most upvoted comment here. Smh... | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 04:00 AM |
| 2 | We are Simple Pickup AMALooks like their first SimplePickup account got caught in the spam filter. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:48 AM |
| 2 | We are Simple Pickup AMAWe have a shitty costco camera that we return every 60 days to minimize costs. Epic jewishness right there. I've thought of doing that before but I've never gone through with it. I should ask though, has having a rep for being pickup guys on YouTube netted you any bad results with men or women? | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:42 AM |
| 15 | We are Simple Pickup AMAPost on your Twitter about it. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:32 AM |
| 2 | We are Simple Pickup AMAI can definitely see why it was a better idea to ask these questions individually. People here are answering them for me anyways. So what equipment do you use to film and how do you film it? Do you ever film around places where you're more well-known? Or is it always in locations like Vegas or whatever? | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:30 AM |
| 26 | We are Simple Pickup AMAFeels fantastic man. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:26 AM |
| 8 | We are Simple Pickup AMAYeah, you guys are definitely receiving a lot of popularity for what you do. I'd say this eventually did need to go up somewhere, so good stuff. Your vids went viral as well which is definitely a plus. That flows right into another question of mine, too: how long have you actually been doing it for? How comitted are you to messing around with your game? | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:25 AM |
| 13 | We are Simple Pickup AMAHaha. Sorry man, got a little excited. Your YouTube sessions: how did you start them and what made you decide to? | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:19 AM |
| 11 | We are Simple Pickup AMAWHOO! SimplePickup! Jesse, Kong, and Jason, you guys are really cool. I’m a fan of your material on YouTube and I’ve gotten my brother and my friends in on it as well. The most genius thing I’ve seen you guys implement is the pushup routine because it makes what can be interpreted as a lose-win situation into a win-win one. I’ve been using it for some time now and it motivates me and my wings to go further, even when we’re not monitoring each other. Because this is an AMA though, I want to ask y… | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:12 AM |
| 3 | What does Seddit think about this Guide on Picking up Women? (xPost from LifeProTips)It's great. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 02:00 AM |
| 2 | How to grindADAP. As drrrrrrrrty as possible. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Rejection issues - Inability to be desensitizedWhat about it do you take personally? | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 08:59 AM |
| 1 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Terminator spinoff incoming | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Upcoming AMA with the guys of SimplePickup!4) Cocky funny/wit/humor is it a learned or 'born with' skill? Not sure if serious. | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Are there any Sedditors with successful female social circles?This is how I see a lot of the professional PUAs, actually. I feel the same way to an extent, but I also really just want to build a firm social circle with women for myself. | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Are there any Sedditors with successful female social circles?Getting a large social circle of girls going, is not pickup. I'd argue otherwise if I wasn't so lazy. But yes, I more or less just want some advice for people who are successful with this. | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Good Cracked article with a few scientifically-validated things to increase your attractiveness to the opposite sex.The studies really arent that accurate but they do raise some attention to good points. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Good Cracked article with a few scientifically-validated things to increase your attractiveness to the opposite sex.Yes and you failed it. FAILED IT. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 10:35 PM |
| 2 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.It might be a very comforting activity but I can see how it's considered somethint beta pretty well. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 10:21 PM |
| 2 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Great stuff Fred. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Are there any Sedditors with successful female social circles?No no, I want to date women outside of the social circle. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 03:57 PM |
| 2 | I love women.Is nice! | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I made this flowchart for a quick way to always have something to say. What do you think?I have a much easier flowchart for you. It goes like this. Make a statement expressing your view on a certain activity. Ask her if she enjoys that certain activity. If so, you have a hook. Keep talking about it. If not, make a closing statement and go back to step 1. Seriously, question -> statement -> question is more than enough. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Upcoming AMA with the guys of SimplePickup!Hey gents. I hope you get to this message because I seriously am interested in the business aspects of what you guys do. I'm working on finding a camera right now before starting up a YouTube channel that deals with social experimentation. Something like yours, KassemG's, etc. you know how it is. I just have no idea how to make money from it, though I have some incredible ideas for content. So, how does the scheme work on YouTube? Does it affect your everyday life in any way, aside from the time… | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 12:46 AM |
| 2 | What the hell do I do next?Props for r9k. | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 12:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Met up with a fellow Sedditor to go sarging. Tried the apocalypse opener.You got balls. There is some serious gold here. I should try that arm over shoulders to meet people more often. | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Am I wrong for not talking to someone after being "friendzoned"?No, it's not childish. She is childish for expecting you to stay in a place in her life and very insecure, as well. Good stuff. You could have better handled the situation by holding your frame and agreeing with what she said while amplifying it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Telling a girl who you've known forever that you are very interestedYou have two options. Try and date her while ignoring the fact that you're heavily friendzoned. Good luck and don't complain to Seddit when this doesn't work out. What you would do here would basically tell her your intentions. Break off any sort of communication with her for a few months. We're talking maybe half a year here. Reapproach her and be more sexual. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Telling a girl who you've known forever that you are very interestedIt's okay, I have upvote accounts for this very occassion. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 12:28 AM |
| 2 | All the girls I talk with mention their ex boyfriends a lot. What does it mean?Overanalyzing, though for the most part, you should be cautious of ex-partner conversations. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Alpha response to "It was nice meeting you"?Thanks, it was nice meeting me too. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Really Neil? A board game? :facepalm:$30 is nothing for a board game, bro. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Really Neil? A board game? :facepalm:Because people still share the secret club mindset. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Tried conversation threading and it worked. Here's why I think it helped me.It is just a game. It's a game you play with yourself or others. What it does is that it makes your brain move into a more social thought process. This is what you do. Think of a word. Think of another word immediately afterwards. Simple enough, right? It gets tricky when you try and do it quickly, when you race the words through your head. Try and fit as many words into one minute as possible. Have your eyes closed and actually try it. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 06:09 AM |
| -2 | Really Neil? A board game? :facepalm:y u hatin? I think it's a great idea. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 09:47 PM |
| 13 | Tried conversation threading and it worked. Here's why I think it helped me.Sure. Imagine your friend is driving you somewhere. Your friend is a quiet person and so there isn't any talking between you two. Your mind flutters off pretty often. Word association in this context would be thinking to yourself of a word and then linking it to another word. You can do it out loud or whatever way you'd want to, but the point is, you link words together. It helps get your brain in the social mood. Something like this keyboard key door wood oak pokemon digimon better worse etc. Y… | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 09:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AMOG'd a guy hard and felt cheesed ever since.I reread it and it wasn't clear to me either. I tried to skip a lot of the details yesterday cuz I was still cheesed when I was typing it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 06:45 PM |
| 8 | Tried conversation threading and it worked. Here's why I think it helped me.Yes, conversational threading employs active listening. That's why I practice word association to myself before doing any pickup. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AMOG'd a guy hard and felt cheesed ever since.You're probably right... I'm still very unfamiliar with the application of AMOGing. I did post a response to what I said above though because I could tell it was a little unclear for some folks. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 06:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] AMOG'd a guy hard and felt cheesed ever since.See above. I was a little bit frustrated when I typed this out. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 06:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AMOG'd a guy hard and felt cheesed ever since.I should mention something a few things here. First thing is that I was not drunk in any way. Nada. Zippo. Not even a sip. Second thing is that there were two seperate events that occurred here. 1. We were told to move. So me and my friend did. I pulled the two girls along with us. 2. The bouncer physically pulled and isolated my girl while I was speaking with her after we moved, without asking us to move again or without doing anything security-like. You are correct in saying that I got defensi… | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?Cool. Never thought of it that way. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Command & Conquer WomenAnother article that stuffs everyone into the same misognyistic mindset and exaggerates human interactions. Right... | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?Sounds like you're making a lot of excuses to me. It doesn't matter in the end. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 12:56 AM |
| 13 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?I just thought of this now. Why not agree with their concern and then close them? Something like this. "Hey, you look really cute. direct I know most people generally don't like being approached by guys at a gym reading her mind and agreeing with it and honestly, I just want to get my workout done as well. understanding I'd love to take you out for a coffee in a more social environment though. Can I get your number? close Simple approach. You fail, you fail; so what? Get back benching. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?My club game has been pretty distanced, but yesterday I found myself at a club. The amount of AFCs vs. people actually enjoying themselves and approaching(the approachers mostly consisted of my guys) was astounding. Seriously, I would much rather be someone that's living in the present and having fun while doing so than being the judgemental guy on the sidelines. I know I respect myself a ton more for doing so, as well. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?Yeah. That one line was great. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 11:28 PM |
| 7 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?This is actually one of the more stable definitions I've heard. The reason I asked is because being creepy is mostly defined from someone else's insecurities. Most of the time nowadays, I flip the script, and when I feel someone senses I'm coming off as creepy, I turn them in as being creepy. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Need Help! Competition going on here.DID SOMEONE SAY METAGAEM??? | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Need Help! Competition going on here.That sounds pretty good, actually. It's kinda like a very subtle way of telling a guy to back off or that you're onto what he's saying. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:36 PM |
| 24 | Need Help! Competition going on here.Let go of the competition. Let it go. She'll come onto you more if you do. Don't hang out with her more because you're afraid; hang out with her less because you have better things to do. Also, if he overnegs her, he isn't going very far. Keep your frame and you'll do fine - it seems like he's trying to AMOG you. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:20 PM |
| 16 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?Define creepy. Seriously. Define it for me. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:18 PM |
| -5 | I have no idea how to keep a conversation goingStatement -> question -> statement etc. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 02:15 AM |
| -1 | What has been your experience with Real Social Dynamics?They sell information freely available in psychology textbooks. Bootcamps in general won't help you out beyond some short-term success. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 02:13 AM |
| 12 | Great video on power poses that applies wonderfully to the game (cross post from seddit)I don't get it... you cross-posted this from Seddit... but this is Seddit... Yes it's a cool video with some helpful advice but it's a repost. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a bad idea to tell your girlfriend about being into the Seduction Community?I've done it a few times(hi Amy!). Can't say it's a terrible idea. EDIT: Below...... | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of social circle-related FRs here... Here is a great guide on the difference between circle gaming and cold approachesI agree that there's a bias, but with you're quotes, I feel he's on point. Personally, I know guys who have no game but have a well-developed social circle. Social circle game doesn't require as much game, to be honest, and there are a ton of AFCs involved, simply because they don't understand people very well. I've come to know a lot of possessive friends involved purely with being a social circle game. Why is that? Because social circle is all about rep. Entirely about rep. And what is rep? Re… | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 07:09 PM |
| 2 | MYTH BUSTED: There's NO such thing as the Friend Zone. Get Involved and Expand PerspectiveWhat you are saying is right and correct. I still feel a bit iffy about you ignoring all of our knowledge banks in pursuit of a more proactive change. I'll give you my kudos because I'm a firm believer in proactivity... but proactivity also comes with knowledge and understanding the situation. Though the friendzone is a tough cycle to break out of, again, there are certain laws in play. If you feel that human interactions do not have laws written in stone, that's cool. I'll agree with you. But t… | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 06:11 PM |
| 3 | MYTH BUSTED: There's NO such thing as the Friend Zone. Get Involved and Expand PerspectiveI strongly stand by the idea that there is no such thing as the "friend zone" that guys put themselves into. Well then I would have to say that you don't understand even the most basic interactions between people. I'll agree that the friendzone is a self-fulfilling prophecy, but that is only to an extent. Basic psychological principles determine what we like and what we don't like by what we associate to them. For example, most of us don't like to touch the stove when it's hot because heat burns… | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 07:50 AM |
| 7 | MYTH BUSTED: There's NO such thing as the Friend Zone. Get Involved and Expand PerspectiveThis is another poorly-written article, though it's a small step up from the one that I criticized Cam for writing in the past. Firstly, the title is misleading. You're telling us that there is no friendzone before you admit that there are different categories that we put our relationships into. Your exact statement is: “If you become lovers before friends, than the “lover” role will always take hold over the “friend” role.” So you admit that there is a friend role but your title misleads us to … | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Ever Had a Hot Dog?This Youtube channel is pretty incredible. They have a category for pickup lines FYI. | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 12:26 AM |
| -14 | Let's play a little game: Reframe the person above you.I'm too old for me, too. I'm an incredible talker that can go onto subjects that are both immature and mature. Sometimes it even tears me apart. But hey, I like to be old fashioned with what I say, and I'll be purely honest when I tell you that I really think you're gorgeous. New: Is that your pickup line? | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 11:33 PM |
| 15 | Let's play a little game: Reframe the person above you.I do this in my head a lot. It's on par with word association in many ways. "I'll buy you a drink if you sleep with me. Do we have ourselves a deal?" "Sure. Which would you prefer: water or orange juice?" "Did you know that even a small amount of saliva contains enough testosterone to give you a high? Here, let me show you..." New: You probably have a tiny penis, don't you? (a lot of posts about this recently) | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 11:29 PM |
| 5 | I see a lot of social circle-related FRs here... Here is a great guide on the difference between circle gaming and cold approachesI understand what you're saying, and yeah, the writer does seem to have a bit of a bias against social circle gaming. A lot of what he says though, with focusing on social circle being a limiting factor to your lifestyle, is spot-on though. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 11:10 PM |
| 2 | I see a lot of social circle-related FRs here... Here is a great guide on the difference between circle gaming and cold approachesThe best advice I could give you is to forget about your friends. Your friends, your parents, and your society are not around to look out for your best interest. It might appear that they are but they are only giving you advice from what they learned, which translates to something that holds you back because you aren't them. With that in mind, I don't actually mean fully forget about them... just keep your attitude and your goals independent from their own. It sounds like your friends are limiti… | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 11:09 PM |
| 2 | German Pickup Book: Is "Lob des Sexismus" by Lodovico Satana - is it worth a read? [400 pages]I would like to know about this, as well. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of social circle-related FRs here... Here is a great guide on the difference between circle gaming and cold approachesIt really is a great read. So many people consider social circle game to be the perfect type of game. All you do is lean back and just watch as honies flock to you. Realistically, it's a lot easier, but there are also much less opportunities. There's also the massive shit flinging that happens with every circle of friends. I would really like Chase to address creating your own social circle, though. It seems that with what he says, the entire emphasis is being inside a social circle... what abou… | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Mental Game and Penis SizeNailed it. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 08:26 PM |
| 1 | RSD Infield footage: Tyler pulls (literally) a stunner from a taxithis shows value and inner game aren't insignificant You did not need this video to show you that. This should be true from the very start. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How to determine if someone is single subtlyI don't think it's very supplicating if played off in a funny manner. "Oh my god... you are too funny. You have got to have a boyfriend... right? Right?" raising an eyebrow, long smirk | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I need some sage advice on how to stop overthinking and worrying.Love and peace man. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Not into Asians.. shit test or not?I mean that they don't consciously realize they're shit testing people. I don't know why, but that shouldn't bother you anyways. If you keep your frame you should be fine. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Not into Asians.. shit test or not?Some shit tests aren't consciously used, as in the people using them aren't actually trying to throw you off. In any event, as with all shit tests, just keep your frame and laugh it off. The moment you lose your frame is the moment when you fail the shit test. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 04:29 AM |
| 7 | Being Selfish with State.... or the Importance of a Strong Positive MindsetSo brave | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 04:16 AM |
| 9 | How to determine if someone is single subtlyTry assuming they have a boyfriend and work backwards but not in a way that attacks yourself. "Oh my god... you are too funny. You have to have a boyfriend. Right?" Alternatively, "Your jokes are incredibly terrible. I can understand why you don't have a boyfriend now." | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 03:01 AM |
| 3 | "You're skinny." Suggestions for getting past this shit test?"Thanks. Some people call me that. Others call me MarsPU. Nice to meet you!" Even if it's passed the introduction point, just shake her hand again anyways. She'll smile for it. The biggest way to pass a shit test is to not lose your frame in it. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else have that 'inspiration' or role model almost that they're drawn to?Bruce Lee. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 02:45 AM |
| 4 | I don't live an adventure, what's your status on made up stories?More of this plz. It's not that you don't live an adventure; you aren't choosing to live an adventure. University might tie you up but there are still lots of freedoms inside and around the university campus. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Neil Strauss IAMA on Tuesday Feb 14th 12PM Noon ESTNothing Neil isn't used to with all the years he's been in the game, I'm sure. This still looks to be exciting. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Having a serious chat without turning yourself into a chump and friendzoning yourself.wut | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 06:43 PM |
| 2 | I have a 'condition' that sometimes makes me walk with a limp. How to overcome?Own it. Tell people that you have a hard-on for them. I don't know. | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Tucker Max Gives Up the Game: What Happens When a Bestselling Player Stops Playing?This is really interesting. | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How to speak slower?Every phone has a clock nowadays. Time yourself when you're speaking, either alone or to another individual, to see how quick you're talking. It's the most foolproof and least biased method around and it works amazingly well. When I did telemarketing, I would do this while I was on the phone with someone. My pitch was exactly 30 seconds most of the time. Try and keep it roughly 25 and make sure the non-verbal cues are solid as well. Another method is to time your breathing, because your breathin… | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some subtle signs that most don't notice when they're being AMOG'd?That's pretty related. I am aware my handshake is strange but I like to keep my handshake a little different. I used to do one with my palm down like an original GANG$TA and I jokingly called it the Eagle but I got bored of it really quickly. I feel that having an interesting handshake is a great way to thread off into another conversation as well. But yes, thanks for the heads-up. | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 06:44 PM |
| 1 | halfway there?Fair enough. You win this time, Plasstik! | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 01:59 AM |
| 3 | What are some subtle signs that most don't notice when they're being AMOG'd?The story thing is extremely rude. Nevermind AMOGing, it just makes you look like a complete douchebag. It's happened to me a few times and when it's dead obvious, the guy that walks off looks extremely fake, like he's trying to make a statement. The touching thing, for me, comes naturally, especially when I try to get someone's attention. With that in mind, I think there's a difference between naturally AMOGing someone, as in assuming you belong there, vs. artificially doing it. I know some twa… | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Major break-through, and a helpful quoteI have a good quote in line with what you're saying: Life can only be understood backwards... but must be lived forwards. And even then, it's very easy to mess up the understanding. | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 12:24 AM |
| 1 | halfway there?I disagree because I feel people are irresponsible, and lack of responsibility is what really builds anxiety. The fear of rejection is prevalent with all of us, no matter which way you cut the cake, and that fear leads us to feel less responsible because being responsible for the outcome means that we're in it, whether it be good or bad... and the fear of rejection teaches us to push the bad away. So as a result, it makes us scared of holding ourselves responsible because we might produce bad an… | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Dance floor tips! Awsome ass ! But notice that the guy is just leading... he is almost not moving (dancing) ...Co-people | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 10:21 PM |
| 2 | halfway there?I'm with this. Sorry man but approach anxiety will never, ever leave you. The reason is very simple: we all inhabit society and we're all affected by societal norms. You might be able to push off AA for an hour, a few hours, maybe even a day, but wherever we step, our thoughts, our behaviors, are all governed by what we inhabit. | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Diagnose and help me avoid this Hollywood level clusterf*uck in the future please.Im not sure if between all the kisses she was seeing the other guy or not but I would just chalk it up to her being confused about where you two stand. I feel like their was some sexual tension between you two so I would have jumped at the opportunity to advance the relationship tbh. When she mentioned you just being her friend, its obvious she was either feeling guilty or just wanted more. | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 06:21 PM |
| 6 | A collection of must read articles relating to the psychology behind a lot of pickup theory.Cheers. | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 07:15 AM |
| 2 | SimplePickup on State!I gotta say, that pushup plan is a great, great idea. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Dance floor tips! Awsome ass ! But notice that the guy is just leading... he is almost not moving (dancing) ...That shit cray | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I keep hearing about "not giving a fuck" - How exactly is this possible for anyone to do? Is it just unrealistic?Not giving a fuck is not a myth; it is, however, very poorly propagated in the pickup community, so you are onto something. There are some very good books that delve deeper into this but much of the pickup community is full of people who offer up short-term help, which fuels you for a little while but then runs out after two weeks or so. Not giving a fuck merely means that you don't give a fuck what happens outside of you because you are an internally-validated individual and what you do is righ… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 08:00 PM |
| 2 | I keep hearing about "not giving a fuck" - How exactly is this possible for anyone to do? Is it just unrealistic?This is very much true. You should realize that everyone has different goals. Some guys are just in it to have fun. Personally, I don't consider those guys to be pickup artists by the standard definition... however, it is their goal to have fun, and that is their game plan, so they stick to it. I know guys who try to work on rapport daily because they can attract and seduce but can't build a comfortable stage for the life of them. Some guys aren't even in it to get laid. Again, that is their goa… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I think the seddit community needs to be more aware of this. Beware the new definition of rape.Thank you. Now I can resume grinding in clubs without fear of penetrating women with my knee. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Dance floor tips! Awsome ass ! But notice that the guy is just leading... he is almost not moving (dancing) ...Is that NY Salsa? | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I've found something awesome and I have to share it.have suggested ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 06:06 PM |
| 2 | I've found something awesome and I have to share it.Good stuff. Is it confirmed that our vocal chords stop stretching at 12? I have no issue doing warmups if it does build a deeper voice for myself. My tonsils are still in, as well. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 06:04 PM |
| 13 | I've found something awesome and I have to share it.Always one of these guys. lol | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I've found something awesome and I have to share it.I have lines I rehearse in a mirror. Also, I do some of this in public. It stretches your vocal chords pretty well. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Dance floor tips! Awsome ass ! But notice that the guy is just leading... he is almost not moving (dancing) ...What are you talking about? That guy is totally moving. Notice at the beginning, he started off with a high energy dance - taking up a lots of space while having a springy step. Even after he hooks in the girl, he still continues to hold moderately high energy. He's just confident with his dancing skills. He really doesn't do anything exotic and he doesn't seem too knowledgable with the dance itself(probably wrong here)... I notice him incorporating some hiphop into his basic two-step routine. H… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How to become a less boring person?Do what you love and love what you do. | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Seduction should be supplemented with /NoFapDon't get me wrong, dude. I agree; more studies do need to be done with this sort of shit. But really, that doesn't mean we should go all out and say that blowing your load has nothing to do with motivation. We know a lot about testosterone already, although, yeah, more needs to be said as well. | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 10:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First f-close, okcupid ONSFucking yes man. Yes. | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Seduction should be supplemented with /NoFapNo, it's called science. When you cum, your brain releases testosterone, which is linked to motivation. Also, again, dopamine; the dopamine output of your brain is one of the highest when you cum because it's such a pleasurable experience. Just because you don't understand how something works does not mean you should dismiss it. EDIT: Here, I just found this site for you. It's ironically related to this subreddit as well. There are clear studies cited there which connect jerking off to motivatio… | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 09:14 PM |
| 1 | 22/f here, just thought I'd let you know some things that have worked for me recently if anyone's interestedJudging by your tl;dr, this is really nothing new at all. | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Seduction should be supplemented with /NoFapwww.yourbrainonporn.com has quite a few studies, actually. Some of which aren't entirely relating to fapping on porn but just fapping in general. But even before citing that, we also talk about living a healthy lifestyle and doing things that you love. Do you think that women notice that you went snowboarding yesterday instead of sitting in front of the computer to watch YouTube videos? Or that you even decide to practice pickup rather than just read about it? Yes. Yes they do. Everything we do … | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 10:14 PM |
| 1 | New Philosophy on AAThis is a cool theory, and I might look into it, but you should realize that buying cars, fashion, etc. is not all directed towards getting laid. Some guys do use materials to convince themselves that it leads them on the road to getting an easier lay but many of us also do it merely for ourselves and because we set a goal to do it in the first place. It's a dangerous and unhealthy mindset to be in - the chasing one - but that doesn't mean exists in every situation where a man purchases somethin… | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 10:11 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of my game?We can't judge your game from one single vague interaction. | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Talk to everyone. Seriously.Yeah, I was going to go with this. The truth is, the abundance mentality is great. Having fun is great. But there is a difference between being outcome independent and being goal oriented. Time is the only element on this planet that will not return to us. When we're on the field, we should have goals that we plan to achieve. Being happy, lively, and in the moment might aid us in achieving those goals but that should not distance us from them. If you don't use your time appropriately, you will n… | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 03:21 AM |
| 1 | The truth about pickupThis is a really good link. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 05:53 AM |
| -1 | The truth about pickupThis is another half-assed article based off a full-length self-help book, where the author tries to teach you something - in this case, principles - but realizes he can't within a small blog post. So we're all left scratching our heads. Read The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People to understand what this guy is going on about. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Beautiful BaristaI'm with Frogma here. Man the fuck up and ask her out. She doesn't have the time to talk is a huge excuse. What is she doing with that time? Talking to others? So why not be one of those others? You should make the time. There is no right moment but the present and if she's constantly looking at you, then she wants you to talk to her. You know what that means? She wants you to make time. Here, let me make it easy for you. Go to the front and, before you even order whatever sort of French-inspire… | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Responding to "How was your day/weekend" questionNot at all. It's very direct. If you don't want to talk about a certain subject, why not cut the thread altogether? Not only will it catch her off guard but may even make her laugh. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Responding to "How was your day/weekend" questionCut it. "What a boring question. I have a better one: _____ ?" something more interesting | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:40 AM |
| 1 | A quick reminder as to why you're here....Terrible reason for being downvoted, though I'm used to it at this point. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:36 AM |
| 2 | A quick reminder as to why you're here....Really can't understand why I was downvoted, yet my first comment was upvoted. Saint947 has the right idea though. We're all here, on this planet, forever. There is no going around it - we can't just magically run off to fantasy land. Regardless of how we feel, society is all of our home and our responsibility. That's what Mr. Burns is pointing to there - Remember, you're here forever. Because realistically, you are. So why not make the best of it? A lot of the shit pickup teaches helps us becom… | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Forever Alone comes to seddit - Ask Us AnythingConfidence--even fake confidence--doesn't materialize without some kind of reinforcement, whether it's through accomplishments or affirmation from others Dude, it does. Trust me. Set aside Seddit material, from reading a fuckload of self-help books, one of the patterns you will find is that fake it 'til you make it does work. Sedditor btw | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 10:49 PM |
| 6 | Question for all Sedditors in their 30s and beyond.He mad. | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Question for all Sedditors in their 30s and beyond.I know a few guys down here who are 30+. A lot of them are involved with other activities outside of night game, like learning the salsa or improv school. | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many pickup artists "sketchy?"You're barely scratching the surface of what I'm saying, though. I know most of the pickup shit is in-field training. It's about breaking fears to make way for good habits. There's just certain patterns that I noticed with pickup artists, though, such as being a life coach, which doesn't have a very good outlook right now. I hear pickup artists advocate having great social circles with women and loving them, yet from my small judgement, I can't see that as being true at all. Can you teach me pok… | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 05:31 AM |
| -12 | A quick reminder as to why you're here....If you can't see how it's related to Seddit, then, well, you just might be a redneck. On a serious note, it's actually very related to pickup. | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 04:25 AM |
| 34 | A quick reminder as to why you're here....http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Fn3kbamkPAs/TsPD1GkmxzI/AAAAAAAABQk/WvwBCtc9ONg/s1600/Here%2BForever.jpg http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l9fp1kB7rU1qdyw3oo1_500.jpg | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 03:27 AM |
| 7 | 13 year old girl explains why slut shaming is wrong. This is pretty insightful.Nevermind her brains; she has the voice of someone destined to be on stage. | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Top Ten Mistakes to Avoid in your 20sI wasn't aware of that, no. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Top Ten Mistakes to Avoid in your 20sI live in Canada. Our tuitions will tell you to fuck off and back. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 03:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fooling around with huge cans Asian right at the bar, no closeSincere compliments are good. Fake ones are bad. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Top Ten Mistakes to Avoid in your 20sCorrect, but I still believe it to be bad advice in the way that it's phrased. Not completing a formal education in itself is very vague and there are so many other factors to consider, such as, again, the tuition fee. Rushing into college is a bad decision and a terrible waste of time. Mind you, I didn't actually watch the video, so if the speaker actually expands on the points, I might be off. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Be this guy seddit!That's what I thought the first time it was posted. ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Seriously though... Conversation topics?Lol@ the downvotes. White knights from earlier are still around, huh? | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Top Ten Mistakes to Avoid in your 20sNot-so-good advice: Not completing a formal education. Formal education should be, at this point in the west, a choice. Plenty of successful people don't have formal educations. With the rising tuition fees, they're becoming less and less feasible. I don't want to debate about it here but I found this point pretty useless. Aside from that, good work. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Seriously though... Conversation topics?I've begun using "tell me something interesting about yourself." Works pretty well or it isn't worth pursuing. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Turning down girls, and how to do it in a gentlemanly way.No. It makes you seem too work professional if you just use that term. You want to come off the guy that haves fun at work, not the guy that doesn't do shit because it's too "unprofessional." Maybe delivering that line with a wink or just outright yelling "SO YOU'RE ASKING ME OUT?!" before closing. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 01:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] easy pickup line that could probably work for anyoneYou mad. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 11:20 PM |
| 8 | As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected.I love that comic. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 03:19 PM |
| 2 | As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected.I think the internet loves the friendzone because the internet simply loves to bitch. Seriously, take a look at most of the larger memes that spawned from the internet - most of them are from people being reactive and whiny individuals. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 03:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Night club Hb9 and a Hb6 Friend. Last minute obstruction from a amog/chode. Need adviceAMOG/chode This is very easy to deal with. If he's a chode, he shouldn't be a very strong AMOG; just dethrone the guy. Act like you run the place. It shouldn't be too much of an issue... from what it sounds like, he's a typical AFC with very little game. What did the focus shift to, exactly? If you were on top of your game, the focus should have still been on you. You shouldn't let anything determine your interaction because otherwise, you're just being reactive. You want to be proactive. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 03:07 PM |
| -3 | As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected.That's what I thought. It's annoying to believe that there's still attitudes like that in the pickup community. This might be tough to believe but not everyone is out to get you. People who use friendzoning tactics are not criminals; they are people with a goal in mind that use a very simple and avoidable tactic to place people in a certain place in their lives. Again, this goes back to the internet antagonizing people who consciously move others in a certain aspect of their lives. Remind me why… | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 02:38 PM |
| -2 | As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected.Can you explain this a little more and how it connects to OP? | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 02:30 PM |
| 14 | As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected.I have something I want to point out immediately to you, Seddit, and for however many other Redditors read this. Quit bitching about the friendzone. (Not directed to OP) You let yourself get put in there based on your interaction. There is nothing actually wrong with being in the friendzone and if you have a problem with it, feel free to do something about it. There's this huge fear about being in the friendzone on Reddit and most of the internet that it's ridiculous at this point. Being in the … | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a list of good interactions with peopleEvernote is releasing a bunch of other productivity apps too, though. They haven't gotten to Android yet, but for the iPhone, they have one for storing contacts and for cooking. It's probably one of the few actual teams I trust right now. Haven't had a look at workflowy yet. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Missed a (rare) booty call because my phone was out of batteries.I actually googled booty pager and came across this treasure http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XOCHLYBaJuY Looks like someone's trying to be famous. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 03:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How to run club game.I wasn't. Like I said, I was too involved with my own self-amusement. | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Read this, "A Serial Seducer". Count how many times you nod in agreement with what he says...Nod? Fuck that. We should make a drinking game outta this guy! His body language is spot on and his game feels really secure. He's direct with his shit so it's good. Lol@the Halloween music being played when he gasp mentioned he has no emotional attachment. EDIT: "You can't just assume that everyone's going to be responsible for their own feelings and for their actions." ... | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 07:39 PM |
| 1 | All you need to know....What the fuck was with that handshake he gave the girl in the end? | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 07:31 PM |
| 13 | Keeping a list of good interactions with peopleThumbs up for Evernote. This fucking app. | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Your introduction. 25 words or less. GoIt's not commenting on looks; he's commenting on the situation he sees. It's different than saying I like your blazer. | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 07:42 PM |
| 40 | On being a Gentleman. [My tried and true, field-tested routine that has changed my life, and my success with women]I like your view on what is a gentlemen but I feel your post is heavily, heavily biased and too unreliable in that respect. I was reading your point on how you antagonized personal gainers and laughing to myself at how terrible you make it seem. Being a cocky-funny individual does not immediately set you in the frame of a personal gainer. Too much bs cluttered your point up. | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 07:29 PM |
| 14 | On being a Gentleman. [My tried and true, field-tested routine that has changed my life, and my success with women]Nature vs. Nurture is a false dichotomy. Just came here to say this, though it seems like you're misrepresenting the debate between the two. | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Job TitlesNasty. | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 07:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "Do you drink or do drugs?"You failed her shit test. She was checking to see if you two were compatible as well but you gave into her reality and lost your edge. How did the other tests go though? | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Fun times on New Years Eve FR!I edited the post. I'm at a coffee shop right now so it comes and goes, haha. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Fun times on New Years Eve FR!I sat in a chair at the same time she did, so we were sitting next to each other on the same chair at the head of the table. This immediately set us at a competitive vibe. Naturally, to make myself more comfortable, I put my arm over her shoulder. Eventually she got up to sit somewhere else but I didn't bother chasing her. She came back and sat beside me in a different chair and that's when I took her hand and told her I could read hands. I made it sexual with her, telling her this line on her h… | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to be called stuff like "Babe?"I do it anyways. Works fine for me. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 07:23 AM |
| 4 | 3 key points to improveThat's a good choice. In the past, I would like to act as a Sinatra myself. I think it's a good idea to take some traits from characters you like or dislike but it's more important to build core traits that you know will help you. Those would be the fundamental building blocks for building a good personality. And remember that you're actually going to sit yourself down and take a good look at yourself. You can tell us who you want to be all you want but you should convince yourself first and for… | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 06:41 PM |
| 1 | I used to be excellent with girls.You're victimizing yourself. Really, you are. I know because I've been in that situation before. I've had days, weeks, where I was impressing myself day by day, and at the end of the week, I would look back at my achievements and remind myself how fucking boss I am Then the next week would be a slump. And maybe the next. And then finally, I would feel myself getting results again and that my game was coming back. I realize now that I was just making myself a bitch of my own circumstances. I was … | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 06:37 PM |
| 5 | 3 key points to improveConfidence will come naturally the more you approach. I suggest you to set down some time this week for inward reflection. Make a description of the character you want to be and from that, create mission notes. Mission notes are like points for your character; for example, one of my mission notes reads MarsPU will be decisive in his everyday interactions and will take the initiative to act without being acted upon. Make sure you're being honest with yourself in your self-reflection and when you … | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck, now in 1920*1080 wallpaper form. (Non-imgur-raped version in comments)Cam, listen, I really didn't like your blog post at all. I haven't looked at any of your other posts but if they all read the same way, I would recommend you quit blogging until you have more experience. Blogging is a great way to give advice but if you give the wrong advice, you can just as easily push people in the wrong direction. but it was actually me thinking through my own reaction at the time I know. I understand your blog post really well. You were being a reactive individual as opposed… | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Getting over small penis size. I am dead serious, please help.Compensate. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 06:17 AM |
| 1 | are we slowly coming to the conclusion that "game" doesn't exist?It depends on how you define it. I feel game very well exists, though. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 06:13 AM |
| 2 | You Lack Discipline!This is average, though helpful, advice. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 06:12 AM |
| 7 | A Rough Look at the Evolution of a Ladies ManI read this from a forum once: Stage 1 is being an AFC. Limiting beliefs, lack of approaches, etc. very straightforward stuff. Stage 2 is being an asshole. You're learning your boundaries and you should expect a few hiccups along the way. Going too far is common here as you get lost in your own self-interest rather than paying attention to social cues, which, whether you like to admit it or not, are naturally in effect and should be taken advantage of for maximum benefit. Stage 3 is being well-c… | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 06:35 PM |
| 1 | New here. New Years Eve experience. Probably not that interesting.Oh. Haha, as long as it was energetic and space-consuming, man! Good job! | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 06:32 PM |
| 1 | New here. New Years Eve experience. Probably not that interesting.Well you got a kiss close so that's cool. What kinda whacky dancing? | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 04:39 PM |
| 3 | I made a timeline of my progressThis is really neat. Funny how you started getting laid when you found Seddit haha. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Chase-Away Sexual Selection: Antagonistic Seduction Versus ResistanceThis is actually a pretty short article. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else considered chinese height increasing surgery?Here's the thing, though: height can just as well be a placebo for being more confident. I'm not denying your studies because I've seen them as well and I know height does make you more attractive but being tall brings in confidence, and that confidence could very well be more of the reason why taller guys are more successful. | /r/seduction | 01/01/12 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else considered chinese height increasing surgery?This is true, though as a factor, it can just as easily be bypassed through other factors. | /r/seduction | 01/01/12 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Game in class vs game at barsHitting on girls at bars does not necessarily imply they are drunk. Also, the actions of a gentlemen are terribly distorted at this stage of our society. | /r/seduction | 01/01/12 07:26 PM |
| 3 | HAPPY 2012, SEDDIT!! Let's hear some of your pickup 2012 resolutions!I'm picking up a membership at the YMCA at the beginning of January. Any suggestions for lifting routines? I don't want to run the Rippetoe but I don't mind continuing from where I left off. Read The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People. It addresses exactly what you're talking about and it's a very good and motivating read. Time is the only element of life we can't get back. Remember that. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 09:33 PM |
| 1 | HAPPY 2012, SEDDIT!! Let's hear some of your pickup 2012 resolutions!Always a valuable goal. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Simple mind-frame.Yup. All pickup really is is setting goals and planning. What do you want out of it? Are you attracting the girls you want? Are you living the life you want? etc. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Awesome FR from workThe way I see it is that it actually creates an artificial barrier between her and you, and, yes, confuses her in that sense. I was just at a coffee shop and with a completely straight face, I began asking about the brownies. Nuts? Yes. Vanilla? Not sure. Volcanic ash? ...what? Because I'm a regular at the place, they knew I was kidding around, but by keeping a straight face yet joking around, you create this artificial barrier and almost place yourself on a pedestal. The people you talk to ofte… | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "nice voice"gag gag | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "nice voice"lold | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid being too "clownish"?I AM AQUALAD | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Re-learning game, first approach tonight. Need advice.Classy as fuck. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Movie's CanceledGood call. Draw a line and make it clear. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:20 PM |
| 2 | anybody know where to find that confidence wallpaper???OH NPH | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Guys, Is There A Way To Shut The Switch "Off"?He is right. Why should you feel bad because someone is jelly of your skills? I don't even mean to insult your brother or anything but why should he be upset because you're being you? | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 07:58 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you just can't think of anything to talk about? (Or anything interesting at all)If nothing interests you anymore, it sounds like you have a mile case of depression, yes. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Attitude Calibration and Balance PointsRemember, outcome independence is different than being goal-oriented. You should be goal-oriented in all aspects of life and you should achieve your goals without any interference. Sometimes being outcome-independent can be used as a justification for us not being true to ourselves. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Simple mind-frame.Pickup principles - openining, transitioning, attracting, etc. - are really based on the principles of sales - open, transition, build interest of the product, etc. - which are really just based on ordinary human interaction principles. With that said, I don't believe the best route is to just act like you do when you are trying to get your friends to laugh because you will just come off as a dancing monkey. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 07:02 PM |
| 1 | THIS is how you seduce a woman.Kassem doesn't throw around very much sarcasm. He just has an incredible poker face, which is pretty well essential for YouTube comedy. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 06:53 PM |
| 9 | THIS is how you seduce a woman.The immediate frame he presents himself in is the interviewer. He's the one holding the mic, asking the questions, and hosting the show. That shows that he has the power. It's a huge vertical advantage for the guy. Why do you think in his interview shows and with SimplePickup, the girls are the ones that end up being awkward, while the guys hold the interaction control? On top of that, who knows if this is scripted. I've seen all of his other episodes with Going Deep and I'm not sure if it's scr… | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck, now in 1920*1080 wallpaper form. (Non-imgur-raped version in comments)It's a terrible blog post. I feel sorry for anyone who takes it to heart. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Awesome FR from workMind elaborating, ShittyPUA? | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Simple Pick-Up gets girls as NERDS!They've admitted they don't get laid very much from the closes and most of them are flakes. It's mostly for entertainment purposes. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Top 10 PUAs of 2011Good list. That cartoon of Arash reminds me of a friend of mine who used to get laid a lot around here... lol | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Awesome FR from workUrban... planet? | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Awesome FR from workKeeping a poker face works wonders. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 05:02 PM |
| 6 | Good response to "You're cute"?Thanks. Let's fuck. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Awesome FR from workIt was a black chick. She was maybe 20. She was in urban hot clothing. The way I was acting - flirting but with a serious expression - made her find me cute(she told another employee I was). We did most of the interaction around the change room area and so when she said bye I gave a hug and she groped me. I could have definitely escalated, though I don't regret not doing so. I was at work. I didn't even bother #closing her. I was having fun with other employees as well. There was barely any kino… | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck, now in 1920*1080 wallpaper form. (Non-imgur-raped version in comments)Anything can be easily misinterpreted. I understood this loud and clear and my post was merely a reflection of what I felt when I read it and not entirely a response to yours. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Awesome FR from workOne word away... that was really close, though. Holy shit. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Awesome FR from workIt hasn't missed a beat yet for me. Enjoy man! | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Awesome FR from workGet to know the people you work with at least a little. Joke with them. It'll make your stay less stressful guaranteed. I view The Game as a game sometimes and some people I use as objectives: bartenders, coworkers, etc. all easy state. High fiving works really well. Ask to check people's IDs when you're in the fitting room and then tell them you're kidding when they clam up. Ask people how it looks, tell them how it looks and what you think... just some things I use. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Awesome FR from workIt's actually a very dramatic environment, but I work at a retail store targetted towards a young demographic. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Stop giving a fuck, now in 1920*1080 wallpaper form. (Non-imgur-raped version in comments)This post is a good example of someone who looks at a poster and takes the meaning a completely different route. This post actually has very little assholery or narcissism embedded into it. Allow me to elaborate each of the points it makes to show you a less-egotistical way of viewing it: I don't want or need validation - NOT I only listen to myself - What this means is that I don't require validation from outside sources because I am self-validated individual. It shows that you are proactive, y… | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck, now in 1920*1080 wallpaper form. (Non-imgur-raped version in comments)A little narcissism is ok; being a narcisstic individual overall is actually a really bad choice of behaviors. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Stop giving a fuck, now in 1920*1080 wallpaper form. (Non-imgur-raped version in comments)I went through your blog post about three times now and I still feel just as annoyed as when I began it. Firstly, your "epiphany" sounds like you just had a twig stuck up your ass at that very moment. I don't mean to sound rude or obnoxious but that's exactly what it sounds like. Yeah, I guess there is a problem with making noise and having fun in a public place; you're right, Cam. It is a little inappropriate to do so. So your friends were playing around and you got irritated and told them to s… | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Stop giving a fuck, now in 1920*1080 wallpaper form. (Non-imgur-raped version in comments)At first, I felt this wallpaper was a little narcissistic. Then I read I am no better than anyone else and I now have it on my phone. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Travel Bum episode 2 question...Agree and amplify. The moment you make something negative, the moment it actually gets there. Ignoring it is also an option but why bother ignoring such a flexible and fun topic? | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Zarathustra (Nietzsche) on Chasing vs. AttractingBut doing all that in the sake of someone else will pull you back into the same slump you started. You should do it for yourself if you plan to see any long-term improvement. That's the core of onebit's point, I believe: if you attract for the sake of attracting, you're simply licking at the heels of others. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I'm confused on how to model my game.A lot of RSD's inner game is essentially mental masturbation, though. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm confused on how to model my game.Everything. Accepting responsibility means that I also have to accept responsibility for my poor decisions, as well. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm confused on how to model my game.The core of the problem, as I'm learning, is that I'm afraid to accept responsibility for myself, both in the past, present, and future. Obviously this ties into my OP question. It's not possible to stay 100% happy, mind you. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Innovate. Revolutionize. Challenge Every Conventional PU Theory You Run Across.In return, if you do question every theory that comes you're way, you'll be more willing and open to try them for yourself, thus earning you experience. | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Since I've been aware of state I can't get into it that easily. I've tried everything... Can you guys help me out?Personally I feel that the term state is killing the game ot many men. The way it's used in the community is almost like powering up in a TV show like Dragon Ball Z or something: "AAAAH I'M SUPER SAIYAN NOW I CAN DEFEAT THE ENEMY". Yet when we're not in state? Everyone uses it as an easy escape. | /r/seduction | 24/12/11 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else watching porn but not masturbating, before workouts, or going out?I know you were joking a little but studies have shown than porn does indeed increase fitness performance. | /r/seduction | 24/12/11 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Benefits of Delusional ConfidenceA lot of what the author suggests to be delusional confidence really isn't that delusional. To give some examples, anyone can be attractive in today's society, the bad boy approach - though very attractive - is not the only way to attract others, and realistically, anyone can make the right situation to approach people. That's not being delusional; that's understanding the circumstances and being responsible for them and yourself. With that said, though there are some benefits to delusional conf… | /r/seduction | 20/12/11 10:53 PM |
| 1 | If any of your wingmen are being assholes, please don't stand for their shit, Seddit. [Questions with dealing with those with an inflated ego]No. He was an asshole because his ego was over-inflated and he was putting up an incredible front. A lot of what he said was bullshit as well. | /r/seduction | 20/12/11 06:04 AM |
| 1 | If any of your wingmen are being assholes, please don't stand for their shit, Seddit. [Questions with dealing with those with an inflated ego]That's what I mean. Having taken a small management course myself, I know their are proper ways to manage people to get desired results. There are also ways to demotivate people if you try to manage them the wrong way. I told C that what he was saying was right, that we should question our beliefs, etc. but he was going about it the wrong way. He didn't want to listen. Your friend was upfront and it reflected on your group nature, I'm sure. You probably pulled him up later as well. | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 06:07 PM |
| 0 | If any of your wingmen are being assholes, please don't stand for their shit, Seddit. [Questions with dealing with those with an inflated ego]The thing was, he was doing most of the talking with women. When we didn't approach, he would call us on it but in a negative way. Again, the message he was trying to get out was right but he put it out in a pretending asshole kinda way. I was enjoying my time, even when I wasn't approaching, because I was trying to have good conversations with him and B. I had to give a little of a fuck when B and C got into a fight because I wanted to keep our group together, so I felt both had the right answe… | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Post about being alpha in r/exmormonIt's solid game, don't get me wrong. Unfortunately though, solid game like that is not very realistic nor is it efficient in everyday situations. I'm definitely going to look into some classic James Bond after reading that, though. | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Post about being alpha in r/exmormonThis is a good post but all the guy talks about is how to act. You need to carry around an inside attitude to accompany your actions as well. Otherwise, behaving a certain way won't take you very far, you'll break down under the right pressure, and you won't make any good improvements in your life. Good analysis no less. EDIT: I can only imagine acting like this to cause more problems than solutions anyways. Sure, you can tell every "parasitic social interaction" to fuck off, or you can choose t… | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 10:17 PM |
| 0 | I'm a natural at everything, except opening. Give me a hand?Write your own openers and mess around with them. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Tyler mentioned some books every pua should read, what would you guys recommend?Though I don't doubt the power of NLP, I think that it's as close to a book ever PUA should read as Tyler is to being a PUA(not very close). I think a lot of the self-help books outside of the pickup community - How to Win Friends & Influence People, Laws of Power, 7 Habits of Successful People - are much better suited for these things. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Ungeneric ways to achieve REAL innergameReal inner game isn't the inner game preached in this community. Sorry. Real inner game takes long, deep work. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 08:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First FR since OctoberWow. That red dress set sounds like it was really an adventure. I can really feel that salsa move you did with her - something I can definitely relate to. On a different note, I'm glad to hear that you're back on the field, man. How often are you going out right now? I just got back from Jamaica and am looking for some guys to practice with. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Please stop with the inner vs. outer game bullshit; it's a false dichotomy to begin with.I started off with that because when I first posted this thread, replied with tl;dr semantics and I got real cheesed. I reposted this and made sure to let people know where the semantics bit ends. I have a clear argument against it and it is right here: Unfortunately, for game and seduction, there is nothing but inner game, and inner game described in the pickup community is very shallow. Mind you, I'm not incredibly adept at writing articles, so I appreciate the criticism. Though I have to say,… | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Please stop with the inner vs. outer game bullshit; it's a false dichotomy to begin with.Because most of my post was just a regurgitation of a book I've been chewing on called The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People, Google has a lot to say about this. Here's a great summary of the difference between the two: Personality Ethic vs. Character Ethic Covey identified these common habits of successful people while working on his doctorate. While studying writings and literature about success from the preceding 200 years, he found that in the last half of the 20th century literature … | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Please stop with the inner vs. outer game bullshit; it's a false dichotomy to begin with.I didn't call them useless terms... what are you on about? I said that they're a false dichotomy. That's a huge difference from me outright saying they're useless. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Please stop with the inner vs. outer game bullshit; it's a false dichotomy to begin with.Thanks. I've been trying to improve my article writing and am looking for some criticism. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Please stop with the inner vs. outer game bullshit; it's a false dichotomy to begin withIf you read past my first few paragraphs, you'd realize what I'm describing is beyond semantics. But hey, thanks for being a complete asshole and throwing my thread off the first page. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How to Dance, even if you're normally clumsy and uncoordinatedMaster the two step and you are set. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Luck is an AttitudeI think they just switched it around to make it seem more interesting and add the "ohh!" factor. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Luck is an AttitudeSynonymous | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 07:25 AM |
| 20 | Luck is an AttitudeConclusion: Italians make shit happen. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Guys, we need to talk about this. Women should be treated like innocent children who need to be protected and sheltered from big bad men.I was the 99% for a little while. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 03:23 AM |
| 31 | Guys, we need to talk about this. Women should be treated like innocent children who need to be protected and sheltered from big bad men.Call me a moron but I can't understand the point of this thread. I'm sensing sarcasm but I'm not sure in which direction. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.Very good read. I'm planning on a short writeup like this soon, as well. I just can't figure out the best way to make it sound interesting. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Um. I think I just got negged? (I'm a stripper.) Does this technique ever actually work on anyone?Sounds like he was just being weird to me. Sometimes, we say the weirdest things when we feel awkward in the situation. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 07:35 PM |
| 3 | A Natural's ProgressionBut with that ego, you did great things! Having so much outcome dependency is probably one of the leading reasons you made so many strategies around women. How is your ego now, though? Has it boiled down? Have you addressed the inner issues that were around? | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone know what I'm talking about here?What you're describing is what everyone goes through. Any sort of material we suggest could be related to it but I'd much rather tell you to go out and make the ideal you into the real you. | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 10:27 PM |
| 8 | A Natural's ProgressionGreat, great report, man. I really enjoyed reading it. It was easy to follow and understand. It looks like you have a solid game under your belt - you seem to have recorded a journal of some sort, be it on paper or in your head. That's awesome for reports like this. With that popular one you dated back in high school, did you get laid? You mentioned that it was your first real dry run but you didn't mention what came of your interaction between you two. You are dead-on about that point by the wa… | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Saw this in the Louis CK AMA, thought it was applicable to seduction as well.You know, even though Louis C.K. seems like a laughable lunatic on stage, he's actually a really deep, influential person. I've been reading some of his other responses, as well. | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 02:51 AM |
| 2 | The looks matter / don’t matter controversy. My 2 cents (from a 6’3 black guy’s perspective)You do. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 11:49 PM |
| 2 | The looks matter / don’t matter controversy. My 2 cents (from a 6’3 black guy’s perspective)Rise or fall to the challenge. The choice is yours. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 10:24 PM |
| 1 | The looks matter / don’t matter controversy. My 2 cents (from a 6’3 black guy’s perspective)This is some good shit, Devin. Thankfully, in today's society, looks have never been easier to manipulate aside from straight genetic predispositions. "External" looks rely on "inner" game. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I'm tired of one night stands. Have you reached a moment of disillusionment when at first sex was all you were after then realized that it always felt empty in the end?That's a great way of putting it. Always looking forward to reading your progression posts, Frogma. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How many of you would like am IAMA with 1 or all 3 of the guys from SimplePickUp?Every AMA is flooded with those questions. Also, I don't think the community is taken very seriously in the first place. The Game should be taken fairly lightly. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 05:33 PM |
| 5 | How much fashion matters?To use a poorly-supported example | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:33 PM |
| 7 | How much fashion matters?Fashion helps anyone's game by incredibly amounts. Here's the thing that many people miss out on, though: fashion is entirely dependent on your inner game. Just as everyone has their own game, everyone has their own fashion. To use a poorly-supported example, if you feel like a badass person, you're more likely to wear jeans. Likewise, if you feel more introverted, you might pick from clothes that don't bring you to be the center of attention. This comes into play when you understand what dressi… | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Analyzing a scene from ShameIt was a little over a top, yeah haha | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 05:51 AM |
| 1 | The Moment I Realized I Was Wrong about Everything (Not a sob story)If you honestly realized you were wrong about everything, I can guarantee that your lack of confidence with yourself will come and bite you back in the ass. You can't be wrong about everything and even exaggerating your opinions to that point makes you look really inconfident. That said, not giving a fuck is terrible advice. You should give at least somewhat of a fuck because otherwise, blurry goals will lead to blurry progress and you will fall back into a depressive slump. If you have a goal y… | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 12:08 AM |
| 1 | 7 day trip to Jamaica: No women no cry [FR]It was a more popular kind of dance with tons of people from my city. What about this doesn't surprise you, though? My attitude towards the vacation? The events? Also, the other group was from our city. We were all from the same city. That's what made this so shitty; it's not that our chances were completely 0, it's that they were there, but everyone was too shellshocked to move. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Analyzing a scene from ShameI really like these scene analysis posts. I posted one a little while back on the Lion King but went a little off topic and got downvoted off the front page. Anyways, might I suggest making a YouTube video with annotations of it? It's a lot better to watch that way. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Really nice rejection.It definitely gives value, and because I don't know the situation, I left an if in there: if he's a guy that typically beats himself down. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Really nice rejection.It gives value and helps the guy pick himself up if he's a guy that typically beats himself down. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Really nice rejection.To be honest, the really nice rejections that I've found are really the meanest ones. Let's be real here: she rejected you nicely because you came off as a nice person. That sounds like a very considerate rejection but it doesn't sound like the ones you should be shooting for. Harsher blowouts mean ladies aren't going to sugar-coat their responses because they want to hurt your feelings. Plus they're more fun to bounce. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Why you don't need a social life to fuck hot girls.I know a lot of people aren't feeling this video much, but with a good-looking brother who doesn't have a great social life but still gets girls on his dick, I can attest to his point... if he has one. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 06:17 AM |
| 1 | 7 day trip to Jamaica: No women no cry [FR]Alpha male of group. He was a really aggressive guy but he apologized to me and my brother later on, which is really cool. The tension between us vs. them still stayed though. This one bitch even through her beer at my shirt. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Amy Cuddy on Power PosesIt's posts like this that make me visit Seddit. Great material. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Is it okay to walk up to random girls and ask them out?How do you make small text? | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Bridging the Gap between Guys and Girls: The Cheese CallIt's someone that they want to lay, to my knowledge, and not someone trying to get a ONS with a girl. Think of it as a girl trying to ONS a guy. | /r/seduction | 29/11/11 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Bridging the Gap between Guys and Girls: The Cheese CallIt's definitely not a phone call. Sometimes, women will point out a guy to other women and say "cheese call." | /r/seduction | 29/11/11 07:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful wingman is successful, with guest Cajun & TenMagnetYeah. As the phrase goes in sales, agree, bounce, close. In pickup, agree and amplify, I guess. | /r/seduction | 29/11/11 02:28 AM |
| 2 | "Talk to everyone" has started hurting meThe problem isn't with the phrase, it's with your use of it. Advice should always be taken with a grain of salt and tailored to your personal situation. No one piece of advice will ever work for everyone. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful wingman is successful, with guest Cajun & TenMagnetI think it's time you backed off, Kumar. I didn't just avoid kissing her because of the attractive frame bit. The frame did get a little too my head but that was mostly because I don't remember being in a frame like that before, where I'm the one being immediately chased, so I was for the most part testing the waters. But anyways, firstly, I just really didn't find her too attractive. I wasn't driven to kiss close her but I had fun flirting with her. I wasn't playing hard to get; I gave her valu… | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 07:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful wingman is successful, with guest Cajun & TenMagnetI felt that way, yeah. There's a bit of subtle pointers here and there within the interaction that I didn't include obviously but it did feel like she tried to throw me in that category. I should have bounced it anyways. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 07:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful wingman is successful, with guest Cajun & TenMagnetMy statement was made on a reflex... as in, I actually didn't even think about what I was going to say. It was a bad choice on my part, agreed, but it was also pretty interesting to note her response. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 07:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful wingman is successful, with guest Cajun & TenMagnetI haven't read about pickup for some time, to be honest with you, especially since my harddrive smoked up on me. It was literally a reflex that made me say that. Generally, I wouldn't say something like that at all but I just said it without actually thinking but I consciously noticed her response to it. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 07:40 PM |
| 5 | [Basics] Lurkers, it's time to man up and sarge.Holy fuck. 2000 sets, huh? Where'd you pull that number from? | /r/seduction | 24/11/11 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Just give value, man.Tl;dr messed it up | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Just give value, man.Can't edit the msg on my phone. It has nothing to do with losing your standards or falling below your own personal bar. You give out compliments to what you like, not to what they want you to. If its genuine, you wouldnt need to compromise yourself in anyway. | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Just give value, man.Everything you are saying is correct but there is one fundamental flaw in how you are examining it. You're looking at the giving of value in a very simple way - you just give value and by doing so, it puts you in a lesser frame. That's not what we're suggesting, though. Firing off compliments will definitely set you in a lesser frame of mind. That's why you should be sincere and genuine with what you say and not just say it for the sake of reciprocation. | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Just give value, man.Story of my life. | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Just give value, man.Great, great refreshed post man. As a guy who's been off his game for a week or so, this is something I can really dig. I noticed one of my friend take a commanding role in one of my pickup groups recently and have been envious of him for a little while now, so I'm glad you piled this on me to clear up any frustration or misconceptions I've been having. | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Just give value, man.Tp;dr genuinely give value. If you have self-respect, this will come naturally. | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Getting the feel of the community...dat rationalization | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I build a successful social network of beautiful women?Can you throw me an example? | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The No-Fap rule. Really?Allow me to chime in on this with some pseudo-science foreplay. When you jerk off and cum, you feel lazier afterwards. It has something to do with your brain, dopamine, and the release of testosterone, but I won't look that far into it. I'm sure everyone can understand how they feel after tapping, though, or after a good lay when you cum. When you don't jerk off, you build up more testosterone and you get more horny . You want to fuck, in other words. It is more motivating in this sense but it a… | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Can we compile a list of good truisms that we can use when cold reading girls?These are also the assumptions everyone makes on a daily basis. | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Thanks Seddit! A few tips to help you along the way!Hey man. Got any crack? | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, I'm reaching a point of social exhaustion...That's actually a great way of putting it. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Being short/smaller and kino escalation. Easier? Not easier? Not even worth discussing?5'6'' here: not even worth discussing. | /r/seduction | 15/11/11 07:49 PM |
| 0 | On Self-Worth, and not having it.You're depressed. It's okay, don't take it as an insult or a hurtful situation; everyone is, to one level or another, depressed. There is no 100% way to constantly stay happy. | /r/seduction | 15/11/11 04:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Some more bar game with near closes... getting a little frustrated. Anyone with some experience with this?Toronto. | /r/seduction | 14/11/11 12:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Some more bar game with near closes... getting a little frustrated. Anyone with some experience with this?I've been running game this entire week. Here's the thing though, and this is one of my big sticking points: I don't follow Seduction steps(open, transition, attract, etc.) because I just run my mouth. I'm quite a newbie to the game and so far, running my mouth gets me tons of status from all around and the title of being smooth, but it doesn't get me anywhere else. Sometimes I don't even qualify or screen; sometimes I don't even build rapport. I guess I really just need to reevaluate and get my… | /r/seduction | 13/11/11 05:49 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Some more bar game with near closes... getting a little frustrated. Anyone with some experience with this?I should say a few things here. Firstly, I didn't run any routines on the 2nd set I mentioned. From start to finish, I made it all natural, I had the group excited and happy, and I led the conversation from start to finish. Perhaps it was the guy that opened the set a minute before I entered; he wasn't doing so well which was the original reason why I entered. There was no sales pitch involved. Though it is a possibility I'm coming off as too needy, I really don't think it's that. My body langua… | /r/seduction | 13/11/11 04:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night street game - audio includedThis is streamable. I tested it on my Windows XP. There's a plugin required on that page for Windows Media Player but it's not a big deal. No direct download required, guaranteed. EDIT: Google Chrome | /r/seduction | 11/11/11 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Ethical pickup artistry for the feminist guyY u do dis | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Ethical Pickup Artistry: getting laid without becoming a misogynistic assholeThat worked, but even ethical pickup artistry already exists. This article is, as stated by a bunch of other fellows, nothing new. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 12:01 AM |
| 3 | I am looking for a spreadsheet and/or database system to organize my past datesi have genital warts | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I was browsing Simple PickUp's Suggestion's on their Page and.. ಠ_ಠI lold more at leasbian... How the fuck | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Ethical Pickup Artistry: getting laid without becoming a misogynistic assholeThe title is enough reason for me to pass this article on. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How it sometimes feels answering questions on /r/askseddit [X-post from /r/funny]B-back that ass up | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 04:01 PM |
| 2 | 11/11/11 11:11pm what will you be doing?wow | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 03:57 PM |
| 3 | 11/11/11 11:11pm what will you be doing?Lol | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Just Returned from an intense 7 day conference, learned valuable lessonsWell, if you think about it, minds well works too. | /r/seduction | 08/11/11 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Just Returned from an intense 7 day conference, learned valuable lessonsThough you have a point, OP is only pointing out to take action instead of use words. | /r/seduction | 08/11/11 06:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Presence with a cameraI approached. "Hey." Proceeded to step in front of the lady's walking path without talking to let the tension set it. "You're adorable. I'm around here right now photographing people who have a unique look in Toronto." I pointed to my camera around my neck, them to them, then gave them the thumbs up. Something like that. | /r/seduction | 08/11/11 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Got jumped, face is fucked up, can I still pick up?Looks really do matter. They are just a fraction of what forms attraction though. | /r/seduction | 08/11/11 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Maybe everyone saw it but seddit is the best place for this video. Funny and true.This is some pretty legit shit, man. | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 06:05 AM |
| 2 | New Mansformation: Social & Seduction performance enhancing drugs (Smart drugs) : REVIEW / AMA.Cool beans. It sounds dangerous though because it sounds so good, I can already picture many people using it as a crutch. | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 05:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Great celebrity kinoYeah. I think I'm just letting the stress pile up on me a little bit. I've been watching the SimplePickup guys and they seem to use some very light routines when they do their "challenge" videos though, like openers suited for what their video is about and small stepping stones here and there. Maybe I'm wrong though. | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Hi Seddit. I now have some goals to work towards.I plan to. Doesn't matter what the white knights think; I went downtown to shoot photos of Halloween costumes and I have no issue posting them up here as I would on Facebook. | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 05:30 PM |
| 1 | State, caffeine, and depressionDidn't know this. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 02/11/11 08:10 PM |
| 1 | State, caffeine, and depressionBooze is a little different, though. It immediately puts you in a depressed state of mind, coupled with lower motor control. Caffeine boosts your state of mind. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 09:00 PM |
| 2 | State, caffeine, and depressionNot gonna lie; I have caffeine pills. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 08:59 PM |
| 1 | State, caffeine, and depressionI have St. John's Wort. I'm not making any claims towards my depression. I'm merely pointing out some feelings I have towards it. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Losing face due to forgetfulness?Nicknames. Shit works. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 04:38 PM |
| 1 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Lol. Good shit. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Saying "not giving a fuck"Do you think it did you some real good? Do you think its good advice you would give others to try? | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Notice this about Girls in Public these Days?lol | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 02:07 PM |
| -2 | [FR] Opened a 5 set and bombed some clubsDude, I wasn't negging. I just wasn't thinking. She was boring and I called her out on it. Christ, I wasn't trying to consciously make a statement about me being alpha or superior in any way. I was in a good, happy state, and she was in a boring one, and so I moved on and flooded other people with value after forgetting about her. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:50 PM |
| 10 | Seddit, I would just like to remind you all that Halloween is the easiest day of the year to have a random hook-up.Why do they have to be mutually exclusive? | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:48 PM |
| -2 | [FR] Opened a 5 set and bombed some clubsBeing a gentlemen is extremely overrated and held back by fears and limiting beliefs. She was boring and I called her on it. I did not feel like an asshole nor did I look like one because she was boring. I was spoonfeeding her conversational material and she didn't bite. Calling her boring would not have made me come off as an asshole in any way either because of the way I framed it. The environment was casual, I had a grin on my face when I entered and I had one when I left. I patted her on the… | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Limiting BeliefsCitation? Very basic psychological principles, my friend. Classical conditioning. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:36 PM |
| 2 | How exactly does one go about approaching girls in a loud party setting?To expand on this, don't be the one to lean in; pull her in. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How to handle street hecklers?This guy | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 05:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Unlocking Social Godmode followed by ConfusionSounds like you got played, to be honest. Everything sounds like it went very well but you were complying with her requests an awful lot, like the underwear model bit. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Saying "not giving a fuck"I feel like the context you are accepting "not giving a fuck" in is the problem, not the phrase itself. Not giving a fuck is merely ignoring other's opinions of yourself. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 04:52 PM |
| -2 | [FR] Opened a 5 set and bombed some clubsI'm really not a big fan of being polite, and I feel that the more you learn about pickup(you mentioned you just found Seddit), the more you'll break down the barriers of "being polite." With that said, the first girl was boring. Her tone was boring and I was giving her conversation to work off of. She didn't and I called her on it. That first set didn't affect me in any way; I just wanted to break off from her and I told her how it was. The girl that rejected my grind attempt, though? Yeah, I w… | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Limiting BeliefsResearch has been done, though not in the exact monkey scenario, of course. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Limiting BeliefsI was more than sure of this when I first posted the image up. Nowhere is there even a remote citation. That doesn't mean that the point doesn't stand though, because it does. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Limiting BeliefsHoly shit, I was wondering why I had 600 beside my name. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What's the word on telling a girl that she's attracted to you?In that situation, it seemed like she just popped the question at random, though. In my situation, the girl I was with said something like "I never act this way around strangers." | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I fix my awkward body movements?Forget that. If you forget that people are judging you consciously or subconsciously, you will naturally become more socially-calibrated. Yes, to an extent, people do judge you, but realistically-speaking, in the long run, no one gives a flying fuck. | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 08:55 PM |
| 3 | How do I fix my awkward body movements?Forget what everyone's saying here. It's good advice but it's not tailored for you. I had the exact same problem you did and no amount of advice I received in a distance from the actual interaction did any good. Find a friend or a sibling - a really good one, one you know very well. Ask them to tell you to point out to you what your awkward movements are. This may seem the same like taking advice but it isn't. When you lift weights, there are many different ways of lifting them, but to have the … | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 08:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] opened a 2 set with friend, no #close because I'm "danger"Definitely a fun night. Gotta start linking peoples names more often. Lol | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 09:20 PM |
| 3 | [MINI FR] Farming state - creating your realityLife isn't exactly like that but deluding yourself into approaching it that way does help in some situations. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Dinner date at your place - what's your go-to recipe to win her over?Pasta. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Dinner date at your place - what's your go-to recipe to win her over?Posting for oysters. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 10:22 PM |
| 2 | "I'm gonna be straight up, I want to have sex with you right now." [Indirect FR]There was this guy who was doped up one day from the hospital. He ran around his condo, asking ladies if they wanted to fuck. He got a few lays out of it. True story from Reddit. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 10:14 PM |
| 12 | wow, things around here have really improved!Three cheers for TestMyPatience and puaCurveBall! Hip hip | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 10:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Was she in innie or an outie? Mad kinoI should have built some rapport and maybe been a bit more energetic with the stomach thing. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:41 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Was she in innie or an outie? Mad kinoYeah. I do a lot of rapping and free associating so transitioning along those lines were simple for me. I actually didn't even break a sweat thinking about the innie thing. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Becoming the flirty guy in the workplaceAs I replied with, I'm not trying to flirt. I'm just naturally being social in the social environment I'm put in. There are about two other flirts in the store that are known to be flirts as well and they fit right in well. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Becoming the flirty guy in the workplaceHere's the thing again. I'm not really playing any games. I'm not even trying to flirt. I'm just being friendly with the customers and I just naturally am good at talking and establishing that deeper connection. I'm not gaming anyone at all; it's not like I talk to customers with the intent of laying them or #closing them. My intent is to approach, as I should in a retail environment. I'm a big advocate of the whole "don't shit where you work" approach but I'm not trying to get any points or dat… | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:02 AM |
| -3 | Virginity. Yea or nay before you start getting game on?Who gives a fuck? | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 04:31 PM |
| 45 | I spoke with a girl on a bus.If your goal was to open a girl, this FR isn't a fail. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 07:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bus pickup with a girl from DubaiThat's how I read it too. I felt like I definitely built enough comfort with her to take her number down. Maybe bringing out the point of women through her off. I dunno. The direct signals she was giving me - we barely know each other - makes it seem like I didn't, though. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Mods, my threads are not appearing again.I'm not blaming anyone, Frogma. I go out and come back with a story that I'd like feedback on so I can improve on. When no one sees my stories, I figure it's even a waste of time to post them up here. I might cycle Sedditelite. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Affirmation Concept - New ideaTo expand on this, being depressed is a delusional state of mind but so is being happy. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 04:53 PM |
| 1 | An Exercise in VisualizationYeah, but the same can be said for every situation, really. Anything can act as a placeholder for action just to show off. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 04:35 PM |
| 3 | An Exercise in VisualizationThis is an idea that was first made popular by the gentlemen at Love Systems. No, no it wasn't. "Visualize your success" has been known since the very beginnings of when people started looking into the mind. It's a sales tactic and is commonly used in meditation as well. That said, tl;dr visualize your success. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Two major problems: no car,no place to bring the girl back to. How would you go about it?Then don't take the cab. You hold the answer to your own question. I live in Toronto as well and I can't see why you're posting, asking for a solution to a problem which you should be dealing with yourself. You know your own income, your lifestyle, your location, and your gaming preferences. Work around them. We can't do that for you. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Two major problems: no car,no place to bring the girl back to. How would you go about it?I feel this way too. Coming from a legitimate Torontonian on this end, I can say that North York really isn't that far of a distance. If you're really comitted to pickup, you shouldn't mind travelling an hour by bus or subway. Make sure you map out different strategies for yourself, like subway game. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 08:05 PM |
| 2 | [FR] #closed but a little too late (oh well, I can still learn from it and improve text game with this girl)It feels like you haven't adopted the mentality of abundance properly, else you wouldn't have questioned where to take the interaction with the girl. Merely questioning the abundance of mentality and whether you should #close this one girl is a good indicator. Numbers and women are abundant. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Is Pickup Art?Not this shit again. Yes, pickup is an art, a science, a skill, etc. Anything can really be classified as the above 3. If public speaking is an art, then pickup is an art. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to know when you have solid inner game?Not only any rapist, he's therapist. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 07:51 PM |
| 2 | How to booty call.If you want to be clear but not so needy, tell them you want to fuck. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Two major problems: no car,no place to bring the girl back to. How would you go about it?Fuck her on the spot or somewhere around where you pick her up. Be creative. The answer is in the question. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 07:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] opened a 2 set with friend, no #close because I'm "danger"The kino was all over the place, but yeah, the challenge of it was really fun and I did hold the conversation well enough. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Any other PUA's keep a "diary" or log book about their experiences?If you don't keep a log, you aren't committed to becoming better with women. | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 04:24 AM |
| 2 | [FR] HB8 #close on lunch breakI think this is what he meant. Kino approached the same way during night game for day game is actually pretty dangerous. | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Interesting Take On When Girls Give Brutal Rejections, Thoughts?Simple explanation for every sort of rejection on this planet: if she rejects you, she isn't rejecting you, she's rejecting the way you acted. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 05:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #closed a girl from work - no real physical kino built but looking to act on a Day 2Thanks man. I feel a lot better about how it went now that I've written up the report. The only problem is, I messed up with the texting so I'm a little worried on setting up a day 2 now. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Guys Think of Flair?That's how the planet works, bro. You should take every piece of advice and information with a grain of salt to begin with. Some people have more experience and have a more experienced opinion than others, but as always, people are always proven wrong, including authority figures. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 11:13 PM |
| 1 | When to get medication for anxiety?St. John's Wart is well proven to be just as potent as some of the higher prescribed medications. In any event, I'm not looking to purchase another bottle. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 08:37 PM |
| 3 | When to get medication for anxiety?I have experience with medication similar to that of AFPUA below me. Firstly, I'd like to get the point across that medication, much like alcohol, MDMA, etc. is a crutch and should not be relied on. Making conscious and wise decisions as opposed to making the decision to use medication is the far better option. Now, onto the meat: I bought St. John's Wort awhile back for anxiety issues. It's heavily proven to work just as well as prescribed medication and it can be taken off the shelf. What it d… | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Using Height to your AdvantageThis is the conclusion I've reached, as well. If you're confident and with yourself and your level of game with moderate appearance, you will get women. I downvoted your post as well because it actually feels like you're blatantly bashing short guys. Sure, sperm banks favor tall donors. Sure, tall guys are more romantically-accomplished than short ones. Sure, you don't have citations for either of these facts. It feels like you're just ripping on short guys because of your promotion towards tall… | /r/seduction | 16/10/11 05:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She said she would fuck me if I showed her proof that it was my birthday.Yeah, I totally fell into her little game by mistake there. It was still really funny stuff. | /r/seduction | 16/10/11 04:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Flirting around a south asian mall has never been so funI didn't find what you said mean, just critical. Thanks though. | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 05:50 AM |
| 1 | 90 day challenge!Thumbs up for you, bro. You got the right mindset. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 03:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Flirting around a south asian mall has never been so funPickup is not a 3 step thing that you master. Da Vinci said it best when he wrote that art has no completion("Art is never finished; only abandoned") and the same can be said for pickup or anything on this planet. Habits are often being put up and torn down but there is no end to our learning. With that said, I fell off my pickup horse - at one week, I was completely open to talking to anyone about anything - and I've been trying to pull myself back up. I am not moping around and questioning why… | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 03:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Flirting around a south asian mall has never been so funEvery opportunity not taken is an opportunity missed, man. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 03:41 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Flirting around a south asian mall has never been so funI'm not a beginner at all, haha... I just fell off my game recently and am trying to get back up. Trust me on that. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 03:40 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Flirting around a south asian mall has never been so funHaha, nahh man, she was in her little stall sitting down... she was just staring, expressionless... it was really strange. Challenging, even. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Alright, Seddit, I'm a nerd.He loves physics. He's probably passionate about it. There really isn't a way he's going to just stop caring about physics. But as for the insult itself? Yeah, pass it off OP. Don't care about it and it'll be cool. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 12:13 AM |
| -2 | Motivational quote from Neil StraussI'm going to have to call you on that, as well. Motivation has everything to do with this subreddit. Picking up the hobby of seduction is all about motivation and becoming a better person. EDIT: I got it guys. I GOT IT | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Never let this quote leave your headThis has got to be one of the most funny questions I've ever read. Essentially, discipline revolves around making habits. Becoming a better man also involves that. | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Here's a big-ass [FR] for you fuckers...I love skeleton jelly but y u do dis | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 10:10 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Fuck AA.The ending sounds pretty funny, man. Just sayn. Also, you're around the Toronto area, aren't you? | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 08:22 PM |
| 3 | I think I'm ready to join the game.It doesn't matter whether you join the game or not. The game is always on. If you choose to start learning about it and what's happening around you, that's great. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Asking for advice on introduce my GF to "PUA World"Yeah, well, NLP is one thing, but discussing seduction with a girl is really unnecessary. I know you might be passionate about some things and really, you can do whatever you want with whichever lady you want, but considering how much of The Game is already laid out in today's society + how much of The Game is part of "being a man" nowadays, she should already know most of the smaller details. She doesn't need to know much to be a wing, anyways. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Asking for advice on introduce my GF to "PUA World"Why do you feel the need to introduce her to PUA theories? Everyone already knows about the game because it's heavily embedded into our society but why do you feel the need to show her around the heavier stuff? I read everything you told us and found there is no reason to. If you want to fuck her, you don't need to tell her all your secrets. Some shit is better kept to ourselves. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Just Be Yourself: The Worst Dating Advice Known To ManThis is what made the article golden for me: the application of the scientific method to things. You make a plan with a goal in mind and you follow through with it. Cut the pussy-footing "I don't want society to look at me the wrong way" thing. You are there to get shit done. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Just Be Yourself: The Worst Dating Advice Known To ManHoly shit, Chase has really outdone himself on this article. Great find. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 05:51 PM |
| 7 | people call us Asshole, how do feel about this?People are always going to feel negatively inclined to learn seduction. It doesn't matter; let them be. Everyone plays the game but few are as willing to commit to learning it. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 06:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Great night, venue changed set, #close a modeli could totally see myself bursting out into laughter when if she said that to me and would just be like "excuse me, do you know who I am?" And play it off that way. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Workplace pickupDon't shit where you work. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Holy shit, 78 comments in 2 hours. I'd consider that a success on Seddit. Gareth, Ben, I got a question for either or both of you(preferably both). So acting on various pieces of advice, I've finally been able to advance past small talk. It's no big deal to me anymore and I've gained the feeling of being accepted wherever I go ever since. However, I'm struggling with applying seduction stages to my approaches. Again, right now I'm completely open about anything to anyone without any negativity. … | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 05:06 AM |
| 11 | Seduction realizationFuck seduction; life is about appreciating the beauty of things. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Are there actual friendzone topics or are they just a myth?See, right now, I'm suffering with following the stages of Seduction. I can talk and lead about any topic and conversation fluently and with confidence and small talk is non-existent for me. But because I'm really not paying attention to the steps or what I'm entirely saying, I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Don't use logic in a fightPretty much what RedErin said. Logic has it's place but is very dangerous as well. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 10:32 PM |
| 3 | looking for advice... i suck at dating.Hey man, I'm not discouraging you. Not in any way. The best advice we could give you would be found there. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 03:19 AM |
| 3 | looking for advice... i suck at dating.Side bar | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Don't use logic in a fightTo be honest, conversations don't happen logically. We don't live in a logical society. People speak with emotions, not logic. Most marketing tactics are completely illogical if thought through, yet they still hit all of us. This is something I personally have noticed over time. So when you're speaking to people, try and keep logic on the down, as tough as that sounds. Setting aside seduction and pickup, though, logic is also a dangerous and risky tool in the realm of science and experimentation… | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 01:48 AM |
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