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| 5 | Need help, can't fucking believe I'm suffering for a girl, been redpilled for 8 years, a nightmare came trueFuck, weak sauce and a bunch of whining. Come back in 6 months and re-read this shit you wrote here. Hopefully you will have grown enough to be embarrassed but man enough to laugh at it. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond from her shit test (Friend who rejected me)Here's some way to reply: Do not reply (your strongest move) Like others have said here, "lol" if you must reply. "I am...but not you" [shakes magic 8 ball]: "not likely" "Who is this?" [rolling eyes] | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 09:15 PM |
| 19 | how to date with alpha widow ?Do not kiss her ass. Do not act overly impressed with any stories about his deeds...but do give credit when its due. Have your own thing, own goals, own interests. They should be more than finding a typical major, typical job, typical career. Never act jealous. Act amused at her antics. Never put yourself down in front of her. Make her impress you. Disappear once in a while. A day or two. If you end up meeting him, treat him as an equal, not a superior. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | movie recommendations that show frame + game?Not a movie, but TV. Californiciation. Duchuvney's character hits a lot of the marks. Frame. Push-pull. Abundance. Non-reactiveness (usually). And so on. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:42 AM |
| 1 | My and my on again off again girlfriend.Walk away now or only blame yourself about how high the pile of shit she will inevitably keep dumping you gets. Another note: a woman will never respect a man whom she hits / shits on and then he comes back. You're done. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Female orbiter pissed that I didnt wish her birthday.She sounds like a drama queen headache worth hitting once if she overtly invites you to her house to wreck her pussy. Otherwise, a guy with self-respect and plates wouldn't bother with such nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’m trying to social circle game said something weirdTease her like she's your dumb kid sister. Bust her balls, in a fun way. Somewhere in the middle of the date, if she looks at you silently or with anticipation and also looks at your lips, she's thinking about what it would be like to kiss you. One of two things at that point. Go in for the kiss if you know how. If you are still working on your moves, look at her back in the eye and grin confidently. But don't give her what she wants just yet. Do a little light kino and then make sure to ramp up… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Number Closes Don't ReplyMost replies here are on the mark. But also let me suggest you try a change in strategy. When a girl whose number you got at a club doesn't reply to your text the next day or so, it means she doesn't feel she will be missing out on anything if she blows you off. And what this means is that you got her number after an interaction that was too superficial to leave an impression on her. You say you go out and meet 8 girls and number close 6, but none reply. Though it is true it is a numbers game, t… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed in this situation?Listen to Killing_Time | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl drops out of no whereYes, get more plates for sure. I'm in a LTR now 5 years, but back when I was spinning several plates, I had little patience with such behavior and moved on quickly. I'd leave a bar if a potential date was 10 minutes late and didn't contact me to let me know; one girl texted me for an hour to get me to come back but I went on to meet from friends and had another date lined up the next night. Also, when you have several plates, you give off little to no sense of neediness and when you shrug off th… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Is this true? It has nothing to do with who is the most logical/reasonable and everything to do with who says something the more confidently?Both con men and true leaders and heroes both do this. And yes, confidence is the presentation of self goes a long way to winning over others. The trick is telling when the source of the confidence is real or a ruse. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:26 PM |
| 8 | Help me analyze this situation. Am I being a dick?Whiny, insecure, little bitch, yes. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | “You’re 25? I think I may be too old for you” Can A&A work on this 40 year old woman?Your response sucks. Don't send it. Try any of these: "I'll be the judge of that." "Let me do the thinking for both of us" "Only one way to find out" "Don't get ahead of yourself, my last gf was 62" "You are. But that just makes it more fun for both of us." "Then you can be both my date and my chaperone when we go out." | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Shit test helpNever take them seriously. Be playful but not self-deprecating. Here's your answer to her text: "Only if you forget the safe word." | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this kind of shit test?There's only a few good pieces of advice in this thread, imho. Most of this shit here is trying to give you something witty, agree/amplify, pressure flip, etc...which are things you do for a normal shit test. But this is not a normal shit test. This is a retarded shit test. It is a totally failed attempt to make you jealous, one that speaks of conscious manipulation (a lot of shit tests are unconscious... they just know when you fail them). It is a disqualifying shit test in that any woman who s… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 12:46 AM |
| 13 | Never married at 40 yet very high standards, no wonder she's singleHere we have a woman who spent her 20s and 30s believing in lies. She believed there would always be time so much she didn't even consider a clock was ticking. She believed in the idea that a career was a higher priority than a relationship. As an extension of that, she believed in the idea that a "soul mate" was our there for her and she would one day just happen to run into Mr. Perfect, who would sweep her off her feet. During this time, she did nothing proactive to find a mate, other than car… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/04/18 12:52 AM |
| 1 | How to handle the cold shoulderJesus fuck, dude. It is clear how you need to deal with this. It is one of two things, neither of which are good for your needy ass. First, always remember that a woman into you won't confuse you. Next, is this woman hot and available enough that she has plenty of men knocking on her door, calling her, texting her? If so, she is currently heavily considering someone else other than you. You've either become a back up plan at best or she wishes you'd take the hint and bugger off. Or, is this sing… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Confidence issues even when doing well in life, my LTR HB9 model partner becoming more disrespectful.Lots of good replies here. Paradoxically, if you want to keep her, you'll need to next her. "This is not working for me. I have some things of my own that require attention." Move. Make her come to you. If she doesn't, she was going to make your life much worse first and then dump you. If she comes to you, its now on your terms. Make her qualify herself. Say you are in a good place and not sure if a relationship is what you need right now, i.e, you don't need her. Make her show that SHE can fit … | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What is her end game?This one is easy. She is on the constant look out for dick. She sends out messages, gets lots of Tinder matches. So much so that if you blink, she's made other plans. But she has got you on the radar and hasn't fucked you yet. When she does not have something going that day or in the next few hours, she checks back with you (and probably a line of other guys). Get logistics right and smash. Wear a condom. Do not date this chick (I wouldn't even plate her). | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 10:30 PM |
| 2 | 'Feminist' Study: Objective Truth, Scientific Method Are SexistAnother painful reality here... Let's accept that science and objectivity are "masculine" constructs. The feminist here is so filled with hate and rage that they cannot simply say "good job men, you got something right!" No. If something is masculine = misogynist and wrong. A first year graduate student not blinded by ideology could pick out the non-sequitur here. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/16 08:24 PM |
| – | 'Feminist' Study: Objective Truth, Scientific Method Are SexistThe tautology is so plainly obvious and overlooked it is gut-wrenching. I will make an argument using a certain level of logic and reason and assert something to be objectively true, that is that the idea of objective truth is sexist. If called on the above, I will claim I'm providing a subjective interpretation of patriarchal standards as unreflectively subjective and thus sexist. If called out on the contradiction between these positions, I revert to the first argument and hope no one notices. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/16 08:22 PM |
| 8 | Another major news outlet covering Rolling Stone's UVA fiasco. Glad to see this is a hot story. I suggest reading the comments.Except for that feminist researchers don't believe women either. Check on their research on sexual assault on campus. In some, like Koss's work, 70% didn't believe they were assaulted or raped but she printed the 1 in 4 stat anyway. She isn't alone. So, listen and believe the rape claim, but not the "not rape" claim. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/16 07:08 PM |
| 8 | Why do many women seem to get bored and branch swing when the man is too loving, respectful, devoted, etcA devoted, caring, respectful man gives off the impression that he views the woman in so high regard that he has put her on a pedestal. She is therefore above him. Women want to look up to their man, not down on him. To be below a woman is by default to also be below her in the sexual market. Her hind brain will tell her she can and should do better. She loses respect and therefore tingles for the guy. Easy peasy. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 09:39 PM |
| 22 | Women on the OKCupid sub share stories about sleeping with "douchebag/asshole" Alphas - and in the same thread, beg men to please not become douchebags.It only appears to be fucked and maybe in exceptional cases it is. That is, usually fucked-up women do love to be dominated in the bedroom. But so do most women. The question is why would a woman not nominally fucked in the head still like to be dominated like a $5 whore? Because they like to feel they are so sexy that a high value man that turns them on cannot control himself around her. She wants to feel that she brings out your inner sex god. Thus, she feels hotter and more worthy the better … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Some RP Truths I had to remind myself after dating a HB8+Make her pay for the next date/meal/drinks. If she doesn't, you're being played for beta bucks and rebound cock. If she refuses or even stalls, walk away immediately. That'll be your test of her actual interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Every movement has its positive and negative side. TRP is no exception. What do you think has been the negative side of TRP ?There is little to no discussion, or even awareness, of the fact that men can be negatively harmed by their N-count just a women. Before I explain, I do understand that women are more susceptible to the problem but let's not pretend men are simply immune. The problem is that if you are slaying pussy a lot as you learn game, then novelty and new women become part of your arousal triggers. It becomes harder and harder to maintain focus on an actual relationship when you meet a woman you think it w… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Straight from a Post-Wall MouthWell, there's girls that I date, those that I fuck, and those somewhere in between (some plates drop sooner than others). I'd have to say that those that I date for LTR do tend to be closer to my age than 10-20 years below. My current GF is 7 years younger than me. But that's not exactly what I am limited too. I keep in shape when I can (injuries do build up and interfere; but I get back to the gym soon as I can) and I also have absolutely no "dad" persona. And by that I mean that 22 year old gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 09:39 PM |
| 2 | TRP has shattered my world and made me realise what a sexually grovelling beta I've become. Uncoordinated rant.Hey mods, I forget what the policy around here is with linking material from elsewhere, but this guy might do well with this video on why not to get married. If it is against policy, please delete (and feel free to send me a message...would hate to run afoul of this groovy community after participating in it for so long): http://sexthreepointzero.com/2015/05/12/12-reasons-not-to-get-married/?source=delusiondamage.com | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 07:18 PM |
| 17 | [FR] Shit test – “Do you think about other people when we have sex?”"Not too often, but your mom/sister make an occasional guest appearance." [smirk...continue what you were doing] | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 08:56 PM |
| 7 | "I'm OK with sharing you with other girls, although I don't like it"True that. Not much to add but just to emphasize the quality of your point for OP. The tell was "I don't like it." A woman willing to share a guy non-exclusively and indefinitely as a plate wouldn't say that. OP: Expect this woman to maneuver to lock you down eventually. Probably by month 2. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 12:17 AM |
| 341 | Girl bangs NFL star and posts it over social mediaHe looks passed out drunk, likely so since it was after the Superbowl. She raped him. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 08:51 PM |
| 2 | just wanted to tell you guys about this bullshitThis board is not your diary to whine about your failures. Nothing to learn here. Move on fellas | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Sports team captain, ripped, good looking, glittering military career, new job as a stockbroker - STILL BLUE PILL ... dumpedLaying down some truth. Most chicks will hate it. But this is spot on. Well stated and explained. Hey crazy feminists fucks who want to argue that "emotion" is a form of "knowledge"... guess what? This explains how many guys approach/react to sex emotionally. Don't our experiences count too? And if your fweeelings get hurt girls, guess what? The reality of the world has no obligation to match your expectations, hopes, and wishes | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Sports team captain, ripped, good looking, glittering military career, new job as a stockbroker - STILL BLUE PILL ... dumpedWhat is seeming to be missed, but not by you above (casadecombo), is that this chick's tingles dried up once he basically made his life/future a footnote to her whims. FF-faslaner can debate all he wants, but the fact of the matter remains that she wants to attach herself (and gain value, so beware) from a man who does his own thing, not one who make her his whole world. Women are emotional. They don't trust themselves. Their approach to the world is subject to swings. If you put them in charge … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 01:38 AM |
| 1 | A blue pill guide to the RedPill.This is correct. It fits with racists, antisemites, fascists, most feminists, homophobes, misandrists, and so on. That's how it works, regardless of stripe. I did convince a few feminists and SJWs over the years that there was "liberal fascism" and man haters among many women and especially lesbians. The proof in the latter pudding is I know several straight women who befriended lesbian-feminists who at first were very, very skeptical of me calling those they hung out with as liberal-fascists, l… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 01:26 AM |
| 43 | Women and the Art of LyingI'm not here to agree or disagree about your claims about how, when, where women lie and how they learn how to do it, etc. But I do want to make an observation based on watching my sister for over 40s. She lies all the time. Sometimes she does this even when it brings her no advantage whatsoever. Further, the more she tells a lie the more her brain rewrites history and she becomes convinced it is the truth, even if every other witness to the event tells her she's getting it wrong. So, yeah, some… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How TheRedPill facilitates the disillusionment of Betas, or Why most of are wasting our time here.Not all "alpha" traits are genetic. Many are learned. This learning is often done at younger ages when a younger man has to make a decision - go for the girl or slink back in fear. When you decide to go for the girl, you'll have successes and failures but you'll also forge some nerves of steel and develop experience. These guys often become "naturals" because they overcame their fears at a young age and developed a skill set over time. The longer a young man slinks back in fear of going for it, … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:10 PM |
| 10 | Askreddit thread gives us an unfiltered glance into the mind of an "average" woman.This is a view inside of the mind of a con artist. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 04:03 PM |
| 314 | Sports team captain, ripped, good looking, glittering military career, new job as a stockbroker - STILL BLUE PILL ... dumpedWomen do not want to be "your everything." They want to hitch a ride on a high-value man on his own mission. Full stop | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Part 1) Beware the optimism bias. Part 2) I fucked up, FRYou'll know you are doing it right when you blow off a chick like this, never worry about her again, and laugh while doing it. Yes, you blew it. So did she. Chalk it up to experience and move the fuck on and do better next time. And quit trying to talk yourself into find the "perfect maneuver" to get her interest back up and your into your pants. You'll do much better for yourself by focusing on yourself and meeting other women. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Redpill truths I saw on TVGodammit. Mods can't delete movie/tv examples of "red pill truths" fast enough. Not blaming them, but the posters who make us suffer through this dreck. Imagined movie/tv scripts are poor fodder for RP examples and discussion. Leave that shit to the delusional masses. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 12:54 AM |
| 13 | The "excuse me?" shit test: breaking sexual rapport to see how you handle it. Opinions wanted.Chill out dude... First, it sounds like you did fine. As far as her "excuse me?" shit-test goes, I think it is operating on two levels, one conscious and the other more hindbrain stuff. I think consciously, her cognitive mind is thinking, "What kind of low-rank slut does he think he can treat me like? The nerve!!" Now, I don't think she was very offended but rather just thought your text was a bit crass. And it was, no big deal. We're guys and we do crass shit. But unconsciously, she wanted to f… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 07:53 PM |
| 2 | A game of chicken. Need TRP adviceYou've been to easy and available for her, signs of low value and lack of prospects. She's losing interest. The sex probably was okay for a while but she sensed she was your only option (texting for 1-2 hours a day? WTF man!! Teenage girls do that shit). She MAY be sensing that she's had her ride and now she's considering supping at greener pastures. My advice: don't text her at all. If she is at all still interested, she'll be in touch. Finally, two RP 101 axioms: A woman truly interested in yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 04:30 PM |
| 13 | The nazi test. To measure of a females absolute attraction.Coming to Jezebel in July: "What's with all the Nazi Guy's I've Been Sleeping with Lately???" | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Quick fix solution from my friend in terms of finding a partner. Do you agree?Update us on this guy in 5 years. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 02:53 PM |
| 44 | A 24 year old woman asks a sex column about her problem. AF/BBWomen's highest sexual turn on is to be taken by a dominant man they desire. When they pick a mate on more emotional/intellectual compatibility issues, they often do not find the man above. The guy they find simply does not make their panties wet. And then they pine for the first guy. That's the alpha widow. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 04:46 PM |
| 29 | Popping the Misandry Bubble: Awakening of the Beta MalesHe just needed MORE feminism! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 04:43 PM |
| 17 | Getting into a relationship. Obersvations"You're cute when you're jealous." | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 05:02 PM |
| 49 | Getting into a relationship. ObersvationsDon't drop your hobbies that you had before you met her. Don't organize your entire existence around entertaining her. Keep progressing toward your goals. Keep hitting the gym. Allow her to see other women talking to you. Don't over do gifts or displays of romance. Subtle ones work best. Don't over do asshole alpha male stuff. Some is needed but you need to sprinkle a little beta in in a LTR. But, as you've learned, there's "bad" beta and "good" beta. Vulnerabilty and dumping your problems on he… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 04:32 PM |
| 17 | Are you still feeling the anger? Here is something to help you revel in that anger while you take the pill.You idiots. Quit talking about asian women and start treading the book of bonecrackr. That's the value in this post. I ran into that a few years back. Interesting reading. Check it out...that's what OP is really asking us to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 01:33 AM |
| 6 | Staring into the AbyssVomiting verbiage and masturbating in public is no way to go through life son. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Help getting over the anger of being lied to about womenThis post needs an addendum that comes from Red Pill 101: When women list the traits of what they want in a many, they are thinking of a man they are already attracted to. So what a woman isn't telling you, because they rarely understand or know, is what flips her attraction switches. Thus, yes, she's not lying when she says she wants an honest guy who is smart, funny, etc. But she's not saying want in fact makes her attracted to a guy in the first place. The Red Pill is on place that has worked… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 06:00 PM |
| 37 | $1 Billion DivorceIf I were the judge in this case and learned she turned that down, I would reward her $1 and charge her court costs (for wasting our time). | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Just discovered Cuckoos are way AlphaThis has to be one of the dumbest posts I've read on here. Glad the board is downvoting it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Banging the ex girlfriend.I don't recommend it. Sure, easy sex that is good can be fun. But it comes with serious problems... or it can. I have an ex I used to sometimes bang for fun. The problem was she wasn't over me. I tried to make it clear I considered myself single and pursued other women. She was "fine" with that in theory, but then reality set it. I started dating someone seriously. And my ex lost her shit. Not exactly stalking, but close. She was under the delusion that the occasional fuck meant that we were clo… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Girl on TwoX is sad because she chased after alpha cock while her friends committed to good men. Commenters cheer "You go, girl! You don't need no man!"This is a RP truth everyone should be aware of, but few can see unfolding at the time. Succinct and clearly stated. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 03:19 AM |
| 12 | Girl on TwoX is sad because she chased after alpha cock while her friends committed to good men. Commenters cheer "You go, girl! You don't need no man!"The paradox of the female, from a redpill perspective: (1) For the guy looking for a quality woman, it really sucks that women cannot tell a "good" alpha from a "douchebag" alpha. (2) For the player, this is awesome. YMMV | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 10:58 PM |
| 10 | "If you make a stupid, juvenile mistake, you can be utterly destroyed. If you’re male, that is."Part of being a guy is good ole ball-busting. In addition to this is simply speaking with other guys like life is a locker room. One of feminism's goals is to wipe the behavior out, not only in professional settings but in men's private lives too. Social media, unfortunately, bridges the two in a way. A tongue-lashing from SJW's is not enough. The offenders must be destroyed. It's like a social program turned into a social pogrom. Sadly, the left (which is my background) only assumes the rightwi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/15 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Women just can't control themselves.Use this to your advantage, grasshopper. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Women Can't Cheat; They're FREE from Patriarchy. How dare you hold them accountable?The cognitive dissonance is astounding. "We truly believe we have a right to own our partner’s gentials." Change "own" to "exclusivity" and this is correct. THAT'S WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A "PARTNER" IN A ROMANTIC/SEXUAL/DATING CONTEXT YOU FUCKING MORON. That why we have the term "the talk", as in: Buddy: Has she brought up the talk yet? You: You mean "are we exclusive" talk? No, not yet... Etc. Now, it is somewhat true that women used to be a form of property in many ways in many places. Parents di… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 06:42 PM |
| 2 | PUA vs TRPTRP emerged out of PUA. The short of it: TRP was an attempt to theorize why what PUAs "discovered" via trial and error worked or didn't. TRP is both a certain way of viewing man-female sexual dynamics and advice on approaches to both sex and life taking that view into account. For PUA alone, you could learn the methods, tactics and strategies without TRP view. Still, it would help to know that at the same time. Finally, the observations above help explain the overlap in terminology and the focus… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Is it baby making season or am i paranoid? I think I need to vent.Dude, I don't know what to tell you besides: (1) Everyone makes stupid choices. In this case, there's plenty of stupid to go around. (2) Keep your head down and stay out of it. Nothing but grief can be achieved if you intervene in anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 06:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Internalizing the BasicsAnother victory for feminist empowerment. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 01:18 AM |
| 3 | My plate is a bigger slut than I originally thought. What do?Generation doomed. Naive stupid sluts and sniveling, ball-less crybabies. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Woman finishes Ph.D., long-term boyfriend doesn't. Guess what happens next?My girl openly says she has to put more time in at work than I do and I agree, she does. But I also tell her this is exactly how I planned my career path.... not to be a slave to a cubicle. My "laziness" is an accomplishment of sorts in this way. I don't have to do a 9-5/7week job. She's jealous of me and so are my friends. However, I don't think my friends find my idle time something to judge negatively. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 07:21 PM |
| 15 | Woman finishes Ph.D., long-term boyfriend doesn't. Guess what happens next?Who said I blamed her? I can't blame her either. The point is that she could have dropped him earlier but didn't. Once her status raised above his, then she suddenly found him unattractive (in my estimation). Not an indictment of women, just an observation on how they work. And, like the guy above said (to which I agree), that if a woman started putting on pound after pound, us guys lose our attraction too. My goal in the post was to show the truth of how (1) stagnation leads to loss of attracti… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 02:35 PM |
| 7 | The making of a passive aggressive man aka a beta bitchYou fucked up real good here. You need to establish serious dominance of this right now or you're royall fucked. First, amused mastery. Then, get some shit down around the house when she's not looking. But not all of it. When she calls you on it, smirk and tell her she's got two hands. Still, my spidey instincts tell me you're fucked. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 02:02 AM |
| 32 | Women live in the momentI once had a girlfriend that got really pissed at me for criticizing women because I observed that they see "feelings as knowledge." Yeah, she was not happy at all. I didn't back down and she didn't understand (1) why this was a problem and (2) the fact that anyone would think otherwise. That's the crux. Feelings can be "information" to the brain, but they are not "knowledge." Huge difference between the two. Sometimes feelings correspond with reality, but sometimes they do not. Most women canno… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Met an awesome hyperconfident girl, had a weird first date, now she's acting distant. Do I next her?"walked her to subway, we hug, she leaves." Besides what everyone else has already told you, this is a HUGE tell right here. You end a fucking date with at least a kiss. Friends hug. Dates kiss (at minimum). Lovers fuck. If she had any moist thoughts about you before then, that hug nailed the coffin shut ... and her legs. And given how she controlled the interaction with the drunk, she was the man in this scenario, not you. Next. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 02:33 PM |
| 12 | The Herbivore's Dilemma: Japan panics about the rise of "grass-eating men," who shun sex, don't spend money, and like taking walks.If it wasn't so sad and pathetic it would be hysterical watching women price (and eat) themselves out of the market to which men start walking away.... and then men will get the blame and scolded to "man up!" It's actually quite a sociological shitshow trainwreck. Hard to turn one's eyes away from it though. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 09:36 PM |
| 33 | Redditor's wife of 16 years has emotional affair with coworker, skips their anniversary dinner to spend time with said coworkerClearly this guy let this happen. He sat back and saw his wife letting another man desperately give her attention and she did stop it. Nor did the husband. He probably tried to "reason" with her and also probably bought her BS stories and even compromised. In return, she allowed loser co-worker to escalate his attentions and interference. It boosted her ego. It's called "narcissistic supply"... she was getting it from loser when she grew accustomed to beta-hubby. Anyway, hubby clearly lets wife … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 07:53 PM |
| 1 | OKC match responds after two weeks claiming she "dropped the ball"My current gf and I messaged once or twice on a dating site and it died. About 1 1/2 years later, or something, I get a new message from her. Yeah, she basically said the same thing. I replied, "okay, sure, let's have a drink." We met up, had a great time. Been with her a year now. Look, women have tons of guys messaging them and not everyone's online game is top-notch compared to their in-person game. I figured she'd got other offers, checked a few out, nothing fit, and then she came back to tr… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 10:46 PM |
| 1 | I Can't Take It Anymore, Don't Know Where To Go From Here.Dude, you're pathetic right now. Internalize that. I don't mean that as a diss, but as an observation. Trust me, I've been there, many of us here have and look back and shake our heads in shame. Here's what you are doing right now, none of it healthy: (1) You are replaying all of your interactions with her in your head. Your are obsessed. That never turns out well. (2) Related to the first, you are looking for something you did wrong (not recognizing most of it) to find a magic bullet to fix it … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 10:41 PM |
| 28 | 25 Signs you are the kind of insufferable hamster people everywhere fucking hate.Mirror, mirror, on the wall.....what will I do when I hit that wall? Cats Blame men Double down Read more Angelou Go lesbian (and hamster I was this way all along...but patriarchy) Cry into my green tea Go work for Salon and write "man up" missives Audition for The View | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls suck"Go into monk mode beta and come out Alpha." Talk about bullshit. I'm not dissing taking time to work on yourself, get fit, get your head right etc. Do it. Good for you. Learn some discipline, etc. But fucking monk mode is not some magic elixir. It's a holding station. And that's not a bad thing, just don't kid yourself. Alpha is forged in the crucible of experience. Accomplish some shit. Once your pecs and bicep are in order, climb a mountain, write a book, learn an instrument, hit on the hotte… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 01:24 AM |
| 2 | The alpha you deserve, confronting the shadow self & a question for TRPI agree that there's an over-adulation for the dark triad here. I think this is because some guys conflate "what works" with "what is right" or "what is good". Not all do. Many don't. But there is that element here that cannot distinguish between the two. Seriously, Charles Manson is engaged to a decent looking 20 something. Who would laud that asshole? Still, he's clearly dark triad at core. Just because it gets you laid doesn't make it a "good" or "right" thing. That said, in many cases, being… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 01:18 AM |
| 4 | The alpha you deserve, confronting the shadow self & a question for TRPIt's a mistaken assumption that TRP "lauds" the dark triad. In fact, many ways of enacting the dark triad can turn you into a first class dick, one many people, including many RP guys, would find disgusting. Still, as bears repeating, sexual strategy is amoral. Here on TRP, we discuss what works and what doesn't. We observe that chicks are more attracted to dark triad guys. That doesn't mean that is a "good" thing, but rather one should be armed with that knowledge. Want to use it for your panty… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 12:56 AM |
| 0 | [FR/Rant] Beware drunk, entitled, women when out at the bar/club.What the fuck type of woman did you expect to find at a club? If it was one of those loud, thunk-thunk-thunk type of music clubs with grinding whores everywhere, well, again I ask, what did you expect? Those places are like catnip for entitled cunts. Dive bars, local pubs, and live music clubs are much better (though not perfect) if you are going out drinking and wanting to meet some women. Know thy landscape, my friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 09:00 PM |
| 53 | The demotivatoinal playlist I hear every time at the gymI find it really, really, really fucking hard to workout to typical gym music. It's all shit, even before the shitty lyrics full of grrl-power and beta-faggotry. I have found that I am much more likely to go to the gym when I have my own iphone with either sports radio or some other talk radio; better yet, my own music. That said, this is a real weakness of mine that I recognize. That is, if I don't have my own way to screen out the shit blaring over the speakers dumping chick-speak into my brai… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Girls suckJust another newb using this forum as their own personal diary and sounding board. Though I sympathize with your struggle, please try to (1) keep the whining to yourself and (2) add some value to the board if you must post. You are only adding to the noise to information ratio. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 04:37 PM |
| 14 | The guy wants to change how we define manhood to what feminists think the new manhood should beBack in my early-mid twenties I dabbled in suppressing my jerk-boy instincts and cultivating a more empathetic, emotive side. The latter never won over the former, but I did notice that when I let the emotive-beta-boy out for a walk, the women didn't start really flocking. In fact, I tried to chase down an ex-gf and get her back with that guy and it only blew up in my face. I deserved it. During that same time, my natural jerk-boy charismatic don't give a fuck guy was getting laid, just like he … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 09:44 PM |
| 15 | Even in a blue pill world, red pill truths.TLDR: Wall-victim is tired of riding alpha cock-carousel and is looking to settle for beta bucks but got pumped and dumped again. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 08:54 PM |
| 7 | (FR) Rapid escalation success. LMR Fail. Thougths appreciated.No, don't lie about your age, generally speaking. If you expect or hope to get a plate out of a girl over a decent period of time, own your age. It won't be a problem for most of them (especially with the age difference you point out in your case). Now, if you going for a ONS and don't expect to see her again, then just give an age that seems reasonable and won't scare her away. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 01:47 PM |
| 6 | This man deserves a medalThat was my reaction. Not interested in the debate of whether or not this was sexual assault (though any good prosecutor probably could convince some jury or another that was the case), but rather this was a shitty showing of behavior on the guy's part. Reeks of butthurt, revenge, etc. Just pack up her shit, leave it by the door, and walk away from the relationship. It actually takes more strength to NOT extract revenge in this situation. Of course, this being TRP board, I have no expectation of… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 01:45 PM |
| 9 | Let's talk about the next chapter in the Sexodus series in regards to meaningful lifelong commitments with women and the impacts on men that will occur in the next few years.Women are going to reap what they have sowed (some of it with men's help). Feminism said: We want women to go to school, pursue careers, eliminate the sexual-double standard, provide more gov't support, make divorce easier and enforce child-support from men, and let's get rid of body-image issues too (everyone, err, every women is beautiful no matter her size). Feminism, got all of it, and then went further: Rape culture!! The male gaze!! Micro-aggressions!! Medicate all the boys!!! The fallout:… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Losing my attraction to womenYou are blaming women for the rom-com, Disney world that you swallowed. Now you are feeling butthurt. I started dealing with women as a young kid. First kiss, 8th grade. Lost virginity at 17. By 24, had banged over 40. My reaction when encountering the Red Pill? "Yup...knew that. That's true too. Oh, here's an interesting concept I've not encountered, but it makes sense and jibes with my experience." Etc. No bitter phase for me, just a little tinkering with what I've already known/done and a few… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Can't control my feelingsSpin more plates, of course. That's always the antidote in this situation. Unfortunately for you, you were not doing that while/during/after you started fucking her. That is, you stopped spinning plates when she came along. Get a side piece or at least save some time during away away from her and dedicate it to getting back to gym and gaming chicks. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Ive seen a wide range of shit test but im not sure how ot answer this one."Who is this?" is a good one, tried and true. But, it might just piss her off so much as to cause her to cut contact as well. Wanna see if you can plate her? Try this: "Because I'm not a 16 year old girl" Then game accordingly... ie., get her out, escalate, close. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How does an alpha command respect from other men?Next time he flips you off: "No, AMOG, how many times to I have to tell you I'm not sitting on your finger??" | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 03:31 PM |
| 25 | How to cope sexual frustration ? With some ramblings.All other guys in relationships or who have been in one, let's help this guy out.... When you are single, sometimes you wish you had a girlfriend, or at least a regularly fuck-buddy. If you can get a fuck-buddy or two, the sex part is regular and often quite fun... if you manage it right. But sometimes you get a girlfriend. At first, the sex is often great, regular, and a blast overall. Then things start happening... You realize that you have to manage that girl. She'll still shit-test you and i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Why feminist seems to be so much disgusted by masculinity?Feminism is women at war with themselves. It's the hamster writ large. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Was rejected for being a "doormat", she later learned that she Effed with the wrong doormat.Sounds like you figured out that was what we all were thinking, but not calling you out on. Because, man, that's exactly what your piss-poor story sounded like what he would have seemed lite at an early stage. Get your shit together, man. Back away from the keyboard, the chicks, tv, booze, drugs, and pop radio stations. Take a fucking hike. Hit the fucking gym regular. Read lots of books. Learn some instruments, hobbies, etc. whatever. If you have never accomplished anything in your life, you wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Was rejected for being a "doormat", she later learned that she Effed with the wrong doormat.You were called a "doormat" because you ARE a doormat. Stop doing that shit. You should THANK this girl for give you truth. Or, at least, be thankful this happened and she dissed you they way she did because she was right. It should be an eye-opening experience. It should give you at least a partial clue as to who you are coming off to women. She could have been a bigger cunt, bitch, manipulator. Look, when a woman says something in the orbit of "let's just be friends"/"I don't think of you that… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Was rejected for being a "doormat", she later learned that she Effed with the wrong doormat.She was right. Not only do you sound like a fucking little worthless piece of shit, but you admittedly act like one too. She fucking owes you NOTHING. If you are too shy and too big of a pussy to turn this or that girl on, THAT IS NOT THEIR FAULT. The fact that you admit to feeling like a "fucking boss" after stealing her stuff and destroying it, shows was a pathetic lowlife you in fact are. More over, the fact that you would post this on this board thinking it some sort of cool story shows how … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 09:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl threw a can of beer at meShe would have fucked you if you wanted to give it a shot. "Asshole" = tingles | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 05:03 PM |
| 20 | RP observations and realizations from my life, before I found this subredditRead up newbies, younger guys, AFCs, betas, and everyone else. Regis223 is dropping some knowledge here. And though this is mainly a summary of information regularly regurgitated here, this is a decent overview of several central points. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | how do i deal with game and getting old of ageOne thing we both forgot: once in the sack, bang em good. Real good. They will always come back. Always (even if it takes a while...they'll still hit you up down the road). If you are not good at sex, well, good luck. You might get one home and seal the deal, but if your flabby body and half-hard dick can't rail her righteously, she'll only regret it and you're done. And, you are right about the gray hair. I have my flakes on the roof here and there, but mostly a full head of mostly black hair. … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/14 10:17 PM |
| 8 | how do i deal with game and getting old of ageOkay, let me give you some "truth" as I see it and have experienced it. First, I never planned on getting married. Or having children. I pretty much live on my own terms, and for me this has meant staying active in the things I enjoyed in my 20s (I'm late 40s now). I still party a lot, go see live music, and hang with diverse crowds. Most of my friends are my age, but I've made younger friends over time too. I'll return to this in a second. Second, yes, stay the fuck in shape. Don't get a "dad" … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/14 08:23 PM |
| 97 | Women do not give a fuck about your "feelings".Sharing feelings is what women do with each other. Want to come off to a woman as one of her future girlfriends or worse some beta-bitch boy she doesn't want to talk to? Yeah, go ahead, unload your feelings on her. That shit only works in Hollywood or it is so rare it doesn't even fall under the far end of the bell curve. Got the oneitis? Been pining away for "the one" for so long your hurt inside? Guess what? You've already blown it. Unload on her and you'll get the "I don't feel about you that… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 08:48 PM |
| 17 | Male anchor wears same suit for a year, a bit of "RP discomfort"In the Blue Pill world, men are women are not just "equal" but "the same." Thus, in his view, this is a perfectly logical approach. In the Red Pill world, we recognize that men and women have different attraction triggers. For men's attraction to women, it is visual first (intelligence, humor, demeanor, etc. come after). Thus, women's sartorial efforts will be much more likely to be noticed. And not just by men but, as this post points out, women too. In addition, in Red Pill world, we also reco… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I am virgin by choice, whats your opinion about it and why?You are already sabotaging your future relationship. You tell a woman you "save it for her", her hindbrain thinks, "I've got him by the balls." You are pre-pedestalizing a woman you haven't even met yet. She'll think your are schmuck, even if not consciously. She'll SAY she respects you, but she won't. And as far as looking for a virgin... what a bunch of mythological nonsense. Low N-count is one thing, but wanting a "pure" woman is thinking with blinders on all the way. And, as someone else has… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Do women find intelligence attractive?Not intelligence alone, no. Intelligence alone, too, by itself is not a turn off. See, you gotta hit the other attraction switches first. Bit fit, confident, dress well, tease her, flirt, don't chase, be fun and funny (but not a clown) have social proof, etc. With all that, intelligence adds value to all that. A chick will love that you are smart on top of all of that. But intelligence alone isn't gonna get her to bone you. In your case, I would be wary of her using you for homework help. If she… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 08:55 PM |
| 5 | How do women in a LTR relationships view this?I'm not sure I can answer how they "really feel about them" (your question). After all, this would require either (1) mind reading or (2) listening to what women SAY about their mates in LTRs. And we all know that you don't listen to what women say about their feelings/relationships, etc. But you do pay attention to what they DO. This is the tell. And what do they do when they've landed a male who publicly worships them? Kisses their ass? etc. Their actions display a lack of respect. They stop t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 08:39 PM |
| 21 | Six in ten brides have used dirty tricks to get engagement ring on their fingerFor fucks sake! How many times do you guys have to warned about The Daily Fucking Mail??? It's the Brits' version of the National Enquirer. Even if the data is sound, the source is not. Link original study if they give it.... unless, of course, they did this themselves and then it is not to be trusted. Yes, this shit happens. Yes, guys should be aware and wary. But do not take this as authoritative about anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 10:06 PM |
| 3 | My friend's a total beta and he's frustrated because he's not successful with girls - how do I help him?Everyone here is telling you that you can't help him unless he wants. That's probably true and good advice. So is the suggestion that he's resistant to your advice to protect his own ego. However, though I agree with the above, let me try to give you some actionable advice. As a gay man, you've interacted with women with no intention of escalating to sex. As a result, I'm sure lots of women like your non-threatening male attention. Also, I'm sure you've seen through a lot of their bullshit becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Female prof answered: "The amount of men that are raped is so minuscule...."Write an editorial for the local newspaper explaining how your campus/professor are supporting "rape culture." Say how your professor refused to let you research male victims. Send a copy to her, her chair, the dean, and the university president. Let her know that copies went to all those places. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 10:46 AM |
| 6 | "Turn Your Princess-Obsessed Toddler Into a Feminist in Eight Easy Steps" (satire or serious?!?!)The title is a bit redundant, don't you think? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Gene Simmons Tells Women: "Stop Depending On Men"Nothing to add but a link? Why not some context, discussion, commentary, breakdown? This? This is a drive by.... add some value dude | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 08:32 PM |
| 10 | Female suffers from eating disorder and is "inspirational" by saying that being fat is beautifulPrimates and humans developed the emotion of shame for a reason. Society also mobilized this and kept it around for a reason. Of course, not all reasons are rational ("shame on you for not believing in my god").... but once we accept rationalizing unhealthy bodies, we've stepped into the rabbit hole. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 03:44 PM |
| 158 | The end of academiaFeminism's greatest trick/feat/lie is to convince the most privileged, safest, well-fed, and wealthiest cohort of women in world history that they are somehow oppressed, marginalized, and under significant threat. It's second greatest slight-of-hand is to convince millions of men to agree with them, be their bitch-boys, and that is is their fault.... all the while treating the real issues facing men as non-existent. If you proposed this end-game 30 years ago, people would have thought you a craz… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 07:12 PM |
| 30 | A stark contrast between my beta days and nowAnother man TRP has shown how to hack and outflank the pussy cartel. Don't slip, bro. Stay aloof and hard to get. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 06:33 PM |
| 7 | TRP values working but I might be a hamsterYou are still looking to women for your self validation. I suggest you stop doing that. And, yes, you should stop being a bitch... all guys should. Get to work | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 01:20 PM |
| 3 | A sexual hypocrisy"Fairness" has nothing to do with it. Think in terms of humans as a species and the reproductive strategies AT THAT LEVEL. It is an excellent strategy to have the male part of the species ready, willing, and able to mate many times, with lots of females. The female, because of limited eggs, danger in child birth, and the need for provision and protection, to be more choosy. Still, they have to be made horny regardless in order to be receptive of suitors. Stir in a couple hundred thousand years o… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 06:40 PM |
| 6 | The most RP Saturday Night Live skit of all-timeSkit should be renamed: "Brenda the Alpha Widow". | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Dear Woman , A video of men apologizing to women for all they've "been" through because of men.My grandfather on my mom's side was of German ancestry. I never met him. I would like to sincerely apologize to the Jewish population for the Holocaust. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Man in /r/sex has smart girlfriendDear OP: Work harder on your posts. Provide discussion, analysis, value, etc. Or, just be a dick and say something to stir up the nest. All you've done here is a drive by.... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 09:44 PM |
| 7 | College newspaper article claims that society doesn't teach men that rape is bad, and quotes the inflated 1 in 4 statistic. Top comment calls the writer out with an excellent comeback.Yeah, men should be told not to rape. Just like drunks should be told not to drive. Guess what, those that will persist in the behavior will not be deterred by these admonitions. That's why society tolerates the breathalizer. It is a device to measure whether a public behavior that many want stopped can be detected. Who doesn't want to stop rape? Criminal, violent, sexual psychopaths, that's who. But it's a hard crime to stop before the fact. Like drunk driving, yeah, you can reduce it by public… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/14 12:18 AM |
| 3 | My TRP confession.Spend an entire day playfully teasing her ... but with no putdowns. Just make her giggle, feel silly and stupid once in a while, etc. Somewhere midafternoon, slap her ass. But don't escalate. Just get her all hot and bothered all day. Later, have her start cooking dinner. Come up from behind her and grab her waist and give her a kiss on the neck. Not long. Withdraw and go take a shower. She should be ready to jump your bones | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Speculation: Female circumcision is an attempt by some cultures to reign in hypergamy. No? why not?Dropping some knowledge. Well done and hope the board reads it. Provides needed corrective to OP and some other comments. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 12:13 AM |
| 14 | “We really struggle right now as he is unable to work and supply for his family and I feel like all the strain is on me,”Default mode = Men provide for households = no credit for doing so. Man touts his providing = yeah, so? that's what you are supposed to do. Man, incapacitated, can't provide = bitching and whining point for their women. Regardless Woman provides for household = look at how strong, independent, and capable I am!! Women cannot provide for household (typically, this is with no mate and percentage-wise, because she dumped him) = that shirtlord cannot even take care of his family (yeah, because you b… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 11:47 PM |
| 57 | I Saw A Woman Lose Her Cell Phone And Cry For An HourSummed up: She lost part of her identity. Not ALL women are as addicted as this, but most, if not all, certainly have become relatively dependent on it. A subset of these women, attention dependent too, have invested so much of their social-selves into it, losing a phone becomes a partial social-death. Preliminary research on social media / iphones, etc. suggest people, women especially so, go through withdrawal symptoms similar to heroin addicts when kept from their devices over a day or more. … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 01:26 AM |
| 3 | I'm a feminine boy with aspergers embracing TRP. This makes things difficult.Some guys are telling you to be more masculine and there are ways to do that (drop the make-up, get a real guy's haircut, lift, etc.). But you say that's not what you want, so I'll go with that. Your goal should not be the "alpha" persona. You'll not wear it well. It'll probably come off as try hard and very incongruent with who you are, see yourself as, and/or want to be. You sound like you want to be your best self, which is one thing TRP advocates. While for most men alpha traits work best fo… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 08:52 PM |
| 5 | For the older gentlemen, specifically those who had adopted this for some time now, what is TRP like for you now?I'm late 40s. Single, my design, my whole life. Went through many women, many relationships, ONS, etc. Failed a lot too. I've been RP in many ways, plus plenty of beta on occasion. I've seen many sides of women/sex/relationships before discovering the manosphere and boards like this. That's my set up to your question. According to TRP advice, I've done many things "right." Generally fit, look younger than age, active, good career, home, hobbies, don't chance down women who are interested, avoid … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 01:55 PM |
| 0 | How do i reply to this text, and she's. Saying shes a sapiosexual, but shes also bisexual....full of shit?"lol" is all you need to / should say. Then drop her | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | 14 Things Every Fat Girl Absolutely Needs to HearYou are getting downvoted for speaking of your experience of what it takes to both lift and put on muscle. Yeah, you "attitude" is a bit less-than-friendly, but who gives a shit? You are telling them like it is. Wanna lift and put on muscle? Gonna have to eat, especially protein, like it's a regimen. duh... the downvotes speak to the quality of the board at the moment, unfortunately. Alas | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Ravens cut RB Ray Rice after release of videoSo, you are saying (1) he's not responsible for his actions (both pursuing a football career and its aftermath) and (2) he should be subject to different public standards than everyone else? Really? If you are saying we should "understand" his reaction in reference to his profession, etc. Yeah, sure, that would help us understand what happened better. But you are saying he should be given "more latitude" (your words) because he's a pumped up, alpha dick that entertains us? Really? Is this your o… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 12:21 AM |
| 5 | An example of holding frameNice demonstration, OP. Even if US dudes think poorly of soccer, it's still a very athletic game where guys challenge each other's mettle constantly. You are correct. Zlatan has the body posture, eye contact, and facial expression to get the point across. And the defender backs down twice. "Fairness", whether in sports or socio-sexual encounters, will have a surface appearance of treating the other contestant within the socially accept "rules." Of course, the defender in your video is "entitled"… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Question about Sluts...Most guys love sluts. Yes, they are bubbly, fun, and often (not always) a good lay. But their either inability or lack of interest in bonding to a man makes them poor candidates for LTRs. And even if they have the interest, their high N count makes them increasingly lose the ability to bond in a way worthy of a LTR. But they do not often realize this. Also, the higher the N count, the more likely there was/is a guy in her past that surpasses the degree of alpha-tingles and/or experiences you can… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Ray Rice discussion threadI thought people were a bit quick to judge and white-knight when the story broke. After all, we were told there was video from inside the elevator we had not seen. What if she had attacked him and he simply held is ground and defended himself? Well, we've seen the video. OP is sorely mistaken that she attacked him in a violent way. I see a slight push from her and not much more. And then he punches her, knocking her out. It's a criminal act, no doubt. Now, he's been fired from the Ravens and kic… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 08:29 PM |
| 40 | My week was hilariously educational.I'm sure she felt powerful, independent, and smart riding your little bro's little bro. Liberated from decency, sense, and decorum. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I am sick of my exSo, you are angry at her and think she's a "cunt"? So, you are letting a "cunt" get you down, pissed, bothered, and so upset you have to make a post about it? Why? If she's that bad, what does it say about you that it's gotten this far under your skin? Figure what that is and fix that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 12:04 PM |
| 4 | Since becoming a Red Pill lurker, things just don't add up to me anymore.This bill makes me feel good, so it must be good. This bill puts more power in the hands of women and we know women never abuse the power given to them, so it must be good. I don't really want to think about the law of unintended consequences as it relates to this bill, so it must be good. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Do women really prefer guys with big guts over chiseled abs?Three points to make about this... (1) Again, and as always, don't listen to what women say but watch what they do. (2) Their comments about abs meaning a guy spends too much time in the gym = not enough time fawning all over me and taking care of my needs. (3) The hamster doesn't always lie. Women do admit to being self-conscious about their own appearance around guys who are fit. Then, honey, get yourself to the gym. Also, what DOESN'T make a woman feel self-conscious about her body???? As far… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 11:50 AM |
| 3 | FR: Urgh marriage, starting to think its a bad idea as I attend god awful weddingA wedding is a funeral and a reception is the wake. Some guys just have to learn the hard way... no saving them. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 11:44 AM |
| 344 | 14 Things Every Fat Girl Absolutely Needs to HearAccording to the author here, ugly, unattractive guys exist. But all women are beautiful, even the fat ones. Wha?? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Slate's Amanda Marcotte Slams 'Tyranny' of the 'Home-Cooked Meal'Another missive from another product of the entitled generation. Whatever happened to bucking-up and learning that life is about choices, sacrifices, over-coming obstacles, and so on. In my parent's household as a kid (say 1970s), all dinners were homecooked. Didn't like it? Tough. That's what's for dinner. Starve if you don't want to eat. We sat as a family every night. We laughed, fought, told stories, etc. Dad worked 40 hours a week and once the kids were old enough for school, so did mom. Sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 01:23 PM |
| 3 | [FR] What an assholeThis is an excellent breakdown and advice OP. More to teach you/insight than mine but perhaps both are helpful. Listen up and buck up | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Don't make a girl feel a whore.Correction: don't make a girl feel like whore unless you are fucking her at the moment. Most women love feeling dirty and nasty while doing the deed, especially causal sex. But, yeah, don't run your damn mouth. They don't want their public image associated with "those" girls, which they are DEFINITELY NOT!!! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy in a post-scarcity societyGo over to the Roosh V forum...it's message board on "Everything Else." Look under the thread, "American Women Be Like" thread. It's many pages long but full of entertainment. Not sure if the bot will let me paste a link or not, but here it is: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-38297.html | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 08:06 PM |
| 12 | [FR] What an assholeYou were not charming. You teased her but poorly. It should be fun and light-hearted and you made her self-conscious about her eating habits. That's useful when you are hitting on a girl with a HUGE bitch shield and you want to establish dominance. Here, it was time to flirt... you already had the date. And you were negging her (which should only be for uppity 9-10s) and made her feel unattractive. Also, it doesn't sound like you turned much of the interaction very sexual and when you did, it wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 05:53 PM |
| 14 | [LTR] How to lose your LTRShe's immature and has, it seems, abandonment issues. If you let her further into your life, she would have tried to dominate more and more of your time. You held frame just fine. And it seems the writing was on the wall. If you had crumbled to her demands and also stayed with her, she would have been an increasing drain on your time, emotions, progress, etc. Well done, in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 03:36 PM |
| 15 | Feminism is all about shame and hate, according to this now unfollowed Facebook "friend"During the Plague in Europe, they didn't really have an understanding of the disease, from where it came, why, etc. Clearly, there was a problem but no one had any idea what to do about it. Cats are the devil's ward. Kill them (and make things worse). Bad air? Make sure the king always has a fire burning to stave it off and purify it, etc. One interesting group in all of this were the "flagellants". This group believed the plague was the result of god punishing humanity for their sins. They roam… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 12:38 PM |
| 12 | What do you text when she just wants to be friends?I agree with those who say to send nothing. It's tempting to want to come up with the perfect text that either turns it around or makes you feel better about yourself. That almost never happens. First, the "let's just be friends" and "I need some time" all translate to: you don't make me hot in the least. If she was really turned on by you, she'd crawl over hot rocks to get to you. She certainly wouldn't do anything that would shoo you away. Second, trying to find the right text to turn it aroun… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Found a profile on okcupid that has a blog filled with extreme hamstering and AWALTI see a lot of wine, STDs, and cats in her future. And alpha widowhood plus a bit of post-wall incredulity, "Where are all the good men at?" | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/14 07:31 PM |
| 1 | A sure sign ISIS are just angry unlaid beta males - women would rather kill themselves than be captured by them.You are sadly, sadly mistaken in that belief. And the one's that didn't, were ganged raped by the Russians. Many of them later killed themselves. There was a mass exodus to surrender to the Americans/British/Canadians if at all possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/14 05:07 PM |
| 105 | I am never EVER getting married!Getting married these days is like playing with a toddler who has a gun with half the chambers loaded. You'd have to be an idiot to do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/14 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Are all single older woman fucked up?You are right, to an extent. But there are women who, like some RP guys, also haven't ever wanted to have kids or get married. If that's how you are as a guy, you should screen for that in women you meet. I've had FBs where that wasn't relevant. I've also had LTRs where they were on the same page as me. These women do exist... but don't expect to find an abundance of them. But if you are an RP not interested in marriage or kids, you should be screening for similar women. Plus women who've taken … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 07:27 PM |
| 120 | FR: Never mistake a RPW!Sort of a good job, but a little to harsh in my book. You should have let her off the hook once she came back and apologized. My reasoning: Women's solipsism leads them to believe that what works on them will work on us. So, her brain tells her that if another guy finds her attractive and she does a little jealousy ploy, that will get you more turned on for her. Yeah, it doesn't work that way. But still, you sort of have to treat it like a father would to a daughter. Dole out some appropriate pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 03:52 PM |
| 24 | Are all single older woman fucked up?Have you even paid attention to all the crazy BS younger guys are going through? Not 100% of women at any age group are "fucked up", but, yes, lots of them are. Does the % get higher as you age and many of them are paired off? Of course. But guess what? You gotta do what all younger guys do...screen, screen, screen... While having an "abundance mentality" and simply not ever giving a fuck if you are in a relationship or not. We meet people, some are cool, some seem that way but show you their tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 12:55 AM |
| 11 | What is your most important RP knowledge in one sentence?Always trust women to be women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 03:53 PM |
| 30 | FR - For those of you who still have doubts about what women really wantYou should have just kissed her right on the spot. Don't say, do. Actions, not words. In any case, I hope for your sake your railed her good. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 03:53 PM |
| 16 | Beta husband attempts to appease emotionally-absent wife by paying for their vacation. Instead, he is Dread-gamed into letting her go on vacation solo, along with her vibrator & secret piece of luggage she won't show him (How can any man put up with this lack of respect?)Did you read my whole post? Clearly no, because that's what I said after what you clipped and posted from my original. No biggie, though.... we agree on that point. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 01:47 PM |
| 32 | Beta husband attempts to appease emotionally-absent wife by paying for their vacation. Instead, he is Dread-gamed into letting her go on vacation solo, along with her vibrator & secret piece of luggage she won't show him (How can any man put up with this lack of respect?)Remember how the PUAs (and now later TRP guys) preached on and on about "abundance" and, lacking that, "abundance mentality"? That was because it reduced (1) the sense of desperation a guy emitted and (2) it put a guy in the right mind frame to sense out female BS and learn when, where, and how to walk away from it (one of our most powerful tools). Guess what? All of that simply vanishes with marriage. If you get married you are telling her, "I promise that I will never have any other options ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 01:06 PM |
| 6 | New to TRP. Been taking in information. Quick success story.Hey all you younger guys!! There's a message in this post for you to take to heart... YOU CAN NEVER STOP GAMING YOUR GIRL, EVEN IN A LTR. With this knowledge, you seem to have three choices: Game chicks, find one you like more than others, get into a LTR, and learn that you have to keep your game tight (especially if the shit-tests seem to go away/slow down after awhile, because they will still return and you'll tend to slip up and fail them because you got lazy; then she'll get colder, meaner, … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Girl I used to orbit gives an outpouring of emotion. Been going NC for several months now; is it possible to convert her into a plate?So you put yourself in the friendzone with her, realized it, backed off, and now your moving on with life. She feels the sting, for a few reasons. She's lost an orbiter. While you extracted yourself from her life a while back, as long as you existed near her there was the theoretical possibility that you could return to her orbit. Now that's out. She's feeling a loss. She's sensing that you quit hanging out with her because your feelings for her were not reciprocated and she's afraid you think s… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/14 10:46 AM |
| 7 | FR - Holding frame, agree & amplify, and amused mastery really work!Lots of us guys, myself included, sometimes miss noticing a shit-test until it has passed. That's a problem. One root of this problem is what might be called "active" versus "passive" shit-test. Active shit-tests she does intentionally. These are usually, but not always, easier to recognize. Pass and your value either increases or at least holds steady in her eyes. Fail and it drops. Passive shit-tests are things she does that might not be a shit-test at all, unless you fail. A sort of retroacti… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 09:54 AM |
| 8 | I've officially hit the anger stage of red pillYour post is almost worthless. Almost. Here me out. First, this forum is not for posting passing thoughts, personal problems, a diary, or whatnot. That's basically what you've provided... whiny self-pity. Second, what this board can do is be a place for sharing experiences and discussion of them, plus redpill theory posts, etc. Third, if someone does post something related to a personal experience, it is useful only if it provides some insight to a larger theme, pattern, etc. The poster then sho… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Heard this gem on the radio: Catholic priest of 30+ years considers leaving the cloth because divorcee expresses interestThis explains a lot (hopefully the bot will let it go): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oiEBopPts1E | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 01:41 PM |
| 10 | Shit Test/106.5857 She won't take this seriously and hopefully realize the stupidity of her question. If she presses the issue, hold frame with utmost seriousness: "I'm not kidding! You are a 6.5857! That's better than average babe" [then amplify] "And you move up to a 6.674 after a shower and makeup and a few beers on my end, though." | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Deconstruction and TRPBasically, yes. Agreed. Intellectual gullibility was my take on most (but not all) of post-modernism's fan boys and girls. Worse yet, if found a intolerable level of scoffing and out right rejection of scientific principles. Post-modernism what like, "say whatever you want and/or makes you feel good, right, satisfied." Their anti-science lined up well with the fascist elements found in the left (and I'm of the left and was often worried about the fascist right... then I figured out that both sid… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Deconstruction and TRPWell, the principle of peeling away layers to find meaning/truth/information beneath surface appearances / the official world is not in itself illegitimate. In fact, that's the goal of much of TRP's approach to the sexual market place, women, etc. But, this can be done is plain, straight language and analysis. And it has been done for a long time, way before Professor Derrida. As for him, his fans, and his accolades, it's a long French tradition.... Dress up your work and ideas in dense prose, l… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 11:14 PM |
| 9 | Dont know if I've understood all of trp, but here is one thing I dont understandNot everyone on TRP have been unlucky with girls. In fact, many guys there have tons of experience with women. So, first, rid yourself of that notion (though, true, many newbies there are inexperienced and have been burnt... it's the nature of the sub). As far as your question/issue, here's the gist: The Blue Pill world is taught to believe a woman can and will love you for "who you are"... soulmates, blah, blah, blah. The RP take is that women love how you make them feel, and they love the idea… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/14 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Deconstruction and TRPI've read Derrida. More than once. Not worth it. It's sort of like finally giving in to the fat chick that has the hots for you and you're drunk and say, "Why not.... no one else around right now, I'm horny, she's available, and I heard she gives good head." Even if the head was good, no matter. Not worth it. His works are filled with excessive verbiage, needless wordplay, semantic obfuscation, and lack of coherent message. NOT. WORTH. IT. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 10:12 PM |
| 40 | A status for the booksHis wedding gift to her - his balls packaged up in a box | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 05:24 PM |
| 7 | My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months and..."which would be devastating" = oneitis, lack of options, neediness Because you are too attached to her, she can sense it and it lowers your value in her eyes. She keeps orbiters and other guys around because she does not fear losing you. Simply put, in her eyes, you are not good enough to make her forget about other men. There's nothing you can say or do to stop this now. There's no magic bullet here. You need to improve yourself, improve your SMV, and develop options other than her... She has t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 01:33 PM |
| 54 | Can a wife request marriage advice from gracious red pillers?Don't nag him. Don't try to boss him around. Don't talk down to him in public. Don't use sex as a negotiating tool. Stay fit. Make healthy meals. Let him have his "guy" time, whether in front of the game or with his buddies. You may even watch the game with him, but don't keep the chatter up... get into the game with him. Recognize what a "shit-test" from women is and try to minimize them. Women do this both intentionally and unintentionally and there will always be some, even if you don't mean … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 01:01 PM |
| 2 | "The Wall is just a sexual loser's desperate desire for justice in an unjust world where he received the short end of the stick".Is the point that women don't lose their looks at some time in their life?? Well, that's obvious. Everyone does. It's just that it happens for women earlier than men. And, given that looks are the #1 priority for men's sexual attraction, it hits women harder...i.e., it is hard to compensate for. For men, we'll lose are looks too. But, it's slower and our looks are not #1 on women's list of attraction triggers. Plus, we have more to overcompensate with (money, status, game, etc.). All that said, … | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 10:43 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to "Sorry I'm not good enough for you" shit test text after telling wife I'd like to start getting blow jobs.Best option: no response Next in line (given her responses in your edit): "There ain't a league in the world where 2-3 bjs/year = good batting average." It will take the explicit/literal word content off of "her" (don't put her on direct defensive... will only escalate into stupid argument if you attack her directly at this point). It will also put it out in plain, clear detail that the focus is on the fact that, yes, the sex "isn't good enough." You have no reason to lie here, the opposite in f… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Please help me explain to my friend how manipulative and truly unfixable his girl is.If you can't stop yourself from intervening (sometimes it's best if guys learn this shit through experience), I suggest doing it subtly. You: "I heard your girl was on Accutane. I was too. It comes in many different types, strengths, etc. I heard it can also cause birth defects. Strong stuff." Him: "Yeah, ...[so? your point? etc]? You: "Did she tell you about the birth defect issue?" Him: "Yup....8 month sex embargo...." You: "Funny, thing though... When I heard she was on it, I was interested i… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 04:16 PM |
| 2 | I want to hear TRP's thoughts on this...I'm incredibly jealous of how pleasurable masturbation, sex, and orgasms seem to be for women compared to men. Any advice for getting over this?Might as well shake your fist at a cloud. Nothing you can do about it. Get over it and yourself. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/14 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Real examples of how you vet the girls you date?Coming from an older guy's perspective....In no particular order: Is she a party girl? Could be fun for a while, but not likely good for a LTR. Are her shit-tests regular and on-going even after establishing some rapport? She's likely a high maintenance bitch. Sure, some shit-testing is to be expected and it never 100% goes away, but if you've just met her or gotten to know her a little bit over time and she's constantly shit-testing you, it's likely she'll want to dominate you in a relationship… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 06:15 PM |
| 134 | Robin Williams' divorce rapeNeither will shed a tear for him... or, if they do, it won't because they were complicit in his on-going struggles and depression. After all, it was "their" money and whatever the court ordered him to pony up was simply "justice." They'll sleep just fine...and then also hire a lawyer to sue the estate for a cut. Count on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Should I next my wife?Lift. Pick hobbies, old and new. Go to games with buddies. Come home late. Get up early. Lift some more. Wait for her to start conversations at home. She needs to invest more in the relationship, which it seems you are the only one doing right now. Buy some new clothes. Dress sharp more often, if not all the time. Pick up a sport. All of this will tick up the dread game on her. And maybe some direct dread game too: e.g., "I gotta meet up with HR tomorrow at work. I'm wondering if I need to file … | /r/askTRP | 12/08/14 04:19 PM |
| 1 | What is the equalizer?Once your physique and style are taken care of, all of that can be negated with (1) poor verbal game, (2) poor body language. Here, I'll simply omit stuff like escalating and closing. There's plenty of guys out there that women will rate as physically attractive but turn them off with how they behave (a combination of 1 and 2 above). Conversely, there's plenty of conventionally not-so-phsyically attractive guys that pull regularly because they have good verbal game and body language. In short, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 03:50 PM |
| 3 | What do you say when girl says she no longer wants to see youThis is so true. Twice in the last week I've had ex-plates contact me out of the blue. One dumped me via email about two years ago. I wrote back, "Okay. Good luck." (Yeah slightly more than what is suggested above but still no butthurt, no pleading, etc....just next and move on). Funny thing about this one is that she mentioned in her recent contact email that "she's been thinking about me a lot lately" and that her son is now living with her. Yeah, she's got back on the carousel, it didn't work… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't want a "captain and first mate" relationship; I want an equal relationship with an intelligent and loving person.Women will test your frame, as they are attracted to strong, confident, and capable men. The more she loves and respects you, the less she will test you (past a certain point). Still, the tests come fast and furious early and once you've gained her respect and confidence, she will calm down and follow. She trusts your smarts, instincts, direction, etc. If you are constantly negotiating the relationship with her under the auspices of "equality" -- rather than captain/first mate -- she will never … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Who is an example of an alpha male without looks, fame, or fortune?I'm predicting...WHOOSH!!! | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 02:11 AM |
| 7 | Hypergamy and how it is seen by "high-value" womenBesides the "men are afraid of strong, independent women" tripe/trope, this idiot drops this winner on us: "They want a woman who is dumb enough to make them a priority" Well, there's the problem right there. Heaven forbid a guy want a woman who places him ahead of her job, material possessions, girls night out, etc. Nope, I'll be happy to be prioritized somewhere down the list, pleeeze. And what she totally misses: "Intelligent" women, most of them at least, can be an endless stream of shit-tes… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Rpw way of dealing with your partner openly oggling other women?Hi RedPill Ladies! I'm going to throw a little male-logic into this discussion if that's welcome. Here's the deal: As many of you have admitted, us guys are visual and we look all the time, can't help it, etc. All true. But here's the rub: That very fact that we look, are visual, love the female figure and a beautiful face and all that ALSO means these very traits of ours are what helped get YOU on our radar. We can't just now turn it off. And such complaints drive us crazy. It is like some wome… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Most Challenging Set Yet. Date with Girl Who Hated Me.So far, the advice here sucks. First, you should feel pretty good where you are at now. She was friendly and has agreed to see you. Second, the past. It's not "past" in that in has no meaning. Rather, you dominated in this girl in that mock trial. She may have been upset at the time, but you probably established some alpha cred in the process. As Roissy reminds people, gina tingles are born in a defensive crouch. Like it or not, it is often true. Third, go have your coffee and be friendly but mo… | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 07:06 PM |
| 8 | What exactly are blue pillers arguing for?When I was 14 or 15, I realized it was up to me to make the first move on a chick. I was nervous, yes, very often, but I realized it was up to me to do that. I learned and as I grew this was confirmed over and over, especially if you want to get any attraction traction and/or action in general. Sure, here and there a woman would make the first move, but that's like waiting for rain in the Sahara. Over time, I realized that the "romantic" ideal that is pushed on us is not really what presses wome… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/14 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Ask Red PillGot a text saying "I can't stop thinking about you ;)" How would you respond to this?"It happens" "No wonder my ears are burning" "Get in line, missy" "I tend to have that effect on my wenches" Turkerthelurker's stuff is good too. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/14 12:09 PM |
| 2 | List: 123 Things I Will Teach My Daughter (Feminist Edition)If he can’t handle you at your worst. He doesn’t deserve you at your best. Quote Marylin Monroe. A lot. Be the original one. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Don’t say things that are cliché. You’re better than that. If the author is unaware of the problem here, we are dealing with the stupidest and most feckless person is history. Either way, perhaps the worst list of the most competitor-sabotage-worthy bits of advice I've ever seen. Women can't only not give advice to men, but their a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 02:10 PM |
| 4 | The purpose of GW"Mirror, mirror, on the wall..." updated | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/14 11:44 PM |
| 2 | What happens when you slip. (Also, advice needed).Set up plans with some buddies to go out and have fun. But tell her you are going on a boat party. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?I had a date recently. Drove an hour to see her. She had suggested a seafood restaurant after I had suggested simply meeting for drinks. Since the time of the meet up was around a normal time to eat, I figured why not. I find the place and wait at the bar for her to arrive, plus for tables to clear. I have a drink, she arrives and gets a glass of wine. When our table is ready, I pay for the drinks and join her at the table. After dinner the check arrives. I let it sit and we continue conversatio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 11:06 AM |
| 1 | I've gotten back in touch with my old high school teacher, she split with her husband 12 months ago. We're meeting up for drinks, how do I game the fuck out of her?My advice was fine. But OP, make sure to listen to this guy. Merge the two suggestions and you'll improve your odds of the sweet spot. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 03:02 AM |
| 7 | I've gotten back in touch with my old high school teacher, she split with her husband 12 months ago. We're meeting up for drinks, how do I game the fuck out of her?When you run into her first, don't shake her hand but rather do the semi-hug, kiss on the cheek. Breaks in the touch/sexuality barrier immediately. What ever you do, do NOT call her "Miss So-and-So". You are both adults now and you say, "Great to see you Peggy" or whatever her name is. Don't sit at a table; this is drinks. Stand at the bar and don't be stand-offish. Close the body space. About 1-2 feet to start and within the first 30-60 minutes you are in her space and using some light touches … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/14 01:42 PM |
| 31 | How prevalent are all these horror stories that keep popping up?One thing economists get right... humans respond to what you incentivize. Make divorce rape lucrative for women, it will be on their radar whether overtly consciously or covertly subconsciously. There's little lost for a woman who can walk away with cash and prizes (and the kids) with the legal odds greatly in her favor. No wonder more and more men refuse to "man up" and marry women these days...which leads to... Lower the price of sex without commitment... guys will gravitate towards PUA in ord… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/14 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Vancouver Women pickier than most Canadian cities: Despite the numbers being against them.Time to invest in a cat wholesaler | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 09:32 AM |
| 6 | Holy fuck, everything just kind of clicked."If she would just see what a great guy I am!!!".... we've all been there, some worse than others. Once you realize what a fallacy that is, another world opens up. Some of us learn it earlier than others, just be glad you did (and sometimes many of us forget that lesson only to relearn it again). | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 03:35 AM |
| 3 | What is your #1 rule when it comes to women?So many to encapsulate in one sentence. But, just for the metric of "pursuing" a woman: they will desperation on you before you even realize you are showing it. Kill it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 03:32 AM |
| 25 | Screenwriter of "Legally Blond" has to pay alimony to her husband, has a DEFCON-1 meltdown.Holy shit, you mean actions have consequences?!!??? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Attractive female doctor craves alpha sex she's not getting from her life-partner beta - epic hamstering ensuesDick | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Are we allowed to ask for relationship advice here? You guys seem to be the most knowledgable in this type of thing.Next her HARD. No contact. Delete numbers, etc. No texts or emails. Respond to nothing. Hit on other girls. .... funny thing is, within "no time" - month, change of seasons, her being dropped by some tool after their fling, a year - she'll be back wanting to ride your dick easy if and a BIG IF you do that whole "shut it all down" thing above and go find other women. She'll make it easy for you too. Report back. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 01:05 AM |
| 14 | Attractive female doctor craves alpha sex she's not getting from her life-partner beta - epic hamstering ensuesThere you go, fellas.... Learn all the alpha "traits" you want (not saying guy in story ticks all the boxes at all), but if you can't rail her good in bed, she'll have that wondering eye. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Woman destroys marriage for money - Illustrates TRP perfectlyAlways trust women to be women. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Nature defies Hamster. Feminist and her love for alpha men.All the ideology in the world can't override wired attraction triggers. A hot super-model, cheerleader, amazing 10 in looks who you know is disease free and on 100% fool proof birth control offers it up, most non-gays guys will react exactly the same way, "Hell yeah I want to fuck that." Same with top guys. Doesn't matter what the woman believes politically or socially, that guy is going to be attractive to her for the same general reason as guys above, only the details change. This is a redpill… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 01:02 AM |
| 16 | Almost a year of the red pill later.Reality owes us nothing. The only wise, smart, and prudent thing to do is try to figure out how it works and adjust accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Field Report MondayTop hat. I wear a top hat.... and a kilt | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 10:01 PM |
| 11 | The best example of female hamstering you will ever getThis is neither surprising nor depressing, but yes disgusting. That the dude actually will take her back (with conditions) is both depressing and disgusting. His hamster must be something to behold as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 09:59 PM |
| 7 | Field Report MondaySome here they wanted sex stories. Can abide... Me and my FB arranged a threesome on Friday. After a bit of a delay, the the third showed up. It was mostly okay, though she was a bit nervous. My girl, though, was enthusiastic. We have plans to find another third asap. While we were waiting for the third to show up, my phone started blowing up with other women wanting to see me that night. My FB was duly impressed. I made a date with one for this coming week. After the threesome and after my FB l… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Let me bounce an idea off you redpill, the opposite of a shit test is a bitch test.Yeah dude, it's screening. But, lots of times, us guys do to passively. What I mean by that is a clued-in guy will have a sensitive radar to a girl who is being and is a bitch and because he knows his shit, he nexts her quickly. Still, as you describe it, a "bitch test" is screening but actively. Set her up to fail, as is often done to guys. See if she passes. As tactic, not a terrible idea. But my experience is that if you are already keyed into (whether before you've heard of it or not) Roissy… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 02:44 AM |
| 50 | Be a good person if you want but it won't attract womenI've talked about this with a few of by FBs. They agree totally with you. Another thing they agree with, and which they themselves find exasperating, is that they (women in general) cannot tell the difference between a "good bad boy" and a "bad bad boy." By that I mean both display alpha qualities and assholish behavior, but the former won't beat them, steal their money for drugs, or whatever. The latter will. In either case, both types of guys have an attitude, swagger, demeanor, disposition, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 05:37 PM |
| 12 | "I raped my girlfriend ... and in the evening she engaged sex. that was something she hardly ever did in the past 3 years."troll.... don't take the bait | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 10:17 PM |
| 8 | We are constantly shilled by the Social Justice Warriors. Let's repay the favor.This is what feminist trolls do to men's boards. Don't stoop so low (and it's low hanging fruit anyway) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 07:55 PM |
| 38 | tl;dr - According to this article, nice guys are misogynistic and it's their fault they get friend zoned. You just can't win.What I find so amusing is that the misandrist/feminist view that nice guys think being "nice" entitles them to sex, access to women's bodies. Well, that's not it at all. Nice guys think that being nice is the right thing to do. Now, some go overboard and supplicate, buy her things, do her favors, all in an effort to show what a great guy he is and win her over. They think in terms of modern chivalry. Also, they've been taught since childhood that women have been abused, treated poorly, used for … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | NEVER let a woman use the words "cute" or "sweet" to describe you.If a girl, who is not a real friend of yours but an acquaintance, calls you "cute", she's trying to frame you in a harmless, non-sexual way. I picked up on this years ago. These days I'll respond with a bit of a disdaining sneer (not too angry though, just displeased) and say, "Puppies are cute" and then turn my attention elsewhere. The girl might continue with her thread trying to gain an upper hand, but by dismissing her comment that way, you at least let her know you are onto her game and are… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 01:06 PM |
| 2 | 21 Things Your White Boyfriend Needs To Hear According To TwitterOh dear, now I'm paranoid over my "microagressions." I guess it's time to check my privilege. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 01:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hotgirl who rejected you, realizes mistake, and comes back and tries to make you into an orbiter? Swat that shit awayI do it to my sidepiece 40 year old surgeon all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hotgirl who rejected you, realizes mistake, and comes back and tries to make you into an orbiter? Swat that shit awayClosing I can do, but only if she simply offers up the ass to me. I ain't chasing nothing on this one. Will report back come summer should it happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/14 09:07 PM |
| 3 | In which a "liberated" denizen of the carousel finds herself in another mans bed after "blacking out"... Beta boyfriend wants to stay and "work it out"Well, I've sort of been there. Many, many years ago I was at a bar visiting a friend from college. We'd graduated together about 10 years earlier and now she was working in my home town. Every Thanksgiving, I'd go down to where she worked and catch up. We never banged in college and I actually never had any designs on it. For the first 4 years I did this, I would stay up late after her shift, get all fucked up, and wake up in the morning and leave. Just long time friends and having a good time. … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Does The Manosphere Really Want A Solution?Solution? As one who never wanted to get married or have kids, why would I want women to start closing their legs? Easier sex is something I hoped for since I was a kid. And, it seems, each year it gets easier for everyone, providing a guy has his shit together. A solution also assumes we have a civilization worth saving. Discuss.... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 09:36 PM |
| 8 | Did I have an encounter with a unicorn?By definition, a chick that will travel to meet a guy she met online for a one-time-fuck is not a unicorn. She's jumping on the cock-carousel, you dolt. She might be new to it but a sloot has to start sometime. Unicorn? Hysterical. That said, ride it again dude. Have fun while you can (or until your impending oneitis destroys you and are you back here wondering what happened). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 09:33 PM |
| 2 | “Strong Independent Women” Are So Darn WeakWe hear a lot from women who say they are "strong and independent" that also want "equality" with men. When's the last time you heard a man brag about being strong and independent???? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | So this lesbian couple is looking for a manGet in all the nastiness you can. Besides protecting your babybatter, this is an opportunity to get lots of future fat material in your brain. Fuck them several times. Get them both to go down on you at the same time. Make them lick the other's ass while you pound them from behind. Use your imagination. When you cum the first time, keep going. Don't rest. Be the boss, leave them exhausted, and walk out like a champ. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/14 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Once again we are mentioned in /askbetas as "the lonely, dejected men of muh interwebz"Can't say how long I've been "taking the red pill." I'm older than a lot of guys here (46). I've done a lot wrong and a lot right in my life in terms of women. I've done hardcore PUA shit way before it was called that. Never really had a "harem" when I was younger, but I pulled a lot more than my friends, had many girlfriends, FBs, and propositions or girls hot for me. And I've done embarassing AFC/beta shit that makes me shake my head in shame. I have experience on both sides of the fence. A fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Once again we are mentioned in /askbetas as "the lonely, dejected men of muh interwebz"Date came home with me last night. Got another number while on that date last night. Will try to get her out tonight or Sunday. Ex-gf banging me today after buying me lunch, drinks during game. The roneriness is killing me. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | "10 facts about infidelity, as divulged by Helen Fisher" Or: It's brain chemistry, and is hard built into us by evolution.Funny the assumptions articles like this work with. One could take the same data and write an article, "Monogamy: Seems Like We're Not Exactly Wired For It." | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Living where I do I forget these women are real...Lee Atwater was a political consultant/lackey in the Reagan administration. He was in charge of a lot of dirty tricks, lying, smearing, and whatnot that comes with politics at the highest levels. And, he was quite good at it too. Then he grew a little older and got brain cancer. It must have really shaken him back to reality because after this, while he was dying, he went on a little tour around the US apologizing for his mistakes, egregious behavior, arrogance, and just overall narcissistic unp… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Once again we are mentioned in /askbetas as "the lonely, dejected men of muh interwebz"I'm banging four women on call right now. Got a date tonight. While waiting, I'm setting up a three-way for Sunday. I've got 20-30 good friends. I'm seeing several tomorrow for basketball and a night of music and dancing. Soooo ronery!!! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 10:10 PM |
| 87 | A feminist tries to reconcile her political views with her sexual desiresLet's summarize her personal embrace of feminism, shall we? (1) I'm equal to all beta men. (2) For a hot alpha, I'm wet and on my knees. The end | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 03:24 PM |
| 2 | How do you get back your game after a break-up?By keeping your game strong WHILE you are still in a relationship. You gotta keep gaming your GF/wifey. Makes break-ups less likely and getting back on the horse a seamless transition. | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Please explain this logic to me.I'm writing this when I do not see comments yet, though I expect them to be of the following themes: (1) For a woman to sleep around requires her to only show up and spread her legs. For a guy to sleep around requires skill, seduction, and so on. Even fat chicks can get laid easier than fat guys. (2) As the number of partners a person has increases, their ability to pair-bond in the future goes down. Though this happens to both sexes, it influences women to a higher degree than men. Science back… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/14 04:24 PM |
| 14 | Funny shit test/solipsism example?A small bit of advice here. Don't tell her you are watching football. This might seem to her as you are "wasting" your day, another male loser with a sports addiction and jersey (not saying I agree; I watch sports aplenty). You should have just said, "Sorry, made plans already. Maybe another time." Now she doesn't have the details needed to make a conclusion about you. Are you with another woman?? Competition, they dread it. Are you doing some really fun? Dammit, she missed out; should have take… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/14 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Misery and DenialThe problem here is that men are being told a cliche that is true... "If she isn't happy, then no one is happy" ... but have been told all the wrong ways of going about making a woman happy. The male mind says, "agree with her, do what she says, give her what she says she wants", etc. And men are not being told this ass-kissing supplication is NOT what women want and what makes them happy. Further, women--the NON-Redpill ones--often don't realize where their subsequent shit-testing comes from: n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/14 03:53 PM |
| 2 | An unexpected RealityNot much more to be said than this, really. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/14 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Fantasies: Men vs WomenIf you didn't know most women like to be filthy in bed, you haven't banged enough of them yet. With a little persistence, you'll get there and articles like this will seem like old hat. But if articles like this are news to you, no problem, but it's true. Women dream of hot, dirty, nasty sex all the time. And they have more opportunities to act on it too. Explains a lot.... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/14 12:08 PM |
| 16 | Young doctor receives abundance of female attention- guys express RP truths and women deny itIt's like they can't even hear their own words coming out of their mouths.... "Yeah, I put out real quick for that other guy because I really didn't like him that much. But for you, I'm going to make you wait because I can really see this going some place." Not only do they not see how nonsensically stupid this is, it also doesn't seem to register that THIS IS EXACTLY HOW TO TURN A GUY OFF AND CHASE HIM AWAY. I wonder how some of them manage to dress and feed themselves daily. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/14 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Satire project for school. Need help making fun of feminism.First, get them on your side.... Have them all take out a piece of paper and write "strongly agree", "agree", "neutral", "disagree", and "strongly disagree" with the following: "According to Forbes, there's only 2 women CEOs running Fortune 500 companies" or something like that. Get the real data and a legitimate source. Then, say, "I believe in gender equality and situations like this simply demonstrate that women still are not being treated equally in the workforce." Ask them to write the answ… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Don't Shame Sluts, one day you may need themAnd I'm going to conquer China one person at a time... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/14 04:58 PM |
| 9 | Don't Shame Sluts, one day you may need themYou go to the grocery store with only so much cash but this also means you are normally eating at somewhat of a calorie deficit. So, you see all this great food all around you but the vast majority is out of reach because of costs, budget concerns, and so on. Thank goodness every aisle or two there's free samples. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/14 11:39 AM |
| 2 | "Aren't men the same?"On their sexual strategies, no, men and women are not the same. A man could bang a row of cheerleaders and afterwards still get it up for the Denny's waitress (a la Tiger Woods). You think Angelina Jolie is gonna do the fry cook?? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Do shit tests ever endDude, don't sweat it. I can read the situation in your story because I've been there, on both sides. I've done it "right" and ended up in the sweet spot. And I've been in situations where in retrospect I'm like, "Dammit. I'm an idiot. How did I fuck that up?" There's a spectrum of "smoothness", "solid frame", and "closing." Sometimes is just seems easy, sometimes it takes a bit of nuance, and other times you look back and see where it went off the rails. That's inherent to the whole damn thing. … | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Do shit tests ever endDoesn't matter if this was a shit-test or not. The real question is whether the way you replied/handled it was best... First, let me address the issue of a shit-test. A shit-test is also often referred to as a "congruence test", meaning she's testing (1) whether you are really the person you present yourself as and (2) whether or not you are "man" enough for her continued attention, interest, etc. Always keep in mind that most of the time women don't realize they are shit-testing you but they al… | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Briffault's Law in ActionFine, it's new years. But did you want her for anything more than that or a bang? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/14 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts from a UnicornOne thing hysterical in this whole threat is that her attitude and replies clearly demonstrate SHE HASN'T A CLUE what an alpha either is or wants. With her attitude, any alpha guy is going to cackle at her ugly attitude, entitlement complex, sense of superiority, and whatnot. Alpha guys either laugh in the faces of chicks like this or pump and dump them after gaming them hard. Future embittered cat lady in the making here. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/13 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts from a UnicornAnother victim of the female self-esteem crisis in the Western world: http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/08/17/the-female-self-esteem-crisis/ | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/13 07:15 PM |
| 21 | Fear to greed. "women delaying marriage are playing a collective game of chicken in order to avoid wasting any more of their youth and fertility on their husbands than absolutely necessary."A man would have to be a either foolish or ignorant to get married today. If he's not ignorant on the laws and odds lined up against him, he's a fool. If he's foolish enough not to know this stuff, he's ignorant. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/13 03:36 PM |
| 15 | Western women have in fact lost something that can make them much more attractive as an LTR. EmpathyWant to choked down that pill a little more? Consider this.... If a woman thinks she loves you, she's capable of having empathy, even if she may not always outward show it. She might show it, however, and soon you'll assume she really cares about you. Ever seen a woman go cold on a man she once thought she loved? She don't give a shit about what happens to him. At all. She dumps a guy and simply stops caring if she hurt him. Divorce? Lie to the court about him being abusive and don't give a shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/13 11:07 AM |
| 8 | Young woman encourages other women to have fun as opposed to settling down.Because nothing says developing "dreams" and "myself" like trying to "Eat a whole jar of Nutella in on sitting." What a catch.... | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/13 10:47 AM |
| 5 | One girl bangs three friends (facebook chat pics)And with RedPillers telling guys to go overseas to find a quality women, some lucking schlub is gonna wife this chick up. And the worm turns again | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/13 11:37 AM |
| 21 | Internet feminist: grabbing someone in a nightclub without asking permission is OK because of implied consent, stating awareness of sexual interest is not. Guess the genders!Why the hell are you arguing with internet cunts?????? There's nothing to be gained from it except maybe 1 guy in 1000 that sees through the BS. There's no trophies to be had here. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/13 07:47 PM |
| 28 | Friday Night Fail Report - Or, why acknowledging reality is better than delusion.Time ho | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/13 03:46 PM |
| 1 | And the wheel keeps spinningShe had a pregnancy or pregnancy scare from a cad alpha she can't keep her hands off. They are like crack to her. But she's realized there's no future in her badboy chasing habit. She sees the wall and possible single-motherhood in her future. So, she seeks stability in her past beta. All of that plus that twinge of guilt she has from being a royal shit to this guy... so she wants to feel good about herself again. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/13 02:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm not sure where to begin...Cats | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/13 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Using TRP as a Sounding BoardWhen you get into this debate with women (which is not advisable), what the women often here the guy arguing is, "Men like sex more than women." And, they reject this because, well, most women like sex just as much as men, if not more. But that's not what the man is usually arguing. The man is usually trying to convey that our sexual urges--driven by hormones we have more of than them--are sort of like hunger. They are not emotionally driven much of the time but rather like a bodily urge or func… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/13 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Fat Barbie isn't attractive?Mirrors are misogynistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/13 10:09 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a girl says she thinks you're gay?It's a shit test. It also means they are testing your interest in THEM. It's a way to both test your manhood and your interest. I always kiss the girl when they say that. And escalate shortly after. Always leads to a lay. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 10:27 PM |
| 61 | Slimmer Women’s Waist is Associated with Better Erectile Function in Men Independent of AgeHotter women make our dicks stand on end, which means younger, slimmer, etc. Fatter older women do not. Not sure anyone needed science for that... well, maybe harridan feminists but they will just stick their fingers in their ears and yell "The Patriarchy" and then "Fuck science!! My feels!!!" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/13 03:37 PM |
| 30 | 50yo guy on women as oportunistsThe recession did not cause this but it certainly might have strengthened it, given women's self-reports of not wanting to work as much as men and how much happier women at home are over those with full-time jobs. So, here's the deal. As we all should know, most of human history past the hunter-gatherer stage (the latter of which is in FACT most of actual history) have had arranged marriages and severe penalties for adultery. This was true more so for women because of the need to make sure offsp… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/13 03:34 PM |
| 52 | AskHamsters thread about what qualities of the opposite sex are most attractive, a pro-beta circle jerk ensuesThey are describing the qualities they want a man to have THAT THEY ARE ALREADY ATTRACTED TO. They are not lying, but they also don't really know their own attraction switches. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/13 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Swedish parliament removes Baroque artist's bare breasted painting for offending feminists and MuslimsI wonder if the feminists there will have a moment of self-reflection when they realize their sexual politics lines up nicely with the most repressive, sex-fearing, patriarchal religious fanatics in the world? Wait...nevermind | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/13 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Is The Almighty Notch Count a False Mark of Masculinity? Or is it a Measure of Your Guile & Courage?If you are committed to being unmarried, that doesn't not mean you should not have a sex life. If you are not in any relationship, this in no way means that you should never, ever pursue sex with those you like. As such, the longer a man is not in a committed relationship should no way lead to the conclusion that he should not figure out how to engage in a sexual life while, for however long it lasts, he is unattached. People who are coupled up often get more opportunities for sex, but it doesn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/13 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Is There A Rapist-In-Waiting In Every Guy? The rape switch.Step One: Blame all of society's ills -- especially those women must deal with while ignoring those of men -- on men, not individual men who do bad things but men in general. Step Two: Deflect any suggestion that women are anything other than pure creatures of honorable intent who are victimized by the choices of others. Step Three: Accuse detractors of misogyny; deny misandry in any form. Step Four: Act in shock, horror, and dismay when men start reacting to the slanders with criticism, disgust… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 04:03 PM |
| 3 | The Red pill works, here's whyNext lesson in self-improvement for you: spelling and punctuation. And no, I'm not being snarky. It's not unimportant. Fix that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 12:59 PM |
| 3 | The Hamster Runneth: One in 200 Pregnant Women Claim to Be Virgins[insert gratuitous Madonna/whore complex joke here] | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/13 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I turn into a pussy after a month of dating.Date several women at a time and don't cull it down to one until at least 6 months - 1 year. This will do much to prevent neediness with any one of them. Also, a needy guy is one that doesn't see himself as high value and we know what women think about low value men. Fix that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/13 10:14 PM |
| 3 | New here, a couple questions :)Next time you feel bad about the prospect of him not being able to afford a Christmas gift, ask yourself two questions: Would you rather date a guy with a house, one who's trying to prepare for a future, or one with an apartment and little drive? How much money has he already spent on you during your relationship? Has he paid for any dinners, drinks, gifts, outings, etc.? In short, has he already spent roughly $200 on you so far? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/13 02:11 PM |
| 13 | Update on the guy who found his wifes gangbang sex tape. He takes her back, wife offers to bring other women into the relationship to keep him happy. /r/Relationship_Advice goes crazy, calls OP a jerk, crazy, narcissistic, immature, and says his wife owes him no sexual attention, etc.She's just not turned on by him and wants to keep him around by using another woman. How long do you supposed that will last? He's being tooled and she's the instrument. Textbook | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 02:57 AM |
| 2 | this is not the red pill you're looking for"You are my ex".... cackled loudly. So want that to be real | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I think women are fantastic..Several female animal species eat their own children. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Do you think there are certain traits that make some women more addicted to Bod Boys than others?Check his username... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/13 07:05 PM |
| 25 | True or false: "Earth To Hollywood: People Will Pay To See A Female Superhero Film"Ripley is considered one of the all-time heroes, male or female. Make the protagonist a badass and most people won't care what's between their legs. Uma Thurman in Kill Bill also comes to mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/13 04:49 PM |
| 50 | So what ARE our weaknesses?(1) Tolerating shit from women we wouldn't tolerate from men because we want sex from the women. (2) Resting on our laurels after achieving goals and accomplishments. (3) Self-destructive behavior... drinking way more than we should, sometimes. (4) Focusing on sports to the distraction on other things. Sports are great, I love them. But throw in a history documentary or a physics lecture up on Netflix once in a while. (5) Similar to 4... playing video games way more than one should. I fail at 4,… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/13 04:47 PM |
| -6 | A text I wrote to my gf...Hysterical! I like it. Your GF will hate it. Time to spin plates!! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/13 08:07 PM |
| 31 | Chinese Man Fed Up With His Girlfriend's Shopping Spree Jumps To His Death In MallShe's already forgot about him and looking for a new sap/provider. Her hamster: "I'm glad he did that; it shows what a loser he was in the first place. Whew..I dodged a bullet." | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/13 09:30 PM |
| 3 | History repeats itself: China had the Cultural Revolution. Decades later, the west has feminism.Year ago, when I was surrounded by academic graduate student women studying poli-sci, soc, ant, and geog, I did sympathize with their concern for women's equality in making their way in the world...blah blah, fill in the rest. But I also was very cognizant of their, what I called at the time, "policing of words". I saw this not only in their writings but in their interactions. I could see feminist women watching for the "wrong" word coming out of my mouth. Ready to judge me and condemn me as typ… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/13 01:35 AM |
| -21 | Call to Arms: Vasalgel baboon studyI'll fund my own male contraception by wrapping it and cumming in her mouth or on her but never in her. Problem solved. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/13 12:14 AM |
| 9 | Why do girls post on gonewild from an askreddit postManosphere cliche: women are sex objects, men are success objects. True dat | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 11:02 PM |
| 10 | Are black men naturally more red pill?Kitchen manager in my local bar/restaurant is a black guy and the shit that comes out of his mouth is like Red Pill central. I have no doubt he's never heard of the Red Pill. But, just say something about how women "really" work, and he's totally hip to it. He don't put up with shit, tells his woman how it is, she's totally devoted, etc. etc. We can theorize why, but the fact remains that many black guys are WAY clued in to the nature of the female half more than others. It'll hurt you none to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 10:48 PM |
| 21 | Why do girls post on gonewild from an askreddit postGirls are balls of nervous insecurity that cannot be placated. Positive comments about naked selfies salves the ego temporarily, but it never cures the disease. Look at celebrity women. They are still driven for affirmation, even though they get money, acclaim, paparazzi, and whatnot kissing their ass regularly. Want to keep a woman? Don't constantly tell her she's amazing. Making her work for it makes you higher value in her eyes. Women don't fuck down. At minimum they fuck equal, but hypergamy… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 10:41 PM |
| 29 | Feminists pushing to remove shame from hypergamy are only hurting themselves.Feminism has turned our society into a large cattle farm. See, the young calves get all the food, water, and shelter they want. They are taken care of. They think, "What a good life I have." They get to run the fields and allow the bulls come have their way with them. They get older and suddenly are lead to the slaughter house. "What the fuck? I didn't sign up for this!!??" And it's game over. Meanwhile, a younger generation of calves is chewing their cud, "Life is good. I'm horny. Where's the b… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 04:48 PM |
| 8 | A FR of Failure and Partial SuccessThe amount of texting and calling you did without her answering was (1) cringeworthy, (2) totally the wrong tone, and (3) excessive. Your value dropped in her eyes with every text you sent / call you made after those that went unanswered. Stop it. You come off hungry, desperate, and having little style or charm. You need to work on all of that. That said, good for you for trying and coming here to get feedback. Keep working on yourself. Good luck | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/13 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Deaths of Paul Walker versus Nelson Mandela...[Guess which one I have seen more Facebook posts about by girls today]ITT: Male alpha widows butt hurt about any criticism of fake movie icon and his adoring fans. Movies and hollywood are not reality fellas. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Hamster's wheel spins but, as usual, goes no where.As someone who never intended to get married, god I love sluts. (1) Sluts are easy targets. When you see a good looking slut and she's into you, it often means a fun night in the sack. Awesome. (2) Sluts lower the bar for all women. They make casual sex easier and if you get a date with a non-slutty woman and you are a quality guy, she knows that if she doesn't sleep with you soon it is easier for you to find someone who will. Win (3) Because general sluttiness lowers the bar for all women, that… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 01:54 PM |
| 37 | Men let's talk... video shows a man asking all men to take responsibility for being a part of the rape culture.Rape culture is real. It exists in societies where women are punished by rape because they were out in public without a male relative. It exists where women are jailed because they were raped by other men. It exists where women have no right to refuse sex from husbands. It exists where rape is a "normal" part of war and conquest. Yeah, that describes many parts of the Middle East and Africa. It doesn't exist where men can be prosecuted for raping wives. It doesn't exist where men are jailed for … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 01:44 PM |
| 40 | Nature never intended for women to have kids at 30+. A woman loses 90% of her eggs by 30.Wholesome Woman Blues Sing it to this tune: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rX009sWzRQg I see that Wall a’comin’ It’s just around the bend And I ain’t found my husband yet and I don’t know when I’m not a wholesome woman and time keeps dragging on But that train I pulled in college don’t matter none I just want a baby, be a mama to a son Still I just love those bad boys, ones who play with guns But I shot down all the good men, just to watch hope die When I hear my cats a mewing, I hang my head an… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/13 09:17 PM |
| 1 | FR: Yeah, about your loyal long-term girlfriend....Game and the RP condensed into one sentence. Nicely done | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/13 12:56 AM |
| 16 | Why guys aren't as aggressive as they could beWomen are turned on by a man confident in his sexual and takes control of the interaction. If she doesn't find you attractive, it probably won't work. Your looks are lower on her list than her's are on ours. But if you act like "you've been there before" and know what you are doing, she'll follow your lead. "It's just happened", etc. Women are rarely sexual aggressors, except toward top men. But, if you are not one of them, you can still be sexually confident, cocky, smooth, and lead it toward w… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/13 12:26 AM |
| 14 | Red pill in training. Ltr gf almost goes home with bosses son. Hypergamy blues.It's a tough lesson to learn, one that I've not always succeeded at. In our "equalitarian" ethos, we tend to be taught to treat women as equals, at work, in social settings, etc. Often, that's just fine given non-sexual, non-romantic circumstances. That's what's been given to us and we have to "adapt." Okay. But, in romance, sex, relationships, etc. that JUST DOESN'T WORK. A man must lead, be the captain of the ship, be dominant, etc., etc....fill your cliche in here. If you are not leading in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/13 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Just met a unicorn.Met her one day and concludes she's a unicorn. Sigh. Asks TRP if he should look her up on Facebook. Double sigh. Back away from the keyboard, forget about the unicorn, hit the gym, spin plates, blah blah blah. Better yet, get a tall glass of water and wash the Red Pill down a bit more. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/13 08:29 PM |
| 168 | Red pill in training. Ltr gf almost goes home with bosses son. Hypergamy blues.She's already left the relationship, man. Now it's your job to make it official. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/13 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Open Discussion: Is Hugging Girls Beta/Blue Pill?Don't hug girls you are into but haven't bedded yet. Hugging sends girls the signal that you are a "pal", a "bestie", in short, another girl. Hug girls you are friends with. It bonds them to you and they are good social proof. Even if all that is shite, when a woman you are close friends with hugs you, you need to figure out what she's up to. If it's an excited to see you hug, she just might want you bad. If it's the friendly hug that friends give, she's sending you the signal, "you'll never see… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 12:29 AM |
| 60 | Cuckolding 101 over in /r/sex: Guys "GF" asks him to fellate another man in front of her. Says that it will turn her on, to see him do it. Guy is actually contemplating it. SHMFH...If I was in a serious long-term relationship with a woman, I'd probably take a bullet for her... but never a cock | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 12:23 AM |
| 2 | I'm curious what's the most common mistakes areThat's not how this works. Learn by doing | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 04:54 AM |
| 10 | Enough With the Ridiculous Studies on How Men Change Because of WomenEnough with linking to jezebel | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 09:59 PM |
| 0 | If a mans value peaks mid 30s, how do you explain most older guys getting NOTHING?One of by FBs is half my age... I'll let your imagination to the rest of the math | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 08:02 PM |
| 23 | FR: Yeah, about your loyal long-term girlfriend....Every word is true... but you don't have to believe it. You don't have to do shit, my friend. But let me tell you this.... Inside EVERY woman, is a 15 year old girl just dying for a guy to bust that little girl out of her. Want "game" condensed? Make her feel like a giddy school girl being teased by the bad boy in the class. Do that, and women of every age revert right back into that girly girl state. I've seen is tons of times. And if you read carefully, which you didn't, I haven't spent a dime… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 06:58 PM |
| 176 | RedPill truths come out in /r/funny..... Hamster wheels start turningIn the posted link: Women waking up to the realization that men have preferences, just like women do, and at some point what MEN want not only matters put tips the scale in their favor. Oh the horrors!!! Kind of amusing watching hamsters go nuclear. "OMG! You mean that what benefited me in my 20s won't in my 30s and in fact I have to actually bring something other than looks, tits, and pussy to the table!???? Men are awful." Haha | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 03:41 PM |
| 7 | Little Blackberry of Boys. A dossier of how 'I dangled' men for my pleasure....Take note, fellas. That hot girl you're chasing? Yeah, there's plenty of dudes blowing up her phone all the time. She let's them, too. Still want her? Then how are you going to distinguish yourself from the pack of jackals hounding her door? The guy that can do that gets her attention. Okay, so you got her attention. How you gonna keep it? Because she's going to be constantly hit on, especially when you are not around. And her phone will still fill up with new numbers seeking her attention. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 01:02 PM |
| 135 | I'm curious what's the most common mistakes areFailing by coming on too strong or not coming on to her at all. Failure to escalate when the time is right. Blowing up her phone once you get a number. Failure to lead to the kiss, or lay. Complimenting too much or most any form of supplication (doing something for her approval). Scaring her off by chasing too much. Lack of options; or, more accurately, a perceived lack of options. Not getting into and/or staying in shape. Prioritizing getting girls over having things going on in your life. Bein… | /r/seduction | 23/11/13 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Alternate Title: "I'm Pushing Forty, Have No House or Savings, Because I Sacrificed My Career For My Wife, Who I Send $800 Per Month: The Cost of Being a Beta Husband"In song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFmflPM8IWk | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 02:17 AM |
| 20 | Apparently "real" = hambeast. Lots of hamster v. logic in the comments. WARNING: fat women in lingerieBecause an ideal world is where a woman is never criticized for the results of her choices. Men... shit on them endlessly and ruthlessly and no body bats an eye. That's the "equality" being pushed on us | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 11:57 PM |
| 20 | Apparently "real" = hambeast. Lots of hamster v. logic in the comments. WARNING: fat women in lingerieSuccinct, biting, and to the point. bro fist | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 11:56 PM |
| 35 | Apparently "real" = hambeast. Lots of hamster v. logic in the comments. WARNING: fat women in lingerieOne idiot chick commented that everyone is beautiful no matter what their size. This is what the everyone gets a trophy generation has brought us. Sorry, I can be attracted to a "normal" sized women, but these women are fat, fat, fatty, fat fat. It's disgusting to be celebrating something ugly as beautiful and something unhealthy as real and normal.... ..."scientists still cannot figure out why the United States experienced a massive explosion of thyroid malfunctions in the 1990-2020 period. For… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 09:48 PM |
| 38 | "Why don't men have balls anymore." I couldn't resist. Spinning hamsters, shaming tactics, and a hilarious author bio.It never even occurs to her that men are not doing what SHE wants them to because many men have discovered that WOMEN have made it not worth the effort to court them. Not once in her list of things that have been making men behave in ways she doesn't like is something related to women's behavior. Shall we come up with some things she could have added her to snarky list? Sex-positive feminism has made it easier for some men to get sex and these guys have little time for "courting" her entitled as… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 03:47 PM |
| 5 | I'm losing my attraction to women due to resentment.You're boner will eventually speaking louder to you than your brain. What to do then? Just keep your eyes and ears open and never forget what you are getting into with women. Seems like you are getting that part covered. And, here's the thing: It is very possible your distrust and disdain of things female will make them qualify themselves to you. They will find your lack of chasing confident and attractive. Make them work and you just might find one worth your time. Outside of that, simply ask y… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/13 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Deathbed regrets express redpill realizationsAt mid-40s, I've cleared each of these hurdles. That means I'll have other regrets on my death bed, if I get one. Minimize your regrets, fellas. This list comes from those who've experienced it. Live life well and don't stumble over these regrets listed in the post. You'll have regrets anyway, just don't make them major ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/13 07:44 AM |
| 48 | Yet another example of how feminism screws up kids...When that poor kid hits adolescence, they will hate their parents forever afterward. If a girl, she'll be pissed she was never taught how to cultivate the feminine wiles that attract men. If a boy, he'll be pissed for the same/mirror reasons when he fails with women. If the child sees itself as gay/trans, they will forever wonder if they were born with it or whether their parents' little "experiment" was the reason. Good job feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Dissecting The Red Pill (Part 2) - Q&ASidebar material, IMO | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/13 07:53 PM |
| 4 | 10 Ways to Be a Better Male FeministThe feminine imperative in all its glory. Don't you get it guys? They get to make all the rules | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/13 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Should infidelity be an automatic marriage killer?The question really is whether pair-bonding with the expectation of lifetime monogamy is realistic... for either/both sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/13 12:49 AM |
| 6 | How do you kick her out the next morning without being an asshole?Just get ready for the gym, one-on-one basketball with your buddies, whatever. Get your stuff together and get ready to leave. She'll do the same. I've done that and driven around the block and come home.... especially with a girl I don't want to bang again but will likely run into again. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Trying to come up with my own openers. Tips?"Trying to come up with my own openers".... "Tips?" It's like dividing by zero.... Making my head hurt. Go back and try again, OP. Clearly contradicting yourself arouses no cognitive dissonance in your head. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 07:11 PM |
| 6 | When you participate in Movember then you support white Christian cisgender male privilegePoe's law for feminism in action! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/13 06:20 PM |
| 72 | Back in my blue pill days....."Don't judge me on my looks while I'm judging you on yours" | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/13 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Halloween-Praking WITH some Insights about WomenNothing linked. Stop using the internet today. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/13 02:03 PM |
| 20 | The logical extreme of slutty Halloween costumesHer father must be so proud.., ... and her future husband must never be told | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/13 08:24 PM |
| -2 | Is it uncommon for a guy to have never talked to a girl at a bar?At 27, yes, uncommon... even symptomatic of dysfunction. Look deeply inside yourself and get yourself fixed. Humans in general are social. You don't have to be a PUA, but to not even have entertained a conversation with a new woman out in public at a bar is strangely and peculiarly telling of some sort of social awkwardness that will only fuck you up more over time. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 10:55 PM |
| 47 | 22 Things That Men Should Be Required To DoYeah, don't generalize about women... but all guys, even the "good" ones, are complicit in "rape culture." The hamster is the guardian of cognitive dissonance... at all costs | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 09:18 PM |
| 12 | No shame: a small storyMen have always been disposable. Now, the women actually count on it. Worse, with so many thirsty guys out there, they don't even feel the repercussions of their shitty behavior. Next her ass. Not that it will do any good or teach her any lesson, but walk away with some self-respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Field reportIsolate her before cockblocker can interfere. If cockblocker does interfere while you are trying to isolate, just say, "I need to borrow your friend for a few minutes. I'll bring her back in one piece, promise." And then grab her hand, turn your back to him, and walk away. If she complies, what can he do, really? He just has to take it or turn into the hugest douche ever, and probably further turn her off in the process. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 12:05 PM |
| 33 | Boyfriend dumps verbally abusive girlfriend (in Cantonese) (/xpost/JusticePorn) AKA Asian Princess SyndromeLove the bro giving him the thumbs up as he storms off. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/13 08:48 PM |
| 10 | MansplainingMaybe, but probably not if we confuse the two terms for being opposite sides of the same coin, which I don't think they are. For women (usually reactionary feminists, but not always) when they use "mansplaining", it is a term to not only shut down a man's opinion (and, yes, some guys do use "hamstering" to do the same), but it's implicit argument is that the man is explaining something to a woman in a way that treats her as stupid, ignorant, childlike, and so on. While some men do this, this ter… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/13 11:29 PM |
| 11 | This guy: Fiance who has 3 kids with 3 different men, one of whom he's paying child support for, is a stay at home wife who refuses to even help around the house, and stopped having sex with him. This poor man.Poor guy needs Patrice O'Neal or Tariq Nasheed... Or just some plain old fashioned balls. In such scarce supply these days, unfortunately. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/13 09:09 PM |
| 11 | How To Deal With "Princesses/I'm Special" the RP Way?"fishing for compliments is unbecoming, sweets." Or, the classic, "bring the movies" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/13 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Virginity is absolutely meaningless to guys. Stop being discouraged by a meaningless label and being beat down into diffidence and submission to women with it. (personal success story)First time I got drunk I thought I discovered the secret to drinking and having a good time that few people understood. Congrats on the sex, btw..... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/13 08:00 PM |
| 0 | I seriously hate cryingAnd I write this as someone who also doesn't always see the shit-tests coming. I've failed plenty. In retrospect, sometimes you're like, "FUCK!!" and then you realized what you should have done. It is often easier to see this in other's interactions than your own. Gotta keep chops up and practice and be aware. Girlz be crazy.... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/13 12:17 AM |
| 57 | I seriously hate cryingYeah dude, serious failure here. Shit-test failed. Stepped out of your frame and into hers. Caved to manipulation. Lost respect not being your own man. Looking weak and malleable to her machination. She might not even have been doing this consciously. Sometimes this girly shit just kicks in. Remember, they don't always know they are shit-testing you, but they always know when you fail. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 08:34 PM |
| 8 | Debating FeminismGo on youtube and search from "pay gap myth" and find the one with the economists explaining it. It's about 3-4 minutes along. Post the link on her facebook page. Then delete your own facebook page. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/13 01:10 PM |
| 7 | [Study] Dieting doesn't work. TRP-ers are (partially) wrong about fat people.You have completely misread this information. "Dieting" as used above means "calorie restriction in order to lose weight." So what we have here are studies of people who ate LIKE CRAP for too long, went on a restrictive diet, lost weight, and then put it back on. The RP philosophy, when it mentions "diet", is not referring to calorie restriction but rather eating healthy and exercising. This works for about 95% of the people who put the time in Get rid of sugar Get rid of white flours, including… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/13 06:34 PM |
| 3 | TRP Talk: Girls who say "Don't judge me!" ಠ_ಠI had to explain this to someone the other day.... Everyone judges everyone else all the time. That's how we make friends and lover. We judge people on their friendliness, trustworthiness, compatibility, goals, drives, and so on. Those we judge positively we draw closer to. Funny, though, we usually don't call positive judgments "judgments." Those we think are jerks, assholes, dishonest, shifty, and so on, we tend to not become friends with. No one bashes us for this. Both men and women do it al… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/13 12:05 AM |
| 25 | You Really Can't Make This Shit Up (Part 2)Girls hate pushovers. They hate guys they started to fuck and learned they were a pushover later even more. Worse, they really are conditioned to take an alpha they want to fuck and turn him into a pushover so they can turn on him too. When he refuses to bend, they'll gladly ride his bone while staying with the beta they hate. And you can get them to admit this too. It ain't the "the patriarchy" that accounts for this, however. It's how they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/13 01:07 AM |
| 1 | 5 Reasons Why She FlakesCritics here are missing a huge point in my estimation, backed up by my experiences... The point is not to have you ponder "why she flaked" but to give you a bit of insight on how to lower your flake rate. And several points in the article are right on... Women have to reach a level of attract, trust and comfort when they meet you the first time to decide whether they want to meet you again. These sort of articles use the word "connection" to get that across. Now, this can be done in short order… | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:56 AM |
| 2 | how to get women to chase YOU and get your friends to set you up with hot girlsGirls talk. Bang the daylights out of one of them, many others will know eventually. When those others come to you, bang the daylights out of them too. Bad reviews also get around. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Guys girl becomes distant after returning to uni, he rolls out the feels cardYeah, I agree with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 11:36 PM |
| 19 | Forgiveness and TRP.She was PLANNING on cheating, and it was just the fortuitous change in your schedule that prevented it. Put herself out there, i.e., making herself available for seduction Ready to make something happen, i.e., escalating the seduction process by her own volition Touched legs, i.e., kino, whether or not she started it, she didn't end it but rather participated, likely enthusiastically She would have said NOTHING had you not crashed that impending opportunity. The truth is that she wanted to cheat… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 06:39 PM |
| 32 | Guys girl becomes distant after returning to uni, he rolls out the feels cardShe banged at least one dude over summer, probably soon before uni started (she'd have gotten over an early summer fling by now). Probably an alpha cock she rode and now she can't stop thinking about him. Her BF's note to her will only hasten the process of dissolving the relationships. She's already walking away and now she will run. He should have gone ghost on her cold behavior and see if she'd come back, as the future status of the relationship is already set, if not official by her actions.… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/13 03:15 PM |
| 11 | Girl game: It's as easy as pie.Regular Redpill commenter here... Cooking ain't, by itself, going to get us guys attracted, horny, hard, interested, etc.... But it is a part of a host of traits that we find attractive. Before I go on, it turns out that guys that can cook are also impressive to today's women. The point is this... We all live in a world with easy comforts that are low quality and de-skillng. Fast-food, shit food at the store, and so on. Few people know how to engage in everyday habits and qualities that used to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/13 12:30 AM |
| 10 | Niggas in Today I learned are finally seeing feminist bullshit for what it isI imagine if Summers said that women are better than men at something, no feminist would have batted an eye. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/13 06:42 PM |
| 8 | (From r/relationships) OP finds his brother and fiancee in bed together, naked. Fiancee claims she thought brother was him. Comments chew him out for being upset with herLet's, for the sake of argument, assume the story is true. And I only read a few of the responses on the original OP. But here's what I did see from the OP and most of the respondents... Ask yourself, what must be true for the OP's most optimistic scenario? That his girlfriend did in fact just come home for work, go to bed, and his brother showed up, got in bed, and then confused the brother for him. But what must also be true if the above is true? That the brother said to himself, "Hey, I'll ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/13 12:31 AM |
| 63 | I got into debate with a feminist who founded a feminist alliance at my university. Faced classic slut shaming and white knight anger; I've think I've learnt my lesson, but I need to let it out.The problem with a lot of feminists is that they are EMOTIONALLY invested in being "women", "oppressed", and "empowered." Since the positive feelings they get from those things are enhanced by feminist dogma, facts, logic, and reason are not going to penetrate very far. Further, plenty of what feminists bring up is relatively accurate in terms of historically women often being treated like shit. A good ideology needs some elements of truth on its side to function most effectively. But, (1) they … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/13 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Dock workers lift big weights, but a player PLAYSDude, if you've paid attention to RP/Manosphere advice, which apparently you've only done partially, it goes something like this: Fame Status Money Looks/Physique Game Have 2-3 and lack of a few, game can compensate for. Muscles/looks are not the be all and end all of getting women. The usual rule of thumb is, "they help." They can get attention but yeah, you gotta be able to game the chicks too. All that said, good came can trump all of them if you don't have them. That's all you are experienci… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/13 10:50 PM |
| 6 | FB initate attempt. HB9! Tell me what I did wrong.Obvious try hard is obvious. How well do you know her? If not very well, why should she want to chat about PnR with a relative stranger? She probably assumed you were hitting on her and didn't want to be bothered. Do you realize how many lame pick up attempts an HB9 deals with daily, weekly? She rolled her eyes and closed the chat window. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 05:03 PM |
| 21 | Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens.Was at a house warming party last night for some friends recently married. Another one of our friends was their, sans his wife. On their anniversary, no less. Where was she? At a concert out west 1000 miles away. She had recently passed her classes for being a RN and took a position a few states away towards the east coast. In short, she's moving up professionally, he is not. So, she tells him she doesn't want him to join her in the new city; basically leaves him. And then goes on tour for a few… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 12:08 PM |
| 50 | Why you all need feminism (in pics)I need feminism because without women being told that casual sex is empowering there would be fewer women to bang for fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/13 01:23 PM |
| 12 | Leftoid logic: Man who doesn't see a future with a woman who got an abortion is a jerk and douchebagCould give a shit if a woman has had an abortion or not. Many do, and if you aren't wrapping it up on your end, you just might be part of one, like or want it or not. On the other hand, if a woman has had many and basically uses it as a form of general birth control, her priorities, judgment, and head-space are clearly not in order. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/13 11:59 PM |
| 2 | How does theredpill feel i should act given my situation.If you start pouting and acting like a jealous bitch about this around her, she's gonna dump you and hump him. And its probably a bit too far down the line to suddenly draw a line in the sand. That boundary has been crossed and she seems in control. What to do? Well, one thing that comes to mind is to have her see you chatting up other women and get her jealousy going a bit. When she throws a fit, just bring up how she interacts with other guys. Then explain the easy solution is for neither of y… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/13 12:52 PM |
| 5 | Super feminist's greatest hit and why I swollowed TRPI agree with you on the gender studies classes. But you do realize that much of what TRP teaches as well as PUAs are based on sound sociological observations, right? Right? Even if they are not sociologists themselves, a good deal of what a whole host of people are arguing--MRAs, PUAs, and TRPs, are sound sociological insights. Their knowledge might even crack into the social sciences some day, or at least be substantiated by them. Of course, I'll admit, much of that field has been indoctrinated… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/13 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Am I doing something wrong? Can't convert one night stands to spinners.My experience with one night stands is that they often, but not always, do not come back for more, even if the sex was great (and I always make sure it is). So why is this? Simple... they like feeling slutty and naughty while doing the deed. But to come back for more they would have to look you in the eye all the while thinking, "He thinks I'm a slut." Often, ONS happen after drinking, when defenses are down. She can be horny and DTF that night... but then, in the light of the next day she feels… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 06:08 PM |
| 3 | "Gentleness, uncensored emotion, vulnerability –- all of these became, under the influence of the social evolution, unnatural characteristics when manifested by men."Pay attention fellas, there's a Red Pill lesson to be learned here... Whoever wrote that headline is a good example of the fucked up situation we're in..."the feminine side of masculinity"??? Next up: The carnivorous side of veganism? The treacherous corners of circles? The Sweet Aspects of Pickles? And so on. Look. They could have written the headline as "Feminine traits guys can express" or something like that. That would logically make sense, whether or not you accept that this is a good or a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 02:08 AM |
| 13 | Patrice O'neal: Leading professor at TRP UniversityLove Patrice. A good barometer of whether the women you are interested in is a prospect worth pursuing is to see how she reacts to him. I recommend his stand up special, "Elephant in the Room". She may not directly say she agrees or disagrees with his ideas, but what you should look for is whether she laughs or not at his schtick. He's on point and only a delusional woman would deny it. He gets that the root of things very often and a woman worth your time will give you some indication that she … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Field Report MondayThursday: Girl I tried to game and failed (part of it was her lousy girl game I got bored and frustrated with and moved on) comes finds me at the club and goes for a hug, i.e., please validate me and make me feel you still like me and that you'll jump at my whims (she's 20 years younger than me). Taken a bit off guard, I give her a slight pat on the back with a half-hearted hug and turn to my buddy who I came with, turning my back on her. Thirty minutes later she comes up and puts her arm around… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 02:13 PM |
| 11 | The choice to be child-free is admirable, not selfish | Jill Filipovic | Comment is freeHaving way too many children IS selfish. Any more than replacing yourself these days is just an additional tax on the environment, which isn't in really great shape. I have no problem with people having children and most of my friends do. But not only is it not for me, but having too many little genetic replicas of yourself running around verges on the narcissistic. Why don't I have kids? I've known for a long time I didn't want them. I saw how they change a household around, mostly around baby … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/13 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls WANT to be approached.For the most part, women expect men to approach and they rarely do it themselves (not to say they never do). Think of it this way: Get in a way-back machine and travel to a time when women had less educational, professional, and sexual/romantic opportunities, say 50-100 years ago. Generally, they might accept a few dates but by the time they were around 18-21, they certainly hoped a "satisfactory guy" would ask them out, date, and then propose marriage. If they chose right, the guy would advance… | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 06:53 PM |
| 26 | Girls WANT to be approached.Of course they do... they normally are not going to do that themselves... in person or online. They see it as the "man's job." Spoiled, entitled, and all that. But there's no way around it. And, even if they like the way you look from afar, you have basically NO SHOT unless you put yourself on the line. They like that, especially with guys who they already find attractive. Same as us. Get in shape. Dress well. Have confident demeanor. And approach. The ninja key is approaching in a way where the… | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 09:44 PM |
| 1 | This picture sums up nicely that if you take feminist advice you'd never get laid ever.The funniest thing is, a master gamer could easily break through all that without her noticing what happened, charm her panties off, and give her decades of masturbation material and making her an alpha widow, it would never occur to her that's what happened. Top shelf game is in fact what women want and is found in romance-fuck-me chick books. The thing about top shelf game is that it doesn't look like game at all to women and a lot of men. This cartoon on reflects on what women feel like when … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 10:57 PM |
| 1 | I need an unstable woman for a drama filled relationship. . .Sounds about right... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/13 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Beyond hedonism, what's the point of game unless you're impregnating the women you fuck?Fucking women is fun. Paying for and raising your own personal basketball team is not. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/13 12:51 PM |
| 7 | I'm not part of the Manosphere am I?One of the hardest Red Pill lessons is that most (not all) women truly don't love us for our personalities. We love women for their sexiness, both physical and mental. That's why guys eventually grow cold on a hot woman that's a bitch personality wise. Women want men that can add to their lives and many prioritize status, provision, money, and so on over things like looks and good sex. I'm a decent looking guy and my women tell me I'm great in bed. But, I never get hit on. I have to do that work… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/13 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How does The Red Pill feel about bisexuality?They exist... eyewitness to several of them here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/13 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Im in a awkward situation with my LTR exGF. I need TRP Advice ASAP. Im in danger of hamsterizing myself.Some guys here are telling you to go to the party and that skipping it is wussy ass shit. If you think you can handle it, then yes, by all means go. If you go, I second theubercuber's advice about bringing a date. All that said, it also sounds like seeing her and worse seeing her with another guy throws you totally for a loop. It is easy to say, "get over it" and some guys do faster than others. You may not be one of those guys (yet). It's not like you can snap your fingers and change your emoti… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/13 05:51 PM |
| 27 | Pattern I've noticed with younger women: "I tell my mom everything, but my dad doesn't know [about my carousel riding]."That's a mighty fine advice book you have there. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/13 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Unlike men, women have no further reproductive use after menopause. Kill them?troll...go away | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/13 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Looking for insight on Alpha partner.The key is to provide more value to the guy while you are in a relationship, that way he'll have to balance his desire to scratch a sexual itch versus what he might lose (i.e., you) if he does. A guy can value a woman in a relationship more than he values getting laid with new woman. Well, some guys. Other guys are just always going to have a finger in the air figuring out which way the wind blows and take up the opportunities as they come. Some times a certain type of guy just cannot be tamed o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/13 02:56 PM |
| 11 | Unbelievable: Blue Piller in AskMen lets wife sleep with other men in his house while he sleeps on the couch because she threatens suicide!In this woman's mind, if her husband LETS himself be humiliated like this, he DESERVES to be humiliated like this. Keep this in mind in dealing with women.... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Why I think Red Pill does relationships a disservice.Standard textbook solipsism. How many times does she use "I" in her missive? And then she takes her experience as a generalizable set of truisms to apply across the board. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/13 08:16 PM |
| 9 | FR: Taco tuesday without the tacoYou were her bitch from your first response on FB to meeting at the time/place she determined to following her around in her male-harem to following her to the dance floor. The kiss meant nothing to her beyond a little validation. Her BFF was her interest all night. You? Disposable. Move along, nothing to see here.... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 07:50 PM |
| 90 | Why sluts are damaged goods when it comes to long term relationships (comment from a former slut)Actions have consequences. Men are taught this their entire lives. Women's entire lives allows them to miss this basic lesson, at their peril. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 07:44 PM |
| 13 | Damaged man VS Complete AlphaNot even women know what they prefer. One woman has a savior complex, another wants chiseled chins and a fat wallet, while still another gets wet at tatted up gangsters. It is easier knowing that they DON'T want: wussies, clingy guys, wimps, supplicants, and so on. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 07:42 PM |
| 11 | Pride vs. Challenge. Dealing with flakes?Your work is done, for now. Let it simmer. It is now up to her to contact you. Let it go for a week or so. If nothing comes from her, give it one more shot. But not "let's do something" or whatever, but more like, "Tomorrow, I gonna see XYZ band/going to show/hanging out at happy hour at XYZ bar, at [time], you should join me" or something like that. Don't ask, tell. And then leave it again. If no response, it's all done. Walk away and forget about her. BUT, don't delete her number. She might co… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 03:07 PM |
| -5 | American Women in 1969 -- what happened?What happened? They got "empowered" and acted (and ate) like men. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Why do older women think it's okay to hit on/flirt with young men?I'm guessing this is some sort of satire or a "flip the script" thingy where the roles of age and gender are reversed. "Why do older guys think it is okay to hit on young women?" kind of thing.. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 03:24 PM |
| 241 | My beta brother just had his eyes opened to the bright, wonderful world of the red pill.A different sort of wingman game, but top-shelf wingman game recognized. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 05:35 AM |
| -2 | What do the men of redpill think of female virgins?Most women have sex, get over it. But the RP is right that women on the carousel should send up red flags. Still, this fascination with virginity seems antiquated and misplaced in my mind. Avoid the raging cock riders for LTR. But if you are waiting for a virginal lady to suddenly fulfill your emotional/ sexual wants and needs, you don't understand the RP. Remember, we're trying to live in reality here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 11:05 PM |
| 4 | AskReddit post about family secrets: A man is told one of their kids isn't his. The guy says he knew all along. Hamsters go wild defending this guy as a "great father and husband" while others disagree. Great BP and Hamster entertainment.My comment here is not meant as a defense of the guy (necessarily) or a criticism of those in particular here busting his balls. But... there's a general theme here so far I find disturbing. Maybe you posted before the guy added the last EDIT...? I don't know. So don't take this harangue personally. Do you know the metaphor (analogy?) about never estimating the character of a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes? This dude, IIRC, lived in a refugee camp in Europe as a kid. Later fought in… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 10:35 PM |
| 2 | The Gender Equality ParadoxJust a drive by here...not to comment on the documentary. I am familiar with what it is dealing with. I know a lot of social scientists. Have studied it in-depth myself. Two things, at minimum, that I have found curious: 1) Most, if not all, social scientists believe in evolution, in a general way (they mock, rightly, Creationism and do accept Darwin). And, while they can understand the process of natural selection in plants, animals and up to primates, they seem to have the default assumption t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 10:17 PM |
| 1 | When should I (or should I?) dump my girlfriend?So you are telling him to act like a woman?? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Things that high value men never saySo, what would you like to do tonight? Let's take your parents on vacation with us. Sure, I'd love to go see Twilight with you. That pink shirt you bought me? I love it. Why do people hate on Justin Bieber so much? So, I was watching The View the other day... I just don't understand why my friends like football so much. Dancing with girls is for fags. I know there is one perfect girl out there for me. I'm saving myself for marriage. I'd be happy to hold your purse while you go into the changing … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 01:24 PM |
| 6 | What's the big issue with video games?I don't play them, though I do understand why some guys enjoy them. That said, not knowing what the "big issue" with them is just shows how much little red pill has been swallowed. You have to ask? Addictive time-sink Provides little to no transferable skills Reduces amount of time socializing in the real world Carries socially stigmatized baggage, especially as you age Add all that up and you basically have an unproductive hobby that has little to do with self improvement and/or relating to the… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/13 08:21 PM |
| 16 | Not sure if I handled this correctly. Want TRP's critique."Yep. I'm the guy your mother warned you about." [shitty grin] [feigned indignation] "Aw...That hurts!!" [roll eyes] "Let's go." "You have no idea." "What? I'm totally the stalker type." [take her hand] "C'mon, let's get out of here." Okay, those are some examples of what you shoulda / coulda said. How to get her back to yours and into the sack? Hit on her friends. Get one of them on a date and take it as far as you can. She'll come back around...maybe | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/13 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Me (18m) and my sister (16f) grew up in a natural red pill household. I have many interesting stories to tell. AMA!Well, they ARE from England... can't blame woman too much for cooking bland food there; it's sort of a national tradition | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/13 10:13 AM |
| 26 | Guy unwilling to sign away half his assets after 3 months in relationship. Women is shocked and insulted.This jumped out at me too. Afterward, she says "marriage" is about "sharing resources". Okay, sure, that's part of it. But just before this she says, (as you quote), "If a prenup let's him keep all his money, then I'd rather not continue staying with someone like that." It's unbelievable. It's not if we get married we "share" resources but if we get married, half his shit is mine and I get to keep it when/if I walk away. AND HOW DARE HE THINK OTHERWISE!!! The mind boggles at the sense of entitle… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/13 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Call to Action: This man needs help.He doesn't want the help folks here would give him. He's so far up her ass he cannot see or think straight. And, his response to "lawyer up / draw a line in the sand" is "how about marriage counselling?" Hamsters gonna hamst, and betas gonna beta... He's so screwed. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/13 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How Did You Become A Demon In The Sack?Correct | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/13 01:58 AM |
| 19 | AskMen discusses what they've done for their girlfriends, and the thanks they got in return.My ex is exactly like this with me. I still bang/hangout once in a while (we are in the same social circle and are on good terms and I don't want to get back together, so it's all cool, RP guys) but basically add no material value to her life. I'm sarcastic, laconic, inconsistent dolling out attention and sex, almost never text her, etc. Like you say: free booze, bjs, food, movies, concerts... and I'm not even trying to get this stuff. It just comes and I make her laugh and shag her good once in… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/13 05:55 PM |
| 21 | Why do women emasculate their boyfriends?Everything after the first sentence is simply feel-good babble and doublespeak. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/13 01:38 AM |
| 7 | "If one of my female friends was trying to get her boyfriend to [change] I’d be much less concerned."One night stand | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/13 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Which aspects of TRP do you most readily accept? Which aspects are you most skeptical about? Why? Could you describe the heart of TRP in a few words?The plural of "anecdote" is not "evidence." And yes, the whole point of collating lots of data is to uncover broad patterns, meaning "generalizations"... and, yes, there WILL be outliers. The question is not whether generalizations are possible or not, but whether they are accurate or not and TO WHAT EXTENT. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/13 07:26 PM |
| 18 | "If one of my female friends was trying to get her boyfriend to [change] I’d be much less concerned."I had a ONS yesterday and after the deed, me and said woman were discussing sexual dynamics and whatnot. She asked me what I thought it was about badboys that women liked. Well, I gave her my opinion, which is not so relevant here. But what is relevant is that I got her to admit that women see badboys as a challenge, that women want to fix and save these men. Then I asked, "And what do women do once they've changed men they ways they wanted to change them?" Her answer, "We dump them." She giggle… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/13 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Caught my GF flirting with betas over Facebook for attentionNo, I wouldn't tell her to toy with those boys. You've made your opinion known, she followed your lead, now do backtrack from it. (1) You'll come off indecisive and supplicating. (2) You'd be inviting her to feed her female habit and might even bring in another guy with the sort of swagger that gets her wet. Leave it be. You're good right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/13 04:20 PM |
| 14 | Caught my GF flirting with betas over Facebook for attentionA lot of guys here telling you to dump her and if you are so inclined, go ahead. I'm going to offer a different perspective here. It sounds to me like you are in control of the relationship here. She's admitted to collecting orbiters to validate her. So, she knows you know this. She even gave you her FB password, so in addition to telling you exactly what she's doing, she went so far as to offer an bit of transparency plus she deleted those guys to make you happy. She wants to please and keep yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/13 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Personal rage trigger.Age 17 is too young to be raging about this crap. Work on becoming an awesome 22 year old and the chicks will come. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/13 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Need insight and others point of viewsThanks for the reply and kind words. But a "challenge" is one thing and "truth" is another. Sometimes they overlap, sometimes they don't. Yes, you will be challenged in defending your faith, and any faith that cannot withstand a challenge is one not worth defending. So, you WANT AND LOVE a challenge? Cruise on over to r/atheism, respectfully, and ask them about some honest and legitimate criticisms of religion as a whole and Christianity in particular. You'll find yourself having to defend your … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/13 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Need insight and others point of viewsThe Red Pill prides itself on truths, which are sometimes uncomfortable. So far, it seems you've swallowed it partially as it deals with self-improvement and understanding and handling women. Good work! If you want to swallow the whole thing, be prepared for people to chime in on boards such as these and others that Christianity (and religion as a whole) is just as fabricated as feminism. Not here to troll, or debate, or whatever, but just as the Red Pill opened your eyes about the sexual market… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/13 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Seduction Tactics: Women Saying the Exact Opposite of What They MeanYou guys need to read this, for both instruction and amusement: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195993 | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 04:17 PM |
| 43 | If your goal is to have sex with as many women as possible, why do you shame women who have sex with as many men as possible?First, I agree with the idea (supported by both research and men's experiences) and a woman who has more partners finds it difficult to actually bond with future mates and this is much less true for men. So a woman with many partners will be a dicey choice for a future mate. That said, there are other reasons as well. Here's one: For a man to have sex, he has dozens of hoops to jump through: looks, social skill, confidence, game, logistics, passing tests, pre-selection, and so on. For a woman to… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 02:49 PM |
| 6 | FR: Act cold towards bitch wife, get attentionSounds awful... good luck with all that dude. Sounds like you've checked out and are waiting for her to pull the trigger. If you want out, get out (and be ready to pay). | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 02:44 PM |
| 6 | Calling women out on their bad behavior. It hurts, but he did her a favor. Also, another man will enjoy a more attractive woman.Folks, notice this theme over and over in the comments: "You looked great at 200, but even better at 150." "He was rude to say that, but congrats on the weight loss, you look terrific." "I wish I looked like that; I'm losing it, but have a long way to go." Etc. Let's translate, shall we? General principle: Anyone who says anything negative about a woman's size being too large is a sexist asshole. One side of mouth: fat shaming is bad, looks don't matter and are a social construct, large women ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Where's your crown King Beta.She asks them for a third guy to bang in 3...2...1... Or, at least, starts banging other dudes pronto. Lord, fucking amazing. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/13 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How Did You Become A Demon In The Sack?If an older woman (say by about 10 years) is flirting back with you, you ARE IN... just don't fuck it up. She wants to bang you for fun and is probably not seriously thinking you are LTR material. She's just horny, finds you amusing, and want to take you for a spin. You still should be cocky, confident, escalate, and then just propose going somewhere more intimate. She'll take you up on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/13 08:03 PM |
| 3 | How Did You Become A Demon In The Sack?I got hear earlier and got a lot of "karma" early and as of now am at the top. Fellas, listen to this guy too. Also, I can't speak for this guy (but I'm imagining it's the same), we didn't learn this stuff from reading about it, seeing it, or getting advice from it. What I wrote, and it appears to me this guy too, is from experience first hand. I sometimes read boards for tips on dealing with women socially/romatically, but what I've written about sex is all first hand experience. It looks like … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/13 04:35 AM |
| 4 | How Did You Become A Demon In The Sack?Masturbate more when young. It will desensitize your dick. However, while doing that, maybe ask older guys who do the no-fap challenge what that does for them. My point is that you need to get your dick used to being stimulated and cumming. However, from what I hear, these days so many guys are jerking to porn while not getting laid, it's messing with their heads. I'm older. Porn was there when I was younger, but not at the touch of a few buttons. My dick starting getting hard BEFORE VHS. Then t… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/13 04:17 AM |
| 2 | I'm Afraid I Might Be More Bitter Towards Women Than I Thought...Well, not all of them, anyway.... (ahem) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/13 08:56 PM |
| 22 | How Did You Become A Demon In The Sack?When I was 19, I dated two 31 year old women. They taught how to stop fucking like a boy. If you want a woman to love banging you, the first thing you need to learn is what they respond to. Pay attention to their movements, breath, moans, etc. Before continuing, yes, I do understand that some RP guys will say that a woman's pleasure should be irrelevant to a guy. Not here to argue that, just to answer the OPs question. Second thing to do, take the lead. Women find it sexy as hell if you simply s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/13 08:54 PM |
| 0 | I can't tell if this is blue pill stupidity or red pill trollIf we followed the tenets of feminism and veganism, humanity would have barely advanced beyond their primate ancestors and be composed of about 1000 dirt farmers. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/13 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Would you prefer to live in an all-male society?No | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/13 06:17 PM |
| 44 | Why Dating Sites Are For Blue Pill ChumpsI use them only for sex. Here's how: Get a good photo of yourself (helps if you are in shape and decent looking). Write a ridiculous over the top profile that hits every negative cliche out there that women fear about men online (e.g., lives with parents, alcoholic, overweight, no job, etc.). Push #2 HARD!! Just keep going and make it FUNNY!! Wait for women to message you. Most will be DTF because they can read between the lines: fun guy, not too serious, probably good date/good lay. After two m… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/13 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Assholes and Emotional SlutsFrom the comments: This is the most illogical shit i’ve ever heard.. so convoluted and backwards. Now let me tell you why girls REALLY don’t like “nice guys” It’s because women like whatever there not getting. If she’s with a nice guy then he’s going to be a planner, he thinks about you and considers what you might like, he does thing to make you happy because that makes him happy, but soon you’re going to get fed up of his predictable ways and like the cunt you are you’ll hunger for some bad bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/13 12:59 PM |
| 11 | Thought I was going on trip with wife/kids : relationship_adviceThe wife is having a lesbian relationship with her 'friend'.... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/13 05:54 PM |
| 17 | Where does one find a virgin wife?In a fantasy novel or a fundamentalist society. Don't get married. What's in it for you? Do your homework... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/13 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Alpha and Limits on Individuality(1) I don't think you'll find a lot of guys around here agreeing with your definition of alpha, i.e., doing whatever you want, whenever, and damn the consequences. I'll not give my view of it, but I think others will probably chime in with their critiques of your take and/or their versions of alpha. (2) The example you give is simply an example of a girls emotions and knee-jerk reactions leading her decision making which then gets filled in with hamsterism.... Don't expect reason and logic here. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/13 03:28 PM |
| 37 | Please do not post the Russell Brand videoBrand says he learned much about seduction from Neil Strauss. He's infamous with his skill with women and seduction. If you don't think he's using tactics like dominance, frame control, flipping the script, sexualizing the conversation, and so on, you watched a different video than I did. Also, if you know anything about Mika B., the blonde in the interview, you'd know that most of the time she's somewhat humorless and harpyish (though she will get girly here and there). She's also been involved… | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 02:58 PM |
| 3 | "She was transfixed by the tenderness of his gaze and tormented by the fact that her lust for him waned within a few months of their starting to date..."If confidence is one of the main things women find socially/romantically attractive in a man outside the bedroom, then its parallel is to be led and dominated by a sexually assured and experienced man in the bedroom. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/13 04:59 PM |
| 68 | Make girls chase you and don't show that you care about themThat entire thread should be read by redpillers and bluepillers alike. To the male mind, these women seem stupid, in the sense that they are treating the realization that a guy might actually like them and this SHOULD NOT BE A TURN OFF as some sort of epiphany... "OMG!! One day, like, I realized that maybe if a guy actually seems to like me and shows it that I probably should not treat him as creepy and/or run away to a bad boy who shows distinterest." "I was SOOOO SCARED when I realized this gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Whipped beta swaps shoes with his girlfriend on the train, rockets to the top of the front page. Why?Look fellas, we don't know the backstory from the picture. Beta: Girl getting blisters because she chose the wrong shoes. She made her bed, let her sleep in it. Alpha: Unexpected rain/snow and the man, being the protector, gives her his shoes to keep her dry/warm. Off the subway, puts his shoes back on and carries her home. Let's not confused being a charming manly, protecting asshole with just being a cold indifferent ass. That said, I agree the guy does not have any responsibility whatsoever t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/13 10:54 PM |
| 5 | "I’m engaged to a great guy. One problem: I’m way too pretty for him."Or another way to phrase your last line: It is right that a woman should expect that her good looks bring her money, especially that of a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 06:19 PM |
| 3 | I decided to "swallow the red pill" and turn to men.I don't think it was a "red pill" that you swallowed my friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/13 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Every woman in my family is crazy about Gone With The Wind?I think it was Roissy (or maybe Roosh) that did a breakdown of some of Butler's game in a few scenes. Basically, yeah, he's decent looking but what gets the chick's panties wet is his dominant male frame. A spits game at Scarlet, doesn't back down, has clever rejoinders and she swoons (as does the female audience). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/13 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I need some help.Excellent reply. Listen to this guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 12:43 AM |
| 13 | I need some help.Part of learning to be a man is both keeping your word and meeting challenges. You said you'd do the triathlon with your dad. Do it. The training will teach you discipline and the race itself will test your mettle. You won't regret it, especially if you finish. Once that is out of the way, focus on weights if that is your goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 03:30 PM |
| 36 | 15 Ways To Drive Men Wild – Even If You’re OverweightTalk about frivolous stuff, like reality tv and celebrity gossip Talk shit about your supposed BFFs Pretend to like a guy and give him your number, even if it is only attention at the moment you are seeking Drink sugary drinks, eat fastfood, and whine about dieting "all the time." Agree to dates, then flake. Called out on flaking? Think of some lame excuse so it is not your fault. Fail to develop the capacity to discern between true losers, good decent men, an alpha worth pursuing, and a bad boy… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Really guys?One of the top rules the Red Pill/PUAs/and the Manosphere in general share: don't pay attention to what women say, pay attention to what they do.... Do they swoon and bang weak men? No. They despise them. Do they swoon and crumple at the knees for guys to are their equals and 'treat them right'? No....they might date them at first but the girl will soon branch swing to another guy that turns them on more. And what turns them on more? Dominant men. Men who dominate in their fields. Men to dominat… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/13 04:29 PM |
| 7 | UK men prefer video games over sex.Unbelievable that you've been down voted for this. What about video games involves "self-improvement"? Yes, sure, they can function to relax a guy once in a while...more than not, however, I see guys use them as a crutch. I can't imagine some of the classic alphas, say, Steve McQueen, etc., advising guys today, "Yeah, just keep on jostling that joystick, that'll make you a man." Read/write a damn book, hit the gym, go hiking/kayaking, play soccer/rugby, whatever. Get to the next level on a video… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/13 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Emotionally unfulfilled by pursuing womenNicely done! Wisdom here....even if/when sympathizing with OP's original lament | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 11:11 PM |
| 9 | Does this redpill/ bluepill stuff really matter?Let's see all the game/redpill lessons observable here: Working out (builds confidence and testosterone) Ignoring girl (makes them intrigued, "why doesn't he chase me?") Leading (makes girls follow; shows alpha assertiveness) Musical adventures / weird stories (demonstrates high value) Fluid conversation (builds rapport and comfort) Sexual stories (escalation) Making out (leading sexual action) Walked her back to campus (protection, trust) Yeah, none of that shit works at all. Finally, look man,… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 09:37 AM |
| 18 | "You're cocky. You've changed. You're trying too hard."Cocky without funny is often just douchebaggery. Cocky and confidence are not the same thing. Good game is unrecognizable to those witnessing it (unless they know what to look for). If you are coming off as "trying to hard" then you are. In terms of "gaming" (not so much in terms of "doing whatever the hell you want"), your audience's perception is everything. I'm not saying to knuckle under to other people's expectations. But if you are deploying game and your audience perceives you as try-too-… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/13 09:26 AM |
| 6 | "That is the worst of women. They always want one to be good. And if we are good, when they meet us, they don’t love us at all. They like to find us quite irretrievably bad, and to leave us quite unattractively good." - Oscar WildeYes, with a slight qualification. A lot of guys stumble upon the "red pill" via finding links from seduction and PUA blogs. And a lot of those guys find their way to those because of "that one girl." Others end up there to learn how to improve their skills and interactions with women in general. The point is that though they overlap, PUA and "the red pill" are not exactly coterminous, i.e. they are not perfectly overlapping circles in a Venn diagram. A lot guys who stumble upon TRP, shirk back a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 12:03 AM |
| -1 | XL Hamster pours drink on bf after he doesn't give her any attention on baseball kiss cam(1) She's a hog. He's better off. (2) Entitled princess. He's better off. (3) He held, like an alpha, his frame a few times and she went nuts, as if she's always a priority. He's better off. (4) If that was hot coffee, an ambitious prosecutor could charge her with assault. He's better off. (5) But then he went beta-mangina and lost frame and went after her after she embarrassed him in front of whole crowd. She's better off. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 08:21 PM |
| 14 | "That is the worst of women. They always want one to be good. And if we are good, when they meet us, they don’t love us at all. They like to find us quite irretrievably bad, and to leave us quite unattractively good." - Oscar WildeWilde was a very witty and insightful guy. Don't know what it means, though, but he evidently grew weary enough of dealing with women that he started banging dudes later in life. Now THAT's a lot of Red Pill.... so much he just called it quits. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 08:16 PM |
| 14 | OP in r/askwomen asks ladies to explain their reasons for cockblocking guys. Answers are incredibly perfect examples of blue pill hamstering.Yeah, it would drive them nuts. Here's something else that would drive them nuts.... It's not only that women--in general, with some exceptions--are incapable of recognizing a good man from a shitty one, but also it is MEN than are capable of doing this. Whether decent beta or alpha, how many single men do guys know that are single but would make decent boyfriend material? And, how many jerks as well as schlubs, do you see with girlfriends? Further, it is MEN, not women, that can also discern wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 01:50 PM |
| 41 | OP in r/askwomen asks ladies to explain their reasons for cockblocking guys. Answers are incredibly perfect examples of blue pill hamstering.I have a different take on this.... One of the chicks answered along the lines of, "If a girlfriend of mine is talking to a guy, I'll stick around to make sure he's not a psycho." What is she admitting here? She's admitting that women do in fact very, very often lack the ability to distinguish between a good man and a shitty one. In this case, the would-be potential cockblocker sees herself as a neutral observer with better acumen, while also admitting her friend (and women in general) lacks the… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 12:20 PM |
| 22 | Are lesbians welcome here? I've found I go through similar things with women to the guys here.A friend of mine (now married) is bisexual. She used to complain about the women she slept with. She'd say, "They're crazy", "They don't make sense", "They have no loyalty", and so on. I just looked at her: "Duh.... Honey, you should just fuck them, but you don't have to DATE them. Me? I'm stuck being heterosexual, so I have no choice. You do." She saw my wisdom, recommitted to her decent but beta boyfriend, and quit trying to date women. She's married with two kids now, seemingly happy. Anyway,… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 07:56 PM |
| 9 | At what point does manipulating emotions or using psychology to your advantage to obtain sex become underhanded, predatory, or even rape?Gosh, doing things that attract the opposite sex? What a shitty thing to do. Girls would never.... Dye their hair, wear extensions, or pay $100 for a fancy do. Make up High heels Show cleavage Tight dresses and other revealing clothes Artificial tan Perfume Jewelry Rub up against a guy Flatter a guy to gain his attention Whiten their teeth Pretend to be stupid to make a guy feel superior Flirt with other guys to make the one they want feel jealous Play hard to get Cuckhold the provider to bang t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/13 07:25 PM |
| 18 | Being optimisticTreat her right... see what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/13 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting MarriedI agree, in the sense of I am usually happier with a "great" partner. But you've missed my point. If being with a partner is in fact a default priority, you are more likely to overlook things in a woman that will bring long-term pain, misery, etc. Do not prioritize being with a woman and over time you might find one worth your time. But if finding one is your priority, you increase your odds over overlooking and/or giving a pass to a woman who has traits that will only bring you pain, misery, et… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/13 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting MarriedWhen you meet a woman and she knows that marriage is on you "to do" list, basically she now has the upper hand. You slip into proving yourself to her, rather than the other way around. The marriage minded by default will put up with things they WOULD NEVER PUT UP WITH from other people The point is that you should be a man that cannot be pushed around. If marriage is you default setting with women, they will take advantage of that and you'll be their bitch. She doesn't have to be you bitch, but … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/13 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting MarriedI don't see how. I wrote this myself...unless it is the most unlikely coincidence of all time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/13 06:29 PM |
| 10 | Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting MarriedHow many awesome marriages have you really seen? Not many, no doubt. This is a fair point. Looking out at the world, I see more dead-ish bedrooms and "friendly room-mate" marriages > more then anything. I'm not going to claim that it's not a trade-off - sacrifices need to be made (by both partners) and some of your independence is lost. But the benefits are pretty huge, if that's what you're into. Of course, if you're going to let yourself turn into the cultural stereotype of the passive, haples… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting MarriedAt what point in my post did I say "marriage is the problem"? Read more closely: I said if marriage on your "to do" list as a default setting, then you are asking for a lot of problems without usually realizing it. Also note, I did not address with I think a guy SHOULD consider marriage... just what happens when they WANT to get married before ever meeting this or that girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/13 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Asshole = nice guy in disguiseGame recognized. Nicely done | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/13 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Only white knights, women and feminists objectify women.Years ago, I had a girlfriend get really pissed at me when I said, "Emotions are not knowledge." I didn't back off the assertion, but I also learned a lot from her reaction. It was like she hated the idea and me for saying it. But, that was only because she knew it was true and didn't want to face up to that reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/13 10:59 PM |
| 118 | Only white knights, women and feminists objectify women.Being hit on by a guy she's attracted to = hot Being hit on by a guy she's not attracted to = objectification Women calling men "eye-candy" = sexually liberated Men calling women "eye-candy" = sexually objectifying Women participating in hook-up culture = you go gurl!!! Men participating in hook-up culture = objectifying asshole!! Porn for women = empowering Porn for men = objectifying | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/13 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Solipsistic Logichttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3R-SpSnJLKY | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Solipsistic LogicAnd those women can vote. Here's an answer from someone who cannot vote: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etFac3mlkxE | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Solipsistic Logichttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rcPEG2xrI4s | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Solipsistic Logichttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BC4jgK4wAEs | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Solipsistic Logichttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zh_nK9cNMnY | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Solipsistic Logichttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alkX2l92eRg oh lord..... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 05:36 PM |
| 10 | Craving Alpha: a Scandinavian woman's perspectiveHer lack of reflection and huge sense of entitlement is masked by her apparent surface impression of being reflective. What she is basically saying is, "I'm a HUGE load of baggage. I will nag and whine to my man in the hopes he just sacks up and takes me. But I do it in a way that gives him the idea that I want to be listened to and sympathized with, when I really want is to be rogered up against the wall. Instead of saying that, I play games with his mind and when he can't read mine, I end up r… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/13 07:56 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who say "to get a girl all you have to do is make them laugh", you're full of shit and I hate you!Women don't want to fuck comedians, though they like a good sense of humor. When women say they like a guy with a good sense of humor, they do not mean a guy who tells jokes. Yes, they like wit. But WHAT THEY REALLY LIKE is a guy who makes them laugh while TEASING THEM. TEASE THEM. Bust on them. Treat them like a brat that you like but is still a bit of a nuisance. They will try to prove themselves to you by sticking around, trying to get your attention. Act like you don't need them, they will t… | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 04:46 PM |
| 1 | "Because you LOVE it."Truer than every day modern blue pill Romeo will ever imagine. Been there, done that... a few times. Now, if I could only internalize it more | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/13 01:03 AM |
| 8 | I'll just leave this hereBluepill reads this then quietly thinks, NAWALT!! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/13 11:55 PM |
| 7 | The Progressive War on ScienceCorrect, but to a point. And that was one of my points in the original post. Different cultures have different "norms" when it comes to how to display their version of femininity and masculinity. They also have a massive variety of sexual behaviors. That said, the social constructionists tend to simply argue/conclude that male-female sexual attraction is 100% fluid and socially programmed. That is a conclusion by argument and wishful thinking. The OVERALL pattern is males are attracted to female… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/13 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Helpwww.rationalmale.com Don't start at the most recent posts. Start from the earliest and work your way forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/13 01:01 AM |
| 14 | The Progressive War on ScienceI interact with academics a lot, mostly "progressive" social science types. I'm often sympathetic to some of their views but not all. A funny thing I've observed. Most left/progressive/feminist academics have no problem slamming the attempts by creationists to get intelligent design and even biblical creationism into the schools. Almost to a person, they all accept evolution by natural selection as the explanation of the diversity of species. As such, they accept that humans evolved from the fam… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/13 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?Stop thinking of her as "your dream girl". That chick doesn't exist and that will only mess you up. She shits like all the rest. It's okay to think of her as "awesome", "terrific", etc.... but "dream girl" is lousy rom-com fantasy. There's tons of miserable dudes on these forums whose "dream girl" ended up doing horrible things to them. Second, if you treat her like she's better than you she'll come to think she is and she'll lose attraction for you. Women get and stay wet for men they think are… | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?Listen to this man. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Misleading girl mislead me to confusion."Well, there's like four bedrooms in this house" she giggles and smiles. That was her telling you, "This is your moment. My buying temperature is right, if you know what you are doing." You grab her hand and lead her to one of those bedrooms. If she resists right at the start when you try to lead her out of where you are to the bedroom, pull your hand away, shrug your shoulders, and go talk to someone else. If she does start to follow you, then the moment you are out of eyesight of others, pin h… | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:24 PM |
| 11 | The 'Are you asking me on a date?' reply"You're not very good at this, are you?" [smirk] | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 08:29 PM |
| 0 | How important is speech in gaining attraction from a female?Content can be less important than delivery. A woman will take in the whole picture. Body language, eye contact, tonality, assertiveness, confidence, and whatnot when you speak. Slow down, look her in the eye, own what you are saying. Get rid of fillers like "you know", "right?", and so on. Keep her off balance. Mix humor with playing it straight. Don't look for approval about what you say. Say it with conviction. Don't do most of the talking. When are more attracted to you when you are listenin… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 09:45 AM |
| 8 | Maintaining the correct mindset at all times - how?I've been on both sides of this fence and sometimes wonder why with girl A I remain aloof and outcome independent and with girl B I slip into chasing, AFCing, beta-izing myself, etc. Both girls can be of same quality too. Just a few things I've kept in mind in these situations: Don't pile expectations on her. If you act like you want something from her, she'll feel pressure and girls hate that. What you chase will run from you. Girls will sense your neediness way before you do. You gotta kill it… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 09:39 AM |
| 26 | Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!)Wrong, wrong, wrong. He came off more weak and needy than he already was. Now, there is ZERO chance of her talking him up with other girls that might be interested. A friend will ask her what she thinks of him and she will warn her off. sed-caelys is right on. Walk away. If she still has a generally good impression of you, that can work to your advantage. But by calling up at 2am and calling her out, he blew it. This and just to make his hurt ego feel better. That wasn't strong, that was week. S… | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 03:39 PM |
| 3 | What is alpha?This topic is hugely debated and discussed, with little consensus on "what alpha is" beyond the observation that women are wildly attracted to some guys more than others / some guys dominate their interactions with women more than others and this makes them tingle. The following traits are various thrown out to describe the alpha male (there will be some overlap and exceptions, of course): He's independent, his own man Not a pushover Confident Leader and caretaker of others Skilled in multifacet… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/13 10:22 AM |
| 5 | I just came back from an Improv class and heard a brilliant line from the instructor.Two keys here that are intertwined: The way to mix not-coming off as needy while revealing your intentions is to know when the woman is ready for your to escalate sexually and in fact doing it without ambiguity. Game is all about doing those things to a woman that gets her to that point all the while her thinking it was her idea that she was turned on by you. She shouldn't know she was gamed. You get her to the point where she's showing you she wants you. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Female here. Men, I need your perspective.Sit at a table by yourself. When you see him with his friends, force some eye-contact. When he looks at you, wave briefly and signal him to come over with that same hand (you know, wave very quickly with palm out and then palm facing you flip your fingers toward yourself a few times, that "come here" signal). Then point to an open chair near you and mouth "come sit over here." If he's either (a) got balls and (b) a little interested, he will. If he doesn't, just shrug your shoulders and give the… | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 11:00 AM |
| 10 | Poll:Who's the OG Red Pill of our time?Patrice O'Neal | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/13 04:44 AM |
| 1 | My Unofficial Seddit Achievements listHere's some more: CHARMING HOST: Got a girl to fall in love with me at a conference and then return from her home country across the ocean to spend the summer with me, even though I never kissed her before she came back. CHARMING THE HOSTESS: Found a hottie on OKC on Toronto while at a conference saying I wanted to see the town while there over the weekend. 2 1/2 day squirting fuckfest commenced after some super tight game on my part. SATURDAY NIGHT FEVER: Get a girl so turned on dancing with he… | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Any suggestions for a lady that is afraid to strike up a conversation at a bar?Now you know. And this is super easy for women to do and have guys be receptive. A lot tougher, though not impossible, for guys to pull this off and still attract the women. This is why guys are often frustrated when any decent woman complains about having difficulty meeting guys. It is EASY for you guys and you still don't do it. It is HARD for guys to not scare off women and we are still expect to make the effort. | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Any suggestions for a lady that is afraid to strike up a conversation at a bar?So far, I think a lot of responses here have missed the obvious. It's called a "situational opener" and you had one right in your lap. Simple: go to bar for new drink or go to the bathroom and on the way back just stop by their table and say, "Hey, you're the bracelet guys. True heroes!" The first sentence say it with a touch of surprise and the second say it with ever-so-slight sarcasm. They will respond and joke. If they don't ask you to join them (they should), just either (1) say, "you guys … | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 02:51 PM |
| 6 | My Unofficial Seddit Achievements listNOBODY DOES IT BETTER: Ex-gf still gives you free access 3 years later, no questions asked STRANGERS IN THE NIGHT: Pull a girl home without ever exchanging names WALKIN SHOES: Walk away from set / girl you are chasing when she does not go along with your game plan FIVE MINUTE MAN: Kiss a girl spontaneously five minutes after meeting her ABNER DOUBLEDAY: F-close two girls in one day WAR GAMES: Girl doesn't cooperate in online pick-up, then the only way to win is not to play HOURGLASS GAME: Pull a… | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 02:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I text a girl I'm friends with, but also like?don't freaking text her. If you are friends with her, she'll get to know you from just being around. Treat her friends well. In fact, flirt with them. Be a bit caddish, but not too much. Just give off the vibe you are a cool, fun, sexual guy. But, MOST IMPORTANTLY, don't spend too much time around her. Listen, do this: Go over to SoSuave. Find the page of "Don Juan Tips." Look for the stick, Brad80's secret advice, or whatever he calls it. Read that shit 10 times. Blowing up her phone, being aro… | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 01:07 AM |
| 9 | Destroying a man's life over $13Another example of women acting on emotion, plus a side of narcissism and evil. Of course, in this case, NAWALT might fit...ie., I doubt you could randomly pick a woman off the street and be 100% sure she'd do the same thing. Still, these girls are real cunts and to wantonly throw out a molestation claim shows the lowest possible character. They'll end up used up cumdumpsters without a doubt. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/13 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Does being an attractive man change the dynamic of the game? Or am I missing something else?Congruence and not about who you are versus how you present yourself. Rather, you are probably using techniques for pick-up that are not meant to move you toward a relationship. FountainsofFluids is right. You are coming off as a player, not something looking to date women. Calibrate your interactions toward what you are looking for. If it is quick sex, then you need to work more on leading and escalating. If you are looking for dates, focus more on attraction, rapport, comfort. Then get the num… | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Wake Me Up in One SentenceExcept not | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/13 04:41 AM |
| 8 | Wake Me Up in One SentenceI can imagine how many blue pill guys will have no idea what you mean by this. Totally brilliant way to put it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/13 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Wake Me Up in One SentenceEducation, technology (the pill, domestic appliances), feminism, and economic independence have destroyed former gender roles and unleashed women's once tamed hypergamy to the point that they have come to see men as expendable at best, useless at worst. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/13 11:20 PM |
| 3 | I'm RedPillWifey, AMA!What's the hardest part for you in swallowing the red-pill? Also, what do you think are those things about women that men don't "get"? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/13 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Five Important Things Women Don’t Know About MenHere's a few more: Red pill men are less likey to put up with unreasonable (important) shit tests. We have options and will move on. Blue pill men will kiss up to the shit tests and if the woman still decides to couple up, she'll keep shit testing him and resent his beta supplication. Women and men share it digging their own graves here. We like ourselves best and so do you when we are with other men doing things men do. But your insecurity drives you to demand more attention than you really nee… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/13 02:56 AM |
| 12 | Female here. Need an advice on how to make the first move."Hey [teacher's name], I'm going out for a drink now that class is over. You should come with me." Easy peesy. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I haven't approached a female in over 5 years.This is going to sound like a bit of a paradox, but it is not, so listen up. It sounds like, from reading your reply to DrunkAtTheWedding, that you want to have enough skill and confidence to effectively talk to those women you find worthwhile, i.e., you want to be choosy. That's fine. But, in order to have the skills to talk to quality women you want to meet, you need to have those skills already refined and polished. How do you do that? Talk to many many more women than you are in fact interes… | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 02:32 PM |
| 1 | My best friend is by far the most confident guy I know. How do I seduce him?Sorry bro. Funny, just saw that. (Meaningless) upvote for you! | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I am Roosh. AMA!True words, in most endeavors, Roosh! This should be stickied not only around the manosphere, but in locker rooms of teams, Ph.D. programs, barracks for military recruits, and whatever takes focus, time, discipline, commitment, whatever. Well said. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/13 01:02 AM |
| 0 | I am Roosh. AMA!Roosh, I'm late to the game tonight (hit some bars on a Monday, looking for chicks, you know the drill). And sorry if this is already asked, I don't have time to look through the posts to see; I want to get this in. I read your post today on your site. Sounds like you are down in the dumps and/or just got all you can out of committing to laying the babes regularly and/or just going through the regular ups and downs involved. Question: Do you see this as maybe another "plateau" or do you think th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/13 12:43 AM |
| 3 | My best friend is by far the most confident guy I know. How do I seduce him?If he is as confident as you say and if he is sexually attracted to you, he would probably have pulled the trigger right now. So, (a), if he's as confident as you say but not sexually attracted to you, you can still get him to bang you, but the friendship would probably turn awkward, since he'd think you are later still hanging with him to get a boyfriend Thus, (b), he's not as confident as you think and IS sexually attracted to you, you'll have to push the situation forward, as he is NOT going … | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 08:50 PM |
| 9 | Useful seduction facts.If you are at a bar and a woman comes in and sits down alone, if she occasionally looks up from her drink/food and glances around the room, she is there to meet someone new. Not necessarily a ONS (though maybe), but she's sending signals that she'd like some guy to come talk to her. Introduce yourself. This is not the only time you can/should cold approach, but if you see a woman doing this, she WANTS someone to approach. Give her what she wants. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 11:18 AM |
| 15 | ITT: We post our best lines/moves/whateverFirst of all, if your text game is not super tight, you probably should not be trying to cultivate a connection through it. It is freaking hard as hell to build comfort and or rapport via text. Also, if she is at all marginally to very hot, she's already go tons of orbiters texting her crap and you'll just be slotted in with them. So, I highly recommend minimal texting unless you've studied up on how to do it right (e.g., go over to RooshV's site, check out the forum, and find el mechanico...his… | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 02:47 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?If you are clearly flirting and hitting on a girl, yes, sometimes you need a reason for her to come, i.e., movie, drinks, after party, or whatever. However, in some interactions, and these can be overtly flirty or non-flirty at all, you can tell a woman is way into you. She likes you and is thinking about what sex will be like with you. In such situations, where you've invested almost nothing but fun conversation and have acting like you are not trying to get anything out of her and she's clearl… | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 01:15 AM |
| 2 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?From what I've been told by women, just above average. Good looking, but not "hot." Plenty of guys objectively better looking than me get far less play. Women do not respond to passivity. A good looking guy who is socially awkward and does nothing to move an interaction forward will only "get lucky" here and there when a woman throws herself at him. It is the guy's job to approach and put sex on the table. There are, of course, better and worse ways to do this. That said, women do this MUCH LESS… | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 01:04 AM |
| 2 | What advice would you give to a woman who wants to be happy?The first part of the answer comes from knowing the research on what makes people happy and what doesn't. Money only makes people happy up to the point where they have basic needs taken care of plus a little more for entertainment, socializing, etc. Beyond that, more and more money increasingly loses itself effect on increasing happiness. So, get yourself in a position to be financially stable at a decent standard of living. Whether you see this as a dual income household or on your own is up to… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/13 05:31 PM |
| 8 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?Yes, sometimes it works. A few of those were just ballsy off-the-bat moves. Others were with some experience and calibration, i.e., figure out when a woman is into you and just proposition it. Doesn't always work (I didn't post failures here). But sometimes it does. Just learn to do it. Sometimes the timing is obvious. Other times the woman is turned on by your boldness. Recommended in situations where the odds of running into her again are medium to low. Even then, she'll not forget your confid… | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 02:07 AM |
| 27 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?Back in highschool (more than two decades ago). Just went up to a girl at a party, kissed her, and pulled her into the bedroom. Year after highschool, was about to bang a chick after a concert at another FWB's apartment. As I'm about to go into the bedroom, the FWB says, "After you do her, I want you to do me." Twice in a night. About age 19, at an art opening. A woman about 25 was with our group. I forget the conversation that was going, but I whisper in her ear, "I'd really like to fuck you." … | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 09:20 PM |
| 2 | 1 hold up still...please help people!!You don't mention if you are still in touch with her... If you have not done the following, you should: Delete her from facebook. Don't go to her page either. Delete her phone number. Delete her email. Toss out any pictures/letters/stuff you have of her. Keep dating other women. And, keep reminding yourself that she is not unique, one of a kind. There are thousands of women just like her. Finally, admit that sometimes a woman will just get under your skin and you'll never forget her. But, she wi… | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 09:06 PM |
| 5 | 2013 AMA Series – Rollo TomassiThanks, for the reply. I've got that covered...have been constantly expanding my social circle on top of the pretty tight and awesome close knit circle of good friends I already have. So, if that's your advice, I guess I will take it as I'm doing things the right way still. And, since it's quiet here right now, another question or two if you don't mind: Outside of maybe Roissy, Roosh, and yourself, what would you say are the best mansophere blogs out there? And, what do you think of the "Christi… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/13 05:20 PM |
| 3 | 2013 AMA Series – Rollo TomassiHey Rollo! I think The Rational Male is one of the best red-pill blogs out there. Lot's of great insight and writing. I'm about your age (though women think I'm about 30-35). Fit, good job, etc. I do pretty decent with women (lesser-Alpha in terms of Roissy's taxonomy). Still, I'd like to do better. As I age I know I'm going to need to keep my game tight. So, what would you recommend a 45 year old, decent looking guy with above average game do to keep his chops up and the ladies attracted? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/13 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else uses seduction to socialize with women more overall and not just F Stop or # Stop them?Yes, young Padawan, you are on the correct path here. Back when I was your age, I often directed my seduction techniques toward women I was trying to bed. I was sometimes successful. Then I got older, had relationships, in between a few one night stands, etc., but something happened. I found I was less and less a chick magnet. I had learned the bad habit of treating all women the same and, even worse for seduction, I was treating them all with "respect", and by that I mean overly polite, deferen… | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 06:53 PM |
| 3 | How a man expects to be lovedYes, wifey that's part of it. There's a term out there called, "beta-backsliding." It is when a man does many positive masculine things to attract and get a woman in a relationship, but then once there, he reverts to needy, clingy, beta behavior. The woman is turned off (feels she was sold misleading goods) and the relationship crumbles. I think you/we are on to something here. See, a woman will often interpret beta-backsliding as an expression of his "real" self and the supposed alpha you thoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/13 12:39 AM |
| 1 | How a man expects to be lovedMissed a slight phrasing. You said, "pick a better woman the next time." While true, you must nevertheless be a better man that next time as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/13 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How a man expects to be lovedWell put, redpillschool. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/13 12:06 AM |
| 3 | How a man expects to be lovedYour point would be more valid (I'm not saying it's invalid) in the case of women who don't attempt to take the red-pill. Those women are trapped by their hypergamy, yes. You are correct. But I was dealing with wifey here. She says she's been trying to be more red-pill. So, what does that mean? For her, it means being AWARE of her hypergamy and once aware, attempt to control it in a way the cultivates her desires for her husband. Us guys are the opposite. We are totally aware of our polygamy... … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/13 07:00 PM |
| 3 | How a man expects to be lovedI won't eat anyone alive, rest assured. We are here for mutual help. I read somewhere (forget where at the moment) is that one way to interpret a shit-test is that is a way for a woman to rub up against your manhood. She want's to know you are a man, etc. Early in a courtship, this shit-test is more of a fitness test. The woman is trying to decide if the man is worth her time, effort, and delicious loins. Once she latches her trailer to his hitch, she will still shit-test, as you admit. The issu… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/13 06:13 PM |
| 2 | How a man expects to be lovedOkay, I checked out your blog. You further along than what I suspected as a somewhat newb to this little corner of the internet. Props to you for being proactive!! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/13 05:57 PM |
| 2 | How a man expects to be lovedCongratulations on your new found awareness. I'm not sure how up you are on the red-pill way of seeing things, but let me assume you are just learning. Here's some things you MUST NEVER DO if you want to maintain your own attraction to your man. Stop with any and all intentional shit-tests. Because if he does not see them coming and fails them, your attraction will decline. And you've done this to yourself. Some shit-tests are not intentional, so also try to recognize those after the fact and re… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/13 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Is there a 'game' to get a girl interested in you again after she has left you? My friend swears by the silent/cold shoulder treatment to get any girl back. Details of his play inside, thoughts?http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160056 | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 01:31 PM |
| 2 | I tried everythingLearn indirect openers, situational openers. They are easy, low risk, and allow you to develop conversation from there. If they bite, you can continue, gauge interest, escalate if she bites, etc. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 12:08 AM |
| 0 | You ever just give up a girl that you like? Tell me if I'm an asshole.Here's what you should have done: Some light kino in the cab. You get to her stop. She says, "you still want to send me home?" (she's telling you she wants to stay and fuck). You (set up compliance test) say, "Maybe, but you have to do something first." Her: "What's that?" You: [Kiss her] "Okay, good. Cabbie, were going to [your address]." The rest should be easy. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 06:21 PM |
| 2 | "You probably couldn't handle me". How does one handle this blatantly obvious shit test?Corny or not (in the eye of the beholder), chazzington is telling you that he has FIELD TESTED these lines. It is called "game" for a reason. There are "rules", which many are admittedly stupid, but if you are going to try to deal with women in a sexual way there are better and worse ways to do it. And there's game "theory" and there's "game" experience, i.e., what guys have learned that "works." Chazzington is just telling us what has worked for him in the past and is simply asking YOU to eithe… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, I am afraid sleeping with a lot of women will devalue/unholify sex for me. Please explain.Is this what seddit has come to? First, my advice is to read up quickly on what marriage is about these days and why guys should/must really, really think twice about ever doing it. It is still our default assumption in our list of life-goals but the way we still think about it totally deludes us about its current dynamic. Second, you are a freaking man, not a woman. Here, you will need to take a look at how men and women respond different to having more than one partner. The short of it is, wom… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 11:24 AM |
| 6 | Is it necessary to be funny?If you want to attract a woman, outside of looks, dress, posture, and social proof, you need and must spike her emotions. Humor is not the only way, but it is one of the best ways (others include forms of drama like outrage, sadness, empathy, curiosity, etc.). Teasing--not insults--is a way to place yourself above her in terms of status. Women prefer men higher in status than them plus men who are confident. So, you must tease her and make her laugh. Don't do this all the time. There's a curve. … | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 02:09 PM |
| 1 | What other dating site I can go to pick up some casual fun except okcupid?Go to Ashley Madison and post as a married man looking for an affair (pre-selection). In your exchanges, let them know that you are looking for an affair because your wife, though she still loves you dearly, is no longer interested in sex. Women there are looking for sex, not relationships, for the most part. Saying you are married gives you pre-selection, and saying you are there because your wife lost her libido means you are still loved but not getting fucked. They will eat it up. I'll send y… | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What is a glaring difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl that is just not interested?Yes, that happens. Proceed with caution. Remember, single women (and lots of women in relationships) have all sorts of guys sending them messages, texts and FB chatter. Much of the time, they are not sure which ones they are "really" interested in, i.e., future boyfriend material. That said, they will have first tier dudes they have the most interest in, either for one off fucking or for potential boyfriends, or even both. What you SHOULD NOT do, at minimum, is two things: (1) bombard her with m… | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 12:14 AM |
| 2 | What does the red pill mean for girls?True that. I've been sleeping with women and/or having LTRs for over 25 years. Marriage was never in the cards. But in the last 2 years I've encountered the gaming community / manosphere. Learned some stuff, re-remembered other stuff I had done before. But one thing that has stuck with me, something I had not really ever realized in all my years, is, yes, that fucking games never end with women. It's shit-tests all the way down. I USED to believe that once you passed the initial shit-tests early… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/12 01:17 PM |
| 9 | What blogs do you read and recommend related to seduction?I believe I remember that post. Here's what I think you are looking for: Chateau Hartiste (Roissy's blog) RooshV (Roosh'v blog) Rational Male (Rollo Tomassi's blog). I would also recommend Krauser's PUA Adventure blog. Finally, check out SoSuave and RSD Nation if you are interested in posts, discussion, questions, etc. These will range from fashion, lifting, seduction techniques, shit tests, crazy BPD chicks, etc. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 07:51 PM |
| 59 | What is a glaring difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl that is just not interested?A girl that is not interested will not return your texts/calls, will try to extract herself from conversations with you when you are out, will actively avoid interacting with you if she sees you out, will be curt if you force interaction with you, etc. A girl who is interested but is playing hard to get will do none of these things. A girl who is playing hard to get will be playfully flirty for short-spurts, will giggle at your stupid jokes, might agree to meet you out if it is within a group, w… | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 04:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Entire invite to hangout was a shit testThese are just guesses gleaned from a lot of typical advice you'll get on these forums. Guys are advised not to be too available, especially early in the relationship. By agreeing to an invite to come over on Thanksgiving day (of all days, for chrissakes), you showed you had little of your own going on and/or you were willing to drop everything to see her. Perhaps you can think of the gathering as a set in the field. One piece of advice is not to stay in set too long sometimes. Get in, make your… | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Girls get turned off by my jokester/playful personality. I feel like I overdue it.Chicks like teasing if it's not too much, and they like a guy with a sense of humor. They DON'T like "the jester" or the "insult comic guy." Which one are you and which one would you rather be? | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 11:53 AM |
| 144 | A great technique I've been using lately to eliminate my AA when first getting to a bar.Okay, a decent start. Sounds promising. Now, right up a field report based on your next 5 nights out and explain to the board how well this works in real life. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I want you all to to bash me, rip me apart. Criticize me thoroughly with the upmost harshness possible!Lose the hat. Lose the lip ring (you are an adult now) Lose the damn collared button down (at least the one you are wearing). Get a real haircut. Buff up a bit. Don't use this picture for FB or online dating profile. You look like EVERY OTHER doofus college kid out there (or just out of school). You don't have a style that looks like it is your own. You look like you've copied a few trends out there here and there and what you haven't copied you haven't taken much thought to developing your own … | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm a woman and everything she said is true12 things? False. Women want 1 thing. EVERYTHING | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 09:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys act with older women? I am 18 she is 30.I was in your situation twice (18 / 31, 19 / 32). Yes, everyone here says "confidence" and that is true. But a corollary is to act like you've been there before... that you've not even thought of the age difference... that it is the most natural thing in the world for her to be attracted to you and for you two to hook up. Also, start leading. Lead in initiating conversation now, lead in asking her out to do something, lead in kino, lead her where you want to take her. She'll pick up on it easily… | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 11:39 AM |
| 8 | Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love - Underneath the topic, you MUST keep gaming your SO, while in a relationship, or lose her.Yeah, it's been funny reading clearly new folks trashing this while having fucking clue who they're reading, his background, tenor, humor, experience, and hard ass work and experience. Very telling of the board's familiarity with the the subject matter. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm a heartbroken 15 year old who needs adviceYou must forget about her. Several times in my life (and I'm MUCH older than you... but this experience has happened several times and goes back years) I've focused too intently on one woman and did things to myself and for her only directed toward attracting her, getting her. Wanna know what happens? You turn into a putz. You ooze desperation. You become a shell of a man. You quit actual self-improvement and focus only on the superficial, the fictitious. Only wish there were net forums like thi… | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Hey, what's the protocol when a girl always gives you the "i'm busy" excuse? But constantly calls me and tells me if she had time I'd be the guy she'd hook up with.This is the correct answer. Though there is a way to get her out. Ignore her calls for a few times, then after about a week or so, text her that you are meeting friends for dinner/drinks/party and she should join. If no response/no show, simply move on. Thing is, she'll figure it out and blow the next guy that gives her attention. Such is life. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 07:51 PM |
| 5 | So how do you guys deal with Alpha Females?Be confident and don't be intimidated. Hold your frame. Treat her cockiness as amusing. Never let her feel like you will do whatever she wants. Say no sometimes. Learn to lead first some of the time (if she's an alpha female like you say, you don't want her to feel like you are bossing her around or she never has any say in your plans; but you do need to play the role as leader as much as her). Don't be always available. Get her to chase you a bit. Be unreactive to her emotional swings when she … | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Give me a concrete mission that I can go do tonight, instead of my usual sitting inside in self-loathingThrowawayPUA, I'm writing this a bit down the line after the original post. Looking at the "points", I'm at the top, but shouldn't be. For any newbie that comes across this post with terrible AA, ThrowawayPUA's advice is better. He explains a situation that is much better for learning basic skills and is also one that is in a less pressure situation where someone with social anxieties can simply learn to interact and talk without the burden of hitting on someone. If that sounds like you, ignore … | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 11:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Day 2: no f-close, Day 3: Let's be friends, also advice please.Okay, maybe someone might break it down better/more thorough than me. But I will try... I'm not sure you did anything wrong. Sometimes the chick is only just interested long to enough to play in the sandbox but she's not thinking of becoming best friends. When she got you back to her house she was just following the vibe, testing the waters. Maybe she was still on the fence, was just having fun, didn't ever really feel it... but who doesn't like kissy-time? Could you have done something to bang … | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 11:31 PM |
| 4 | [Text/FR] Never thought it would happen...thanks sedditThere's a sort of Zen-like subtlety and nuance with this that is not always easy to master (I still fail, more often than I'd like to admit). Obiwan111's breakdown/alternatives are basically right on. The key is to "lead". I hope you've heard that. But it is better to come off with leading by not simply ordering someone around. Women like when the man, yes, to make plans, has some things set out that they can do, not leave it up her, i.e., lead. Women HATE it when a man does not have something i… | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 11:14 PM |
| 8 | how the fuck do I stop being the nice guy?If a woman says she's had too many psycho boyfriends, treat it as a shit-test (even if it isn't). Agree and amplify. Her: "All my boyfriends have been psychos." You: "Oh shit, looking for a nice guy? That sucks. I'm a terrible person and would only destroy your life." "Then you need to stay away from me. I'm the worst sort of person." "Tell me about it. There's 5 restraining orders out for me as we speak." Say it a bit cheeky, a bit serious. And, don't look her in the eye when you say it; look s… | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Lifelong friend led me on, tells my best friend she isn't interested, should I stay friends with her?She was cultivating you as an orbiter to stroke her ego. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 09:32 AM |
| 26 | Give me a concrete mission that I can go do tonight, instead of my usual sitting inside in self-loathingYou sound like a newbie with high anxiety. Go to a restaurant that has both bar and table options, plus some television with sports. Sit at the bar and drink water or a soft drink. Start talking to anyone around about the game, the environment, etc. Warm up. Be relaxed. Enjoy yourself. Eventually, talk to a woman or two with no intent on gaming her. Just talk about, well, whatever. Get warmed up. Over the evening, you'll get more into a rhythm. Eventually, talk to a woman to game her. Be comfort… | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 11:23 PM |
| 34 | Why women shit test - From a woman's perspective. (this might just open your eyes to the female psyche)The link. WTF? A woman as an adult tries to explain her shit-test as a 14 year old girl. Her boyfriend's father had just fucking died. He immature self tested this poor bastard. And then she uses this as an example of why adult women do similar things?? These types of women never fucking grow up. They are stuck in that age mentality. Sure, she admits that it was a shitty thing to do, but she doesn't take it to its logical conclusion. Many women never change beyond being a 14 year old. This is pr… | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 02:58 AM |
| 7 | I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out.Correct. What women "say" they want in men (nice, polite, inoffensive, safe, etc) is not what they respond to. This doesn't mean they respond to the opposite.. guys that are mean, rude, assholes, and violent meatheads, but part of communities like this are focused on the fact that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are not exactly the same things. Guys what to meet you women. Some are only looking for an easy fuck. Some are looking for relationships. Some are a combinatio… | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 02:43 AM |
| 30 | I saw my own sex from the other side, and I disliked women irrationally for a while because of it. I disliked their superiority, their accusatory smiles, their entitlement... (xpost from r/truereddit)I've read this before. Yes, interesting. But, beyond "how tough it is out the for guys" confession, what I find most interesting is her -- as lesbian -- admittance that hetero women ACTUALLY LIKE MEN... as MEN. I've known many gay women over time who just think that straight women have simply been deluded into liking men. It doesn't make sense, and this woman realized it and has the honesty to admit it, even if she found it surprising. Straight women aren't just putting up with us just to get so… | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm having a "crash here if you want" kinda party in about a week. How to propose sex to a chick that will be here?What everyone else has said... But let me add, the way to a ONS is to not engage her rational mind. If you ask you give her a chance to think about it in a "yes" or "no" way. It is the woman's emotional center that you want to hit, not her rational one. So you escalate...kino, isolation, makeout, all that shit. Flirt lightly at first. Jokes, teasing, some conversation, push/pull. Don't focus all your energy on just her, though. It'll come off as try too hard. As the night progresses, up your fli… | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 12:01 PM |
| 6 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameSo true. I wish I added that in there. While it is easy to accept (and I do), that women have every right to have children even if not married, there are real repercussions in the real world to this reality. Feminists (and I do agree with several of their positions) simply argue that women should be granted the freedom to do want they want without a male prerogative involved. "I want a career and a baby and if my husband ain't perfect, I'll divorce his ass" or "I have a career but no husband but… | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 04:17 AM |
| 26 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameNo, we shall drink together as men. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 03:46 AM |
| 2 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameThanks! Some experience and familiarity with research helped. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 03:45 AM |
| 2 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameThanks! | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 03:44 AM |
| 4 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameNever meant to imply women have an easier life than men. I did mean to assert that women have it easier than men when it comes to meeting up with opposite sex, whether for quick intimate liaisons for sexual gratifications or dating and mating. This is a sub-reddit dealing with guys meeting women for sex and relationships. Not a sub-reddit dealing with all the trials and tribulations the different sexes have to deal with in this world. Hell dude, what sort of list did you think this was? If this … | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 02:38 AM |
| 4 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameI think you might have missed the point. Culture and society changes in ways we don't always appreciably recognize at the time. Sociologists refer to something called "cultural lag", where behavior changes faster than attitudes about that same behavior. Yes, I will hold firm, there's a broader picture that is necessary if we are to understand the more specific realities we have to deal with. Sure, exceptions exist, but this does not make grasping the broader view less necessary. So, my point was… | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 02:30 AM |
| 14 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameBeing led by emotion and attracted to the bad-boy alpha first, but only later to have rational thought kick in -- even if only momentarily-- it is not a stretch to say women really don't know what they want. As many manosphere bloggers note, women act on feelings and then backward rationalize their behavior. Us guys tend to thing logically and rationally first, and then try to connect with female emotionality. This explains a lot about our miscommunications, frustrations, and mutual dysfunctiona… | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 02:04 AM |
| 66 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameI'll keep adding more thoughts to this, though perhaps this requires its own post.... PUAs/seduction folks often encourage an "abundance mentality." They do this because there are real empirical reasons to think this it the case. So, that's a solid start. But there's a more important reason in terms of game...specifically inner-game and how this translates into outer game with women. In terms of inner game, an abundance mentality makes you realize that any ONE GIRL is just that... one girl. Onei… | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 04:56 PM |
| 31 | A seddit primer on the sexual market place, hypergamy, and the origins of / need for gameA few more thoughts to add to my original post. When you think of the relationship between the new sexual market place, hypergamy, and shit-tests, we also get insight into the relationship between game concepts all the way from approach anxiety to openers to congruence (body language, answering shit tests) to rapport to comfort to escalation (kino), etc. Here', I'll just remark on approach anxiety and openers. If it weren't for unleashed hypergamy there'd be less shit tests. Women with the kind … | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 02:33 PM |
| 9 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?Anyone on a forum like this that requests a tl;dr on a post of that modest length hasn't a clue about self-improvement, learning, and work (not even hard work). Another lazy idiot, which seems to abound these days. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Wondering about telling women "they were in a dream of yours"Sounds pretty damn chodey try-hard to me. Even if true, why mention it? It might work on a woman you'v banged a few times and it's turned into something serious. Other than that, seems like a terrible frame to go with. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts, MILF nextdoorThrow a party at your house. Invite some friends, neighbors, and the MILF over. Labor Day is coming up... perfect time. You can send out invites now. She gets there, you flirt. Some overtly, some in less so. Isolate her in some place at your house. Escalate to the kiss. Then say, "Now that you've seen my place, you should show me your's." Done and done. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:06 PM |
| 40 | An analysis of one of my all-time favorite xkcd'sI agree with you. But I thought that was obvious. It was always my interpretation. I have to admit, though, I've never seen all the different discussions about that comic to which you refer. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do all my direct daygame interactions fall through as opposed to situational?Go check out Krauser's website. He's top notch at day game, breaks it all down for you, shows you videos (successes and failures) and provides good field reports. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:33 PM |
| 3 | DAE who has mastered PUA feel like "empty" inside?You had problems before you got into PUA/seduction, etc. You clearly haven't solved those, even if you have solved the problem of meeting and having sex with women. For some guys, sex is the main goal. For others, it's dating several women until the "right" one shows up. For still others it's luring in "Ms Right." You seem conflicted in your goals. PUA can be very machiavellian and it seems you've learned the techniques that lead to sex, but haven't gotten a clear handle on what you really want.… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 01:31 AM |
| 3 | [FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all)It probably wouldn't have come to me immediately as the word to use, but women these days are just accustomed to suck-up guys, it certainly would have set him apart. Cocky-funny/asshole game, etc. She'd have remembered him, that's for sure. We are not here to make sure women are treated with kid gloves and made to feel they run the show. They respond to guys who run the show. This particular girl may or may not have jumped on his cock because of what he said, but it was better than some apologet… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 12:34 AM |
| 16 | [FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all)What is there to say besides excellent work and yes, you responded perfectly to dollface. The future looks bright for this guy. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 01:12 PM |
| 1 | A Question from a Pessimistic LadyProps to you for (1) reading through this stuff and considering it, (2) coming back to respond, and (3) taking some of it to heart and realizing that women (and yourself included) share a portion of the blame about why guys are trying to learn this material. There are a lot of decent dudes out there who treat women well, don't get laid, and/or get shit on repeatedly (blown out, lead on, manipulated, lied to, cheated on, etc.). Some are clueless as to their predicament. Others eventually find the… | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 01:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #Close with stylist, afternoon date with young PoF cutie, later beers with OKCupid Day 2 – F-closeNo, it's pretty much a minefield of mixed quality women. Lot's of fatties, ugly chicks, and desperate homely women (all of whom seem to write incredibly stupid and unjustifiable choosy profiles). Some women are anywhere from cute to hot, but these women receive tons of messages a day and you have to be creative to even get a first response. Then, they play coy, engage very little, go ghost, etc. It's good to not spend too much time dealing with online dating because it can eat up a good deal of … | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Going out for this [f]irst time in 5 months need some tips on hooking up with decent looking guysThat's exactly right. Many women spend freaking years giving guys looks out of the corner of their eyes, playing bashful, hard to get, etc., and then complain to their gal pals that they can't get laid or "where are all the good guys." It's all bullshit, which you have discovered. It is SOOO much easier for women to meet men and get sexual than the other way around. That's why this sub-reddit exists. Women can be got, for either sex and/or relationships, but you ladies do make it quite the chore… | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Going out for this [f]irst time in 5 months need some tips on hooking up with decent looking guysHigh five! Good fucking for you, rheelittlsloth!! When us guys hear of "independent, confident" women, we roll out eyes. Most are traditional, standoffish, women who expect men to approach and meet them with an artillery of shit-tests. Feminism says "let's be equal!!!!" [lying coquettish grin] and then women do nothing in those regards in the dating sphere. Props. You are direct, clear, and unambiguous. And you are realizing guys respond just fine to that. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 03:01 AM |
| 6 | How to turn this situation to my advantage?My only suggestion is to invite her to do something cool with you this weekend and make it memorably enough that she'll want to see you again after next weekend. Maybe others have more specific ideas, but one "mantra" here is "he who hesitates masturbates." | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:50 AM |
| 50 | A Question from a Pessimistic LadyNo, men are not only looking for sex. But, they aren't only looking for relationships either. Here's what you and many others (including none-too-few male subscribers to this subreddit) are missing. In our culture today, the dating market place and the norms involved tend to revolve around meeting someone of the opposite sex, doing a sort of traditional courting ritual, and then jumping to monogamy as a sort of trial and early marriage arrangement. Meet, date/fuck, then immediately boyfriend/gir… | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Pretty lady by the pool. Lessons learned. [fr]Good on being bold, direct. Stupid on the postit note (now there for random folks to see, trying to hard... I can see why you thought this boldness would continue in this way, but not really a great move. Too public and obvious). But, you got to stick your neck out far enough to get it chopped off (a lesson I learned many, many years ago). So, good on the initiative, work on the technique. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Going out for this [f]irst time in 5 months need some tips on hooking up with decent looking guysLook, it's simpler than you think. First, both men and women have been conditioned to assume and act on the principle that it is all and only men's job to do the approaching. This is total BS. After all the changes in our society that have moved toward equality between the sexes, women have simply not changed in terms of the sexual market place. They still doll up, go out, wait for a guy to hit on them with the PERFECT AND CHARMING opener, and then judge him on his skills. Some guys have learned… | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:07 AM |
| 0 | [FR] #Close with stylist, afternoon date with young PoF cutie, later beers with OKCupid Day 2 – F-close31 | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How often should I talk about myself?The first issue is what do you want to accomplish in talking to a woman? Well, clearly at first, it's rapport and attraction. To move things further, you need to establish a connection as well. This will make her go from "I like him okay" to "I think he's sexy" to "I could fuck him." The second issue is that you need to do this with her doing most of the talking and with you not bragging about yourself while demonstrating you are a man of value worthy of destroying her vag. Here's how to do it. … | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 10:08 AM |
| 5 | Wanted some opinions on females that can go toe to toe with you? (Alpha Female?)You clearly need to get her shields down, but you cannot do that logically. So, anyone that says "talk to her about it" is only half right; and if they advise you to do that logically, they are totally wrong. You have to hit an emotional button and appeal to that little girl inside of her, not her rational mind. So you will do this without talking. At some point in the future you find yourself with her in a social situation, or even maybe alone at your/her place. You are both spitting game and i… | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 09:43 AM |
| 0 | My oneitis dropped the bomb on me this morning. I have never felt more motivated in my lifeWTF fellows. None of that is what "hypergamy" means and obviously none of you have taken the time to research the term. No easy paths here. Fucking go online and research the damn term. Quit looking for someone to spoon feed you information you need to know. It's crucial that you know how the "sexual market place" has changed over time and what the fuck "hypergamy" as it relates to women is. You'll be wondering in a forest of confusion until you do. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 02:29 AM |
| 2 | My oneitis dropped the bomb on me this morning. I have never felt more motivated in my lifeCan't tell if you are making a joke or do not know what "hypergamy" means. | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 06:09 PM |
| 1 | My oneitis dropped the bomb on me this morning. I have never felt more motivated in my lifeHey Eleven Idiots, I think Ljungan gets it about right. There are certain techniques, mindsets, and approaches out there that will or will not work for you. For example, if you go to RSD Forum, you'll find much of what they teach really works best for young guys in clubs hitting on club chicks (which is pretty much not my game at all, given my age and tastes). Just survey the material you can get your hands on, especially different forums, such as this one, SoSuave, and a few others. On those te… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm an adequate PUA, but I have a unique problem I need your advice on!Okay, though I think you should read it all, right now, Krauser's recent post "Date Model" discusses some stuff you should read. http://krauserpua.com/ Here's his "Day Game Model". Good stuff here too: http://krauserpua.com/day-game-model/ | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 01:31 PM |
| 3 | I (23m) got asked out by a (27f) today. Any advice on "older" women?Exactly. Sounds like she just wants to get laid... no playing hard to get. Minimal or no game needed here. In fact, if you game much at all, it might backfire. She's leading here. Normally, that would put you lower than her, but that would only be a problem if it was a pick up on your part and/or a woman you were trying to get into a relationship. Here, she's basically saying she needs new dick quick. Set up a date, be friendly and flirty, and follow her signals (though you should probably not b… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 01:24 PM |
| 60 | My oneitis dropped the bomb on me this morning. I have never felt more motivated in my lifeIf you are going to do what you say, here's a few things I would suggest. Go no contact with your oneitis. Get her out of your head and the more you no longer interact/talk/email her, the more you'll be able to do that. It will only keep you back if you continue communications with her (and, as an aside, if there will ever be a chance to get with her, she'll need to see the "new" you down the line.... though thinking that can be dangerous and proceed with caution on that idea). Don't expect inst… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 12:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm an adequate PUA, but I have a unique problem I need your advice on!Well, someone else might be able to tell you answers to those very specific questions where you can read only direct techniques. I would advise something slightly different. Read some blogs (I haven't ever ordered/read some of the classic books) that deal with both various aspect of game plus discuss cultural/social changes that have influenced the sexual market place. Your probably will not agree 100% with everything these guys say, but I do recommend reading EVERYTHING the have on their blogs.… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 01:12 AM |
| 5 | I'm an adequate PUA, but I have a unique problem I need your advice on!I'm chiming in about an hour into the responses. Digestivee and captiangoodtimes are in the right direction. I'm probably closer to your age than many guys on this board (you say your "old", but don't state your age. I'm 45, so go from there as to my suggestions/experience). A common term on these forms these days is "calibrate", meaning that you should adjust some (maybe not all) of your ways of interacting with women based on (1) your goals and (2) who she is. It sounds like you are taking a n… | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you found your inner game, and now you're so content with yourself that you've lost your desire to seduce? (Deep inner-game talk, you may wanna keep out if that's not your thing)Any philosophy of cancels out your deep, genetically programmed need for sex doesn't sound spiritual to me, it reeks of opium. I don't mean you have to be a sex-obsessed maniac either, but a self-loving narcissist with no sex drive is not the ideal outcome for any worldview, IMHO. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone have any experience with this?Dude, calm down. She likes you. She's probably rushed it in the past and it blew up in her face. She doesn't want to make the same mistakes with you she made in her past. The make out and invite, clearly, are very good signs. But don't over play it when you see her again. Be upbeat, fun, friendly, and flirty, but this time MAKE HER WAIT FOR THE KISS. She wants it but don't let her have it too soon. And don't wait until the very end of the night either. Do it at an unexpected time, during a high … | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Having a week long convo with a girl on website, suddenly she stopped responding. What mistakes did I make?Hey puaCurveBall, I usually agree when this message is sent to guys asking about THAT ONE GIRL. But this one was about a conversation online and I think it has general lessons guys can learn from more than simply, "How do I get Suzie to go out with me?", etc. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Having a week long convo with a girl on website, suddenly she stopped responding. What mistakes did I make?Your attempts at DHV were a bit obvious. Not over the top, but they could have been more subtle. You were boring. I see no real emotional spikes here. You did not move her emotionally. You engaged her too logically, like you were talking to a dude. Most of what you did was ask her questions, as if you interviewing her / auditioning her for a part as your potential love interest. How was your weekend? basically says, I don't have a lot to say but I want to stay on your radar. All in all, you've n… | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 07:02 PM |
| -12 | What should I have done?Walk up to her, look her straight in the eye (keep good, confident posture), when she notices you and looks back, say, "You look like trouble" (hold slight devilish grin... hold it... hold it). What for her response (it will be accompanied by a blush). If you got game, you're probably golden that this point. Proceed. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 12:58 AM |
| 21 | [FR] funny coffee meet F-close [NSFW]Exactly. She could have gotten those panties off in less than a minute. She went to the bathroom, totally impressed, confused about what to do, and turned on. She thought about it a while, and said "fuck it, let's do this." OP's move to give her a few minutes was a stroke of genius. He showed her outcome independence, confidence, but also gave her time to let her hamster spin and up the sexual tension. Excellent move. [golf clap] | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 12:48 AM |
| 2 | How do I pull this off?Sidebar first. Use the search function and read about oneitis. Read about the friendzone. Go to Chateau Hartiste and read the 16 Commandments of Poon. DO NOT do what you are saying you are going to do in your post. And if you do, don't come back whining when it fails and you've disregarded the advice you get here. Finally, askseddit (not either seddit or askreddit) is the place for questions about that ONE GIRL. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 10:59 AM |
| 1 | So pissed at my friend right nowDude, yes, your friend is a chode, but you've got the wingman rules backward a bit. The general rule is that the first one to spot a target gets the first chance with her. Sure, he SHOULD have opened her. But, as a good wing, you went and got the job done for him. And it worked. She's going to be seeing him. Good job, wingy. And yes, you did most of the work, so sure, I'd be a bit frustrated too. Get over it. Let him have her, move on, etc. Heck, she'll probably dump him when he chodes out and s… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Telling a good friend I have feelings for them.Poor puaCurveBall!!! Some pussy on here downvoted you.. a moderator of all people!!! Somewon gwot their fweelings hurt... | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 08:54 PM |
| 22 | You are your own HB10 - Act like it.A bunch of feelgood horseshit. We need realism here, not pseudo-uplifting doublespeak. Almost everyone has something they can improve on, most of us more than one, two, or three things. Telling folks here they are all HB10s is basically telling them that they do not need to improve or development, just think positively and wishfully. Real confidence comes from the school of hard knocks, experience, overcoming failures and limitations. This post seems to undercut the need to hard evaluations, cri… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Guide to going out aloneFirst, I'm no expert at solo game. In fact, I think some game with social proof works best. But, necessity is the mother of invention, as they say. Look, I'm in my 40s. Most of my friends either live outside my city or the ones that do live here do not go out nearly as much. But I'm not about to sit on my ass and wait for UPS to deliver HB to my door. Doesn't work that way. So you have to go out a lot, and often alone. Here are some other tips for solo game, some from my experience and some from… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Guide to going out aloneWell, you've asked a girl to leave with you, presumably after hanging out with you for a while. She's turned you down, at least in terms of leaving. But, if she's hung out with you and you have her hooked a bit, get her number and then leave. If you ask her to leave and she says no and then you stick around, it reeks of clingy neediness, which you must avoid. Plus, if you take the number then and leave, you still provide a sense of outcome independence and a bit of a mystery. She might want to g… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 03:55 PM |
| 3 | I have a noob questionThere are several ways, not all of them 100% fool proof, but collectively added up they are helpful: Maintaining eye contact with you Twirling her hair (classic) Smiling, laughing at what you say (especially if you joke is not all that good) Dilating pupils (dead give away; cannot be controlled). Is she facing you when sitting/standing? Are her feet pointed toward you? If you leave for a minute (bathroom, talk to a friend), is she still there when you return? (if she's not, it's not a dealbreake… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 10:59 AM |
| 10 | Guide to going out aloneBesides dressing to the nines, he took most of that from Roosh, not just the one part he referenced. One thing about being out alone is that if you stay too long in a bar/club alone and talking to no one, your perceived value will drop over time. So, say 30 minutes-1 hour one place, then bounce. If you a hook a set that seems like it's mainly going to end in a number (she's with lots of friends, bad logistics, etc), then use a false time constraint ("gotta meet up with friends soon elsewhere") a… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 10:47 AM |
| 9 | Telling a good friend I have feelings for them.Do NOT tell her you have feelings for her (see Roissy's 16 Commandments of Poon over at Chateau Heartiste: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ ) The main reason is that it will put all the relationship "power" in her hands, not yours. Also, if she's still cool with the FWB situation, telling her will likely kill it; it definitely will if she doesn't share the same feelings. I'm reading two main problems here. (1) Oneitis. Are you banging other women too? I'm guessing… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 10:23 AM |
| 2 | How Do I Get Myself to Open Up to Guys and Actually Start Dating? I'm gonna be 23 this month and I *still* suffer from social anxiety. :( *UPDATE*Lot's of advice already given here is good and you should listen to it. I'll make a few more suggestions... The overall theme below is to put yourself in situations where you simply have to interact with other people (doesn't matter who): Take an improv class. This will get you out of your comfort zone and teach you to put yourself out there in front of a crowd. Take dance classes, especially those where you need a partner. You will meet new people and have forced interactions. Get a job in reta… | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 09:30 PM |
| 20 | After rejection I am angry.A bit of wisdom picked up on these boards goes like this: When you get rejected by a woman who barely knows you, she is not rejecting YOU, she's rejecting your game/approach. So, you need to get better are approaching, talking to women. If she did get to know you a bit, then you have some other issues to work on... or, maybe she's just a pain in the ass bitch and you are better off without her. In this case, the rejection should be taken as good news, as you found out sooner than later that you … | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 11:15 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I did everything seddit would do, what went wrong? Can I salvage this?"Where you at?" text from the festival could have been handled better. It tells her you are into chasing her. Tell her where you are. If she comes, you know there's interest. Plus is leading and non-needy. Jay3000 is correct in what he says. I've made these mistakes too. The same message can be gotten across that transforms for needy to leading. It's a good lesson to keep in mind. Also, yes, jay3000 is right in that your texts collectively added up translate into too much chasing and neediness. … | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 11:22 PM |
| 4 | FR: Greatest night of my life but a week later have many questionsFrom what you've written she likely knows you are interested in getting with her again. But, so far, she's not gone out of her way to contact you, be at a place where you'll be, etc. Since you've contacted her on FB, I don't think there's much more you can do at this moment without coming off as needy or desperate. As you wished her happy birthday, she knows you wanna fuck her again. But maybe it was a one off thing for her. Get your mind back to an outcome independent mindset here. Don't give a… | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:57 AM |
| 7 | Does abundance mentality cause cognitive dissonance?Only if you think about it wrong does the abundance mentality cause cognitive dissonance. Let me explain (using my own experience). As we age, the number of women that are available in our age group declines (long-term relations, marriage, etc.). So, what you get is a pyramid. The height of the pyramid is age and the width is the number of available women. The higher you go, the fewer there are (though it does expand once you get up into the senior citizen range, which is not a topic of this dis… | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:51 AM |
| 9 | How can I go from approaching an attractive stranger to following up, before it's too late and I never see her again?For the thousandth time, don't game at work. Good rule of thumb. But, if she's temporary, then figure out when she's leaving the company. Chat her up briefly here and there. Not too long, not too pushy. But have some light flirtation there. Then eject before she does. Go back to work, "Sorry, gotta go, this shit report won't write itself", or whatever. During your light, fun conversations with her, try to get her to tell you when she's leaving the business. Don't get her number then. A few days … | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Being the right kind of nice guyFirst step is to realize that real men are not asshats. Though, some women are attracted to asshats. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 10:37 PM |
| 9 | Something I struggle to overcome as an attractive man.Women are confused. They don't know what they want and they are inconsistent. They don't want to take beta-boy home for a ride on his cock. They want the confident, good-looking, chiseled dude for the ride. But if that same guy was to hit on her, he better have tight game. Schlubby beta boys are less likely to hit on women, but if a woman wants to date someone they can control and feel superior too, it's this guy. He don't need much game because she's gaming him. She hates to be single and wants… | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 09:59 PM |
| 3 | I'm kinda in a predicament.You need to change yourself, outside and in. Get serious about getting into shape. Workout at least 5 days a week, if you do not already. Learn about the process too, or you can injure yourself or get poor results. Also, learn what sort of diet goes good with working out. Change your wardrobe. Don't have a lot of cash? Hunt Goodwill and thrift stores. You can find cheap and pretty good stuff there if you know how to look for it. Make sure the clothes fit your body well. Develop a style associate… | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 08:51 PM |
| 2 | [texting] She ignored me when I asked her out to lunch. Then next day, she is asking to borrow my textbook from an old class?If a long time friend couldn't do that, it would be no big deal. Provide book, forget about lunch. This is not such a situation. The girl is using him for her advantages in school/class. Further, if she WAS interested, she'd have jumped at the lunch date. What she is interested in is how to take advantage of him academically. She'll probably been doing that for years. Low quality female. Don't feed into it. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 09:43 AM |
| 3 | She shows IOIs but not interested to meet on person because she has principle not to meet people from the internet.Making her wait a bit is good. It'll give her a chance to miss you, think it over, and you'll prevent some perception of neediness. But when you contact her, don't respond by telling her why you ignored her messages. Just say you got busy and now are back online. It would help if you explains what kind of "date" you asked her on and how. What did you say? Women are rightfully suspicious of guys online. They get asked for sex a lot and have guys sending them naked pictures when they didn't even a… | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 09:39 AM |
| 0 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.I saw Dan Savage give out advice like this one time and it seems to fit your situation: If you are a shitty 19 year old with no life, working on being an awesome 23 year old with a life. Change the ages to fit you. This doesn't happen over night. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 10:34 AM |
| 3 | [FR] hiking trip with older ex co-worker, got Kino'd the hell out by her, broke the rule "never stick my junk in crazies". F-closeWrong title, wrong board. Should be: "Hiking trip with younger ex co-worker, got him wasted, kino-ed the hell out of him, and f-closed." Should be on female seduction board. Not a FR for you, but her. You got gamed. Doesn't matter, still had sex. And the only game I see from you here is that you didn't blow it. For that, good job. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 10:01 AM |
| 1 | What could I have done better?Yes, plenty of time, true. But don't stop paying attention to mistakes and the learning process, ever. When I was your age, I was banging two 31 year old women. Why? Well, I was not a lady killer really. In high school, I fucked a only a few chicks, but I was pretty much carefree and a bit of a rebel (I learned many years later how many girls in HS was to fuck me... missed most of the signals and my lay count was about 4 when I graduated). Anyway, my not-give-a-fuck attitude aided me well over t… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 06:29 AM |
| 1 | New to the community, could use some help with the other side of the equation...Their hamster tells them during the seduction phase that either you do not really mean you don't want a LTR or that her charms will override this inability of yours or they simply don't listen because the seduction works so well. Remember, women act on emotion and then backwards rationalize their behavior. So, they may even think they can handle a fling without a LTR, but because they want the sex AT THAT TIME, they ignore what you to say and then later try to figure out how to get you to do wha… | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Does amazing NSA sex with one girl, make her friends she tells about it want to bang you too?Yes. Yes. Yes. A NSA bout of good sex will get a woman's head reeling. They will tell their friends. Their friends will seriously consider taking a ride. Proceed gaming as you desire. You've been proofed. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 11:22 PM |
| 11 | You Are InvisibleThis is nonsense. Not everyone is an overly inward self-analyzer 24/7. This is a problem with Seddit. Lot's of guys come here with problems with women and want to get better. That's cool. We are all here for that reason. But there's also a HUGE range of experience here. Some guys are total chodey AFC newbies and others have had years in the field. The problem is that the board is top-heavy with the inexperienced guys. That's not so much a problem. What is a problem is when they load the board up… | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 01:33 PM |
| 2 | How often do you get flaked on?Well, no harm in trying one more time. But, as is common on these forums, we are reminded to lead, don't ask. Do not send her a text that reads anything like any of these: "Hi, what you doing?" "Wanna hangout [this day, that day, or the other day]." Etc. Tell her, don't ask her. "Hey HB, heading down to [so-and-so place at so-and-so time] tomorrow. You should join us." What I mean here is that in your situation, it sounds like she might do better with at least a 24 hour notice, not an hour befor… | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 05:52 AM |
| 2 | How often do you get flaked on?Girls flake all the time. You almost have to expect it. And brush it off. It is part of the cost of gaming a lot of women. There are ways to reduce flaking, but eliminating is impossible. Women just don't keep their word. Flake rates go up with women you've met briefly, gotten a number, and set up a date. Also, drunken k-close women are notorious flakes. Women you've been able to spend some time with, establish some comfort and investment on their part, and you've not come off as needy (e.g., to… | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 11:07 PM |
| 1 | What could I have done better?When you are in a situation like that and mention a band she likes and she responds with enthusiasm, you should too, but at a lower level than her's. But, you should try to feed her and match her emotions. If you play it too cool, she's likely to feel the conversation perfunctory, bland, interview-like. Sounds like she opened you. When that happens, a woman needs to know you are confident and can handle your shit. Also, you need to act like you've been there before, but are not cold as ice and i… | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 11:00 PM |
| 4 | What could I have done better?Lost it right here: "Can I hang out with you?" Needy and lacks confidence. Should have said something like: "Okay, this is the second time we've bumped into each other. We're hanging out." Sly grin... That would have been confident and leading. She'd have grinned too. After this, your conversation with her was probably either boring or try-too-hard obvious. Then when you poked her tattoo, she was out of there. That might not have been the thing that did it, but she wasn't hooked and her friend w… | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Keep Getting "No Replies" After Asking OutWomen report that it turns them off. It's like bragging. If you want to show off your physique, wear a tight t-shirt. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:27 PM |
| 2 | A [FR] about a Monday utilizing my machine gun mode.Nicely done, great FR. When I read this it had 33 upvotes, 7 down. Who the fuck would down vote this? And why? Some folks need to get off this board and start getting off off this board. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Short [FR] K-Close, Couldn't F-Close thanks to a cockblock, but I get to see her again in a few weeks, need a text message decipheredShe's telling you to keep the sexual tension up between now and when you visit. And it sounds like text is the main way. Try to see if you can get her on Skype. You can see each other and tease and banter better on that. Until then, you need to spike her emotions through text and she's basically telling you that you BETTER do that. She has options, knows it, but also knows she's on your hook and rather not fall off. A suggested text (though culture/language might be a problem in getting somethin… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with rejection in the workplace? How do you minimize the awkwardness afterwards?Posts like these arrive like clockwork. It's like we need a banner on top of the page: Just as you don't shit where you eat, don't game at work. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 12:00 PM |
| 5 | Maybe you don't belong here...You missed the OP's point. Yes, it isn't about pua's, exploits, etc. (though that material is integral when written up with insight and instruction rather than bragging). The OP's point is that the forum is constantly inundated with questions ABOUT THIS ONE GIRL. And the mission statement here clearly states the forum is about principles, ideas, growth, over-coming certain social conditioning, etc. But never for get, while all those things are good in and of themselves, this forum is nevertheles… | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Been lurking here for a while and now could use some valuable insightOkay, you are new here. One maxim that repeats on these forums is: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Commit that to memory. And here's another: A woman that is truly interested in you will do what it takes to see you if you have made it clear you want to see her. Finally, another general rule of thumb: Women will say one thing, do another. Sometimes is this straight lying, but not always. Sometimes they say they'd like to see you because at THAT MOMENT that is how they felt. So … | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 12:05 PM |
| 19 | Last night, a female friend from work stayed at my house and we fell asleep together on the couch, cuddled together. We're just on the couch now, watching Super Troopers, laying down, facing opposite ways. What should I do?Classic troll post or idiot (sometimes hard to tell). Here's the post I'm waiting for: There's a girl and she keeps nibbling my ear and putting her hand on my crotch. I'm not sure if she likes me. What should I do???? Help me Seddit!!!! | /r/seduction | 15/07/12 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Sex tips for a first-timer?r/sex--> That's the forum you need to check out. r/seduction is more about how to get the girl to that point. | /r/seduction | 15/07/12 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Keep Getting "No Replies" After Asking OutI've recently dipped my toes into online game to supplement my night game. A few things I've learned (and I've gotten pretty good at it). (1) Like in normal situations, women almost NEVER approach you/your profile first (I've gotten them to do it, which I'll explain later). (2) Most women WILL NOT respond to most messages, mainly because they have tons of guys sending them "wanna fuck" messages or cockshots. (3) Because of (2) above, even a bland "Hi, I liked your profile" will get you nowhere. … | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 05:02 PM |
| 3 | FR "only one" after-work drink[golf clap] | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 04:31 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Girl in my class, f-closeAnd that's how to get it done. Good job! | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 04:11 PM |
| 0 | I screwed up last night with this girl, but I think I recovered. I don't understand what's going on though, can someone help?We are going to need more information on this. If you were dick but holding your ground and establishing your boundaries, her initial anger is no big deal. She'll even respect you for it. She pushed back with her text and you admitted fault. This could be good or bad too. Were you really at fault? That is, if you were right to be upset but you reacted poorly, then apologize for the reaction and not you opinion. If that's what has happened, her text back to you is basically saying you still make … | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 03:06 PM |
| 2 | [FR] High Value HB9. Escalation very slow as of first date. Any of you out there have any success stories with slow moving women?It's like you fucked up every step of the way once you got her hooked. Lame kino escalation Not kissing her when she came over to your studio As you admit, not getting her on a one-on-one day2 Not leading in the interaction at the second meet Making her see you with other women too late (worked the first time, the second time you needed to focus on her) Over thinking when she did not kino back (as long as she's accepting it, you are good) Reactivity when she touched other guys (maybe that's her … | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Older men of Reddit: Lost the love of my life 7 months ago, and want her back, and just moved.It's tough, but you gotta move on. It has happened to a lot of us, more than once. Trust us, just bite the bullet and move on. And in the future, date several women at one time. Then you'll not fall for the next one that gives you attention (this may not be you, but it is a habit a lot of guys fall into). Dating several women does a few things for you: (1) you'll put up will less bullshit from any one of them because you have other options, (2) you're less likely to pedestal any one of them, red… | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 05:17 PM |
| 7 | If texting/chatting with someone, say "bye!" not "bye" when you're done.The chodemanship in this post and discussion is both impressive and depressing. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Number close with a stripper! Now what?For fucks sake, it cuts both ways. Stripper (talking to friend on the phone): Yeah, I met this cool guy at the club. But I noticed he might have been using some seduction techniques on me, like he's a pickup artist. Friend: Oh, that's too bad. He might be player, yeah. Stripper: I know, he WAS smooth. But if he's a PUA, doesn't that mean he has a higher chance of having an STD? Friend: Heck yeah, girlfriend. You probably shouldn't fuck him. Unless you gina tingled of course.... | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 10:00 AM |
| 2 | I hate coffee dates, yet I end up having them as first dates, any advice?I did that today. Coffee shop, then eatery up the street, then bar down the street. K-closed. Will be f-closing on Wednesday. The coffee date should only be used strategically, like many seduction tips. Meet a woman online, a coffee date is a low pressure date they are more likely to accept than dinner at your place (and if she accepts dinner out, the odds she is dating for dinner are higher). Insta-dates in the daytime are also good for coffee dates, as are other women you meet through daygame.… | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 08:25 PM |
| 14 | First date in a long time! Advice?Have several places to go already planned in your head (don't tell her; make it an adventure). Don't go out to dinner. If you get hungry later in the date, stop in a pizza joint for a slice, or something like that. Stay casual. No movie. You cannot talk and establish rapport and comfort there. After you bounce from the first place and walk to the next, extend your arm with a bent elbow so that she takes it. You are leading. Ramp up the kino a bit more about 1/2 through the time spent at place nu… | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 03:30 PM |
| 3 | I bruised the head of my weiner... advice needed.Tell her you jerked it a little too soon after getting out of the shower and now its a little tender and it needs at least a day's rest. And this is something that can in fact happen. She'll be like, "What?" And just tell her that moist skin like that can be easily chaffed and that you fucked up and did not wait long enough after the shower. She might even ask a few dudes if this is possible and, if they've ever done it themselves, they will confirm it. And, better yet, tell her you were thinkin… | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 03:21 PM |
| 7 | Female looking to entice a male introvertDon't be coy. It's like he won't be making any first moves, even if he's interested. That is, if he's an introvert like you say. For a woman in a situation like this, it really is pretty simple. In seduction terms: rapport->comfort-> isolation -> escalation. Now, you seem to have the first two already. So, what you do is get into a situation again with him, whether it be a party, a cook out, or whatever, and then isolate him from your group of friends. Go for a walk, have a conversation with him… | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 11:34 AM |
| 12 | Is there an active community for people who are a bit more advanced?Roosh Rollo Tomassi Chateau Heartiste (Roissy) | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 04:38 PM |
| 5 | I went out, hooked up with a nice lady, got a number and exchanged a few messages on the way home. Now what do i do?Seems like you did okay so far. Wednesday, ask her out for drinks, but don't "ask". Do this: "Hey, going to [place nearby] for happy hour. 6pm. Come join." Don't send messages during the day, like, "How's your day going?" or anything like that. Too needy and too try hard. Use texts messages to get her out, not to establish rapport and conversation. And for the love of Thor, no damn smiley faces. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.Yes, it was an impressive performance. One I thought people could learn from on here, and the reason why I posted it seems to have missed many folks here. Thanks for the non-dickish response. Some people, you just can't help them... | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.Cuz I'm an okay writer and was trying to get across the behavior I witnessed. Make sense? | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 01:18 AM |
| 28 | Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him.Part II TEASING AND NEGS We are trying to explain to my buddy some things about women. A waitress comes by to chat with us and GG goes up to her and places his head right into her cleavage, which she warmly accepts. After she leaves, my buddy is all like, “that sucks us straight guys can’t do that shit.” I agree, but tell him and GG that there are some things we straight guys can learn from gay guys. I tell GG that you gay guys are great at teasing girls and they LOOOOVE it. I try to get my budd… | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Help a NewbBe cool, relaxed, but OWN the interaction. Don't supplicate or act needy. Lead the conversation but in a way that gets her talking about herself. Kino and escalate that shit over the course of the evening. Kiss her before you leave the bar. Don't stay until closing time. Bounce her to at least one new place and then take her home and fuck her. | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 08:41 AM |
| 1 | [Anti-FR] Blown out by woman I was not even hitting on. The Story of the Meddlesome Ex-gf Playing Wingman: A Cautionary TaleThis, or she saw the girl not knowing whether I ever chatted with her or now, and then she to action to make sure there would be no way I'd be able to hit it (whether I actually wanted to or not). Very, very possible. Certainly something not out of the realm of possibility. | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 10:56 PM |
| 1 | [Anti-FR] Blown out by woman I was not even hitting on. The Story of the Meddlesome Ex-gf Playing Wingman: A Cautionary TaleThe first part is exactly my situation. We dated, she met my friends, and has now been integrated into that circle. I think she intellectually knows it is over (its been two years and she totally respects why I broke up with her) but cannot emotionally let go. Thanks for your input. But shit, this is now turning into more of a relationship post and not a "what fucked up things can happen in the field" post. | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 06:38 PM |
| 1 | [Anti-FR] Blown out by woman I was not even hitting on. The Story of the Meddlesome Ex-gf Playing Wingman: A Cautionary TaleYes, correct. I tried to make clear in the post that I DID NOT want her to do anything like that, last night or any other. I don't need her or anyone to wing. But she took the initiative anyway, totally outside my control, knowledge, or request. And she did learn about how fucking bad she is at it....said she'll never do anything like that again. Well, at least that is a small victory, I guess. | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 06:10 PM |
| 2 | [Anti-FR] Blown out by woman I was not even hitting on. The Story of the Meddlesome Ex-gf Playing Wingman: A Cautionary TaleYeah, I was definitely thinking that. The sex has been only 1 time (early April) this year and maybe 3 or 4 last. But, no doubt I believe that needs to be done. Cutting her out of my life will be a problem though. We share a large circle of friends. Thanks for your thoughts. Confirms my suspicion. | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 06:06 PM |
| 6 | What am I doing wrong?You are probably not putting out a sex vibe in your interactions with women. You do not necessarily have to do this immediately, but you are probably not doing it all. You are probably being friendly and cordial and women are responding in kind. Do you talk in a straight forward, logical manner? Yeah, that doesn't turn women on. You need to spike their emotions sometimes. Are you physical with women? That is, do you know how to playfully touch them at the right time, in the right way? Do you sta… | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 05:51 PM |
| 9 | MILF gameOlder women have less bitch shields, will make it fairly clear when they are DTF, and have fewer sexual hangups. In fact, if you try to game one, they might even thing your game is cute and entertaining but not really give a fuck on how you do. This goes for young guys going for milfs... for older guys, it takes a little more work. | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 07:29 PM |
| -10 | How to deal with "Will you guys stop flirting with each other?"Glance over at him briefly and say this like a parent talks to a child: "Uh, the ADULTS are talking" and then take her by the arm and turn her and yourself slight away from him and continue on. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 10:22 PM |
| 4 | [FR] In foreign city, OKC date, f-close. Here's one way to get it done fellas [long but pretty decent story]Read title again. It says, Here's ONE way to get it done....not THE way... | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Need a little help... Where to meet women in Toronto?Yeah, I checked it out. Newest post there was from 23 days ago. Figured it was not a very active forum. | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Need a little help... Where to meet women in Toronto?Thanks, very helpful to both soDuhwater and Eskoe! | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 09:08 AM |
| 7 | Ex - "thanks for making me a BJ pro." Looking for a witty retortWhy the fuck are you posting this on this board? Go to r/relationships or whatever, but I have not idea why you'd be here. Our job is not to teach your to be a bastard to some chick you probably shouldn't have fucked in the first place. Don't be so petty. What the hell is wrong with you? | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Seddit: How do you feel about this advice I was given?Terrible advice. Get a new therapist or keep this one and do the opposite of what she says. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 08:34 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when the convo gets sexual to keep tension but not seem too eager?You have to act like you've been there before. Like you know exactly what the context is and where it can possibly head. Be calm and secure and don't react like a child on Christmas. Play into that frame and work it confidently, like its nothing and you know what the fuck you are doing. But, if you have to shift into actor mode, she'll see right through it. Just relax, the vibe is sexual, and work naturally toward that end. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Who's in the right?He wants her. You did nothing wrong. But, if you want copacetic living arrangements, move on or move out. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 03:15 PM |
| 3 | How do I segue into playing a guitar to turn on a girl?I think any man paying attention realized the truth of the douchey guitar player at a party when they saw "Animal House" for the first time. That scene was perfect and I cannot count the number of times I wanted to do exactly what Bluto did. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 11:14 PM |
| 2 | How does a lady go about being the "it" girl?One thing I want to add... If you want to be the "it" girl (or alpha, as the PUA lingo describes, in part, the guy all the girls want), if you learn to approach more and go get what you want, something funny and good for you will happen. The good, non-intimidated, guys, will know that when you are single there might be short window of opportunity because you are in charge of your life and you do not just sit around and wait for the next great guy to approach you. If you see a guy that piques you… | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 11:05 PM |
| 10 | How do I segue into playing a guitar to turn on a girl?This is the correct answer. And for the love of jehovah, DO NOT EVER, EVER pick someone else's up at a party and start playing love songs to the room/her. Douchiest move ever. But, if you and another dude can rock out and play fun music together at a party, that CAN be (if you do it right/well) pussy magnet faerie dust. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Hi r/seduction. I'm a shy, attractive female with a boyfriend but few friends. I want to go out more, alone. Help?Go to bars, not clubs. Meet women in a setting where pickup is less likely a theme. Go to happy hours near your work... become sort of a regular and just be social to other women. Befriend them, share numbers, etc. Do not go out with them if they are single to where they are trying to get men to hit on them. Join a yoga class. Tons of women and few men there. Make friends with the other ladies there. Coffee shop nearby? Make it a regular stop and make friends with the barista. Farmers' market? P… | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Is there any hope for an introvert?Get to know yourself EVEN BETTER. And by that I mean learn to maximize your opportunities in social settings where you are comfortable and can socialize in a productive way. Given what you have said about yourself, here is what NOT to do: You are clearly not someone who will enjoy clubbing or hanging in bars too much with people you only know a little, or maybe even a lot. In those places you will find people who enjoy socializing and you might find yourself being bored, quiet, and/or even orbit… | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Is there any hope for an introvert?What I am saying is that you are rebutting EVERY piece of advice on here. If you already have the answers to your question, why bother posting. You are saying you are confident in who you are. Fine. Then stay the same, accept the consequences, and stop acting like the advice you are being given is not good advice. What we are trying to tell you is that being shy/introverted/non-social is not a very good way of attracting women. If that is going to be your unmovable strategy to meet women, go to … | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 02:10 PM |
| 4 | How to tell girls that you don't want to dance without losing interest?Replying to my own post. RE #2 above. One way to pull off dancing like an idiot is to sort of do a "mock" dancing, where you show that you do not know what you are doing. Self-amusement. Smile, laugh, act stupid (but you are mocking yourself, not others), and interact with the girl while doing so. The message will be that you are fun, don't take yourself too seriously, and know how to get up into a woman's space in a flirty way when she opens the door for you. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 02:06 PM |
| -2 | Is there any hope for an introvert?Well, here we go again. Sound familiar fellas? It goes something like this: AFC comes to seduction forum, admits he's an AFC and wants help/advice. Has an excuse for every reply to his post. Considers none of it, rebuts every point, and keeps up his protective coating so as not to step out of the comfort zone he's here to try to fix. Obliviously continues his cycle without admitting it to himself, and never others of course. The obvious denial is obvious. Leaves forum none-the-wiser, goes on mer… | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 01:44 PM |
| 7 | How does a lady go about being the "it" girl?JAFAC's link is good. You should read that first. It repeats several things that men work on too: trying to stay fit, present yourself well, be able to interact will others comfortably, and get over your approach anxiety. Actually, the point about approach anxiety is tricky here. Are you interested in approaching more to meet more men? Or, are you interested in presenting yourself in a way that more men will want to meet you? It was not clear from your post. In any case, here's what I would advi… | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 11:48 AM |
| 6 | How to tell girls that you don't want to dance without losing interest?Here are your options my friend: Stay in chode mode, don't dance, and lose chances with lots of women. What would you think if you asked a girl to lunch and she say, "No thanks, I'm not hungry"? Well, you would think she was not interested. Same with turning a girl down for dancing.... it kills her ladyboner. Go dance and look like an idiot. You might have to break through that wall. If you do dance like an idiot, you will have to pull it off while looking comfortable looking like an idiot. If y… | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Ok I know what I'm supposed to do to convey the proper message but...Agreed, nycprowl. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Ok I know what I'm supposed to do to convey the proper message but...You are correct, sir. But only to a point. Women are not the "enemy", as in an evil opponent. Rather, men and women both do a dance around one another, sort of like olympic fencing. Each must engage the other, but one needs to know their moves, mind set, and strategy (conscious or not) in order to have the outcome end up the way they want. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 12:00 AM |
| 3 | [FR] 1st Date, Kiss Close, Heavy Petting, Totally Blown Off The Next Day - Advice?She's reacting to her emotions in both instances. In the first, she was having a good time, liked you, got horny, and fooled around for some immediate pleasure. Later, her rational mind started arguing with her emotional mind... "Oh shit, I fooled around with him on a whim... He thinks I'm a slut." etc. Now she's trying to cover her tracks and convince herself she's not a "slut". Stupid, I know, but that's how it seems to work. Back off. Wait a few days and ask her out on a proper date, preferab… | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 11:17 PM |
| 16 | How can I escalate when a girl randomly compliments me?Develop a sensitivity to recognize such situations. Pause slowly, say, "Oh thanks. What do you like about them?" She should have something ready to say and you should be savvy enough to respond and continue from there. But, you can't really have a great opening convo about soccer cleats. So, move on...like, "do you play?" And from there talk about what you know about soccer, teams you've played for, players you like...etc. Instant connection. Can't lead you by the hand past that. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 11:00 PM |
| 5 | FR with a request for adviceWhat part of "I'm not interested" are you having problems with here? You will only come of needy, desperate, and clingy if you do respond to her again. Move on. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 07:18 PM |
| 88 | [FR] Don't buy girls drinks.. lesson learned!Nice recovery. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 01:03 PM |
| 4 | What does Seddit think of telling the friend of a girl your interested in about your interest, knowing full well she will relay this information to the girl.try \highseddit | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Yes and no on that last point. One of the greatest traits anyone can have is that they live to give out good things to other people--energy, time, labor, advice, knowledge, charity, an ear, etc. People can live very fulfilling and powerful lives doing that. These are all good traits for anyone to have. But, you are correct in that you should not live in a way that only someone else can make you happy. That is the road to ruin because it is not in fact possible. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Yes, drumdance, that's it. There are manipulative bitches but that is not saying "women" are manipulative bitches as a whole. And, there are guys who supplicate and guys who are abusive assholes. That's different from saying "men" as a whole are as well. I was not writing a treatise on the nature of both species, which perhaps a few folks took a way from the post. Rather, if guys see LTRs/marriage as "something I must do before I die...put it at number 4 on the list" (or some other way of saying… | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Agreed, 100%. If women would walk away from guys that were verbally or physically abusive, it would be so much better for them. There are plenty of "alpha" guys out there that do not talk down to women or beat them or anything else. Neither men nor women should put up with each other's shit just because they want to be in a relationship that grants them some ridiculous social approval. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Well, that's the view of Anti-Dump and endorsed/reviewed by Pook. I don't think it is too far off, however. I think the point is that you should wait for a woman to ask for exclusivity first and only then after some time has passed should that been interpreted as okay. The reasoning is that if a man does it, he's basically telling her that she's the only woman for him. And even if that is true, to verbalize it first is a bit needy or desperate and/or lacks a sense of independence and individuali… | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.It's cool man. You were trying to be helpful, not a dick. I'll buy you a beer next time I'm in Belgium. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Gosh, so many ways to reply... I'm a busy man doing busy, awesome things, right??? He already hates me, why bother? He seems to not understand the difference between "compromise" and "jump and do what I say"? I'm being "unreactive"? "Lacking" an ability is not the same as "I already took time out of my day to write something and now you want me to re-write the cliff notes for the lazy"...really??? Hey, what I can say, evidently I'm "pathetic" and not a "man", so I guess that ends that discussion… | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 04:55 PM |
| 17 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Jjness...you got it. And in few words than I did it in. Props for the clarification (if anyone needed it). | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 03:48 PM |
| 30 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Nope. Be a man and read it, or pass on it. The world is not a series of conveniently packaged bits of information. You gotta learn to push yourself out of your comfort zone my friend. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 02:55 PM |
| 8 | Tip on "moving on" for Noobies, AFCs, and even the occasional experienced guy.Thanks.... I've not had the problem of a woman trying to fix me. However, I have had several situations where a woman was acting in an unacceptable manner toward me and I put up with it....sometimes much, much too long. And then she doesn't really respect you anymore, your self-esteem is in the shitter, you are paranoid of the next blow up, etc. No guy should EVER put up with such crap (except, maybe, if kids are involved, it's too late, and the crap is not too extreme...maybe). I've not been on… | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 02:54 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Brief bar encounter. Not sure how to feel about it.Get out of your own head. Write it off to experience and just part of the game. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Explain my sitch?If your behavior has been persistent, then, at the very least, she's used to getting your texts. And if she has been responding, at the very least, there is some comfort there. Now, just stop the "how's your day crap" (unless you've actually been dating for quite a while) and start with the "let's go do xyz" stuff. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Explain my sitch?Usually the rule here is to only text with a specific outcome or plan in mind. Do not work on building comfort via text because that is something she probably does with her girlfriends and platonic guy friends (who are in her FZ). So you don't want to go there. Just send her a text that intends to get her out and meet up with you. Don't ask her out on a "date" via text either. There should be some cool shit going on where you live. Make plans to do that with some friends, tell her about it via t… | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 11:14 AM |
| 9 | Never had a GF, just got this girl interested in me ( i guess) , what is my next step ?r/askseddit is the place to inquire about a particular girl, not this forum. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Explain my sitch?Your comments to her while at your table seem a bit overly needy and canned. But you got her number and she's responding positively (so far). Dial down the "lines" you are using. They've gotten you this far, yes, but keep doing it and you'll come off as a fake player. Get her out, get her talking about herself, and be real (also, work on eye contact, body language, and esclate some kino). | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 12:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]You need to lose the "always" part of your question. You simply need to learn to get comfortable meeting new people. When you are at work, school, with friends in a new setting, etc., practice just getting to know people in those settings without thinking of it as a pickup, because it isn't. Learn to interact in a group, make jokes, ask leading questions, have fun. Once you get comfortable doing normal interactions, you can take that experience into the field when you are trying to meet women. | /r/seduction | 11/04/12 10:37 AM |
| 4 | Spectacular Failure: The AssholeAnother mistake you made: not all girls really require the full gamut of gaming. Some you can just get opened and then suddenly you realize they have no bitch shield, are nice and open, etc. You became outcome dependent on previous interactions and then tried to recover your gaming skills on Samantha when what you needed is to go back to basic, everyday interactions with her for a while and then perhaps you could count on maybe a little comfort, kino, escalation without thinking about it too muc… | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 07:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]You do not need one. I'll give you an example of what I did recently and then a general example that gives the basic template. I was at a club and found myself chatting up a young woman somewhat younger than me. But we had a nice conversation and we were clearly into each other (I passed a shit test, presented myself sexually, had kino'd a bit, etc.). However, soon, her oneitis comes in the bar and she apologized and excused herself because she sort of had agreed to meet him there and she was st… | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 06:17 PM |
| 3 | How to tell when someone is into you?Okay, you have sort of worked yourself into a slight social bind. You are asexual and most guys are very sexual. And, you are friendly and touchy, which most guys see as an indicator of interest. What this means is that just about every guy--both experienced ones and average frustrated chumps--are very likely to misread you, consistently. See, men's default mode is that interactions with women in social settings beyond perfunctory niceties is to wonder if the woman is into him. And this frustrat… | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Is it possible to be an introvert and an alpha male?I don't think a carefully scripted television show with writers, actors, and directors is a very good or realistic example to use when giving advice. Might as well answer a question about learning how to play baseball by telling someone to watch "The Natural." | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Escalating with virgin girlfriend xpost from r/askwomen...I agree with totalradass. If she's not been sexual with a guy and she's in her late 20's, something is totally off, especially if her virginity is not related to religious reasons. Sounds like sex doesn't come natural to her and/or she has serious hangups for some reason (maybe she was molested as a child?). In any case, if you two ever do have sex it will be on her terms not yours. What I mean by that is she has not even met your halfway at this point and you are still orbiting around her. Even… | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 12:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]Assuming attraction is good when you are starting out. However, if she's still with you talking after about 10 minutes, don't assume attraction, know it is there. She's attracted dammit, that's WHY she is still there. But now she's waiting to see if you are a real man who knows how to take the lead and up the sexual ante. You gotta do that. Here's a small example of how to up the sexual ante with a minor kino method. You are talking with her at the bar. There's space between you but you've got h… | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 12:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]Nope | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 01:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]Went back to bar tonight. He failed to close on all levels. No number. No pull. He's got 80% of what he needs to get the babes, but he's a bit overweight and gun shy on the last steps (but his fun personality completely negates his weight issue...everyone really likes him. His is always the best and in table to be at in terms of who is having the most fun). He's funny, always has several people around him socializing and joking, comfortable talking to anyone, witty, etc. But you gotta be able an… | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 01:17 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]You are being downvoted because there's a FAQ and a glossary on the sidebar. Start there. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 04:36 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]First, check the sidebar. Lots of information there. As my original post was for newbies/AFCs, my reply here will be for those types of guys. For guys with experience, nothing I say here will probably be new information for them. I will assume a situation where the guy and girl have already met and engaged in some conversation. Now you need to figure out is how receptive she is to your touch. The PUA guys have all sorts of advice on touching immediately but I think the newbies/AFC guys are not o… | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Going to a bar for the very first time tonight with some friends. Any tips on how to make it a great night?Pace yourself. Don't do shots. It's hard to game when you are drunk... especially opening up a set. If you open a babe and she's receptive and drinking with you, okay, keep the vibe going. Otherwise, PACE YOURSELF. Start the evening by talking to some women you are not attracted to. You will not be hitting on them. You are getting comfortable, building up a bit of social value, and creating some momentum for yourself. Do this a few times and this will build your confidence up. And once that happ… | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 03:36 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Lesson from an interaction witnessed last night that might help newbies/AFC guys [a bit long]Good work. Sometimes guys need to be hit in the head by a friend. I felt like I needed to pull Frank aside and tell him not to fuck it up. But that would have meant intruding on his set. In fact, all of us were leaving him alone to do his thing (first time many of us remembered seeing him so in with a babe) but also we were worried that he was not doing what he needed to do. I'm sure I'll hear about whether he left with her or not next time I'm in there. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 02:39 PM |
| 3 | I've recently started reading Magic Bullets. At one point they briefly say, "Don’t let other men touch you without responding." However, they don't really explain this. What is the proper way to respond?I ran into this and responded immediately... though I definitely was not NON-reactive. How about some critique fellas? Here's my (short) story. I'm at a crowded bar seeing some live music with a buddy. Some dreadlocked hippie dude is making the fool all over the dance floor (which I am about 5-10 feet behind, just hanging out, not gaming anyone). Anyway, he comes bopping through the crowd and when he gets to me, he grabs both ends of my scarf (it was winter) and does this sort of pulley / back-a… | /r/seduction | 06/04/12 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What happens when the target girl is best friend of your very very close female friend?First, if you are gonna game her just to get laid and then blow her off, be ready for that to negatively influence your friendship with the other girl. Second, if you end up dating target girl, be prepared for your close female friend to know EVERYTHING. If you suck in bed, she'll be told. If you say dirty and/or romantic things, she'll be told. That awkward birthmark, she'll hear about it. Got an STD, she'll know. And so on. So, basically, you'll be dating two women emotionally, in a way. And i… | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Question regarding a failed PU, but from the view of one of the guys in the set....You become instant-wing and shut her down for him. Help a bro out!! | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What to make of a text?"That's better than the alternative. Cheer up!" | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 11:55 AM |
| 5 | About to send my One-Itis a text. Help me craft it.I'm guessing you've thought long and hard about how to try to send her an endearing text to brighten her day because of her lost phone. It won't. She'll roll her eyes at the obviousness of your attempt and your obliviousness to her lack of interest. Abort. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 01:09 PM |
| 8 | Breaking the FriendzoneTake three days. Search this site on "the friendzone"... both reddit as a whole and seddit and askseddit. Then go outside reddit and research "the friendzone", and make sure to compare standard dating-advice sites to those frequented by pua's and others in that genre. Despite their differences, there is one thing they agree on. The single and only way to deal with the friendzone is to walk a way for a while. Get scarce. Break contact. Seriously. One school of thought says that this will make her… | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 12:40 AM |
| 10 | Breaking the FriendzoneTextbook. You have NO chance. You must decide if you can really just be friends with her, or you have to simply get her out of your life. Walk away, or you'll get into a self-destructive spiral. That you are on this board strongly suggest you are already well down this path. Expect many other replies of a similar tone. Please, for your own good, listen carefully and earnestly to the advice you get here. Thousands of dudes have been there before and there is nothing "special" about your relations… | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 12:03 AM |
| 3 | What just happened?He might have been using some game theory, but maybe at the wrong time/point...and not well. You agreed for Tuesday. But he jumped the gun (too eager, needy) and tried to move it up. He took you not accepting as a "flake" ... prematurely. As a result, he decided to pull out of your pre-agreed on "date", or whatever it was. His misunderstanding of pickup/seduction (if that is what his is following) told him that your refusal was a way to get an upperhand on your side and if bailed on the planned … | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 11:15 PM |
| 2 | This is short, but an important thing I have just realized.Not to disagree with you, say you are wrong (or right), or to throw cold water on your post. But I also must note that there are plenty of posts on forum such as this that claim that hot women get approached all the time and are probably so used to guys hitting on them that you will have to come off in some way unique as compared to the everyday dude hitting on her. I'm not trying to dismiss your enthusiasm for your observation. There IS some truth to it. But there is similar evidence from repor… | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Lesbian lady seems to like to play games. Please advise.Dude, she wants some temporary dick, okay? And she's throwing opportunities at you, and you better take this one, or it's the last likely one you'll get. Here's how I read it: She's a very sexual, free, and open woman. But one likely in a long/medium-term same-sex relationship. Still, she likes you and she's missing dick, or at least wanting some now. She does not want to date you. She probably hasn't even thought about whether she actually "likes" you or not. She doesn't know you. But, when you… | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Came up with this line which can work wonders.Go out and test this pickup line about 100 times. Then come back and tell us the wonders it works. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell my wife no?But before initiating a divorce, he should spell out in clear, no uncertain terms, what is unacceptable about the current situation. Don't negotiate. Spell it out clear and unambiguous. Hold his ground. Any game playing on her part, then cut it off. Separate now. Not necessarily a divorce yet. But spell it out what is wrong and what will keep him willing to try to save the relationship. No more verbal games. No more bs. No more hoop jumping on his part. It's adult time. Any resistance on her par… | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Pickup lines at the gym...DO NOT tell her she's doing something wrong. That's intruding on her routine and, as a rule, no one likes that at the gym. Just run into her at the water fountain and say hi. Go from there. [I had to refrain from saying no game at the gym...okay, there, I said it] | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Less attracted to women because I don't want to be what they wantThe point of game--or, at least, something a guy like you can/should take from it--is to help you overcome the either built-in and/or socialized obstacles that prevent us from meeting women in the first place or scaring them off when we do. Done correctly, your underlying personality stays intact...or hopefully the good and valuable parts. And, you learn to locate your weaknesses and eliminate them or improve on them. All those tactics that are taught are there to get you beyond their shields so… | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 04:24 PM |
| 10 | Seddit, Was I a Bitch?Don't question your behavior, question your friends' attitude. Sound like douches. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 08:47 AM |
| 1 | "I only have sex when I'm in love"Thomasdavis...re-read my reply. It was in two parts: (1) IF he accepts leaving them better than he found them (I did not say he should feel this way) and (2) IF he doesn't give a shit about that, then the work situation will be a problem. I see no oversimplification here. | /r/seduction | 07/03/12 04:33 PM |
| 100 | "I only have sex when I'm in love"You are verging on idiocy here, perhaps. If you accept "leave them better than you found them", then you are simply going to have to move on. Why? By pursuing her for sex, you are implicitly telling her that love is on your mind too. If it isn't and she eventually succumbs to sex, you've basically lied to her. You'll get bored quick, dump her, and she'll be crushed. There are other women out there to bang that don't have the hang-ups. But let's say you don't really give a shit if (1) you should … | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 08:37 PM |
| 13 | WTF happened tonight?You probably did fine. She's a headcase and/or a serious game player, trying to mess you with. Next her.. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 06:58 PM |
| 7 | First date with platonic friend, trying to get out from Friend ZoneTake care of your shit first. That means getting out of your marriage, as you obviously do not love or respect your wife, yourself, or the woman you are getting ready to fuck, toss aside, and leave worse than you found her. You are on the wrong subreddit. r/worstof is thataway----> | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 04:15 PM |
| 1 | you gotta help me get this gal backYou are not gonna get her back. Her girlfriends chat with her for hours online and she's slotted you in with them. Once that happened, you lost all attraction as possible hook-up/boyfriend material. Learn, move on. | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 11:21 AM |
| – | My fiancée is telling me to fuck other womenShe's planning on ride lots of cock while she's gone, or at least wants that option. Her dangling this option out to you is her way of appeasing her conscience beforehand. Dude, walk away from that altar, get your ring back, and never think about getting married again. | /r/TheRedPill | |
| – | Why do my female friends do not encourage me to improve myself but say "don't change"?If their extent of their love of bullshitting you with validation of you are perfect the way you are is very high, then those girls will do whatever they can to either talk you out of a girl you meet that shows romantic interests, or even worse work to subvert an impending relationship with that girl through lies, subterfuge, etc. They don't want to lose their unearned beta-boy orbiter attention. The girls that present themselves as "you are perfect the way you are, don't change" that are happy … | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Stopped my girl from going home with another man at the bar last night. (Depressed and Messed up in the head)Your gf got drunk with another man and was about to leave a bar with him and would have if you weren't there to stop it. What else do you need to know, dude? | /r/askTRP |
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