Thoughts from a Unicorn

alphabetmod · 2013-12-31T19:34:53+00:00

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themoor · 2013-12-31T21:42:07+00:00

One thing hysterical in this whole threat is that her attitude and replies clearly demonstrate SHE HASN'T A CLUE what an alpha either is or wants.

With her attitude, any alpha guy is going to cackle at her ugly attitude, entitlement complex, sense of superiority, and whatnot.

Alpha guys either laugh in the faces of chicks like this or pump and dump them after gaming them hard.

Future embittered cat lady in the making here.

redpillshadow · 2013-12-31T19:19:43+00:00

You sound like a troll.

But yeah, a high class unicorn will throw even more shit tests and will be able to see through a guy who is still in the fake it stage.

This video was posted in asktrp some days ago:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Wbo7XbBHJA

Apparently the guy is some top pick up artist (can someone confirm?) and way out of her league. She is (at least partly) aware of red pill truths and throws shit test after shit test and he fails them. At one point she states one thing and contradicts herself 30 seconds later via a question. He just stares at her in admiration and needs several seconds to reply.

As for your tearing them down part. You have to be careful not to end up as a bitch instead of a unicorn. As per redpillwomen, you aim to be 1. Officer to your Captain. Not internal affairs to a police chief or HR to a CEO.

Piroko · 2013-12-31T19:09:58+00:00

TL;DR: Waiting for real alpha prince billionaire pilot sadist.

RejectionEquality · 2013-12-31T19:55:46+00:00

a daily 7 to 8, and a solid 9 with make-up and carefully chosen outfits

We'll be the judge of that, sweetie.

2013-12-31T20:57:23+00:00

From your attitude alone, you are no unicorn. I know someone who has the same exact mentality you do and I recently divorced her. So at least for me, no, you're nothing special.

JohnGalt316 · 2013-12-31T21:32:29+00:00

you're trying way too hard

grats on failing the unicorn test

themoor · 2013-12-31T19:15:06+00:00

Another victim of the female self-esteem crisis in the Western world:

http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/08/17/the-female-self-esteem-crisis/

semigod__ · 2013-12-31T19:16:08+00:00

lots of claims, lots of shaming, lots of nawalt.

Guh99 · 2013-12-31T19:18:39+00:00

It seems like being worthy and not demanding can be almost as bad at generating desire as being unworthy and demanding. My statement appears to hold more water as time goes on in a relationship.

Edit: rereading, it wouldn't apply so much since you resist game and don't appear to enter into relationships. One thing to note, you could just be feeling that you're a unicorn. Be prepared for consequences if you are wrong about what you are.

Moar edit: it's already been talked about on here that women can sense fakes and fractures of a guy's frame. People are learning and learning takes practice, especially with the pick up skills that you notice. About the he should respect me because I respect myself thing, not really. He shouldn't and doesn't have to. He either does or doesn't, and saying anyone should points to the self-entitlement. You just keep rolling on until someone who's worth your time rolls along and decides you're worth his time and shows you the respect you're looking for.

Sorry for rambles, you touched on a lot of different things and my thoughts aren't easy to organize.

2013-12-31T21:06:31+00:00

i think it's great that you're selective and concentrating on finding the best guy that you can. that's got to take a lot of restraint.

but damn, watch that egotistical bullshit and learn some humility, because it's a serious turnoff. guys notice how you are shitting on other guys just for the fun of it, how you are drunk on your own fleeting sexual power as a young woman surrounded by men. maybe those natural alphas that you're looking for pass you by and chuckle to themselves because your behavior and attitude are so ugly. you have to ask yourself, if those natural alphas aren't approaching you, is it because they don't exist, or is it because you act so bitchy and haughty that those guys aren't interested? either could be true at an engineering college, since insecure nerdy guys tend to dominate the demographic.

I graduated from a well known engineering college as well, and I have to remind you of the male perspective there. we know all too well how all that attention from men can give a girl a ridiculously inflated estimate of her attractiveness and worth in a relationship. guys from other fields avoided engineering girls because everyone knows that those girls are predictably full of themselves. some of those girls who enjoyed toying with their male peers got a rude awakening once they left college, because they found that their male peers in college were actually far better than the dudes you meet out in the real world off campus. i'm serious, don't take your male peers for granted. the average dude is way dumber with much poorer prospects than the men you know in college.

now more about the men you know, and how you're woefully unimpressed with their insecurity and shaky game. your disappointment is understandable, but you expect too much. I'd say that the average guy doesn't build real confidence and a solid identity until later in life, maybe not until age 30. even then, men who develop both great career prospects and great game ARE quite rare, and you may have to accept that you're below their league if they aren't pursuing you.

my advice is to try going after older guys and try to learn some humility, or at least act like you have. be prepared to be pumped and dumped, though, because your attitude is setting you up to be a seasoned player's conquest. why would a guy with such solid game commit to another one of those naive ego-tripping girls, like you? there are plenty of hot girls with better attitudes out there, and honestly, your virginity isn't much of a bargaining chip unless you want to find a muslim guy.

Demonspawn · 2013-12-31T21:24:20+00:00

I'm going to the range next weekend. Would you care to join?

That's what I was going to say. But then I read her replies. We'll just leave it at that.

2013-12-31T20:30:26+00:00

Just a thought. If the men you're meeting are in your age group... that's why. Men do not become men until their thirties (if ever), unless they go to war.

ahostofeyelashes · 2013-12-31T22:05:54+00:00

I would love to be able to have the discussion your post seemed to be wishing for, OP. The fact that the majority of the responses here boil down to 'you're a bitch, not a unicorn' with some attempts at negging thrown in isn't a surprise. This is the internet and we're all strangers, no one is trying to bang or marry anyone else on this sub - nonetheless a real, good-faith conversation seems to be a bit of a unicorn itself.

The concept of alpha is an interesting one, especially in light of this sub - aren't alphas by definition rare? If every man becomes an alpha doesn't that make none of them alpha? Most of the time I try to take this sub with a grain of salt and another grain of compassion. I feel for men - for women, too - who have no luck with the opposite sex and few appealing traits. Both sexes have every right to learn how to maximize the potential of their raw materials. And both sexes have every right to be as picky as they want when it comes to choosing who they want to be with. If what you say is true - you are young, pretty, educated and smart, that makes you a high value person. A high value person seeks another high value person. Blue pillers AND red pillers who are themselves not high value can get very angry/emotional about that fact, and both have their furious rationalizing tendencies.

Like you, I have absolutely no problem with 'game' - the sexual and social interplay between me and men is fun, it's a high-stakes game of sorts and I respect anyone who plays it well. But the truth, as you pointed out, is that most people play it badly, or even worse fail to recognize that a game is afoot. ALL people of both genders need to accept the truth that a)to attract a top-tier human being, you must BE a top-tier human being and b)top-tier human beings are rare. And women can smell fake-alpha a mile away. I never, never cruelly or rudely shoot men down, because that shit (approaching women cold) is hard and in no way would I enjoy it myself. 'Game' is becoming pretty widespread and it's pretty frequent that someone tries it on me. Honestly, my usual response is to tell them, nicely, that I have a boyfriend (I don't - not a serious one). There's no honour or thrill in making someone feel like crap. I'll engage further if a man seems to be up for it (some are, some run a mile the second they sense they might be playing with someone who also has skills, which is usually a big beta tell) - in fact the more interested I am in a man the harder I'll be on him when first getting to know him (i.e. shit-testing, which I believe in many cases to be a perfectly legit thing to do, man or woman). A man who can match me in the game is already very rare. A man who can beat me? That one I'd belong to, assuming basics like sexual attraction.

Anyway those are just my thoughts from someone in a somewhat similiar boat to you. I don't have any advice on how to find alphas, there just aren't many of them. Personally, I would not settle for a beta (and I HATE these terms because I think that while we can generalize about what what each gender finds attractive in the opposite, there are also some real differences between individuals) and although I am more than open to the idea of marriage I'm not assuming it's going to happen - if it doesn't that's OK. Consider freezing your eggs (I did this 2 years ago when I was 23) so you don't find yourself in the position of having to settle (if children are important to you - being a mother is the single most important goal I have) if you think you'd rather not when you get older.

Title	Thoughts from a Unicorn
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Date	December 31, 2013 7:05 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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