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What but the whole point of partying is to get drunk enough so talking to strangers becomes easy and then use that to seduce girls. Like, before I'm drunk enough I literally will not be able to talk to anyone. Also the vibe at parties usually only becomes social and open and communal and so on once mist people there are drunk. Before that I could just as well go to a supermarket to seduce girls, there would be no difference. Everyone being drunk is the whole advantage of night-life. It's the who…
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:03 PM
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Why would I not light up ? I feel like people like that. I usually try to light up my face when I see anyone I know and don't like have a big grudge against or anything. Also idk yeah the being drunk definetly plays a role but it was way to much to be accidental. I feel like the being drunk is usually an alibi in these cases. Like, In the moment I was 95% sure she wanted me. Her reaction really, really surprised me actually. Also when we were sitting in front of the club I put my hand on her leg…
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:25 PM
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Damn. Lucky you. I''ve never had that happen to me. And I've never seen that happen either. I've had girls ask me for my insta 2-3 times but it was always them at first saying "I'm looking for new friends" being overtly sexual while asking you for anything is crazy. I've never had that happen and I've never seen hirls act that way towards any other stranger either.
/r/seduction03/07/26 12:27 AM
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I mean it happens when there is context where it makes sense. But a stranger out of nowhere, outside of a place like a party or a class you take together or work or asking you for the way/the time or whatever, THAT is something that is rare. It's more common qhen you gotta he at the same place. Like, if you're borh waiting in front of the club in line or whatever then it could happen. But like she seeing you and deciding "i want to walk up to start a conversation with that specific guy" like yea…
/r/seduction03/07/26 12:20 AM
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What counts as an approach ? With clearly sexual interest I was approached maybe once. I've gad women stary conversations with me or ask me to do something with them more often than that tho. (Not very often either, but a handful of times)
/r/seduction03/07/26 12:11 AM
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Pass on the 4s, fuck the 5s if you feel like it. Hell also fuck the 4s if you feel like it, but, speaking just about myself here, I'm very rarely in the mood to fuck a 4 but a 5 that's not necessarily too bad of a night. Like, there's 5s I've been very attracted to
/r/seduction25/06/26 05:56 PM
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Honestly good question. To me it's also more the fear of rejection before it happens. The rejwction when it happens hurts but I can deal with it
/r/seduction19/06/26 10:25 AM
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The thing is at this point I don't have to pretend to not care, I genuinely don't really care all that much. Like, I want to care, I want to want it, because I remember wanting it and it was phenomenal, especially when you actually got it. But at this point I don't get all that horny, I don't really get crushes on girls that last until the next morning, I don't really feel all that connected to people in general even when I talk to them and spend time with them and am honest and even tell them a…
/r/seduction18/06/26 01:31 AM
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But the problem is exactly like I talk to them like if they're humans, like if they're a guy friend. And the result is I make a lot.of female friends and girls would go on dates with me. But it's just the calm and steady vibe, not the sexually exciting type.of vibe. Idk if I'm that fun and witty. Like I can make jokes. But recently it more feels like the vibe like when some grandpa or uncle or whatever makes a joke at the family dibner table and everyone giggles for a second and moves on.there j…
/r/seduction18/06/26 01:19 AM
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It used yo be. Like at least I felt way hornier and I also at least imagined the girls I was talking to to be way hornier, that where at least the vibes I was getting.
/r/seduction18/06/26 12:52 AM
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Yes. A lot.
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:32 PM
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Imo the people with the very best experience in their life are Men, but it's very few of them. Like, it kinda sucks for everyone except if you're a healthy, young, rich, charismatic, attractive guy.
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:41 AM
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I'm just embarrassed of not looking good enough honestly. Like, if girls aren't drunk as shit and it's a little dark I'm basically hopeless at this point. And even then i can usually just end up with the bottom 20% (looks wise) of girls at the party. I literally just want a double jaw surgery, a face lift and a hair transplant so badly. Plus a few rounds of stuff like skin boosters, lasers, phenol peel etc. It always feels like I need to do 10 times as much as good looking guys for 10% of the re…
/r/seduction09/06/26 10:08 PM
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That’s actually kinda true. I was kinda hitting pretty hard on this one girl last weekend and she was entertaining it but ultimately not letting me have it. And in the end I kinda switched my attention to her friend for a bit and her friend was giving me her number. And the first girl was screaming at the friend to finally come and be quick and getting angry. She didn't seem to like that
/r/seduction09/06/26 02:55 AM
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I prefer ocassional disappointment over hopelessness and not seeing potential opportunities. Thank you very much.
/r/seduction06/06/26 09:33 PM
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What does that mean ? Why using ? Like i want attention too lol. Like i like fun conversations. I just like it more when there also is something sexual at the end.
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:39 AM
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What does that mean ? Yeah i get it when interest might be there but I'm also not a psychopath that will just grab a girls ass or kiss her out of nowhere or whatever after i notice that. Like i just don't want to risk making someone uncomfortable or even doing sexual assault lol. And rhen usually i just continue to talk to them normally maybe flirt a bit indirectly and then that "interest might be there" vibe just kinda disappears sooner or later usually
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:37 AM
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Yeah i'm insecure about my looks. Like i don't like what i see in the mirror at all, and i used to definetly look better a few years ago but whenever i ask people they're like "wtf are you talking about you look good" and like i said I actually don't get zero attention from women which seems to be commonm it's just usually more that it's kinda split some women seem to be fine with my looks, some seem to not like them. Just judging by behaviour. Like, I don't sticknout as the most attractive guy …
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:31 AM
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But it doesn't. I often get maybes followed by yeses. Also like I'm not that unnatractive because I get attention at first. Like, girls will actuallt hit on me sometimes at parties. But i never get a "you're hot ai want to sleep with you". I get girls starting to talk with me and ask for my instagram and then i chilk with them and they kinda ignore me all evening but in the end we hug and make an appointment for what explicitly is a date Like a direct yes just doesn't exist i got that maybe ince…
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:19 AM
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99% of men look okay or could look okay with little self care. That really depends on age and ethnicity I feel like. You're 24 and italian ? Yeah You're probably good ! You're over 40 and german ? Mate, tou need to really lock in with your looks or it's over. Like there are areas in my country (germany), especially rural areas where mostly somewhat older people are left and you can spend a whole day there and not see a single person who is even remotely attractive. Like, go to rural lower franco…
/r/seduction30/05/26 12:09 PM
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Agree. But looks matter too. As a guy I feel like you just can't have anything obviously wrong with you. You can't look ridiculous/unappealing, you can't seem socially awkward and you can't seem like your life is going shittily or like you're not having fun in life, or like you have a big issue in any important area of life (including dating, yes women seeing that you have a problem in your dating life, will become a self fulfilling prophecy.) You just always gotta seem on top of things. Best is…
/r/seduction30/05/26 04:15 AM
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Honestly that's almost my situation. Like for me there was no physical assault but my parents had zero sense for humour. So teasing my dad could always be seen as a serious insult and would be met with being screamed at. Also it was always them taking up all the talking space and also being really intrusive whenever I said something no matter what it was they had zero chill about it. Like, if I mentioned something not that important in passing it would be used against me later or they would beco…
/r/seduction22/05/26 05:49 PM
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Just a reminder.... Do whatever the fuck you want and stop mak8ng up these rules
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:24 PM
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I enjoy it. I mean it depends a bit on the.hygiene of the girl of course, some pussies stink, but generally I enjoy it
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:28 PM
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You could call it game but it doesn't need to be a magic formula of pushing and pulling anf nagging qnd escalation or whatever else classic "game" is nowadays (the last time I really interacted with the PUA world was when I was a teenager in the early to mid 2010s so idk what's the current meta because the classical meta was kinda just starting to be challenged a bit even back then). You could also just call it charisma, confidence, empathy, reasonably well presentation
/r/seduction29/04/26 04:02 PM
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Maybe not "random" but a guy who looks reasonably put together, knows how to interact with them without it feeling awkward, doesn't seem like he would be a danger to her and is there at the right time when she's feeling in the mood.etc. Like, as a guy I also wouldn't sleep with a truly random woman either. Like, at least the interaction would need to feel flowing and pleasant and not like having to treat through a thick swamp where every word is awkward and there are a lot of unpleasant pauses. …
/r/seduction29/04/26 03:47 PM
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But Womens have orgasms right ? And thise feel extremely good, And they get horny judt like guys ? Maybe not as often but I think at least during ovulation their sex drive should be the same if not even higher as the one of men right ? Also Women crave physical closeness and connection and fun memories and so on as well sometimes just as Men right ? So why would the girl need to brag about you or get something material from you if she gets all the things out of it that you get out of it too ? Th…
/r/seduction29/04/26 03:39 PM
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im 22 and already experiencing this due to daily heavy drinking What are you doing man. That shit is so unhealthy. If you stop now you can still get back to how you used to look most likely. At least for a few years. I get it drinking is fun. But you should definetly reduce it to just drinking socially and not more.often than once or twice a week at most. That's an amount that your body can somewhat tolerate. At least when you're young
/r/seduction27/04/26 10:37 PM
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Same man. And now I always have the fear of looking to old. Like, I look presentable in some lights but in other lights you just really see the eyebags and that the hair looks less dense and more straw like and unorderly than it used to even if I do the same with it. And that the skin just doesn't look as vibrant anymore as it looked with 20. And then there are younger guys who look good in the lights I look good in but still look the same when stepping into different lights with their eye area …
/r/seduction27/04/26 10:04 PM
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I have the same recently. Either I'm ugly, or it's my blepharitis making my eyes look unfriendly. Hell recently a girl came in the washing machine room of my dorm while I was inside there too and I said "Hello" and she literally ignored me and didn't answer like I wasn't even in the room
/r/seduction24/04/26 11:13 AM
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I'm ugly. Nobodies attracted to me from the jump. Like do women like this even exist if you aren't 20-25, no acne, perfect teeth, perfect hair, perfect skin ? In most rooms there are guys who look better than me so the ship of women being attracted to me from the jump sailed
/r/seduction22/04/26 03:17 AM
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Real af since most people also do not age like fucking chuando Tan and a lot of people unfortunately settle down after a certain age as well. Meaning the amount of girls in your possible dating pool just goes down, your attractiveness also goes down just as theirs, a lot of people's sex drives even go down when aging. It's honestly one of the biggest lies out there and I kinda have a lot of disdain for society in general for repeating it or variations of it so often. Like, all the "values" you'r…
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:32 AM
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Basically it's looks and knowing how to talk to people
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:13 PM
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Bro studied Budhism.
/r/seduction09/04/26 01:38 PM
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At least you can get 5s and 6s. I can get like 4s maybe ...
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:18 PM
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That’s actually a great question. Especially if you don't live in sucha big city. I have the same problem. I' at a small uni and I don't just want to go around and ask girls out unless I'm completely 100% sure she's into me. Because everyone knows everyone over 3 corners so like how tf can I have a lovelife without being the "creepy guy" every girl talks shit about in the span of like a week of me trying to ask girls out.
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:07 PM
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Tf ?what use ? You're talking about a person not a degree. Ypu fucking disgust me
/r/seduction19/03/26 03:26 AM
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THANK YOU ! Like "be yourself/communicate openly" with who ? I don't even talk to women. Like, it happens maybe 4 times a year that I have an actual conversation with a girl that is longer than 5 sentences.
/r/seduction18/03/26 08:48 PM
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How ? Time is starting to work against me. When i just do nothing for ayear to improve myself as a young person a year later I'm the same as before. If I do nothing for a year now, a year later I'm balder, saggier, have worth skin, larger eyebags etc. From this point on everything is an uphill battle. I don't just have to improve, I have to improve faster than I rot, which is getting harder every months
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:19 PM
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This is extremely relatable I'm in somewhat of a sinilar situation. For me it was more that years of my ypurh where knocked out by one bad event after the other so I basically really just didn't have a lot of times when I was actually interacting with women while looking alright and being at least somewhat confident. It sounds so absurd but that’s what it is, I can go into more detail if anyone wants to know. Now I'm 28, my height is normal but I have blepharitis that give me eyebags, uneven tee…
/r/seduction14/03/26 10:56 PM
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Same dude. I basically haven't bought any new clotes in like 10 years. Not because I like my current clothes far from it, it's more that whenever I' in a store and need to make a decision I'm hypercritical about all the clothes. Everything looks kinda stupif and not good enough to me. I suspect it's my face tbh. Like why would anything look good on me if I don't look good ?
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:52 PM
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Man
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:40 AM
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Real af. It feels so humiliating. It feels Like the entire world just lost all respect of me because I approached someone and was rejected. I have such a fear of rejection it's overwhelming
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:32 AM
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How about a compromise ? Like, go neither for 20s nor 40s. Go for 30s ?
/r/seduction30/12/25 10:04 PM
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Depends entirely on the context. Like usually cute means attractive but of course it can also be said in a "aww what a nice, harmless, feminine, unfuckable guy" kimda way.
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:29 PM
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