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Red Pill TheoryEn-Zu/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 02:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONEn-Zu/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 04:28 AM
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DISCUSSIONEn-Zu/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 09:00 PM
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You responded to the OP but I think you meant to respond to one of the comments.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 11:02 PM
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You have a good point. "Think for yourself! Join our cult!" I think RP distinguishes itself by being individualistic. It isn't telling you how to act and think (except for maybe to lift, etc.). I think its more just giving individuals information and letting them do what they want with it. That's why it's more about self-actualization and more like those wisdom traditions of letting people make their own journey rather than dictating their path.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 04:25 PM
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I'm not sure I understand the points you were making here. What does my post have to do with Homogenization of gender?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 03:28 AM
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I think it very much depends on the type of society they're living in. In ours, we don't have to make real decisions or face real competition until we hit like 25y/o.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 09:39 PM
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I post a lot on unrelated forums. Maybe you didn't look hard enough through my post history. I'm not exactly sure what I'd say in addition to the sidebar tho. TRP at its core is a pretty simple message. Women desire to be with successful, self-fulfilled, high status men. Be those things, seek them for their own sake, and women will follow in abundance. Every other type of post on here recently is either a field report (women going after alpha stories, beta transformations, etc.), a political ran…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 07:41 PM
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I knew just from the title this would be an extremely long aspergery rant and I was not disappointed. Try like shrinking down the personal story part...like a lot.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 07:08 PM
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I'd like to point out I'm only skeptical of this claim because I think RP is important and I think it should have its shit straight to be presentable to the world. Having said that, is there really evidence that violent rape is an actual huge problem in Sweden or is that just a product of their willingness to define rape broader and their rape laws being more emphatically enforced (which this law demonstrates). Is there evidence of "violent rape" is increasing there, as we would think of it (lik…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 01:26 PM
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How does this law encourage violent rapists?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 08:31 AM
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Stuff like this makes me think there should be a RP children's book. Or a coloring book.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 03:24 PM
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I mean hey, maybe trashy people act like that and I just have no experience with that level of pettiness.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 03:34 PM
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Looking at this from another perspective, I wonder what they're saying about you and why? People don't behave that way for no reason. Are you sure she isn't telling them about episodes of abuse? If she's making that up you have a far more serious problem on your hands and you need to break up with her or her "thug" brother will eventually try to make good on his promise. If she's not making this stuff up and you are actually abusive then you need to take another, real close look at the side bar …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 08:30 PM
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Open mindedness and the ability to dialogue in constructive and meaningful ways is only lacking in TRP to the extent that it's lacking in the rest of the world and in any "movement." TRP is just aggressive about it haha.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 07:36 PM
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At some level, RP theory isn't that complicated and I think that's the level you can agree with. Lift weights, look good, be confident, etc. These are the things >people< are attracted to, like you say. What RP theory does is it kind of does an ultra parody of the things every woman wants and mechanically applies them like women have no agency in the equation. If you are alpha enough then there's no woman that you can't have. While this is empowering at some level because it removes all the rand…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 07:08 PM
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Not understanding exactly how your two personal experiences of 1. A couple who are both apparently on the spectrum. 2. A girl you thought was nice but she rejected you because you're a beta. As for number 2, kudos to you for not being a "nice guy" and thinking being nice to this girl entitles you to sex and being a bitter incel about it. However, the very fact that she rejected you is proof enough of what this sub is about. Girls can be nice. I have friends that are girls. I've had ex-girlfriend…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 06:31 PM
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Repill needs to have a sub subreddit for lengthy, personal anti-woman screeds.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 09:30 PM
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Good info and analysis on the dating marketplace so +1 on that. However I will say that your solutions of turning back the sexual revolution are frankly impossible. Also the fact that 20% of men can coast through life on a veritable sea of easy pussy doesn't mean that there's nothing for everyone else. Being sex-starved is only a problem to the sex starved. Getting your fill of it every once in awhile isn't an impossible goal.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 11:55 PM
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Your point-of-view is well-taken. How about we qualify the Tradcon position right now and narrow it down to just the proposition that "a plate can be spun indefinitely." And how about if we further narrow monogamy to be just interested in maintaining a relationship with certain people. It doesn't have to be an exclusive, monogamous attachment, but just an interest in and an enjoyment of emotional attachment to particular girls. I think these two, narrow facets of the tradcon mentality = an inter…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 11:26 PM
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TRP can be seen as just info about sexual strategy. It's a tool. There's legitimate disagreement in the community about what to use that tool for. I think to really dismiss the tradcon position you'd have to answer at least one of the questions I put up there. I think, for starters, I should ask you: How long is it possible to "spin a plate" for? Is there an upper limit?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 11:08 PM
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As a long-time lurker of TRP I'm intensely interested in this conversation just because I've noticed there are two kinds of folks on TRP the Trad-Cons and the more mainstream TRP faithful. I think your post was pretty spot on but I think it's unfair to say that Tradcons are trying to find a unicorn. I think, in most cases, it's more accurate to say that they think that, with proper frame and adherence to TRP, they can keep enough dread to be able to maintain a long term relationship. I don't thi…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 09:46 PM
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Why have rules been developed for managing betas. They are by definition a free resource.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 07:57 PM
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I thought I got more in-depth than I did in this comment chain but apparently not. I only really talk about emperor penguins in this chain but I usually go through lots of variations in biological reproductive strategies. You might find it interesting. I think the general consensus is that humans are partially monogamous or monogamously-inclined (whatever that means) at least for the term of a pregnancy. https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/7hqddz/cmv_the_future_is_female_movement_shou…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 02:29 AM
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The way I understood the trend was that the modern nuclear family, especially the deemphasis on extended family was a Victorian shift. But it might be a continuing trend starting from the "dawn of civilization" or something. I've written a few pretty long diatribes on human partial monogamy on here. I might be able to fish em out if you're interested.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 01:33 AM
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Yeah. I think I don't have to be an unqualified despondent. I can just say that the current model of the nuclear family is inadequate. So I suppose the conservative attempts to keep it together are misguided more than hopeful. But I'm hopeful in that I'm not attached to that nuclear family model for satisfaction of that sense of belonging etc. I think it can be found in the community and in fraternity. I don't know exactly where that will leave long term relationships though. Like are these enti…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 01:22 AM
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I was trying to list the two positions as I understood them, not advance my own opinion on which one is correct. I'm personally uncertain which view is correct. If I was forced to detail my position it would be that men have an intrinsic desire for longing and acceptance, but it's absurdly never able to be satisfied because the vulnerability that that entails destroys female attraction. I think the resolution of that paradox is more appropriate to vest in the creation of some kind of fraternity.…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 08:06 PM
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This is a great question. TRP "theory" talks about hypergamy and women's natures a lot but hidden underneath it, in the deep depths of its lore, is really a criticism about men. It says there are not enough men being archetypal "men." And that this is causing a huge disparity in the sexual marketplace where those who remain "real men" alphas have no real incentive to "settle down" because they have all the "access" to sex that a man could ever want. If you believe that sex is all that men are af…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 03:12 AM
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There's a definite fracture in the RP community itself if you pay attention to it or follow it closely. The old guard is always having to try to fight back against a creeping notion that with proper frame you can maintain a long-lasting relationship. I'll call them the hopefuls and the TRP old guard as the despondents. The hopefuls are unwilling to embrace the mantra "enjoy the decline" like the despondents. That mantra means that society is crumbling past the point of repair, that societal cond…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 03:08 AM
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I think it was just an anodyne way of saying that women don't face a sexual pressure to develop or grow themselves. They can have intrinsic sexual value just by reaching maturity. It's not really that complimentary. But yeah this guy actually sucks at relationships. The line, "I can get physical access to her more often" is a joke
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 06:35 PM
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Hard times make strong men. Strong men make good times. Good times make weak men. Weak men make hard times. It's the cycle of life and civilization man.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 01:46 PM
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I guess let's just look at Rome then. I'm guessing that this History of the Decline of the Roman Empire is a source for your theory about this? I mean the thing that stands as an impediment to me is this: In Rome, women weren't allowed to vote. Also it's a possibility that women aren't solely responsible for the beginning of a declining and decadent society but their assertion of power in the absence of male dominance is merely a symptom of the underlying male power vacuum, not a cause.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 10:45 PM
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I wouldn't mind seeing some more info on this. The only info I have on Roman patrician class women and their freedoms comes from a Lindybeige video and from that it would seem that their rights were limited to the domestic sphere (though this was more authority than feminist history would lead you to believe). I'm not sure I'm completely on board with your theory that the expansion of women's rights = the fall of empires mostly because I'm actually suspicious that these empires actually gave wom…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:59 PM
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I mean it's a simple characterization. Yours is equally simple. And RPW might be more about how to get traditional relationships but RP as a whole is about how to deal with the social reality of women getting more freedom to choose their partners and exploring the concepts of hypergamy and female choice. RP is divided into three or four different camps all wrestling with this problem so its difficult to characterize. The 1st is that women's hypergamy can't be contained and that's alright because…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 11:27 PM
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Yeah that was long haha. I stopped reading at gun ownership being a red flag. Do you actually think that because of your experience or is that just some unfounded opinion you expect us to heed because you're at the wise age of 35
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:55 PM
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Not a RPW, just think this was an interesting question for the community to grapple with it. In a lot of ways, if your relationship is more platonic by nature and more akin to a close friendship than a sexual one then RP theory might not need to apply to you. The problem that RP attempts to grapple with is just the idea that women can't find men attractive over long term unless they're assertive, fit, have a mission, and control their lives (to a degree). If you find that those things don't appl…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 09:39 PM
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It is difficult to provide specific examples of this mostly because it is a constant, as far as I know, to have agricultural societies that are politically controlled by men throughout recorded history. Any pre-agricultural or early agricultural societies that were matriarchal have been lost to history. There is some speculation that pre-Celtic peoples of Europe might have had some matriarchal elements but that's speculation of the highest order brought about by Joseph Cambell's reconstructive m…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:12 AM
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I addressed your argument's subtlety about culture raising or lowering the incidence of PTSD. I will just say that there's a lot we don't know about the condition. It could be as simple as being continuously exposed to loud, concussive noises of explosions and small arms fire etc. I suppose what would make this clearer would be an elaboration on what warrior culture is and why it would have any effect on PTSD. Loss of control theory is only one theory on the condition but its interesting that yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:59 AM
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There are a lot of good articles about how PTSD has always been with us, regardless of the masculinity or feminity of a particular culture or whatever your theory is. I remember in particular reading theories about how the Odyssey is a story at least in part about PTSD: http://www.militaryhistoryveteran.com/the-odyssey-and-ptsd/ I was first ecposed to this theory through a book by Karl Marlantes, a veteran of the vietnam war and author. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karl_Marlantes At any rate,…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:28 AM
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Yeah that PTSD theory sounds pretty offensive imo and I'm definitely not a SJW. PTSD is more related to the conditions of certain wars and the requirement for constant vigilance. Wars like the Iraq war and Vietnam had no fixed fronts or rules against an ill-defined enemy that could strike at any time. It's the exposure to constant horror and happened during the civil war & WWI especially. I don't think it can be tied to mental fortitude or feminization. I don't necessarily disagree with your vie…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 03:34 AM
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It's true he didn't spell it out and it would reinforce his post if he did. But my point still stands independently of the OP. Hunter-gatherer societies were displaced by agricultural ones and those societies, for one reason or another, were patriarchal.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 11:31 PM
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I think I might challenge your factual characterization. I might need to fish out some sources here but, within western (particularly American) society, low marriage rates and higher incidences of infidenlity are correlated strongly with less prosperity. So countries that are more traditional in their gender roles and also less wealthy (those tend to be correlated world-wide) tend to have high incidences of teen pregnancy etc whereas countries that are wealthy but less patriarchal have lower inc…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 09:47 PM
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I think looking at hunter-gatherer societies would vindicate this post because most of those societies were forcibly displaced by patriarchal civilizations.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 06:43 PM
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I think this post is interesting in its premise but it's weighed down by trying to hit all the RP talking points. I think that this post would be better served by just focusing on its "meat" which is that patriarchy is a product of evolutionary group selection. What I think it really needs in particular is a more detailed discussion of the conditions that led to patriarchy having survival fitness (which you did address in your post) AND a discussion about how the conditions TODAY haven't changed…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 06:41 PM
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Fair enough. I dont think it really is a strong indicator of unmarriageability though. A reasonable skepticism towards love isn't necessarily unhealthy. It just means the dude vets. People on this website encourage that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 05:26 AM
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My own experience <.<
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 05:21 AM
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Men who look at marriage as something where women have the most to gain and whose parent's divorced when they were young? Ok well that's like 80% of the dating pool right there. That first one is just realism.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 03:44 AM
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I kind of see the resurgence of the right in response to immigration etc to be a proportional response, so, to compare it to the boy's immune system, the more foreign invaders come in the more the body kicks up a natural immunity to them. You don't want it to be a fascist state that has an essentially allergic, overblown response to foreign cultures. But the flipside of that is that you also don't want to have complete lack of a response and just let them come in willy nilly. Yes, I am comparing…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 04:40 AM
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Sargon of Akkad identifies as a classical liberal amd I tend to as well. I think the difference in a lot of cases is that liberals, when they aren't Blue Pill, can accept female nature and hypergamy for what it is and recognize that it's better for women to make their own decisions in that regard (better genes for humanity, more reason to compete for men, etc) whereas conservatives are more willing to want to roll back women's rights in order to contain the sexual revolution. In my view, there's…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:57 AM
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Yeah that's my point. It's all those other things: assertiveness, success/money, and leadership qualitites, as well as physical traits like height and musculature. Those things can be possessed by guys that are on all parts of the moral spectrum. But if you ask the redpill crowd they'd say that faithful and nice are more "beta" qualities.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 04:54 AM
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You said abuse and alpha are "polar opposites." So i took a nonabuser to be a virtuous man. My point is just that there are no moral components attached to being alpha. Whether a person abuses or no had nothing to do with that status. I think your issue here is that you're conflating terms here. Traditional/moral does not equal red pill aware. Red pill aware does not equal alpha. Traditional/moral does not equal alpha. Abuser has no strict relation to any of these. Alpha does equal attractive to…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 05:31 PM
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I'm not sure "alpha" is a quality of a virtuous, perfect man like you make it out to be. It just means that it's just some guy that fits the criterion of being physically attractive, fit, and high social status. There is no moral attachment to that attraction by women. In fact, it may even be the opposite, where women are actively attracted to antisocial behavior (hybristophelia). So therein lies the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 10:24 PM
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In regards to your point about men, yeah there are a lot of embittered dudes out there. But most are still saps. By no means are most guys TRP aware or anything. The problem for women has never been finding willing partners, it's been finding willing partners that they can be attracted to (which is something you can't control) The problems TRP talks about are problems that men have to deal with. It's learning how to cope with the loss of a world that has lost a male gender identity and maybe how…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/17 03:00 AM
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Law student, 24. M. I'm kind of in the same boat as you but the male version. I'm surprised that you have enough free time to consider a relationship with grad school and all. I just now stopped working at 9:30p.m. ha. My advice would be to date people the same age and situation or older with a job. Somebody that can have a more slow, mature relationship and can handle not being your #1 priority. As for where to find dates...beats me. Online dating is alright but in my experience girls are too p…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 01:33 AM
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Upvoters fall into three categories: Fuck yeah, everyone else on here is a little bitch. Yes OP senpai, call me a little beta bitch. You know, this is a reasonable critique of my own laziness and it's good motivation to stay on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:01 AM
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It's so well written that I, for one, have been spreading it around whenever I can.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:59 PM
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It is reddit haha. This place is pretty male and hence has a bias toward free speech.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:58 PM
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It might be worth it for you to give him some?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:58 PM
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lmao this is what's so fundamentally funny about the whole thing. Guy says that feminists are obsessed with taboo and orthodoxy. Feminists condemn piece by calling it taboo. kek. I hope it blows up because it's actually an incredibly rational and well-reasoned piece and anyone who actually reads it will be blown away at the disparity between descriptions of it and the actual thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:55 PM
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I've heard of that kind of thing happening before. It's important to cover your tracks with any kind of academic work. I don't know all the details but that's not an uncommon thing to have happen at all. It's a major boost in academia to even be listed as a co-author on any type of academic product so it's definitely in her interest to raise as much hell about it it as you possibly can and go voice your grievance higher up in the university chain if you need to. The squeaky wheel gets the grease…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:34 AM
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These thoughts are pretty disjointed lol. Don't get too drunk now mate
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:15 AM
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Yeah. You could always go with reductio ad absurdum and note that the percentage of shorter male CEOs is comparable to the number of women CEOs and so you could say something really stupid but not quite inaccurate like maybe women aren't discriminated against intrinsically but its actually just because they are on average shorter so we shouldn't be focusing on women CEOs being represented as much as we should be focusing on height representation. That's all a question of statistical similarity t…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:52 AM
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There are plenty of reasons to disagree with affirmative action. I could enumerate a lot of them but I could make a recommendation instead: For all the flak it gets Charles Murray's the Bell Curve is actually a really accessible and well compiled case against affirmative action. Usually when confronted that I usually introduce my novel compromise which is to ignore historical injustice and the complexity that comes with judging which race deserves how much etc. Welfare would be me effective look…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:50 AM
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Sure. Because Feminism has the equivalent of high priestesses with things like Virginia Woolf & Judith Butler etc. and other seminal figures if you familiarize yourself with their works and just liberalism in general you can effectively disagree with them. Especially in cases where academic feminists contradict each other, which, believe it or not, they do all the time just like in any other movement. Other people might not be willing to put in the effort that I do reading things I know I'll dis…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:11 AM
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I think it's worthwhile to master the art of making very non-feminist ideas seem feminist. It's not really that hard to spin things since its so vague, especially with slutty stuff they'd like to do anyway. That's the hamster.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 12:53 AM
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I'm willing to bet he was smiling or laughing ha
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 05:09 PM
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Yeah but only a few guys can actually do that. I was kind of in the understanding that the goal of the people in this sub wouldn't be to be top bitch in the harem.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 03:58 AM
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"Water is still free right?" Lmao I'm definitely using this. It's too good. This is a low effort comment fite me but i wanted to give more than an upvote for this hearty chuckle.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:42 AM
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Lol are harems the norm now?
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 02:23 AM
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I agree with you that it doesn't matter. Never did. I just don't think that we should try to make something irrelevant and petulant like "ghosting" orthodoxy for this sub. It's good advice if you're the kind of person that would otherwise text their ex after the breakup or something but really in a situation where a person is embedded in your social circle you're gonna have to come up with the explanation at some point to somebody. Whether she hears it from the grapevine or from you doesn't matt…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:54 PM
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I think for myself, downvotes are nothing lol. I could post something true on some feminist reddit and get several hundred.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:44 PM
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Inform me on how this relates to any of that. Especially abundance mentality. I get that abundancy mentality dispels the idea of oneitus and orbiting around someone thinking they're special etc but I don't understand how that would apply in this scenario.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:00 PM
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If you really take AWALT to heart then you understand that these kind of things just happen. No need to get that bent out of shape trying to just be an edgelord and going for some kind of petty revenge. Besides, sometimes its not actually feasible to just box a person's shit up for them and kick them out or vice versa. Doesn't really matter. OP's already doing the right thing. Choosing the way in which to do it doesn't matter. If he wanted to end the relationship in the most dramatic way possibl…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 03:09 PM
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"Go read the sidebar" lol fuck u dude I dunno. It seems like it matters very little, just a difference in courteousy or style. The thing that really matters is just the end result is him leaving the relationship and stop caring about it and just generally ignoring her. We both agree on that and those are the only things that really matter.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 02:14 PM
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Really sounds like you care what she thinks which is the worst way to go about it. Really giving at least one reason will (in a relatively sane person) mean that they'll stop trying to follow you around to change your mind etc. a lot sooner.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:31 PM
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Sounds a little over-dramatic. At least give her the "I know you've been cheating" or something. You can still box up her shit up though before you even do that.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:17 PM
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Preselection and if they're honest with you they can help you with your fashion & interior design. I mean they are still people, and as people some of them have traits or hobbies that make them alright friends. It's not hard to believe
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:24 AM
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I mean I suppose if you're a tomboy but if you just casually insult a girl or talk about politics or something it usually doesn't go over too well. Perhaps because their feelings are just too sheltered. I have 3 friendgirls that I'd call close but I just take them to bars and chat etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 11:34 PM
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I'm a pretty casual person and I guess I don't ride as deep as you because most things I do with my friends don't really require that much "loyalty" per se. It's nice to have but I mean girls are a nice audience to your shenanigans and they laugh at jokes and sometimes thats all you really need in a friend.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:55 PM
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I think treating them like a male friend is impossible. Treat them like an overly sensitive and weak male friend that's gay or something maybe but treating them like you would a male friend and asking them to go play football with you or help you move furniture or something is retarded. That's a little nitpicky but I'm just saying treating them like a male friend is impossible. You can even do things like open doors for them and not be a cuck beta orbiter (tm).
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 11:21 AM
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It's so useful to have female friends I completely agree. The problem with making them most of the time is just that they always think you're coming onto them -.- The line between friendly and flirty is very thin I guess.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 11:17 AM
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I think I may be misreading it but I think RP emphasizes independence and not reliance on relationships with women. You can be in a monogamous relationship for a long time if that's what you want but just always be ready and vigilant that your spouse can drop you on a moment's notice and will want to if you ever drop your "frame" and stop working on yourself. RP is a boot camp of sorts and AWALT is a motivator. It essentially just emphasizes that there are no free rides when it comes to women an…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 04:46 AM
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Everyone knows that the "beta" is the right choice. It's just that women don't actually prefer them against all reason. So saying that you "want" a beta man is kind of impossible/useless.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 04:35 AM
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What the hell is this lol? Who came up with these statistic and on what basis? It doesn't even say how they attempted to quantify "alpha and betaness." It says it uses NORC as a source but I for damn sure know that they don't poll people whether or not they're alpha or beta. Jesus christ don't believe everything you see.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/17 09:35 PM
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There's some kind of happy medium between the two which is why both BP men and "Alpha" dudes still exist today. If one strategy was clearly better than the other the other would not be around still. Really I think you're asking me what the ideal man should be which is pretty hard but I think it could be summarized as a guy that wants to be responsible and a caretaker but also isn't a doormat and fulfills his paternal needs on his own terms and keeps his family in line while also providing for th…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 10:39 AM
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Well it's interesting that hypergamy was the chief culprit to fatherlessness. Which upends the narrative about deadbeat dads and makes the blame fall on women with unrealistic expectations. I mean really what actually valuable man would want to raise another man's child when he has other options? The deadbeat dad narrative that a lot of black women subscribe to inflates their own value and increases their standards which exascerbates the problem, apparently. Interesting read, OP. I wouldn't mind…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 10:24 AM
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Mom treated you right but serially drove men away that could have been a potential father figure for you chasing chad.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 10:20 AM
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The premise of this subreddit is just that it's ultimately unsatisfying and contrary to nature so with that in mind it's only a matter of time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 06:13 PM
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There's not really any way to go back from the pill, the normalization of divorce, and Tinder etc. But I'd like to think that some parts of hedonic feminism will go out of style as they lose their novelty.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 05:34 AM
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Haha "Well are you ready for coffee right now?" There's a kind of high stakes barrier in MF interaction where even an innocent compliment is regarded as a desperate attempt at a relationship. Not sure how we've gotten here in an age of integration and co-ed opportunities but here we are.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 04:17 PM
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I think the friendzone is mostly self-imposed. It comes from men not telegraphing attraction properly. People just need to realize that there are essentially no consequences for saying that you're attracted to someone physically. 9/10 the girl will still want to hang out with you etc even if she doesn't reciprocate so it's not like you're losing a potential friend or anything. I think it's really just oneitus that causes the friendzone and orbiting. People get dead-set on the idea of the opportu…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 01:53 AM
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How to passively get guys to go out with you is something I hear people complain about a lot on here and just in life in general. I don't know if something has really changed in the way that we have relationships now than in the past but my mom always is surprised by the fact that people don't really casually date anymore they just start a relationship. I think that that's true and it's pretty unnatural outside of the context of already knowing a person. When genders were more separate and didn'…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 12:07 AM
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I'm sure that's exaggurated but that looks like a tough life lol. Thanks for the vid
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 02:57 PM
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What is a typical russian outfit for women? Is it like actually a streetwalker?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 11:57 PM
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Sure enough. Yeah I mean it might be different here in America than it is in Europe but there shouldn't be a shortage of assertive guys. It's human nature. As for making them as assertive as you're used to...I'm not sure about that. Girls are more "romantic" in that they just want guys to be perfect naturally when literally nothing about being a perfect guy comes naturally. So my point is really, not to lower expectations, but realizing that the things you're complaining about are cultural expec…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 10:42 PM
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You don't have to be religious at all to believe in separate gender roles etc. You clearly are an example of that. And I would say that acting that way because of religious belief is inflexible. It causes gender roles to be mandated instead of preferred. Like if a woman works as a mechanic and her husband is a nurse its not religiously unacceptable etc. I wouldn't compromise on your religious beliefs to find a suitable man. Instead I would be open to the idea of coaching. All new relationships r…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 10:07 PM
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Just as a disclaimer, I'm a male: You can still wear a dress or skirt in flats. Heels and skimpiness aren't mandatory. Maybe try something that's just cute. Look up some indie stuff. There are mixed opinions of this person but I don't know a lot of actresses so she's all I have to suggest: Zoe Deschanel. Her wardrobe is typically feminine and never "desperate" or over the top.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 09:51 PM
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What I've understood feminism to be for a long time is the self-destruction of the female identity and an attempt to render everything male. Feminism is the cry of "I can do that too." From wearing men's clothing and shirking more feminine clothes to actively disdaining traditionally feminine tasks. Admittedly most of these developments were positive. In the end, it will pan out to women adopting traditionally female things out of choice rather than by social decree and you will start to see the…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 09:41 PM
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I guess what you're saying is that there are two "types" that matter, extrovert and introvert, and they are equally distributed by gender and that extroverts have an easier time finding similar folks just due to the nature of it. Certainly cross dating across these types happens though.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 02:48 PM
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Interested in "type." A lot of guys would, including me, would describe themselves as "nerdy." I mean I work out and I try to socialize etc but I still play magic & read a ton for hobbies etc. So what there seems to be is a disparity in "types" among gender where you see some cultures being not evenly distributed through across sexes.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:10 AM
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TRP is usually against treating women with "respect" meaning just that when women claim they want to be respected they're lying to themselves and instead rather want to be lead. It should be taken for granted that a man wants to have sex with you if he's attracted to you. It's not really an question of "respect" for this attraction to happen. Wittholding things you want to do because you want to draw 'commitment' I think counts more as playing mind games.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 06:41 PM
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Is this what this sub is now?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:06 PM
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You communicate with your family through snapchat?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 12:23 AM
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Everytime there is a political post in TRP proper that goes too conservative there are always voices of dissent, including me. There was a poll recently put up and at least 25% of respondents identified as liberal or socialist so that's a significant minority. TRP and its approach to gender relations is inherently political, but people are individuals and can choose to disagree with the general stances of the parties they identify with.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 11:58 PM
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You bring up your job and beauty in pretty much every post you've made in this thread which leads me to believe that you don't just mention it when people ask.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 03:34 PM
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I don't have snapchat so i don't know how it works bit why are you sending these men pictures.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 03:25 PM
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I know less about stoicism than I'd like to honestly so I can't exactly answer that to the depth that I'd like but I'd be interested in your thoughts on it if you decide to pursue it :) I can vouch for MacIntyre though. After Virtue is a very engaging book in particular. Very readable.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:14 PM
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I know it's why I'm still here (as well as for the evopsych knowledge and because I like reading angry screeds) But yeah I was reading some stuff about Zen Buddhism awhile ago and there's an interesting parallel in that approach to TRP. Exemplified in the work of Herman Hesse particularly Siddhartha. Essentially the zen path is one of an initial starting point, some sort of journey, and a return to the starting point but with a new perspective (mirroring Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey). A stor…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:44 PM
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I'm an amateur philosopher at best but I think from what I understand about MacIntyre following your "path" is essentially the heart of virtue ethics because in virtue ethics your life's satisfaction derives from adhering to the strictures of a certain role. Like in past societies your role would be soldier, priest, farmer etc. and your satisfaction would come from fulfilling the entelechy (purpose) of those roles. MacIntyre's thesis is that western society went off course from this with the pos…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:01 PM
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Yeah. It's the most intriguing and enduring aspect of the site for me. It's like a boot camp for "nice guys" where they come in with this bitter, entitled attitude and transform that into a positive, self-improvement message and leave behind the obsession that brought them here in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 11:34 PM
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You kind of dissed philosophers but what you're advocating here is essentially Virtue Ethics which is one of if not the oldest form of western ethics predating Socrates and going back to Homer. It's undergoing something of a revival with some philosophers like Phillipe Foote and MacIntyre. Just thought y'all might be interested in that :). Especially MacIntyre since he is fairly conservative and interested in the decline of western culture. I enjoyed this piece. It was well written and insightfu…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 11:03 PM
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That's a result of independence and privacy. As long as those things exist then the carousel exists.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 12:04 AM
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Yeah that's the trick about bell curves. Blanket statements like: "men are smarter on average." Don't do a whole lot of good because the bell curves overlap so much that to treat the genders radically different in terms of education would be a waste of a huge amount of potential. Really the only conclusion that ought to be drawn is that affirmative action to try to rectify extreme positions like harvard professor or CEO should be reconsidered (and they already have been. Female employment of fac…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 03:18 AM
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Thanks. I can be a bit creative with spelling sometimes. Here's a source: http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2014/04/girls-grades.aspx Pretty much everything I find tells me similar things. Same story for high school and university. Women also are now the majority of university students.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:07 AM
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Look, no two ways about it. I'm a misogynist. I think men and women are different and that men are often more functional. But the truth is that women outstrip men in essentially all areas academically (including math). I've heard that this might be because schools are designed in a way that encourages conformity & repetition etc. and it represses active, creative (ADD) boys but that's a hard sell for me. What's more likely I think is that men occupy the extremes of intelligence and achievement w…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 10:54 PM
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I have observed this personally and its why i think cohabiting is largely a mistake. How are you supposed to keep a healthy amount of personal interaction when both people occupy the same space? I think its not exactly feasible for one partner to come back from work, get home, and then go right out the door again etc.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 01:51 AM
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I can definitely see why 25 is about the average age for the onset of mental illness for young people lol. I'll get through it though. I'm alright with where I'm at. I can definitely see why people are so bitter though because for the men on TRP it's difficult for them to cope with the fact that they see some of their peers having success with women already and they feel like they're gonna get left behind or that women are just going to try to use them as providers when they hit 30 while giving …
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 02:27 PM
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The whole paradigm shift of the red pill brought upon by feminism is the whole idea of coping with a non-romantic world where "dependency" is an artifact and everyone is replaceable.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 02:11 PM
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I'm not all that concerned about it. What I am worried about is just that by the time my life is in order and when I can even think about finding another girlfriend people my age will all be married (or unmarried) with kids. I'll be 27 when I get out of school and get started on my career path. But I guess I can always date younger. It's definitely hard to stay on the "monk mode" path strictly sometimes. Like I haven't gone to the gym in 2 days etc. Weekends alone are kind of depressing sometime…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 01:55 PM
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I would consider myself one of those people who can't get a girl at the moment. I'm just never in a position where I'm in a hookup friendly environment I think. I mostly work to save up $ for law school and do solitary things like read and work out. Not exactly an exciting alpha lifestyle or anything.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 10:27 AM
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I actually agree with libertarians when they say that the welfare state is created by market regulations on labor. Things like the minimum wage and OSHA regulations make it so that unskilled/manufacturing labor in the u.s. can't compete with countries that lack those regulations. If it weren't for those things then there actually would be potential employment possible for some of those folks. As it is and with those regulations the welfare state & investing in people's educations are really the …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:39 PM
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I think entitlement programs like medicaid etc take up enough of the federal budget to call the u.s. a welfare state. It might not be to the extent of western european countries but its definitely way more than say, china.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:24 PM
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I think this argument is mostly just about the proper extent that a government is federated which is always an interesting discussion for me but I wonder why that kind of decentralized approach necessarily falls outside the scope of a socialist economy to you. Let's say we do delegate more powers to the states individually so that they have more control over their respective local policies. Wouldn't currently liberal states like California, Washington, New York, etc adopt a more socialist econom…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 08:18 PM
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If we were going to get real technical I'd consider myself a socialist but also I do care about the budget and I'd push for it to be balanced. It seems to me that the lines between fiscal conservative, conservative, and libertarian (and maybe even socialist) are fuzzy.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 07:43 PM
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It's also a little disingenuous because the Liberal in the U.S. is like the European Center-Right as opposed to socialists.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:55 PM
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Why would you intentionally want to limit the amount of people TRP markets to? There are a million different political subs? Why would you want to hijack this one with a political ideology when its at its best (imo) when its talking about gender relations specifically?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:23 PM
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This place attracts people that are concerned about gender relations and skeptical about feminism & the idea that the sexes are biologically and mentally equivalent. So it's not really a shock that it skews heavily conservative as a result because mainstream conservative media outlets are negative towards feminism and liberal ones are favorable. But there are people like me that consider themselves Liberal even though I disagree with the standard social science model and a lot of feminist identi…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:20 PM
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Well when you compare the two, libertarianism and socialism I mean, libertarianism represents the extreme of having very little to no government. This makes people who disagree with that claim tempted to identify as socialist. When you look at it that way democratic socialism is not that difficult to understand. It's a free market system but with worker protections, public utilities like heat/water/education , and industry regulations and some public works like highway road systems. The united s…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:44 PM
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I'm here for the evolutionary psych knowledge & gender psychology material. The fact that there's a diverse userbase here means that its solid.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:05 PM
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Open borders are fine outside of drug smuggling corner cases. What's stupid is birthright citizenship. The U.S. is the only Western country that has it pretty much. Without birthright citizenship there'd be much less of an immigrant problem than there is now.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:03 PM
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You can consider yourself liberal without thinking that the social safety net is a good idea in all situations. These hard distinctions make it difficult to account for individual nuances. For example, there are religious left-wing folks that agree with the left economically but diverge on things like gay rights and abortion. Which one of those things they value most is going to determine which way they sway because there isn't a political party that caters specifically to them. Especially in th…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:02 PM
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TRP has a young userbase. The demographics here are going to be overrepresented with Liberal & Libertarian people.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:58 PM
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Posted this before on TRP but it's again relevant so why not. I think the Left is generally just seen as being more accomodating to feminism and sjwing (because it is) which this sub is kind of opposed to and that's why it attracts so many right wing folks. But I'm left wing and I don't particurly care about the sjw movement. It doesn't faze me. And that's really one way to fish out the conservative and liberal posters on this thread. The Liberal TRP perspective is more "Shrug that's just the wa…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:57 PM
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Depends which emotions. Conservatives play off of fear. Women who are more insecure and watch the news and think that terrorism is like the #1 threat in their lives (like my mom in birmingham, al) tend to vote conservative.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 05:04 PM
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Its weird that these are all by the same person but that video where the muslim woman steals that guy's motorbike is hilarious.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 02:56 AM
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I think dread really just embodies the principle of conditional love which makes it so both parties are aware that they cant let the relationship get stagnant. Dread in a relationship is envoked by the feeling that their partner is a valuable commodity and they are afraid of losing it so they work to avoid that. Basically a man who has his shit together and in command just exudes "dread" naturally so long as he does not cede the "pants" in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 10:17 PM
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Remember, this person married me. You have to take that into consideration for her decision making capacity.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 09:45 PM
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Yeah i call myself a feminist in that i think men and women should be given equal opportunity and an equal voice. It's just that interpersonally any decision I want for my household and children is probably a more reasonable, correct, and well informed decision than one that my spouse would come up with (unless she was smarter than me). If the relationship goes the other say in terms of who makes better decisions than that's how it should go.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 07:59 PM
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Makes sense. Well here's hoping I don't get banned haha. Can banned people still lurk or no?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 07:39 PM
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I read posts on here only occasionally and contribute even less. I hadn't noticed that many problematic male posts but i could see that if men come on here too often and drown out women it kind of defeats the whole point of the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 07:34 PM
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That's a good way to get a bad grade off the bat. What are you doing in sociology classes anyway? I'm a liberal myself but I'd really advise against that. Sociology as a subject is just straight postmodern liberalism and you know that your teachers and classmates will be focusing extra hard on critiquing your assignment because of the subject matter.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:48 PM
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I already googled it mate after I asked the question but whatever makes you feel better.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:46 PM
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Are states with no common law marriages listed on the sidebar? Where can I get this resource? That should be the #1 political goal of TRP in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 01:13 PM
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Me too :] I'm skeptical of how mbti works though. Particularly how rosy all the descriptions are. I'd have an easier time swallowing that pill if it was leavened with a bit of criticism. Instead of just saying "einstein was an intp" etc. I'd like for it to say something like "adolph eichmann was an intp" too. It also I think promotes stagnation. Since the type is 'introverted' i could use it as an excuse to avoid social events when really i ought to challenge myself to go to more stuff. EDIT: I …
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 12:51 PM
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Be yourself. But not your whole self. Nobody wants to see that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:10 PM
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If i was a woman/active member of this sub i'd get the moderators to sticky a point by point refutation of that article on the sub's main page because many people will look at the subreddit as a result of the article.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 11:38 PM
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Are you some troll or are you actually deranged? Seek help bro.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:04 PM
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Alright this is weird dude.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:00 PM
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This is fodder for Red Pill Right. What's to be learned from this? SJW gets punched. Whoop-de-doo.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:57 AM
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Ok the racial element to it is pretty scary and needs to be pruned back a bit. White masculinity ought to be reemphasized but I'm not sure it ever went away in more rural places where there are relatively no blacks.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:23 PM
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I take it you're a fairly conservative RPer. I'm inclined to agree with OP. If you're not looking to get married and just want to get laid feminism is great.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:20 PM
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Those blokes just need to go through basic and I'm sure physiologically they'd surpass those women. It's just body chemistry. I'd be more comfortable with it if we gave women soldiers hormonal therapy or something. And yes there should be no restriction on gender, just physical ability. However now we have different qualifying tests for each gender and the standards are lower for the female test. Also, it's always been interesting to me that in olympic target shooting the events are segregated a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 11:39 AM
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I suppose more what i meant was that they can't really tell the difference between a 7, 8, and a 9.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 08:04 PM
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I feel like women combat soldiers is a mistake and I'm fairly progressive. It's a very physically demanding job. I.e. situations like carrying other wounded soldiers.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 06:37 PM
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Most men have lower standards than you might think. A lot of guys get pretty fuzzy around 7+.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 11:24 PM
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I guess you haven't looked that much into sex addiction. A lot of it is based on "the hunt" and is often about variety more than just simply "I need to have sex X amount of times."
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 11:15 PM
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Not sure this is a commitment problem. Sounds like sex addiction to me.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 05:04 PM
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Seems like he wants/needs an open relationship and you can't give him that so there's really only two things you can do: move on or try to reconcile yourself to that behavior (which to me seems addictive/destructive). I'd go with the first option.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 05:03 PM
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Basically Red Pill dating site should just be completely honest about the kind of attention that its users are getting. If your pictures are good but your profile is trash you should get some kind of info like "50% of women look through your pictures and of them only 10% "like" you after reading your profile." Things like that. Basically the service should be peddling honesty above all because that's what the red pill is about. It would be better as a more detailed "hot or not" rather than a dat…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 11:06 PM
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Yeah this is a crock of shit. What this chick wants is security. She wants a BB and for that she's willing to drag him down into an abusive relationship. But she's not going to be happy that way. Women want alpha traits of a successful man and they want their man to, in a lot of ways if not all, be better than them and they feel more comfortable that way.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 10:34 PM
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Actually you're half right haha. I meant to respond to a completely different thread on RPW. The app loaded this one for some reason. Cheers.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 01:59 PM
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Yeah thats kind of what i mean. It's more about what you can do in any given relationship to get what you want out of it. Same as TRP for men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 01:46 PM
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I thought RPW was more about how to 'Activate' or bring out trp traits in non trp men. As well as also just the general tricks of the trade like vetting a guy and securing & maintaining commitment once in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 01:37 PM
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Is the wife refusing to sign a prenup not also being distrustful?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 01:16 PM
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🙄 why am i here haha
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:31 AM
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Why do women use tinder for a confidence boost? Guys on that site just aimlessly swipe right there's no risk about it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 11:30 PM
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I would love to see a feminist beheading lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 10:36 PM
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Women have always been afforded special legal protection, similar to children. It's important to take action to ensure paternity protections exist and "common law" marriages/prenup invalidations are abolished but aside from that I'm honestly alright with where men are legally.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 07:29 PM
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I've never been attacked by them in my life y'all are being snowflakes right now haha The worst i can call them is annoying.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 06:21 PM
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I mean really what does it mean to 'Wage war against SJW-ism?' What is your actionable solution? In my mind SJWism is an ideology that thrives off of victimhood not unlike early christianity. If you engage with violence it actually reifies their points and increases their strength. To me the only proper response is to laugh at them. I mean really what are they going to do? They're not violent (It's a women's movement). And they actively try to undermine their own ability to attract men to them a…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 02:10 PM
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It makes me laugh on here when I see things like SJWs and the Left want to "sterilize the world" like in the OP. This kind of opinion really does belong on the Red Pill Right.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:20 PM
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The proper response to SJW-ism is the one that a lot of people currently take: amused mastery. Treating it like the joke it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 09:37 AM
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I generally agree with this with one caveat: how is marriage any different?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 05:36 PM
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Height Status Fitness Confidence Salary ("drive"/"ambition") Interesting/"fun to be around" There's some overlap here (i.e. its easy to be confident when you have all the others) but I think this is closer to being accurate. I think what is interesting in our society these days is that these two things you've mentioned "provider" traits and "sexual attractiveness" are often at odds with one another. So for instance, a sexually attractive man has traits like height, fitness, and bravado (asocial …
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 07:27 PM
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I think he was saying that height and fitness put a man in the top 20% of men rather than any of that other stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 07:07 PM
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I agree with this actually. This is an illusion-shatterer. He needs to get an actual skillset.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 07:53 PM
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I was just kind of thinking about my criterion and I was just thinking I had two qualities 1. They're attractive. 2. They actually like me. 2 seems pretty simple bit it ecompasses a lot because it entails all the things that women take into consideration when they're vetting a man. For example, I appreciate when a woman understands what I'm saying on an intellectual level and can appreciate it but I don't need for her to be so educated if it's not a big deal for her. I learned this when I was da…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 05:24 PM
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I think this sub's main concern is with commitment. Basically how to sustain and improve existing relationships and how to prevent yourself from being "taken advantage of" when you're "vetting" people. This of course assumes that commitment is what you're looking for. Now I think that a lot of women here would counsel against listening to hypergamy because they feel that knowing your own SMV and finding people close to that makes it more likely that you won't be taken advantage of and pumped & d…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 03:39 AM
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Gee, I've had sex with all of these hawt awesome guys, but now it's time to find some boring guy I'm not attracted to so I can get married and make babies! Gee, I've had sex with all of these hawt awesome guys, but now it's time to find some boring guy I'm not attracted to so I can get married and make babies! They're not that's just how it works out. The way TRP theory goes is just that the women finds out that men that are 2-3 points out of their league will still hook up with them so they go …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 08:17 PM
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The most innocent looking girl I know has slept with more than 50 men. That makes me want to vomit jesus. That stare is probably a consequence if some mental illness I'm pretty sure the "thousand cock stare" isnt literal. Its just an expression playing off the "thousand yard stare" that people that have PTSD get. The implication is just that women get "damaged" on the CC.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:36 PM
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Im pretty skeptical of the 'consequences' of sexual activity and i'm not sure that came across in my post. I was just merely trying to explain what I've observed about modern day secular attitudes about virginity reflecting their christian past. You can see it with masturbation and the nofap movement and how they use pseudoscience and exaggurated claims to demonize something that still feels wrong to them because of their christian upbringing and culture even though they have, in large part, aba…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:10 PM
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While the more western perspective may have dropped literal birginity as a standard. Make no mistake, female "purity" is still highly valued. RPW tends to agree, citing studies that are anti-promiscuity the most common one ive seen is something about the loss of the ability to "pair bond." TRP idealizes that primal attraction that women feel in their early 20s when they make irresponsible decisions on the CC. They cherish and almost pedestalize the fickle, inexperienced, judgmental, emotional, e…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 01:58 PM
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I often wonder about the 5'0 girls that still go for 6'0 guys. I just cant relate to it tbh. I think it makes more sense for people to date within their range. I like people and the body type more when their heads are about the same place as mine (so 5'6- 5'9) etc. I thought everyone was really like that. My partners in hs and college were 5'7 and 5'9 respectively (im 5'8) and i was kind of sheltered from just how much height matters in the dating world until i got out of my LTRs. I thought it w…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 11:01 PM
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TRP idealizes that primal attraction that women feel in their early 20s when they make irresponsible decisions on the CC. They cherish and almost pedestalize the fickle, inexperienced, judgmental, emotional, enamored young girl because its something they could never have and to them it feels like to get someone like that is the greatest accomplishment and validation. They actively despise the women that are "used up" by the CC and rational and emotionally mature to the point where they settle fo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:53 PM
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Are you comfortable dating shorter men? If you are, then you might have to find a way to signal that because that restriction is so prevalent in society that most men just have it ingrained in them that women taller them are off-limits. Online dating is a great way to overcome this. If not, you'll just have to up your game and learn how to approach men. The problem you kind of face is that all women are gunning for the 6'0+ers so you have a lot of competition.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 07:32 PM
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We might have different definitions of really smart I guess. I'm thinking really smart is like 10% of people. Then 6 feet tall+ dudes are like generously 50% of the population so that's a dating pool of 5% of eligible men right off the bat.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 03:37 PM
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I think its important that TRP emphasizes conditional love and not "commitment." I.e. if your wife stops actually liking you and stops having sex with you or cheats on you etc. Then you should be ready and willing to jump ship. The gravest sin for a man to do in that ideology is commit when its not warranted and "be a cuck." So that word "commit" doesn't really mean anything in that conditional context because either your wife is fulfilling your needs and you have no reason not to keep her aroun…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:55 PM
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I looked so long to find the "z" that i used haha. Its in emphasize.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:46 PM
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Haha well do you think "match/compatibility" is worthy enough to be included in the pantheon of the big 5 or not?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:44 PM
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Yeah trp kind of overlooks the existence of the "emotionally mature" woman that appreciates and seeks out the feeling of being considered "special." I'm on the fence about it. They make strong points for "dread" which is directly counter to that and emphasizing that you're not a doormat and liable to leave if disrespected etc. Or they might just despise the process it takes for those women to "mature" into looking for a romantic partner because it involves getting their heart broken a lot and th…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:40 PM
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I can't really imagine what frame would look like in a non confident person. And those are pretty stringent reqs btw. Best of luck to you haha.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:32 PM
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Yeah that makes sense to me. TRP emphasizes being extroverted as general advice but i tend to think that just "interesting" is a better requirement. I think introverts can kind of draw people to them with their self development. At any rate do you see that difference between introvert and extrovert as more of an "additional" vetting requirement or is it something that would cause you to compromise on the big five up there to get it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:29 PM
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Haha it's interesting how much you can learn from just observing. You had to learn the hard way, but maybe rpw can save someone from falling for that same trap. That's actually a common romantic literary trope and archetype the "byronic hero" that is brooding and dark etc. but affectionate towards a woman that believes she can "florence nightengale" effect him and heal him. It is, of course, hamstering to justify the sexual appeal she feels towards those asocial and morally questionable traits. …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 01:22 AM
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I'm trying to imagine how I'd react if I was your future boyfriend. Probably with intense suspicion about who I'm currently dating. Especially if she was doing freaky and degrading stuff that she doesn't do with me. If that's the case then I'd probably jump ship. How much of a "different person" are people during a bipolar manic phase anyway? And why did this happen just now presuming you've had this disorder for awhile?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 11:47 PM
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I think "type" implies that those traits are in exclusion to others. So if I think I understand what you are trying to say is that you are not attracted to men that present themselves as "bad boys." However, and this is not me trying to be offensive, but on TRP this might be called hamstering because if you were presented with a man particularly well endowed with those big 5 traits then you might convince yourself to see that "type" in him. I.e. you might choose to believe you can "bring out" th…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 11:07 PM
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driven, successful, dresses nicely, is fit, smells amazing, great grooming, and is not a pushover I think TRP would actually call this guy a Chad. Which kind of means a "natural" alpha. You don't have to be initiated in TRP to be Red Pill. Red Pill wouldn't be useful to a person like that because he seems to have never swallowed the Blue Pill at all for some reason. There's a lot of disdain for "Chad" or the natural alpha over there but its really just bitterness because they saw they were dicki…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 10:27 PM
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Yeah I figured stuff like this would come up a lot if you let it go through. I was thinking about going to AskTRP with this question but didn't really like the language I had to use to pose the question on that sub. If there was an AskTRPW or some other alternative I would have gladly used it. Human attraction varies widely from person to person, even within fairly homogenous cultures and groups My point and I think TRPs stance is just that human attraction doesn't actually vary widely all that …
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 10:21 PM
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As a nonreligious person, I have to say I don't really get the whole "waiting until marriage" ideal. Especially with people that do anal or oral to keep their "virginity." To me thats actually even more slutty. I judge people pretty harshly but I don't think of any women as being slutty unless they're getting passed around by different people weekly and racking up one night stands. I really just think that that kind of signals that there is something wrong with that person and that they're not L…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 07:04 PM
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Men should be able to graciously accept constructive criticism especially in a work environment. That's a sure sign of maturity, confidence, and an impregnable frame. You shouldn't be demeaning/condescending, but that goes without saying.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:55 PM
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You should cover your bases and ngaf with any girl, not just those on antidepressants. The problems of your plates shouldn't keep you from doing what you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:37 PM
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That makes sense for more expensive restaraunts and not for first dates. I don't really expect a lot of women I meet with to really have a lot of money for various reasons (irresponsible) so I have just learned to deal with it and just be wary that my generosity isn't being taken advantage of.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 03:32 PM
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I only pay on the second date or after when I feel like. Makes absolutely no sense for the first. Its great to watch the people who try to use you as a meal ticket realize you're splitting the check though (this only happens in online dating). There was a period where I was dropping like $50-60 a week on different girls and it got me no benefit so now I just don't.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 03:27 PM
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My problem is that I give too little fucks about anything. I'm pretty sure you need to actually give a fuck about at least some things to get you through the day.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 03:03 PM
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Ah that clears things up a bit. And one good way to find out is try asking one of your orbiters to pay and see what happens haha. But if I had to venture a guess I'd say they'd quickly stop being your orbiter or at least view you in a completely different light, not necessarily because they'd be disgusted, but because you're putting all your cards on the table by saying your not interested in a romantic relationship with them. Contrary to popular opinion men aren't all in it for the sex, they're…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 03:05 AM
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I guess if you have a bajillion dollars and they can afford consistently blowing it on high class hookers then more power to 'em. Just an easy way of bypassing the normal time spent trying to go for normal seduction even if it is easier for them. I suppose I might do the same in their place.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 06:29 PM
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I think this might be a case of next level meta hamstering where OP thinks that having sex with a lot of guys makes her have a lot of "orbiters" when in reality she's a plate spinning in overdrive.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 03:52 PM
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I think the price of sex would go down astronomically if sex work was more normalized. It would stop being that lucrative. Also sex work for women is essentially them having sex with people they don't want to, so I don't think its difficult to imagine why they don't want to do it. "Alpha" men don't have to pay. Women actually want to have sex with them. So this scenario where 'women are already hopping into bed with men without commitment so why not get paid for it' is a fantasy. Also I think yo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 07:02 AM
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His proferred solution accounts for needed macronutrients. As far as I'm concerned Daily values of macronutrients and meeting caloric requirements are all you need. You can drink something like soylent to meet your nutritional needs for the day and then eat bread for your caloric needs or something and be a healthy person imo. It's just chemicals.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 02:40 PM
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I think if I had to guess what you're on about I think you're struggling to reconcile what you should do with your RP awareness especially since you've mostly hung out on the men's subreddit. The answer is really just up to you. If you meet a TRP aware man and he's not completely jaded then you'll be fine. However, if you don't meet a TRP aware man then chances are you'll be headed towards an unsatisfying relationship in the end, or one that's not as satisfying as it could be. Because, in the en…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 11:25 PM
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Why are you getting downvoted. This makes sense to me...
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 09:27 PM
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Another thing is that processed foods have a huge amount of salt in them. Which I've found out by having a high blood pressure while otherwise being a healthy person.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 09:21 PM
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I'm a vegetarian and I have the opposite problem from a lot of people. I've been lifting weights regularly for about 2 months but I've only seen a very slight perceivable gain in real strength. I think my problem might be not eating enough in general. If I don't pay attention I can easily lose 4-8 pounds in what seems like a few days (140-148 is what I range from and I'm 5'7). My diet without meat is non-negotiable I was just wondering if anyone else has had a similar hurdle in their personal fi…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 09:07 PM
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Cock Carousel.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 05:31 PM
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Ah I kinda thought you were talking about mail order brides. I've heard mixed reviews about that. I've dated a russian exchange student before for a little bit and she was better towards me than any american girl even though she barely spoke english.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:23 PM
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How has that worked out for you. And how do you manage that anyway?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:31 AM
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Yeah. Though I don't think obsessing over the past is going to be that helpful when i think about. I think i'll just be ready to pull up roots at any time if my current relationship isnt giving me what i need out of it. I think a lot of BP mentality is just accepting concessions like not having sex or her not wanting to do things for you as normal parts of a relationship that you should have to tolerate when in reality those are the reddest of red flags.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:13 AM
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High SMV men of color. Lol SMV for women is determined by what other women think which is determined by what old white men think ultimately. They don't like minorities as much because they're taught its trashy. SMV for women isnt as intrinsic, they're programmed. They know that nothing in America is more desirable than a well off white guy so that's what they try to get so their children have a better shot at being well off white guys.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:03 PM
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This disgusts me. To think I could possibly be that white dude at the end of that CC. How could I possibly know? Is there a good way to vet that beforehand?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:58 PM
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Yes the BLM antagonism towards Sanders was surreal. It's not a unitary movement, but the definitely discredited themselves on that front. It was completely illogical to oppose Sanders. He has been nothing but stellar on his civil rights record. He even had past activism under his belt and they somehow even managed to subvert that and use it against him. The propaganda machine is strong.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:57 PM
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That's definitely true. And it's different for the ultra rich because, though there is diminishing returns on the SMV you get from wealth it is possible to get so much wealth that it essentially translates into unlimited SMV even though the return for each dollar diminishes. And yeah I'm 5'7, 150lbs fit & functionally invisible. 5'9 is livin' the life to me buddy haha.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:30 PM
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Yes. Plus in terms of how much $$$ strictly adds to your SMV I'd say it has diminishing marginal returns as you get over the hump of six figures. Women seems to be attracted to the number six. Six figures, six feet, six inches. It's like some sort of golden ratio.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:22 PM
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I can't give a definitive answer on their agenda. It certainly seems like that is their focus though but, since those are always high profile and controversial they could be using them as a distraction while pushing other legislation through. I know that Trump wants to eliminate the Dodd-Frank act (which imo is a terrible idea) it was put in place after the financial collapse of 2008 to make sure it didn't happen again. The keystone XL pipeline skirts the line between social and economic but tha…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:41 PM
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I would be content with six figures. I've calculated my probable future expenses and that's definitely not a bad place to be financially if you live within your means.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:58 AM
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It may just be my area but I found this was the "trashy" app when I used it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 01:50 AM
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Guy Here: Haven't been able to make anything work at all except for Tinder. From a girls perspective, the problem is not getting matches. The problem is seeing which matches are serious and I think Tinder helps that immensely actually by giving a "Super Like" For me, once I used that I was basically done for the day and that got me a fair number of dates. Other dating websites, absolutely nothing. And I think that's because they lack the "finite number of likes" for men rule like the super like.…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 01:45 AM
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Inform me then. I'm sympathetic to Libertarians but ideologically don't see how the "invisible hand" can account for problems like the Tragedy of the Commons. Also I don't particularly mind the state blunting market forces for public goods like the National Park Service etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 06:48 PM
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Yes. The normal political axis is shifted to the Right in the U.S. our center left politicians like Barack Obama and Hilary Clinton would line up well with most conservative European politicians. They are not populist at all and support free trade and pro-business reforms. As far as taxes go in the U.S. the conservatives put more of an emphasis on cutting taxes but in real terms both parties cut and raise taxes as much as the others. The conservatives just put on a better show about it by cuttin…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 03:31 PM
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Do you have anything against plating her? Just keep her around exclusively for what you want to do and nothibg else and know that it's not a permanent or monogamous thing for you. I don't really see the harm in that for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:52 PM
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finger guns
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 08:40 PM
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That's pretty interesting. I wouldn't mind finding someone with those same preferences. I rarely ever talk about my personal life and really don't even remember things about it to talk about even if I wanted to. I definitely prefer to listen and I've always been blown away at how some girls can just chat it up. I've got mixed opinions on this. On the one hand, there's an expectation for men to not to gab on about trivial things to a woman. On the other hand, there's also an expectation to not lo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 09:01 PM
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What are men supposed to talk to you about?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 07:30 PM
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Westermark effect
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 07:29 PM
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Just as a general summary I believe that climate change exists and its imperative that we act to mitigate it and pressure others to do the same. I'm socially libertarian which means I think that the govt should not interfere with personal lives and decisions as long as they don't harm others. I think that foetus's don't count morally as persons so I'm pro choice. I think preventative measures to cut negative behaviors are more effective or at least similarly effective as punitive ones. Meaning t…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 03:25 PM
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I think the Left is generally just seen as being more accomodating to feminism and sjwing (because it is) which this sub is kind of opposed to and that's why it attracts so many right wing folks. But I'm left wing and I don't particurly care about the sjw movement. It doesn't faze me. And that's really one way to fish out the conservative and liberal posters on this thread. The Liberal TRP perspective is more "Shrug that's just the way women are I'm glad that its in the open." Whereas the conser…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:36 PM
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Guy here. Not to say this is going to end female insecurity about beauty or anything, and not saying that all female beauty related things are for the "male gaze", but if its any consolation to you physical attraction for me stops mattering that much past 7-8. I know it would be a consolation to me in your shoes. What I mean by that is just that there's a threshold where you're just pretty and once you cross it its just like a checkbox item is checked and other things start mattering infinitely …
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 02:43 AM
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I would say that that's the case. But imo it's pretty much a 1:1 correspondence between the side effect and the underlying issues. I could be with someone if they still did things like beautify and put effort into their appearance before they meet with me etc. basically things that mean she's concerned with my opinion about her and wants me to think better of her. It's not like sexless relationships are unworkable, especially in cases where the person really is asexual or just won't have sex bef…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 02:45 PM
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I'm a man and I can definitely see that applying especially because it can often be used to gauge how a person feels for you in general. So if a person has lost physical attraction to you then they probably also have lost other kinds of attraction and respect. Unless their sex drive has just been taken out of commission I'd say the withholding of sex either means she's disgusted by you or she's getting it somewhere else and both I think are sufficient grounds to terminate a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 03:09 AM
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Does this really matter? I don't mind at all when girls share their opinion but I'm secure in most beliefs that I have and I don't take it personally when they're challenged. Am I missing something? Is there no room on this sub for telling people to just grow a pair sometimes?
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 04:23 PM
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Statements like "these ugly girls i didn't care about were all over me" makes me think it's more about just being more attractive than the other people than the idgaf attitude sometimes. I'm more convinced by the posts that demonstrate that that approach works on women that are objectively more attractive than the OP.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 08:58 PM
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How does OP have so many downvotes then? Mmmm noodz...merci
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 03:14 PM
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I didn't downvote this post just cus I like reading all the awesome bitchy responses to this dude. Cracks me up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 03:04 PM
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sEND NOODZ edit: But seriously I have noticed I can only upvote people here. Have I been flagged as a dude or something?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 02:52 PM
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I'll judge your RMV. PM me your soul.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 12:50 PM
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Judit Polgar actually reached no. 8 in the world. But she's retired so you might be right.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:18 PM
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In all honesty I think extremes like this are needed to prove a point. Women who were born women but, through some hormonal abnormality or another, have higher t levels etc but otherwise healthy have always had an edge in most women's events. Having strict guidelines as what the limitations on what a "female" is for athletics is something thats been needed for awhile and based on something meaningful like t levels and not something that doesn't matter athletically like gender at birth or genital…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 02:43 AM
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It allows you to scare people easier though haha
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 10:53 PM
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First two things: 1. There's basically no time I would imagine catcalling being effective at starting a relationship even before feminism. 2. I literally have never seen anyone get shitty about opening doors for people etc. That said, as somebody that has approach anxiety (working on this) I feel like I have to take some of the blame of this. I have to say it probably does have something to do with reading scathing opinions from women about weird/gross people approaching them and I care what peo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 10:52 PM
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Lol @me getting the most upvoted post on this thread being a 23y/o single male. Also I think men are probably in their mental prime in their 30s and not that much off their physical prime if they're doing it right.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 02:44 PM
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Online dating. Go older rather than younger (if you're really looking for start a family thing). I say go online because that's where the age gap is most likely to be bridged. I can't speak for successful girl profiles tbh but I think they should be good conversation starters about something you like because they will inevitably try to talk about it. i'd say just realize that women do this thing online where they think men are much less attractive than they are irl (because they are b/c their pi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 04:27 PM
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My mom thinks so.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 11:05 PM
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Publications will rebrand the material to make it more palatable more often than not. Also the SMV side of it is something publications do all the time. RMV is where things might get contentious.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 11:05 PM
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Half of them are mine tho and therefore perfect.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 09:34 PM
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This sounds functional but I'd follow it for sheer interest. It might seem like a tall order at first to quantify all of human attraction like that i'd just advise to think of it as more of a loose approximation. With luck as a quiz it could even make the rounds through a lot of popular media (given how ubiquitous pop quizzes are I dont think its tough to imagine). Im sure dating websites have this info they're just not going to publish it due to public flak.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 09:05 PM
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xD the refractory period I wasn't expecting to laugh in this thread. As for your second paragraph, some men might be able to go that "low" but I personally would rather just be celibate. I think it might have to do with the degree to which your brain is masculinized. Maybe mine just isn't as much so I retain some feminine "pickiness" to a higher degree than others? I don't really know. I'm in the same boat as you just spitballing.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 08:57 PM
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My question would be why though from an evopsych perspective. It's just strange to me that men would have any kind of sexual hang-ups at all given their imperative.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 08:18 PM
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I'm not gonna lie talking to some women that are dumb is probably my biggest hinderance in dating and I'd be interested in any resources for this. Like I just can't fathom what they'd want to talk about or feign interest in the things they actually do talk about.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:14 AM
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I think maybe it's used to explain why some women have toxic relationships with their exes and they keep "going back." I don't know if there's a male equivalent to that. If a man ends an unfulfilling/unfaithful relationship I don't see him going back.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 04:05 PM
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I don't know their ages and I'm not going to ask. If a person looks 25 and they're actually 30 I'm just going to assume that they're 25.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:46 AM
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I know. 150 each is hard to believe or one person being over 150+ is hard to believe.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 03:13 PM
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No offense but that..seems unlikely. What organization were you tested by?
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 06:52 AM
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It's kind of on the intelligent men to not be bootlickers. We all learn the hard way. That's what TRP's all about. As for whether or not you can aid the process, I suppose the only thing you can do is mention that you prefer things a certain way. It's hard though because you want authenticity and a naturally "take-charge" person though not someone following a prompt. Best thing I could advise is just reinforcing dominant behavior when it occurs and hopefully it'll awaken some awareness in these …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 06:50 AM
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I say zero but honestly I think the n- count stuff is a crude measure at best for how loose/slutty a person is. Basically if all the times you've had sex was in a committed relationship and you weren't rapidly getting used and abused and tossed around by guys on the CC then it doesn't really matter what your n- count is. I will say though that having a high n-count is really only possible on the CC though. Both LTRs I've been in tend to last a couple years and something like that would only incr…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 10:45 AM
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You got sources for these? I'm curious as to where this is coming from. I also thought divorce rate was declining these days even though there's an increase in young womens' n- counts.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 02:09 AM
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Not to pat my back or anything but that sounds a lot like me. Got any resources on hand for folks like that? I like TRP for the evopsych stuff and their general advice of lifting ect. but can't really get down as much with the advice they give of being hyper-aggressive, hypersexual, and hypersocial. I guess specifically i would need help with partner vetting/finding/attracting. Which women are more contented with a more "sigma" male? Where do I find them? How do I tailor my approach (on online d…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 03:03 AM
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Thats not really clear.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 11:05 PM
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What's a comfort test?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 08:05 PM
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I think tomboyism in women is a lot more accepted than sissy men and you yourself dont seem to be experiencing anguish about your situation from what i gather. Are you just interested in commiserating with people of similar experiences? Also if I had to guess your gender on writing alone I would have definitely guessed male. You have a very starightforward and logical style.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 04:39 PM
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Your friends have slept with 10 guys by 20y/o and they're proud of it?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 02:05 PM
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That is a very pretty man.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 01:58 PM
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Interested in this. Do you never consider one night stands with dudes that are "above your range?" Also, do you find that attractiveness increases with more height or do you find that "taller than you" is just a threshold that has to be met and then after that it has diminishing returns.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 02:08 AM
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How broad actually is broad shouldered. Ive had people tell me i am and tell me im not.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 02:06 AM
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I'm vegetarian but I get enough vitamin D. I just like to practice erotic denial I think. Everyday sex can just become routine and lose anticipation.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 02:22 PM
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Y'all are crazy. I prefer maybe once every 3 days at most. Im 23 btw. I think sex drive just varies from person to person.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 12:52 AM
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Yeah im surprised i saw it. Its really just the verse. If you can bear to hear the truth that you have spoken twisted up by knaves and made a trap for fools. If you can bear to watch the things you gave your life to broken, and stoop and build them up with worn out tools. Those are probably the most powerful lines in the poem so it makes sense. Its also a good way to remember those lines if you ever want to feel fancy and recite them.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:01 PM
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This is a song by brand new, haha. The song quotes heavily from this poem and makes it seem a lot sadder than it actuslly is. Sowing season is the name.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 05:02 PM
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Was losing all my friends. Was losing them to drinking and to driving. Was losing all my friends. But I got 'em back.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 01:06 PM
4

She did eat all of her food which my ex-gf never did. Portion sizes here are too big for average girls i think. I was kinda disappointed b/c i was looking to try what she had haha.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 10:40 PM
7

It's not even "work" though it's just not eating as much for the most part haha.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:34 PM
2

She's really close to being really attractive that's why. Plus she's open to my kinks. Is it worth it. Idk never stuck my dick in crazy before.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 05:31 PM
19

This is actually pretty relevant to my life right now. I recently (yesterday) went out with a girl that was exactly like this. Nice face, decent if uninteresting personality (conventional), a lil too fat for me. It was pleasant as just company. I kind of feel bad for just dropping her though based on weight though but it can't be helped. It will happen sooner or later. Also it's a bit narcissistic to assume that it will really hurt their feelings that much. I barely know them ha. Best not to lea…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:17 PM
-1

It's easy. I can't fathom how it could be time consuming.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 01:17 AM
-1

How attractive are you? If you are just go swiping on tinder and go out with some nerdy lookin dudes and get a couple dinners paid for.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 09:55 PM
2

What would fulfilling blue pill idealistic goals with red pill awareness even look like?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:46 PM
9

Is it possible to be RP without having the pick up artist mentality/drive? I ask because I find I actually find it a lot more satisfying to sate my sex drive with a low-key but still sorta monogamous relationship and I wonder if not caring about pua and "game" is adversely affecting me.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:41 PM
3

Maybe later. I happen to be at work now.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 06:26 PM
3

You have a pretty expansive range and I'm surprised you can cycle between the three voices like that. Must be good for impressions ha. I will say that it does seem effortful for you to go that low. Do you find that to be the case? Also it would be pretty jarring if you were to forget yourself and go back to your default voice (which I presume is the middle now) from your deep voice like you did. Either way, i'd love to know how you got to be able to do that first voice.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 06:11 PM
7

I downvoted b/c of politicization in a non-political thread. I don't normally but sick of seeing shit about US 2016 presidential election.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 05:22 PM
3

Worth a shot! Esp. since that's my biggest insecurity. That's a lot of money though for their product...might be a scam?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 05:18 PM
31

She talks about the emotional isolation of tradcon male society. But I still wonder if the experience of that emotional isolation wasn't particularly acute to her because she was a woman. I know men still have emotional needs, but I wonder if hers weren't more acute. Also, I think she lacks the perspective of heterosexual females and why they're attracted to men. She keeps comparing male and female sexuality as visceral vs. mental/emotional. She's close to a realization in the anecdote about her…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 02:55 PM
2

Short guy life :p I'm 5'8 and I wish there was a stigma about dating people much taller than you. All the pretty 5'4 and below people are taken.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:55 PM
5

This honestly looks like someone trying to get a screenshot for TRP of women trying to excuse this behavior or something.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/16 01:49 PM
3

It's probably a little frivolous to go into more detail about this but I was wondering about it still. For example I was reading a study of attention paid to men on online dating based on how much they reported their income. Men who were shorter had to make like 10000 dollars more annually per inch each inch below 6'0 to get the same amount amount of attention as 6'0+ men. I was wondering if other traits could be similarly quantifiable.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:59 PM
1

For men it often becomes that, yes. No sex after marriage is a joke older than time.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 11:50 AM
2

Well sure I see that now haha. I sometimes forget that people aren't like me (same as everyone). Ceremonies matter to a lot of people. I'm not that contemptuous of them. But it's hard not to be...sour grapes and all.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 11:49 PM
1

Ceremonies might do things for other people but they have never really done anything for me. I have some respect/longing for the feelings that traditions and ceremonies evoke but to me they have always been empty. I'm not a religious person but even secular traditions ring hollow for me and I can't really get into sporting events. It could just be a feature of personality.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 10:59 PM
1

I mean thats all well and good but a marriage, the institution, is a false sense of security for all those other things. Looking at it from an objective standpoint, in terms of consequences, a marriage (with a prenup, always a prenup) is not binding. So from that perpective it is a party.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 10:48 PM
4

People marrying young doesnt make any sense unless you just plan on being some rich 30+ y/o's housewife or you or your guy are lucky enough to be advanced in your careers already. What I don't understand as a man is why are you letting your love of arts, crafts, and party favors etc. Get conflated with marriage as its only outlet. It also seems silly to me to be constantly looking at others marriages and "moments" enviously and letting that rule your life decisions. I've just never understood th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 08:55 PM
1

I feel like I would die of alcohol poisoning before I got to that state. I just get loopy & goofy when buzzed.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:22 AM
2

Especially single men these days, more often than not we either know how to cook or make enough money to where we can just eat out all the time. Best way I've found is just to be completely self-reliant and independent. Women are just the tip of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs for me, basically a luxury.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 01:48 PM
6

Female sexual strategy only becomes interesting when trade-offs have to be made. When a woman has high SMV & RMV she can keep the commitment of a high-value man with good genes & provider status/personality. However, when the woman lacks those, her game is to compromose with a provider status male and sleep around with those that have better genes. In other words, AF/bb. There's data corroborating that low-income & status communities have more infedelity than communities that aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 05:18 PM
1

You may have been exaggurating, but 20 is a really low # for a benchmark.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 03:08 AM
1

So right. I get rejected constantly xD I mean it seems like a good deal to me, I'd take free food and conversation anyday. I think people have just lost the ability to casually date and everyone is, like OP, looking for someone to spend the rest of their lives with. So of course you're going to reject strangers when you're asking yourself "do i want to be chained to this person to the rest of my life." My advice for OP would be to drop the expectation of finding a soulmate right off the CC and j…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 11:38 PM
0

It's a self-correcting issue. Outside of nuclear war (and maybe even that), more fit people will ultimately survive.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 05:42 PM
5

I learned that make-up and a woman's willingness to wear it is a great sign of her opinion of you. If a woman doesn't maintain appearance for you and wittholds sex then I've learned to just walk out the door (I learned the hard way, btw. Not proud of this). That said, make- up is fine. It requires a bit of finesse and artistry when its done well, even.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 10:51 PM
6

Yeah you know since this is such a big deal I wonder if it wouldn't be impossible to sticky some resources on how to lose weight. I know there are a lot of misconceptions about it out there. Maybe we could compile a community guide of tips or something? It's really not all that hard and, for calorie restriction, once you get through the adjustment phase of a few months (to a year tbh) then your appetite adjusts. This is why so many people "gain the weight back" because their willpower just break…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 07:03 PM
38

There are so many potentially pretty & intelligent women I've passed up because of their weight. Those who are left know they're worth a lot more and they get a little entitled. It really makes me sad that there's such a deficit...
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 04:30 PM
1

I'll look into doing both. Thanks all.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 08:08 PM
1

What's the price for withdrawal of sperm? I don't know what the procedure is called (and there may be multiple ways of doing it) or else I'd look it up myself. If it's below $5000 then I'll probably do it. (because I should be in a way better career position before I even think about that anyway).
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:51 PM
1

Is this a good idea for a man in his 20s? I feel like this is ideal because if i ever wanted a kid it would be easy to extract the sperm like you say.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 09:57 PM
1

It makes no difference inherently. It's a cultural preference. It's like asking whether a man's hair affects his attractiveness. It might, but it's going to vary on individual/cultural preference.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 03:25 AM
3

OP is right. Most drag queens prefer this style of eyebrow. It really emphasizes their feminity.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 03:02 AM
0

This is a complex subject and should be broken down into a lot of different subthreads. For example I recently had a conversation on here about male sexual attraction and the virgin/whore paradigm if you might be interested in my thoughts about that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 08:24 PM
8

TRP freely uses hamstering with men as well. Especially when they're white knighting etc.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 08:22 PM
1

I think he was just in an environment where he'd been deprived of easy female validation his whole life and so he thought that it would be better than it was. He never had a chance to live the womanizing life before so he never had a chance to find out it wasn't really his thing. I mean, he still did it (even when it was against his values) which is telling. But he was clearly looking for someone with RMV to take home and he didn't really find it there. Do you think it means she's not attracted …
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 10:14 PM
1

Yeah I don't know if it's like that in other countries but it's crazy to read through forums and stories of people's experiences in the Philippines. Here's one. Not as well written as it could be but I just did a cursory search: https://www.reddit.com/r/Philippines/comments/43qvid/hate_me_but_these_truths_are_based_on_my/ Only reason I know about it at all is because my uncle did exactly that. His wife is very attractive and he's just your average nerdy beta-ish 35-ish man. He makes good money b…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 06:03 PM
1

Yeah, on the whole, when you look at humans in terms of other animals, we are the most K species out there. Even that being the case low-investment strategies are still prevalent because of the complexity of human behavior (you can't peg all of it to instinct). The r strategy as been...genetically prevalent in early history as well not the least because some of the unpleasant experiences of wartime (see Sabine women). It disgusts me to think of that potentiality in my gender but I have to recogn…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 04:30 PM
1

Yeah. I think we prefer to divide SMV (physical attractiveness, overall aura of femininity that you show through body language, manner of speaking, emotions you show to the public) and RMV (intelligence, sense of humor, emotional stability, empathy, general skills, interests, social groups, education & earning power), with some possible intertwining (some men might consider intelligence or sense of humor a part of SMV if witty banters excite them, for instance, and maintaining SMV is a large com…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 11:31 PM
5

Basically when you're a "smarter" person (call it more educated if you want), especially if you're a male, you kind of have to drop that as a standard. It's kind of like being a tall girl. You have to decide on whether you want to limit your dating pool by that standard and that decision is largely mediated by your own SMV. Ultimately I think most above average intelligence men are going to decide that other qualities (physical and emotional health) are a lot more important to them. I'm more att…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 12:17 PM
1

all those except digit ratio seem more correlated with being less traditional than anything else. It is probably true that those who aren't conservative have less of a problem with promiscuity, but it doesn't say anything about who is more prone to promiscuity inherently. In my experience people who are conservative are just a little bit more concerned and better at hamstering out their innate tendencies. Like "god tells them" to abandon previous mates and get with newer ones or something like t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 07:17 PM
1

Well one is vastly more apparent than the other. Idk about you but I can't tell a woman who's promiscuous from a woman who's not by looking at them. And I'm also not really sure that that "taints" a woman. It only is an indicator that she's a histrionic airhead or something.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 02:38 PM
2

Yeah I'm not even that familiar with it. I may have read about it once or twice and I've encountered some people like that peripherally but when I was reading this I was like "I have seen this shit before" haha.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 05:28 PM
4

She is posting in /r/Redpillwomen what should be in /r/relationships. What I gave her was just general advice in that regard. I honestly have no idea how RP or RPW philosophy could even be applied to this issue.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 05:00 PM
6

Just goes to show you how jack shit of that matters. My IQ is "only" 125 as reflected by the Wecchsler Adult Intelligence scale. I took that in order to get diagnosed for ADHD. Turns out it was a red herring I've just lived with chronic sleep deprivation my whole life (They have suspiciously similar symptoms). Anyway my point is that this guy might be able to solve a rubik's cube faster than me but if he's lived his whole life with NPD then he has this delusion that inhibits him from applying hi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 04:55 PM
19

I really doubt his IQ score but that's really beside the point with regards to his dick behavior. Did he have an adult test administered? Where is he getting this "score" from? Sounds like he just needs to develop some life skills. He's got a lot of the symptoms for narcissistic personality disorder. Most telling is the fact that he almost always has short relationships with a kind of "falling out" and he thinks he's privileged with special knowledge and insight. A lot of the times this is prett…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 04:11 PM
1

Reading this I think we are fundamentally in agreement. It seems you follow RPW mainstream in trying to succeed in the social order as it stands (monogamy) but you're capable of looking past it to what could be (more collective) which is more my position. I'm just a little bit more Marxist in my views in that I think we should be changing the social order or accelerating the process instead of coping with it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 02:38 PM
1

I was talking about this from someone on RPW. About how the Hero's Journey is a kind of Rite of Passage for men and that motif of a boy becoming a man and going into the outside world and "leaving the second womb" of childhood is so prevalent. What I was talking about really was how there is no female equivalent to that that I've ever encountered. I was really interested in "rite of passage" stories for women but what I've found was really just that there's a cardinal psychological difference in…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 01:43 AM
2

For short term sexual partners women seek out those more attractive men though. This study was definitely just looking at LTR prospects. AF/bb.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 09:53 PM
1

Maybe I'll care about it when Im older but to me this just seems like an affirmation that our individualistic society only enables and supports one type of intimate relationship: man and wife. Its good that you've managed to find happiness with this arrangment, I just dont think its the only possible way you could have done it. It might be way way easier in our society, but I think that's wrong that its like that. To me marriage just seems like the most fragile place to completely invest in soci…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 09:49 PM
2

Your self-fulfilling prophecy is my acceptance of reality. Also I'm not sold on the not being married to a person halts this vague "growing together" that this article mentions. As if committed, institutional monogamy is the only way to do whatever that would be. I'd just like to point out that the article you linked illustrating how marriage is beneficial is not compelling to me. All points mentioned can be achieved with LTRs or even same-sex friendships.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 04:09 PM
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I think your theory is a dressed up version of the old Romantic myth of a partner that "completes" you. Truth is, nothing external will round out or complete you. You can be in relationships with people that are both like and unlike you as long as you're attracted to them and you both have emotional maturity. So the idea of finding "completeness" in a partner sounds like endorsing undevelopment to me. The idea being that you can find someone that will fit into your puzzle piece exactly how you a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 10:13 AM
1

I feel like a lot of people are like this. I'm pretty much like this myself because all I do is work and read and go to the gym. None of those thinks put me anywhere around the opposite sex xD I'm pretty normal 7/10 male probably. I shouldn't have a problem finding anyone theoretically..I just hate bars and bar culture (or fucking churches) and I would never go to those places alone (which is definitely what I would be doing). I feel like my problem is just that the people that are like me are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 09:08 PM
1

That's true. It's a very gendered cheating most of the time as well. Like Claire goes to some French artist for some excitement and emotional validation and Frank just tries to get laid with attractive folks. It doesn't seem to affect their lives much except for when other people are looking in and it threatens their political careers. I.e. I remember Frank reining Claire in from one of her trysts because the news threatened to leak it and he was running for re-election and he didn't want to see…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 07:48 PM
1

Doesn't she have little/no sexual interest for Frank and cheat on him?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 09:33 PM
1

I like women that wear make-up and are proficient at it. It's infinitely interesting to me. Though I do prefer the 'no make-up' makeup look. But I will say I've seen some very heavy & pale make-up artistry that looked interesting and pretty to me but those are just photographs. It's probably freaky IRL. Anyway I think that what gets men in a bind about women with make-up is just that after awhile women tend to become slack in their beautification in LTRs and men learn this so they wrongly tend t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:15 PM
2

I am always suspicious about how this data is gathered. But I often think that it's highly highly funny that people bother to lie on anonymous surveys etc.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 08:41 PM
1

Welp...that def rings true. Relationships can easily slip into co-dependency which is toxic.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:35 PM
1

Ha well let me give it a shot then. This is reddit, after all. What is it for if not for debating? You have separate standard for men. In your sidebar you call them the "gatekeepers of commitment" like that's what they have to offer women and women "gatekeepers of sex." So I would assume based on that that there is some kind of standard that you would hold men to where he gives away his commitment too easily to people that don't deserve it (on TRP they call this being BP) so you wouldn't concern…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 03:05 PM
1

Well see that seems a bit like a kind of way to scientifically dress up the idea that women are "degraded" by having multiple partners. I'm just not sure I buy the whole "Oxytocin" tolerance theory that we're kind of working with here. Also I'd like to see a functional way for these ideas to come into effect because it sounds like your advice is just for women to not have any romantic/sexual encounters until she's of a marriageable age and I just feel like that's not very actionable. It assumes …
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 02:53 PM
1

Man here, what you posted did seem pretty off-topic & needing its own thread. I don't see why you guys don't discuss RP/BP values here though. Your name has Red Pill in the title.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 01:01 PM
3

This is always interesting to read about stuff like this because this seems like a completely different world than the one I know. I was reading the lurid sexual escapades of Jessica Valenti the other day (Book: Sex Object) because I was doing some research on 3rd Wave Feminism for a Romanticism article I'm trying to write and it had this effect on me. It's just strange to realize that it's not just the secular trend of all developed countries that everyone is having less sex. It seems to be tha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 12:37 PM
0

Always been curious about this. What is it exactly about CC riding that makes it so offensive. I know it leaves a bad taste in men's mouths and might reflect on your wisdom but does the CC actually have any negative effects to your person? Does it change a person in an actual & negative way?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 07:01 PM
2

The illustration I use when talking about this idea with people is that people build personalities and virtues like spiders build webs (especially true for relationships, heh. I wish I could remember this quote but it went something like this. "In love, we seek someone who will believe our lies.") I liked your post so much because I often struggle with the idea of having "lost my inner self" or smothered it with all my knowledge about how I should act. I struggled with this for a long time but t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 03:33 PM
4

M[23]. This. I honestly prefer when my women are a little schemey and intelligent. It makes things more interesting. I laugh at the RP forum sometimes when they harp on female "deception" for things even as benign as make-up when the whole RP subreddit is essentially about modifying yourself. I want my children to be cunning and artful. As ironic as it is, artifice is natural for humans and those who are better at it succeed. Have a gold. Apologize in advance for any hate-mail you might get for …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 03:06 PM
1

What could women do to change? I'm interested. Or do you just think that sexual selection is the only driving factor in self-improvement and so women just do not feel the incentive.
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