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Hardly a roast, it's a meaningful analysis of your situation. We've all been there and we well know what this all means (separate house? bro... imagine for what reasons you would move to a separate house and what you would do there), only u/SBIII sacrificed some of his time to dissect and lay out your situation in clear terms. Now, if you're not yet ready to face the storm, here's some advice regarding ice tea. It's good and tested, but it won't solve your problems, just will make you feel less …
/r/askMRP25/06/20 07:26 PM
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> On the flip side, it can be fun to start giving these to your wife, just to observe behavior. Once I started doing that, an unexpected thing happened. 1: she never complied, not even once. 2: she realized how asking someone to do something the requester is capable of doing herself is disrespectful - and stopped doing that. Sometimes she forgets herself and old insticts activate, and she begins to say "Honey, could you please get me... oh, wait, I'll get it myself", and then she smiles, sometim…
/r/askMRP25/06/20 11:28 AM
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I don't remember where I read it, but it stuck with me and whenever I feel as if I was losing my aim, I remember this piece of advice (quoting from memory, so it's probably not verbatim): "Imagine if you were to die this evening - what things you would regret the most for not having managed to do in your life? There, you have your mission." Even if that's not enough, it is a really useful exercise to get some perspective from a vantage point above your daily grinder. I keep rerunning it at least…
/r/askMRP20/02/20 01:23 PM
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I think the impact they had in mind was like "once you start getting it, you will have to do it for the rest of your life, because your natural T production will drop to shit". I don't know if it's true, but kinda scared me enough not to press to hard.
/r/askMRP08/12/18 09:08 AM
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I keep wondering how low is low enough for the replacement therapy. I live in a country where doctors are very reluctant to administer it at all (probably afraid of unresearched probable long term negative impact, at least that's what one of them told me). I'm 44 with levels around 270-310 and all the symptoms of low T, but I wonder if this is low enough to push them harder, or they may have a point and I'd rather stick with what I have. Any opinions?
/r/askMRP07/12/18 10:15 AM
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Care to share what's in your meds mix? Been trying with different ones (and different doctors) for years, never found anything beneficial.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/17 10:44 AM
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I find myself in a similar position and no good way out of it as yet. Everything I do which is not relieving her of parenting our 13 months old son is immediately interpreted as me not taking care of the boy at all and me taking advantage of her. No matter what I say or do, it always escalates to me getting angry at her for distorting reality (a.k.a. telling obviously false things in order to make me feel bad and become obedient), her getting angry at me for standing up to her, the child being s…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 02:41 PM
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Or they stubbornly refuse to learn. When I recently refused to make a tea for my wife, she reminded me of it for the following month, every day, with rising anger, never forgetting to mention how selfish I was and if I ever would want anything from her....
/r/askMRP11/08/17 03:06 PM
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Just don't forget to password protect your journal.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 04:18 PM
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Level 4 sounds like a regular everyday marriage to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 06:40 PM
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Cool. Now, how did you notice? did she stop ordering you around? That made me laugh. Even more a second later when I realized it's actually true.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 05:22 PM
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Looks like the right direction you're showing me here, mate. I didn't want to start a drama and been saving these lines in case she does, but I can see now why it might not be the best approach in terms of owning my shit, and to the entire image I am projecting in result.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 02:12 PM
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As a long time media worker I concur and confirm most of that. Media producers are well aware of how human brains work and exploit it in every possible way. Around 2010 I was at a meeting with the CEO of one of the biggest European media factories. He said it as an actual directive to be used when producing content: Human brains do not make distinction between useful and useless information; they only classify it as entertaining or not. Based on this, he advised us to treat all pieces of news, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 11:21 AM
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I know my English is poor, but it still is butter that you have to put into your coffee (along with some coconut oil) in order to have a hunger suppresing drink. And thanks for the cheer-up :)
/r/askMRP31/03/17 11:17 PM
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(I'm not here to fight over what belongs to where, neither am I particularly meta savvy, so if I posted in a wrong place I'm fine to move my post somewhere else, if that's what you're here after).
/r/askMRP31/03/17 11:06 PM
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Or for people seeking answers perhaps? What is your point here, bro? I learned something from reading posts and comments, and I am happy with what I learned, and want to share it with some guys struggling with the same issues that brought us all here. I judge my thoughts to be appropriate to share here, aren't they?
/r/askMRP31/03/17 10:47 PM
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Do you think it belongs to the higher tier? I don't. I'm still at the lower one and communicating to those like me.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 10:38 PM
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I love the general idea, but I'm generally out of ideas. After living long enough either you've done everything worth doing and need huge resources to do something new (like flying to China to see The Great Wall), or your imagination is so worn out that you can't think of anything new. So, let's share some ideas here. I might have done things that others might have not, and vice versa. Let's create a repository for possible polaroids for this challenge and for future reference. Here are some of …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/17 09:10 AM
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Yeah well, it's sort of a FR condensed into a general thought. Should I write about particular occurences, it would go like: "I wish I never met you!", "Go fucking wash the floor!", "Make me a tea!", "why do you press your fucking shirt for so long!" me annoyed... like many of you ... ..thinking: plop. plop. plop. me getting better, sex better. End of field report. ;) Just thought of sharing some technique that helped me and may help some other struggling brother, who cares about some rules or w…
/r/askMRP11/03/17 01:49 AM
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There was this video about fixing your shoulder blades back somewhere... Could be linked here, I do this every day in the lift to work and I swear I feel taller by an inch. On the worse part, I feel like I have to answer verbally to anybody who as good as nods. I just feel awkward if I don't. Any remedy for it? (And for the eye contact... for me it's either this or speech. Eye contact and mute, speech and no eye contact. Been like this for a quarter of century. Beginning to feel autistic. Any hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 01:44 AM
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Wilco, thanks.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:13 PM
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As you like, I was trying to get some honest answers here.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 01:41 PM
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Nah, he's not into this internet thing. Moreover, he doesn't speak English nearly well enough to describe his situation nor to understand answers (we're both from Europe, where English is still taught as a second language). Also, it's not me hiding my own story behind an imaginary friend's cover - the quotation marks are unnecessary. I've had my own load of marital troubles, and reading TRP/MRP helped me a lot; after reading the sidebar and browsing through the posts I never had to ask any quest…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 01:32 PM
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He helped me when I was in a shitpool, the least I can do in return is talk to him and help him see things from different perspective (especially that when you are in a difficult situation, you tend to get tunnel vision and outside view is needed to see things clearly). First thing I did was offering him keys to my spare apartment which is under renovation now, so he can go sleep there in case of emergency or if he just needs to remove himself for a couple of days. That's not a long-term solutio…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 12:38 PM
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Gotta try this approach, resonates well within my skull. Deeply ingrained (and hidden well) fear of failure seems to be my primary motivation for everything I do (or don't attempt to do). I'm in my middle forties and still, like a teenager, running all the worst scenarios in my head before doing anything, then following the one that seemed to lead to success, and getting insanely anxious when a deviation appears (to a point of massive sweating, being stuck for words, getting dizzy, even dissocia…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 09:19 AM
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"You aren’t living your life but merely existing nothing makes you feel. You’re just an apathetic individual waiting for the clock to strike the final seconds of your life." This. But, how does one really face it? If I knew the answer, would I be living like this? It's not something I'm avoiding, it's something I've been unsuccesfuly trying to change for years, if only I knew how. So, saying "do something about it" sounds like saying "go feel better" to a cancer patient.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 02:31 PM
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