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Redpill fathers want their daughters to marry beta bux men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:17 PM
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You're just proving my point. If she thought she absolutely has to have you, she would have made the move. She didn't because she knew you were available or the innate desire to not lose you just wasn't there. Women absolutely make the move when they feel like they will lose a guy. It's true most women don't make moves with most guys but most women definitely make moves with the top guys unless she knows he's out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:24 AM
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I have a good looking guy friend and tons and tons of women text him and when he's around smile at him, try to touch him. I know men don't see that as a "move" but it 100% is. Anyone who has seen this in real life can back me up. Again if it's a guy she's really into, 90% of women will make the move in some way or another. I'm a woman. I know what women talk about and do. This doesn't happen to the vast majority of guys so you think most women don't make the move. If there's a girl who's waiting…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:01 PM
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I don't know how this is a cop out answer. I've literally seen women in real life throw themselves at men they like. It's just reality but there is a lack of acceptance of that reality here on ppd. I just see things as they are. Infact I'm one the few women who think looks is absolutely what women go for first. I've observed it time and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:37 AM
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Women do tell men how they feel about them. It's just that they don't say it to men they don't like. So if you have never been told by a woman that she likes you, you need to look at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:07 AM
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Controversial opinion (here at least) - I know exactly two guys who were super unsuccessful with women, went to the gym, got buff but still couldn't get any. The looked rather cartoonish and they're personalities didn't change a bit. So much desperate energy. Not to say it doesn't work for some men but it doesn't help in the long run and I'm willing to die on that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:05 PM
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I meant a long-term relationship/marriage. If you want a HVW, your muscles don't matter to her. You're definitely attracting shallow/promiscuous women I can guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:45 PM
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Not in the long run. It doesn't help much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:08 PM
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Exactly. The top girls are going for the naturally charismatic guys. They aren't going for men who had to learn how to talk to women for 10 fucking years. I have a 2 cousins, one is 7 and the other is 10. The younger one is already so charming you can immediately tell he'll do well with girls. The older one although very smart is very awkward. People's fates are decided way earlier than they realize especially in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:53 PM
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Those dozens, hundreds or thousands of women are the ones that you see. I live in a major US city ans I see ugly women ALL THE TIME. Old women are also women. They are just invisible to you but I see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:51 PM
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I am an objective person. They're objectively low value or whatever other word you want to use. I literally learned the word from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:56 PM
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I mean I still feel majority of women do "want" a man romantically but they don't "need" him. There is a difference. And most women do find a man and vice versa. It's just that if in 1960, 95% women needed/wanted romantic love today only maybe 70% of women do. I am of the strong opinion men on here are the minority. Every single man I know in real life gets married sooner or later and yes even the ugly ones, they marry ugly women. The problem on this sub is basically that the guys are trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:05 AM
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Women as a whole do need men as a whole. But women no longer need men as romantic lovers/ husbands is the point. What about that don't you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:02 PM
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A lot of people here are confused what we mean when we say objectification. An object is meant to be used for a particular purpose and when that purpose is no longer served by the object we tend to throw it away. Men who objectify women look at them as objects whose purpose is to give them sex and they otherwise don't care about the woman. So yes no one wants to be treated like objects because we as humans want to feel like we provide value in more ways than any one thing. It's simply human natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:39 PM
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If women care about a man's looks and you as a man want to attract women, it's not feminine to worry about your looks. It's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:49 PM
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It's funny how the spinning plates thing backfires on the men here lol. You're not a Chad, don't try to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:21 AM
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The number of single men and women are equal. The women have checked out hence they don't go to social events anymore. Your reading comprehension is bad, whew.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:12 AM
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Do you think you saying that is going to make me want to date them? Low value or not, they're not attractive to me. Period. I don't care how they live their lives, I wish them no harm. I just don't want to deal with them. Why is that so hard for men here to understand? I'm picky and if I'm single and lonely it's for me to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:36 PM
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Because none of them are attractive to me not to mention they act desperate. And before you say anything yes I want an attractive man. I admit if I'm not getting that I'm giving up. Dealing with a desperate low value man sounds like a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:45 PM
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Exactly, I have noticed this a lot. Wherever I go these days it's a total sausage fest. It makes me not want to go at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:02 AM
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Sure. Though I'm sure a lot of guys here won't go for these girls. They want someone who's 5'4" and 120-130 lbs. Girls of that weight are top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:13 PM
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The statistically average woman is 5'4" and 170 lbs. That's fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:26 PM
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The average woman IS fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:44 PM
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Stalking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:41 PM
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Legalized prostitution will lead to more trafficking. How do people here not get that? And say we do have stringent laws against trafficking and all the women who are prostitutes are doing it willing, there won't be enough women for these men to have sex with. There will be extra long waiting lines to have sex. Not to mention, effects of sex like that on the physical and mental health of a prostitute. These prostitutes will eventually quit. The prostitution market is very volatile and unstable. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:41 PM
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I think both preferences are fine. I'm a woman and I would support you if you don't want to date a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:24 PM
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But nobody is asking you to date these women? If enough fat women are rejected maybe they'll start losing weight but there are plenty of men who'd date them so they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:51 PM
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Yes because like you said a man can't change his height so if I have a height threshold that I'm attracted, there's no hope of attraction ever happening. But women can lose weight and men will be attracted to them. People get rejected for something that's out of their control all the time. Men need to learn how to deal with it and not obsess over women who want a 6'+ How do you say you aren't attracted to fat women and in the same breath say women are wrong to be attracted to tall men? If only y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:47 PM
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That's because weight is always fluctuating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:11 PM
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I am a staunch believer that a vast majority of men would rape if they could suffer no consequences. I am risk averse and I am in the minority of women who has never been sexually assaulted or raped because I don't put myself in that situation. My distrust of men has served me well so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:08 PM
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Yes a more experienced man could hurt her in ways a less experienced, jobless, still in college guy couldn't. Most younger guys have a lot more at stake if they try to rape, sexually assault someone. They haven't even started their careers. Whereas a 32 yo man she met off of tinder can be far more dangerous. I guess I'm just against having sex with absolutely strange men who can get away with stuff but that's because I'm a smart woman, if a man is going to hurt me I'll make sure he's stripped of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:07 PM
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Yeah it's not healthy but my argument is you don't need to be a complete person to be in a relationship as many here like to claim. Billions of people are incomplete yet are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:52 PM
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Not to mention people who are not happy by themselves get into relationships all the time despite not being a "complete person".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:57 PM
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There are different ages for maturity for different things. For example, I would say a 7 year and 13 year old are both immature and children but a 13 yo could do things that a 7 yo couldn't. An 18 year old is old enough to have sex, no doubt. She just might not be mature enough to be knowing what she's getting into when she has sex with a 32 yo because she's inexperienced. She can still do it but in most cases it won't end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:02 PM
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Can anyone not imagine what it's like for a kid to see his dad play video games all day long? What sort of role model would you be. I'm so glad my dad actually did something to better the house, had conversations with us, took us out, and taught us interesting things. These guys who play video games all day don't deserve shit. Their brains are fried with video games and porn. And before anyone says it's a "hOBby" I don't give a shit, it's not a healthy hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:27 PM
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Yes. Lesbians in arts and psychology and what not are more often in relationships. I can get dates with these types, I just don't connect with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:32 AM
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I mean I do pick up women. Just not as much as I would like too. I struggle to find a committed relationship not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:51 AM
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This sub doesn't allow for polls for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:47 PM
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You think being unattractive is the only reason women are lesbians LOL. I get tons of attention from men. I'm straight passing which is why I got interested in this sub in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:07 AM
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I mean I was one of the few girls in a class full of males. I know very well how most men in STEM act around women. Most were awkward, some were downright misogynistic. I'm currently single but have been in 2 relationships before. I'm a lesbian so my pool is small but I get laid at least twice a year without trying. I guess I'm pretty above average looking but women are attracted to the way I treat them, I know how to engage them in conversations and I'm very confident. I always keep an aura of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:20 AM
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How successful are you with dating? Do you socialize with these women enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:37 AM
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So you agree that these men are just not physically attractive. Most men here who are incels are in white collar STEM fields. They probably don't lift, are overweight, don't take care of their skin and face, have zero fashion sense, zero flirting skills and probably don't leave their house much. I have really ugly male friends who groom themselves well and they have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:36 AM
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I'm a computer engineer and I have a master's degree in business. Of course I have experience. I'm not sure what you're trying to imply. Women can be technical too you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:32 AM
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I just wanted to test out something. Most men here are from all kinds of professional backgrounds so I guess the issue is with their behavior and treatment of women or potentially extremely unfortunate genes. It's really not that hard to get a woman if you have a decent personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:47 AM
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I'm a lesbian. I pick up women just fine. In fact, I would say I'm rather nerdy and women find that cute because I say it in a way that doesn't sound nerdy or robotic. I would also say I'm a solid 7 so I don't have much of an issue getting sex with women. I have concluded that mostly women are wary of men themselves and it has nothing to do with professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:16 PM
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I'm a technical project manager. I lead a team of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:05 PM
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I'm a woman and I'm a senior data analyst. I'm the only woman in my entire team and extended team. There is only one other woman but she's in upper management. Edit: Funny thing is I'm also a lesbian. But I have a few straight women friends in tech but most of them are immigrant women as am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:40 PM
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Do you think your career has played a role in you not having the success you would like? Do you think average men in female heavy professions get laid more easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:36 PM
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For all the men saying women wear makeup for men are only partially correct. For example, women would wear makeup to an event where there are only women. It's a way to assert social dominance over other females. Most things men do are for female attention but you could playing video games is not one of them. It's the same thing, not everything a woman does is for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:10 PM
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Women would wear make up in an event where there are only women. It's just a way to assert dominance. Believe it or not women want to be the alpha in their female groups too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:05 PM
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The best highly educated women are immigrant women who come to America to pursue their dream but still carry values of their culture. They are successful but also very humble. They make excellent mothers. They set their kids up for success. I am an immigrant woman in grad school and the other immigrant women around me are so much cooler to hangout with. Any man would be absolutely lucky to have them. Edit: These women usually pursue engineering/science fields and not some useless art degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:11 PM
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I mean yeah, I work in STEM, so technically I could make lots of money but I don't want the women who would be with me for money and fuck other men on the side. Fuck that. I would never give a woman power to leave me for a man. I would turn the world upside down before I'd let that happen. It's 1000x better to be alone than have that happen to me. I won't be necessarily super happy alone but I won't be sad either. I'd just rather live a neutral life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:48 PM
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I'm a lesbian who struggles to date despite getting tons and tons of attention from men. It doesn't matter because I still don't get the attention from the women I want. All the women I encounter want men. Grass is always greener on the other side. I would say lesbians who are single suffer the most because it's not like I can make a million dollars and have girls come to me. It's not like I'll get better looking with age. It's a lose-lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:14 PM
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Well how do you know he will have anxiety? Kids develop anxiety because of their parents. I'm not going to raise him like that. I'll make sure he learns to talk to women from a young age. I'll positively reinforce him so he is confident but also teach him where he can improve himself. I'll encourage him to play sports and I will limit his access to video games as much as I can. He might hate me for doing that but he will thank me later. Just because I'm his mom I will not coddle him. I'll make h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:27 AM
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I don't think so. Most of my female friends are very loyal to their boyfriends and they are very average to below average looking men. The difference is they respect their girlfriend. Maybe they are simps but at least they're happier than men on here who hang out on Reddit all day complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:56 AM
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I'm not sure how you concluded that I hate men as a sex. I said I have distaste for loser men who feel entitled. It's very telling that you immediately jumped to attack me. If I have a son, he's not going to be a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:54 AM
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It literally is. I have seen it with my own eyes. Guys are absolutely desperate, they will take anyone. Then they don't have the balls to stand up to their wives. And no your analogy doesn't work because women weren't able to do jack shit because men didn't allow them. Here men are given the first 30 years of their life, free to do whatever they want and yet all they do is watch porn and play video games. Those men can fuck right off. Don't even compare what women have been through for centuries…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:56 AM
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I mean the playing field is uneven BECAUSE of men. Men are too desperate for even a whiff of pussy. The day men collectively stop being so obsessed with women we'll have more equal relationships but that's just not going to happen and that's because of BIOLOGY. Women's wombs will always be more valuable than a man's sperm. It has been this way for millions of years and it will be for another million years. I think with some technological advances humans have started thinking they can change the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:17 AM
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They have okay marriages. They do nothing to deserve their wives respect. Like y'all keep saying, they're betas whose wives take all the decisions for them. If anything it's their fault but they're too desperate for sex to stand up to their wives. Thanks to modern society these men get to have a wife and children. They simply don't know how to command respect. No one is going to respect you without you earning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:11 AM
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I mean throughout history most men did not get to reproduce. Why do they think they would get a chance suddenly? If it weren't for modern society they would be dead. My suggestion is that they should not take it personally and just be happy with what they have if they fail to get women after years of attempting or marry an ugly woman if they're that desperate. They aren't owed anything. The only thing society can do is offer them sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:08 AM
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Just because they're college educated doesn't make them high quality in the dating sphere. I am in a STEM field and I see how men are utterly socially incompetent. Not to mention they are nerdy misogynists. They don't have the communication skills to speak to women, they neg them constantly and make fun of them otherwise they will just orbit around you like simps. You're saying they made it eventually so I don't see what the issue is. The men you just described were never meant to have sex in co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:04 AM
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I mean it's not like they don't know that. They still choose to keep being with that woman and at the end of the day if he has children it's a win for him ultimately, evolutionary speaking. Evolution doesn't care about whether the woman fucked several men before .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:51 PM
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Average men all around me have girlfriends or wives. I really doubt most men here who claim they're average are really average. Most men here are probably in the bottom 20% looks wise or just have really weird off-putting personalities especially the redpillers. I know I'm going to be hounded for saying this but most guys here need to take an honest look at their lives and not blame women for every failure of theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:22 PM
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Males of other species have to do that. Why do you think it's any different for humans? Males have to impress females. The male peacock dances for the female and so do many other males birds. It's just nature. If you want to spread your seed you have to do this. No one is forcing you to if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:40 PM
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But you know that some woman will be ready to settle down with you once she's 30. That's not true for lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:03 PM
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Lesbian here. While it's true that it's easier to pick up women as a lesbian it's 1000x harder to get a woman to commit and be in a serious relationship. After a point, just like straight women, lesbians don't want casual sex. And we're also getting older just like everyone else. Many women leave us for men once it's time to settle down and have children. Lives of lesbians are much more difficult in the long run than straight men. Average straight men eventually get a woman who is ready to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:10 PM
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I mean when women do offer other things they are taken for granted. It's either that she's attractive and boring or ugly and interesting. Men have clearly made their choice for which they would pick. A woman who is attractive and interesting would never go for guys on this sub. They only date the top guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:10 AM
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Exactly! can you imagine the sheer gall of these men to demand interesting and attractive women when they themselves are obese, boring and utterly socially incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:55 AM
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Yes because people fall out of love all the time. Being in love is not practical. I'd rather my partner be honest with me than pretending to be in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:45 PM
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Why is it so necessary to be "in love" with your partner? You can have a decent relationship without being in love. This mindset is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:20 PM
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If the day comes when men will start bearing children I will pay 100%. Men don't want to work and make money, don't want to provide for their offspring, complain about child support then what the fuck are you good for? Only if a couple doesn't have children is where I would say 50/50 is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:37 PM
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Yeah as a woman I love the idea of building some chemistry and teasing throughout the week or even over 2 weeks and then when you finally have sex, it just feels so much better. Doing it everyday takes away the fun really quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:34 PM
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Yeah that's who it was targeted at. I think it's safe to assume there aren't any gay men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:35 PM
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Men, you need to understand that women feel how y'all feel post nut almost 90% of the time. Just to put things into perspective for you. If we have sex everyday it just gets boring and that's the worst thing you could do if you want consistent long term sex. Men need to learn how to withhold sex for longer periods of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:25 PM
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It's laughable that people are comparing hollywood celebrity dating lives to average people. These people are not the norm, their dynamics are far different from middle class/upper middle class people. Hollywood celebrities are fucked up in all kinds of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:19 AM
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Well I'm a lesbian and although I'm single from what I've seen in my circle is that most lesbians tend to marry young because they think they won't find anyone as there are really not many women who are into women out there. Eventually they realize that they aren't compatible and hence the divorce. Heterosexual couples who marry young also have higher divorce rates. Gay men on the other hand either marry later in life after they've had their fun or are in open relationships so there's really no …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:17 PM
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For the 1000th time, having too many options and bad ones at that is not a privilege. I have at least 10 guys who orbit me and would marry me if I asked them. I don't consider that a privilege. The only people who are privileged are ones getting attention from people they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:53 PM
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Where do people get this idea that only girls bully other girls? I have been bullied by boys as a teenage girl for not being exactly feminine. And oh I would take their bullying all day instead of physical violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:51 PM
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When men and women commit equal amounts of violent crime against the larger public we'll monitor the subs equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:32 AM
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I never said incels subs should be banned, I'd love to hear their point of view, I'm saying they should be monitored more carefully because there's a chance a few of them could turn violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:19 AM
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I'm sorry. It's hard to understand tone especially when most men on this sub keep saying women are privileged and the patriarchy doesn't exist. I'm just surprised you had to ask this question when it's so apparent that women act against their interests all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:17 AM
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Also to your point on one on one violence, far more men have murdered their wives/girlfriends than the other way round. If you can't understand this simple fact about male nature, I fear for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:05 AM
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I'm a woman who works in tech and I understand that the gender pay gap is nonsense because men chose to be in higher paying careers. Also to you your point about just because it hasn't happened doesn't mean it can't happen is stupid. If you think that way then there are infinite possibilities of what could happen. Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. We'll talk when a deranged woman actually picks up a gun and shoots 200 children. Until then I'll stay biased. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:03 AM
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LOL. Please step out in the real world. I guess all the statistics that show 90% of violent crime is committed by men are biased as well? This is why nobody will take you seriously in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:59 AM
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Only Incels use the word femcel. I feel sorry for you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:56 AM
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Yes. I've seen countless women act against their own interests because they've been told they can't do this or that because they're women. I know some women who've been conditioned so badly by the patriarchy, they genuinely believe they're inferior to men. And this is true especially in religious communities. Don't act all dumb now. If you think the patriarchy doesn't exist I don't think you've ever stepped out of your room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:55 AM
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No the problem with incel subs is they can be violent out in the real world. I have not heard of a single incel woman mass shooter. Men are violent hence there needs to be harsher checks on their actions. Blindly advocating for equality across the board is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:51 AM
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Yes I do. Misogyny is how men have controlled women for 1000s of years because misogyny perpetually keeps women hating and doubting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:47 AM
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Well part of free speech is letting people speak out even if it's misandry or whatever. It's their experience and they should be able to talk about it. I followed it for a while and yes some of their posts are filled with hate but some were actually helpful for younger women to help them weed out abusive men or men who aren't serious about them. They knew the TRP strategy and created an antidote for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:44 AM
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I don't get how they were on a brink of ban yet this sub continues despite being very misogynistic and borderline dangerous sometimes. I guess in a way they're right. Patriarchy does always win because everything is controlled by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:32 AM
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Does anyone know why the FDS is gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:28 AM
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Countless straight women keep yelling at the top of their voices that they want their man to eat them out but men are too much of a pussy to do it. I don't need to experience something to know the truth. Besides I have a vagina and a clitoris, I know what it feels like to be penetrated vs eaten out. And straight women are no different except they want a man to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:46 AM
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If women get wet when you make out with them then they are attracted to you. You're just proving my point. They are already wet before they even see your dick. Men here are just projecting their shallow preferences on women. An overwhelming majority of women won't care about dick size if you're able to keep her satisfied in and outside of the bedroom unless of course you have a literal micropenis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:58 PM
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Your analogy doesn't hold because even for the women who do enjoy vaginal sex, it's far less enjoyable than it is for a man. For a man vaginal sex is probably as important or more important than a blow job. Ask any woman who has had a dick shoved in her directly if she enjoyed it even though it might have been a big dick. I know tons of women who could go without penetrative sex and still be satisfied with their sex lives. Very very few women actually enjoy penetrative sex to a point where it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:54 PM
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My point is that you can't only blame lack of sexual satisfaction in a relationship on small dicks. These men are probably incompetent overall but love to justify by blaming it on women. Out of all the things women are looking for in a relationship, I assure you your dick size is way way down on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:51 PM
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I mean ok but for your dick to feel good inside her, she needs to be wet first. Most guys wouldn't be able to do that. Besides many women do not orgasm with penetration. They just do it to boost the man's ego or to reproduce. Trust me. Most alpha's with big dicks have to give her oral else she won't enjoy sex or orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:13 PM
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Not really. The final outcome women are looking from sex are to orgasm. Do you think a woman will be mad if a man makes her orgasm through oral, foreplay or fingering?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:51 PM
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I'm a lesbian and I have made a woman cum every single time I've had sex. Men complaining that their dick is small and therefore they can't satisfy a woman is just about the most ridiculous excuse. If anything, it's just a way to cope with their overall sexual incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:03 PM
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Sure but it takes immense will power to create those habits. It's not a default human state especially with the world of convenience/comfort we live in nowadays. You did it, congrats but my point still holds. It's hard for the overwhelming majority to do it on their own without any external intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:01 PM
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But people eat too much food with carbs. It's not easy to let that go, it's akin to alcohol/drug addiction. But back to your point it's really hard to be in shape, eat well, sleep well etc. If it was easy everyone would have done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:56 PM
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It's difficult because carbs and food with added sugar are highly addictive. It's really difficult to stop eating that completely because the body craves it like crazy. Going to the gym is also hard because the human default is being lazy. If it were so easy don't you think many people would have done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:40 PM
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College campuses, workplace, clubs and bars, extended social groups. Lots of average/below average men I know have gotten into relationships through these mediums. These men are good and kind people and are not brainwashed by the manosphere into thinking that women are some sort of evil people that only sleep with chads while beta buxxing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:31 PM
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Can you actually logically refute my argument instead of comparing me to fucking homeless people? (Which btw are also overwhelming men who have tried to attack me). They are the reason women still fear to walk outside at night. It doesn't matter if weak men like you exist. Feminist utopia is not having to worry about male violence. It's about respecting female for their contributions to humanity but thank you for your sarcasm. I love how men deliberately misinterpreted the original goals of femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:36 PM
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As long as men are overwhelmingly the perpetrators of violence against women, we live in a patriarchy. Sure 1% of women became CEOs, doesn't mean other women don't suffer at the hands of men everyday. It's just in a different way than it was 60 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:03 AM
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It doesn't exist for you because you're the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:52 PM
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That's because they're YOUR mother and sisters. Women treat men they are related to very differently (mostly lovingly)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:53 AM
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I don't think fashion makes a difference. I've seen attractive people who have no fashion sex have sexual success and I have seen a lot more unattractive people dress really well yet struggle. The key isn't fashion, it's hotness/attractiveness. Fashion can only make you a little better/presentable. Not saying it isn't worth a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:43 PM
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I blame nobody but the men that get into relationships like this because they think with their dicks. This is why you sign a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:50 PM
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It is indeed!! All the betas would be long dead if it weren't for modern societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:53 PM
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I think most men do understand your argument. The thing is like you said, the sexual urges, they overpower rational thinking in them. It's easier for women to stay single and go their own way since most don't have high sex drives. I really do feel bad for men who aren't able to overcome the only part of themselves that can set them free from women. In the past, attractive and strong men simply married multiple women. Marriage and monogamy was created by religion. If anything, that gave average/u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:07 PM
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How can we move forward when men here keep going in circles? They need to accept that they're never going to get the hot women. The below average/ ugly women are invisible to them. Men won't admit it but their standards are sky high. Their definition of an average woman is not based in reality. They aren't attracted to average/below average women despite them being basically the same. Looks like most ugly people would rather stay single than get with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:08 PM
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The problem with this is that there are still the same number of men and women. If you are an ugly man there is no chance you are getting a really hot woman (only very exceptional cases or you have to be filthy rich). It doesn't matter if she fits your sex dream, the top 20% women are going to marry the top 20% men. A man who isn't in the top 50% can keep dreaming and be happy with it. No amount of self improvement can change genetics. People are attracted to what they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:04 PM
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Don't pick up their bill? Make sure that the father does. Instead of hiding behind a screen and complaining, maybe do something about it if it bothers you so much. This is the problem with men today. Whine, whine, whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:07 PM
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Do you think dating apps are the only reason these men aren't getting sex? Trust me even 20 years ago they weren't getting sex. Don't you think maybe the fault lies in men. Most men are obese, balding, watch porn, play video games, don't make enough money to sustain himself, let alone dressing up nice and taking women on dates. Why do these men deserve sex? A lot of women have made it clear they'd rather be alone than with this kind of man. The entitlement of the men on this sub is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:03 PM
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And what about porn/video games. Do you think online dating is the reason only most men don't get sex? Men are becoming increasingly obese, not making enough money to sustain themselves, let alone an entire family. Why do these shitty men deserve sex anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:00 PM
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No woman is that delusional. The reality is she's just fed up with putting up with a loser. Most women who get divorced end up single. A huge majority of women know this and they still do it. If anything, it's a reflection of how men don't have a clue about how to maintain relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:39 PM
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Give me one reason why the bottom 80% men should be getting sex like the top 20? If you want sex, get in the top 20%. If you lost the genetic lottery, accept that and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:37 PM
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Exactly. Men here have no game or no personality. They only love to blame it on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:35 PM
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I don't disagree with you. My point is that if men here had a decent personality they would find at least one woman interested in them (not a mail order bride or single mother). They're just delusional, they think hot women are average. They don't want ugly/overweight women despite them being ugly and overweight themselves. That's what I'm pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:34 PM
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Average men are getting laid. Just because you aren't doesn't mean everyone else isn't. This sub is an echo chamber. I've seen really ugly dudes get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:31 PM
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So what's your point? Men here are literal incels. Only the bottom 20% men have a hard time getting laid. Everyone else can get sex even if that means with one woman. The conversation is about sex not maintaining a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:30 PM
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Dude if 21% of men under 29 are fathers there are at least double the amount of men getting sex. that's my point. Most men don't want to settle before 30. If you look at the data by the age of 49 almost 80% men are fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:28 PM
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All men don't deserve to have children. And nothing you say can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:25 PM
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There is no way of knowing all those women have settled. It's more likely that most couples met organically, really liked each other, got married but later on the novelty faded or one person changed which is why most people get divorced. It's not some conspiracy that women sleep around in their 20s then trap a man and have kids and then get divorced. That's a very small minority. Most women don't do that. If it weren't for the way men behave I'm pretty sure most women wouldn't want to get a divo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:01 AM
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Do people here even open the article and look at the data? This is 2019 data and the data is for men from 15-49 not old men who fought in world war 2. This is for men who have minor children. I honestly give up with this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:41 AM
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Give me one reason why young men should be getting sex? No one owes you anything. It's like getting angry that someone won't gift me an expensive car just because I have an intense desire to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:37 AM
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That they're probably in the bottom 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:35 AM
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Look at the data dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:22 AM
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That's a small minority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:56 PM
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You can maybe at least open the article. You will quickly find out the % of fathers below 40. This whole thread has convinced me, men here don't want to look at facts because then they'll have to face reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:45 PM
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If he has children at 40 probably means that he is married and has had sex 100s of times with his wife. Men here are just mad they can't have sex with a different woman everyday. You aren't chads, just accept that. Find one woman and settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:42 PM
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Also it's even higher for other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:34 PM
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There is a chart that is broken down by age and race. 63.3% of white men below 40 are fathers. But you're welcome to keep living in your delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:34 PM
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Do you think men are really stupid enough to not know the child is their own? Especially over a given period of time. I think it becomes super apparent by how the child looks. Also there's paternity testing these days so the chances of this happening are far less than say 200 years back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:26 PM
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It's broken down by age and race in the article. In the age group of 40-49 almost 80% men have biological children. The overall figure is 61%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:04 PM
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Did you even read the article? It's clear in the first paragraph it's for biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:59 PM
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It debunks the fact that only 20% men are running around impregnating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:52 PM
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It's just the truth. Sorry you feel hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:12 AM
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You're getting exactly what's in your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:20 PM
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Most women don't need a man to survive, that's why they have jobs of their own (except a few). These days women want men who can help them thrive, who can take financial responsibility when she's pregnant with his children. Men will never understand what a woman goes through at childbirth, she might even die. If you cannot take care of her financially, maybe you don't deserve a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:34 PM
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Men really don't understand what women go through do they? You know that beauty and looks fade right? A woman having an education/personality is extremely important for long term survival because once she's 40 and the man who married her for her looks leaves her, what is she supposed to do? The problem with men is that you think with your dicks too much. Women's instinct is to survive for as long as possible and if history has proven anything, it's that men cannot be relied upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:59 AM
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Anti-social Chads get girlfriends because they look good. My advice is for average to below average guys who aren't doing well on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:10 AM
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It's still largely dominated by men. I would say somewhere around 80/20. So most guys aren't going to find a woman at their software engineering job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:46 PM
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So basically beta buxx. I thought men were trying to avoid that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:39 PM
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I think a good way to assess this is observing the guys who are in relationships and where they met their girlfriends. In my experience, 90% of the guys I know met their girlfriends in college (and these are average guys btw). After college, it does become significantly harder to organically meet someone. The best thing to do is keep in touch with friends and make sure to visit them every so often. If you know even one guy who has a girlfriend, try being friends with the guy and when his girlfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:31 PM
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Yes some women intentionally manipulate men just like some men intentionally manipulate women. When will people in this sub learn that not everything is absolute. Just try to recognize manipulative people and avoid them. Is it so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:44 PM
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I have always said this. High quality women would never marry Chads, virgin women would never marry Chad. Those "bad boys" mostly stay single all their life or marry a woman with a high count. No Chad is marrying a virgin. So this notion that RP men have that they can sleep with all the women they like and then marry a virgin is delusional af.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:18 PM
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I mean a woman's confidence regarding her personality or something would be destroyed if a guy decides, she isn't worth a relationship. It goes both ways just about different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:47 PM
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I mean obviously women aren't going to say that they didn't orgasm, that could open up a really weird conversation which women will try to avoid like men won't tell a woman the real reason. People just don't like to tell the truth but in a way that is to protect themselves and other people. Imagine if people told each other the literal truth, we wouldn't be able to carry on with our lives. The best way is to figure it out on our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:46 PM
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Not true, a woman that wants a relationship with a man will make him wait and many women know that a man would pump and dump which is why you see women withholding sex because they want to make sure a guy is in for her not for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:26 PM
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Yes but in a scenario where the woman ghosts/leaves because the man wasn't good in bed is a gotcha because it would destroy a man's confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:24 PM
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Men are statistically more often the victim of violent crimes than women. That's not a woman's problem. When 50% of perpetrators of violent crime against men are women then we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:05 AM
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Sorry for the harsh reply. I'm just pissed because I've had guys come up to me asking if I would like to try dick. Perhaps because I'm more feminine looking. But if you observe the behaviour of women who "claim to be lesbians" and "actual lesbians" around men you'd be able to quickly tell the former are not lesbians. Take it from me, for the most part lesbians avoid speaking to men as much as they can unless it's family, work or long time male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:44 PM
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I'm a 25yo lesbian. Never slept with a man never will. I'm not going to turn "bisexual". The "lesbians" you're talking about probably were never lesbian in the first place. They either hated men or had some traumatic experience in the past until they met the right man. I've never heard of a lesbian who's known she's a lesbian from a young age ever turn "bisexual". I'm sick of men thinking like this. Like lesbians are <1% of women. Just leave us alone, god damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:32 PM
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My strategy is that if she isn't ready to meet up after a week, I unmatch and move on because women are super flaky. I agree with men in that the juice is not worth the squeeze. If she likes you, she'll put in the effort. I've seen girls do it for the guys they genuinely like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:37 PM
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Because gay men are men at the end of the day and both are horny. When there's 2 women it's much harder. The experience of a lesbian is combination of what both men and women experience. I get many many matches but they rarely want to meet (90% of the time it's because they're straight) or it's difficult to find someone who you have that chemistry with. If I look really hard maybe I can find a relationship but getting casual sex is like pulling teeth. You'd be surprised how many women back off w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:04 AM
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We experience the same thing but for different reasons. In my experience, most women are not willing to meet up because they're actually either straight or mentally ill however for men, the reason is usually a safety thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:35 AM
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I'm a lesbian. I've had a couple of partners. I would say to some extent I understand where men are coming from but it's 100x harder to get laid as a lesbian since the pool is too small and most women on online dating have no intentions of ever meeting up. Most have no idea how to talk to a woman in a romantic way. Now, I only date lesbians or bi women who have been with women before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:55 PM
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You can choose not to fight. But if enough men do that, whatever foreign force invades will win because you weren't on the front lines and then they'll kill you anyway. Men can never escape war. Women can't either because they'll be killed or raped also.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:35 AM
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Bingo. So almost all men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:17 PM
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And I'm guessing the men are brave soldiers who're willing to go to the front line? Are you kidding me? Most men would run for their life or submit to whoever the new dictator is. Most men don't have the balls to fight but still want to be treated as "alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:00 PM
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Financial stability, companionship. Whether people like to believe it or not everyone is afraid of being alone so they settle for someone they aren't attracted to viscerally but if they get along well with someone that's enough reason for many people to be in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:33 PM
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Whichever the case, men want to have sex with these women but women don't. This point has been discussed ad nauseam yet people keep asking the same question. Like you said, the reality is pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:22 PM
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Because average women are way hotter than average men and men have higher sex drives. If they had the sex drives of women, they wouldn't be attracted to average women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:43 PM
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These are all exceptions to the rule. Also all those men are super hot and play soccer, they ARE chads. The average man on this sub that dreams of becoming rich and getting a super model is laughable. They can keep dreaming, it's never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:11 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:14 PM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:15 PM
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Exactly and it's far more likely that a rich woman has the money to keep herself looking hot compared to a Denny's waitress who probably has no class/discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:14 PM
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And what if she decides to divorce you somewhere down the line? Then will you join the club of whiny men and complain that your wife took your money? Because it doesn't matter how much she makes right? Such shortsightedness is how men get shredded to pieces when they get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:10 PM
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Everyone's going to fuck everyone on the side. That's how rich people's marriages are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:03 PM
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If men like young hot women, women like young hot men too. She'll fuck him on the side. You think only men can do that eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:08 AM
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You really don't know how rich people think do you? He would fuck her but never bring her into his social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:04 AM
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Six figures is not rich but ok. Also I'm not sure you made a very smart decision but if that is what makes you feel good who am I say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:35 AM
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If a woman is rich, being with a poor man is just embarrassing in her social circle. Not because she needs a man to fund her lifestyle. It's not about money it's about class. Men don't realize this until that poor hot waitress embarrasses him in front of his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:32 AM
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Out of those 4500 people, how many married poor waitresses?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:30 AM
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And the broke women are something beyond material? In fact, it's more likely that a woman from your own social class values discipline and hard work and is probably far more intelligent. It's far more likely that a poor woman would use a rich man than a rich woman doing it. She already has a lot of money so that's not something she values anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:29 AM
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Can you give me one example of a CEO marrying a barista?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:06 PM
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You say this because you're not really rich. Most rich men would be embarrassed to introduce a McDonald's cashier or whatever into their social group. They might keep them as a side piece but would most definitely not marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:52 PM
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How does that counter my point? She's taking from him not adding to his wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:53 PM
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That's because we're talking about jeff bezos. I'm talking about the men here who think they're hot shit if they make 500k and talk about marrying broke women. Oh boy who's going to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:51 PM
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He probably recently became a millionaire and no offense but that wealth won't last long and even if it does it most definitely won't grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:49 PM
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He still lost a significant chunk. There's no shortage of rich hot women. Even today barring a few rich lonely old men, most rich men marry within their social class. We just don't see or hear about them much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:48 PM
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Yes she will because marriage is the biggest investment a man will make and if he marries a poor woman, poof it's gone within a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:41 PM
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And those same old and 500mil men watch their wealth vanish in no time. I'm talking about families that have generational wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:39 PM
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Then you must have watched those men lose their money in a generation also? Truly rich people don't marry poor people. Only the nouveau riche do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:37 PM
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I'm talking about the likes of Warren Buffet, Bill gates, Jeff Bezos. They invested in smart women. If they were anything like the guys here they wouldn't be where they were. Smart men invest in smart women. Smart women help you build wealth instead of draining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:30 PM
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No wonder Trump is bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:28 PM
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Yeah sure and I'm a millionaire and I'm married to multimillionaire and I get to access his money while I vacation with my hot young boyfriend and fuck him. I'm pretty sure I offer some money to 20yo women they'd never fuck you. I feel sorry that you need money to pull 20yo women. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:12 PM
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I'm not worrying at all but you have a lot to worry about dude. If you're willing to be with a woman who has zero self respect or worse a woman who'll divorce rape you, that's your choice. Also keep living in your dreamland. You think you'll fuck 20 year olds when you're in your 40s? You're hilarious. Would love to see how you pull that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:51 PM
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Because of thinking like this, men like you will always stay in poverty. The 22 yo you got is going to be 40 one day. So she will become a "liability" because she's neither hot anymore nor makes any money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:01 PM
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So? Those aren't the majority. Most women looking for a relationship would reject a high n count guy. So basically that kind of guy is left with choosing between undesirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:21 PM
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Well you said not one woman has turned away a guy like that. I know many who have. In fact, a majority would turn away a guy like that if she's looking for a relationship. No woman wants to be with a man who might cheat on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:19 PM
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Exactly this. Men here love thinking that they're the one's gatekeeping relationships. If anyone is, only high value men are gatekeeping relationships and even then the high value women are gatekeeping relationships with high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:15 PM
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I and a lot of my friends have rejected high n count men. Virgin women would never sleep with that kind of man. Only women with no self respect or women looking for casual sex would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:30 PM
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Doesn't work like that or else nerdy software developers would land the hottest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:11 PM
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You know that reason goes out the window when it comes to sexual attraction right? We don't choose who we're attracted to. Nothing is unreasonable when it comes to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:27 AM
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No difference between you and the notepad next to you really. I probably have to spell it out for you. By the government, I mean the people in it. They don't sit on Reddit like you all day. The laws aren't made out of thin air. Maybe take a civics class.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:13 AM
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I don't understand why ugly men feel like fighting in a war means they are valuable. You're put on the front lines precisely because you're not valuable. That's just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:11 AM
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Good then, men can go and fight someone else's war. Women will rebuild society eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:09 AM
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Even if Becky's children are ugly and can find no girl I don't care, at least she has children. Women hold the power when it comes to carrying on the species. The population is always constrained by how many women there are. Men on the other hand are dispensable, so women are already winning. Whether women find a partner or not doesn't matter, at least she'll have children. But men will die alone. Given a choice women would rather be single mothers than single all their life. And we already see …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:04 AM
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I'm talking about and to the men here though. I'm well aware that most guys out there are bp.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:04 PM
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Even liberal SJW men and women have children so I'm not sure what you mean. I've seen many. The reason they won't die off is because their expectations aren't high at all. Majority of the men on this sub however will die off though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:58 PM
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Men don't choose, they have to fight and get injured to prove themselves alpha. I wouldn't really call that choosing LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:37 PM
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Depends on the man though. An incel can make a demand but nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:32 PM
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Women demand because they can. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:29 PM
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That's not as common though. And a girl like that surely won't marry an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:18 PM
5

Well males take care of that for the females. You think chimps and gorrilla females are monogamous and fucking one male gorilla for all their life? They fuck the one on top. And during their lifetime, they fuck many because males don't stay at the top for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:16 PM
-4

Women have always been free to make a choice until monsters that are human men subjugated them for thousands of years through monogamy but alas we triumphed. You think you're smarter than the government eh? In most mammals, females of the species aren't monogamous, they fuck multiple males, whoever is on top. Maybe go take a science class yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:08 PM
1

Love when men say 0. Nothing screams insecurity more than this. Nothing. I have seen so many successful marriages that have nothing to do with n count of the woman. You'll just die alone if your expectations are this high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:57 PM
1

You're right. Every single man in his 40s is a senior manager/director. Literally 1000s of men on this sub are desperate to even get laid. They're not single by choice LOL. Every single woman except a few of course is single by choice but go on. I love seeing your insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:55 PM
0

It worked for a while but it eventually collapsed and for a reason. Sure we can force average women to hook up with average men and it might work for sometime but do you think that will be a future most people want to live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:18 AM
2

Who do you think creates that food? I'm not sure you've learnt to think through problems like these. It's a feedback loop. Men create the food that they consume, men create the energy that they consume to keep themselves warm, men create the drugs that they use. Sure the society will collapse if these men stop working but it won't take a moment for the rich to do away with such men you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:16 AM
1

Yeah men need marriage. Married men have a higher income and better social support than unmarried men. And no not a divorce lawyer 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:12 AM
1

No the data shows that it decreases. It drops significantly past 35 which is why you see dead bedrooms. Besides, if she has kids it's going way way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:57 PM
2

Sure an average man in his 40's is a cool bachelor able to pull women left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:25 PM
2

I would imagine the men who stopped working will eventually starve and die. It's not the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:56 AM
0

I mean there are hoes and there are women who go through a hoe phase. I'm talking about the later. Those are usually fine, settle down and have kids while men their age are discussing ncounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:38 AM
2

And yet men want to marry women who make less than them because they're insecure little fucks but then whine and moan when she divorce rapes him? I have no sympathy for such men. I would gladly watch their lives fall apart because "men don't care about a woman's career" Am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:30 AM
-1

So you'd rather she fucked her ex 100 times and probably had an emotional connection with him than a woman who's had casual sex? A girl with an ncount of 1 can be more emotionally damaged than a woman who has casual sex on her own terms but seems like men don't get that. I feel sorry for people who only obsess over ncount. My friend who's in medical school has fucked over 20 guys and she has a boyfriend and a bright career ahead of her. And her boyfriend knows this but he's secure and doesn't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:27 AM
12

No man here will admit this but we all know that you'd rather pay child support than look after your kids. Stop whining about helping out your poor little kids and buy them something nice. Jeez. If you don't want to pay child support, look after your kids. You can't have your cake and eat it too. They're literally your offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:20 AM
9

Exactly. Men don't want to take care of their children and neither do they want to pay child support. Fucking deadbeats. They shouldn't have been allowed to reproduce in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:11 AM
5

They literally were. Hence, the sexual revolution and guess what a lot of men were part of that too. Do you think all the casual sex culture just came out of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:56 AM
6

Tell yourself that. Most women drive the marriage market as well. So many single men in their 30s are desperate to get married. Women want marriage but men need marriage. No one respects a single guy in his 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:50 AM
7

I'm sure when people were not having casual sex everyone was way more happier. Like the people in the 1800s and 1900s, they were so happy that they were like let's protest and riot!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:44 AM
1

Very few people actually want anyone for who they are. It's about what you bring to the table. You think women want Chads for who they are. No, they want them because they're good looking, probably have some family money, gives her social status and so on and so forth. You think a woman is interested in what Chad is and what he REALLY likes? No. People are going to have their preferences and so many of those are unfair but unfortunately it can't be changed. Just look at what men prefer in the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:10 AM
1

I mean it's natural for people to believe something that comes from someone who has the credentials, is well respected and has gone through fucking medical school. Do you think she should just take your order or believe what you're saying? I'm pretty sure she would have dismissed it if it came from a woman instead of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:55 AM
5

The only way a 22yo normal girl would date a 32yo guy is if she wants to get married or he's attractive. Other than that, either he's manipulating her somehow or she's unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:27 AM
6

Sure if you say so. I was in a large university for grad school. And no woman I knew was dating a man 10 years older than her. Only mentally unstable, gullible women fall for that and that too only if the 32 yo guy is physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:57 AM
1

It seems like when you say men you're talking about yourself. You might be an exception. Most men have zero clue how to talk to women or what they like. They take zero effort, let themselves go in relationships and become fat or whatever and wonder why the wife doesn't want to fuck them. You think just because women spend the rest of their lives with men, men understand them? I can't even begin to tell you how many men don't understand their wives even after 30 years of marriage. Women lie to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:51 AM
4

LOL a month? that's just hooking up with additional steps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:34 AM
-2

Men only care about women's careers when they take half of their money LOL. The stupidest thing an average man can do is not care about a woman's career. Also these stupid men don't sign prenups and then cry about getting divorced raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:33 AM
-5

Many Chads put zero effort into getting girls so if you're a guy who has to put a lot of effort I respect you for it but also feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:13 AM
5

If she's been in a relationship with 8 guys, you have a lot more to worry about bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:10 AM
1

Do you think it's possible to socialize into someone what that person finds attractive? Even if it does, it's not significant. What someone finds attractive is hardwired. I was socialized to be straight yet I'm a lesbian. Women shouldn't lower their standards , men should be better. More men should be encouraged to be fit and look after themselves physically just as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:08 AM
0

It's not that her sleeping around is an issue but if it's affecting other aspects of her life negatively then it is. A 30 yo woman should be mature enough to understand the risks that comes with having lots of sex and how men view her especially if it's casual sex. So many men treat women they have casual sex with like shit. If she does it on her terms without losing self respect then it's fine. But if she does it for validation and deep seated insecurity I'd say that's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:03 AM
0

Women are still learning in their 20s, you can't expect them to make super mature decisions. But eventually a lot of them do genuinely realize that they had been fooled to believe by whatever ideology that having casual sex will liberate or empower them and then they make a conscious decision to settle into a relationship. I don't get why they're blamed for that. If anything, we should blame the people who brainwash them into believing things like this and it's overwhelming other men. I have nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:58 AM
0

Evolution also favours Alpha males but seems like males here have a problem with it. Or should we only talk about evolution when it benefits male instincts. What about female instincts? Females will always desire handsome, strong men. No amount of whining and discussion will change that. It's natural. So yes I agree with RP that males should work to become better. But most men just pretend to be RP to hate on women's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:44 AM
2

You can't control that. Men here go on and on about evolution but when it doesn't benefit them suddenly women shouldn't hook up or hook up with average guys. It's nature, you can't decide that so and so should happen. It is what it is. The strongest and most powerful men will pass on their genes. It's always been that way and women will ALWAYS be that way no matter how much people try to come up with solutions like average women should sleep with average men. It was already done for centuries an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:40 AM
0

I get it from an evolutionary perspective but do you think female mammals of other species don't have sex with other males? It's just that the stronger male kill the weaker males so females have less of a choice. If this sub was overwhelmed by women, most would also say they wouldn't want a man with a high n count but the reason is not that it disgusts them like it does men but from an evolutionary point of view, there is a huge burden on females to carry and raise offspring and females are wire…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:37 AM
1

And women can't maintain friendships? LOL. Most men here don't have a single friend. It's only thanks to women that whatever relationships work work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:14 AM
1

Okay a straight man telling me what I know and don't. I have to work my ass off and make a decent earning because no fucking man is there to support me nor do I want one. We go through the same struggles as men do. In fact, it's even worse because most women want to be with a man because of rampant homophobia which makes life for women like me difficult but go on and tell me what women think. I have been with women in locker rooms and I know what they talk about, what they like in bed and what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:12 AM
1

Well no shit 99% of women are straight or bisexual. So whatever women I've slept with multiply that by 10 and I technically have a higher n count than you. And yes I'm a lesbian so I have to put effort. I'm a woman and I sleep with women. Trust me I know what women like and it's not your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:16 AM
0

Do you think women are that stupid? Do you know how much planning goes into even a one night stand from a woman's perspective. Every single woman is aware of the risks that come with it - pregnancy, STD/STI. And believe it or not the vast majority of women come out fine and go on to marry and have children. I've spoken to older women who were "hoes" in their early 20s and most are happy and none of them regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:56 PM
2

Then we don't give a fuck whether YOU think it's good or bad. It is what it is. I'm asking you to accept reality because let's be honest most men here don't have the option to reject women based on high n count. I'm pretty sure 90% men won't mind if they come across such a woman IRL and she is interested in him. Men think they have the power when it comes to this but they don't. They really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:52 PM
2

Well then maybe the millions of women who had an n higher than 3 and yet managed to marry, give birth and maintain their marriage for over 30 years are all in my imagination. Thanks for letting me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:49 PM
1

Maybe your definition of slut and mine is different. For me a slut is someone who sleeps with 20 different guys in 1 year. If she's had 3 night stands in 5 years she's not a slut to me. But I would steer clear of the 5 relationships woman. I have been with a girl who was in a relationship with 3 guys and 2 girls before and god did that relationship blow up. Those girls tend to be narcissistic and controlling. I have dated a few girls who have had casual sex and although they weren't perfect beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:46 PM
4

Cool then I guess me making good money is a good thing then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:41 PM
2

The trade-off is good looks + high n count or ugly + low n count. But guys don't want to fuck ugly women now do they? even if they look like shit themselves. You have no idea how entitled the men here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:40 PM
1

Sure that's for average people. Not for the hot 21 year old stacy that guys want so bad. They won't have an n count of 4. And even if they do, it'll be with men that guys here can only dream of becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:37 PM
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I mean the major problem guys here have is they don't want a woman after they've had success in their careers because she didn't want him when he was 22. On the other hand, 22 yo women still don't want to get with an average 32yo guy even if he has some extra money. She'd rather fuck a guy her age and guys here keep saying they want the 21-22 year old girls and not the post wall 30yo woman so I was just referring to those men, they need to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:35 PM
-3

He'll care when I divorce rape him. Mwahahahhah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:23 PM
1

How is a girl who has had 5 relationships, a good girlfriend? You're losing me with every reply but I get it, you'd say anything to defend your point that girls who are in back to back relationships are better than a girl who has occasional one night stands. Great. And maybe you'll be her 6th relationship until she seduces another guy into a 7th relationship. It's just as likely as a ONS girl cheating on you. Hell even a virgin girl can move on to a second man after you. Oh but I forgot that men…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:22 PM
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Exactly this. This is what I've observed in IRL relationships. The men here will call those guys beta or whatever but guess what the beta men have money a wife and children while the men here are bitter and lonely. Women are the ones who drive the sexual market. Men have to adapt or die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:05 PM
1

Males are nothing but shortsighted. Women play the long game and that's what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:59 PM
1

That's exactly why males can't get laid LOL. Also I'm a lesbian. I just don't bring it up in this sub because it doesn't make sense. I know a thing or 2 about dating women. Go ahead and get with the girl who had FIVE ex boyfriends and then drown in tears when she cheats on you with one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:58 PM
3

I'm probably the only single lesbian lurking on this sub. It's fun because despite having a pool 100 times smaller than straight men I have had sex with more women than 80% of the guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:25 PM
0

I don't think you understand how probability works. If all other factors are constant then sure but it's not the case. Her age is going up and looks for the most part down, you think women in their 30s sleep around like women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:19 PM
1

Depending on what kind of man you are and what women you can pull, you could have a beautiful wife and children or you'll be alone and unable to pass down your genes. If you're okay with that then I respect your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:13 PM
-1

What if she sees you as a serious prospect for marriage and there seems to be mutual attraction and you like similar things? What if she was waiting for a guy like you because she thought most guys she slept with weren't worth more than a ONS. Wouldn't you be honoured? I don't understand male logic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:07 PM
1

Also sex within a relationship is much more intimate and you never know if she has feelings for her ex. If I were a guy I would rather be with girl who has had a few ONS than that many boyfriends. But I guess male logic is not logical after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:04 PM
0

Wow I would think the exact opposite. A girl who has had 3 one night stands seems like someone who knows what she's doing depending on other character traits. A woman who has had 5 boyfriends just seems overly clingy and dependent on a guy for validation. Have you ever met the kind of girl who is never single? No one wants to be around her. But I guess for guys a girl who has been broken up by 5 guys is more valuable than a girl who made her own decision to sleep with 3 guys for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:02 PM
5

You know what you having a count of 50 tells women? Not that you have skill, charisma or whatever. It tells them that you are likely to cheat and that you spent most of your time trying to get women which means you haven't invested in your career that much which means you aren't as financially stable. Now I'm not making any assumptions about you in particular. But if women had to make a decision based on that one data point that's what it would be. Idk why men think having a high n count makes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:59 PM
0

Are you telling me to settle down with an average man who doesn't care about my n-count? Those figures in my post are hypothetical not my n-count lol. Besides I know I can land a HVM even if my n count was that high because I know what it is that guys like to talk about. I work in a male dominated profession. Also I make an above average salary that is more than half the men here make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:51 PM
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That's what I think too. It's possible for a woman to have a high n count but then get her shit together with her career and being a decent person who is marriage material. The correlation between high n count and wife material is weak because a woman who was sleeping around in her college days isn't going to do that anymore. I have seen countless women who think like this and I perceive that as a good thing. If a woman is still sleeping around at 30 then there's deeper issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:46 PM
0

My point is why is it so wrong for a young naive 19 year old to have casual sex. She isn't mature enough to understand the implications of that in her future. But once she's 25 she realizes her mistakes and takes action to find a man to settle with and has therefore become relationship minded. Are women not allowed to make mistakes and learn from them? Why is it so hard for guys to understand this. It's not like women are deliberately doing this. In their younger years they gravitate to what's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:41 PM
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Then most men here are walking red flags because there are tons of men here in their 30s who haven't been in a relationship yet. But it's okay for men eh? Women shouldn't have fun but if men do it's alright. I'm done with this bullshit. Also what if she was focusing on her career. I have a friend, she's almost 27 and has fucked quite a few guys (not 20) but hasn't been in a relationship because she's studying for med school and believe it or not guys weigh career oriented women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:34 PM
9

Dude, the average is low because most people are ugly. Guys want stacy level looks but also the girl has to be a virgin. That girl is very very rare and you ain't getting her. She's already married to a guy who is way more successful than the average man. Sure you can find a virgin girl. It's just that she's 200 pounds and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:20 PM
2

In my opinion, if someone is actually broken or undateable you don't really need to know their n-count. It's very apparent from their behaviour. It's also possible that women who have high n counts are smart, have great careers and aren't broken. Is it not? I literally know women who have careers as doctors, lawyers, engineers who have high n counts. I think it's a poor metric to judge someone's mental stability. I also know virgin women who are obsessive, insecure and have very high expectation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:16 PM
1

Do you think it's possible for a man to be having casual sex in his 20s and then become relationship minded in his 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:10 PM
2

I never said that women go to college to whore around. They naturally meet guys there and are young so it's possible that they'll have sexual encounters. Okay so having sex twice a year is whoring around? Got it. If you had the opportunity to do so you would fucking do it too. So yes you are insecure and no it's not a buzzword. Also I understand statistics just fine. I'm literally an analyst. I'm not sure what you're trying to prove by those statistics though. Okay so 15% women are virgins but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:09 PM
0

The only way a man can earn respect in a woman's eyes is by being confident in his abilities to please her, making enough money and being a good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:01 PM
12

A woman with a high n count wouldn't lose respect for a male that's okay with her having a high n count. How does that make any sense? It's literally a best case scenario for her because most men wouldn't be okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:59 PM
4

If you expect a woman to have a low n count you shouldn't complain that you can't get hook ups/casual sex in your early 20s. Period. If 90% of men want hook ups then women's n count has to go up because how else would you have casual sex? The math doesn't add up. Otherwise we'll have to go to the old days where 1000 men fuck 2 prostitutes which isn't going to happen. It's hypocritical as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:56 PM
8

How would you ever get a hook up if you expect a girl to have a low count? You know for men to have a high n count, the women's n count must go up too right? Else we'll have to put an end to hook up culture altogether which isn't going to happen because rich, handsome and successful men won't let that happen because why would they? You wouldn't want it to end if you were a "Chad". It's literally simple math. You can't have a girl who has a low n count if you expect casual sex in your early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:50 PM
6

How is 20 over 10 years time high at all? So women aren't supposed to have sex once in 6 months but guys want to hook up left and right? It doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:46 PM
-2

People will say what others want to hear or what will get them social acceptance. It's not what most people actually believe. If it were, then women would be ruling the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:20 PM
-2

Most men and women secretly think that women who sleep around are sluts even in the western world. The only difference in 2022 is no one says that out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:18 PM
-2

Who cares about mainstream media. Women are still shamed in the real world. Men on this sub are just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:49 PM
1

It shows you haven't been exposed to female engineers. Indians aren't like white people where only the ugly nerds become engineers. Attractive Indians become engineers too. We are after the money lol. You clearly don't work in tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:03 AM
1

Well it's apparent when I talk to them. They can't hold a conversation and are just very desperate. These are indian and chinese guys. What did you expect. They're artists or musicians? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:01 AM
3

Wow lmao. You haven't even seen me. Several guys have approached me on the streets and my OLD apps are filled with garbage men as well as "Chads". Your incelness is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:58 AM
2

They're too desperate and have zero personality outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:56 AM
2

I am an Indian female automation engineer. And yeah all the Indian and Chinese male scientists I work with are LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:40 PM
0

Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:36 PM
-1

No LVM are only good for manual labor. Leave the smart jobs to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:47 PM
1

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:36 PM
0

Then stop reading comments from women on FDS. Again, no one in the real world cares about a bunch of "hateful" stuff some weird women say online. It literally doesn't impact anyone's life. You just want things to be offended by. Get off your phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:21 AM
0

You're deliberately missing my point here but sure, whatever makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:03 AM
0

It doesn't matter if TRP is doing it or not. Men are killing, abusing and raping women in the real world. This is what FDS is pointing out. That doesn't make them misandrists. Misandry is a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:27 AM
1

No, their misandry isn't killing countless men everyday. It's just online but butthurt men would like to believe that it's equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:17 PM
1

And whose fault is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:32 PM
3

After the comments I have read from these men on this sub, blaming women constantly just because they can't get laid. I absolutely stand by my decision of calling them pathetic. The truth is harsh. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:47 PM
0

Women don't like aggressive men. Women like gentlemen who know what they are doing in the world but can confide their emotions in their girlfriend/wife. There's a difference between crying at the drop of a hat or being scared and truly opening up about emotions and at the same time quickly getting back on track once said emotions are unloaded. The key is balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:45 PM
2

I don't understand how 72% of all men getting sex is bad. Maybe women have just stopped having sex with the lowest tier men. Why are people acting like 28% not having sex is a high number? Also the 80/20 rule doesn't hold infact it's the opposite. Many many average men get sex. Men on this sub are just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:33 PM
2

The guys here just give excuses for their incompetence. I was not a confident person. I pretended to be confident and charming through practice and I got a girlfriend without any experience. That's how you get your first job too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:14 PM
4

But men shame those women? Men and women shame each other on different things. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:36 AM
2

Lol right. Anything that is slightly inconvenient to them is "being left behind" when data is clearly saying otherwise. Men are getting more sex than ever before, it's just not them so they're mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:38 AM
5

Jokes on you, I'm a lesbian who makes six figures and has a girlfriend because I worked hard instead of complaining on reddit😊 Even the Chadest of the Chads isn't worth shit to me. Enjoy fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:43 AM
-1

No society needs women, you know the sex that gives birth so our species doesn't go extinct. If all the whiny men would disappear, we would live in a much better world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:37 AM
0

But no you are so deep into redpill ideology that you don't actually want to do any research. No wonder your lazy ass can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:49 PM
1

Well statistically men still make more money than women. Don't give me the bullshit stats that women have more college degrees. If you have a little common sense, you'd know college degrees mean nothing especially if you have degrees in fields where there are no jobs. Go check on bureau of labor statistics website. Women's income has been going down. Men aren't being left behind, YOU are because YOU are incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:48 PM
-20

Society isn't leaving men behind, those men are just incompetent and low value. There tons and tons of successful men leading good lives. Men just feel entitled to everything because they're born a man. Get up compete with head held high and have some self respect. I'm tired of men whining same way I'm tired of entitled women whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:02 PM
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Actually he's right, western countries are looking for smart, skilled and hardworking immigrants. In India, they call this phenomenon "brain drain" because all the smart people immigrate to the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:28 PM
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"way more guys are having affairs than women are having affairs." It just straight up does not work like that. In fact, the opposite should be evident: more women have affairs and casual sex with the same group of guys" Well that's obvious, I'm saying the top 5% women aren't having as much sex as top 5% of guys. In the whole fucking game, it's the top 5% guys who are the winners. Yes lot of women are having sex with the same group of guys but one single woman is not getting all the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:16 AM
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Sex with random coworkers is literally not worth it when you take into account the consequences. This is not news, it's literally evolutionary biology. Only a very minority of women fuck around as do a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:54 AM
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I agree that STDs would affect men and women equally but "men have children" lol, the man doesn't have to go through the physical trauma of birthing a child and he might not even be in the picture if it were a hook up. Tons of men abandon women, have you even seen the rate of single unmarried mothers. Women aren't as stupid as some guys on here seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:53 AM
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What does that tell you though? Some critical thinking please? This person obviously meant the top 5% women are liked by 95% of guys, common sense. Also biologically it's highly risky for a woman to keep fucking multiple guys. Higher risk of getting pregnant, higher chance of catching an STD also the fact that women who sleep around are looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:30 AM
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When it comes to hard sciences, if someone is not competent enough there's no way she can be in the field. It would be catastrophic. The reason there are those women in the field is because they know what the fuck they're doing. I know brilliant women who absolutely deserve to be where they are. I'm sure your miserable at whatever you do which is why you are shitting on women you don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:40 AM
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Attraction is pretty binary, either you're attracted to someone or you're not. Most men are not attractive to women even if they are in the "middle". Only women can decide the attractiveness for men because they are the one's who will date them. Men don't get to decide that. So your "objective" measurement of attractiveness means shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:00 AM
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Also if they don't get him to commit at least they get good sex. Win win situation 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:29 AM
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They have sex with high value men because even if the chance is low of him actually marrying her(and a lot of women know that), it's still better than fucking gross guys who are desperate. That's a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:28 AM
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Yes they can and that's why human females have evolved to be extremely choosy about who they mate with. They cost is too high. But men think with the thing between their legs else it isn't that hard to understand why women behave in a certain way. Bottom 30% of men are never going to get the chance to mate, that's just how it us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:13 AM
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Sorry to break to you but if you can't date then you are being judged on who YOU are individually even if it's superficial. Nobody chose to be born whatever they are. Stop feeling sad for yourself and do something about it. I mean in general, lesbians are harassed for our sexuality and so many men are jealous that we're able to sleep with women despite not having a dick or being 6'. That tells you all you need to know. But no, keep crying about how Chad gets all the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:21 PM
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And you would be dead. Also women hunted and gathered too so no dude your fantasy is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:21 PM
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When men run on animals instincts you say "that's just how we are" or "boys will be boys" or "TesToStoRone" When women run on animal instincts she lack empathy. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:51 PM
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Take what you get or be single all your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:36 PM
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I'm 5'1" 120 pounds and get 100+ matches despite being a lesbian. Just say you have no game and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:34 PM
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No man. That's just nature. Alpha men killed other males for all of the history of humanity. We have twice the number of female ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:32 PM
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It's still going to be male heavy because even today there are only around 20% females in STEM. Most women drop out of these careers after college. Most will have children and will stop working. Only determined and focused women reach on top and that's always going to be less than 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:50 AM
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I guess I do have that advantage mainly because women don't see me as a threat and are more comfortable around me and I obviously know their body well since I'm a woman too. But 95% women are straight, if you can't find a single woman maybe the problem is not with the women. So many women are just looking for regular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:34 AM
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Everyone keeps saying but I just see men everywhere in high paying white collar jobs. If there isn't an incentive for women, they won't go into those fields. Go higher up in the hierarchy and you'll se more men. How are men lagging behind please explain it to me? Which fields? Government - male majority Media - I'd say 50/50 STEM - male majority Business - Male majority Restaurants/Small business owners - male majority These are just excuses by men who don't want to work hard and just cry about …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:21 AM
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Women do not dominate because they're driven out by patronizing, misogynistic men who will question our intelligence at every step. I don't think men understand what women in STEM careers go through. And contrary to what you think I'm still being evaluated equally against male peers because STEM fields are more unambiguous and if you cannot perform at your job as well you aren't just handed a promotion because you're a woman. I actually appreciate being treated purely on merit. I'm just upset th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:07 AM
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Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:41 AM
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I think that's a much healthier way to deal with it. Thank you for not spewing hate. Most men are short sighted and are only looking for temporary pleasures. Look at married men they aren't any happy either. The more you want something the more it'll move away from you. It's a simple truth most men don't seem to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:40 AM
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That's not how the real world works dude. I work in a serious stem field that has consequences in the real world. It's 2021, no one gets promoted by fucking their boss. But your sick brain wouldn't understand that because you're a big loser with no ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:27 AM
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First off, I'm a lesbian. Second I don't want to keep fucking random strangers when I'm 40. I want to make money and chill with margarita in hand. Also women lose sex drive at that age so I'm not sure they would be super upset about not getting laid especially if they did in their younger years. Lastly, my personality doesn't revolve around sex. I have dreams and things I want to do before I die. You can't make me feel bad because I'm not insecure like the men here 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:25 AM
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I admit that it's easier for lesbians to get women but if women mistrust men there is a good reason for that. The truth is we got to work with what we have. Other than dating, being a straight man is much easier than being a lesbian. We're bullied and harassed constantly. A lot of women will have sex with us but won't take us seriously for LTRs. There's upsides and downsides to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:10 AM
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Good news I'm lesbian I don't have a bf lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:11 AM
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You are looking at 2 extremes. This sub has extreme incel men and that sub has incel women (or women who can't bag HVM). It never goes well for people who are on either ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:10 AM
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You got to wait until you're older then, the tables turn and women are more desperate to settle. I know nature isn't fair but you got to work with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:04 AM
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My last advice to you would be invest with whatever you make even if it's not much and be proud of it. If a woman doesn't want that reject her. Don't lower your standards because women can smell desperation from miles away. I have a friend who is a doctor and she's dating an electrician. So it's not impossible as long as she respects you, you should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:01 AM
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I'm a lesbian so I don't want guys hitting on me but you can find a gender neutral hobby like hiking/book clubs if you like that sort of thing. Build friendships with women first and then ask them out. If they reject you after that also then I'd say that maybe you might not be as good looking. Also go for older women who aren't superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:56 AM
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Oh oops I thought you were a woman. Anyway, there are strong independent women who do go for guys that make less than them but obviously guys have an ego so they won't date a woman who makes more than them. They don't need your money, they need the intimacy and want to feel loved which they will never get from Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:53 AM
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A lot of people gave said this before but you can't let your worth be decided by how many matches you get on Tinder. Most average men who find girlfriends, find it through real life dating. And the first step is to make friends who might have female friends. The old way is the best way. It might take longer but it will yield better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:49 AM
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Way to go! I think men here only focus on the girls who go for Chads. In my experience, most women know what fuckboys are after and they won't give it to them. Only women with low self-esteem do that. And those are the women incels like to target because they know they can't argue with strong independent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:40 AM
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Validating sexuality doesn't mean shit. We're talking about actually romantic/sexual relationships. As a lesbian woman, no women are lined up for me. I treat women well, learn about their hobbies and passions, don't push for sex. I'm an average looking 5'1 woman, if I can get women any average guy should. I agree I have an advantage because I know how women think but women here have been saying for ages what they want from a guy and it still goes above their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:36 AM
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I don't think my post is narcissistic. I've shown enough empathy to these type of men. They don't deserve it. Until they work on themselves nobody owes them shit. If they need therapy they can seek it. Enough is enough with them victimizing themselves and then complain that women victimize themselves. The irony just goes over their heads. If you look at the big picture, males of most species don't get to procreate, it's the brutal truth. If they are "man enough" like they claim they should be ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:19 AM
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I know right. These men neither have brains nor looks. If it were a few 100 years back they wouldn't have even survived. I'm glad that they don't get to pass their pathetic genes. Harsh thing to say but it's true and they need to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:44 AM
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But on the other side, I hear straight women complaining that they give guys so many chances but they still fuck up. The problem with these men they want perfect women and only have sex on their minds. Women sense creeps in the first 5 minutes. Men won't settle for average women even if they're below average, they just say they're not attracted to them. So who's fault is it really? I'd argue no one's. Low quality men are alive today because of advancement. They wouldn't even have even survived a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:41 AM
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I'm a lesbian so I sympathize with men in some aspects. I know it's hard dating women but they just have zero empathy for women. Their world view is so warped because of social media. I know tons of average men who have girlfriends. So that's not even an excuse. Yes women go for top 10% but they do eventually end up with average men. Men here just love playing victims that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:34 AM
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I'm literally a lesbian, my pool is way smaller and I still get more women than these men. They just don't know how to treat women. End of story. I know men who aren't attractive and have landed hot girlfriends way out of their league (and no they aren't rich). The men here keep complaining and do nothing you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:31 AM
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I am woman so I know what women of every age think. They will overlook your height if you're a decent person. I know a guy who works as a electrician, doesn't make a ton of money but treats his girl like a queen. He's literally 5'6. Take my advice or leave it. Observe how men who aren't that good-looking/successful are able to get a girlfriend - they treat them well, have hobbies and passions and most of all, they do not complain. Be confident, women are just as desperate for a fulfilling relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:35 AM
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People on the internet say all kinds of things because they can without consequences which is why I suggest go out in the real world, learn how to respect and talk to women, be nice and charming and your height won't matter. Social media is very superficial. It's true many women would prefer 6'1 but they aren't going to get it so they will eventually lower their standards. Problem is you're probably watching women aged 18-24 who aren't mature enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:13 AM
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It's funny I've seen tons and tons and tons of women dating men shorter than 5'9. Stop complaining and bitching and go improve your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:02 AM
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But some men are trying to stop women from getting abortions. How do we solve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:47 PM
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I'm a woman in stem and managers and companies today still hire men more often because they think we're not good enough. Fuck off if you think we get free spots. We still have to give interviews, work, be evaluated and do everything that a guy has to. Nothing is handed free to anyone. You just sound like a pathetic guy who has lost touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:46 PM
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Dude, I'm a woman who is having an extremely difficult time getting promoted despite performing well. No manager is looking to fuck me. I'm being thoroughly evaluated on my skills. What fucking world do you live in? Women get nothing handed to them. We have to work harder than men to even get promoted. Your utter disregard for hardworking, genuine women who are passionate about their field is sick. Your whining sounds so pathetic and out of touch. Get off of your phone and go see how women are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:39 PM
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