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FDS HUMOREqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:21 AM
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FDS HUMOREqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:18 PM
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Eqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:15 PM
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Eqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:29 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:12 PM
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FDS HUMOREqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:29 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢Eqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:52 PM
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QUEEN SH*TEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:27 PM
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DISCUSSIONEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:14 PM
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FDS HUMOREqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:56 AM
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LIES MEN TELLEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:57 PM
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STRATEGYEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:44 AM
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STRATEGYEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:59 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:59 PM
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LIES MEN TELLEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:04 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqvvi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:06 PM
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Ah yes, "u" and "i" are so far apart on the keyboard, how could it possibly be a typo. It must be a spelling mistake, your mind is truly so keen, no mortal such as I could hope to rival it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/22 05:27 PM
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Sure you're the first person in human history to not be influenced by society. How exceptuonal you are, obviously everyone else is just silly sheep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/22 07:48 AM
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Damn without moderation this sub is literally letting incels post while pretending to be women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/22 10:26 PM
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I am not sure if that's arrogance or stupidity, or both, but believing that you aren't influenced by society at large is.... something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/22 10:23 PM
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True. If you think calling people autistic as an insult and then just calling it an "observation" is HV behavior, by all means, continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/22 05:51 AM
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I'm pretty sure autistic kids aren't the ones trying to flood this subreddit with child corn and violence, that make moderating the sub so difficult. You know it's HV behavior to acknowledge your mistakes when there are some and learn from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/22 08:40 AM
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I agree, but ooof... it mentions a forbidden topic.. probably going to get removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 07:18 PM
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It's a comedy skit. He's actually not like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:34 PM
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Completely agree. Very dissapointed to see women compared to expensive objects even if it's just to make a point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:28 AM
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Unless they are a NiceGuyTM in which case they are the furthest thing from kind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:30 PM
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It doesn't even make sense to test the prostituted people, but not the clients... It's like forcing doctors to touch infectios bodily fluids on the regular, but then claiming it's safe for everyone involved because you test the doctors every few months...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:24 AM
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Sadly, that would be pretty dangerous, considering the amount of stalkers we have on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:53 AM
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He's not HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 02:37 PM
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Happens to everyone XD np
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:02 PM
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She's saying that he's an animal, it's a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:17 PM
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Surprising to see you downvoted. Have sn upvote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:42 AM
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The mere existence of shitty male feminists doesn't somehow make pick mes immune to criticism. Yeah, obviously. I never said pickmes should be immune to criticism, why are you trying to turn my words into something they are not... honetly feels like a different sub. ​ Just because you agree with the overal message, doesn't make the means of delivering that message HV in anyway. Do you think trolls of reddit throwing misoginy at Maxwell are exhibiting HV behavior, just because Maxwell is objectiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:42 PM
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What a reach. No, they could have easily criticised male "feminists" who push that same rhetoric, but they chose to make fun of women who do that, because they know women are always easier targets and that would garner them more widespread support. Don't give me that bullshit that parodying and making fun of women is a HV trait because "they recognize them as human". Otherwise you'll have to acknowledge most NVM and LVM as HV, because most platforms are filled with those animals putting towels o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:27 PM
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A man making fun of women you dislike (even for valid reasons) does not become HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:07 PM
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Making fun of women, even pickmes doesn't make a man hv...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:44 PM
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Knowing the justice system it would only work against women who defended themselves. Life sentence would be enough for this waste of air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:45 PM
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And they are so brazen about it too! That animal brunel also mysteriously died while the cameras weren't working...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:34 AM
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The whole point is that everything is transactional to those LVM. I feel like your objection is dangerously close to that same logic. That lv scum shouldn't get the privilege of her company no matter how much money he throws at her. Because he is LV trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:42 AM
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It's both.. some males are super nice to you in private but act all cold and macho in public => also trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:26 PM
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I just love your username XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:32 PM
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I'd highly recommend reading some feminist literature at least something popular like The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf. Curating your social media feed can do wonders for your self-esteem so make sure you're spending time on content that doesn't make you feel worse. Additionally make sure that you surround yourself with ppl irl who aren't LV, obsessed with comparing looks etc. Lastly, look up some mindfullness techniques. Or ACT. It's a pretty useful tool to be able to differentiate between your th…
/r/askFDS13/02/22 12:57 AM
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He's only in his 40s? I thought the dude was ancient
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:16 PM
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Ah, makes sense, my bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:21 PM
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I'm confused. Is this your screenshot? Why are you upvoting comments that side with the dude and downvoting the sane one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:59 AM
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Well going bald part isn't true, unlike everything else you mentioned. So maybe don't include that XD since if he manages to find info about that it might discredit your valid warnings about everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:29 AM
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This whole thread is gold and your comment is fantastic. I've always know SAHM was a lot of work with little to no reward or appreciation, but when you put it like that it really clicks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:48 PM
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Allow me to be the partypooper on this one.. Therapy doesn't actually fix character. It's not a therapist's job to change who you are as a person, teach you empathy, give advice etc. A therapist is there to validate you, get you in touch with your feelings, give you tools for regulating your well-being etc- none of which would make a narcissistic clown become a better person. If anything it only arms them with more sophisticated vocabulary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:19 PM
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Yeah but it looks like she's worried about him getting custody because of their financial situation. He might file for more than 50% to avoid paying child support and then neglect the kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:19 AM
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Yup, this is like a "bleeding leg in the water" strategy to test for sharks.. Like sure, it's gonna lure them out just like the blood in the water test, but the leg ain't safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:01 AM
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Screen recording is such a hassle. Just download it from the menu or if it has downloads disabled, get an app that downloads videos from tiktok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:24 PM
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Margarita was trying to divorce him when he found her and cut off her hands..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:41 AM
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Please reread my comment. Nowhere did I say that you wouldn't be objectified and disrespected by scrotes. I merely said we don't need to start hating on women who aren't even doing anything harmful to others. They are hurting themselves. Just because I understand how low value trash thinks, doesn't mean I should share the same mentality with scrotum owners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:32 AM
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Wtf? How is this victim blaming of pickmes upvoted? This is messed up. Please rethink your comment. Showing one's body to strangers harms noone but oneself. It's not an immoral act, just stupid, considering the misogynistic society we live in. They aren't any less worthy of respect and human decency for posting proof of having a body. Will they get disrespected for that? Yes, of course. Should we be piling on the hate with the pathetic scrotes? Hell no! Their "value" doesn't change just because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:04 AM
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You bet the scrotes would flip out if they liked pc games and you bought him a game for nintendo. Or a racing game instead of fps... Scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:12 AM
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Tdf the vast majority of russian men are abusive trash and I say that as a Russian. That's not a good excuse tho. More of a commentary on how messed up our culture is. Those same men claim that we live in a matriarchy btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:00 PM
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Their sense of humor is beyond pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:45 AM
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No, just some random guy that looks similar. I think he posts animal facts and some random vlogging type things. The vid just came up on my fyp, and I thought it was uplifting enough for this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:07 AM
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I wish all nvm did...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:14 PM
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The replies are probably angry scrotes, so I wouldn't worry about that. Our mods are doing god's work. Honestly, you're not missing out much. It's always better to focus on your own goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:53 PM
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Problem is, he wouldn't tell you what he truly thinks of you... so it might make it harder to vet. Obviously it doesn't matter what trash thinks, but we need to be able to identify if it's trash first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:48 PM
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She's already paying more for dates. That ship has sailed. By hiding exactly what she does she's just getting on the same LV level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:34 AM
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I mean, you could just leave it at that. Mention what you like, but also say you don't eat out very often. If they don't pick up on that and still expect you to do the planning, you don't want them anyway. You can't make a LVM into a thoughtful& caring person with hints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:45 AM
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LVM with money also don't worry about golddiggers, they abuse them and date them, trade-in their loyal "low maintenance- starter" wives for an "upgrade." Only broke LVM/NVM's cry about golddiggers lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:08 PM
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I think the fact that noone reported openly is not a sign of lack of integrity on the reporter's part. It's more a sign of how corrupt and evil the whole structure/the majority of it is. The whistle-blower probably knew they would be retaliated against had they reported it publicly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:46 AM
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Mind you if his actions are good, but he can't muster up the courage to use his words too- that's a another 🚩He might be prepping for ditching you and saying something like "well, I never said I... blah-blah". Actions and words should match, no other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:41 PM
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Honestly males are not above preying on defenseless grandmas, so I wouldn't consider that an effective vetting strategy either. The risk of SA is highest before 25, then it goes down and spikes again after 75... so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 09:42 AM
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LMAO Trust issues because she doesn't want to date a dude who's still hovering around his 15!!! Years younger ex? That's not a very FDS take to put that mildly. That's something I'd expect to see on r/gaslightlashinship_advice.
/r/askFDS03/12/21 08:08 PM
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I think you misspelled it. It's "crisp rat", thanks 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:59 AM
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So not to bring any negativity into a wholesome video, but if this man has the energy and can put in the effort to be a good dad, able-bodied lvm have no excuse. I think this is a really sweet green flag. Idk if he is HV, but being an involved parent is certainly one green flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:01 AM
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I think you don't need to wait as long as with men, maybe at least a week or two, but you still do need to vet. Some women can be abusive themselves, some might endanger you by exposing you to their LVM friends. The danger of STDs is still there. But I do think it's generally a much safer thing to try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:42 PM
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Aww, they look so sweet together!🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:47 AM
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Yeah, and if she has kids, the abuser can find her if he knows where they go to school/daycare. She can't go to work if he knows where she works. He can also track her through her known friends. The victim has an enormous burden compared to the abuser who basically gets to live his life as before. Sadly, I don't think there's an elegant solution to this other than jailing abusers after a call-in for longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:55 PM
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He'd probably still go through a lovebombing phase if he met his dream. It would of course end in devaluation and abuse, but he'd be more likely to pretend to be a decent human being at first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:54 AM
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I don't think it necessarily comes from low self esteem. When I was a libfem, my motivation for going 50/50 or even treating a guy occasionally stemmed mostly from the false belief that a man would act less entitled to my body if I did. I really thought they'd see me as equal if I did even more for them rather than focusing more on my own boundaries, self-respect, not tolerating and explaining shit 🤡🤡🤡 Oh well, of course they acted even more entitled, because they thought I was so desperate for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:52 AM
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I remember the episode in which Arthur was hiding in Gwen's house and he just took the bed and demanded a hot bath, which she'd have to fetch and warm up :O I wanted to punch him in the face so bad, haha. He grew and got better tho, unlike real lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:44 PM
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Oh wow, nice to hear that! I think I've seen a poster for it at some point but the image didn't look interesting. Now I'm definitely going to check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:17 PM
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I could give some recommendations of things I've watched recently that didn't make me cringe. Not necessarily perfectly aligned with FDS, but entertaining and not actively horrible. TV shows: ​ The Expanse (if you like Sci-fi)- has a lot of political intrigues, interpersonal relationships, philosophical questions, action and mostly treats its female characters in a respectful manner. Tho it is a bit weird sometimes with occasional mentions of various forms of nonmonogamy; normalizes prostitution…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:27 PM
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She's putting up with it PRECISELY because she is too young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 07:54 PM
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Exactly, enthusiastic informed consent should be the bare minimum. And for certain things it cannot be enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:17 AM
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She's spot on! That's exactly what FDS tells us as well. They may act like they appreciate you or like they want that arrangement of being provided for, but they will resent you nonetheless and trade you for someone who will look up to them the moment they get a chance to. And they will look down on that new person too. LVM are pests. It's a shame I already get away my free award today. Leaving a comment to award the next one in a few hours. For now here's this 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:20 PM
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It's really not going downhi though. Maybe you haven't been here a long time but this happens periodically whenever we get a big influx of new users. People start complaining and occasionally the mods enforce stricter rules. But ultimately, it's inevitable whenever any sub gets bigger. That sort of thing is really hard to moderate without draconian measures, but our mods are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:47 AM
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So true! This false binary does show up in so many of their arguments and thinking patterns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 08:35 AM
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The bar's so low we've reached the 9th depth of hell. Then the scrotes knocked from under the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 10:03 AM
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You can talk about a traumatic event that happened to a friend. Obviously nothing super traumatic and nothing that is a secret. If you speak about your friend, many males will assume you are actually referring to yourself as "my friend". So when they start using it against you, you can remain more objective and actually protective of your friend. You wouldn't let males speak like that about your gfs, right? So you won't let him speak like that to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 09:52 AM
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That's why you obviously don't reveal your position on everything first? Make sure it's at least 50/50 on who reveals their position and ideas first. If he doesn't know what to say to future fake you, he just has his own position or what he thinks you want to hear to go off of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 08:59 AM
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It's actually easy to imply that it is happening and rather focus on the reactions of people, rather than what filmmakers usually do and focus on the bodies of victims or the perpetrator's face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:48 AM
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yes, it's her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 01:45 PM
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Yup, ideally have a throwaway. Every time I anger some scrote and they run out of actual arguments related to the topic at hand, they start diving into my history and bring up me posting here as if this was some sort of "gotcha".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:10 PM
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My guess is they already have decent bots to impersonate women, so they are attracting men who might spend money because all they want are higher quantities of matches for their ego and peen. Brb gotta grab my tinfoil hat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 06:42 PM
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As we should. It takes a lot for a woman to leave a marriage with all the societal brainwashing and conditioning we have to go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:51 AM
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I wish most of them were this honest and actually broke up with their partners if they were incapable of not cheating. Sadly most just lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 08:17 AM
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Sometimes yt women are called out, that is often deserved. Of course, but for body hair? You cannot seriously tell me yt women aren't attacked for body hair. Or the new trend of arguing that fatphobia is just a race issue and only affects women of color.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:19 PM
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Sadly it works on extremely naive women. Even of you tell them about this exact tactic and show them these posts straight from the horse's mouse they'll still act like you're just pessimistic or overthinking it or have trust issues or whatever else they can come up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:35 AM
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If you used the same pictures, he could reverse search your accounts. Any information really. If you have a rare first name or a combination of a name and university/age. Once he found your full name, finding the rest of your accounts was probably easier. Just block him on everything you can. If he escalates to stalking irl or keeps creating new accounts - go to the police.
/r/askFDS09/10/21 02:26 PM
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If you browse on pc you can download a browser extention to filter out by flair, include all the depravity/lvm/pickmeisha flairs and browse in peace!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:54 PM
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You can see his handle in the video it's artimuswalz. But I'm not subscribed to him and the rest of his stuff may not pass the vibe check
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:33 AM
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I know this is not the point and I completely agree with your asessment of his character, but it's best not to say "wheelchair bound". A better phrase would be "wheelchair user".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:30 PM
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Then why are WOC constantly called Karens these days? I'm not saying white women shouldn't be called out for racism, that's definitely deserved. But "Karen" does not mean that anymore and hasn't for a pretty long time now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:13 AM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9956217/Male-Afghan-evacuees-bringing-child-brides-US.html OP posted another article in the comments. TLDR: They aren't doing anything, just awaiting "guidance" on how to proceed with the pedos and their victims. Officials say that they take all such allegations seriously but that many of them are anecdotal and difficult to prove, particularly amid the crush of Afghan evacuees at multiple locations in the Middle East, Europe, and the United States. There …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:18 AM
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Morticia and Gomez! Dream couple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:34 AM
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Where? Saying you won't date men from a certain culture/race because of your own experiences is not saying that another race is all HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:39 AM
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Yeah, never seen anything like that on FDS.. just feels weird to read it here, as if that's something women here say? Like what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:01 PM
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Yeah, only some medieval legends of women like Bathory. But the king owed her family a large sum of money and condemning her for real or imaginary crimes would be very convenient. So I'm sceptical even of that, likely the same bullshit as the rest of the witch hunts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:30 PM
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If they are providers they should be able to provide some food for their family. If they are protectors, they should be able to protect their families from the germs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:52 PM
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1). Relationships with men are fine if the man is HV. Fictional men written by women are often HV. 2). Lesbian romance exists. 3). Comparing romance to p÷rn is remarkably reminiscent of scrote rhetoric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:46 PM
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This. And if an animal is afraid of just one gender, it's always afraid of men. Sometimes they are afraid of all people, but never have I ever seen or heard of an animal being scared of women exclusively. They may have a preference for one or the other, but never fear of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:19 PM
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Yup, lesbians have much higher rates of orgasms than straight women. So dick is very clearly not necessary. The problem is usually who it's attached to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:53 PM
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Well the captain on titanic threatened to shoot the men who were trying to push out the women and children. So at least occasionally some are protectors. But very obviously a tiny minority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:39 AM
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She doesn't have to respond though, how's that a risk? If they reveal themselves as LV by asking inappropriate or personal stuff from the start - that's just another good vetting strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:20 AM
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Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:18 PM
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Reread the post, what is highlighted in red. "As young as 12"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:32 AM
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That part was sarcastic, pretty sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:13 AM
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I mean, it would be ridiculous if a platform built on exploitation of women suddenly started giving a shit about women. So it's good that at least someone within the payment systems cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:10 AM
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This is so weird, they alway tell the most obvious lies. The ugliest guys always seem to include "handsome" in their bio.. Like do they think we have no eyes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:46 AM
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The book is free online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:19 AM
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You're only weeding out the most oblivious/unmotivated ones this way. Better to ask nonjudgemental questions about it, so that they don't think to hide it. This way you won't get many dudes pretending not to jerk to SA for religious reasons or agreeing with you that abuse of women is just wrong, so that they could sleep with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:06 PM
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The US should have armed the women. They wouldn't have surrendered as easily as those women-hating turncoat cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:04 PM
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They should correct the mistake themselves then 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:47 AM
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You're probably confusing the number with the fact that males are 6-7 times more likely to leave when the woman is sick. It's bad, but not 60%. "The study confirmed earlier research of a divorce or separation rate among cancer patients of 11.6 percent, similar to the general population, but found the rate jumped to 20.8 percent when the woman was sick versus 2.9 percent when the man was ill." This only counts the statistics for divorce, not including males who start cheating, actung shitty and b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:22 AM
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They often lure them with promises of other work too, like caretakers, waitresses, cleaners or models. When they cross the border the bandits take their documents and enslave them... Sometimes their first job (like waitressing) is legit, but after a month or two they get offers in the same industry with a slight raise, and that's when the bandits get them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:11 AM
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Yup espiecially because the men who enjoy beating women don't always announce it before doing it; while the women who prefer men to pay for dates will simply not date greedy men. In scrote logic not dating someone is literally violence that is worse than tricking someone into intimacy with lies and physically harming them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:16 PM
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Also beer brewing used to be a female trade since 7000 BCE in almost all societies across the globe (Japan, Taiwan, China, Germanic tribes, Finland, Sumeria, Mesopotamia, Babylon, Egypt, Tanzania, Burkina Faso, Mayans, Andeans etc). It was an extension of cooking/baking. Hildegard of Bingen was the first one to add hops to it and record the recipe in 12th century. Then the trade guilds happened and mostly forced out women out of the profession, except in the countrysides. Then inquisition happen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah... so tired of seeing "feeeeemales" as a noun everywhere, shouldn't have to see it in this sub at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:51 PM
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Mods don't update flairs very often; she probably commented something dumb when first joined. There are too many of us here now, too few mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:35 PM
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You've never seen leftie men calling women sw'er'fs for being in favor of the Nordic model? Plus all the kinkster men who want to abuse women but with consent aka finding someone in a poor mental state.. those tend to be lefties too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:44 PM
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Yup this. Assault is suddenly theft. Sexual harassment at work is suddenly just networking and offering new career opportunities. Your project manager telling you to perform sexual services for him suddenly becomes expanding the scope of your contract, and is a completely different kind of offence legally....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:47 AM
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This! If "sw" was so safe, surely people shouldn't have a problem with denying doctors and nurses any PPE either. Just slap a condom on the patient, that's gotta protect them against everything right? And to ensure everyone's safety, let's test.... the doctors and nurses every couple of months.... for less than half of the diseases that they are at the risk of getting. What's that, it's not safe for the medical professionals? Are their lives and safety more important than the lives and safety of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:40 AM
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In Germany it's already happening. Women are pressured to consider "sex work" before getting unepmployment benefits. Mysteriously, men don't get the same type of pressure, unless they are a vulnerable minority
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:33 AM
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So depressing... Both should be equally reprehensible, and yet abusing women is just an opportunity for more "jokes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:27 AM
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Oh, I thought the duck was the boat and the ocean was supposed to be the woman doing all the work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:53 AM
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If they fail in basic tasks enough, she will stop asking. They are banking on the fact she won't divorce him over this and will instead take care of all the labor. Then they bitch on dedbedrooms about how she has a low sex drive all of a sudden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:39 AM
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Legit had a woman tell me shr thought I must be jealous of their happy relationship because "he'd never raise his hand at me". That was when I told her she should leave the cheater... The bar is in hell and the worst of the worst men keep it there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:48 AM
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There's a whole name for this, it's such a common trope to create women in fiction just to be abused. Fridged women or women in the fridge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:44 AM
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Wow, I'm starstruck again. She is a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:43 PM
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I think that was a male troll, not sure how it got through our mods, but should just report and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:14 PM
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Here's the link if anyone's interested. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSJthVS37/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:23 PM
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He r%ped her. She didn't "give" him shit. Let's keep the blame where it's due, on the psycopathic r%pist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:27 AM
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Oh, that's nice. I didn't know that, thank you. That makes it a lot better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:37 PM
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It's not the same though. They are just worried because their dicks don't work, while most of us worry more for the lives and safety of women harmed by the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:20 AM
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Not true. There are good honest men out there. My great grandfather was one and I know an older couple both of whom are HV people. ​ All the scrotes just want us to think that all men are trash, so we'll pick one who is trash, but maybe not as bad as the others. ​ Some men genuinely do have a moral compas and live according to their values. It's just that they are a minority and it's often not worth it for a woman to trudge through tonnes of garbage to find a decent one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:12 PM
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Yeah no, it's not better at all. All these "fake woke" dudes are just better at abusing women because they know the lingo and they understand better how abuse works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:07 PM
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btw, blocking still allows him to stalk you and see everything you post, you just won't get any messages from him and won't see his comments. Reddit has a very stupid block system. ​ And yeah, definitely never share images of yourself on the same account you use for FDS, some of the scrote stalkers are straight up insane and dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:01 PM
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I think he just missed a birthday not the day of labor. Still a shithead, and I do hope she divorces him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:08 PM
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Might have angered the scrotes. They tend to post a lot of garbage on posts that trigger them. Thanks to our lovely mods we never have to see that. Awesome post btw, very true. No matter how attractive or unatractive you are, how you carry yourself and what you prioritize is so much more important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:20 PM
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Why follow him though, is it for your job or something, why subject yourself to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:51 PM
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Why follow him though, is it for your job or something, why subject yourself to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:51 PM
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Ilr! We shouldn't be popularizing their garbage and creating extra engagement for them. They can die mad in their own swamps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:07 AM
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Haven't seen it here before. Sorry you had to see it twice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:11 PM
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That is awesome! Thanks for sharing. 500 days of summer is such a misunderstood film because it's from the perspective of the scrote and doesn't actually do a good job of showing his personal growth at the end. Maybe there really wasn't supposed to be any, who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:56 PM
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A good chunk of these are not remotely HV. Momoa is a creepy stalker who decided he wanted to have a woman based only on what she looks like. And he's also apparently scared of metoo. Other ladies covered the other N/LVM here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:41 PM
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Washing his hands after going to the restroom 😍😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:32 PM
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Yes, except for the bit about serious money. The glamorization of paid abuse and sale of consent is misleading, meant to trick young naive girls into walking down the path. Even the least damaging forms of it like OF average $180 a month in exchange for high risk of doxxing, having it on their tax returns and their images staying there forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:37 PM
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even get angry at you for bringing it up. Because they do believe it hurts women, they know the screams of pain and tears are real, they just don't want us to know they know. They don't really think women suddenly turn into Oscar level performers the moment it comes to pain, while struggling to deliver one line of dialogue compellingly. ​ They are just angry at women for speaking about it, removing their plausible deniability and infinite benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:38 PM
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The planet and the people don't matter when the most important of your worries is the economy of a country 😥 Such a dystopia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:20 PM
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There's a channel for book recommendations/ discussions on discord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:11 AM
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I highly recommend reading the handbook. None of this is healthy or acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:24 AM
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That would be a nice improvement. It would curb down a lot of revenge porn and that of completely unaware women, who didn't know they were recorded. That still doesn't prevent the corporate monsters from recording the consent video after the fact. It's apparently a typical practice to have the actress sign the contract and then be forced to do stuff she didn't agree with towards the end of filming, otherwise she isn't paid for any of the work she already did and is blacklisted in the industry. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:50 AM
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Yeah, it is very hard! I am sorry you had to go through this. I think some of the FDS methods are ingenius for this. Dating multiple men before exclusivity and journaling helps keep a cool head and stay objective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:29 AM
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Thank you for the kind words! It is nice to know you found it helpful! I love FDS because it is such a good place for sharing our stories, learning from the mistakes and insight of other women, instead of having to learn just through our own pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:27 AM
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"If you aren't into beheading-play with real axes, you just don't know how to have fun" "If you don't have 10 orgasms when he holds a loaded gun to your head with the safety off you are too vanilla and a prude" And all that stuff isn't even all that different from the picture. We can't even make fun of them by exaggerating, because there is no limit to the acceptable violence against women. They already sexualize t.orture, m.urder and p.edophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:40 PM
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Yeah, but that's true for all crypto. When there's 0 regulation, the bigger players always exploit that stuff. So there's always a chance to win big or lose close to everything, depending on how well you can guess what the whales will do next. Even more than everything if you have short positions - don't recommend that. I believe there used to be some "whale-watching" websites, that attempted to track large batches of staggered orders (the "whales" have bots for placing big orders at different p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:44 PM
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Also important part of it is that some hedge funds shorted the stock. And that one guy called attention to it. I still think it's a horrible idea to invest in it now, it's way too late. It was also a classic pump and dump, but because it wasn't done by financial institutions, but "regular" folks, everyone on reddit was over the moon about it, even after they lost their money in February. You can google GME price, look at the huge narrow peak on the 6 months graph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:12 PM
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It's not excess testosterone, it's the entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:18 PM
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Knowing the justice system, and the fact a bunch of murderers used "rough sex" defense, it might.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:23 PM
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"You are your own voyeur." That quote from Margaret Atwood is so true. When you're taught to always be aware of how the males will perceive you... don't wear those shorts, when you are 6 yo, men might find it too attractive, don't wear this, don't wear this. Do wear this and that, and if you still get assaulted or harassed, it was probably still your own fault because of some tiny detail of how you looked. So much of our early spcialization is focused on how we look. So insidious. It really does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:27 PM
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I mean, that is what they are usually implying by asking the question in the first place, that there must be something wrong with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:16 PM
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You've made your position on the issue known, so not much you can do about that now. If that stuff doesn't get in the way of your friendship, I'd just ask her not to discuss it with you and unfollow on social media. Being a pickme might just be a phase, especially if she's not bringing other women down in the process. You can't really do anything about it now, she has to come to the realization that it's not working out herself. Maybe just share small tidbits of fds advice and scrote psychology …
/r/askFDS12/06/21 09:37 PM
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Yes! And this shit starts young. I recently got around to watching Princess and the Frog. And damn, they did Tiana so dirty. She is an amazing, hard-working, ambitious woman and the point of the whole movie is that she should give up on her dreams for a man. And then in the end she'll miraculously get her dream too, but only if she gives up on it first, for some low value lazy selfish scrote who just happens to be infatuated with her 😭 So much grooming through the media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:30 PM
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I believe you should google what Nordic model means. It seems there's still confusion. Prostituted women do NOT get any criminal records under the Nordic model, because what they do is not illegal. Unless you are worried about the pimps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:57 AM
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I said to not criminalize them and put them in further harms way. Nordic model does not criminalize abused women. It keeps the purchase of consent illegal for the buyers, so the punters are still criminalized, but not the women sold. It also keeps the pimps criminalized. So the exploited people can legally ask for help from the police. Yes, the police are still usually backside wipes, and their conduct is absolutely something that should be monitored more closely, but decrim is not the answer. D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:23 PM
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And when there are some, they are naked...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:31 AM
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Pop culture detective has a lot of truth bomb videos. Lucky that he's a guy talking about these things, his comment sections look more or less civil. If you look up videos made by women about the same issues, the comment sections are worse than a warzone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:05 PM
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And what's the definition of "worked out"? There are so many stories of women chasing and marrying men who didn't put in effort. And then their married life is just as bleak with dudes putting in 0 effort. Or we have women posting, "I approached him first and we've been going strong for 11 years now, I'm sure he'll propose after our 3rd kid is born." Scrotes are happy to take advantage of a woman that makes it easy for them, they'll just also ditch her the moment she is no longer useful or he fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:37 PM
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Seconding that! Scrolled through and there are too many scrotes writing their novels about why their opinion is the most important one to hear, like not even joking some of them use almost exact wording.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:21 PM
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Considering how ridiculous that idea is for a fashion designer, don't you think it makes sense that (if that story were real) that the men would make up lies like that about a woman they dislike? Like look at literally any female ruler in history, there are hundreds of weird sex stories about them and gossip spread by men and recorded as history of how horrible and incompetent they were. Even Cleopatra, we all have this image of some sexy lady who seduced everyone, while she wasn't even attracti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:52 AM
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Kinda disagree here, rescue dogs already exist they are already alive in this world and they need a nice home. Unborn potential fetuses do not exist, and it's more than proper and smart to screen for potential issues early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:22 PM
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Well, calling women prudes isn't woke enough in some circles so they just call us nazis now for not having sex with them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:16 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't the audience supposed to roll his eyes at him here, but overall still consider him a good guy? I haven't watched the full show, only seen clips of it on reddit, so I might be wrong and there are some actual real consequences for the guy for being like that. It's the theme with so many of these shows. They normalize misogyny by lampshading it. Like look at this likeable dude being a doofoos isn't it funny? Wrong, but soooo funny. Like on big bang theory they'll …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:59 PM
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That just seems like a disaster waiting to happen. If you'd rather not have children, but would accept having them if he "proves" to be a worthy partner. Then obviously to him it sounds like he just has to act right until he gets his way and then you're trapped and he can easily reneg on his promises. Cuz what are you gonna do if he stops putting effort into raising his kid? Not like you can also say fuck it and neglect the health and safety of an already living child. Please don't ever have chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:15 AM
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Exactly, breaking the pattern is bad. And being part of the pattern is also shitty, because the chances of him actually liking you vs just going with his type are about 50/50. Any male with a "pattern" is a LVM, unless the pattern was just a coincidence, in which case they would never bring it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:24 PM
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Even if they do straight up hit you in the face, they'll act like the victim and expect you to comfort them after the beating 99% of the time. And in their words it's not abuse because you "deserved it" or it was "self defence" against your mean words or a look he didn't like. Calling them out or explaining how abuse works is also completely useless, they'll just use the new lingo to guilt trip and blame you anyway. That's why couple's counseling is not only useless but extra dangerous in abusiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:24 AM
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There is actually, mostly populated by scrotes, but some pickmeishas in denial are also occasionally showing up. We have a lot of "fan" subreddits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:33 AM
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Not all of them, so liking cats isn't necessarily a green flag, but so many do. Cats are all about boundaries, body language and expressing affection on their own terms. Cats are associated with feminity in our society. It's so insiduous that even on pages specifically dedicated to pictures of cute animals you'll see titles like "more beautiful than any girl" above cat pictures and other titles that compare cats to women or sexualize them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:32 PM
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. Trust is not love. Trust is not respect. Trust is not kindness. It’s simply a deep awareness and understanding of another person. Wow this is so well put, thank you! It always messed with my head a little how trust is often used interchangeably with other positive relationship things, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. Do you mind if I steal that wording?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:21 PM
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They really are vile. Most abusers rely on our best qualities, like kindness, conscientiousness, selflessness and desire to make others happy, to twist them into guilt and shame, to abuse women. Truly evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:15 PM
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Exactly! All that telling him accomplishes is he learns to hide his tracks better for the next woman...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:52 AM
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No, a lot of the times they DO want to be in a "relationship" with you, in which you obey them and don't have any of your own beliefs or goals, just serve them and provide with regular sex, domestic labor and free therapy. They just don't want to give anything back. If all abusive assholes just didn't want to be in a relationship, everything would be a hella easier. Especially leaving, they wouldn't threaten you, your pets or children, if you leave. They wouldn't suicide bait, they wouldn't "tra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:45 AM
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Teachers and people in disabled institutions can absolutely work within OSHA and it is not impossible for the to wear proper PPE. For sex workers it literally defeats the purpose. The johns buy women to violate them, if they can't touch them and no body fluids are involved, the industry wouldn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:02 PM
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Then it wouldn't involve sex, loving relationships are not based on it, they can involve it, but a close friendship or familial bond is not any less intimate without sex. Couple's counceling and therapists already exist, even relationship coaches if we're looking at people without any relevant education. Buying consent is an imbalanced transaction of money for humanity from the get go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:57 PM
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Even in that unrealistic utopia there is no way to follow worker safety regulations for bodily fluids. There is a reason why doctors and nurses have access to and wear protective gear. Slapping a condom on doesn't protect against so so many things, and even that is impossible to enforce in places where prostitution is legal or decriminalized. The lives of women in the sex industry are not any less important, but there is literally no way to provide safe working conditions. Only mitivate acceptab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:32 PM
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If you could also edit out the "females" as a noun, would be great. It's fine to use as an adjective (female friends, female relatives, female dating strategy) but not as a noun when referring to humans, especially when you refer to men as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:45 PM
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There's a website and a discord too, I highly recommend joining, just in case. Reddit is happy to keep involuntary p*rn and cp around, but telling women to be extremely cautious and rigorous in the vetting process might just be too much of a hate crime for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:50 PM
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I wish I could be at least bi... so sad you can't choose sexuality :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:00 AM
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FDS is feminist. Not all movements of feminism are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:43 PM
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Opressors always rely on the opressed policing themselves. Racial, religious, ethnic tensions, always the same crap. The patriarchy wouldn't survive if it was only upheld by men. But yeah, certainly does feel like a double betrayal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:01 PM
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He's probably just unhappy that he is most definitely in the scrote category, so has to spin some lies, probably took him a while to even think of a word meaning vagina that isn't used in a derogatory way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:59 AM
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It makes sense though, they are reducing their possible sources of revenue and have to take extra security measures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:20 AM
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I want to be you when I grow up 😂 Never had the patience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:30 PM
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I think a lot of them are bots. I added about 20 books to my to read list in an hour and almost every update got liked by a different account of a random "woman" (a bunch of them are probably run by scrotes with pictures of women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:27 PM
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I remember arguing with people about all this "proof" the showrunners came up with, literally only interviewing people who had a personal grudge against her, and dramatic cuts etc. The whole interview with the person embezzling stuff, and acting like "going missing" provisions are extremely rare especially for shady drug dealers. Plus deliberately showing only the feeding cages to be like "look at all the tiny cages." Kinda made my blood boil, it was exactly the same thing as Donald vs Hillary; …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:01 PM
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Sadly might have the opposite effect. Plenty of LVM interested in "breaking" and abusing women they disagree with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:56 PM
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In the post, she doesn't speak poorly of any other women. Choosing to treat herself poorly is being pickme, but not necessarily one that would drag other women down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:39 PM
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Yeah, this whole thing has the tone of blaming women for the laziness and entitlement of men. Libfem brand of feminism is the exact opposite of not conforming to male expectations (so hairy-legged insult wouldn't fit), so it's pretty clear they are just going for insulting feminism in general. FDS is feminist, so yeah...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:40 AM
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"Men and people" was clearly a typo for "men as people". Very clear from the context. The M in LVM does not stand for male. It is not an assumption. You are supposed to read the handbook before commenting, or at least read up on what the common terms mean. Referring to women as "females" is fucked up and you should just stop doing it instead of doubling down on using dehumanizing language to refer to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:15 PM
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We still shouldn't respond to those clowns. They feed on attention from women, even negative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:52 AM
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Wow that last sentence, I didn't think about it in those terms, but it's essentially what a huge chunk of their arguments boil down to. Thanks for articulating it so well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:28 AM
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Agreed, this pseudo evolutionary psych is bullshit 99.999% of the time, including this video. It's a teaspoon of FDS with a bucket of incel garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:50 PM
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What's there to be confused about? It's pretty simple, he is happy to pay for uncomfortable surgeries you have to undertake for HIS benefit. He is not interested in seeing you grow more independent for YOUR benefit. He wants you to be his dependent servant who looks good. He does not want you to have an education and have other options except blindly obeying and serving him.
/r/askFDS14/05/21 12:33 PM
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Damn... didn't know that, I really liked her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:06 PM
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I think envy is something you wish you had but don't. Jealousy is applicable here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:00 PM
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They usually give bullshit reasons if you ask why as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:58 PM
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Also affair with a coworker is more likely to blow up in his face, resulting in the wife finding out, and somewhat lower chance of getting STI/STD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:23 PM
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That's the horrifying part, some little girls these days dream of being exploited due to all the glamorization and outright lies about the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:15 PM
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That's kinda the double standard we are all guilty of isn't it. A man doesn't have to be perfect to be fit for a position of power, he can be a lying, creepy sociopath, and people will overlook that stuff, because he is better than the other option or promotes good policies anyway, but a woman has to be a perfect role model for girls as well as a qualified political leader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:27 AM
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People in countries without bidets everywhere all walk around with piss on their genitals. Paper towels don't clean anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:50 PM
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Do you mean if a man doesn't go shower before sex without having to be asked? Because if it's not morning sex, chances are he went to pee and hasn't washed it since. Whether you can smell it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:14 PM
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It's really good. The abuse tactics are the same ones North Koreans used on American prisoners, a lot of whom defected to them. Also used in Guantanamo bay for a while. You can look it up with Coercive Control. It's still bizzare to me how the LVM and NVM just stumble randomly on the same techniques and rationalizations without going to some abuser school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:46 PM
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I think only at a young age. Adults don't learn unless shit reeeeeealy hits the fan for them as a result of their actions. They will keep using strategies that worked for them so far until a huge tragedy bites them in the ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:42 PM
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Haven't watched it, but the book is also amazing, here are a few quotes from it: ​ What’s even more confusing is that perpetrators commonly believe with all their heart that they are the victim, and will plead their case to police even as their partner stands bloody and bruised behind them. Their victimhood is what makes them feel their abuse is justified. They’re not like those other men, because they’re just defending themselves. This is the kind of doublethink that enables an abuser to say – …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:53 PM
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I had the same feeling when I first watched "I am not an easy man." Like I already knew how unfair and ridiculous all the objecrification, misogyny was, but I was just unprepared to see the role reversal on screen. Felt so weird and "unnatural". Pretty telling how even after cleaning our brains from societal brainwashing we can still feel like abuse and suffering of women is more "natural".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:34 PM
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Interesting, I didn't know that, thanks. Still, I feel like the final material is further from the Snow Queen Anderson's fairytale than the Lion King from Hamlet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:04 PM
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I honestly have no clue why they even tried to make it into a cartoon, it has a lot of non-kid friendly themes, like lust of the priest and his hatered for what he desires. Happy they made the blonde guard dude into a decent human being unlike the novel and didnt force Esmeralda to choose the ugly dude just cuz he was nice. Or actually killed her and have Quasimodo cuddle her corpse till he died too. The novel was just depression on steroids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:51 AM
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I doubt Frozen was supposed to be a version of the Snow Queen at best loosely inspired by it. The stories have literally nothing in common except ice powers owned by a female character. In the Snow Queen, the queen is just straight up evil and wants to collect pieces of the magic mirror to distort everyone and everything in the world. Some pieces of the mirror get into Kai's eyes, so he only sees ugliness in everyone except snowflakes. The queen steals him to her castle and then Gerda is doing a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:45 AM
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I think it's a question of definitions. You only define talking about other people's relationships in negative ways as gossip. While a good chunk of people define discussing any part of other people's lives as gossip. Telling your friend about your mutual friend finding a new doctor or a successful treatment for a problem, that's technically gossip. Sharing stories about your own experiences that involved other people? Technically gossip too. Discussing your friend's lovely wedding with someone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:56 PM
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You do need to be financially independent (for your own good), but that man sounds very much LV. ​ DO NOT MOVE TO A DIFFERENT COUNTRY FOR A MAN, and definitely not for this man. Can't stress this enough. When you move to a different country not for your career or relatives, but for some dude who isn't even your husband, who is already actively using the threat of not marrying you to create anxiety and scarcity mindset in you... that's just a recipe for disaster. If you move for the dude and some…
/r/askFDS30/04/21 03:54 PM
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Or all the "yo mama jokes" as well as I xyz sexual act your mother/wife etc, all said to offend the male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:20 PM
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Yeah, some already think that. Look at all the horror stories young women tell of their encounters with men where they spit on them, choke or slap them without asking and then act all outraged like "how was I supposed to know you don't like being hurt and degraded"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:00 PM
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Technically, kink is something arousing that's not considered a sexual norm (can change with generations and culture, what was once kink can become vanila). While fetish is something very specific like an object or act that is always necessary for the person to become aroused. So both of your examples can be fetishes or kinks, depending on how reliant you would consider yourself to be on those for enjoyment of sexual activity without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:10 AM
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I'd imagine harmless stuff that isn't rooted in opression, subjugation or straight up torture. It's rare, but some of them can be harmless. Probably the feet stuff and the like, in theory, but, of course, plenty of men with a foot fetish still manage to turn a harmless fetish into non-consent, like creeping on customers when they are trying on shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:01 AM
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It is a choice, you are absolutely right. They don't keep in touch because it's not important enough to them and they don't care. The people who are saying it's normal are lying to themselves to avoid seeing the painful reality of their own situations. one of FDS mantras that is 100% applicable here: if he wanted to, he would.
/r/askFDS24/04/21 09:52 AM
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Definitely makes sense. I just said other suggestions might be better suited because OP hasn't heard of the song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:19 PM
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Yeah, I think the idea was that "Jolene's end" would be the end of pickmeism idk. Plenty of other cool suggestions in the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:17 PM
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I think it's a reference to Dolly Parton's most famous song. Great tune, Dolly is also great, but the song is a pickme anthem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:34 PM
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I have a feeling he would expect someone else to take care of all those problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:02 PM
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And even when they are doing objectively good things like saving lives, building orphanages and whatnot, it still doesn't cancel out the bad deeds. It's like they legitimately can't understand that human lives are not some 3rd grade math equation with positive and negative numbers. They legitimately think they are building up some good deed credit that they will later get to spend by being an abusive, murderous pice of shit and that's "fair". If Chapelle told a story of a woman harvesting men fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:06 AM
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Non-invasive first trimester tests are extremely expensive, think way over 1k, and invasive options are around 500
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:59 PM
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He had control of her medication as she used to be suicidal. Women in vulnerable mental state are easier to manipulate and abuse. Neuroatypical ladies have to vet extra hard and always be on your guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:14 PM
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I mean have you seen men? This friend from the update apparently refused to cooperate with police. So I guess he had enough consciousness to not let her die, but not enough to make his "friend" face justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:11 PM
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Nah, birth control for men is generally not persued because side effects are often similar to the effects in women. In medicine the side effects are usually compared to the condition it prevents, in women it prevents pregnancy, so side effects can be worth it. In men it prevents pregnancy in other people, so any side effects above mild inconveniece are a no-no. Honestly if it were a thing I still wouldn't trust men to actually take it. Half the scrotes don't wash their assholes every day and lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:32 PM
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A lot of LVM are just cowards. But even if he did end things verbally it probably would have gotten ugly, so don't stress over not getting "closure" from him. He probably would have tried to come up with some imperfections in you as the reason, or blame you some other way. Closure is something you have to work on yourself, no matter how the relationship ends. Write a letter to him if you feel the need to and burn it. Write a clear response you would have liked to receive, then realize he would n…
/r/askFDS08/04/21 04:11 PM
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Wow, you're not taking any of the advice given here, are you.... that's so sad. This garden variety LVM is not a "decent guy". Just because he was able to maintain the facade for a measly 2 months, doesn't make him a good person. Honestly I doubt there were no red flags. What's more likely is you brushing them off and focusing on his future faking, aka introducing you to his family early without any actual commitment, which is only done to create an illusion of future together in your head. You'…
/r/askFDS08/04/21 09:25 AM
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It's neutral, it's basically just bare minimum. I guess you could call it a green flag, but keep in mind that green flags don't cancel out the red ones, so stay on the lookout. This thing is so small, doesn't really tell you much about his character, other than he doesn't turn into an overt raging tantrum prone baby before even meeting you. ​ Generally, I'd call any interaction that is within the range of normal polite interactions between strangers as a neutral behavior, and only if he's going …
/r/askFDS05/04/21 12:37 PM
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The stereotype about lesbians being "smelly or ugly" has way more to do with men being mad about being left out of sex lives of a few women rather than reality. Just like they say all single women must be ugly or crazy. If you read about FDS anywhere else people have plenty of stereotypes about all of us being ugly and smelly too. If you ask conservative haters they will say we are all ugly black single mothers, if you ask leftie haters they will say we are all entitled ugly middle class white K…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:01 AM
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Don't overthink it. You don't know a person's motivation for making jokes like that. It could be future faking (important concept to look up if you're not familiar with it), it could be he is genuinely excited about marriage with you, but is nervous, the thing is, you don't know. Pay attention to his actual actions and don't build castles of glass in your imagination based off of words alone. Continue to vet, focus on your own journey and figure out if he would be a good partner to you long term…
/r/askFDS01/04/21 05:14 PM
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That's good! As long as it doesn't have identifying information, should be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:01 PM
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I hope the username is not your real name. If it is, I recommend creating a throwaway account that can't be traced to your social media. Sadly this sub attracts a lot of stalkers who are always looking for an opportunity to dox someone from here... Great post btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:36 PM
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I mean, good sentiment overall, but men comparing women to things is still yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:07 PM
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Anytime any sub gets bigger, there's always some drop in quality of content being posted, in favor of memes and more easily digestable stuff, unless the posters are heavily restricted which also seems wrong. Luckily we have the website and the podcast. There's also plenty of quality content on the main sub, it's just that the memes and screenshots of LVM are more popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:05 PM
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Wow, thanks for sharing the website, it's amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:51 PM
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Well, people don't listen unless it's men repeating these truths, so good on him for speaking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:04 PM
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🤣 Who wants to bet this is gonna get screenshotted to all the stalker subreddits where they will pretend we are dead serious about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:59 AM
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Of course he didn't physically force her to put on those closes, that's not how manpulation works, which this dude is very clearly good at. ​ But she should’ve had more self respect that to come out in a bonnet with no bra. That's the least of her problems, but I'm not surprised she's getting a lot of hate for that, just being a human being trying to be comfortable in her home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:22 PM
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I'm convinced that he insisted on her presenting like that; exactly because he knew people would start making fun of her and shift the focus from him. Now she's getting more heat for not putting in effort or her religious views or staying instead of people hating on him. This is the first time she's on his channel and of course he used her as the bait to switch the focus of the angry mob. The disgusting thing is it's working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:19 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lh0vt9/men_learn_how_to_manipulate_women_by_learning_how/ why would he even want to change, if it's been working for him so far? He knows that one of the best ways to manipulate women is to try and elicit our pity The average man is just repeating the same phrases and behaviors that have worked for him before, and so long as it continues to yield positive results, he has no incentive to change. This is why you must block and delete when a gu…
/r/askFDS15/03/21 08:34 AM
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That was a very detailed and thoughtful quality post, thanks so much for sharing it! I think it will be extremely helpful to our newer members (over 2k since that vice article XD ), who are learning to spot more subtle yellow flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:44 AM
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That's the thing though, I checked her profile before engaging and she had a long post history on FDS.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:55 AM
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So you don't think men who make r*** jokes are part of the problem? Or should the list involve only violent crimes, and make sure all the men who haven't been convicted get to feel nice and happy about being an ally while making survivors of assault in their lives relieve their trauma for a cheap laugh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:49 AM
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If anything is particularly wrong is that you're ignoring the advice that has been given to you for the same questions you keep posting.
/r/askFDS12/03/21 10:09 PM
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They realize how bad their lives are, but refuse to do anything about it. That's what women are expected to do in our society, be a willing martyr. That's also why subs that just have women complaining about their atrocious situaions, but refusing to leave them or even acknowledge the problem head on, don't face nearly as much harassment as FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:32 PM
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Yes, of course. If they can't control us, they try to control how others see us. It's true that this obsessive shit gets us more members, because some curious women want to check out how bad we are, then realize the truth. But the vast majority of people of course would never bother to actually check, so in a way spreading easily verifiable lies about someone is actually kind of effective, simply because most people don't care enough to confirm, and when you see something repeated as truth by so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:03 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy/comments/kconhh/help_leveling_up_as_autistic_woman/ Most helpful tips from the thread are probably, journaling, making short to-do lists every day, staying on top of your health and fitness, paying attention to actions of the man, instead of words. Honestly, the main FDS handbook is still a treasure, except instead of listening to intuition, you'd rely more on observation. The handbook describes so many red flags in pretty good detail, it would be a…
/r/askFDS11/03/21 08:56 PM
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well I'm worried that our collective mistreatment will turn into hate and hate will become our voice rather than healing. I suppose that's sort of valid. Though when women hate men, we still don't want to go out of our way and harm them, just avoid them, so that's a pretty big difference, that's not going away. I'm slightly uncomfortable you evaluated my profile to see if I'm a troll because I have sensitive topics there. Well, I recommend clearing your comment history periodically, if you have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:20 PM
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following the same fate as the red pill Are you actually worried women are going to start randomly murdering men, start mass shootings, share r*** and abuse strategies? I looked at your account, and it doesn't seem that you're a troll. What did you actually like about the article?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:39 PM
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I'd love to join as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:39 PM
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Selling has to be decriminalized, but legalizing it, leads to horrible results. With legalization comes an increase in human trafficking. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0305750X12001453#:~:text=The%20scale%20effect%20of%20legalized,are%20favored%20over%20trafficked%20ones. And if you want to read up more on it, how it hurts women, just look at Germany. Influx of trafficked women leads to higher competition for unsafe sex acts, such as various forms of sex without condoms, eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:37 PM
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Exactly. Aka "If you're against sweatshops and child labor, it means you hate poor people and kids." Just libfemlogic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:07 PM
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And when the prostitutes get murdered, nobody cares... It's literally the most dangerous profession of all, in terms of mortality rate, the only statistic that is a lot harder to fake. Being a log driver, deep sea fisher, miner or a soldier are literally all less deadly. Legalizing prostitution leads to increase in human sex trafficing. The sort of Johns who would happily take advantage of a woman's economic situation to "buy" her consent, are not the sort of people who would worry about making …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:12 PM
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Exactly, the Japanese had this kind of logic when they would take Korean, Chinese and Philippino women and little girls to use as "comfort women" supposedly to provide an outlet for the soldiers and "reduce wartime r***"... But it only made it worse, of course. Here's a web comic story of one such woman, Ok-sun Jung, who was only 12 when she was taken, but she survived. [Trigger warning, it's not graphic, but extremely hearbreaking] In Seul, there's a Statue of Peace, to commemorate all the wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:42 PM
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I agree, just wanted to point out that NVM is literally negative value man. No value man isn't a thing, it's just some newbies confusing terminology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:24 PM
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Only the most controlling of NVM would monitor the name of every makeup brand his SO looks at. While not entirely impossible, it's a lot harder for NVM to keep track of and block all avenues of escape/reaching out for help. There are code words at bars, some restaurants, notes about using different pen ink at the doctors office (in the restroom). Ultimately I think it's a good thing when things like that get publicity and the more of them are created, the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:44 PM
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I absolutely get where you're coming from. I really wish it was possible to filter out some post flairs. Actually just googled it there is a google chrome extension, that's what I'm getting now! I could do without male depravity for a couple days or weeks. I recommend the level up strategy, it's a sister sub in the sidebar and focuses on non-men related things, though it's smaller and often gets less engagement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:36 PM
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But she went through the trauma again... that's not a win. Better to weed them out in other ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:39 PM
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Thanks for the recomendation, sounds lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:45 PM
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Well my only free award doesn't quite fit the theme, but I refuse to give reddit money... so yeah, hugs for all the women who needed to read this to break free. Excellent article! We absolutely can and do form habits by repeating behavior, which does create pathways in our brain. And no, kinksters are not all superhuman entities who can magically completely separate sexual desires from affecting the rest of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:14 PM
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Cheating is never queen shit, but leaving and acknowledging your mistakes absolutely is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:50 AM
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Definitely a good thing for individuals and on a global scale, but uncool for countries on macrolevel as it is harder to sustain an aging population that drains your resources (healthcare, pensions, other social programs) when you have fewer young people to generate taxes, gdp and fill in the demand for workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:39 PM
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Why on earth would you tell him that? To make sure he gets the satisfaction of knowing he made you swallow your pride before? If you are really worried about ghosting (promise you he wouldn't lose any sleep over that worrying about you, you already know he just wanted you for sexual stuff), you can always just send a short message that it's not working out, then block and delete. Also important to remember, just because a person doesn't want to treat you right, doesn't see your value or wants to…
/r/askFDS03/03/21 05:07 PM
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If you send him paragraphs he's gonna laugh and pat himself on the back for getting into your head, maybe show his friends. I do recommend blocking and deleting this guy, reading the handbook and doing the self work necessary before dating.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 03:40 PM
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If he brings up kinks, yeah that's just bad news. Block and delete. But for future reference, it might not be a good idea to show all your cards before hearing his position on things. Many men will happily lie to you about what they do or don't find acceptable based on your position. You probably want to find someone with compatible views, so you wouldn't even think about lying and misrepresenting such an important part of yourself. However, for men they might be honest about their position even…
/r/askFDS25/02/21 07:34 PM
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You don't have to explain, justify or beg them to treat you a certain way. Tell them you want to take things slow, just state your boundaries clearly and if he's asking you for justifications, trying to disagree with you about how you should be treated by him, what you deserve or don't deserve, then you know he is not going to treat you well, even if you manage to convince him to pretend to be respectful at first. Also sex should never be so traumatazing as to require aftercare. What aftercare i…
/r/askFDS11/02/21 06:03 PM
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Well, yes, when they think they can get away with being assholes to everyone without consequences they behave accordingly, especially in cultures where police won't take complaints seriously and bystanders won't intervene or even shame the woman for being harassed. My point was that money just makes more situations free of consequences, that's about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:33 PM
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I don't think it really warps the mind, more that it lets the person be who they really are. A lot of lower income men just don't publicly act like shitheads because they have more to lose so they control their behavior when it's benefitial. There are many wealthy HVM, but the majority of men in general are LV/NV, so the majority of wealthy ones are also LV/NV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:07 AM
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In theory, almost any ideology is good, in practice way too many libertarians are sketchy about the age of consent. Plus "being hurt" can be interpreted differently by different groups. It's not uncommon for libertarians to argue that "consentual" sex with children is fine because biologically children "are equipped to handle it." Queue all the whining about evolution, biology, early puberty etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:37 PM
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Partially what you said, but basically yes, reducing the role of government in interpersonal relationship, how they usually put it. More prominent political figures like chairman of Libertarian National Committee (Arvin Vohra) straight up said this: We all know that different people mature at different rates. Biologically, people go through puberty at considerably different ages. The psychological variation, in terms of IQ, life experience, emotional intelligence, is even greater. One size could…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:00 PM
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but libertarians are crazy too... And have way too many pedos in their ranks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:17 AM
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Surprisingly enough there's a variety of these things if you google "human bubble"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:46 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/he972r/i_was_at_a_bar_and/ Looks like it was removed by moderators, I wonder why hmmmmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:23 PM
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I'm glad that part resonated with you! Hope you will build fulfilling friendships that make you happier :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:38 PM
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Half the comment are about how his father fucked him up and the poor 30 year old boy had no agency in acting abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:11 AM
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Yeah it's probably this, or the word "manchild", I've been banned from some subreddit for using it, don't remeber which, might have been relationships or something like that, it really triggers them when you call out being unable to do basic adult chores for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:33 PM
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They can't even detect eyeliner, mascara and brown/white eyeshadow (with glitter!!) sometimes. I had my eyes fully done to every date with one dude in my pickmeisha days, and he kept going on and on about how naturally beautiful I am and that women don't need makeup to look pretty and I was "proof". I was speechless. Now I wish I'd asked him if he thought I was a vampire from twilight with naturally sparkling skin... like how unobservant does one have to be? Might have been a neg, I guess, but I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:55 AM
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The title literally says "portrayed in western media" how much more critical can it get lmao. I actually read your other comment on this post and... I'm not sure you've read the handbook? This is not a libfem sub where chasing after men is promoted. If you chase men they will gladly sleep with you and date you but will not respect you 99% of the time. I’m very much of the mind that if a woman wants to approach a man, the world won’t explode. Feminism won’t get set back because women flirt with m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:45 PM
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It’s embarrassing that a post shaming women is so highly upvoted here This post isn't even shaming anyone, what? It shows the typical portrayal in the media women get for showing interest in men. And it's how you can expect to be viewed if you chose to chase men because we don't live in a perfect rational world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:16 PM
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honestly? No idea, maybe pornsick, maybe just so self absorbed that it actually shows in the eyes, maybe unmotivated with no sense of purpose so there's no spark in the eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:53 PM
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Honsetly, what he said about Heather O'rourke 's death seems like an unhinged speculation. After doing a little bit of googling she died from acute bowel obstruction due to congenital stenosis, not a burst intestine like Owen says in the video. That intenstinal blockage might have been there since birth. The first symptoms started in January 1987, and she went through a lot of doctors. At first they thought she had the flue, then discovered a parasite Giardia. After killing it, some inflammation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:28 PM
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