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| 1 | Should I use “liquid courage”?Haven’t done it yet but it’s my only option atm. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 07:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery storeWhAt direct opener did you use? | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Does masturbation have an affect on approaching/getting girlsNah it’s like if you’re 20 you should do it once every 4 days | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Does masturbation have an affect on approaching/getting girlsI don’t even know myself. I work most the day as well it’s just when I get home. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Jawline vs. muscles. What do women/girls prefer?Chances are if you’re skinny you have low body fat, when you bulk up you put on fat but if you aim to put on 1/2 a lb a week you’re fine, you’ll gain little fag. And after your bulking phase you cut down to get rid of the fat and then repeat. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Keep using the weather as an excuseSee I’d do that with my phone however recently I got a call about a family memetic who passed away and I wasn’t going to answer at first because I was working but good job I did. And that put me off doing stuff like that. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Will this work?It’s not really manipulative tho is it? I’m stRting a conversation, and using it as an excuse if she doesn’t want to give me her details then I’m not going to manipulate it. And most of “game” is about manipulation. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How can I do an indirect openerI haven’t done a full direct approach this is just to build me up to it, because going up to a girl and calling her cute straight up is terrifying, so the plan is to go up ask for directions say “thanks. What’s your name? And then tell her mine and shake her hand then say the real reason I came up to her is because I thought she was cute and joke that I didn’t have any cheesy pick up lines on hand | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How can I do an indirect openerLook at how to beasts Video. He said do this a few times before going direct if you’re not confident | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Is this guy worse and different than 5 years ago to not meet this girl from 5 years ago? U.K.He needs to stop🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Birmingham UK wingman for day/night gameHi guys I’m also from Birmingham! Maybe we can all give it a go! I’ve lived here all my life so I know the area well, and I drive so I can meet anywhere around the birmingham area I usually try approach at Solihull! | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I be less emotional?Thank you so much for the help you’ve like opened my eyes about her, she was only probably using me to pass the time, she told me a few times that she didn’t like that lad she slept with but last night kinda let it slip she did, and obviously he took her virginity so she will have some form of feelings for him, I think the best bet is to go out after work today do my first approach and try get better at game and settle down once I find the right girl, everything you said is true I just need to g… | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How can I be less emotional?This sounds stupid but we never met before, we spoke on Instagram and Snapchat and had like 4 hour phone calls a lot, the arguement was about meeting. She liked the lad who took her virginity I think but he mugged her off. So think that answers the first three. She told me she liked me tho, and in the way she played me was she was telling me she’d meet me throughout it all and like when I stopped talking to her for a few months she slept with someone else. Then she kept sleeping with him while t… | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Is this too weird?That’s the issue we aren’t on talking terms at the minute she’s having something really bad happening to her and she won’t meet me for them. And I want to let her know I’m here for her she’s girlfriend material so thought I’d try stand out | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Just can’t seem to do it.Can’t find anyone I’ve tried | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Just can’t seem to do it.That’s what I was planning on doing when I go out next, going to try this until I can open direct and thank you this will help me, I’m planning on either going out later today if the weather clears up or tomorrow so I’ll let you know with a field report thanks | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test and did I pass?I think it’s a uk thing | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test and did I pass?What? | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Was this a shit test and did I pass?I don’t speak like that usually i was doing it as a joke | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test and did I pass?Uk | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 05:25 PM |
| -7 | Was this a shit test and did I pass?Every girl puts it to me I don’t get the issue? | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Foucsing on one girl is ruining your sucess with womenThink this is so true, been stuck on the same girl speaking for two years, we haven’t met up, we stopped speaking for a few months come back to find out she’s slept with someone else, and she keeps going on like she will meet me but never does and yeah I am clingy with her now and can’t seem to get rid of her and she’s claiming she’s too busy and I think she has other options but gets jealous when i go on like I talk to other girls. But truth is I don’t. And it’s all because I’ve caught feelings… | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Out trying to get my first approachI approached her, just asked for directions but she seemed kind of moody so I just said thanks when she told me and left. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | How can I pick up a milf?That’s true and I like that line I’ll give it a go thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 08:12 PM |
| 2 | How can I message someone on Instagram that I don’t know but want to know?Usually, just the typical conversation. Me: Hey how’s it going? Her: good thanks wbu? Me: Good, are you up to much? Her: Not really just chilling, wby? Me: just got in from work really, I know this is random but I’d like to say you’re really pretty Her: Aww thanks Me: can I have your Snapchat? (Sometimes I tell them to add me) Her: sure it’s .... That’s how majority of it goes for me anyway | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I message someone on Instagram that I don’t know but want to know?Don’t get me wrong I’ve found really good relationships off of there, ended up getting friendzoned back in the day because of my inexperienced self, but yeah the current girls I’m talking to came from Instagram. I have my little method on getting girls on there. If you want local girls, then go on to one of your mates or someone who lives in the areas instagram and go to their photo and follow all the girls that’s liked it. When they accept your follow like their recent photo and follow the girl… | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 04:51 PM |
| 3 | How can I message someone on Instagram that I don’t know but want to know?I just usually say hey how’s it going? But don’t expect a lot of the girls to reply, I have around 3000 followers and I haven’t had much luck, got on really well with maybe about 10-20 girls? And only speak to about 5 of them still | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I go about this Milf?There’s quite a bit actually, close to my family so she can say what I did, I could get into a fight with the boyfriend or whatever. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 09:30 PM |
| 0 | How do I go about this Milf?As one of the day gamer YouTubers said, the harsh truth is that most of the women he sleeps with have a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | FR Day 2I’m going out all day tomorrow to try it. Hopefully I can do it. Ill try say what you’re telling me to. I’m just so gutted about that last girl she was litterally the type of girl I’d go for for a long term thing. She was so pretty. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Picking up Girls at a running club?Hi sorry, I’m shy as a person so the main reason for me to go is to meet new people, and come out my comfort zone I really don’t want to go, not because of not wanting to do the activity because of my anxiety. Meeting girls would be a plus I just need to get out there and meet someone. And also i want to get into jogging. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app wants to meet up but do I look different on the pics? U.K.You keep saying all this stop worrying only way to know for sure is if you meet her, if she’s half decent then she’d not care. As long as she can tell it’s you you’re golden. | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Girl on dating app wants to meet up but do I look different on the pics? U.K.Seriously stop posting this. Girls don’t care about looks stop dodging it. And just meet her | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | FRThanks for the reply! Yeah I couldn’t even approach a girl to ask for directions at the start of this. I have watched a lot of Tom Toreo I like his black sheep bandit series where he goes picking up girls in different cities and such. But I don’t really like that model, I feel like it’s robotic and doesn’t seem natural like I find the whole “because you’re wearing red boots with a green dress you must be artistic” sort of stuff cringe, i think I’ll have a shot at going with the flow and having n… | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | FRYeah I think I’ll try to do that tomorrow, 1 approach but I have to compliment. I’m being too indirect and I need to overcome it and I’ll set myself that target now. I’ll focus on it one day at a time, I don’t really feel any anxiety asking for directions anymore only for the first apporach it’s a bit crap but after that I’m fine, I’m so happy with what I’ve done today through considering I couldn’t even talk to a girl before I started this journey and couldn’t even approach one girl, and today … | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pics? U.K.Everybody sees it every week just meet her if she don’t like you then she doesn’t if she does then great it don’t matter | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Another bad day...Thanks man I’ll take a look and I think that’ll help a lot what you said, I’m going to try that tonight I wondered if you had any tips on approaching groups of two since that’s what girls are usually in at town? When I ask for directions how do I tell one of them that they look pretty while talking to them? Do I just look at the person I like the most and say that they look pretty? | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Another bad day...I think I’m going to try that? I think it might be easy, I’ve got some recordings already, but it’s just me soeaking about what I did that day etc | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Bad day again...asking for directions to get me started because I wasn’t brave enough to straight up call a girl cute. And I’m trying to compliment them so they know why I want and that I’m interested in them | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Bad day approaching any tips?Sorry don’t get that quote 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Bad day approaching any tips?Thanks! I’m aiming to do it Monday-Friday after work, for 2 hours | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Bad day approaching any tips?I’ll take a look. Thanks | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Bad day approaching any tips?Yeah thanks for the tip I’ve been voice noting all of my approaches, think I’m going to carry on voice noting and maybe at end of the month/week (not sure yet) I’ll type up my voice notes on my notes so I can see where my sticking points are and what I can improve on thanks for the reply. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Bad day approaching any tips?I sort of shrugged it off, She didn’t even look at me tbh I approached from behind she sorta just flicked her hair after I asked again and I sorta shrugged it off and said ignore me then😂 quite impressed I approached her tho tbf she was easily a 9/10 | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Bad day approaching any tips?Yeah I’m going to ask for directions now, and actually the time thing has worked well for me a lot of the time I’ve probably asked about 10 girls and they’ve all told me apart from one yesterday. It helped me approach girls, before I couldn’t even ask for the time, so I just forced myself to go out and ask at least one person for the time, then the next day I asked 5 people and now I think I’m just going to ask like where’s the nearest Starbucks so that can carry with a bit of conversation and i… | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Did these girls like me and I blew it by ignoring or was it nothing? U.K.Send me a pm | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Did these girls like me and I blew it by ignoring or was it nothing? U.K.I’m terrible with girls myself mate, and I’ve been in that situation where a girls called me cute and I shyed away exactly like you. But You should take it as a compliment I think you came off as rude, you should of said something when they asked if you had a girlfriend that was clear interest maybe if you see them again say hey how have you been etc, and if they ask about that night so you was having a bad day. Send me a pm bro and I’ll talk to you properly about it. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Did these girls like me and I blew it by ignoring or was it nothing? U.K.Not sure too me it sounds like the brunette was speaking for the blonde one. Im from the UK but if a girl calls you cute it’s a good sign just show more confidence and flirt with them just say something funny and ask for their Snapchat or number | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:07 PM |
| -1 | Did these girls like me and I blew it by ignoring or was it nothing? U.K.I think the blonde one liked you, I’m from the UK as well haha I’ve had situations like those and regretted because I never acted. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 01:35 PM |
| -1 | Did these girls like me and I blew it by ignoring or was it nothing? U.K.They like you dude I’m exactly the same you should of went for it and answered “I haven’t but you never know you could be my next one!” Or something flirty like that, they are bound to be in again don’t waste the opportunity next time try your hardest! | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | First approaches!First ones hard to rack up the strength to do it after that it’s easy. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 10:14 AM |
| 2 | First approaches!Thanks bro, and yeah I was even nervous asking for the time at first but once I got the first one done, I was good I wanted to ask someone else so I did. I did want to ask a 3rd person but I can only get an hours free parking before I have to park somewhere else, so I left it. I’m going to pay for parking today and going to try to do it for a few hours, and yeah today I’ll attempt to approach a group and ask for the time. And yeah I get what you’re saying about a woman I realised it yesterday, a… | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Excuses...Ok! Thanks for the advice and the reply, my Instagram is pretty decent as it is I think, I have a couple thousand followers and I don’t follow a lot of people, because apart to the ratio matters🤔😂 but yeah I’ll go for the number then, is it best to phone her up, or text once I have the number? I think a lot of girls get scared/creeped out when you call them too early | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Excuses...One of the people from RSD said it was better to get their social media’s? | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Excuses...I’ve got it all worked out in my head that’ll I’ll go up to a girl say hi you look cute, and she will be like thanks we will talk for a bit and then I’ll get her Snapchat and it’ll go on more from there, when in reality who knows what it will be like🤷♂️ think I was just telling myself that to push me into doing it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Excuses...Thanks for the reply! But I don’t think it’s that, in my head I’ve got it set up to be successful, I know I shouldn’t but that’s how I’m seeing it.i think I actually have bad anxiety I haven’t been diagnosed but I relate to a lot of the symptoms, so maybe it’s that that is making this so much harder for me. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Do I Need a PT?I feel fat at the moment, I have a skinny frame, but carry a lot of fat on my stomach and back. All my friends who are of similar height are around 65kg and they can their abs etc, and I believe even atom Holland from Spider man is that weight, I’m looking at cutting down so I looked ripped and can see my muscles, so that way I can clean bulk for longer without looking fat. At the minute I’ve got a fatty face as well and leaning down will make my jaw line come out more and appear less fat. I tri… | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Do I Need a PT?I’m surprised anything gets posted there | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Do I Need a PT?Can’t post it in fitness keeps getting taken down | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Boxing vs gym for a great body?How often can I do both? Like I work 7-4 Monday-Friday it takes me an hour to get there and then an hour back so don’t have time for both unless the boxing gym I go to will have weights which I think a lot of them don’t then it’s going to be hard. Otherwise that would be a good idea. I haven’t been to a boxing gym before but I’m guessing they don’t have weights? And would I do like 3 days boxing 3 days gym? And yeah I’m 72kg but have a high body fat I wanna be able to see my abs but eventually I… | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | First approach help wingman?Give me a message that sounds great | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | First approach help wingman?Thank you for your reply, Yeah I think I’ve been thinking about losing it too much and thinking ahead with everything, I feel like I overthink a lot, I need to just be in the moment enjoy it and not just be thinking to myself in my head about what’s going to happen. I think meditation can help with this? Never tired it before. To be honest I could tell a lot of the girls were young, I seen one girl who I wanted to approach but she was with her nan I think, and I just wanna concentrate on single … | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Texting for ages, how to look less needy.I need to get the abundance mindset. I’ve never approached a girl before, never been on a date, or anything. The way I meet my girls is through Instagram I just slide into the dms get their Snapchat and speak. I don’t think I’m that bad looking of a lad. I just can’t get over talking to girls think I’ve got anxiety or something lmao. And make things worse I’m 20 and haven’t done anything with a girl yet .. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 10:35 AM |
| -1 | Texting for ages, how to look less needy.Thanks man but this girl is hard work I’ve been so direct with her, asked her if she wanted to go further, and she keeps replying with “dunno🤷♂️” I’m pretty sure she feels awkward talking about it I don’t know put so much effort in her so don’t really want to get rid of her yet until I at least get a date with her. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 10:29 AM |
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