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This figure doesn't really say anything on its own. Do you have a link to the study?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 10:16 AM
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Plenty of men with money with no game desperate enough to lock a woman. You basically answered your own question. It's not that they can't find a man, it's that the quality drastically goes down. The actual 'cope' is to be found amoung people trying to enforce dating your own age. Older women try to shame men dating younger because it hurts their own prospects. At the same time men lacking confidence use it as a cope to avoid risking rejection and perceived humiliation by settling for the easy p…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:28 PM
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So what happens on subsequent dates?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:52 PM
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All hail Kurk the patron virgin saint of TRP. His enlightened being too pure for the female touch. I shall burn a candle in your name before running a train.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:26 AM
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The only thing wrong with you is your victim mentality.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:53 PM
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All lot of people have already told you that your friend did you a favour and you should learn from him, etc. and I agree with all of that. However, you have an even bigger problem which is called putting pussy on a pedestal. Every paragraph you write has a huge blinking orbiter warning. You are living in a Disney fantasy where you develop feelings for a girl, do the great gesture of love, she's sees what a good guy you are and you live happily ever after. This is a cancer on your mind and don't…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:01 PM
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You are confusing things. Yes, you shouldn't chase women. However, you still have to take the initiative and lead. That's an important difference you need to understand. If you think that you have to buy women anything you are in a transactional mindset probably caused by lacking confidence. It's a fair exchange, two people enjoying each other. That women don't want to come straight home to you is not because you haven't given them anything, it's because they are not comfortable with it and they…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:23 PM
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The problem is that you are socially just passively hanging along. This works for getting laid in college because that's what everybody else is doing. This won't work anymore so you have to take the initiative yourself. Meet new people, change where you hang out, hobbies, etc. Theres plenty of women our there but they won't come to you on their own. You should also learn to take advantage of all the serendipitous situations in your every day life. This will make you more socially outgoing and wi…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 11:00 AM
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Context matters. When you're talking to a girl at work you have to be more tactful than you would be at the club. There might be colleges and clients around and the bar for what is considered acceptable banter is lower (depends on workplace). Consider also that if you suddenly go for an aggressive line she might feel that you took advantage of her having her guard down while having a conversation at work, which seems to be what happened here. You must also take in to account that she's literary …
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:36 PM
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"Say what again. SAY WHAT again! And I dare you, I double dare you motherfucker! Say what one more time."
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:41 AM
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"Say what again. SAY WHAT again! And I dare you, I double dare you motherfucker! Say what one more time."
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:40 AM
2

Considering the things you will be discussing I don't think this is a hard issue to communicate. You don't have to threaten with leaving, just say that you don't want to play second fiddle relationship-wise and if he's a bit dull you can add that it means you don't want step children.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:43 PM
2

Q3: If we put aside the idea of what is fair and reasonable and instead focus on how such an arrangement would actually work. If your plan is to leave if it happens than all is good, no discussion needed. However, let's say he has a kid with another woman and you decide not to get involved in that aspect of his life but still continue the relationship. Is that really something you'd want? Surely this would encroach on your relationship as he would have responsibilities financially and timewise t…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:21 PM
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Buy her flowers and write her a poem. If your love is true cupid will shoot an arrow through her heart and you will live happily ever after ❤️❤️❤️
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:50 PM
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Does this guy live in Sicily during the 1910s? Is she not allowed to meet men without her family watching? Context matters; however, these days the context is increasingly the same everywhere. If society is not enforcing traditional behavior than you shouldn't expect it from women. In western progressive countries there are few restrictions on sexual behavior so people increasingly act according to their base instincts. The more people follow their instincts the better TRP explains their behavio…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:13 PM
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There is no self improvement stage, it's all just one stage. Trying divide things into stages is just an excuse to stay in your comfort zone. If you want to get laid you have to get out of your comfort zone and start talking to women.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:39 PM
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You are afraid to be rejected and judged so you close up so that nobody can't find anything to criticize. To other people it has the opposite effect because it looks sketchy, like you're hiding something. Instead accept that your being judged and deal with it. If you put yourself out there you'll get more comfortable with yourself with time. In the meantime you might say and do dorky shit but that's just part of maturing.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:18 PM
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Lol, this is so blatant that it's hard to call it a shit test instead of her just fucking with you. Basically she telling you "we can hang out if I don't find anything better to do and I'm bored, maybe". It's not about getting laid but about you lacking any sense of self worth.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:00 PM
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Not subhuman but also not a as sexual being. If you want to get bro sciencey it might be a way to disarm an otherwise akward situation. You build confidence by accomplishing small goals and making them bigger with time. Your own attitude towards your shyness is also important. If you don't make a bigger deal out of it it won't be as akward for other people.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:24 PM
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What do you mean "call him out on it"? Are you going to tell him that his lack of small talk has hurt your feels? If he's suddenly not sociable for whatever reason that's not your problem. Just say "hey" and do you.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:02 PM
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"she's a unicorn" = You put her on a pedestal Your self worth is completely tied to her next social media post. Maybe you should read the sidebar. Maybe you'll realize that this not her making but it's all your fragile ego in your fragile mind.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:48 PM
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Chances of what? You have to escalate if you want to have sex. If you don't she'll lose interest and you won't be having sex. You are not desperate, you are leading the interaction to sex as she is expecting you to do. Alternatively you can take it slow and orbit her pretending to be her gay friend and see how that goes.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:55 AM
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Boy, this ain't mean girls. You leave her on read if what she wrote is not worth responding to, not because you're a manipulative little twerp, but because it's the right thing to do. If you don't believe that then that's the problem you need to work on.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:16 PM
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You wouldn't understand anyway you insensitive clod!
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:24 PM
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If this is tinder or the like then you must realize that she's writing at least 10 other guys and you might get lost in the commotion. You can't take it personally because it's not. You don't know each other she's just a random name on a screen. Until you actually meet you should treat every conversation as something expandable and likely to end at any second. The same goes for booked dates. Treat them all as tentative until your same day check in.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 01:22 PM
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You're being paranoid. To most people out in the trenches this is par the course. They are probably doing it themselves to some other guy as we speak.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 01:09 PM
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The right response to a compliment is to not make a spectacle out of it. The default should be "thanks" and nothing else. The exception is if you have a joke like "Gorgeous? Are you trying to say I look gay?".
/r/askTRP18/05/21 10:54 AM
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I'm not going to tell you that your still young and "go get'em tiger!" Maybe it is too late, so what? Your job is to find a circumstance where you thrive right now. Life is a direction not a destination. Focusing on what you've missed is like looking for a rewind switch that doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:19 AM
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I like the idea of seeking market truth. However, what you do with it is even more important. This reminds me of this quote: “In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock.” -Thomas Jefferson
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 11:36 AM
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You don't "handle" this. If you want different things then this is how it ends.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:30 PM
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I think you have misunderstood the meaning of father figure. It's not anybody older than you willing to give free advice. It's somebody whom you have a relationship with that you trust and find aspirational, who understands you enough to guide you and talks to you like a man.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:06 PM
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There's two things you can do: 1. Fuck the guy talking to your girl so that he can experience what a man feels like. 2. Pee on them establish your dominance.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:55 PM
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You sound confused about what redpill is. Redpill is not a bunch of manipulation tactics used to take advantage of people. The basic idea is that men and women have different sexual strategies and if you try no navigate the world with what Disney taught you will not end up with a good deal.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 12:32 PM
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I think the Queens gambit is the best example because it's considered a good movie by the general public. It has also has done a ton to popularize chess, making chess players support it in a completely uncritical way. But underneath is just another thinly veiled Mary Sue with an asinine script and portrayal of chess. And you can see that the whole point of the movie is to push a social agenda, but because she's hot, quirky, and inexplicably smart, it's easy to digest.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 10:46 AM
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It's basically ruing most movies and series coming out these days. You have this feeling that somebody is trying to sell you something all of the damn time. Some get away with it better than others while movies such as Star Wars have gone full retard. They threw everything else out the window, shit acting, shit script, shit story, boring characters, but never mind, the wokness was on point 👌
/r/askTRP24/04/21 12:58 AM
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She will cheat on you with the first guy that calls her ugly.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:49 PM
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The real question is why do you think it's strange? Do you think your resume will get you laid?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:45 PM
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She thinks that she can do better.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:39 PM
2

Are you asking us for permission to get your noodle wet? Have you asked your mom?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:36 PM
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They might very well ask out of curiosity. A shit test is not just about the actual question but also about how it's asked and how you interpret it. Even if it's not meant as a a shit test your friend is making it one by being sensitive about it. He's disqualifying himself.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 11:28 PM
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This is good. You've now establishes dominance over his girlfriend. All that's left is to piss on him as well and you've set up a cuckoldry threesome with latex sheets. I advice you to meet up with him under the guise of accepting your beating. Fill up on some soda beforehand and wear the same underwater with thee pee pee hole. The finishing touch should be a butt plug properly sized to tease your bladder. When he shows up you lure him in closer with your punchable face and in the last second yo…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:48 PM
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There's nothing in RP saying you can't have emphaty. That's said, there's nothing more destructive than excessive empathy and there's nothing that dries a pussy out faster than being overly agreeable. Use emphaty to understand and connect with people, but aim for understanding but stern rather than friendly doormat. Imagine a parent overreacting to a childs every tantrum. Super emphatetic, total chaos, fucked up child.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:33 PM
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You kind of answered your own question. But to dig a bit deeper You can't be rejected if you're not hitting on her This puts pressure of your ego which which otherwise is squirming afraid to be bruised. If you present yourself as harmless she won't judge as harshly. Compare this to hitting on women in the club where that is what they except. She will immediately judge you, before you even open your mouth. You are afraid to show your sexuality in public Especially in front of other people. The mi…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 06:05 PM
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Just as you can't negotiate attraction you can't negotiate being a priority. Having the discussion with her just changes your image from doormat to frustrated doormat. My guess is that you guys are really young and she isn't sexually active or hasn't been for long. This charade will drop real quick when it does and she might or might not be honest about it.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:09 PM
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It doesn't mean anything, you're just a toy. You are not a special snowflake this is textbook orbiter behavior. If the guy she's actually fucking calls she will leave you to meet him. If you make plans with her she will cancel them to meet him. If she make rules for you she will break them for him. Basically you are rationalizing to yourself and pretending to be her friend because you're hoping you might get laid. That's not a honest relationship and is not good for your mental development.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:53 PM
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That is terrible advice and completely antithetical to RP philosophy. Your advice should help him further his goals (getting laid), instead you tell him to give in to her harebrained idea which will only give him blue balls and regret. Guys being too agreeable and going along with every whim of a woman because they think being a doormat is a good way to get laid is one of the fundamental problems we deal with here. As for her unattractive friend, her looks are relevant because OP seems to think …
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:49 AM
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I like her!
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:42 PM
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You're focusing on the wrong things. It's not rocket science but if you didn't learn growing up you just lack the programming. Sure, lifestyle is important but in the end it comes down to creating sexual tension with a woman. To do this you need to be horny and have some self esteem/confidence. Your mindset seems to be that there is some imaginary "good enough to fuck" checklist which you haven't checked. This tells me that when you're talking to women you're not exactly oozing cocky confidence …
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:09 PM
1

It's more complicated.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:41 PM
1

Ok, I'll bite, what is purple pill?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:04 PM
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"Hey guys, these two random names said in public that they don't agree with you on nothing in particular. What gives?" I think this question might need some fleshing out.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:49 PM
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I was a 4th degree iron penis black belt. I was able to lift 20lbs with the shaft and another 5 with each ball. This made it possible to spin a small girl on my dick like a spinning top.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:28 PM
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Let me ask you question: what's your goal with this? Do you enjoy it?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:58 PM
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The problem here is that this could be interpreted in two ways. You of course want us to pat you on the back and tell you that your friend is a cuck and his wife a bitch. However, another way to interpret this is that you made a hen out of a feather and unnecessarily framed it as a conflict between you and his wife. Then when they tried to appease you, you doubled down like a brat instead of taking the olive branch. However, the important take away is that you have no reason to be angry at anybo…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 06:45 PM
2

This girl is on another level, it's not a shit test, it's a gay test: "look at my ex's nice creamy cumshot, does it make you horny?" 🤣
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:11 PM
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I love this wifi analogy. To continue on it: Your girl just wants to watch Netflix without the annoying buffering. She's on your neighbors wifi cause yours is slow as shit. Now you are throwing hissy fit demanding that she uses your slow ass wifi. She'll switch to avoid a scene but she'll be right back on that good wifi when you're not looking. If this continues she'll make sure she has a better internet provider lined up and promptly dump your ass.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:55 PM
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12, but I have hair on my pee pee
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:19 PM
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What is normal? Have you never seen a successful, fit, likeable guy behave like a tool around attractive women, then settling with an average woman? Have you never seen a complete looser drown in pussy? Having your shit together is important but not enough. What TRP teaches about behavior is even more important. These are things that aren't intuitive to most men as the mainstream advice they grow up with is terrible. However, most people know the things that you outline to be true without advice…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:54 PM
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The whole point is that you are asking for a formulaic answer to get her off your case which is the wrong mindset. The frame in which you communicate is more important than the words you say. Given that I don't know any details that's all the advice I can give. The actual words are up to you.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:58 PM
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You buy a fuck doll and then pee on it to demonstrate your alpha dominance. Or... You change your shitty attitude and stop shit posting stupid leading questions.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:14 PM
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Short answer:. The problem here is that she is disrespecting you and then demanding an explanation, and your reaction is scrambling to appease her, scared of looking like an asshole. If she keeps using her outside voice then maybe your soft next should turn hard, eh? Long answer: You don't seem to understand the underlying idea behind not explaining. It's not that you can never do it, it's that more often than not it puts you in her frame. She instinctively understands this, that's why she is co…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:27 PM
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"The Joker killed my parents"
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:57 PM
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This guy is a former fighter pilot and has a bunch of videos on the topic: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UeEgayk4VEU
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:00 PM
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PUA: An attempt to turn getting laid into a science. TRP: A philosophy (a set of beliefs) regarding how men and women interact. PUA started with nerds trying to get laid using nerd methods, i.e trying to turn it into science. Thausands of guinea pigs over the years has made for a lot of interesting and useful observations. The weakness of PUA is the focus on technique and the weak reactive mindset that comes from the singular goal of getting laid. TRP turns things around and says: Your own mind …
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:18 PM
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Context matters. In general taking a day to reply is fine, but if your asking her about something two days out then it's less appropriate. Either way I wouldn't worry about it as she's a loose acquaintance.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:24 PM
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You seem to think that you can purely focus on building yourself up now to be 'done' and able to slay when you're 20. That's a video game fantasy. You don't want a formulaic approach to life, that's a fragile approach that requires you to predict unpredictable things. Instead embrace trail and error and making small steps every day. The most import things is to not repeat the same mistakes year after year. Also take advantage of being 17, you have resources you'll never have again. In the gym yo…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 11:11 PM
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Science is treated as the new religion, if you want to make a compelling argument it's an advantage to sound 'sciency' regardless of the scientific nature of you argument. Words are defined by how they are populary used so if you misuse a word enough they might even change its dictionary definition.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 08:28 PM
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These are not psychological terms, these are words used by certain ideologies and are used to frame issues in an ideological viewpoint. If I can control what language you use I can control how you think. Ideologs know this instinctively and that's why they make up their own language and try to ban certain words.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:37 PM
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To sanely use dating apps you have to literally give them as much attention as you have time for while taking a shit. You can't look at is a normal human interaction. I like to compare it to angling, the type were the rod is sitting unattended and once in a while you come back and have a look. If you are wondering why she hasn't responded then you are in the wrong frame. You don't care if the fish bites, it's just a background process, a supplement to your real life.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:30 PM
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In womanese "you're too nice too me" doesn't actually mean that she doesn't think she deserves waht you did. What it means is "Our relationship is not close enough to warrant you doing this for me, now I feel akward". That akward feeling is caused by you showing a large commitment that she doesn't feel like reciprocating. Tldr: you're needy and she's weirded out.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:46 PM
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As for politics, an angry liberal looks passionate, while an angry conservative looks like a psycho. The natural conservative point of view is dispassionate. As for your hostile attitude, your anger against others is misplaced and you should look inwards to reconcile it, otherwise it will hurt you socially. I'm not saying you should conform but right now it sounds like you feel as if surrounded by enemies and that's your problem. Reevaluate things is just another way of saying "it's not you, it'…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:53 AM
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When you're hungry the cheapest cuts look like ribeye.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:54 AM
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"I was just pondering the absurdity of life"
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:59 PM
1

You're asking for this one weird trick... Sure there's tricks to "not be awkward" but that's not the same thing as charisma. The tough guy, having gravitas or being stoic or whatever is not charisma either. Charisma is a mix of confidence and creativity. You have to intrinsically enjoy the social interaction and be comfortable enough to be playful, take social risks and make it feel engaging and genuine to the people you interact with. If you want a good example of a person with charisma look at…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 12:45 PM
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Here's a different perspective: On our way home, I asked her if she felt guilty about it, and If she was thinking about her boyfriend. She agreed, she said she didnt want to cheat on him... On the way home I made sure to solidify the idea that it's wrong for us to hook up and that she "belongs to the other guy". I didn't slut shame her. Tried to make it a comfortable atmosphere. Next week, we're meeting up at her place to hangout. Next week is my first day in orbiter school! I'm so excited you g…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:50 PM
2

Imagine that you are able to meet a new hot girl every day. Now imagine how little it would take for you to get tired of one and jump to the next.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:07 PM
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Have a buddy fuck you in the ass. The zink and proteins are really well absorbed in the intestinal lining. It's like nourishing punch to the gut! 😍
/r/askTRP07/01/21 05:05 PM
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See, you are not asking am I alpha enough? You are asking am I good enough for her which of course is the opposite of being alpha. Rest of the post is crystal ball shit we can't help you with.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:28 AM
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Whooosh
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:07 AM
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Nah you're fucked grandpa. You're only allowed to fuck girls your own age or older unless you want to be a big yikes creep and by the time you get in good enough shape to be allowed to have sex (two years of pilates maybe?) you'll only find divorced used up hags so it's not really worth it. Maybe you could try and get in to cuckoldry with a nice 3 kid sort-of-milf but I don't know it seems like too much work to raise somebody else's kids while waiting for their bull to finish. On the bright side…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:03 PM
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If you meant it as: always assume attraction and no girl is out of my league than sure, it's a good mindset. If you mean it as: I can never be rejected cause I'm rEdPiLLeD!, then you are delusional.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:56 PM
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Br0lock wants to be redpill but his girlfriend won't let him! This sounds like a meme of a whipped man feebly tryin to assert himself. The question isn't if you acted like an asshole, only you know that. The question is why your girlfriend thinks that every little choice needs to be a consensus decision carefully deliberated likes the UN. And the even better question is why are you encouraging it? You can't just rush in at the end and be all "mr executive decision", you have to nip it in bud.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:21 AM
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You are trying to make yourself feel better by taking on the victim role (incel). Because you identify as a victim you think that women are agressors and you get consumed by self righteous anger. All though it might feel good short term it's an ineffective and self destructive strategy long term. Instead you should learn to take ownership of your own shortcomings. When you feel responsible for your own situation and feelings it becomes hard to put the blame on, and get angry at, somebody else (w…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:41 PM
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Teach her that you can have sex during her period.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:26 PM
2

Let me give a you a little more nuanced answer. If you can get an advantage by wearing lifts then why not? Some kind of moral reason? Women wear heals to make their ass look bigger why can't you? First of all you have the practical problem of hiding it, and also the issue of not being as socially accepted for men. But most importantly because it fucks with you mentally. Sure being disqualified because of your height can do that as well but it's a constant you can deal with. If you wear lifts and…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:59 PM
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There's no way to recover. All you can do is move on. She might come back some day but you shouldn't count on it or hope for it.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 05:09 PM
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Depends, do you want to be her little good boy begging for scraps from the table? If not, this acquaintance is over. Not friends, not nothing.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:43 PM
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Your overthinking which is her goal with the shit test. Answer equally silly with something like - I'm a dog that likes to burry his bone, woff woff.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:23 PM
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How long is lately and is it linked to some event? Do what the other posts tell you and first try dealing with it yourself, but at some point you should seek help. Depersonalization doesn't sound like your run of the mill depressive episode.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:08 PM
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This story doesn't hold up. You have a thing going with this girl so you think that rather than going home with her alone, fuck, and then actually get some sleep before work, it will be great idea to bring third a wheel? Then you leave them alone drinking at 6 am, she doesn't go to bed with you and you still think that the other guy is the third wheel? C'mon. Probably they wanted you to leave the whole evening but you thought you had some kind of dibs on her because you invited her.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:01 PM
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Who knows what's going through her mind, you shouldn't waste brain cycles trying to understand. Worse yet it's getting to your ego, that's a weakness. However, if you want speculation your little timeline makes it look like she hasn't had a real boyfriend before. Shes really inexperienced, maybe she wants to try that. Also designating her hookups as either alpha or beta seems kind of simplistic.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:36 AM
2

You're probably procrastinating and able to push all the things you know you should do out of mind leaving you in a relaxed bliss. Only problem is that the longer you do this the harder it will be to ignore all the missed opportunities until at some point not even video games will be able to distract you and you'll constantly feel stressed. There are several reasons you are procrastinating: * If you don't try you can't fail. * You have an negative perception of stress. Instead of learning to dea…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:23 AM
1

Your thoughts are obviously ridiculous and that's the first thing you must accept. Even if you're ugly, so what, cry me a river. Your job is to succeed given the tools you have, there are no extra points for having it easy. Do you really want to compete with e-thots about who can be the biggest narcissist? Does that seem manly to you? And just because you have a diagnosis doesn't mean it's not your responsibility anymore. What do think a therapist does? Do you think they magically disappear the …
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:40 PM
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You seem to have a lot of self limiting beliefs about yourself and social interactions. This shines through when you talk to people and makes them uncomfortable. Positive social experiences will dispell this but you have to get them first. Start by working on a more positive attitude, easy and safe interactions, and work your way up. You'll reach a point where you're confidence and abilities snowball. A lot of social conditioning is subconscious and automatic, both good and bad. Use it to your a…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:52 AM
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Sometimes I think people making these post are trolls or trying to bait some ridiculous reply but maybe it's not that straight forward. Maybe the problem is in the wording holding frame. Holding sounds like you are in conflict and not conceding a single inch, like it's s battle of egos. This is not the meaning of holding frame. Boiled down holding frame means deciding what is reality. The opposite of holding frame isn't apologizing, admitting to being wrong or changing your mind, it's being gasl…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:27 PM
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Exactly, I don't think it's cut and dry that only fans is lowering the price of pussy, it works both ways. look at poor Russian girls making bank on western simps leaving their average male peers unable to compete as the price goes out of their pay grade. On the flip side the top girls might end up sucking up all the simp money/attention leaving less for average girls, thus lowering the price. And as the parent said, girls now get paid more for offering less, raising the price. I think there two…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 10:23 PM
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That's your problem. Let's say for a moment that you don't understand that shes messing with you. Her question basically implies that you are lower value than her and that you have to qualify yourself to her. This not a polite thing to say so why doesn't it offend you? Would you be offended if she wasn't a girl? Now without hearing her tone of voice we can't tell but most probably she was testing you, in that case you should be amused and take i in gest.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:03 PM
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I don't think you can draw statistical conclusions from movies. Good movies can depict archetypes in a believable way which can teach us about real life, but in the end certain characters and outcomes will be more popular for ideological reasons or just because it makes a better story. I think a better example of how emotional control leads to success can be found in reality, such as in games like poker. In poker you rate players as more or less agressive or passive. Naturally aggressive players…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:28 PM
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I agree with the posts above but I might add something for your hyper rational mind. There's a selection bias in the people you see as 'self improving'. These are probably people that weren't satisfied with their success sexually or otherwise and are trying to do something about it. The ones that were successful have less incentive to improve and if they do it's not as visible because they already were living a similar lifestyle. Another thing you don't see here is the question of time. A person…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:26 AM
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You make it seem as if TRP means that you should treat girls badly because they're hoes. You are making a lot of assumptions here and you have some faulty logic. First of all you are a victim of the madonna/whore complex. Your mother and sisters are of course pure madonnas and and not like the hoes you dispise, but how can AWALT be true then? Either all girls are hoes or no girls are hoes, right? Wrong. TRP as a sexual theory does not moralize about what is right or wrong neither for men or wome…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:52 PM
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These are not examples of mental illnesses but of normal weak human behaviour which you see everywhere. Sure these are examples of ineffective communication styles, the difference in the red pill interpretation is how you end up there and how to deal with it. Blue pill says that she talks like that because she has a bad communication styles and needs to learn a better one, then all is well. Red pill says she talks like that cause she doesn't respect you, you're frame is weak, and you haven't set…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:17 AM
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We are social beings so we need other people, however.. * Women don't want to be saved and they definitely don't want to spend their free time saving some overgrown momma's boy. You've watched too many Disney movies. * Before you can have a fruitful relationship with somebody else you have to have one with yourself. * Independence -> codependence -> interdependence A teenager revolting against his parents is seeking independence. What you are seeking in a woman is codependence and is the definit…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:19 PM
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It seems you're not sure what she is to you. If she only was a FWB you wouldn't care or know about any of this.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:57 AM
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Regarding my frame, I even know what she did was wrong. I understand I’m in the right for thinking she is in the wrong. No, you're wrong. She didn't wrong you, she doesn't owe you anything. All she did was show you that she didn't have it in her to be the supportive girlfriend. That's not something you can demand of people, they have to want it themselves. To expect a standard issue twenty year old girl to do this is some self entitled blue pill bullshit. Main question: What the fuck do I do to …
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:40 PM
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You say that this is your past self and that you are a new man. If you would believe that it wouldn't still haunt you. The reason for this is the ego. We all tell ourselves a story about who we are, and we seek support in our past to tell this story. For you your past failures are a sore spot that makes you overreact in an uncalibrated way which also is a weakness. You have to accept your past submissiveness as part of your story and part of your possible personality, but you don't have to like …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:03 PM
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If you can't trust your friend to not rat you out to your girlfriend then demote him to anal only friend. But seriously, the fact that he's giving you unsolicited advice is troublesome (or as the woke kids say "problematic"). It's obviously not his own idea and smells of blue pill white knight, the most trecherus of mankind.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:50 AM
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The answer you don't want to hear is that the best way to get over something you're scared of is to do it many times. Might suck in the begining but that's just how it is. Another issue is your self image. If you believe that you are a high value, fun to be around guy, and you are man enough for any woman, then you'll assume attraction and see it as the natural order of things that you two should have sex. You're image of women is also important. Obviously don't put them on a pedistal, and you d…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:58 PM
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If you have an abundance of hot girls in your social circle then cudos to you and enjoy. If it ain't broken don't fix it. I'm just saying that when you get out of school/college things will slowly start to change and you'll social circle will likely shrink. While the social circle is dependant on circumstance, cold approach is always there.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 04:37 PM
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The nice thing about cold approach is that you chose who you approach. If you only want the most good looking girls then only talk to them. Cold approach can be done anywhere anytime. Although I've mostly done it in clubs I've also picked up girls on planes, while hiking or just on the street. Some guys go 'day gaming' and roam the streets, I've always preferred approaching girls I met while out doing something else. While social circle is the easiest way it also limits you. Cold approach expand…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 01:34 PM
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Of course it easier if you don't have to cold approach, that's why it's called cold approach. However your view of it is a weakness in your attitude that you should adres. Cold approaching is not similar to begging in any way, all it means is that you have not had the chance to break the ice with this person before and that they are not otherwise aquatinted with you. When you move out of you parents house, and get a real job this will be a increasingly common occurrence for you. In fact, cold ap…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 03:15 PM
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You can become an entrepreneur from almost any career. However thinking that you can study software engineering for safety and then become Steve Jobs on your spare time is not as straight cut as it might sound. If you want to become an entrepreneur / businessman your best bet is a high level business school. There you will meet like-minded people and make the connections that will help you for years to come.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:16 AM
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Agree and amplify works best on women. With guys it should be funny, give and take. So you should own it, especially if there's some truth to it, and bite back, but in the spirit of fun. If your just going 'hehe I know' it's neither of those. If it goes too far you should be bored more than angry, unless somebody oversteps. As this wasn't a joke about how your mother is a whore, you probably made a hen out of a feather.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:17 AM
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Didnt lose frame but told them to stfu with the racist jokes. They did for a bit but started again. I left to hang out with some others. So you did the opposite of not losing frame? You have to learn to banter. This was actually a funny one, you could own it and have fun with it.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:32 PM
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She doesn't have these beliefs based on deep personal values nor based on religious reasons, it's all from her parents. With time she will mature in her opinions and as long as you don't make it a contentious issues she will assimilate your beliefs. Personally I would find the complete lack of scientific literacy off-putting but given that she's a dancer and not an academic you'll have to make a judgement call.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:01 PM
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You need to learn some humility. You see people are able to pick up on your ego trip and it's an highly unattractive character flaw. The idea behind agreeing and amplifying on shit tests is to show that you do not get butt hurt when someone is challenging your ego. Standing there silently staring looks weak and insecure. This will make it difficult for you to form healthy relationships and will make you a bad leader. If you want to lead your relationships then this is a double fail.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:51 AM
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Being 'nice' to a woman and giving her free attention is like giving your friends candy so they will like you. Imagine it from her point of view. You are signaling that you think that you have so little to offer that you have to buy her attention with undue kindness. The antithesis is a man that has the confidence and belief that his company is enough.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:49 PM
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Full metal jacket, check it out.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:07 PM
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I disagree with the common RP idea of "shut up and enjoy the decline". Being afraid of expressing your options makes you defensive and weak. However, in the current political climate you have to think issues through before discussing them, and you have to measure your arguments precisely depending on the circumstances, because missteps are punished harshly. But if you argue in a calm logical way, and you are open to being wrong, and you seek to find agreement in your disagreement, you can still …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:14 AM
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Women think that everybody is responsible for each other's emotions. Men think they are responsible for their own emotions. This leads to a conflict where men try to argue 'you have no reason to feel that, I've done nothing wrong!', and the women argue 'you made me feel bad, apologies!'. As you can see this is an argument you can't win logically.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:45 AM
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You're building a straw man. Not simping for your ex is not equal to being an emotional cyborg. Not bitching to your girlfriend is not equal to being an emotional cyborg. There's no rule saying you can't hug / compliment / text a girl. However there's a time and place for these things and random girls from Tinder you met a week ago is not it.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:53 AM
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You are not friends. If you like him romantically you can't be friends. You can be something else but the question is if you want that.
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:38 AM
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By your reaction you sound meek like a puppy. Girls can play with puppies but want to have sex with men. You didn't make her feel uncomfortable, you made her feel bored and disgusted by your neediness.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 05:19 PM
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I'd say that's something else. In those countries you can be fat and out of shape and still get it if you're wallet is fat, which are all things that tend to acru with age.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:31 PM
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If you haven't seen this you haven't been out much. Pussy is plentiful. The idea that you need to be an actor to bang a 20 year old unless your her age is absurd.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:31 PM
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You're angry because they make you feel inadequate. You need much more rejection, and learn that your self worth is not decided by if some girl got the tingles for you or not.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:16 AM
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So guys, I noticed that acting like an autist isn't an effective social strategy. This has lead me to believed we have to rename the group magenta pill.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:52 AM
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Then again isn't that what the label 'slut' is for? Or who would you call 'slut'?
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:12 AM
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Her: “I don’t want to be FWB that’s not what I am looking for”. OP: "Guys I don't know what this girl wants! I tried no contact for two weeks and still she doesn't fuck me!?"
/r/askTRP04/09/20 04:45 PM
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Spinning plates means to be dating many people at once. Personally I would also add, doing a minimum to keep the relationships alive (i.e . Spinning). Given only that definition, sure you can both plate each other if you both date many people. However I think plating is also a mindset. As a platee your aim is to build a harem in order to ensure a steady supply of sex and variety. You do this actively and consciously. Women on the other hand, even the promiscuous ones, seldom actively seek a stab…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 12:43 AM
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Every sub on reddit has a little information blurb. It's called the sidebar because on a computer layout you find it on the side. I should add, this relationship is over. She doesn't respect you and then it's over. Your "anger issues" might or might not be real. However "working on it" won't bring the respect back, especially when she's not interested in that.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:53 AM
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Obviously you have oneitis. That said you could use it as an opportunity to try living abroad and experience another culture. Have some fun. Don't expect to 'build' something with her. Definitely don't move in with her. Have a plan that works without her. Understand that she could be saying she loves you today but forget your number when you get off the plane. Of course you could do that without a girl muddling your perspective and in a more interesting country.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:09 PM
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You'll have a hard time meeting somebody in a casual way (tinder, club, etc.), unless it's strictly for sex, because then there's always takers. To get what you want you'll need to either get to know a 'normal' guy well enough for him to be comfortable communicating with you in a limited way, or you'll need to find another mute guy which you can talk sign language with. Your best bet is to join a club or meetup of some sort. Your current hobbies are not very social so expand on your interests.
/r/seduction21/08/20 11:09 AM
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Always be closing You can't just be laid back. You need to escalate. Get physical, take her home. When it comes to Tinder it's just par of the course to have a low meet rate. Matching has zero significance. But when you meet, you need to escalate and close. always be closing
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:43 AM
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You sound like you invented sliced bread or something. What you are doing is called "stringing her along" and is basically what men with abundance have done since millennia, and what all women fear. You can frame it anyway you want, and I don't judge, but you are basically being dishonest to get what you want while she doesn't get what she wants.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:28 PM
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There's no dogma that you need to take her number, it's just superior. You can try to figure out what went wrong but not only will you not find out, it also shows you have a needy mindset. I suggest the core of you approach should be based on these assumptions: Women see things you dont. They are good at reading between the lines, sensing your energy and weakness. You are a bad actor so don't try pretending. Keeping frame is not an act you put on. If you get flustered by her not responding it sh…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:19 PM
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When it comes to dating everything you've been thought about niceness and equality goes out the window. It's the law of the djungle. Attraction is not a choice and women have no time or patience for a charity case. Indeed you should not take the word of strangers on the internet as gospel. Likewise you can not take at face value what women tell you. You should instead try yourself. When you have some experience you'll be able to judge if the advice you are resting makes sense.
/r/seduction19/08/20 12:27 PM
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That's not what I said but nice straw woman. let me spell it out. No matter if they find you unattractive or creepy, they won't fuck you. However, taking everything they say at face value is a mistake. Likewise worrying about every social interaction because your friends cousins dog said some guy is creepy is silly.
/r/seduction18/08/20 01:16 AM
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I'm not talking about feelings. I'm talking about girls calling guys creepy because they know it would reflect poorly on them if they said what they thought, i.e "how dare this loser think he has a chance with me".
/r/seduction18/08/20 12:42 AM
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How is that objectifying women? Is that your go to argument?
/r/seduction18/08/20 12:39 AM
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IMHO the first example is more a question of how these girls use the word 'creepy'. Being repulsed because they find the guy low value doesn't mean he acted creepily, they prefer to call him creepy because it makes them look like victims instead of egotistical. When it comes to the actor, this can also be an ego thing. As he fucked all her friends she might feel like putting him down to make her self feel better. But then again it's a subjective feeling so who knows..
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:16 PM
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Your basic algorithm is likes this: 1. You see a girl you like. 2. Without hesitation you strike up a conversation. 3. If you get along you lead the interaction to sex. 4. If you have a spare moment afterwards you can ponder on how and why the interaction went as it did. IDGF attitude comes in at step 2 because you are scared to approach. It also comes in at step 4 because you will misinterpret things in a negative light. It does not mean that in step 3 you should ignore the other person in the …
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:27 PM
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To me it sounds like these are girls you haven't met yet, i.e Tinder. When a girl doesn't know you yet you have to cut her some slack. Rescheduling is not some big no no, it's just a reality of life. If you refuse to be flexible you don't sound like a high value man, you sound like a tool. What does even "reach out but relagate me to orbiter" mean? You can only relagate yourself to orbiter. You goal is not to be an annoying little shit but to behave like you actually have an ounce of self esteem
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:22 PM
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This relationship is over. You will try to "work on it" but it will end sooner than later. Take the loss and learn from it. As you haven't read the sidebar here's the reason. * If a girl feels comfortable treating you like that it's because she sense's your lack of frame and wants to test it. * This test was on a ridiculously silly level and still you completely failed. * She knows you have no frame so coming afterwards trying to lecture her will just make you look silly and incongruent. * As sh…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 10:21 AM
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any signs of disrespect from a man. What does that even mean? Any examples?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:28 AM
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You've been watching to many Disney movies. You think you can just share your emotions with her and she'll grant you passage to her pussy like you're being knighted or something? That's not how it works. You're on a seduction subreddit, maybe you should try some seduction? All we know is that you know a girl through a friend. Did you give her a reason to save your number?
/r/seduction04/08/20 10:34 AM
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It sounds like your scared of being inadequate. I could tell you that your enough, or that women ain't shit, but that won't really help you. The truth is you need to live it to feel it, and the only way is to take some social risks. Put yourself in situations that you're currently uncomfortable in. It's a similar idea to abundance. You seem to think you can't compete with Instagram models when it comes to abundance, but that's not the point. The point is when you've lived with abundance it will …
/r/askTRP04/08/20 09:39 AM
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You don't. You wait for her to bring it up.
/r/seduction03/08/20 08:30 AM
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The fact he'd consider retirement over this shows he's got a chump mentality. She thought she married a lion but she got a house cat.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:02 PM
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As others have written, part of it is parroting the party line, but there is also a kernel of truth in what your friend says. You se playing the field is a selfish act, you are investing in yourself and living to fulfill your own desires. Raising a family on the other hand is a selfless act where you put others needs in front of your own. A further step beyond this is to give back to the community, through charity or whatnot. Now I'm not sure I'd call this progression manliness but it's progress…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:32 PM
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Her reasons don't matter, it's not a huge ask unless it's inconvenient for you. If your goal is to fuck her then the results will be the same but will probably take an additional date. If you can't spend that much time or refuse to talk to women without alcohol then decline.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:19 PM
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You misspelled plate, you meant girlfriend. Do you want us to say that you should try again and you can make it work? That you can save her from her mental issues? I don't know man, I think it's the wrong sub for that.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:37 PM
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"Girls are terrible texters" = girls don't want to fuck me. What's wrong with them?
/r/askTRP26/07/20 02:21 AM
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"I've been talking to a girl" = I've been big simping lately
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:05 PM
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This is your problem: Perhaps I'm excessively cautious of ONEitis, or just that feeling of a woman being better than you merely on the basis of her attractiveness - You're still insecure about women and you try to compensate by devaluing them. The anger phase is necessary for many guys but it shouldn't be directed at women but at the system/culture and your blue pill indoctrination. When you have the right attitude you will not feel that she's better than you because she's hot. Instead you will …
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:42 PM
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I agree with the woman, don't put your dirty feet on the bench. Surely you can find a better place, like some stairs? Don't try to be assertive in every situation even if you're wrong. What you want is to actually have a inner feeling of right and wrong that doesn't waver as soon as it's challenged. That doesn't preclude admitting fault, however you do it because you agree, not because your pressured.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:24 PM
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Just stop. You're literally asking her why she doesn't like you. The fact that you try to disguise it as humor is obvious to her as well. You can't reason with her about it, it's a emotional thing. Read Models and move on.
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:21 PM
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Your mistake is approaching this from a moralistic point of view ("these hoes ain't loyal"). The point is not that women are less loyal than men. From an evolutionary standpoint a woman can't afford to have sex with nothing but the highest quality men, as every time she has sex she potentially signs up to having a baby, which is a huge investment. A man on the other hand can be more frivolous with his sperm as it's an almost unlimited resources. These days we have birth control but the instincts…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:27 PM
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Don't try to get cute by text. Just set up the next date, fuck her, and then you can maybe sexualize the convo, but honestly it's easier to just do it live. Texting her 'what are you up to?' when you hardly know her just sounds needy.
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:36 AM
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This is you: "She's a cool girl and I was a bad dog that didn't please her through my text." Your real problem is that you are simping, putting her on a pedestal and shit. What do you mean 'explain yourself'? How cringe do you want to get? Don't apologise because she can't get the joke. If you are going to sexualize the convo then you can't be coy about it, you need to be able to sell it. Better still, don't text the next girl so much. Forget about this one, she's moved on.
/r/seduction24/06/20 12:05 AM
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TRP is not about doing everything right to get some pussy like it's a video game. That's the approach of a clueless wannabe 'pickup artist'. TRP is about improving yourself with the added benefit of becoming more attractive and having more options. In the text exchange you gave as an example your message and reaction betrays lack a of confidence and options. That's why she doesn't answer.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 01:43 PM
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Her profile: Kinks: likes to be taken advantage off Favourite color: white like the loads I take
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:17 PM
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I think your mixing up acting in a stoic way and stoicism the philosophy. It doesn't mean being the strong silent type, it means that you put greater value to things other than pleasure, and pain; that you do not let yourself be controlled by those emotions, but instead strive to a higher purpose. Social media can be viewed through that lense as well. If you are using it an a productive way then why not. But if you use it to simp on thots, masturbating your day away, then your better without it.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:20 PM
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You are too agreeable. These girls aint gonna get laid by themselves. Someone, at some point, has to approach them. They won't like everybody. In fact you are making them a favour. They can sit on their lazy assess waiting to be approached. If nobody approached them they would get desperate, and if you don't you're just leaving it an open playing field for everybody else. If you feel uncomfortable, or that you're imposing on them, they will feel uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:51 AM
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Man finds intellectual calibre of men posting in porn sub reddits lacking. Same man laments teenage women running /politics as too darn communist for his taste. News at 11.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:55 PM
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Two days later she messages me with the request to only do the walk on the first date, and do the cooking together at a second date, if there will be one. I think this is exactly what I would like my future LTR to say, so I agree. You secretly want to be blue pilled and therefore when she acts according to that fantasy it triggers you to feel that she's special, like 'the girl' in the movies. You're completely in her frame. How this plays out isn't important, instead you should think through how…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:27 AM
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My take is that thinking in terms of "what's my move" is reactive and places you in her frame, and giving a girl free attention is like signing up to her onlyfans page. At this point just have fun with it and tease her for needing a chaperone. Give her minimum attention until you actually meet.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:42 PM
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This sounds like you're 12 years old and she's bringing her mom on the call 😂 You can't say it's going anywhere without meeting. You're playing her games and your already overinvested.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:05 PM
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I tend to text people in the style they text me. So I often end up subconsciously texting girls like a girl Your passive and are cultivating a simp personality (if I'm nice and behave like others they will like me!). To get laid you need to lead the interaction to bed. Not in a annoying way but in a confident calm matter. Her mammalian brain will recognize this and she will relax and let her self be carried along. When you slip in to this Grove it basically happens automatically.
/r/seduction18/05/20 09:14 AM
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You say you live and you learn - no you won't. You only learn from your mistakes if you actually change your behavior, otherwise it's just an excuse to continuing being a clown. And no she isn't confusing, she's acting like a typical girl. You are just reading in a lot of stuff that isn't there. You walk around all day thinking about her but you don't even know her, and this means you are creating a fantasy which isn't real. You asked her friends, don't your think they told her? Tldr:. She isn't…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:20 AM
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If she's coming of an abusive relationship it's easy to see why she could be sensitive to teasing and ribbing. Don't be an asshole, but it's also not your responsibility to be her shrink.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:02 PM
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Everybody wants to have a body like a body builder, but nobody wanna lift some heavy ass weight. - Ronnie Coleman
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:32 PM
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The idea is that the less help you get, and the earlier your forced to make it on your own, the quicker you will mature. It's not good for an adult to have their parents pay for them, it subconsciously teaches you dependency. Better to be broke living in a shitty apartment, but being your own man. Cool that you have a dream of owning your business, but as an engineer you are useless until you have some experience.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:48 PM
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If you think about it, women have it easy in ways you wouldn't want for yourself. They have it easy in ways that makes it hard for them to develop character, and to have any influence over their social standing, other than the genetics they're born with. A pretty girl will be picked up by a guy that decides that he wants her, and she can only go along for the ride or bale. So if you want to be a child that has everything given to him, and always gets a participation trophy, then sure, hate game.…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:35 PM
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Sounds like ADD. The inability to focus on tasks which aren't interesting. There's a tendency to romanticize this because of the hyper focus you have with some tasks. Problem is that in real life and work it's more important to be consistent. People forget you did something super well when you fail on easy routine tasks. It's better to have a higher worst level then a higher best level. Meditation might help, otherwise there's medication.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 09:46 PM
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This reads like a Hollywood drama of a dying relationship that ends with the girl going home with another guy from the club right in front of her boyfriend. The guy then needs to build himself up and grow a pair in order to win his ex back. In the meantime he meets a quirky girl which helps him and is secretly in love with him but he doesn't see her, he only pines for his ex. In the dramatic ending he realizes the love he was searching for was right there in front of him when he chooses quirky g…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:25 PM
1

There's a fine line here you might not see. If you decide: "I'm definitely not interested, and won't sleep with her", then you can be friends. But if you think you can be friends with her, and if the opportunity arises sleep with her, then you're consiously and subconsciously in the orbiter mindset. If you're not able to kill the idea of sex with her then stop pretending to be her friend and stop White Knighting.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:11 PM
2

If there were such guides everybody and their dog would be rich.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:43 PM
1

Is she on the pill? They can improve/worsen symptoms.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 11:17 AM
1

Ironically, probably low key true if you tie it tight enough
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:38 AM
3

It not about size, it's about frame. It's like Steve Jobs famous reality distortion field. Some guys are able to sell a reality as it were the word of God. Also people want to be lead, if you are good at it people will follow.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 12:11 AM
20

You are creating a false dichotomy. You should do both. Of course it's easier to sell a good product. But there's plenty of good products staying unsold because the competition has better marketing. On could argue all of life is one big sales challenge. You're always selling something. If it's not yourself, then it's your point of view. Just because you had some success being passive, and it felt good because you didn't have to stick your neck out, doesn't make it a good strategy in most situati…
/r/seduction07/03/20 12:03 PM
1

Attractive guys their own age don't want to fuck them. Attractive younger guys are not interested. That leaves unattractive guys their own age or less attractive younger guys. The less attractive younger guys stroke their ego making them feel younger, so they will happily ignore a lot of akwardness.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:37 AM
22

There's probably several things going on here. * She's an older woman and he looks like a hairless little boy. * She's on vacation and British * He didn't react to her flirting Would she feel as comfortable approaching a guy that looked like a high value man? Would she do this in front of her friends at home? She feels superior to him and she's knocking on the door of the wall. She wants to use his age to build her ego. You don't want to be this guy.
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:09 AM
1

You say that trp philosophy doesn't play to your strengths because you have ADHD. Well tough luck it doesn't change the correctness of it. Although there might be some merit in strategizing to accommodate for once weaknesses, it doesn't change the underlying dynamic. A little focus and discipline is always better than none. Avoid being sold on the trope that ADHD is a gift that makes you see things in a different way. Sure, short term it might grant you powers such as super focus, but long term …
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:48 PM
1

Unless you you go for gender studies, then you'll have all the time in the world :)
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:29 PM
5

As a fellow European let me explain this from a viewpoint the Americans on here don't understand. In northern Europe the labor laws/unions work as such that it's almost impossible to fire somebody that has a full time position. Because of this there's something called a probation period (typically 6 months) during which they can evaluate you, and if needed let you go without the mess firing a full time employee would entail. In your case the queen bees didn't like you and the manager can't fire …
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:51 PM
2

Joking around about a friend's height, baldness, etc is so called friendly rubbing. Men of the human species like to do this from time to time. Getting butthurt about it and trying to brag about money or otherwise shows that you are weak and not to be relied on. Agree and amplify is not some magic Kung Fu technique, and it's meant for women. With friends you either smile and let it slide or you come up with a witty response.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:05 AM
8

That text convo was super cringe and you are behaving exactly like a simp. If you want to continue being a simp then go ahead and text her, double text her, no fuck it, tripple text her. Actually send her some flowers too. Or... You could read the sidebar and realize you're fucked and try again elsewhere.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:06 PM
1

Have you ever had to put down a pet? It's a bit like that. You have an emotional connection so it's sad that you will never meet again, but the rational side says it's for the best.
/r/seduction19/01/20 10:16 PM
2

Try meditation. Also it's a question of what beliefs you hold. If you think you can't control you're own thoughts, you won't. Don't get angry/embarrassed when you fail, just let it slide. Basically it's a skill you practice, a very valuable skill, with a lot of carry over to other things.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:48 PM
3

Sounds like you're in a deadbeat shop with deadbeat people. If you try to go all captain America on them with no authority it won't be pretty. So chill and try to move somewhere people give a fuck.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:03 AM
1

I guess the sub has gone mainstream which attracts mainstream people with mainstream ideas. Part of the mainstream are women. Women often have the mistaken idea that because they never had problems finding guys they must be experts at seduction and dating. Back in reality all a woman needs to get laid is to say yes. Because their perspective is different their advice is usually backwards as well. All they see is the end result, which results in platitudes such as 'be yourself', which means nothi…
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:42 PM
2

I think vulnerability should be viewed similar to responsibility as viewed according to Jock willink. Weakness doesn't have an upside. But whenever you act weak, vulnerability is better then trying to cover it up. Same goes for responsibility. Whenever you fail you should take responsibility. It doesn't mean you always end up well, or that People absolve you of your failures. But if you don't, you show even greater weakness than if you do. Vulnerability, or taking responsibility basically shows …
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:35 PM
4

If you got your shit together you don't read Reddit either, you don't have time for that, you're on your mission. In fact you don't read at all, maybe while taking a shit, but that's only if I'm not getting a blowjob on my porcelain throne. If you're thinking about something, and write it down, you're a dweeb. I'm cool, I don't write. Maybe a sentence or two but only while taking a shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 03:45 PM
1

Standing around being fabulous is a game that works for attractive girls, not men. As a man you have to take action and lead the interaction in to bed. Think of her hottnes as a test. Those that are scared by it only see the downside of rejection, and put the pussy on a pedestal. Then there's those that see her as just a girl whose hottnes is putty you can use for both of y'alls sexual satisfaction. And she reeealy wants you to do if you lead her right.
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:35 PM
1

Just because he fucked her doesn't mean he was completely smooth. And just because she says she felt 'weird' doesn't make it true, it might as well be anti slut defense. But we do know what he did right. He made sure they had alone time and escalated.
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:05 PM
9

How come some guys drive a Porsche and I don't? How come some guys can just walk in to a party and instantly be popular? Why don't I play in the NFL, I've been training for 6 months! Consider this: * Some things are more art than science * People have different talents. * If you have a talent for socialising you are probably not reading this. * You have not practiced socialising for 6 months, you and everybody else has since kindergarten. * There's more than one way to skin a cat. * Socialising …
/r/seduction29/12/19 03:08 PM
18

Yes, everything you see in Hollywood movies is real, it's definitely not pushing a political agenda, and it's an accurate description of real people. A typical female scientist is a thought as nails, knows Kung Fu, and looks like a supermodel. If shes 120 pounds wet an knows Kung Fu she can kick a 220 pounds guy ass without breaking a sweat. And yes, if she has pink hair and glasses she can hack in to any computer system within 5 minutes using a pocket calculator. All those women you met in real…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:43 PM
2

Don't make a big deal out of it. It's not about the one time, it's about the system that let's you repeat it, focus on that.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:23 PM
2

I think people often miss that there's a path of maturity that goes in here and also there's the detail of who and how you share with. When you're a child nobody expects you to be able to deal with your emotions. But when you're a grown man your expected to. So what you don't want to do is to learn a way of dealing where you look for an emotional tampon to soak up your feels. You also don't want to learn putting your head in the sand to avoid your emotions. You might not be there yet or you are …
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:49 PM
2

You seem to think that if you're hormones are good then you won't feel submissive and stop acting submissive. It's the other way around. You need to learn to lead, starting with yourself. When you are confident in your ability to make decisions and take action, and get annoyed by indecision and weakness you will start to be dominant around those who won't. But if you always second guess your decisions, you will instead look to mommy for leadership.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:00 AM
1

Get on a sports team.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:18 AM
4

I agree with this. Furthermore her respect for you will diminish even more if you let it slide, even if it means she'll bitch less. Don't be a cunt about it, just calmly insist that she pay you back. Do you really think people around town will think less of you because you want your money back?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:23 PM
1

She's pursuing you for a relationship and at the same time going on a vacation with her ex while bragging to you about how she will probably dump him. And you look at this thinking, hmm maybe I should get serious with this girl... Just because you had the talk doesn't mean her behaviour isn't a red flag. Have her around as a FWB but don't get invested, and don't give her attention other than in bed.
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:56 AM
1

What is your question? Should you consider getting serious with a girl that goes on a 3 week fuck fest with her ex, and is shrewdly already preparing you so she can swing to you after she comes back? You're obviously rationalizing and have already overinvested your attention.
/r/seduction21/10/19 05:09 PM
2

You are definitely in the wrong headspace. You are obviously not exclusive and whatever she says doesn't matter. You are sitting there worrying about your special price, afraid to say what you think because you want to be a good boy that gets a cookie. Meanwhile she's eating her cookie and having it too, all the while losing attraction for you. You can't just pretend to not be needy, you actually have to do it, cause it shines through.
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:34 PM
2

You have have a connection, not her. It appears she's not that in to you. Stop writing her, she might come around. If not, let it go. Anyways, put your attention elsewhere.
/r/seduction11/10/19 02:00 PM
1

Jorge wants to be hardcore but his mom won't let him: https://m.imgur.com/gallery/Dg93X
/r/askTRP11/10/19 01:05 PM
1

Good. It's the first step. You have realized that you are ultimately responsible for what happens to you. Next step is to feel the power of it and not flinch away from it. Nobody is going to help you, and it's not going to be all fine, it's all on you. Stress has been maligned over the years, but what's starting to emerge is that stress in of it self is not bad, it's how we perceive stress that is the key.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:04 PM
2

Did you pay your friends to wing? Otherwise you're the asshole. You want them to hang around an annoying girl all night just to get you laid? She doesn't like black guys untill she does. Don't take what women say too seriously.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:09 PM
1

Because the best time to start was yesterday. Our culture is set up so that in your 20s you get out from under momas wing, and you focus on yourself. Many people have kids in their 30s and 40s so the focus is no longer on themselves. That said, it's never too late to do better, and it can always be worse.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:13 PM
1

Compare the reputation of you're favourite pickup coach to that of Tony Robins. That's the guy they really want to be. He hangs out with Oprah, pua guys hang out with?
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:42 AM
1

My guess is that it's a more mainstream market which is more price sensitive. So it's a different business strategy, smaller fees but potentially more lucrative due to size. Bonus is that they get social cookies as they don't have to look like sleazeballs, which if you have kids might seem important.
/r/seduction19/09/19 09:08 PM
19

You act like a friend, you get treated like a friend. Not only that, you look weak and disingenuous being covert with what you want.
/r/seduction11/09/19 12:20 PM
2

It's a tactic she uses which if it succedes will kill her attraction for you. Explain that you have to do you. If she doesn't get in line break it off.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:00 PM
1

Well I can tell you this much, the right answer is not to stick around until she makes her mind up, it doesn't work like that. Every second you accept this behaviour, every attempt at being supportive, will make her lose respect and attraction for you even more. Also you can't have respect for yourself accepting this situation. You need to grab your balls ans eject. And for the future, a girl telling her boyfriend she wants a more wealthy man is grounds for immediate termination of the relations…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:47 PM
1

I bet if you'll be honest with youreself you're not afraid of her going 'psycho' but rather the uncomfortable feeling of telling her. You're weakness doesn't help her. Man up.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:08 PM
4

Sounds like a business idea too me. Plate tracker (trademark). - Do you fuck? Then plate tracker is for you! Avoid the rag, get them while they're horny! Plate tracker, now available to TRP members for a special discount!
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:24 AM
1

The danger of the SJW movement is that they clad themselves in the robes of science and rationality while actually being a purely political movement. Social justice is all about power and there is no bigger power than to capture and control what ideas are considered acceptable or not. So it's no longer a political issue, it's an issue of 'values'. I read criticisms on ourselves saying we rely on confirmation bias and ignore other perspectives on gender dynamics Of course you had much success dis…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:49 AM
1

Right now I’m just hoping dread game pulls thru Do you not hear the comical contradiction in this statement?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:44 PM
3

You're acting like a beta orbiter, so you get treated like one. Doesn't matter that in your own fantasy you are someone else. I don't even understand the question. You never held any cards. You gave her the 'who are we' talk and she freindzoned you.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:44 AM
173

Obviously you are in the wrong. She's a delicate creature and you are behaving like a chauvinistic pig. She just wants have fun and fuck her friend, and you acting all jealous. I despise you!
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:07 PM
0

This guy gets it. Just like his mom 🤣
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:20 PM
0

I like that. Your moms butt was really hur last time we 'joked around'.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:57 PM
15

You sound butt hurt about a guy joking around. Learn to banter bacause now you sound like 'that guy'.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:49 AM
15

Did we watch the same video? Akon is the blue pilled one and the older woman is telling the red pilled truth.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:07 AM
1

Is it like skull fucking?
/r/askTRP27/08/19 04:34 PM
11

Damn, you do sound boring. You are putting to much importance into this interaction and you are not having fun. It comes of as needy. Learn from your friend.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:26 AM
1

I think it's a confusion of antisocial behaviour and being the one that dictates what social behaviour is. Women are agreeable and will calibrate their moral compass according to group norms. Women like a strong frame and the one with the strongest frame sets the group norms, while the agreeable types follow. Rejecting the norms can then be seen as attractive, becuase you are forming a group of 1 (2 with her) where you set your own norms and therefore you're not really being antisocial, and your…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:48 PM
1

I think it's good in situations where she doesn't want to be seen giving her nr out, such as at work, but she has shown interest. Otherwise it looks weak.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:19 AM
2

I'd guess less time and sleep compared to a social justice major frolicking around campus. This may change later but then their not 20 anymore. Also they feel they deserve a higher status man which limits their dating pool.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:37 AM
2

Check out Jack Slack for the best theoretical striking commentary. He writes about mma, boxing as well as other martial arts. He's got a podcast called fights gone by.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:40 AM
1

Of course she is high interest. Being friends is girlspeak for 'let you try and fuck me'. But from your reaction I'm guessing she's fat, uggly or both.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 10:29 AM
195

Being bored means your waiting for someone else to lead you. Lead yourself.
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:18 AM
2

It was a shit test and you failed by being defensive. You think you passed because you had an 'aggressive' comeback, but it just sounds defensive and unattractive.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:58 PM
172

This good advise if you want to get laid, but in general this way of thinking is the reason feminism has gotten out of hand. Nobody sane wants the trouble debating brings, which leads to a free reign of terror for feminists, and it's all mens fault for letting it get to this point.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 01:23 PM
1

You can recognize a small truth because its opposite is a falsehood. The opposite of a great truth is another truth. - Nils Bohr
/r/seduction10/08/19 07:58 PM
0

Doctors are probably just going to tell you to rest to cover their ass. Don't use it as a cop out. Listen to them selectively. If you can't hold a bar then do whatever else you can do.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:44 PM
5

Since when is there a rule that they have to look at you first? Sure it's easier, but it's not necessary. However, if you stare at a woman and she notices it will come of creepy, and remember women can notice this without actually looking at you. However if you give her a flirtatious look, she notices, or not, and you approach, then it's natural. Basically you actions reflect your inner state. The first is a unattractive one, the second not.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 02:17 PM
1

You are trying to think your way out of an emotional problem, you can't. There's no method to this, you just have to accept the discomfort. However, know that after you get rolling it will get easier.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 11:26 AM
14

Instead of being jealous look at them objectively. What can you copy, what can you learn? It's like any sport, without competition you don't improve. Know that you can be that guy if you make the right choices. The first choice is to improve your attitude, you can do that right away.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:45 PM
2

Don't think about retiring at 22, you'll degenerate. Invest most of it, use the rest to improve, do cool stuff.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:33 PM
5

The problem is that you've been sold on equality and fairness. Those are Disney ideas. You want a level playing field, you need to grow up. In reality there is only struggle. Struggle makes you strong. Right now you are weak, you have a loser attitude. Ask yourself, if you would have the mindset of a winner would you never get laid? If you never got laid would that be the end of the world? If you got laid, would it suddenly change your mindset? Check you're bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:54 PM
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