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The Red Pill has some grains of truth and I would argue that the principles in their purest form are worth learning. However, most of TRP is pure garbage, it's full of men who are obviously insecure about their own masculinity and have become extremely bitter. Some of them find success with their sexual strategy, however they only really attract the type of girls who respond to their manipulation. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. They believe all girls are backstabbing gold-diggers so they…
/r/seduction02/06/16 10:19 AM
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This is a situation I am afraid of with women I am seeing. The only solution is to end the relationship, it has run its' course. It is cruel to continue a relationship when you know they want more and it could be potentially risky for you as people can do crazy things when they are in "love" and don't get what they want.
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:48 AM
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Vulnerability is one of the most powerful tools you have in your seduction skill set. It's really a tool which conveys CONFIDENCE. By showing "weakness" from a position of confidence, it demonstrates that you are a confident person who isn't afraid of judgement. You are looking at it from too much of a logical perspective. There is no need to explicitly counterbalance a "weakness" with a "strength" . The act of willingly being seen as "weak" itself is a sign of strength. To take it even further,…
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:45 AM
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Definitely next her. The frame I like to have when dealing with girls like this: "I don't mind chasing but I do mind jumping through hoops" This girl wants you to grovel at her feet, it's a lose lose situation. If you don't she won't see you. If you do, she won't respect you. NEXT.
/r/seduction02/02/16 09:07 AM
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I have noticed this issue as well. I kiss close on the first date yet whenever I push for a second date the girl acts much more evasive. Often she will enthusiastically agree to a second meeting but always flake with a counter offer. It is frustrating to me because I keep hitting balls in her court but don't get much investment back. Unsure what mistake I am making. I think projecting the "boyfriend" frame is a very likely culprit as TheCuriousDude says.
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:25 AM
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I completely agree and am very happy that there is now concrete proof in saying guys win in the dating game. So sick of men being bitter when we actualyl have it generally better in the dating world. I always looked at it this way: As a man, being proactive buys you the power of control over your own dating. For women who take a passive role, they just have to accept what is given to them, leave it up to "fate" per se (a term and ideology that I absolutely despise). Men at the very least have th…
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:43 AM
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It would depend on the girl, but as long as being outspoken/relatively quiet is really who you are, then it would be much more likely that a girl could get over her preference. Play to your strengths, you don't need to be someone you're not.
/r/seduction28/01/16 02:41 AM
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I completely agree. I don't see promiscuity as a negative from a logical point of view. It CAN be a negative factor since it is often symptomatic of larger issues in a specific girl but I definitely don't think it's the only deciding factor. Sex is only a part of the overall picture. However, from the EMOTIONAL point of view, I have an extremely strong reaction upon hearing about promiscuity in a girl I am invested in. So much so that I am afraid that I will be pushing quality girls away simply …
/r/seduction27/01/16 04:48 AM
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Very interesting analysis. Could you please tell me how you eventually got over it?
/r/seduction27/01/16 04:34 AM
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I completely agree. Let me be clear when I say this that I definitely DO NOT reveal my deepest insecurities with women I am casually dating lol. That would only be reserved for much much later in the relationship.
/r/seduction27/01/16 04:26 AM
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Thanks for that. It helps knowing many others have felt this way before me and managed to get over it. I am really skeptical about the "standards" argument. Maybe I do have a standards when it comes to promiscuity but does that really account for why I have such a strong reaction? Or is it really that I am just insecure and using "standards" to make me feel better. I am not so sure yet... I have no problem fucking a girl knowing she has been with other men. For me, it's when I am invested emotio…
/r/seduction27/01/16 04:22 AM
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You may be right, I am still pedestalling women.
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:46 PM
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Yes and no. I do pursue women to sleep with them. However, I am very much a more long term oriented guy. I am not really the type who is interested in sleeping with multiple women. You are still correct and that's why I know I have an insecurity issue. It's unreasonable to expect a girl to have sex with me, yet abstain from other men. It's a very self-centered perspective which I completely understand from a logical point of view. However, my emotions betray me. I want to know how I can get rid …
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:42 PM
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I have definitely thought this at times. However, is it really my "standards" or am I just telling myself that so I can feel good about my own insecurities? I want to tackle this issue head on and if I realise that it really is about my own standards, then that's fine.
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:38 PM
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Thank you for the response. I have found this thread to be very therapeutic for me. After further introspection, I have come to realise that I fear being labelled as a man who dates "sluts" or "easy" girls just as much as I fear not being good enough for her. If my girl only dated superstars in her past, I probably wouldn't mind as much... but if she was with any loser, I would be absolutely gutted. I hate the idea that the girl I love was used by other men who didn't give a shit about her. In m…
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:34 PM
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Thanks for the response. In fact, that is exactly what I am doing. I am building my experience up with several girls. But to be completely honest... I don't think I am really the "player" type at heart. I only really got into game so I could take control over my dating life. My goal isn't to sleep with many many women but find one who I really like and keep her... that's my end goal. What I've noticed is I often get oneitis very easily for a specific girl and I constantly have to hold myself bac…
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:08 PM
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thanks for the response. I have had some more thought and I realise I definitely fear being labelled as a chump with an "easy" girl. I hate the possibility that the girl I care about has been with many men who did not really value her at all, whilst I do. I think this raises further questions, I want to find the source of these thoughts so I can stamp them out.
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:03 PM
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Let me just say that I would never openly reveal that sort of info unless she asked, and they often do. I just try and make it playful when I can.
/r/seduction26/01/16 10:41 PM
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Thanks for the detailed response. I guess I just have to make sure to stamp those thoughts out as much as possible whenever they appear. On a side topic. I have noticed women are extremely surprised to hear that I am not very experienced. Is it a mistake to let them know this information about myself? I like to have fun sometimes by saying I'm a really shy guy and they find it absolutely hilarious. They have no idea that I am actually telling the truth. How up front should I be about my own past…
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:53 AM
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The same principles of seduction apply whether you are disabled or not. Yes, your disability doesn't make things easier but you can overcome it with a positive attitude and conscious effort. Seems like you are doing well so far. Since you have difficulty initiating kino, you may have to escalate more through verbal communication rather than physical. I'm not sure how dificult it is for you to engage in kino but always remember that you can flip a negative into a positive. Most women may not expe…
/r/seduction24/07/15 03:42 AM
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I am unsure why TRP is pre-occupied with the HAES/Fat acceptance movement... these people don't register in my reality. I could not care less about their fates or decisions. If one was to ask me for my help in becoming fitter/healther. That would be a different story.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 03:51 AM
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I loved reading the post. This is one of the most cold and calculating stories I have seen on reddit. This man is pragmatic to the core, which I absolutely respect. We can debate for days on the morality of his choices. Whether he made the "right" decision to give up on his previous daughter in favor of protecting his current family. This would come at the cost of the daughters emotional well-being. Personally, I would have taken a similar course of action but would be open to providing some for…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 03:33 AM
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Agreed, the gold comment nailed it. At first I thought it was just a really sad situation with no one to blame but after that update it's VERY clear that the OP is getting played and that the girlfriend is a piece of shit. It's so blatantly obvious that I am beginning to become skeptical of this story. It's starting to read like some weird elliot rodger fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 09:41 AM
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Agree 100%. I like TRP a lot, but I really can't stand the sort of talk that assumes women are somehow all reptilians who have no intelligent thoughts or individuality. I understand it's important to knock them off their pedestal but no need to demonize them. What OP says is right, women can make logical decisions, especially when it comes to SMV. They are smart enough to know their own worth.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 11:16 AM
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Tough call, I don't think the guy is beta but he definitely should have ejected a lot earlier. I wouldn't be so quick to demonize the gf either. She was raped at knife-point, that is no fucking joke and would definitely leave a lot of mental scars. I can sympathize with her behaviour but I would not put up with it. Unfortunately, life isn't fair and bad shit happens. I have no issues leaving a girl if she has emotional issues/baggage, even if it's not her fault. The cold truth is that there are …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:44 PM
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Not really a fan of the women bashing ITT. I think it's obvious that the men would come out on top. In a harsh environment, male physicality and logical thinking will win out. The survival game plays to the men's strengths. What I think would be a more interesting social experiment would be putting in a mix of young, single men and women on the same island + contraception(?). That's where the most interesting social dynamics would begin to surface. It would be an environment much more conducive …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 08:29 AM
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I think so as well. However, I am interested in hearing what compels them to shit test me. Are they just trying to bring me down, plain and simple? Or are they testing me in another way? My response is always the same. I either dismiss completely or respond with a light, cocky/funny retort. I feel like I don't need to be directly confrontational, I have nothing to prove. Is this the right way to handle things?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:38 AM
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What a lot of others are saying is true, sometimes even the 10/10 guy will get rejected. You can think about a number of reasons why a woman might reject a man of that calibre but what I think it really boils down to is this: the girl is just dumb She simply isn't aware of what is in front of her. It has nothing to do with looks, actions, height or any other logical reason. For whatever reason, the girl just doesn't realise or is too stupid to see what's in front of her. This isn't only reserved…
/r/seduction13/03/15 01:46 AM
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The Brad Pitt test applies here. If you were Brad Pitt, would she be acting this way? If the answer is no, she is simply not attracted to you or she is playing games. Now you have identify WHY she isn't attracted to you enough. How did you frame the interaction? Did you come off with the "friend" vibe? You need to be POLARISING. Listening to others in this thread who are telling you to go direct is not entirely a bad idea. You are basically forcing the woman to take her position one way or anoth…
/r/seduction17/02/15 12:19 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I actually already mention my height in a cocky/funny way on Tinder + I live in the southern hemisphere so I think my photos are pretty decent. Not perfect but they are good. To be completely honest, the only thing that I believe is holding me back on the surface level (and inner game) is the fact that I am (half)asian and that's something I will never be able to change. I'm still coming to terms with that reality but it's improving. I am beginning to realise now that despi…
/r/seduction15/02/15 10:46 PM
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Firstly, decide whether or not you want to fuck her. I would strongly recommend PASSING on this one, but the choice is ultimately yours. IF you do fuck her, remember she will be cheating and she is a work colleague. You could potentially be opening up a massive can of worms here. If you have an abundance of women, why would you risk all that bullshit when you can find a quality SINGLE girl who doesn't work with you? IF you do decide to go for it. I think you would have to game the normal way. Al…
/r/seduction14/02/15 11:52 PM
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MOVE ON. This girl is BAD NEWS. Put morals aside here, who gives a fuck about the boyfriend? Think only of yourself. This girl has just screened herself as a cheater. Yes, you could probably fuck her if you wanted to but do you want someone like that in your life? Do you want to deal with her drama and lies? She has done you a FAVOUR by showing her true colours. It's up to you know to decide how you want to handle her.
/r/seduction14/02/15 11:44 PM
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Hmm I feel you. I guess I forgot that these are mostly TINDER examples. I have no face to face groundwork attraction to work with. I need to build rapport and investment over text before really pushing for the dates. I tried to escalate the relationship too fast so I've dug myself into a hole where my only option is to come off as needy and they will never bite. I see it from their perspective: they have no idea I'm a 6ft 3' jacked alpha male (hahahahhaa) so if I start asking for dates, of cours…
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:38 AM
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Good point. Thanks.
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:35 AM
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Ok lets use another tinder girl for example. Message each other, seems cool. We have common interests (study the same course at same uni) I try and set up a date and she says she will let me know as she is super busy... then nothing for about a week. My mindset on how to proceed: Wait it out, maybe she is legitimately busy. Message her again to start a convo/date set up (NEEDY) At the end of the day, I don't really care whether I will meet up with her or not, I just don't want to be throwing awa…
/r/seduction14/02/15 02:40 AM
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You might be overthinking it. Just assume the attraction is there and tell yourself they WANT you to talk to them. Yes it's not an ideal opener but it's an opener.
/r/seduction14/02/15 02:01 AM
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I think you are right about the Brad Pitt test. I may have been taking it too literally. I just think it's a useful exercise to get out of the "does she like me mindset?" Thanks for your advice, that's a good frame to take but I just can't seem to flip a script on literally nothing. How can you flip something when the girl gives you almost nothing to work with? Are there any strategies that don't come off as extremely needy? Normally when my only option is to be needy, I don't bother anymore. Is…
/r/seduction14/02/15 01:42 AM
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Probably not a "shit test" but does it pass the Brad Pitt test? If you were fkn Brad Pitt, would she still say "we are having a girls night out. but it was a pleasure meeting you." The bottom line is, they probably didn't like you enough for them to stay. Maybe you could have kept plowing to generate more attraction but unlikely. NEXT.
/r/seduction03/02/15 11:03 AM
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Nice man. Arriving late is especially tough because everyone else is already in their zone and you have to quickly amp your state up to match them. Sounds like you had a good time though. Deffs try and go around the same time as others, that way you can gradually build your state up with the others (except without the alcohol)
/r/seduction31/01/15 12:19 PM
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Nice, you approached a lot of girls and got out of your comfort zone. Always positives. Seems like you nailed what you need to improve. I definitely think you should try and drink less next time or not drink anything at all. I see drinking as merely a tool the masses use to get into the "zone." It's called social lubricant for a reason. You don't need it. You just need to be able to control your own emotions and state of mind. I have gotten to the point where I can still achieve that euphoric fe…
/r/seduction29/01/15 10:21 AM
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I am also Eurasian so I can relate to your experiences. Despite my father being the asian one, I never really learnt from him how to interact with women as a male. My mother was the really the one who raised me and she instilled her own values. She had good intentions but ultimately she would fail. I don't have the best game yet, but after months of work it has definitely improved from where it once was. I am also very attracted to white women (amongst others) and live in a Western society. You …
/r/seduction20/01/15 11:22 PM
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To be honest man, I think you already blew it... girls give their number to anyone. She probably thought you were "nice" but didn't want to fuck you. You weren't polarising enough, you got stuck in the grey area where girls don't hate you but they don't love you either. Now, why is that? I think it's due to a number of reasons. Telling from your post, the way you write about yourself and your experiences. It seems you put her on a pedastal and you seem a bit unconfident with yourself. You were t…
/r/seduction12/01/15 03:35 AM
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Doesn't sound too terrible to me. Reading the story I think you were too attached to the idea of fucking her. You acted differently, simply because you knew you weren't gonna fuck her that night. That's outcome dependence. Regardless whether or not you move forward with this girl, I would recommend trying to focus more on living in the moment.
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:42 AM
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^ Agreed. Ignore and move forward. Cut the bullshit txting. It doesn't sound like she is that keen but do it anyway. Think about it this way, would she be pulling that shit if she was talking to Brad Pitt?
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:36 AM
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I can relate to this, a long time ago when I had no game I got basically friend zoned by this girl. I wasn't a complete pussy so I told her straight up I wasn't being interested in friends. Funnily enough within a few weeks she kept trying to message me and call me trying to talk, but I had made up my mind. Looking back, I shouldn't have done it explicitly. I should have replied "Yeah sure we can be friends" and then just went no contact. I think overall you made the right decision but you could…
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:33 AM
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Interesting, obviously moving on would be a good idea but how would you deal with such a personality in the moment? Whenever I encounter women such as this, I instantly feel uncomfortable and I feel myself falling out of state. At the end of the day, I realise they are only hurting themselves by pushing me and others away and I move on very quickly. Is there any way to squash this sort of behaviour immediately without having to run away? I ask only because in some instances (at work, social circ…
/r/seduction11/01/15 06:36 AM
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Thanks for the response. I completely agree with your post and I think playful banter is actually fun and I LOVE doing it with girls. Within that context I think a "shit test" is fun, and hence ceases to become a shit test. I'm talking about the girls who verbally spar with you but NOT in a (obvious) friendly or flirty manner. Whenever I encounter this behaviour I am sort of dumbfounded. I recognise that it's only a test but it seems deadly serious. How do you guys react? NEXT her, or keep going…
/r/seduction11/01/15 06:10 AM
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Good response. It's actually interesting that it was authored by Mark Manson, considering he was the one who I first noticed introducing the idea of using the "shit test" to screen women who were being manipulative. I should have defined "shit test" and completely agree with what Mark is saying. What I mean by shit test, is a really explicit example of a woman trying to test you. I'm talking classic lines like... "Go buy me a drink" "Does my ass look big in this etc.." where there is almost no o…
/r/seduction11/01/15 05:27 AM
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I agree with your post, despite me also agreeing with the first post. I probably wouldn't have slept with her after she said she had a boyfriend. I have a feeling this subreddit is also becoming more and more "beta." I was linked to the RedPill through here and despite me not completely agreeing with everything they wrote, at least they did it from a non-judgmental, objective point of view. The things that should be discussed here may be controversial or "unethical" but they should not be censor…
/r/seduction28/12/14 08:48 AM
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Good work for at least trying. I think one reason for why you failed to kino with many of them was because your thoughts weren't congruent and you were too attached to the outcome, which is what gave it that "creepy" vibe. I would suggest focusing on being more present and in living in the moment without any expectations.
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:21 AM
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From my perspective there are many things wrong with that approach. I feel it was doomed from the start because your friend didn't have the confidence to approach the girl himself. Not only that, but your friend also went for the number before the "hook" point. Sometimes you can get a number like that if a girl is instantly hooked on you (you may be exceptionally good looking etc...) but your friend who wanted the number wasn't even there. If I was the girl, I would also have given him a weird l…
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:17 AM
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lmao calm the fuk down. I find it hilarious that you are putting me in a box based solely on the "lingo" I use as well as my username. I never said to OP should act fake, I just tried to encourage him to get his confidence back.
/r/seduction27/12/14 11:40 PM
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I have no idea what TheRedPill is, I have never gone to that forum... I never said you should sell yourself as a jester.. in fact that is the opposite of what I think you should do. I assumed that you already knew that you have to be 100% genuine and congruent when attempting pickup. If you feel like you aren't being yourself when it comes to pickup, then of course stop doing that. But realise that they are not mutually exclusive, you can be 100% yourself and still "game" girls, no persona is ev…
/r/seduction27/12/14 11:34 PM
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I've thought about this topic a lot as well, I am massively introverted by nature. I think the first thing you should do is just accept that you can never be "on" all the time. You can bring your average up as best you can and I think other posts in here have some great advice on how to do that. But I think it's also important to know techniques or cues that you can actively use to pump your own state up when you are out. Some people use drugs such as alcohol or mdma to get "in the zone." I woul…
/r/seduction27/12/14 08:30 AM
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Sorry to break this to you the hard way... but you sound like a complete fucking loser man, my troll senses are actually tingling. This entire post just screams of insecurity, lack of confidence and scarcity. Right now, you are a low value beta male who actively repulses females. The good news is that you can change. Don't be afraid of adversity and competition. You want competition, you want challenge, you want rejection, because you can use those moments to differentiate yourself from the pack…
/r/seduction27/12/14 08:20 AM
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Wow man, amazing field report. I learnt a lot just from reading it. Keep at it and results will soon come.
/r/seduction19/12/14 02:45 AM
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hmmm I disagree, I definitely think RSD has an agenda when it comes to money but they do give solid advice most of the time. Of course, I don't think they are the authority on pick up but I have definitely learnt a lot from them, in particular, RSDtyler/Owen as I feel like I relate to him the most. Do you mind elaborating on which advice they give is useful and which is crap?
/r/seduction18/12/14 10:09 PM
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Congrats! Give us the field report.
/r/seduction18/12/14 10:03 PM
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Nice man, don't worry about it. Be content with what you did well and learn from the things that you didn't do so well. I always appreciate reading field reports.
/r/seduction18/12/14 09:41 AM
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