Exterality Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Sometimes less experience is better		Exterality	/r/seduction	18/07/15 04:59 PM
3	There is a step zero to this, the fundamental basic you need before you can even start having lasting success: health		Exterality	/r/seduction	05/07/18 02:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I suffer from severe depression. I literally do nothing most days but sleep and scroll YouTube, twitter, Reddit, etc... I don't have anything interesting in my life currently to the point that I contemplate suicide almost weekly but somehow I easily get women. Life before death my friend. If you enjoy reading, give Brandon Sandersons the stormlight archive a chance. Don't Google anything about it. Just dive in spoilerfree and enjoy.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 08:41 PM
1	This sub constantly pitches the idea that you need to have bullet proof confidence, which doesn’t seem very realistic. How far can you get while being a little bit unconfident? The paradox thing is, you can also be sure about your insecurities if you accept them as a part of yourself that is not your fault and not as easy to fix.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 03:48 PM
1	The Unexpected Cause of All Your Insecurities I started calling this the opposite devil spiral. Like the original where bad stuff leads to more bad stuff, this one leads to more good stuff by doing good things. The problem is breaking out. Doing this feels like you are about to do something insanely stupid, like falling from road. It feels like letting go of something good, or letting go of the last good thing you have left. But the thing is, that ironically something like leaving a bad devil spiral doesn't feel good first. It feels really …	/r/seduction	18/05/18 12:47 PM
1	I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now? Yeah, at times I'm somewhat superficial when at work. sorry about that. I'll try to come up with better advice when back at home.	/r/seduction	09/10/13 12:50 PM
2	I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now? What I seem to say a lot lately: go buy more mr nice guy and models. It helps iMMENSLY in realizing what is "wrong" with you and gives actually doable solution on becoming what you were always supposed to be.	/r/seduction	09/10/13 10:28 AM
1	Getting approached by women, but no idea how to act. Help! Do you have fear of actuall success? Does approaching THEM yourself actually give you any closes/feeling of "success"? To me it seems like your brain spaces out because you tumble into a situation you aren't prepared for and thus don't know how to play it without the usual outcome.	/r/seduction	26/09/13 01:46 PM
2	the wrong mindset you HAVE to get rid of whatever is in your mind that makes you insecure. I was in the exact same situation as you. Moved out and since a long time i finally had time for myself. And i started thinking. What else makes me insecure? What helped me were the following question: "Why do i hesitate when i approach/talk/whatever?" Results in: "What don't i want her to find out about me?" Results in: "Can i remove this obstacle?" Results in: "If yes, what can i do to remove it? If no, how can i learn to…	/r/seduction	14/09/13 10:23 AM
-4	Need advice after bailing on a girl after disrespect You were friendzoned from the start	/r/seduction	27/06/12 11:13 AM
2	the perfect play Upvote sir for that awesome comment	/r/seduction	21/06/12 11:56 AM