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This is what I was thinking. As you work on "Give a fuck less," try to get away from canned openers. By working on "constantly approaching," you'll get better at being more fluid. Try to notice how naturals have an air of "I'm a boss, and I do what I want when I want." This is the cocky-funny vibe that you want to be putting out. Awesome perseverance and determination-- these characteristics are more important than money or looks. I'm excited to follow your progress.
/r/seduction19/07/11 06:23 PM
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Sometimes its a lot of fun to ramp up sexual tension by not giving her what she wants, in this case, the kiss. If you're sure she wants it, the lip graze is extremely effective. I had a girl bite me last night because she wanted something from me.
/r/seduction18/07/11 05:32 AM
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I have a hunch that it would benefit you to meditate on your body language. When I find myself getting blown out, I stop and try to flush out any negativity or apprehension I may feel relating to my intentions for the night. Then I get myself psyched. For body language stuff, ctrl-f "body" on the quazzy post: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/ -failfasterlearn_moresnakes_and.........ladders
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:13 AM
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The real reason is that I'm afraid that if I meet her in a social setting around her friends, I'll feel like a total chump, and I wanna avoid that. Dear brother-- why would you want to avoid impressing her and her friends with your infinite badass-ness? Must stop thinking like a chump or you will be one. And realistically, probability of sex is 0%. This is not a reason to puss out on the #-close. Going for it is more for the bolstering of your confidence than it is for any potential future coitu…
/r/seduction11/03/11 11:26 PM
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It sounds like you connected with her. She laughed at your jokes and listened to your stories. I bet that she was wondering why you didn't get her number. And now you realize that there really is no reason to hesitate. I think you really shined in leading her to the coffeeshop: She was like “maybe, I want to smoke first…”, so I just said “come on, we’ll find you a place to smoke later”. Very well done. I am inspired. I should write more FRs.
/r/seduction11/03/11 10:47 PM
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You have oneitus. There are lots of high valued men not giving a fuck in their lives. It's not like we're the only awesome people on the planet. False. We are the only awesome people on the planet. More importantly, YOU are the most awesome person on the planet. You don't have to prove it because you know it. And you know that if this girl isn't interested, you can move on. Seduction isn't about going for one person-- its about valuing yourself and enjoying the ride.
/r/seduction23/02/11 09:56 PM
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You really are a master communicator. I'm impressed.
/r/seduction23/02/11 09:48 PM
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Suraqah: it would be a great writing exercise to return to this comment, think about the ideas you're trying to convey, and pretend that you're articulating these ideas for a school paper. Make statements-- then justify your statements with logic and/or your own experience. Clear and concise writing not only makes the world a better place, it makes you a more valuable redditor, pua, friend and employee.
/r/seduction22/02/11 10:16 PM
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Right on. I love practicing frequently when I can afford it and always wonder what it would be like to consider it 'work.' We'll see where my curiosity takes me. Could be years down the road.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:01 AM
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I like it. You were ready to leave. She wasn't. Her problem. I'm sure she was intrigued.
/r/seduction21/02/11 09:45 PM
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Thats normal-- it means that its working your body is sweating out some bad shit. Alphas relish the intensity. Just sayin. Get back in there!
/r/seduction21/02/11 08:54 PM
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Have you ever considered becoming an instructor?
/r/seduction21/02/11 08:52 PM
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This is the sentiment I was going for. Well put!
/r/seduction21/02/11 08:51 PM
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Don't procrastinate until the time is right. The time will never be 'right.' Doing bikram yoga twice a week and running twice a week would be a great way to shed pounds. Also, doing bikram encourages better eating/drinking habits because when you cleanse your body and by sweating out all the toxins, you won't be craving as much fried food and alcohol. Game changer. Bikram near Tokyo Get on it.
/r/seduction21/02/11 08:50 PM
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I salute you sir. Pushing the boundries, pulling other people into your own reality, bossing your way into two girls' places in one night... that is empowering shit. Do you want to commit to one of these this weekend? I have been been expanding my sphere of comfort rapidly in the last three weeks. In the past, I would approach random girls expecting to get blown out-- tonight I approached two babelicious foxes with the full expectation that they were going to be drawn to my presence and frame. I…
/r/seduction18/01/11 11:15 AM
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Queerosexual
/r/seduction18/01/11 10:55 AM
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It would be interesting to have people rate themselves according to the Kinsey Scale I'm a 1.5
/r/seduction17/01/11 10:38 AM
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The way I see facebook: Good for friends. Great as an address book for acquaintances. Good for professional shit / networking. BAD for building attraction/interest with girls you don't know. The position you're in, regardless of how you or others see facebook: Though you pussed out at magic hour, you can recover easily. Message her on facebook with a short and succinct invitation to someplace that you're already going to be. Not a date, just tell her you're going to be somewhere and she should m…
/r/seduction17/01/11 10:22 AM
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Yes?
/r/seduction15/01/11 08:27 PM
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Read the g-damn sidebar post by quazzy. Welcome to seddit.
/r/seduction15/01/11 03:44 AM
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I'm glad your date went well. Here's some constructive criticism. This comment should never be downvoted unless the constructive criticism is waaay off base. ....Turns out, the constructive criticism is spot-fucking-on. Good job to the OP. You should cherish how good you feel and acknowledge that you want to feel this way (like a boss) all the time. If you haven't read the posts about becoming a high-value male over at r/mansformation, I would highly recommend them. We're all excited that your s…
/r/seduction15/01/11 01:48 AM
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I also struggle with indecisiveness between multiple potential targets. I think an attitude of abundance is the key here... but that means that you must have the balls to chat with all four in front of eachother. I must admit, I have failed at this a couple times recently. My plan for tonight if the same blessed situation occurs: Have mentality of abundance and willingness to get the girls jealous. If girl is offended or bothered-- on to the next one. Life is hard when there are multiple girls t…
/r/seduction15/01/11 01:38 AM
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I used to do sales. Getting my confidence/game ramped up in the last few months has caused me to froth a little bit at the thought of big commissions. Must... not... abandon... sitar dream... for... cash...
/r/seduction15/01/11 01:17 AM
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Indeed. This is a powerful stance. Try turning around in the elevator for the fun of it. If you're good, you can get other people to follow your lead ;)
/r/seduction10/01/11 10:47 PM
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True that. Take advantage of this! Also, don't draw attention to the fact that you're not drinking. Its perfectly easy to defend-- but if you're proud of it or bring it up the homies are more likely t suspect than to admire. A club soda with lime blends in much better than water... thats for sure.
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:10 AM
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do it do it do it do itdo.itdo.itdo.itdo.ityou.fucking.pussy.......FAILURE..
/r/seduction08/01/11 12:34 AM
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Her resistance gave me the quirbles. I've never had to be that persistent with a woman. Your tactics are valiant.
/r/seduction08/01/11 12:04 AM
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I've been the last two years to play tunes. My game was severely weak the last two years due to LTR and then LTR hangover, I feel like I would tear shit up this year! One of you wealthy AFCs should fly me down there and I can show you the ways of the hipster babes. Promise I won't fuck your fuckbuddy ;)
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:15 PM
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This article is sofa king spot on! Holy shit! Having a strong intent is congruently: Having the desire and the will to do what needs to be done to achieve a particular outcome. Having the unwavering belief that you will achieve the intended outcome. I believe that my current (and very new) perspective on PUA wisdom could be summed up with that quote. Finding, uncovering, polishing my personal charisma has blown the doors open for me. Fail FasterNever_Hesitate
/r/seduction07/01/11 09:12 PM
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If she's in your room/apt with you, its a pretty good sign that she's interested... So do whatever you want! Play chess! Play a drinking game! My personal fav is to put on some dance music. I love girls that can dance. So sexy. If you want to sleep with her, its your job to get her aroused with kino so that she's the horny one thats trying to fuck you. The most important thing you can do is be confident. Make sure to be the leader of your interactions and you're in. To hesitate is to believe tha…
/r/seduction07/01/11 08:29 PM
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Dear lord I wish I was going to SXSW this year! ** Sigh ** ** Erection ** ** Gently console and stroke under table at cafe ** ** Sigh **
/r/seduction07/01/11 08:22 PM
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I've been largely abstaining from the drink for three reasons: Money Health (damn winter sore throats) Game Relating to #3, I've basically been doing everything I can do to be the life of the party without drinking. I feel like If I can have a blast, exude confidence, and mac on babes like a king... then it will give me a better perspective on WHY i'm drinking booze when I get back into some cash. As a result, I feel like a super-human. Its been hard, its pulled me out of my comfort zone for sur…
/r/seduction07/01/11 07:24 PM
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Decide what you want and go get it! You're the man!
/r/seduction06/01/11 07:41 AM
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The world is there for your entertainment. To hesitate is to believe that you are immortal. You are not immortal.
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:48 AM
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I agree. Calling a woman, even if you need to leave a voicemail, is a much more confident move because it requires more ballz than a text.
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:34 AM
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You're a confident, interesting, attractive man-- you've got to expect that the majority of women out there will find you attractive. You wouldn't #close a grandmother, 12 yr old, or HB4 would you? Why? Because you don't want them. You're a man. You take what you want. You're not responsible to anyone. To be honest, it sounds like you're a bit insecure about what you want. Am I right?
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:30 AM
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I like your emphasis on good solid positive energy and balls-out mentality to opening everyone. This is the WAY its done. Lets you get to know a bunch of cool people while building incredible social proof. You're automatically established as a cool confident dude who is obviously attractive and fuck-worthy... Why else would you be so popular. This is what causes girls to chase you. Life of the party. Rock on! -FF
/r/seduction05/01/11 09:50 PM
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approaching two beautiful women with total and complete reality-eclipsing confidence and asking them to join you for food, wine, and love-making. my favorite line: "What offended you about my offer? Surely not that I find you both beautiful and desirable?..." Watch it a bunch of times. I'm gonna attempt it this weekend.
/r/seduction05/01/11 09:38 PM
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I also have a higher pitched voice. Along with my boyish features and lanky skinny build, it was a recipe for awkward high school and college years. But dude, now that I've realized that I'm a confidant man who can do anything he wants and attract any woman he wants, I don't let the voice thing phase me. Should you fake it, even if you don't feel confident? By all means---- YES. Here are a couple of tips. They accomplish nothing if you don't realize how powerful you are as a manly vessel of sexu…
/r/seduction05/01/11 06:31 AM
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I love it. For a while, I wasn't able to 'own' the instrument and use it to strut my shit. Since consuming the wisdom I've found on seddit, I've decided-- and thus experienced-- that musicians really do have access to limitless pussy. Its not the instrument perse-- its having something in your life that you're passionate about. Of course I'm now regretting that I didn't gaze deeply into her eyes/soul and ask her back to my apt to let me make her a breakfast burrito. chumpta-- I like you. do you …
/r/seduction05/01/11 05:48 AM
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Haha. Impossible.
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:17 PM
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Its fairly obvious that you've got some work to do on realizing that you are a powerful man who can do whatever he wants because the world is his for the sampling. These women should be LUCKY to meet you-- you are the great purveyor of manly confidence and energy. you're a busy dude but you take time out of your schedule to come tell your story and meet fucking babes. Show ends, I get out of dodge. I walk right past another person who had performed and bombed (though not as badly as I), who's la…
/r/seduction04/01/11 10:01 AM
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you're in a different dimension my friend. the gf dimension.
/r/seduction03/01/11 10:27 PM
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managed to work some Kino while we worked on the vino ಠ_ಠ BILL SHAKESPEARE
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:17 PM
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Que? Alprazolam is used to treat anxiety disorders and panic attacks. Alprazolam is in a class of medications called benzodiazepines. It works by decreasing abnormal excitement in the brain. Fuck that noise.
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:11 PM
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You were witty, you were attentive, you were brave! The text game is so count-intuitive. I look back and laugh at the occasions where I've texted girls all day long. I'm sure you know what you did wrong here in retrospect, but for others reading this... How FailFaster would keep this from happening in the future: Don't engage in small-talk over text. Just don't! It comes off as desperate even if most of your texts were relatively witty. Don't ask her so many questions. It makes you look weak. In…
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:01 PM
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I like your style. As a newcomer to many of the concepts of pickup, I've been working hard to transform myself from beta to alpha in group settings. Since I let go of my social anxiety, adopted an abundance mentality, and started focusing on getting the group to have fun, I've noticed my attraction levels skyrocket. Women will just approach me and open me. Random dudes' girlfriends will be eye-fucking me from across the room. Nothing turns a woman on like confidence in a man. Its so simple that …
/r/seduction03/01/11 11:03 AM
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I don't drink, but I do think I'm the shit and I will fuck your fuck buddy.
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:37 AM
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yeah, I kindof half-assed it and quit half-way through. note to self-- never try this on reddit.
/r/seduction01/01/11 12:20 AM
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If (they're not 'together') AND if {he's actively sleeping with other people at the same time) AND if (she has piercing eyes that shoot lasers of sexy into my eyes) AND if (she's willing to come to my place to fuck) then {I'll fuck her up and down back and forth all night like she wants it} else {I'll be good} -FailFaster, learn more.
/r/seduction31/12/10 10:19 PM
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Doesn't it make you feel like a man? Now multiply that go-get-it attitude by 1000. Sky's the limit.
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:52 PM
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Granted, I haven't drunk deeply from the seduction community's wisdom, but I... _________________ Drink deeply. Then post questions. A good place to start is the side bar. Seddit/seduction are really all about improving one's own attractiveness through behavioral techniques and high-level shifts in perspective from follower to leader.
/r/seduction31/12/10 08:19 PM
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Keep in mind for every successful set there was at least one that didn't stick. It really is a numbers game and you CANNOT be afraid to fail! Impressive and inspirational shit tofu. I need to get sarging more. My main social group feels restrictive! He puts the glasses on blondie and he thinks the set is going well. Then she says to him, "So what are you selling?" Hilarious, though I would expect a black waldo to be a fucking master. Would make a great porno: "Black Waldo wanders the tranquil se…
/r/seduction30/12/10 08:21 PM
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Do this: write her a message that is as simple and pure as this: "Hey ___________ , I enjoyed hanging out with you the other night. You should get a beer with me on Friday at ____________. tammiechinaski 123.456.7890" If you can throw a neg/jab in there to be playful, do it! You pussed out when you should have number closed-- but messaging her on FB will let her know that you're interested. From your FR it seems you displayed adequate confidence-- she was probably confused as to why you didn't g…
/r/seduction29/12/10 02:37 AM
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Do you have a link?
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:45 PM
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The reseddit-style entrance works by establishing social proof and social presence right-off the bat. In my case, I had a leg up because I knew a couple people on stage and a couple people in the room. I'll be trying it out more with complete strangers though. In general, it will work on strangers because everyone is interested in and attracted to a high-energy smiling dude thats offering a high-five.
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:45 PM
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I hope that is sarcasm. Drunk sex is awesome.
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:42 PM
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I agree whole-heartedly that it takes confidence and experience to give women orgasm during a one-night stand. I will be more committed to her orgasm next time. I don't think PU ends when you're in bed-- but if our FRs were in-depth on sexual encounters we'd spend way too much time on them.
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:40 PM
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I don't believe so. My first/last girlfriend couldn't reach orgasm without a vibrator by herself or during sex. I think I did become used to that-- I'd like to have girls teach me what gets them off even on the first fuck.
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:10 AM
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she wasn't that drunk, just not sober enough to drive on the freeway. Four drinks in a shorter-than-average frame. we both had a blast in bed. it was awesome.
/r/seduction26/12/10 11:14 PM
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It is about being a man. Your ability with women will not be genuine or genuinely powerful until you are living life like a boss. Personally, I'm beginning to think that if your confidence isn't borderline arrogant-- you're a fucking pussy. Check out the sidebar post for beginners. From browsing over there, it looks like this book might be a good place to start. and feel free to pm regarding questions that you're too much of a pussy to ask on the internet. I think recognizing the importance and …
/r/seduction24/12/10 05:51 AM
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You're a badass. I'm really impressed by your drive to open anyone and everyone. Its about having a good time and being a badass. The ladies just naturally follow. Your inner game is boss.
/r/seduction24/12/10 04:59 AM
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Bravo! You've got knowledge and the balls to use good technique. I really appreciate how you noted inline how you made mistakes. Making mistakes that reveal insight is essential and needs to happen more in this community. Post again soon!
/r/seduction24/12/10 04:23 AM
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Twas just a joke. She had fantastic bosoms. I will suckle her cosmic funbags of supplication and draw out sweet sweet nectar.
/r/seduction23/12/10 07:50 PM
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Thanks. Its not super motivating to write a FR when you went home at the end of the night and got stoned with two cats instead of nailing the FWB. To anyone reading this who hasn't been out in the last week to work on their shit in the field: shit won't change unless you change it. Fail faster.
/r/seduction23/12/10 02:38 AM
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This is good. I often find myself with a group of close friends including women that are just friends (for a multitude of reasons). I've been practicing sexual tension with these friends just for the fun of it-- its been interesting. I just need to watch out for my friends' girlfriends. Danger zone.
/r/seduction19/12/10 10:19 PM
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Its awesome because he's older.
/r/seduction19/12/10 10:03 PM
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Go go go! I'm excited for the craziness that you will create! I'm not familiar with the east coast but I'm sure you'll make memories wherever you end up.
/r/seduction19/12/10 09:54 PM
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Unless you're over the age of 30, pls don't call your girl 'babe' in public unless you're playing on the fact that its the most generic, meaningless, and annoying term of endearment. Playing with these names, however, is a completely different ballgame. Babe, sweetheart, sweet [name], foxy, whoopie goldberg (per TheUltimateDouche), etc. Be unique. Use funny/playful petnames. TL;DR Unique, humorous petnames can be valuable for push/pull. Just don't use 'babe' with sincerity or I'll stab you.
/r/seduction17/12/10 08:43 PM
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This is the kind of sexual game that makes me think of Cosy on the mASF forums. That state of "totally on" that you've communicated in your post, he seems to speak this language fluidly. He relays these FR/LRs with a free-flowing thought-stream narrative that I imagine reflects the way he processes the experiences. Its impressive and inspiring. All body language, eye contact, and sexual kung fu to the super saiyan degree. http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=4&mn=1…
/r/seduction16/12/10 06:52 AM
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I'm a good looking dude, in good shape, and regularly play music in front of rooms full of people. My social skills have been terrible for years, and are still pretty weak compared to my peers in music due to some fundamental issues I have with my own boyish voice and boyish face. I'm not sure why it has taken me so long to figure it out, but reading PUA materials on seddit and mASF has helped me realize that confidence and body language is the only thing that really matters with most social int…
/r/seduction16/12/10 06:11 AM
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Male, 24. Weighing in fairly conservative at 6.
/r/seduction06/12/10 09:16 PM
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read tofutofu's posts.
/r/seduction06/12/10 09:11 PM
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I'm reading Lolita by Nabakov right now.
/r/seduction06/12/10 09:10 PM
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Conceded. I've enjoyed the co-oral supplications of desire with this foxy femme before-- I could sense that she was in a funk and should have planned on isolating her. I was actually put off by this girl, should be prepared for that. I actually got the gay thing twice that night... both times I played it up. "Ok I'm gay, does that mean I can gauge your breasts now?" ... This last girl was so drunk I was more concerned about her remaining upright than spitting game. Priorities. I did flirt with h…
/r/seduction06/12/10 09:08 PM
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o/\o
/r/seduction06/12/10 08:55 PM
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What you need is to grow some balls, get out there, and fail in real life. Get yourself hyped up about life and go talk to women. Everyone out there wants to meet you, they just don't know it yet. Who wouldn't want to meet you? God, you're incredible; you don't need a wingman to help you communicate that.
/r/seduction04/12/10 12:54 PM
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