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| 0 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?You can say anything if you're attractive enough. It doesn't really matter what you say, everybody is intoxicated. Just dress well and stand up straight. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Buy some tequila and drink it | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Get drunk and you’ll lose all your anxiety | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | No confidence/game w opposite sexJust skull back a bottle of Gin and you’ll be confident | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attractedWomen like to play games and waste time. I think it’s good if they reject you straight away, it saves every bodies time. What I don’t like is them pretending to be into you for an ego boost. Fuck humans. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 37 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youI 100% agree. The only way to actually get good at attracting women is to go out and try to do it. When I was 17, I spent about 18 months reading pick up material before I even approached a girl. 18 FUCKING MONTHS. I understood seduction perfectly, I could have wrote a whole psychology paper on how to attract women... in theory. After putting this into practice I quickly realised that 80% of pick up material is crap and 20% is decent. Michael Phelps didn’t learn to swim by reading swimming books… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 02:13 AM |
| 4 | If you want optimal results you have to spend a lot of moneyAgreed. Online dating only works for top % of men. Imagine if you had 10,000 women messaging you obviously you’re going to pick the hottest one(s). Your standards for what you find is hot will get unbelievably high. Unless this dude is Justin Bieber I highly doubt his claims to success. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 07:40 AM |
| 2 | If you want optimal results you have to spend a lot of moneyYour points are indeed valid. This seems to have been a good experience for you. I would like us both to elaborate. As for expensive, I mean expensive in the sense of lifestyle. Not necessarily in the sense of pampering women. In order to meet girls you need to have a socially active lifestyle. Which often means going out a lot. Which often means higher expenses. Not all the time, but more often than not. I do believe that you don’t need money to get laid. That’s the getting laid part. Meeting t… | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I go about this situation?People have sex with work colleagues all the time. It’s just what humans do. Things will get a bit weird at work but as with anything, ignoring the problem makes it go away. I don’t think it will be that dramatic afterwards as long as you play everything cool. If you don’t want to deal with potential drama then you’ll have to deal with your sexual thoughts. It’s one or the other. Not having sex with her is probably logically the best answer but hey you only live once man | /r/seduction | 17/05/21 09:58 AM |
| 7 | Exercise your confidenceSeduction is for overthinkers. Attracting women is actually quite simple. I feel like the seduction journey is the same for everybody on here. While sex is enjoyable, when you find out that’s it’s not all what Hollywood and porn cracked it out to be, you’re left pondering in life and what’s left of it; yourself. You have to face yourself. Which is more intimidating than approaching any woman. It defeats the purpose of this sub’s existence, but I couldn’t stress it enough. Internal fulfilment sho… | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 11:09 PM |
| 4 | How to be good at sexThe more you overthink it, the worse you will be. You have to dumb yourself down for sex, which. can be hard if you’re naturally a shy person or have anxiety. My advice for you is when engine in sex is to be as primal as you can. Don’t worry about what she wants. Just do what you wanna do and use her like a sex toy. Throw her around and be rough. Just have zero regard for her. It sounds disrespectful (because it is) but the only this translates well to the bedroom. Start lifting weights or start… | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 07:41 AM |
| 3 | DON'T compliment their bodies or face, Compliment their STYLE.Don’t compliment anything unless it’s genuine and you’re not trying to score brownie points. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Forget everything you read and just be humanI know it’s hard not to be pessimistic. I understand how the world can give us low self esteem because I’ve been there. But you have to start with baby steps into becoming a better you. It takes a long time but you’ll get there. Message me if you need to. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Forget everything you read and just be humanIf you’re thin all you have to do is eat more and lift weights for about a year. There is no such thing as you can’t gain muscle mass unless you’ve reached your genetic limit. Some people just gain faster than others. If you’re autistic there’s not much you can do about that. Embrace it and make it work for you. You can still improve yourself without having to fall into a fake persona. If you’re anxious with girls you will not get laid. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 05:27 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Don’t force it man. Like you said the less you go out for a day game session you get better results. Just go about your day and approach a girl if you see one you’re interested in, rather than specifically waking up to approach girls so you can try and get laid. We all want to bang new girls man but save your energy and let it come. It’s not the most optimal advice but it’s better for your mental health trust me. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Game vs Seduction : What's The DifferenceGame is a science. Seduction is an art. Two different variations of the same thing. Just how you can either study psychology as part of a BA, or psychology as a part of a BSc. Game is more a mathematical logical approach on how to deal with women. Seduction is more of an emotional and articulate approach to dealing with women. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Need help on what to text this girl (shes down to hang)I’m going to give you some good old fashioned, ape advice. Don’t overthink it. I’m assuming you are solely aiming for fun and sex, as you arent fully committed to seeking a relationship yet as you said you’re seeking something in the middle. There is something in the middle, but for your sanity let’s just start with sex. Just be a man. All those bad asses you see in the movies? Be like them. Just take the lead. Tell her you’re coming to get her tonight. If she obliges, go eat somewhere and just … | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | How can I be at my best all the time?I feel the same way. When I’m peaking, my social and seduction are impeccable. When I’m down all energy is lost. You have to really maintain that energy and passion. When you’re feeling low there’s an underlying issue in your life that needs addressing. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out what that actually is. Once you start working on that and developing healthier living habits the energy that you emit will be lively again. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do I cringe when trying to flirtSome people are natural conversationalists where others aren’t. Doesn’t mean you can’t improve it though. You can improve who you are without slipping into a facade. Sounds like you’re a pretty straight up guy so work with that. You’d be surprised how many women will respect your authenticity. Don Toretto never speaks crap and still gets laid. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Fake it till you make it or just be yourself?Meh that’s only something you can figure out for yourself. I used to be incredibly indirect. I was the best actor I knew, used a whole bunch of slimy indirect pick up tactics that fitted into my facade, and bro trust me, it did work. But I never felt good internally. It didn’t align with who I truely was, the sex didn’t even mean anything anymore: I found indirect too manipulative and passive. Now I’m just straight up. And not just with girls, with life in general. If you have something to say, … | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do I cringe when trying to flirtYou are using pick up techniques that don’t fit you internally. This is a identity issue more so than a seduction one. Obviously it was working on the girl but external success doesn’t mean shit if you aren’t liking it internally. Try being direct with women and be more processed focused than results. I used to use all the indirect techniques in the world and sure they would work but I hated what I was doing , it was slimy, passive and downright cringe. Now I’m direct and I don’t give a fuck any… | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | How do I man up and grow a pair?You have to get primitive about it. Dumb yourself down. This is hard for overthinking intellectuals, but the only way to combat a whirlwind of thoughts is by taking action. You see hot girl > you approach. It does suck getting rejected but what if you don’t approach at all? You will just beat yourself up more for being a wimp. I used to be like this. How I beat my low self esteem and overthinking tendencies was by jumping right in the deep end and just doing it. The first approaches you do are a… | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 10:44 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?Males are wired to chase females. It’s not unhealthy man. I see where you’re coming from though. I’m guessing you think something must be wrong with you since deep down you long for a relationship. When I was 18 I always wanted a gf deep down but I thought I was weak for imagining myself in a relationship whenever I saw a cute girl. Nothing wrong with looking for a gf. But you can’t anticipate it. It has to happen on its own accord. By all means, throw your fishing rod in the sea, but don’t be t… | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Best books on NEVER run out of things to say!Start snorting more coke as well, you’ll never run out of things to say | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 0 | How to get the courage to put what I know in use?Start off by doing it when you’re drunk eventually it will become normal. Don’t overthink it. | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point of gaming girls you dont even get along with?That’s a subjective thing. I used to cut girls off that I found boring, even if they were super hot. If you value excitement then there’s nothing wrong with that. Just do whatever makes you happy. | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I hate social media but it helps attract women. Help?Thats what I hate. I deleted my Instagram account and I really do feel like my social value has disappeared. But I'm watching Elon Musk explain how toxic instagram is and I'm feeling better. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | I can see why sliding into dm’s barley work. Too many options and plus guys, 90% of the time you’re boring.I was a master at sliding into dms. Girls don't war a bar of it if you're too direct (because all guys are like that). You have to be indirect yet playful. Being too indirect will land you in the 'internet buddy' friend zone. Mind you I had about 3000 followers and most of the girls I hit up had a lot of mutual followers and were tied into the same social circle in one way or another. It gets real draining and you can really get sucked into the whole impressionable ego thing on instagram. Hittin… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What is seddits general view on escorts?I did that all 2019. Gets draining wearing a mask for so long, just to fuck hot girls. Wasn't even worth it in the end. Now I'm just chilling from the whole 'you MUST approach' mindset. Just being myself. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | 2020 Stop faking who you are for womenI feel like I could have worded it better. I know Seddit is all about trying to get pussy and I'm a bit out of place with my statements. My opinion is only my opinion it's not right or wrong... By all means if you wan't pussy go for it. I just advise against going to the extreme and becoming a chameleon all for the sake of getting laid. It is possible to meet in the middle, you may not get optimal results, but you can still get something while preserving your mental health. A.K.A becoming more c… | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 40 | 2020 Stop faking who you are for womenThanks for your input man you put it in a better way than I did. Apply the teachings of others and incorporate it into your true personality rather than just immersing yourself in a whole new character. Meet in the middle kinda thing yea? | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Full direct game is better for your mental healthSex | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 12:41 AM |
| -4 | Where to meet quality women?I see so many guys kissing females asses. What the fuck for? Their beauty corrupts their manhood. Having this 'need' to have a woman in your life is weakness. This highlights there is something wrong emotionally. Why do you need a woman? What for? To tell you she loves you so you can feel loved? All you need is yourself in this life. Your emotional survival does not depend on a female. Now this doesn't mean never have a girlfriend. But fix yourself first. Harden up. None of this 'my heart longs … | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 09:07 AM |
| -8 | Where to meet quality women?What aree you trying to teach OP? Fuck the women bro. This 'I'm too good for women' attitude will actually take you far in life. Quite misogynistic yes but who the fuck cares. There will come a stage where you realise that you don't actually need a woman to better your life. All you need is their vaginas. Treat them like dogs and they'll play fetch whenever you want. Not all women are evil sluts but I'd say 85% of them are so fuck them. Be nice to the good ones. Treat the rest of them like they'… | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 08:57 AM |
| -3 | What do you say when a girl says 'lets fuck' ?Appreciate your input dude. But in a way I am chasing self awareness. This life is all about you, because its YOUR life. I refuse to bow down to a female because it shows my life depends on external validation. Pussy was created to corrupt men. I still want it but I wont let it corrupt my manhood. | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 03:40 AM |
| -4 | What do you say when a girl says 'lets fuck' ?But if you're jumping at the chance to get in her pussy doesn't that make you a bitch? She knows she can throw it out there and use it against you because you won't resist it. Know what I mean? But I'm not disregarding your point. You're actually right. Shes giving herself up which is a form of submission yea so if you're alpha go dominate her. Forgive me for I am merely a seduction novice, but from what I've already observed, in seduction is that there is no black and white guidelines. | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 02:39 AM |
| -3 | Good looking beta menBallet isnt really beta its just gay how he describes how ballet makes him emotional | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Good looking beta menHe gets caught up with these girls and starts getting needy. But he gets a pass because of his good looks. The girls fuck him then leave him. Its like role reversal when u think about it, its supposed to be the other way around. Weird situation. Nonetheless he still gets to fuck them | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 10:01 AM |
| 0 | Good looking beta menTalking about feelings and he does ballet | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are some women very promiscious?I dont judge them for it I just wonder why they do it. If they experience the same urges men do then i guess that makes more sense | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Why are some women very promiscious?For men its more of a biological drive. For women it just seems like they fuck a lot of guys because they need validation and have daddy issues | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier lifeWhat is success? I agree. Success is different for all. For one guy it might be running a multi billion dollar business. For another guy it might be working as an English tutor overseas sharing his God given talent. What they all have in common is that they had inner passion and purpose. Soem guys think success in life is measured by how many girls he has fucked. That is success in a certain form yes, but not a fulfilling success like inner purpose will bring. Girls will not just flock to approa… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier lifeLaw school, spend a lot of time at night clubs, House Parties, Gym. Work part time as retail assistant as well where most of the staff are women | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier lifeYou clearly didn't read all of my post. I don't blame you, that shit looks like a novel. If you see hot girl and too pussy to approach her it doesn't mean what you are "on your purpose I will approach hot girls now and then if I really feel like its worth my time and effort. Just not every time I see one like its the pinnacle of my existence. Guys who take action could sleep with 100+ hotties within a year, I did all of that when I was like 17-19. I banged a lot of hot girls, maybe not as much c… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 03:27 AM |
| -2 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier lifeThat's the opposite of what people who get what they want do lol. The mere mentality represented in the statement of 'I want pussy' is enough to signify the depth of ones existence. Wanting success does not 100% equate to wanting someone else vagina | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier lifeNote that I said I approach women very, very rarely. A bit contradictory I know, but not to the point of defeating the purpose of this post... note how I said the purpose of this post. THE PURPOSE. I let them come to me 99% of the time and since my experiences have been great I encourage others to follow suit . Don't go out of your way ever. Let it come to you. You'll be surprised at the quality of females that swing your way when all you focus on yourself. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:28 AM |
| -5 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier lifeThat's the complete opposite of what people who chase their dreams and passions do. I don't think endlessly pursuing vagina is a good enough dream and passion. That is so hollow. A man needs to have depth in his purpose. But in saying that, a man should just worry about himself and his own purpose and not the purpose of other men. If someones purpose in this world is plowing vagina after vagina then thats your business, but there's more out there than that. false dichotomy between a happy life a… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier life😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.As a teenager I was naturally quiet and all I cared about was my studies. Not boasting but I would rate my face (in my prime) as a High 7 or a Low 8. Girls at school would approach me first. I wouldn't say I lacked confidence when I was 17, I was just introverted. As my interactions were so dull, so I missed out on a lot of opportunities. Good looking guys have it easier, girls will literally make the first move and signal an invitation for interaction but after that it depends what you do with … | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.Good looking guys have it easier and yes it is an initial turn on. Not trying to boast but back in my prime I rated my face an 8 and girls at school would hit on me first. But you have to do something after that. Their inviting you to interaction. You cant just do nothing and the girl will fuck you because you have an attractive face. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier to pull at house parties than at nightclubs?Bro you have to keep going to the same clubs. just enjoy yourself and be friendly and dont focus too much on getting laid. Eventually the regulars will notice you as you're becoming a regular yourself and then boom friendships formed. Thats what happened to me. Its 100x easier to get laid after you've established yourself in the nightclub scene | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 10:10 AM |
| -5 | Why is it easier to pull at house parties than at nightclubs?I dont judge girls for screwing around. Its not really my business what they do with their life lol. But I do agree slutty has a negative connotation to it, a better substitute would have been 'promoiscious' | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Confidence vs Cockiness vs arrogance vsCocky funny > all. Watch The Rock pick up chicks in the old WWF days (Yes I know it is scripted but it gives you a good idea). A narcissistic type of cockiness won't really intrigue majority of women as the interaction is one sided as you only want to talk about you. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Is not giving a fuck attractive?Yea pick up game and Night clubs don't really mix, contrary to popular belief. If you focus on girls too much at a club you're just going to ruin your own night. If it happens, it happens, don't force it. Just enjoy the energy! | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 11:27 PM |
| 7 | UPDATE: Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girlsGood stuff man. I feel as if you are one of the few people on this sub who have a similar view on seduction as I do. Yea playing mind games work. We get to sit back while the woman does everything and our egos and pride dont get touched. But imo this is draining for your mental health. I used to orchestrate huge schemes to discreetly emotionally manipulate women into bed but now I just be upfront and genuine. Sure the spectrum of women is a lot smaller and rejection rates are higher but I promis… | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | After 31 Years, I Have Discovered The Ultimate Secret to Attracting Women.I already know that. To fuck a lot of women yes you can't really just be yourself. It takes a lot of studying facade finesse and mind games. But over time, you kind of develop your own version of 'game', which is akin to the concept of 'being yourself' while also taking these womanizing tactics on board. I've been there done that. But what I'm saying is if you're looking for more genuine connections with better quality (in your own context) women then just be yourself. Thats what I did. I found … | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | After 31 Years, I Have Discovered The Ultimate Secret to Attracting Women.Just being yourself isn't bad advice depending on what you're after. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Having Sex With Your Homeboy's Ex...Are You Right or Wrong? (The Bro Code Edition)Quite a complicated topic | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice on Clubbing SituationsAs somebody who used to go clubbing all the time I suggest you establish yourself in the nightclub regular crowd before even attempting to get laid. It becomes much easier when the girls have some sense of common ground with you. However my personal advice would be to worry less about girls and enjoy your early days clubbing before the magic disappears. Have genuine fun dont make it all about pussy. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 09:30 AM |
| 3 | Stop being too Nice with girlsIf you want to bed a lot of women I suggest you take this advice on board. But if you want more genuine connections with better quality women then continue being a nice guy if you are an authentic genuine nice guy (as opposed to whiny entitled phony nice guy). Your spectrum will decrease but meh. Depends what you're after. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How can I seduce without being arrogant?There is the real Conor McGregor who is humble. And then there is the 'Notorious Conor McGregor' which is the gimmick he uses as a marketing scheme. This cocky attitude will get you a lot of a pussy if you are able to pull it off and seem sincere. But the thing is its just a facade you have to use to get what you want. However, if you genuinely feel this way about yourself, more power to you I guess. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Is a more 'serious' approach needed when talking to Girls at College?I'm not sure what that could be right now. I finished High School 5 months ago. I've been working full time at a factory for a temp agency ever since. I've basically had zero interaction with women over the last 5 months. Plus I have no experience with this certain demographic of women (college girls), but no better way to find out than to fail. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Instagram game advice?After experiencing this for myself, I agree. The women online don't know you personally so trying it on with them rarely works unless you are a really famous model. The real world is a better way to meet women, ie college or nightclubs, as you said social media is just a window into your life for girls who are interested and already know you. | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Instagram game advice?Idk. A lot of girls will just follow you back as its just the standard thing to do when anybody follows you. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Search up kpgram. It can get you fake followers and likes on inatagram. Downside is that it uses your account to others using kpgram, but thats the only way it will work. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 01:18 AM |
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