We've all been there. Trying to get our body count up for the sake of it. It doesn't even end up being about meeting your sexual needs. It's more about proving to yourself that you can fuck a large amount of hot women. Ego fueled conquests. Well, 1 in 200 men are descendants of Genghis Khan, so that might be why.

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I've found to be happier talking to a small handful of women, exercising more mindfulness of who I involve in my life (in that aspect).

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At one stage I was talking to somewhere between 30-40 girls at once. I didn't even feel like having sex with any of them and quit the whole thing, did some soul searching for a year and then came back to the dating scene. I was having the same conversation over and over. The only difference between all these women is that they had different faces and boobs. Talking to many women is draining. You have the guys who say talk to as many hot (or just in general) girls as you can because its a numbers game. Yea I guess that's true, but is this about getting our dicks stroked or our egos? Your self worth comes from much bigger things than if X amount of women decide to let you have sex with them or not, despite what the rappers may say. The novelty wears off.

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The absolute most I would keep in my rotation now is 5. I went from having sex with 22 girls in my first year, to now 3 this year. And I'm happy with that. Talking to women doesn't feel like a chore anymore and I actually enjoy their company. Keep your options open of course, but be selective. Just like how women are. Shoot your shot sparingly, invest wisely.

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Oh, and be honest about your intentions. Saves a lot of headaches.