Working your ass off at work? You'll probably get a promotion. Putting 200% effort into hockey every day? You might end up as the next Wayne Gretzky.

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Putting 200% effort into studying/seducing women? Well .........

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Most dudes on this sub are here for a reason. You don't have a clue how to get laid, so here we are. I too was this guy 3 years ago. The thing is, getting laid isn't formulated. It isn't the same as studying for your Physics or Calculus exam.

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On paper, this is shit advice. It really is. But from a weird spiritual hippy standpoint, you'll come to understand in time after a cycle of failing/succeeding with women. Give up. Just give up. Give up trying to understand women and their attraction triggers, it's impossible to understand. You can watch a 6 hour RSD lecture about it (that is designed to appeal to your male rationale), think you understand it, apply it to the real world and find out that it's all nonsense.

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Stop trying to cater towards women. Stop changing yourself to hopefully hit their horny switch. The less you care, the more women want to bag you down. You're somehow the one for them. Who fucking knows why and who fucking cares? Don't try and get inside their heads and comprehend it. This is just the way it is and that's just what turns them on, you can read a 40,000 psychology analogy explaining why but the conclusion is the same. Have a fun, careless approach towards women and that is how you will get laid. Elaboration is as follows:

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  1. Go lift weights or do kickboxing
  2. Groom yourself well
  3. Do your hobbies that make you happy (Piano, painting, paintball whatever...)
  4. Don't pay attention to anything women say

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That's all you have to do to get more women interested in you. Invest time and energy into yourself and this becomes easier. Don't overcomplicate something that is so simple. Just throw the bait out there and you'll be surprised at the fish you get. The fish that are swimming away, don't chase after them it's degrading to your manhood.

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It's all in our heads.