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djangountamed13/r/seduction24/04/22 02:20 AM
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Make a move, bro. That's always the answer anytime you're unsure of your status with a girl.
/r/seduction27/06/22 03:59 AM
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Check out She's Six Steps Away for a ramp up approach. I would personally just dive in though. Life is short. Grow some balls and take some risks.
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:43 AM
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teleport into pussy I like it.
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:37 AM
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Spot on, Lord Vecna.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:11 AM
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The internet has a ton of resources on this. The best advice I've heard is you get a massive following on instagram by being someone special outside of instagram (celebrity, politician, athlete, etc). Except if you're a booty chick ofc.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:48 PM
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Toe to toe? Wtf you think this is bro
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:17 PM
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Why are you asking? If you're interested make a move and observe her reaction. Otherwise move on with your life.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:15 PM
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Basically women live their lives based on emotion. If she likes you right now and is in to the idea of hanging out with you, doesn't mean she'll feel the same way a week from now.
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:28 AM
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The further out the date the more likely they will flake/ghost. Usually I try to set up dates for day off/next day/couple days out. If you schedule a date a week out good luck!
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:27 AM
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when they start to like you ALLLL of a sudden now they never have any fucking plans So true
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:22 AM
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+1000 on the friends thing. Hard to make male friends as a guy though.
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:54 AM
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Why wouldn't it work? It leads to extreme confidence, decisiveness, dominance, other masculine traits. Feminine is drawn to masculine.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:12 AM
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What's the problem? She just cancelled for this weekend. Try for another time. Expect 1 or 2 rounds of deferrals before taking a woman out. It's a form of shit testing. They're testing how serious you are/persistence.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:08 AM
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Don't bother. Just like photos. Based on my testing writing comments doesn't improve your odds of a match or date. It all comes down to your profile.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:04 AM
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Do what you feel like doing. If you want a break then take one and go from there. It's not a big deal. Women will always be there.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:34 AM
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Actually, it is how it should work. Don't really agree with this. Like anything else, if you want the best results you need deliberate practice, in this case planned day game sessions. Approaching a girl here or there in your daily life won't get you anywhere.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:33 AM
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Just get off tinder. App is complete garbage at this point.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:28 AM
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I found it easier to approach girls who are just sitting or standing there. When I saw an attractive girl walking by, at the time I think I should talk to her, she's already gone. I guess I have to take "don't think" approach. Funny enough for me it's the opposite. I'd rather stop someone walking than approach someone just sitting there. Idk why.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:04 AM
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I'm not convinced anyone is getting kicked out of universities for approaching women. Where's the evidence? I certainly wouldn't do multiple approaches in a library, that's odd. But at a quad, sporting event, party, cafeteria, etc what's the issue. A university is no different than the rest of the world.
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:37 AM
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Exactly, go ahead and weed yourself out. The plan worked.
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:31 AM
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You can think of this as a shit test. It helps to weed out weaker men. The more men weed themselves out, the less work women have to do. And the men that actually rise above this shit and, in this case, approach, end up being higher quality. It's a solid tactic.
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:38 PM
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Read The untethered soul or some other "lower level" book as compared to self improvement books. It's like trying to learn a new language by watching movies in that language versus taking a first principles course in the nature and structure of that language. You should learn to see that the mental chatter telling you you're not worthy isn't "you".
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:06 PM
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List of movies with an alpha/cool/charismatic/seductive male lead: 1) Top Gun - tom cruise 2) Old Alphy film - michale caine 3) Gone with the Wind - rhett bulter 4) A Streetcar Named Desire - marlon brando 5) James Bond (Sean Connery, Pierce Brosnan, daniel craig) 6) Jerry McGuire, eyes wide shut, cocktail - Tom cruise (tom cruise in general) 7) Glen Garry Glen Ross - Pacino, Baldwin 8) Boiler Room - Ben Affleck 9) One flew over the cuckoo’s nest - Jack Nicholson 10) Five easy pieces - Jack Nich…
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:13 AM
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The only data you have is that she's gone, you have no idea why. Stop ruminating and trying to figure it out. It's impossible for you to. Just move on. You didn't do anything wrong. I've found that women are especially flighty on Bumble, since that platform gives them even more "power".
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:09 AM
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https://mikemehlman.net/2018/12/29/why-getting-rejected-is-so-important/ https://mikemehlman.net/2018/06/23/the-sexual-game-doesnt-give-a-fuck/ https://mikemehlman.net/2018/07/12/you-cant-fake-your-lack-of-care/ http://mikemehlman.net/2018/01/20/living-true-to-yourself/
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:37 PM
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Implied consent is life 101 for me. Be a man. Do what you want. Ask for forgiveness not permission, as they say.
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:06 AM
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If your goal is to be a snowflake, dating is itself unoriginal. As far as stationary, I usually incorporate a walk or go to multiple venues. You definitely need to move around a bit.
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:48 PM
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Ok, be reasonable. I’m not saying what the other person wants doesn’t matter. I’m saying stop worrying about what other people think. In this scenario, instead of constantly asking is this ok is that ok (which women don’t want btw) do want you want and act on her response. Also, asking what she wants implies she knows. Someone imagines something happening and then imagines how they feel and then gives you some answer isn’t necessarily equal to how they’ll feel when that thing actually happens.
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:42 PM
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I disagree. Stop worrying about what other people think. People live their lives by doing what they imagine the people around them want them to do. Just do what you want to do.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:51 PM
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Do what you feel like doing. You've known this woman for a while so there's more wiggle room to "mess up". You can just say "Looks delicious" or whatever and then go cold for a bit.
/r/seduction13/05/22 05:32 AM
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Run some experiments and see what happens. Adjust accordingly. Guys are too obsessed with coming off as beta or needy. Just say what you feel like saying. My hypothesis is that telling a girl "if you're free, come join me" pretty much guarantees she won't. Try being more direct. And I don't think it matters if you use the word date or not. Once again, run some experiments.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:53 PM
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I mean you're a woman so pretty much all you can do (within the framework of conventional dating) is wait for the man to make a move. The fact that he hasn't already made a move says something about him. You can also be subversive, eg send him a snap of you in a bikini or something. If he doesn't take the hint then you're shit out of luck.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:48 PM
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And i dont think something like going out for coffee is so much fun neither. Why not? A conversation between 2 people attracted to each other isn't fun? Keep it simple. Go for tea/coffee/a drink. At least if we're talking about the first few dates. Obviously when you get in to it you can do wilder stuff.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:44 PM
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None of those things entitle you to sleeping with women. It's not some equation. Good looking + funny + respectful + job + hobbies + talking to women = sleeping with a lot of women. There are guys getting laid who have none of those things (minus talking to a lot of women). There's something you're missing but you're not providing enough information to diagnose.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:41 PM
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She's a woman. She's passive. Most likely she won't get back to you. You're the man so you have to be the active one. I would've just said "Ok" or something. Sounds like she's busy this weekend. Just hit her up next week.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:35 PM
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Don't hit on the hired guns. There's plenty of women who don't work there who you can talk to. No way to gauge real interest when it's an employee.
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:29 PM
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Learn from others. Vadim is a good starting point. This subreddit and the internet has a ton of information. In general you want to epitomize masculinity -- be forward, confident, unfazed.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:58 AM
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Check out She's Six Steps Away. It has a 6 step process for easing you in to cold approach. Step 1 is just "go out consistently" (without talking to anyone). You can adapt it to whatever you want to accomplish, even if it's not cold approach. That's one approach: the ease in method. The other approach is to just dive in to the deep end. Go walk up to a girl and say "Hi, I thought you were cute". Just take action. You keep saying "can't" but you literally can.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:54 AM
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It's a shit test. Women usually put you through 1 or 2 rounds of deferrals before agreeing to a date. They're testing your persistence. She's screening for weak willed guys who will leave at the drop of a dime. She wants a mate who's in it for the long haul. Mike Mehlman has a good article on this. I've experienced it too. You just have to work through it.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:49 AM
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You're interpreting rejections as "this must mean I'm needy and desperate". Who said that? How does one lead you to conclude the other? Rejections are part of the game as a man. Read Mike Mehlman. He's the rejection king.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:45 AM
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You're making it weird. Those women are attractive. He likes looking at them. Thus he follows them. Don't read in to it too much.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:19 AM
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As cute as this sounds, it's just not the reality of the average man. You get laid by putting in the effort.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:16 AM
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Step 1 is learning that what you say is much less important than how you say it. But to answer your question: Vadim from HonestSignalz.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:06 AM
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Have some respect for yourself. Is this how you want to be treated? I usually do 2 strikes (or 3 for the dimes) and then move on.
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:19 AM
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Nobody, that’s just reality. I’ve lived it So reality hurt you.
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:24 AM
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Bro, who hurt you?
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:04 AM
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All things are impermanent, as they say in Buddhism.
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:59 AM
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As a man, this was actually the only benefit I got from online dating -- validation -- which gave me the confidence to talk to women irl. Getting all sorts of matches shows you the number and variety of women that are interested in you, and they haven't even experienced the real you.
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:35 AM
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Just trying not to lead op astray. Your comment reads as “I a girl likes chess” “you were playing chess” “thus talk to girls about chess”. And I’m just making it clear a girl on Reddit is not the average case.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:43 PM
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Yeah but you're a girl on reddit, so maybe not the average...
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:28 AM
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Came here to say this. There are others like you out there (including me).
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:25 AM
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Your social skills need improvement. How do you improve at anything? You already did it with your physique. Learn (books, peers, videos, etc) and practice (go out). Failure is part of learning, so learn to love it.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:38 AM
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It's just your brain manipulating you to take action. We've evolved to reproduce and you're failing at doing that. Negative emotions are based on survival instincts (check out Letting Go). So just know those feelings aren't real. Sometimes it'll seem like every girl hates you, other times they'll all love you. Shouldn't matter.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:19 AM
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So much competing advice. That's life.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:01 AM
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Eh, you actually don't need to talk as much. Read The Physical Game.
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:26 AM
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He definitely used to live in SF. He’s a former software engineer. If you look at some old videos I bet you’ll find some SF ones.
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:39 PM
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The Single Guy is in SF I believe https://www.youtube.com/c/TheSingleGuy. He has some success.
/r/seduction10/03/22 08:10 AM
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