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3

My cousin had 10k followers. He had more options definitely and had more opportunities to be a promoter for local businesses, got a lot of perks. ​ I could see it in his eyes though that he was a train wreck inside. It got to him in the end living in a façade, caught up in the validation trap and became more insecure. He only has 100 followers now.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:06 PM
1

Honestly, they only like you if they put your penis in their mouth's.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:52 PM
3

You don't need to be a good dancer to get laid but it's about 4000x easier if you are one
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:04 AM
19

Well, instead of ranting on here, how about you go out next week and just initiate. Unless you have 3 million ig followers, very rarely will women make the first move. Go and do it. Analyze it afterwards. You got this.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:36 AM
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There's nothing wrong about that. Casual sex isn't for you, as a lot of men. Well, more than willing to admit anyway. ​ I would advise you to work on yourself as much as you can either way. If you feel like you can't survive unless you find a girlfriend you're crossing into bad existential crises territory.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:34 AM
3

You would definitely be in Slytherin lol
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:40 AM
3

We all have my friend, we all have
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:59 AM
2

These psychology analogies can provide insight but it's pointless, the conclusion is the same. Don't over think it.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:55 AM
1

Who cares if you're going to a coffee date with a hot woman? Is she a human being or some demi-god from Planet Vegeta? ​ She should be happy to go on a date with you.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:32 AM
1

Buy a bottle of Tequila Drink half the bottle ​ Problem solved
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:30 AM
1

It's not even worth trying to understand. If these men like you, then they like you. Who knows why. You can just ask them what they see in you, easiest way to go about it
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:29 AM
1

Who cares if it doesn't work. You're better off hitting the gym and grooming yourself. Then you can say whatever you want and have an easier time getting laid.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:27 AM
1

Who knows what women like and who cares? ​ The Da Vinci code is probably easier to figure out than women. So just live a life that makes you happy. Flirt how you want to flirt, who gives a fuck, you can't be every girl's cup of tea.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:26 AM
6

People can't help who they fall in love with, it just happens. ​ Now if you are finding yourself becoming easily attached to women, you have to do some serious shadow work
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:21 AM
3

A life of pessimism is a life not worth living
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:19 AM
2

After burying myself dick deep in 10,000,000 pages of philosophy, I've come to the ultimate conclusion that all of these constructs are pure horse shit. ​ We're never going to figure out the meaning, so who cares? Just have fun. ​ Raymundo from Rocket Power looks a lot happier than Nietzsche ever did.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:15 AM
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It's not even worth attempting to understand. Women are batshit crazy. ​ Just do you bro, focus on making yourself fulfilled and happy.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:07 AM
1

Seeing sex as some numbers game kills the fun and takes out the naturality of it.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:09 AM
1

You're right. Girls don't care if you kickbox. Do you care if you kickbox? The reason I encourage men to do kickboxing (or any martial art) is that Kickboxing makes you feel more like a man, this translates into your everyday life and will make you get laid.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:04 AM
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Sex is the be all, end all for 90% of people in this sub. This sub was made for learning how to attract women at the end of the day. ​ But is it really wrong to throw around the deeper, soulful stuff? I think not. After all, inner game ties into getting laid anyway. Not only are you now getting laid or getting a gf, you will become a more fulfilled person exclusive of the fact that your penis is inside a vagina. ​ Your value as a human being is reflected and based on things much more substantial…
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:59 AM
1

Who cares about girls and who's attention they give it to. Their attention isn't a divine blessing from the Gods.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:42 AM
2

I know dudes on their purpose who put in 5% effort and get laid. I know average dudes who put in 100% effort and get laid. Result is the same, method not so much.
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:25 AM
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You still have to out in some work, but if you dress nice and are in shape, don't give a shit there's about 80% less work you have to do. Life is easier when women want to fuck you and not the other way around.
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:23 AM
1

There's Elon Musk, and then there's you.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:08 PM
1

Yea I've been that guy (and basically 80% of the people who have actually succeeded in this sub) who's only purpose in life was to chase women. Yes, you get better. You learn what to do, but that pussy isn't going to fill the void in your soul. ​ It's the same as a meth head who's spent the last 3 years trying out all kinds of batches, and now he knows how to make the most out of his meth. But guess what, that meth isn't doing anything for his life.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:01 PM
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I've been gaming for the last 3 years, done it all, it's fake and it's draining. Live life authentically. That, my friend is what's great for your mental health.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:58 PM
1

Get really drunk and don't overthink it.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:23 AM
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I was referring to the general population of the West not the self
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:15 AM
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Complaining and venting won’t make your problem go away, but sitting down and acknowledging the issues at hand can help you move in a better direction. There is a good middle ground between the traditional army beliefs and the current.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:18 AM
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Nothing gets a women more wet than anger and aggression. It’s funny how they sexually reward the exact same ‘toxic masculine’ behaviours they label and campaign so hard against.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:11 AM
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Love doesn’t exist. Only lust.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:06 AM
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Guess the Disney fairytale doesn’t exist. Relationships are really just women finding a slightly better alternative to loneliness.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:03 AM
1

It depends how you do it. I know it’s fiction, but Tommy Shelby does it pretty well. He’ll occasionally let girls know when something is bothering him or dive a little bit into his traumatic past. He shares what’s on his mind without dumping a bunch of baggage on another human being.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:47 AM
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The boys are much more receptive of discussing depression or any general struggles in my experience. We don’t sit around and ball out endlessly like women do, but we do discuss things that are bothering us and we all try to come up with strategies to make our lives better. And my boys are just normal people, not emo goths or feminist sympathisers.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:28 PM
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Women love it when a guy shows emotions .... emotions meaning passionate displays of anger or aggression It’s crazy how most women enable the very ‘toxic masculine’ traits they speak against so much.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:23 PM
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have a look at the Hells Angels clubhouse and you’ll see what kind of sadistic women bad boys actually have access to
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:02 PM
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It’s a very thin line between improving yourself and trying to be somebody you’re not.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:35 AM
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You can have sex with a lot of hot women’s and still dislike women. NWA made a whole album about it.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:46 AM
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Cold approach tactics are still modelled after PUA from the 80s. Unfortunately, the world has gone digital. Which means cold approach rarely works as humans social skills get worse.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:40 AM
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I did the same in my late teens/early 20s. It’s a common occurrence. Go from one extreme end of the spectrum to the other. If you go from nice guy pen pal straight into a toxic asshole, you will start to attract toxic asshole women. Yea, not enjoyable or healthy.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:36 AM
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Depends how much you love drama. I have no statical proof to back up this claim, but I’m certain most men in the West don’t like drama with women. All these ups and downs with shitty women is not fun. You can have sex with normal women. Might not be as great, but that 20 minute rush with psychos isn’t worth the other months of bullshit.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:17 AM
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I disagree. You can be a good guy and get laid. Pussy nice guy and good hearted guy aren’t the same.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:15 AM
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If you aren’t the type to provide emotional roller coasters, then don’t trade your authenticity for some pussy. It feels wrong. This post isn’t about why bad boys get women, because we all already know they do. It’s about highlighting a common fad where men try to be bad, when they’re not. It isn’t even about women. It’s about you. If you genuinely think you’re bad, go to the marines and you’ll be weeded out quickly from real bad asses. And if you’re a real bad boy, as I said, you wouldn’t even …
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:12 AM
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Putting energy into women just leaves you as a walking breathing dildo that goes into different holes, with no real purpose. Inner game > everything Work on yourself, and you’ll naturally attract women who are in the same boat. Drama free.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:08 AM
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Mingling with higher value women is better than both
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:34 AM
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Yea that only happens in Titanic
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:52 PM
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👍
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:52 PM
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This is r/seduction not r/Christianity
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:41 PM
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80% of men do it
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:28 PM
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If you had a free pass to have sex with your married celebrity crush and nobody found out, your pants will drop straight away
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:27 PM
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Girls in relationships are always hotter
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:06 PM
1

Who cares. Focus on things that actually make you happy and women will come
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:56 AM
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This is probably the most competitive scenario. Even more than a nightclub. ​ The only way to even get girls to consider you is to have a good physique. Your competing with a bunch of other dudes outnumbering women something like 4:1. Some fat, some skinny, some juiced. ​ If you're decently ripped, can display higher EQ/IQ than you can beat dudes who have more muscle mass than you. Points if your face isn't too bad. Don't think too much, it doesn't have to be golden lines written by the worlds b…
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:25 AM
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Who cares. ​ They're just women. Not goddesses. ​ You should seriously consider going to BUDS.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:17 AM
1

Who cares. You should consider joining the marines.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:14 AM
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Its a waste of your time and energy. I would encourage men to learn about a real topic or engage in a real hobby.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:12 AM
0

Slap her ass and fuck her
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:08 AM
2

Try your best to cut back on porn. Eat a lot of protein, iron. Throw some Ghost peppers in it will help your T levels. Don’t pussy out just eat it. Lift as much as you can on leg day or do boxing.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:07 AM
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It’s good for physically attractive dudes. If you’re hot you’re going to have an easier time. But, even then, you still have to deal with playing pen pal with a bunch of disposable faces on the internet. Yours included, even if you are quite attractive. Remember you’re not the only hot guy in the world. If you aren’t a model, don’t even bother using it. If your patience threshold is low then I would advise you to redirect your energy elsewhere. Real life is always better. Whether you’re a chad o…
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:03 AM
1

Women’s rights is definitely an issue in the West. It’s improved but still there. But that’s not what this post is about. This post is addressing men’s issue and how we can improve our situation. Not bashing women for not sleeping with us. The best way to create inner peace is to just stop caring about how to get laid from women. Who cares about winning women over. We should both meet in the middle. My advice for all men is to just focus on yourself and put your energy into things that bring int…
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:44 PM
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Be careful man. This dude can turn you homeless in 2 seconds.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:44 PM
3

Stop trying to understand women. Women understand women, and they all hate each other. You can learn quite a bit from sitcoms.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:38 PM
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Interestingly, this is how a lot of girls test your dominance and communicate that they want you to touch them. Especially when the socio economical background of the women isn’t quite impressive. Sad but true. It’s a shame because it spits in the face of all the anti-rape work campaigning that goes on. This is why I stopped giving a shit about women and their opinions on anything
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:54 PM
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All you have to do is groom yourself and get in good shape. That’s literally it. Don’t fall for this strategical bullshit. Re-direct your energy to maximising your attributes, for the benefit of self and also so one day you can help others. Don’t forget to tend to your hobbies/what genuinely makes you happy to be alive.
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:31 PM
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Just be yourself who cares. Yea you may be sabotaging yourself when it comes to getting laid but fuck it. This world is fake as fuck, can’t change it but the least you can do is not succumb to the inauthenticity. Putting on a facade to get laid might slightly increase your chances but in the end if you’re going to get rejected anyway, it might as well take the least effort possible. Being yourself requires minimal effort.
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:27 PM
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Who care’s about women and what they think. I used to be a pick up fanatic once upon a time and can say without a doubt it is over-complicated and a misdirection of your energy. Just focus on being the best you, focus on what makes you happy and the rest works from there.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:15 AM
1

Just be an asshole. That’s it. Works best in your teenage years. Not so much in your late 20s.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:29 AM
2

Bro I’ve been on the same boat. Barely met any interesting girls, I was just horny took what I could get. They all had small time mindsets and the only real difference between them is that some we’re hotter than others. And you get to the point in your life where you’re over investing in something (pick up) that doesn’t really serve you internally. It is a huge game and women complicate everything. Wtf is this all for? I’m really just tryna get laid is playing Tom and jerry really that necessary…
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:24 PM
0

Loving women is about being in a relationship with them. This sub is about putting your cock inside them. Don’t invest more energy than need be.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:38 PM
0

There is a difference between being a fake asshole because to get laid.... And genuinely being sick of women and their crap
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:13 PM
1

Who cares. People like Putin invade, slaughter and rape each other’s populations. (No difference from the US and UK really). So you negging girls is not that bad. Don’t hate the player, hate the game. Unfortunately getting laid is much more complex than it has to be and all you are doing is playing by the rules.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:11 PM
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Seduction in general is designed to cater to the Western world. It’s different for the Middle East.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:08 PM
1

Rough stuff kid, I can relate to you in some ways. Not all, but some. Depression sucks. Unfortunately for us men, nobody really cares. Despite what Instagram influencers say, men’s mental health is still heavily they tuned a bit a blind eye to. I’ll tell you this man. It is going to take a long, long time to recover. Try and figure out the thing so you are good at. Write down the things you truely desire and things that bring you joy during these depressive times, even if its just a drop. Take s…
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:04 AM
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This sub puts way too much emphasis on trying to win women over. ‘Should I do X to achieve Y or will this interfere with Z?’ Who fucking cares!! Walk with your chest out, get real hobbies and a real purpose.
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:54 AM
1

Sounds like you’re more of a relationship guy. Put your energy towards yourself and the rest will fall into place.
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:07 AM
1

If you’re screening more for a potential partner, I wouldn’t use any game at all. Outer game for the most part is a huge manipulative tactical facade, that’s good for minimising the time it takes to get laid. Inner game is a lot, lot, lot better for this case. Just be yourself, the mask is going to fall off anyway once you get a few months deep into a relationship. Make it obvious. Express interest through your demeanour more than your words but take it easy. What will be will be. I’ve never see…
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:03 AM
1

All you need is more liquor
/r/seduction13/03/22 02:58 AM
7

Who cares what they think. You’ve pretty much sealed 80% of the deal. Just grab her hand and say ‘we should get out of here’. If they don’t want to then it will be obvious. Be assertive, not pushy.
/r/seduction13/03/22 02:56 AM
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Meh. Your standards are higher after you do some self study/development mixed in with your personal life experience. What you have envisioned for what will fulfill your life is clearer and you’re committed to that above all else. Your enhanced self awareness and self respect will guide you into knowing what kind of partner is a good fit for you, in terms of both compatibly and chemistry. So this makes it easier to sleep around when your self esteem issues aren’t so bad. If your self esteem is lo…
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:04 AM
2

Great. Now you don’t have to say much. Ideal situation. Just tell her to be quiet and start kissing her.
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:34 AM
1

Much agreed. Sounds like me and you share similar journeys. Don’t get me wrong. Girls are hot. And sex is fun. Sex with hot girls is enjoyable. That’s the only good thing that comes out of this whole process. Weeks (some cases months) of conversation for 5 minutes of penetration. Pretty crappy trade off when you think about it. Unless you genuinely both reciprocate appreciation of each other’s personalities beyond fucking each other. I’ve become incredibly drained with the whole pick up process.…
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:26 AM
1

Ignore signals and stop caring about them. I used to be like you. Does you no good. All you can honestly do is work on yourself outside of that you don’t have much control. Unless you have a gun.
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:19 AM
0

I’m aware that some have better wits than others, but majority of topics can turn sexual if you start throwing innuendoes around.
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:18 AM
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Western Feminism’s perspective on sex just stems from emotionally hurt women who get played and tossed aside by the top 20% of men. Their narrative is so strong these days (compared to say the 80s), that it guilts trip many men for wanting sex. It isn’t solidified in society yet, but you can see how the roles are slowly starting to reverse. Myself included at one point in time. We are horny disrespectful sexual deviants who objectify them. But if they’re horny then everything is ok. Yea don’t pa…
/r/seduction11/03/22 08:11 PM
2

This is becoming less and less of game sub and more about self help and inner workings. Which is probably better for the young men out there. When I was younger I’m as exactly the same. Good at acting confident and playing a arcade to get laid. You can’t wear that mask forever it will shatter eventually. As much of the comments here are saying, exercise, eat healthy, groom yourself, manage finances and commit time to doing things you actually care about.
/r/seduction11/03/22 10:11 AM
1

Who cares what they’re attracted to
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:45 AM
1

Through my experiences , investing heavily in a girl and then pulling away after sex leaves her worse off.
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:59 AM
1

Even if I was as rich as Elon Musk I would rather die than foot the bill
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:50 AM
2

Sex is a slice of the Pizza, but it is not the whole pizza. ​ Those who surpass their primal and social conditioning are the ones who taste freedom and fulfilment. ​ Being caught up in only living for sex will not make you happy. Yes, sex is what men think of 99% of the time but that 1% of what you think about will carry you to the promise lands.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:25 AM
1

Yea happens to me a lot too. Sometimes, I’m just tired when I happen to stumble across girls I have been texting in public. Flirting takes quite a bit of effort and when you’re drained you’re not all that sharp. Women are very unforgiving.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:48 AM
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‘ 👋👋🖕’ I’ve gotten some solid lays with this one. Backfired a few times really bad though. Usually get a ‘what’s up with the finger?’ or laughing emojis. Just respond ‘that’s how a real man greets women 😎’. It’s satire of course but it can go over girls heads, but those are low IQ girls that aren’t worth your time anyway. Depending on how physically attractive you are , it can work wonders for you. After that line, you’re going to have use your wits to steer the conversation.
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:16 AM
1

Yea it’s not the 70s either
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:27 AM
0

I guess it could come across as that way but I was trying to say is that I couldn’t get a girl to want to have sex with me
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:27 AM
1

It will be awkward and uncomfortable the first time. But just try to figure it out. This is the only way you’ll ever learn. There is no avoiding the music. Unless you visit a prostitute. Being drunk on your first time helps
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:25 AM
0

It’ll go away in a few years
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:20 AM
1

Next time just walk up to middle eastern girls and say ‘Dayum I would love to crash my plane in between those towers ;)’
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:17 AM
1

Wearing that mask isn’t going to stop me from giving you Hoevid-19 ;)
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:15 AM
0

If you’re not naturally funny that is going to be very hard to pull off
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:13 AM
2

Girls with tattoos and pink hair. Just don’t fall for them, they will never settle down permanently.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:12 AM
2

Have whips and chains hanging from the ceiling and a big photo of Marylin Manson. Oh and don’t forget the glass pipe.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:11 AM
0

I was 15. At first I was ashamed. Watched too much Disney movies and thought I wasted my first time. It was supposed to be special. But I was a fat loser curious of what sex was like. Felt like a loser because I couldn’t actually get a girl to willingly have sex with me. Years later, I actually don’t care. You’re going to stick your cock in a bunch of different holes anyway so who cares
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:07 AM
0

Vodka
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:04 AM
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There’s a reason Russian porn scene is booming. Grab a bottle at your nearest store, drink the whole thing and you’ll be cold approaching like the worlds going to end.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:03 AM
0

Have a threesome
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:01 AM
0

It’s a skill that can’t really be learned
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:08 AM
20

Maybe I could try for one instead of a threesome. If it backfires though, I have to stay with these girls for 3 days.
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:29 AM
1

Humans in general are superficial, but we can train our minds to look at what really matters
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:19 AM
0

This guy is a liar
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:20 AM
1

I can relate. I’m naturally a charismatic outgoing dude that flirts with every girl. With my friends gfs I’m still charismatic and outgoing, but I just drop the flirting. People are attracted to me very easily and it doesn’t even mean romantically, even platonically. I make the effort to talk to my friends gfs and welcome them into our group. It’s a shame it ends up this way when your friends have some shitty girlfriends throwing subtle hints, but there’s not much you can do about it. Just ignor…
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:58 AM
2

I’ve grown to hate the nature of seduction as well. It doesn’t align with my personality, but I have an insanely high sex drive. Still trying to figure out a way to get laid without having to be fake. I’ve tried being myself and detaching myself from the outcome. I will admit I did feel a lot more in tune with who I actually was but my balls were a lot more blue.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:43 AM
2

One good thing about this is that it becomes easier to stand out. All you have to do is not be a simp and have a decent frame of masculinity and you’re already placing yourself in a different category than her other 3000 Instagram worshippers. In saying that I wouldn’t suggest using IG as an efficient way to get laid unless you have a big following.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:32 AM
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Realising that youth only comes once. One summer I ended up working in the wineyards with a lot of old men. All they talked about is how much they miss their youth. So I got out there and just started trying. Not even with just pussy, with everything.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:24 AM
1

I’ve dealt with these kind of women before. On the extreme end you have the buth lesbians and a bit left to the scale you have heterosexual tomboyish girls. You just have to maintain even more of a masculine frame and find ways to put them in their place. Because nobody else does, people tip toe around these women.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:22 AM
2

I was once very close with a broke loser who used to bed hot women every weekend because he was exciting. Guess where is now ? I’ll give you a hint; it’s a place where there’s no women around.
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:51 AM
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When I was around your age(or not far off it) I didn’t have a single clue what to say either. The reality is, in order to learn how to conversate with girls, you are going to have to conversation with them. Regularly. At first it is incredibly nerve wracking because everything is new and uncomfortable. But there are no shortcuts. Sure, watching YouTube videos on how to talk to girls will help equip you a little bit, but when a real conversation happens most of that goes out the window. There’s n…
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:08 AM
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Of course. When it comes to sex nobody cares. There are tonnes of girls I hate as people, but just because they’re hot, given the chance of course I would have sex with them. Have them as girlfriends? Hell no. This is when personality starts to matter.
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:56 AM
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After hookups , I usually have a deep conversation with them. I genuinely enjoy learning another persons story. And after sex all walls have basically disappeared so no more need to act. Bad side to this is that girls will get infatuated with you if you cuddle and talk after. It’s not really a good thing to put these women through, but so can’t help it, I like conversation. I find that’s when girls are at their most authentic.
/r/seduction09/11/21 10:23 AM
2

Alcohol is the easiest way to get better with women
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:34 AM
1

Single mom
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:21 AM
2

My Dad listens to AC/DC so theres your answer
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:17 AM
3

Yea could be true. Wouldn’t be surprised to be honest.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:14 AM
2

She’s a single mom. The Dad only comes like once a year to visit his kid.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:13 AM
1

35 is when it really starts but in this case I would consider her a milf as I’m only 21
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:44 PM
10

Well he’s only 38. He’s not old school and too fussed about the ‘men should only talk about Football and mustangs’ ideology.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:05 PM
1

Just her and her daughter there.
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:59 PM
7

Hmm sound advice. You two obviously know a lot more than me on this topic. Though I can’t help but wonder, as the indirect world is the unknown to me. With direct game , we’ll it’s direct, we both know what’s going on. (Horny man pursuing sex). I am definitely no way using this approach though for my neighbor. How platonic can indirect turn? You know, it’s an iffy talking stage. Nothing is clear. It’s all in the air. How easily could this turn into one of those soap operas where the neighbours b…
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:20 AM
253

I hope so that makes it easier for me knowing she’s horny and easy
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:59 AM
23

Thanks for commenting man. I’m a go getter kinda guy. Initiate everything and take the lead. It’s just in my nature to have an aggressive approach. Shoot first, ask later. In this case though, it probably is better to slightly take the back seat. Be a bit more passive and use some indirect game. Something I’ve read about a lot but never really done. I think asking if it’s ok to blaze at hers is a better idea, instead of going Brock Lesnar mode and commanding her to come over. Though I do have a …
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:37 AM
1

This is 100% my story. Fresh out of high school, virgin, clueless with women. So what do you do? Mimic those that are successful. I spent hours reading and watching pick up material. Not to toot my own horn, but I was quite the intellect at school (no Elon Musk but you get what I mean). Understanding pick up from a sequential outlook was super easy for me to comprehend. Applied this into practice and I found out it wasn’t as smooth as the book(s) had Kaye’s it out to be. There is far more emotio…
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:01 AM
8

There is no right or wrong. Only what is right or wrong FOR YOU. If you feel like you want to lose your virginity to the right person then wait until you meet somebody who feels the same. Majority of women in society are far from what the Disney movies paint to be, but if that’s what you feel your heart is stirring you towards then go forurthmost. This is probably the worst sub for your specific situation. I’d tell you just fuck something and figure it out but we are all different.
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:48 AM
8

There’s barely any ladies on this sub
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:46 AM
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You’re telling me every girl you hit on is interested in you
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:26 PM
1

Move to a galaxy far, far away
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:27 AM
5

There are some batshit crazy women out there, some normal ones and some in between (the most dangerous IMO). Women like this aren’t even worth your time man. Its easier said than done sometimes, as alluring as these chicks and their craziness might be you are much better off choosing your sanity over some pussy who wants to go on dates with other dudes.
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:00 PM
2

By being the biggest asshole in the world.
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:01 PM
2

I loved the pursuit at first. I was a lot more insecure back then. I loved challenging myself on how fast I could win a girl over. Had more to do with my ego than sex, looking back at it all. Now I honestly hate the pursuit. It’s time consuming and mentally draining. The easier she is the better.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:59 AM
1

I wouldn’t essentially discourage you from pursuing as much girls as haha you can. It’s generally almost every males innate desire to do. I’ve never reached 100 but I’ve banged more chicks than I’ve needed to. It is definitely a highly valuable experience that I wish more males could undergo. If you have the chance to experience something, why not? What I will warn you about though is that it will not give you all the answers you are looking for. After your sacks have been emptied and she’s left…
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:56 AM
0

It can be done but even with solid text game your investment:success ratio is far lower than you expect it to be. Just use it for logistics.
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:50 PM
3

It depends where you sit on the spectrum. Your intense comprehension of theory could be used to your advantage. Implementing the theory isn’t as logical as PUA schemes make it out to be which can trigger you but it’s all about understanding emotions more. Which was a problem I faced when I started, many years ago. I’m a high functioning autist but I guess with anything time teaches you.
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:01 AM
1

I can sympathise, this can be an extremely difficult thing for the hyper-rational/intellectuals to understand. Your typical public High School is the epitome of sexual desire and the most optimal example to showcase. One thing about the general population of the students is that they’re less concerned about school grades , much more interested in social approval and are way more prone to basing decisions off emotions. It stems down to what these kids were doing in elementary as well. While we (i…
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:15 AM
3

I knew a dude who legitimately banged one of the art teachers. I don’t know how he did it or how a investigation was avoided with how fast rumours spread, but he pulled it off. She disappeared for 2 years and then came back. He was a good looking cocky kid. I think it really comes down to luck. Nothing else.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:59 AM
2

Yep for sure. If you can invest all this energy AND money into something external, you can put it towards yourself. I used to be this guy. It pays off more. Inner game > everything
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:52 AM
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This is equivalent to saying porn is better than real life sex
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:35 AM
1

I do agree rich dudes get sex easier, but I don’t think it’s necessary though. If you have money you get full access to Instagram clout whores. These chicks won’t even look your way if you don’t have any kind of flashy image. But then again, these women are really shitty people. You can get laid with little money if your game is good enough. Money isn’t really a factor in a casual relationship. Especially if you’re in your late teens/early 20s. Money starts to matter more as you approach your 30…
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:51 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with your view on things. This world is a big grey space. I see where you’re coming from. You value connection, not just with women, but people in general. Which is great. If that’s who you are, embrace it. I’m sure there’s people who will mirror that side of you. Sex with different chicks is a cool valuable experience , but it’s not as fulfilling as society makes it out to be.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:41 AM
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Fucking loads of women is cool but from what I’ve seen a lot of fuckboy get to the settle down phase. Whether or not they stay faithful is up for debate, but all men have curious feelings we just hide behind our tough facades. It really just depends what stage you are at in life.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:31 AM
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This dude doesn’t even get laid. He’s a soyboy! Haha kidding. Maybe he’s just shifted focus man
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:28 AM
1

I do agree it is more manly to be honest. It’ll just fuck up your chances of getting laid. If I hadn’t of lied on certain occasions I would not have had some great sex
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:09 AM
1

Finally somebody said it. Nobody wants to hear it, but it’s totally true. Why else are there so many songs by Female pop stars singing about how infatuated they are with the dude who keeps lying to them?
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:49 AM
1

Yea. Great opener. ‘You’re a fine ass high 9, borderline low 10... wanna fuck?’
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:48 AM
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Morally, I know it’s not the best thing to do. I’d say the ratio for every women that wants casual against women that want to be taken seriously is 1:100 no shit. And for men swap those numbers around. You’ll miss A LOT of sexual chances by being upfront (unless you are heavy in the club scene). Believe me, once I started lying, my options are a lot higher. I’m stringing these women along to this day out of hopes they will get to be with me. And I’m not even that much of a catch. Yea, it comes w…
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:39 AM
1

What would you do if you had a really hot neighbour? Curious. I think all my years of my ex-porn Addict teenager sold me the fantasy of neighbour sex
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:14 AM
1

I get that man. But I have a feeling we could both be on the same page , have some fun then go back to being neighbours.
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:09 AM
2

Yea definitely. I told myself the next time she comes out I’m starting up a convo. I’ve had so many chances to say something but my balls always drop. I’m a junior car salesman so this is supposed to be easy for me. The funniest one is when she came out in a bikini pretending to go through the mailbox for 2 minutes when there was nothing in there.
/r/seduction06/10/21 07:47 AM
1

That’s not the part that bothers me. It’s just that she lives 4 feet away from me.
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:56 PM
2

What if it goes south
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:50 PM
1

I’d say for most attractive women they are, especially in our generation due to Instagram. Same for men. It’s good to be proud of yourself and your looks, don’t dim your own shine, but you still can do that without having to disrespect others. No matter how good looking you are, you came into this world the same way we all came and you’re leaving the same way too. You’re just a tiny spec in this universe. Though I have met very attractive women (and men also) that actually have a personality and…
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:26 AM
5

Fully agree bro. In pick up, the only important parts are the fundamentals. The rest is a bunch of crap! Just go out there and try. It’s definitely, definitely not going to be smooth sailing but it’s better than living in your own delusions.
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:06 AM
3

Just dominate her. It’s as simple as that. If there’s one thing women love more than gossiping, it’s being free from steering the ship. If everybody is aroused just start kissing her, lift her up and throw her on your bed. Proceed to do whatever you want (consensually of course). The worst that can happen is she’s not down for it. Which doesn’t feel that bad.
/r/seduction26/09/21 01:20 AM
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Don’t overthink it man. You can’t have bed every girl on this planet, rejection will happen. All you can do is be the best version of yourself and if they like you then great if not then great.
/r/seduction25/09/21 10:42 PM
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