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itsohsodemi · 2021-10-14T03:45:32+00:00

All of this advice in the comments 😂 women definitely screen men through texting and apps before deciding to meet up with someone. If you say “hey i think you’re cute wanna meet up?” You will get ghosted and come off as a creeper. Trust me.

Nofapdeity · 2021-10-13T21:28:36+00:00

Text should only be used to set up dates.

tellythesloot · 2021-10-13T21:37:56+00:00

I wanna, lick you from yo head to yo toes And I wanna, move from the bed down to the down to the to the flo Then I wanna, you make it so good I don't wanna leave But I gotta, know what-what's your fantasy

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-13T23:30:20+00:00

You're probably over texting.

Texting is to set up dating logistics, not get to know a girl.

dumandanonymous · 2021-10-13T23:38:22+00:00

There is no emotion in texting and women are built on emotion. Unless your text is so over the top that it sparks emotion in her then I wouldn’t even text that much. There is no way to pull anyone through text unless it invites them to a date or a phone call.

badgirlfriendvibes · 2021-10-14T06:58:56+00:00

i have the solid advice bc i’m the actual girl here

you need to text exactly how you talk. i’ll say it again: you need to text EXACTLY how you TALK. you know damn well you don’t say ‘ok’ & ‘ya’ in an irl conversation

if you’re having trouble with this, legitimately do this: read the text she sent, close your eyes, and pretend she’s saying it to you. what do you say back? type exactly what you’re thinking and send it

if you really are a fun guy irl, then you’ll be fine over text

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-14T00:37:24+00:00

There is a book that really helped me to text well with girls and be really good at meeting girls in Tinder, in Instagram and text girls you meet in in person with whatsapp, but for now it’s only in spanish. Apparently they are releasing the book in English soon

This really helps as they actually tell you what to say, how to be humorous and connect with the girl so she feels eager to have a date with you.

homelessfish22 · 2021-10-13T21:50:12+00:00

It can be done but even with solid text game your investment:success ratio is far lower than you expect it to be.

Just use it for logistics.

rahhumilovedogs · 2021-10-13T23:38:48+00:00

I just text about whatever is on my mind. Usually text a bunch at once unless officially together. Also I never text first.

IntrovertDatingCoach · 2021-10-14T06:07:43+00:00

TEXTING. KILLS. ATTRACTION. Now, I'm 39 so you may think, "yeah, but people your age..." Dude, in the last year alone I've dated a 25 year old and a 30 year old, and guess what? I was able to attract both women with very little texting AND neither of them required me to have to text them on a daily basis.

Here's the thing: trying to text all the time makes you look too available, which will make women question your value - after all, if you have all this time to text them, it signals you're not out with friends or other women, thus making your value low. Do other men text a lot and get women? Yes! Is it a requirement, though? Eh, not really - you should be doing the majority of your attraction-building in person, and using text only to set up dates.

Lastly, while you may be thinking women will judge you if you're not texting, I've found it to be the opposite. I've sat and watch women roll their eyes as yet another man tries to text them boring conversations and/or talk to them about nothing. The general consensus: they got other things to do, and don't want to answer a bunch of nonsense text all day from men they just met.

TheTruth221 · 2021-10-14T10:23:52+00:00

i just ask if they trying to do it

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