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| 3 | Daygame, every number flakes? | Fundamentals | Fast-Expert-9799 | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Testing your infield age judgement for daygame scenarios | Fundamentals | Fast-Expert-9799 | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Daygame stack | Fundamentals | Fast-Expert-9799 | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 08:00 PM |
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| 1 | how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the clubIt's interesting you mention hyper focusing on daygame. I have been daygaming on and off for 6 years with periods of hyper focus with that. Currently due to my circumstances I have been approaching consistently since September and at times with daygame I am questioning my sanity but my Asperger's pushes me on and on. So you will either gain success or go insane from hyper focusing. Currently, I've been very close to losing my mind from the stress daygame puts on me. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 11:09 PM |
| 2 | how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the clubI don't know about this man, if anything I feel at least twice as much anxiety as neurotypicals, but I suffer from Asperger's🤫 | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 10:20 PM |
| 2 | how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the clubThe club is an uncalibrated and primal environment. It is pretty hard to be calibrated when you have music blasting in your ears! | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 05:57 PM |
| -3 | how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the clubYou've got to approach, approach, approach. And also risk being obnoxious. Basically, you've got to feel entitled to them. That is what I have read on this very subreddit. If there is a girl, reach out and grab her with both hands. Just make sure they are not with any other guys first, otherwise, if you are young, you could get hit, or if you are old and ugly like me, you could get reported to security who will then call police to the venue. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachI don't see how this is supposed to work. And who is getting girls to stop for 5 minutes? Normally they have rejected in less than 5 seconds. Or those that stop will only stay for 1 or 2 minutes. Normally out of 5 approaches 1 will stop and chat for a minute before making excuses if you suggest an instadate. Then if you ask for s phone number, out come the excuses. The probability in daygame is very low. But I am 6 years in and haven't got over approach anxiety. If you have then your interaction… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Wait, what? What if she doesn't agree to an instant date? And how can you do a sex close in the street? I do brush my teeth you moron. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Well, a number gives you something to work with, rather than nothing. Otherwise all my approaches would result in nothing. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Quick Visits to Bars, Does Staff Notice?It depends on the venue,though. "Cheap drinks" venues, just want to pack in as many people buying alcohol as possible and don't like anyone doing anything different. When I was confronted by the manager it was at such a venue. More sociable venues are different. Also it does seem that younger girls are more dramatic and if they don't find you attractive, they will make more of a fuss over rejecting you. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Quick Visits to Bars, Does Staff Notice?Right, but you've got to work on developing that skill in the first place. I remember I did 5 approaches and got 5 rejections then asked to leave. As a single guy going around talking only to girls, you stand out. I remember the security were confused at my intentions. Not every bar is geared for approaching. Not everyone has the skillset to be subtle inside a venue, especially those more used to daygame or the club, for instance. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 08:38 AM |
| 6 | Approaching a latina with her family -- in fieldIt is slang for aggressively rejected for a reason. Mainly them saying I was too old for their daughter. These were girls in their late teens and early 20s. Now I don't do it. I can never see it working. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | I Dated Trump Lawyer, De Niro’s Masseuse, Spanish Athlete - All from Street ApproachesVery true. Op is also a tall, blonde haired blue eyed Nordic guy with chiseled features. He would probably find apps more efficient for him than walking laps around the city looking for girls to approach. Cold approach is pushed as some sort of "cheat code"-it's not. And you need atleast a decent sized city to put in the volume. And the coach in the Op even said you have to get into the top 1-5 % of social skills to get these results. 1-5 percent! That's really high. Compared to apps where you c… | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 09:26 PM |
| 38 | Approaching a latina with her family -- in fieldI definitely wouldn't. I have approached girls with their mum's a few times and got chewed out for it. Usually men who pull this kind of thing off have always had it easy with women. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 08:38 PM |
| 18 | Approaching a latina with her family -- in fieldIt's good, but there is no way in hell I would approach a girl who is with even one parent or sibling. Let alone her whole family! Aside from the technical details, I suspect you have always had success with women. Someone in my position, mid 30s without any history is hardly going to be able to repeat such a feat. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?I meant approaching groups is hard to calibrate. Like how you stop the group, interact with the one you want without upsetting the others and making them walk off, etc. Normally if I see 3+ girls during the day I can't be bothered with the hassle. They normally take it as a joke in my experience. I've never had a result from group approaches and only once pair approaches and she flaked out. 1 on 1 is best. As for my other comments, you are correct and I agree with you actually. But right now, my… | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?It's possible, but a number atleast gives you something. Normally the pipeline goes like this Compliment>assumptions>small talk>instant date suggestion>number if instant date rejected. It seems pointless not to get the number atleast there is a small chance she might be interested. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?It's swings and roundabouts though. One of the problems with daygame is that you can't feel out and observe the situation. Once that girl is gone, she's gone, unless you want to chase after her, which feels so creepy and needy. In nightgame, you can spot who you want to approach and wait for a good opportunity to approach them. You can even approach them in a different area or later on and so on. And lastly, you don't have a problem telling their age, there are so many girls I have approached in… | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Daygame, every number flakes?The trouble is, I can go out and approach 5 women several times a week. But your suggestion of "make yourself more attractive" doesn't give me anything I can work on, because it is vague and generic advice. Approaching does work and yes I do have to fake behaviours. Left to my own devices, I wouldn't approach anyone, that's why I started this whole journey of cold approach. If I don't practice the behaviours, they will never come naturally. For me to stop cold approaching, would be to undo all t… | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Yes, they certainly have a lot of resistance to guys they don't know. Ok, well I would normally suggest she join me on a walk. I am not sure writing down interactions will help. As for recording audio, I would have to download an app and wear earbuds. I think audio only tells 1/2 the story really. Without knowing the actual situation, I don't think it would be that helpful. Most rejections only last 5 seconds with only a handful of words front he girl if that. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Daygame, every number flakes?Thanks for you response. My go to is always an instant date, but they normally have an excuse that they are going somewhere. 45 minutes to 2 hours? Wtf. Damn. In daygame, 10 minutes would be a long set. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Daygame, every number flakes?I do 2-5 approaches 4 days a week which gives me a weekly total of between 10-20 weekly approaches. Normally I would achieve 3 or 4 approaches per session, which would equate to between 12-16 approaches per week. Today I did 5 for instance. But that includes blowouts. If I went crazy I could probably do 10 approaches per day, but that would require approaching girls when I am not sure of their age, running back after girls who have just walked past and approaching girls in groups. Basically a lo… | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?I normally try to continue the interaction after getting the number, but sometimes wonder if that is counter productive as the energy in the interaction dies down. I always suggest an instant date, but they always have somewhere to be or something to do. You could argue if they found me attractive enough they would drop their plans, but so far that hasn't happened. But the number is usually my 2nd suggestion after an instant date. But again, I try to appear as casual and nonchalant as possible. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Daygame, every number flakes?It just seems so inefficient. Like you don't know who's single and who's not when you see them out and about. Any girl I'm likely to find somewhat attractive is a girl other guys are likely to find attractive and I would say I probably approach 5/10s to 7/10s. At this rate, I'm gonna get a haircut take a few selfies and try apps. But I will have to take a few years off to bypass the age filter, lol. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Ok, but there are varying schools of thought on this. Some are of the opinion that texting should only be for a meetup and be very blunt. Others say to get to know the girl a bit through texting first. I normally don't actually ask go hang out straight away, I kind of jumbled everything into one message in my Op. I will not text about hanging out in my first text then. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?I don't, I focus on the meetup. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 12:19 PM |
| 0 | Daygame, every number flakes?Right, but the main subject of this thread isn't the approaches but why every number from daygame flakes. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 10:30 AM |
| -4 | Daygame, every number flakes?I do start with that. Did you even read my Op? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 10:16 AM |
| -3 | Daygame, every number flakes?Recording people? Wtf, are you some troll? That sounds illegal. Either say something useful or get off. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Record? How? That is not something I have heard of. Any input to my OP? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Quick Visits to Bars, Does Staff Notice?You can have as strong of a frame as you want, but once you are asked to leave and not come back, it's over for that venue. I have been at bars solo scouting for girls and also since I don't drink alcohol, it probably does look a bit suspect. The security guys do hover, which also makes it harder to approach, because if you get a blowout, they will probably tell you to knock it off or leave. Edit: I didn't read your whole post. I am not the Op but I have been asked to leave on several occasions … | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Quick Visits to Bars, Does Staff Notice?You have to be subtle about it, though. I was asked to leave by a manager after doing 5 approaches in a big venue with an upstairs and a downstairs. The trouble is, not all venues are geared up for approaching. It's true on the shame part. Society wants to tell us that it is wrong to go after what we want. You encounter this in real life and in almost every other subreddit. It's never possible to fully remove the "shame" feeling, unless you have a circle of players, where most of us hunt solo. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Man what is happening hereIt's getting to that point in the first place though. When I am out on daygame I normally get rejected in 5 seconds or less. Thinking of trying apps beginning of next year. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Man what is happening hereYes, go read my other threads on the askmenadvice sub. Everyone is against me for some reason. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Man what is happening hereThose in their late teens and early 20s are lucky. I am 35 and still haven't got laid despite meeting or exceeding the physical requirements. Not to brag, just so that no one brings that up as a reason. And yet, in theory, I am at my most attractive at this age, but the results aren't coming | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Into Kinks, Craving Connection & Ready to Explore BDSM!They write shit like this but then don't text back when they give out their phone numbers...pathetic. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Lowest MomentsIt's gotta be approaching underaged. So hard to tell these days. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid overthinking when wanting to make a spontaneous cold approachDon't worry, the most likely outcome is a rejection 99% of the time. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Books/ podcasts dedicated to texting? Women being so flakeyFor some reason this sub Reddit doesn't accept new posts so I can't post. Or it says the post has gone through but then when I click on "new posts" it is not there and never gets any replies. So I have to reply to other people's threads instead. I have been in daygame on and off since 2018, but recently I have been unemployed so able to be active enough in my local small city since September to collect 5 numbers in total. I have a slightly different problem to Op, or maybe the same problem just … | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 07:44 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of opportunities do you take during day game?I would probably say about half. Sometimes it takes me to pass by 2 or 3 before thinking "fuck it, if I don't approach I'll never know". But there is a balance to be struck. Once I've filtered for girls whom in the heat of the moment I can't tell how old are or whether I am attracted to or not. Oh and I don't like turning back around and following girls. It feels way too creepy. There are some lunatics on this sub who say they approach every girl even if they don't know how old they are. Fuck th… | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Seduction Subreddit?For some reason, when I make a post on this sub, it does not go through. But it will allow me to comment on other people's posts. So apologies if this is off topic. I have been in cold approach daygame for 6 years on and off. Since September I have been averaging 12-15 approaches per week. I will often get a number once in about 15-20 approaches. But when I text the number, the girl doesn't respond. Could you please shed some light on why this is? Thank you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | First solo night out adviceI haven't even got laid from daygame, so you have done way better. It just takes hours and is absolutely gruelling. Plus all the ambiguity with the way younger women and teenagers dress which makes it hard to even tell who is old enough. It's just mega stressful. What I don't like about apps as an older guy is the age filter though. That just leaves you with the option of lying about your age so that girls in their 20s still see your profile. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | First solo night out adviceAs s someone who has been daygaming for 6 years and night gaming for 2.5 years I have to agree. It's not what it is said to be. So many rejections and outright cringe situations. At this point, I am starting to think that apps can't be all that bad. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Men in their late 30s - how has physical fitness helped your game?As someone who has always been in shape but never got laid...it doesn't! | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:47 PM |
| 3 | How to enjoy this stuff?You have to go to a point of pain and frustration and humiliation before it becomes fun. I'm a 6 year veteran of this shit. But you never get infallible. Just today I backed out of an approach because I couldn't figure out how old the girl was. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:35 PM |
| 2 | How to approach women at the dance floorSo would you actually approach a girl in a mixed group? I don't know how you would do it without getting confronted by the other males tbh. Just snatch her out of the group? I can't see that going well. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 09:12 AM |
| 3 | How to approach women at the dance floorWould you approach a girl in a mixed group? I can't see it not getting a hostile reaction from the other males in the group. Especially if they already are kissing and interacting with one another. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?Where is your proof? Anyone can claim anything online, there are subreddits dedicated to fantasists. There is no way a middle aged guy is getting laid with teens. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Day Game Spots/StrategyI'm not interested in grifters. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Day Game Spots/StrategyI have tried it loads of times. I just saw a group of three girls in the high street yesterday, the middle one was just my type, but because it was three of them I knew it was pointless. B. Explain how to do it right then. This sub is so full of dreamers making stuff up and it really affects my mental health. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Running game for guys 35 and over living in CanadaOfcourse I will answer them with my ages not doing so would be creepy and weird. I'm not playing stupid games out here. I don't look young, just my age. I might look good as an older guy, I can't tell. I don't have hardly any charisma when the girl is hostile from the get go. If I meant a decent girl to interact with and am given more than 5 seconds then I can get going a bit. I have been cold approaching for 6 years, since 2018. Not as long as you but long enough. I don't use dating apps, but I… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Day Game Spots/StrategyApproaching groups never works. They always take it as a joke. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?This is reality. There are a lot of liars on this subreddit who not only say that your 30s are your prime but claim they easily get laid with girls in their late teens. Check my comment history I've just given one a dressing down. I am 35 and cold approach and all it is, is rejection after rejection. These people on this subreddit are bad for your mental health because they are all fantasists who like writing weird stories and publishing them in this subreddit for mentally ill people. If you try… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Running game for guys 35 and over living in CanadaAgain, this is the type of post I was referring to in my other thread which is bad for my mental health. How are you meeting such young girls? Apps have an age filter that will filter your age out. Real life it is very hard to tell that age group from underaged teens so it makes it very hard to judge to even approach them. So how are you meeting them and why should we believe you? You could very well be lying. Whenever I have approached a younger girl, they always use they're age as an excuse by… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Is 28 too old to start hooking up?For some reason this sub won't allow me to post my own threads. But I am 35 and never got laid before. I do daygame but don't have any results from it. Please help. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 08:15 AM |
| -2 | Had my first cold approach date this weekBut my posts say they went through but then when I filter on the subreddit for new posts they are nowhere to be seen. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 07:49 AM |
| -1 | Had my first cold approach date this weekI have made atleast 6 and they all say posted successfully. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice for Physical Escalation on Date #2I always use a flair, it says "posted successfully to R seduction" but then when I search r seduction for new posts, it doesn't show up. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:18 PM |
| -5 | Had my first cold approach date this weekHi why can't I make my own posts on this subreddit | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 08:12 PM |
| 0 | First date in a long timeHi why can't I make my own posts in this subreddit | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What are your go to questions when meeting new people ?Hi why can't I make my own posts in this subreddit | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Need Advice for Physical Escalation on Date #2Hi why can't I make my own posts in this subreddit | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?That is a common trope actually. I see if posted here all the time, it's just idiots saying "work on yourself and the women will come". And "wait until you hit your 30s and 40s, it gets easier". You see that crap posted around here all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 07:40 AM |
| -4 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?Yeah but why should we have women that have had hundreds of sexual partners and bodies are falling apart when we never had young women. Who wants a used up 35 year old woman🤢 | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Running game for guys 35 and over living in CanadaThis is very true. There is no point in even trying with women under 25 in your 30s, all you are going to get is entitled rudeness from them and age shaming. The myth about all these fantasists keep repeating that girls like older guys is a straight lie. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 07:49 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?I wish I was 25 again. I am 35 and now and I think it may finally be over. If I was 25 I would love to be the same age or a just a few years older than all the pretty girls. It's not the same when you are old. You need to start taking steps now like going to the club to hang out and run around daygaming. You are in the age range rather than an older creep, you have another 5 years of being 20 something! | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to rejection texts?Why don't they just say "I've got a boyfriend" then? There are hundreds of not thousands of alternatives to giving out your phone number. Why do it and just lead men on? Loads of girls have said "ah, thanks for asking, but I've got a boyfriend" which is usually a complete lie but both parties play along. Why would they go to all the trouble of giving out they're number? Are you telling me that 1 in 20 (about my success rate for a number close) are too stupid to use the boyfriend excuse? | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 07:06 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to rejection texts?Why give out their number if they don't intend on replying, though? It's so pathetic and it happens nearly every time. I think in 6 years I've only ever had 4 numbers that text back from daygame. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to rejection texts?I never even get rejection texts. Whenever I text a girl who's number I got from cold approach daygame, they don't even reply. How rude is that!? Complete silence. I am surprised I haven't sent a text yet telling how much of a fucking bitch they are for being so rude. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:22 PM |
| -2 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?You are lying, whenever I approach a girl under 25 they often ask how old I am and when I tell them 35 they say something like "I'm 18" as an objection. Have you even approached? If you try to approach 18 year olds here the girls won't be too happy with you! Edit: just looked in your profile in your hair cut thread, you are still a 20 something, lol. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 05:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?Well you must be extremely handsome because I can guarantee you it's not the experience of an ordinary man. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?This forum sucks as it won't let me post a thread for some reason. Anyway, it is true, I wish I could have got laid when I was 17 or 18, or even as late as mid 20s when your hormones are still strong. You need to move fast as once you get past your 20s younger girls will call you a creep for even talking to them man to woman. If I was your age again I wish I could have tried daygame to atleast find out if I could have got laid or not. But one of the biggest lies told on this sub and on Reddit in… | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 03:15 PM |
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