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This isn’t a debate sub.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 04:03 PM
1

Vamoose.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 02:35 PM
2

Get gone.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 02:35 PM
2

Make like a tree and leave.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 02:34 PM
1

Kick rocks.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 02:34 PM
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Get lost.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 02:32 PM
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This isn’t a debate sub. Get lost.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 10:31 AM
7

Because then you say whatever you want about women. Make some shit up and say “because cavemen!”
/r/ExRedPill11/10/25 01:38 PM
2

How could men be having less sex and women not be having less sex? Also: how does anyone define “sex.” Also: “hoarding women?” What, like resources before winter? Also: who CARES? Like what difference does it make to your life? Even if this is true, how would you determine the cause of this lack of sex? Is it the 2 years no one left their houses because of Covid? Is it some rise in traditional values? Is everyone tired because they go to the gym too much? There are too many variables and I reall…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/25 06:20 PM
1

Such bullshit. I don’t care about “body counts” because I’m not an insecure bitch.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 11:12 PM
2

Also: I’m not a woman. So like, you ain’t rejecting shit.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/25 07:44 PM
2

Do you ever get laid?
/r/ExRedPill28/08/25 07:42 PM
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I’m glad you’ve summed up the opinions of the human race. And what a surprise that everyone agrees with you.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/25 06:58 PM
2

I don’t know who Brian peppers or Chris Carmack are, but plenty of guys who look like all kinds of things find partners. But you didn’t answer the question: how would you know? Why do you imagine you know what women want/think/experience better than they know themselves, when you are not a woman and you don’t know any women well enough to know what they think?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/25 02:17 AM
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How would you know? Have you ever been close to any women?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/25 08:56 PM
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So you want a woman who isn’t attracted to men like you. Rather have a shallow relationship based on looks. Got it. Good luck with that, I guess.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 10:38 PM
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Maybe it’s inexperience mixed with being terminally online, but your idea of what women find “attractive” is totally askew. Most women are not as shallow as you. Many (probably most) women are attracted to men because they have some personal quality that they like. Not because they look a certain way. An Ivy League professor isn’t likely to be attracted to a handsome guy who doesn’t read books and works at a batting cage. In my experience (and it’s not a small amount of experience) many women ar…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 09:57 PM
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I respect your anxiety here, but it doesn’t make a lot of sense. First because the idea that women like “bad boys” when they’re young and then “good boys” later is dumb, reductive, claptrap from movies and the Internet. In real life, women like all kinds of different things because they’re people. But if it was true, what would happen to all those “bad boys” when the women grow up? I guess there are plenty of washed up old creeps sliming around in bars, pining for their glory days and shit, but …
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 07:46 PM
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You’d rather be the person someone outgrows?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 05:16 PM
8

Sorry. I’ll try to sugar coat things more in the future. “I can totally see how you’d think the sky is red. Color can be very difficult. But would you at least entertain, for a moment, the notion that the sky might be some other color?”
/r/ExRedPill10/07/25 12:18 AM
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I’m interpreting his comment, where he asks “which dating advice is the correct one.” This implies that he believes there is some secret key that unlocks “dating,” and he needs to find it, like a quest in a video game. And I gave very healthy dating advice: women are people and have different ideas, opinions, preferences, etc. This is step one: accept the humanity of women. Implied is “So there is no one ‘correct’ advice for dating women, just as there is no single thing that men want either.”
/r/ExRedPill10/07/25 12:09 AM
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What other help can anyone offer to a person who doesn’t understand that women are people? What nicer way is there to say it? “With all due respect, kind sir, women aren’t characters in a video game, and there is no secret way to unlock them.”
/r/ExRedPill09/07/25 11:55 PM
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It’s like women don’t all have the same ideas and reactions, like they’re people or something.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/25 05:27 PM
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I like how you’re comparing death rates in different yeqrs. Really shows non-bias. If you look at the same year, like 2023, the most recent for which there are stats, you learn that: 4 men were murdered by women. 64 women were murdered by men in Australia.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 12:47 PM
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It’s darkly ironic that the opposite is true: if you can’t relate to other people in socially acceptable ways, you will be not be successful in finding a relationship. And, if you want to be nihilistic, the real black pill is “there is no way for some people to learn to be relate to others in socially acceptable ways.” I mean, it’s definitely possible to change your looks. There’s surgery, gyms, etc. The jury is out on whether people can change the part of their personalities that makes them rep…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/25 03:07 PM
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Asking someone to define their terms with something as subjective as “abuse” is totally valid.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 10:45 PM
1

Because I’m on an ex red pill sub and many believers of red pill philosophy have different definitions of “abuse” than I have.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 04:14 AM
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When you say you’ve been a victim of abuse, how are you defining abuse?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/25 02:09 PM
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So a program that predicts word choices disputes the “research” conducted by a dating website. Extremely relevant and important.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 02:09 PM
3

Man, don’t try to hang your own fucked up ideas about women on “all men.”
/r/ExRedPill24/05/25 06:39 PM
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Again, based on my real life experience: I never “acted” like anything. I just lived my life in a genuine way. I’m a fairly decent person. I can be funny and charming when I feel like it, and I’m legit interested in other people. So sometimes, some women would be like “you seem pretty ok.” I can’t imagine the kind of low self-esteem it would take to be like “I have to do this thing I don’t want to do so women will like me!” It’s totally self-defeating anyway. Because it’s fake. And the desperati…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/25 06:35 PM
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I’m happily married, and before that I had a reasonably high number of romantic partners. I never once felt like I was in a “competition” with other men. Nor did I ever feel like I was being “chosen.” The choice is always mutual. I’m social and like to be involved in things, so I met women I had something in common with fairly frequently. Sometimes I liked them. Sometimes they liked me back. If we were both down there might be a relationship. Maybe it lasted a month, or three years, or a single …
/r/ExRedPill24/05/25 06:28 PM
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Sexism?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/25 06:24 PM
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Crawled back under their rock?
/r/ExRedPill16/05/25 12:14 AM
0

You’re totally right. You should leave and not come back.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 08:48 AM
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This isn’t a debate sub. “The whole thing is a pile of bullshit” is the starting point. No one is interested in watching your stupid YouTube video. Go peddle this nonsense elsewhere.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 01:53 AM
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Why would anyone want to take a “deep dive” into a huge pile of bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 01:33 AM
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How is “society” stopping anyone from “being masculine” or whatever? Who, exactly, is stopping men from living how they want or expressing their masculinity how they choose? And by what means?
/r/ExRedPill21/04/25 12:57 AM
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That advice doesn’t work on 40 year olds either.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 08:48 PM
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There’s bullshit that looks like research and statistics behind it.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/25 09:39 PM
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I don’t care “what it’s saying.” It doesn’t know anything so what it says isn’t relevant.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 04:06 PM
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ChatGPT isn’t some super brain that knows the truth. It’s the opposite; it doesn’t know anything. It only takes huge amounts of human writing and predicts the most likely next word/phrase. Its responses are, by design, as average as possible. For its source material, it makes no distinction between smart people and dumb people. For questions about human nature, it weighs peer-reviewed scientific studies equally with random 4chan comments. So any ideas chatGPT has about dating are largely based o…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 03:42 PM
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Ew.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 03:39 PM
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Redpill is a self-selected group of men who have trouble forming close relationships with women. But they believe they know more about what women think and want than women themselves.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 01:29 PM
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When the imaginary woman in your head says these things, I’ll totally respond.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/25 06:46 AM
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Other people are less shallow than you? When you have actual relationships with human beings instead of just imagining them, you find that someone’s personality can make them physically attractive (or unattractive) to you. It’s hard to explain this because it’s so basic to the human experience, but “attractiveness” is a holistic, subjective thing comprising your overall impression of aanother person, based on who they are not just how they look. A nice smile, a light in someone’s eyes, how peopl…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 11:53 AM
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You “navigate” it by being a decent, worthwhile person. I’m not sure where you hear all the things you hear, but it’s total horseshit. And you really don’t get the difference between what you see online and actual life? You’re being fed a lot of content because you engage with it is some way, and that’s making you think it’s universal, but it really isn’t. In the real world, knowing how to talk to people, being comfortable in your own skin, and not being being bogged down by a bunch of online no…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/25 09:33 PM
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Your ideas about how women think and what women want are just wrong. Mostly because they come from other dudes. Women are people. That’s it. That’s the whole answer. Some people are total jerks. Some people are saints. Most people are somewhere in the middle.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 08:14 AM
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The idea of “better” people dating while “normal” people don’t is so fucked up. People want to date the right person for them; they’re not looking at everyone and saying, “which of these people are better?” And people don’t get in relationships thinking “he’ll leave me for someone younger later, but for now, I’ll date him.” Who thinks like that? (I mean, other than the stereotypes in redpill dumbshits twisted imaginations.) Like, dude, where do you even get this toxic, stupid shit? You clearly d…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 10:21 PM
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How would you know if your ideas about how people socialize are true if you don’t socialize? It’s the same with red pill: it’s a self-selected group of men who gather together only because they don’t understand women. That’s all they have in common. They aren’t women. They aren’t in healthy, intimate relationships with women. They don’t listen to women. So how could they possibly know what women think? They are the group of people who know the very least about how women think or they wouldn’t al…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 06:39 AM
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They just hate women, period.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 09:21 PM
3

They don’t work how you imagine. They don’t work like some 15 year olds creative writing on Reddit. Unless they have serious psychological problems, people don’t see a “hotter” person and say, “draw up the divorce papers; time to blow up my entire life!”
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 04:44 PM
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Have you ever been in a serious relationship?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 03:04 PM
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Do you have any actual friends?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 01:24 PM
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It’s fair to dismiss a post as fiction when it’s obviously fiction. Do you have real life interactions with friends/other people or are you basing everything on dumb shit you read online?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 06:55 AM
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You see one post. from a guy. If this even happened, which is highly doubtful, you haven’t heard her side of the story. It’s not even a realistic story. Like it’s so obviously some weird lonely dude jerking off while he’s imagining her coming crawling back to him to say “I’m so sorry. How could I not have seen what a wonderful person you are?! Please take me back!” And him saying, “no way. You have wronged me, m’lady, and now it is YOU that no one wants to hang out with, not me!” How do you even…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 04:38 AM
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Live your own life on your own terms and become a self-actualized person. You’ll be amaze at how little you care about comparisons to other people.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 07:37 PM
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I’ve know a few junkies, and this shit doesn’t come from a needle.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 07:33 PM
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Jesus. What has to happen for someone’s worldview to become this cracked? Normal human men and women often choose to have sex with people because it’s fun and interesting. Normal human men and women don’t have thoughts like, “oh no! My power is dwindling! My value is dropping! I’d better marry someone I’m not attracted to!” Normal human men don’t have less options than normal human women in their 20s, 30s, 40s etc. Normal human people date because it’s fun and/or as a way of meeting new people t…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 07:15 PM
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That’s not real life. That’s an algorithm that’s responding to your insecurities. It’s the insecurities that make you unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/24 04:16 PM
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This isn’t a debate sub. It’s to help people break free of toxic redpill beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 02:48 PM
8

Man, my history teachers lied to me. All these years, I thought the War of 1812 was fought over British trade restrictions. But it was really to protect the source of men’s sex.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 12:30 PM
4

Which war was fought to “protect the source of men’s sex?”
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 11:51 AM
1

Hey, dude: women don’t want to be with you because you’re lacking in empathy and understanding.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 04:34 AM
5

I’m assuming women generally don’t want to be with you. It’s not “biology.” It’s this kind of shit.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 04:32 AM
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You don’t speak for all men. And, like I said, women who have a bad one night stand end up assaulted or worse. So yeah, they generally try to feel comfortable with the men they’re alone with.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 04:30 AM
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What a crock of shit. You think this because you’ve never been in the situations that women have been in, and because you are overly thirsty. As a man, there is no way I’m hooking up with someone if I think awkwardness is likely. Mixed signals? I’m not doing it. They seem unstable? Nope. I sense dishonesty? I’m out. It’s having standards, man.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 04:28 AM
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The evidence from my personal life and the lives of everyone I’m close enough to have discussed this with indicates that women really like having sex. Provided it’s with a person they like and feel comfortable around.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 07:51 PM
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It really doesn’t mean that. It means that the downside of random sex for women is way greater than it is for men. If a random hook-up for a man meant he would be looked down on, would probably have an unsatisfying time, and might be murdered, men wouldn’t seek random encounters either.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 07:49 PM
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I don’t know. I don’t think the success rate of red pill tactics is very high. Compared to the success rate of learning how to relate to other people in healthy, appropriate ways, anyway.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 07:45 PM
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This is not even true. Women want sex as much as men. But most women want sex within some kind of established relationship.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 03:09 PM
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Because it’s a community made up of men who women don’t like. “Getting sex” is all they think about because they rarely get sex.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 03:07 PM
1

Alright, AutistMcSpergLord.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 03:54 AM
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You post in here all the time and everyone explains the same shit to you again and again. But it doesn’t make any difference it to you. You’re 100 convinced you’re right already. So here’s what you want to hear: No woman cares about anything but looks. It doesn’t matter if you’re an awkward weirdo (which you are definitely not even though every word you post online screams “I’m an awkward weirdo.”) All the women on earth care only about dating super good looking men. Women don’t care if you’re c…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 05:04 PM
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No. I’ve never been attracted to pictures. I’ve seen photographs of women i think are attractive. But I’m not attracted to the pictures. They already have realistic sculptures of attractive women and I don’t want to fuck them. This is because I’m not attracted to objects. I’m attracted to women. I’m not attracted to objects that look like women. I’m attracted to women. For the millionth time: it doesn’t matter how “realistic” a sex toy is. It’s a sex toy. It’s not a person. The most popular sex …
/r/ExRedPill01/08/24 04:23 AM
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I still don’t think you fully grasp the difference between an object and a person. Let me explain: For the vast majority of men, a $10k sex doll and $25 sex doll are essentially the same thing: a sex toy. That’s it. A sex toy that looks more “real” is no more appealing than one that doesn’t look real. Like there is no situation in which I look at a fake person and think “ooh. I need to stick my dick in that!” Doesn’t matter how expensive it is. Im just not into toys If you don’t like using sex t…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/24 01:47 AM
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So you think the nation’s millionaires all have sex dolls in their closets? Because come on, man. Plus; what does one of those things cost? 5k? Like not out of the reach of most people.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:04 AM
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Bullshit. While some dudes are into dolls, it’s a very small number of them. Like I could no more be attracted to a sex doll than I am a dish towel. It’s honestly an extremely creepy idea. Having sex with a doll isn’t creepy (I mean it’s a little creepy) but the idea that if one could afford an expensive sex doll it would be “as good as” a living human, or a dude would be attracted to it in the same way he is attracted to a woman? That’s terribly creepy.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 02:05 AM
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Your understanding of how other people experience “attraction” is flawed. Or maybe it’s your definition of the word. What do you mean by “attracted” to someone? A person could see a photo of someone and think, “they are attractive” and then meet them and realize “I’m not attracted to this person at all” because of how they carry themselves, what they say, how they dress, etc. And vice-versa. Personality is literally who someone is. there is no “person outside the context of their personality.” T…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 05:33 PM
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Dating profiles are expressions of who you are. They’re designed to convey your identity. Whether you understand it or not, your profile tells other people a lot about you. Without seeing your profile I can’t give specifics, but I bet you are not presenting yourself in a way that other people are drawn to.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 08:09 PM
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You’re 5’10”. That’s above average height. Plus it doesn’t matter. No one cares about your height but you. And being insecure is an extremely unattractive trait. If you don’t like yourself, why are you expecting other people to like you?
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 05:26 PM
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I’m 5’8” and no one has ever said I was short. Before I got married I dated a healthy number of people, had a lot of laughs talking to all kinds of women, and generally had a nice, fulfilling life; and all along I was short without knowing it!
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 04:05 PM
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It’s your insecurity not your height.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 04:01 PM
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I dont know you, but I feel strongly that you are doing something wrong. I’d bet that you’re not actually ugly. Literally everyone who says they’re ugly on here and has the courage to post a picture turns out to just be a normal looking person. So what’s probably going on here is you’re suffering from untreated mental illness. You have very low self esteem and you don’t relate to other people in acceptable ways. Maybe you’re awkward or overly intense or painfully shy, or your self-loathing manif…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 12:53 PM
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Women are people. People tend to like people who have something going on in their lives, who aren’t dependent or overly reliant on others. People who have standards and self-respect/self-determination. So it’s not “playing hard to get,” it’s being a functional person.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 09:47 PM
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Not being a social person is the real problem. It’s not being short.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 09:46 PM
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I think the autism probably has a lot to do with it. I really feel for you. It must be difficult. I don’t know a ton about autism, but the autistic people I’ve known often don’t recognize how other people are reacting to them. Like I have a good pal who can’t pick up the hints that it’s time for him to leave somewhere. Like glancing at your watch, and saying, “man, I’m wiped.” Isn’t enough for him to think, “oh, it’s time to go.” And most social cues are way more subtle than that. So I don’t kno…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 04:28 PM
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Why don’t you just be honest with people from the start? This is generally what people want.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 01:15 PM
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The name “red pill” is based on the idea that “this is the hard to swallow reality that most people are too weak to accept, but not you, soldier.” So I assume that people who fall for it at least think of themselves as “no bullshit” types. But as soon as anyone is actually real with redpill people, everyone is like “you’re not being sensitive enough!” And “how is it helping to tell people the truth if their feelings might get hurt?!”
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 01:06 PM
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Guys are not “told” to do this, except by other men. And even if someone tells you to do something, so what? You don’t have to. Being your own person is way more attractive than worrying about “the female gaze.” Like it’s a dumb idea, man. There’s no such thing as the female gaze. Being confident and comfortable in your own skin, and able to navigate social situations with grace and good humor is the real key. You’re putting yourself in this weirdly cowardly position for no reason. Trying to be …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 05:28 AM
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If there’s a common trait to red pill men, it’s their inability to understand how flirting works and what it is. Their idea is “flirting” means “trying to get someone to have sex with you” and really it’s more like “bantering with someone because you’re both human and the bus isn’t going to be here for 45 minutes, so let’s try to make this fun.”
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 05:17 AM
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Looks are really not why most people cheat in relationships. People often/usually cheat because something is wrong in their relationship. Or because they’re with the wrong person and they don’t want to break up because that’s hard. Or because they aren’t ready to be in a relationship in the first place. Or because they’re damaged in some way and compelled to. Or they’re bored. Etc. People generally don’t blow up loving, supportive relationships because the guy who cleans the pool is good looking…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 05:13 AM
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You know how to fit the female gaze perfectly? Be a semi-normal person who can make lighthearted conversation and isn’t obsessed with “the female gaze” or whatever. I’d be willing to bet a sizable sum that the reason you are having trouble with relationships is that you don’t know how to talk to people, or your awkward and off-putting in some way.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 11:49 PM
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So your male co-workers talk about how often women hit on them? I don’t know these guys, but men bullshit a lot. Especially at work. If you want to talk cheating, men are more likely to cheat than women. 20% of married men and 13% of married women cheat. That means 87% of married women don’t cheat. These are good odds. Not that statistics really matter. At the end of the day some people cheat sometimes. They always have and always will. It sucks, but it happens to a lot of people. I don’t get wh…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 11:43 PM
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There’s a whole person attached to your dick, man.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 05:50 PM
1

“Even though it’s true, you shouldnt say it.” Dude asked strangers for their opinions. I gave him mine.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/24 01:33 PM
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Sure. But what other advice would I give to someone i think has a mental health issues? Have you been prescribed medication?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 11:05 PM
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And I told you: get therapy. You need to see a qualified medical professional and be diagnosed so that you can receive treatment for any mental disorders you may have.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 02:03 PM
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Like I said to the other guy, I’m not using the medical definition of the word “narcissist.” I’m using the colloquial definition. I’m not “classifying” anyone. I gave my opinion to someone who asked for strangers’ opinions. To restate it. 1) he should get some kind of professional help. 2) it is narcissistic to immediately think of yourself when hearing that someone’s friend died. For reference: Narcissist: a person who is overly self-involved, and often vain and selfish.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 05:51 AM
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Immediately thinking of yourself when someone says their friend died is narcissistic. People who aren’t narcissists think something like, “wow, how terrible for them.” Or “that must be difficult.” And I’m not using the word in the clinical sense. Even if I was a doctor, “narcissism” and “narcissist” aren’t diagnoses. You’re thinking of “Narcissistic personality disorder,” which isn’t what I’m talking about.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 04:15 AM
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I’m not mocking him. I’m telling him to get therapy because his problem is way above Reddit’s pay grade. Also: defining for him the root of his issue: he lacks empathy. Redpill people like brutal honestly, dont they? Like isn’t that the whole point?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:32 PM
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Have you ever spoken to a woman?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:29 PM
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Oh my god, dude, your lack of empathy is astounding. Boundless. If you’re looking to improve your life, accepting this is like ground-floor, shit basic: you are not the main character. Other people experience pain, have challenges, face obstacles. and their concerns are just as valid and important as yours. If your main complaint in life is “women don’t like me,” you’re doing pretty well in the grand scheme of humanity.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:09 PM
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Go to therapy. My god, man. This might be the most narcissistic thing I’ve ever read. Like dude, it’s sociopathic and extremely disturbing, to react to someone’s friend dying by saying, “but what about MEEEEE?!” I try to have some sympathy for damaged people, but shit, this post makes it very hard.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 10:55 PM
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You feel like this because you lack empathy. You aren’t willing (or able) to understand what other people think and feel, so you have bizarre ideas of how relationships and attraction work. This is “what’s so wrong with you” and why women aren’t interested in you. It’s a kind of narcissism that’s really common to incels.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 02:39 PM
40

Where do you even get this stuff? It’s so weird.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 03:41 AM
21

You expect people to believe you’re confident, comfortable in your own skin, and can relate easily and comfortably to others socially? Because come on.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 02:03 PM
57

You’re mostly misinterpreting what people say. People ask for help here all the time. But they often don’t like the response they get, because people are being honest, so they get mad that they’re not hearing what they want to hear. I’ve never seen anyone post anything like “shut up and let older men have their way.” I’ve never heard anyone say “forget it” either. Mostly people post things like “women are people” and “Stop basing your life on dumb shit you see on TikTok.”
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 01:06 AM
2

Who cares though?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/24 04:57 AM
11

Wait, are you suggesting I’m starting at the finish, then working backwards, using unverifiable assumptions to support my foregone conclusion? How dare you.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 03:18 PM
12

They didn’t. They used their influence and brains to cleverly trick the cavemen who hunted. They’d be like, “Good job with the mammoth, Og. I’ll divide up the meat because I can do math and you can’t.” Then he’d take more for himself and the cavewomen he liked and their children. You can tell this true because the same thing happens today. Like how the owner of a car factory makes almost all the money even though the workers make the cars. This is why evolution proves that women want smart men w…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 03:25 AM
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I like to make up evolutionary psychology: Like this: In caveman days, the men who went out hunting were doing something dangerous, so they were less likely to survive. The cavemen who stayed home, though, had time to forge meaningful relationships with peers, thus bolstering the coherence and power of the group. Most importantly, these “homebody cavemen” were more likely to survive and pass on their genes. And their offspring were more likely to survive too, because the fathers were around to p…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/24 05:57 PM
9

If you live on a deserted island or you’re trapped down a well or something, your personality, looks, wealth, etc don’t matter when it comes to dating.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 04:51 AM
12

In an earlier post you said you don’t understand how a person’s personality can make them more attractive. This suggests an extreme lack of empathy. It’s hard to imagine how a person who so completely fails to understand what other people think and feel would make a very good partner.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 09:07 PM
1

Probably your friends don’t introduce you to their single friends because you don’t relate to others very well, and they know it would be awkward and weird. That’s my guess.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 12:54 AM
9

I’m not asking for him to do anything. And posting a picture somewhere isn’t “doxxing” anyway.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 12:50 AM
12

Because you won’t post your picture. So far: 8 dudes have told me they’re incredibly ugly, hideous even, in this sub and had the courage to post a picture. All 8 of them were not ugly. Literally, every single time, a normal looking dude. (Usually with bad haircuts, though.) Your post reads the same as theirs. “I’m so ugly!” is posted here like every day, and it’s all the same. Some dude who lacks social skills/is awkward as fuck/doesn’t leave his house/ saying “it’s because my nose is to big:”. …
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 10:34 PM
13

Post your picture then. You won’t. Because it’s not your looks. It’s that you’re weird, intense, odd, off-putting, angry, awkward, argumentative, rude, etc etc. Get some therapy for your delusions.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:48 PM
2

So your defense is that you’re a fundamentally dishonest person? You try to cover up your self-loathing during every encounter with someone else, and you think you’re such a good liar that no one can tell. And this is your idea of having healthy, normal social interactions with others?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:29 AM
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It’s your personality and the way you relate to other people. Sorry, but that’s the whole reason. You’re weird, awkward, aggressive, depressing, or overly intense, so people don’t want to be around you. You don’t know how to talk to people so they just want to get away from you when you try. You dress weird. You carry yourself in a weird way. You walk weird. I don’t know you, so I can’t be more specific, But the reason women avoid you is some combination of what I’ve written above. Not your look…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 09:55 PM
8

Why don’t you link to someone saying “the desire for sex is bad?” Or saying “be happy not having anything or anyone?” We’ll all wait, but it shouldn’t take long, because it’s such a common opinion.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 07:49 AM
12

You are not right. Are you on the spectrum? Not asking as an insult, but it seems like not being able to understand how other people interact so thoroughly should have an explanation.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/24 01:53 AM
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When a person meets another person, they’re not meeting a type of person—they’re not meeting a statistic. They’re talking to another individual human being. So even if a woman says “my preference is men who are over 6’ tall,” if she meets my 5’8” ass, and I’m in a charming, funny mood, maybe we click in some way. Then my height does not matter to her. And maybe if she saw my picture it wouldn’t do anything for her, but if she’s the right kind of person, and we connect on a human level, she’s goi…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 09:30 PM
13

I feel the same way about aliens. A lot of people say they’ve been abducted.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 04:29 AM
9

So you’ve never seen this happen?
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 03:26 AM
4

Ha! Got me with the first half.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 05:47 AM
8

It also makes it so that you can’t engage honestly in a discussion, because there’s no way to check and evaluate what has been said to you. This way you can substitute your own interpretation for what people actually said and argue against straw men that you created instead of having a meaningful discussion.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 08:36 PM
8

If you’ve had these interactions on this sub, why aren’t you using the same account to ask this question?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 02:26 PM
16

Also: red pilled ideas about who is at the top hierarchies are dumb. Like they look at some jacked-up muscle dude trying to pick up women in clubs as “alpha,” but the people running society for real don’t lift weights. They play squash and have families. And the skills that make people generally successful as CEOs more often involve superior communication and organizational skills not intimidation. It’s like they looked at an army and decided the sergeants are in charge because they yell at new …
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 06:54 AM
9

I have a strong suspicion that you are not “perfectly fine” socially. You don’t seem to understand the most basic aspects of how attraction works between men and women, which demonstrates a lack of empathy. And empathy is really the key to all of this shit. If you can understand what other people think and feel to a reasonable extent; there’s no mystery about “what women are looking for” because women are people and it’s obvious.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 11:25 PM
9

It is your personality. But “misogynist” isn’t a personality. Many men who hate women are charismatic and interesting and have great sense of humor and a ton of friends. Most women don’t want anything serious with men like this, but some women, if they’re just looking for a few laughs on Friday night, would be into it. Conversely: Many men who don’t hate women are boring sad sacks that no one can stand to be around because they’re awkward and dull. Most online incels are boring sad sacks and the…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 11:17 PM
29

Delusions and distorted views of reality are hallmarks of incels and redpill victims.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/24 11:23 AM
11

I assume some stupid bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 12:25 PM
12

I just explained it. Lemme try again: First, this is not a woman/man thing, but most anyone looking to have a little fun on Friday night would have a better time hanging out with a confident asshole than a sad sack. Further: there’s no virtue in lacking confidence. As others have pointed out; being confident doesn’t make you an asshole. But also: not being confident doesn’t make you a good dude. And I suspect from your thinly veiled misogyny, you’re not such a good dude.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 04:20 PM
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It’s often difficult and annoying to hang out with people who lack confidence. It’s usually awkward. If they’re shy, you’re prying conversations from them. If they’re self-deprecating, you’re constantly thinking “how should I respond to this? Agree? Compliment them?” If they’re depressed about it, it’s just no fun. But people who are overly confident require little to nothing from you. Even if they’re kind of jerky, they can still be fun to have some drinks with. Maybe you wouldn’t take it furth…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 02:11 PM
12

Sociology and psychology are based on the collected knowledge of some of the smartest people who have ever lived, as well as scientific and field research. “Red pill” is a bunch of dumb shit that mouth-breathers posted on websites because they don’t understand why everyone hates them. So while some red pill people may occasionally describe common experiences, it doesn’t mean “redpill” is a useful way to think about the world.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 08:38 PM
6

It’s the truth. I know you don’t like it, but it’s still true.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:41 AM
5

I thought you wanted the truth because the universe doesn’t care about morals? I didn’t realize what you wanted was having your hand held and being patted on the head. I’ll try to be more sensitive to you from now on.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:37 AM
6

I’m turning aggressive toward the idea that there’s something redeeming or true about misogyny or “masculinitist” ideas. I’m sorry if facts hurt your feelings, but it’s true that the vast majority of misogynistics are painfully stupid people.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:25 AM
3

How about “is stupid” and “is only for dumb people.” Does that work?
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:17 AM
17

Dude, there is literally no serious research in sociology or psychology or any other legitimate field of study that support redpill ideas. Redpill just isn’t a philosophy that’s backed up by anything. It’s some dumb crap that idiots made up and posted on websites to explain why no women like them. think about it: redpill is a self-selected group of men who don’t understand what women think or what women want. They are the people who are least likely to be close to any actual women, or in relatio…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:15 AM
10

Why don’t you try not obsessing over juvenile horseshit? Maybe volunteer to help truly needy people. Plan a long camping trip into wilderness. Read books instead of the internet. Talk to actual other people. Get drunk with strangers. Hang out with old people. Etc.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:07 AM
8

You seem awfully shallow. And you’re projecting that shallowness onto other, but I promise, other people are not like you and obsessed with looks.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 10:47 PM
13

I suspect Real life = TikTok videos
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 06:19 PM
20

the acidic vaginal fluids and the crushelation of the vaginal walls makes dicks skinnier and smaller and often turns them colors.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 09:41 PM
4

I mean the “Chad” thing is fake and dumb, but the actual equivalent is a comfortable, charismatic guy who isn’t necessarily looking for a relationship but wants to have fun on a Friday night. If I were a woman who was also looking for a laugh, of course I’d hang out with that guy instead of a self-obsessed, bitter dude with no confidence.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 04:53 PM
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I know you redpill types love unvarnished truth, so here you go: If I had to guess, I’d say you can’t get laid because you don’t know how to talk to people and you’re a bitter creep. What do you think anyone would get out of being with you anyway? What do you offer that would make sleeping with you a reasonable choice? It wouldn’t be fun; I’m sure you’re in no way a fun a person. They wouldn’t get any deeper human connection; you’re not capable of that, I’m sure, because that requires empathy an…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 01:20 PM
10

I don’t think you do much “being a decent person” because the views you have aren’t the kind of views a decent person has.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 01:07 PM
21

How would it help you to not be a hateful, deluded asshole? People would be more likely to want to hang out with you, for one. You’d be more likely to find some kind of meaning and happiness, for two. You wouldn’t spend your life believing in a worldview that is easily proven to be fiction. Your internal world wouldn’t be defined by the terrible ideas you read on some fucking message board.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 01:01 PM
1

But how is it working out for you? I want to compare my style of “being a mildly awesome person that people like being around” with your strategy.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 04:54 PM
1

How’s that working for you? Cause man, it’s going to take a lot of money for anyone to like you.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 04:40 PM
1

In real life, being a functional person who is comfortable in their own skin and can talk to people easily is the key. Being a bitter weirdo who is obsessed with looks and money is just not it.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 11:06 AM
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I think you’re right for most of them. But there are some guys maybe who just don’t know what’s going on. Like very online and have been poisoned by too many sources telling them “women only want super hot dudes so looks are all the matters.”
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 04:29 PM
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You should definitely leave this woman and her friends alone. But instead of doing all that lifting and taking instagram pictures or whatever, why don’t you work on being a decent, healthy, socially adept person? Someone other people like being around? Develop basic empathy maybe? I promise it will work better in terms of having a happier, more fulfilling life. (Anyone contemplating a “villain arc” is both creepy and laughable.)
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 08:52 AM
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That’s weird. The whole duality of “hot guy” vs “marriage guy” is not real. (And it’s such a strange worldview to have invented for yourself. ) In real life, most people meet, date, get in relationships with, etc. different folks. They make mistakes, learn, grow up, and figure out who they are and what they want in a relationship, honing in on people who share your values, worldview, etc. People’s tastes, interests, etc. change when they stop being children. Although they might look back on thei…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 09:25 PM
4

You’d rather be a man no woman would settle for?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 06:08 PM
10

Dude, this girl/woman isn’t the same as you. You don’t have any idea what she’s like or what she thinks because you don’t actually know her at all. It sounds like she’s avoiding looking at you because you make her uncomfortable. You are no doubt not as covert as you think, and she knows you’re constantly staring at her and she wants you to stop doing that and to leave her alone. You should really, really leave her alone.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 12:19 AM
1

Standards for physical attractiveness are not higher for men. I’m not sure where this idea comes from but it’s pretty dumb. Objectively, it can’t be determined, but my personal experience is that women are very forgiving when it comes to looks. As long as you’re a semi functional, halfway charming person, looks are not a factor.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 09:53 PM
7

It is obvious to most people what they offer a potential partner. There is no right answer. Looking for a “right answer” is the crux of many people’s problems with this shit. Because it doesn’t work like a video game. it’s not a puzzle to solve. What you offer is who you are. Your self-image, values, beliefs, interests, priorities, opinions, plans, goals, personality, etc. So many/most people at least try to live the kind of life that allows the expression and exploration of who they are. (If yo…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:11 AM
5

It’s not meant as a cheap shot. Also: being weird isn’t necessarily unattractive if you’re weird in the right ways. Weird is too broad a term. And all these things are temporary states. They can be changed and improved. (Or so I have read)
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:22 PM
12

I don’t know about most people. But I’m hilarious and well read and an interesting conversationalist. I’m empathetic, understanding, comfortable in my own skin, and I’m usually doing something interesting with my time.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:19 PM
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You have to be attractive to a person for that person to be attracted to you. (That’s how words work.) Other people, no doubt, have different ideas of what’s attractive than you have. Being weird, desperate, unable to talk to people, bitter, reclusive, hostile, and filled with hatred are traits that are not attractive to many people.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:53 PM
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Yeah, you’re wrong. First, women are people and don’t have a single opinion. Second, who would want to date an average man (or woman. Or anyone)? I don’t want to be mean, here, but: What do you actually offer, beyond your averageness (and barely veiled misogyny/desperation?) Why do you think anyone would want to hang out with you?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:43 PM
9

As an adult, I can say with certainty that “high value alpha man” is a term used exclusively by children. But only the dumb ones.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 01:58 PM
7

Are you receiving any kind of psychiatric treatment?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 05:56 AM
9

Honest question: do you consider yourself a good option to women?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 10:19 PM
2

I’d don’t think I’ve ever “talked about the possibility of sex” with anyone unless I was 200% certain already. I’ve talked about the possibility of going to get some coffee. The possibility of holding someone’s hand. The possibility of a kiss, etc. This is all a progression and there are 1000 steps between meeting someone and being in a romantic relationship with them. I feel like you’re skipping steps 2 through 999, maybe?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 05:15 AM
4

When you have conversations with women, doesn’t it sort of trend in a certain way? Like can you tell when a person you’re talking to is at least open to the possibility? Not “super attracted to you” but just curious about you and not saying “no?” Because to me it’s such an obvious, natural thing that I have trouble even describing what I mean.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 01:37 AM
7

It’s about recognizing that “redpill” is a bunch of horseshit made up by internet weirdos and only taken seriously by the dumbest people you went to high school with.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 01:22 AM
5

Figure out what it is and work on it. What else are you gonna do, ya know?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 10:26 PM
6

It might be something you could fix.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 10:24 PM
9

You’re not getting rejected for those reasons. If being bald and average height made it impossible to find success, I (and a half billion other dudes) wouldn’t have. There’s another reason that you don’t understand.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 10:15 PM
8

Because it’s not the fact that you’re bald and of average height. So am I, and I’m happily married. Before that had enough romantic success that I rarely thought about it. Hardly ever an issue in my life.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 10:05 PM
2

I would have definitely assumed you were an incel. I assume that about you now, tbh.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 07:14 PM
12

There isn’t though. There’s no barrier as there’s no universal set of things any group of people desires. For many, many people, “looks” are not the main criteria for choosing a partner. If there is anything close to a universal barrier to getting into a romantic relationship, it’s “not being able to connect with other people” not looks. Not being socially adept enough to hold a conversation and/or interact like a normal person is a prerequisite for almost everyone, and it’s so basic, people rar…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 07:34 PM
1

It’s not a debate sub.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 04:32 AM
1

For me: “meeting women” comes from having a social life. From doing things I’m interested in with people I like. I’ve never gone anywhere or done anything with the intention of meeting women (although, “a lot of single women wlll be there” probably swayed my decision to go to party a time or two when I was younger.) I’ve never “approached” anyone. That phrase and idea is laden with expectations and doing it seems really cheesy and lame to me. Also I don’t like rejection. I don’t like rejection b…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 06:31 AM
2

What does “approach” mean to you? What do you have to offer a woman? Why do you think anyone would choose to hang out with you?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/23 04:47 AM
3

I know we don’t know each other, but I’m married— we have sex regularly, and, more importantly, we are deeply in love.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 11:59 AM
19

Honest question: Do you think of yourself as a dude who is “actually great?”
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 02:47 AM
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It’s really easy to not even know what that is. I do it every day.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 11:43 PM
62

Sexist and racist and stupid. Redpill is such garbage.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 12:52 PM
34

The idea is like “I should become a woman because women have it so easy?” Not “I am a woman and now I’m going to live as a woman?” Because the first option is the dumbest shit imaginable and the perfect illustration of the utter stupidity of red pill dimwits. As if being a woman is an advantage in society. I mean look around you. On the other hand, if any idiot actually tries this, maybe they’ll be forced into acknowledging the glaring, obvious, and totally unfair disadvantages women face.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 11:28 AM
10

These are self-reported, right? So could it be that men are slightly more likely to consider themselves single then women?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 01:00 PM
1

First off, you don’t speak for the “majority of men.” I’d guess not being able to understand why an emotional connection makes sex better puts you in a tiny minority. But whatever: speak for yourself. How about you picture a woman you’re not attracted to at all, and you don’t personally like, instead of a mailman. Is this kiss just as hot as a woman you’re into? Does it feel as good?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 04:04 PM
1

No. I’m making your point. You think good sex is about what nerve endings are stimulated. If that’s what it’s about, why would sexual orientation matter? A blowjob from a man or a woman stimulates the same nerves, right? So sex is just as good with a man or a woman.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 04:17 AM
1

Why would gender of the person I’m kissing make any difference? The physical sensations would be the same, right?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 01:23 AM
1

Neuro-whatthefuck? You’re asking how feeling an emotional connection to another person leads to sex with them being more pleasurable? Like dude, it’s pleasurable to hold someone’s hand if you’re into them. It doesn’t have much to do with the nerve endings in your fingers. Or: It’s hot to kiss my wife. It wouldn’t be hot to kiss my mailman. (No offense to my mailman, but I have no feelings toward him) But even on a strictly physical basis, if you like someone, you care about whether they feel goo…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 07:02 AM
16

Insecurity about your size is about a thousand times more likely to make a woman rethink a relationship than your size. People have sex with other whole other people not body parts. And good sex comes from connection and empathy. From vibing with someone. From love. It doesn’t come from dick size.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 02:04 PM
43

Are you seriously asking this? Like “will more women like you if you regard them as humans?” Because YES.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 06:47 AM
8

How does society teach men this? I don’t think I’ve ever seen that message in popular culture. But maybe I’m missing it somewhere.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 05:58 AM
2

I see my wife every day. We don’t have sex every day though. Maybe every third day? I didn’t believe this when I was younger, but if you’re with the right person, the sex really does get better. And it started out pretty great. Redpill is horseshit.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/23 06:51 AM
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Where is the scoreboard where I can check who is doing better than I am? When do they hand out the trophies? It’s wild that a person can spend their life trying to get to the top of a hierarchy that only exists in their own head. But to also invent a bunch of rules that put them at the bottom of their own scoring system? It’s almost impressive.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 11:35 AM
4

It’s fun to play pretend.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 10:35 PM
7

So you took a class that described physical features as universally regarded as attractive, instead of understanding physical attraction as a cultural construct? What class was this? Do you go to the university of YouTube?
/r/ExRedPill10/09/23 01:20 PM
17

The red pill is some horseshit a bunch of internet shut-ins made up because women don’t like them. It’s not rational. It’s not backed up by evidence. It’s message board bullshit. It’s the furthest thing from reality—pure fiction. If you think reason leads to red pill, there’s something very wrong with your mind.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 09:37 AM
18

I have literally never seen this happen a single time. Link a single example of someone saying they are a feminist and they demand an alpha male. This should be easy to find if it is as common as you say.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 10:35 AM
2

It adds context. Your post reads like, “there are two equal groups, each with its own agenda” but that isn’t accurate.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 09:48 PM
8

recommending any YouTube philosopher or whatever that Peterson guy is seems weird for a counselor.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 09:46 PM
2

One of the groups held nearly absolute power over the other for the entirety of western history and set up a system designed to exclude the other group from power. We call it “the patriarchy.”
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 09:33 PM
10

The fuck kind of counselor are you going to, anyway?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 09:28 PM
29

Also: some women like men with muscles. Some don’t. Some don’t care. Some women like big fat teddy bear motherfuckers who are really funny and know how to fix cars. Some women like men who have nice singing voices and clean fingernails. It’s because women are people. Like each woman is a whole separate person with her own internal world that is as rich and varied as your own. Her own motivations. Her own struggles. Etc. Just like you.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 06:07 AM
20

“Hook up culture” is nothing new. People have always hooked up. Younger people are having less sex than previous generations. Probably because technology is having some effect on how people socialize. It’s not “red pill” whatevr having an effect. Very few people know or care about that nonsense. It’s just for internet weirdos. Everything about “men are not having sex but women are” is totally bullshit though. What little effect there is can be explained by women generally dating men who are a fe…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 05:53 AM
10

Yes. Of course. For the love of god.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 10:55 PM
5

And the shitty part is, society would be infinitely better if all contributions had always been welcome. We’d be so much further along. So much better off.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 05:28 AM
3

Hahahahaha! These dudes are so deep into weird incel shit, so disconnected from normal humans, that they have to make up their own language that only other online cranks understand—but they think the reason women don’t like them is because their dicks are too small! Couldn’t be because they don’t have any friends or anything positive in their lives. Gotta be that dick size. Amazing!
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 01:33 PM
1

Yeah but what does it mean?
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 11:55 AM
2

People generally avoid trying to hook their friends up with terrible people.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 08:50 AM
1

The fuck is “jelqing?” I hope it means something like “learning how to be socially competent person,” but it’s probably some dumb shit incel say.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 08:45 AM
4

First, women on Reddit are not a cross section of all women. Second: women on Reddit DO NOT SAY THIS. You’re selectively paying attention to opinions that bolster your own views, and your views are not based on actual experience with real humans. I’m fairly sure you have limited experience with actual women, so you’re speaking from a place of limited knowledge. Bottom line: Women are people, and people (generally) like sex and have sexual desires. Women, in my experience, are way more likely to …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 08:08 PM
4

I find this hard to believe. But maybe it’s something about you? Lil women don’t want to be sexual with you specifically, and you’re imaging it applies as a universal rule.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 04:27 PM
6

Have you ever been in a relationship with an actual woman?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 04:00 PM
8

I erased that part of the comment because it was a flippant joke based on incorrect ideas about sexuality. If you think most women are asexual, you are pretty ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 02:58 PM
8

Most dudes I see talking like this don’t seem to know the difference between being open emotionally and dumping your trauma on someone. Many men, it seems, start dating someone and try to hide who they are out out of fear and weakness (“what if she doesn’t accept me? A-bloo bloo bloo.”) then, when the time is “right,” (often while drunk) they suddenly reveal that they’re emotionally stunted man-children carrying around a lifetime of psychological problems and pain they’ve never tried to address.…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 02:24 PM
3

I’ve been a really social person at some points of my life, so I met a lot of people—at parties, friends of friends, etc. Usually when I meet someone new, it’s pretty clear whether we are compatible quickly. Most people I meet aren’t really interesting to me or me to them. But sometimes I met women that I vibed this. Usually women who seemed to think I was interesting or funny. And I thought the same thing about them. There’s like a light in a person’s eyes when they’re open to you. Maybe it’s b…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 03:22 PM
1

Maybe you’re not talking to people in the right way. Or not talking to the right people.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 02:40 PM
3

I’m an average looking guy and slept with probably 30 women before I got married. It’s literally all about being funny and personable, doing things that are interesting and surrounding yourself with like-minded people. Also: I was never the “player” type, or into any pickup artist shit. I actually like women and am not manipulative or predatory.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 02:09 PM
6

Being able to talk to people and being a generally alright kind of person are the real essential traits.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 11:19 AM
17

I’m not sure exactly how many women I’ve slept with, but i guess it’s somewhere around 30. If I’ve learned anything from it, it’s that all women are different (because they’re people) and that redpill is 100% wrong.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 11:17 AM
3

She said, “I’d like you better if you were more of a thug?” And these women your friends with, what do they mean? What kinds of things are they looking for men to do that makes them more “thuggish?”
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 12:10 AM
2

Men do not “do better” going by redpill ideas. They’re very stupid ideas made up by weirdos on the internet and do not apply to actual living humans. This whole tone of “men have it so bad” is cringey as hell. Did a woman ever say “I’m turned off because you’re not a thug?” or is that something you made up? Where are all these “horror stories” you’re talking about? Could you link to one?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 09:36 PM
2

Can you link to some of these comments?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 09:33 PM
1

Huh? Am I supposed to know who “Uzi” is? What kind of club was it?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 05:07 AM
1

What kind of clubs are there in Tokyo?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 06:33 PM
0

Have you ever left your house? Because you’ll find many people in successful and fulfilling relationships of various heights and body types if you do.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 02:37 PM
3

Have you ever left your house?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 02:36 PM
1

Because women often say things they don’t like.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 08:50 PM
8

That statistic is taken from “research” conducted by an internet dating company for marketing and public relations purposes. It’s as far from meaningful data as it could possibly be. Even though a lot of stupid people repeat it, it’s utterly meaningless and worthless. It’s like saying, “research shows Budweiser is the king of beers.”
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 05:49 AM
4

Of course looks are subjective. What do you think, there’s some objective measurable scale of attractiveness?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 05:47 AM
6

“Biological truths backed by evo psych” Found the idiot!
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 01:57 AM
9

Why do equate having sex with someone with being “used” or “treated like trash?” And you have friends that treat women poorly? Why?
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 05:53 AM
13

A club or dance floor are not generally good places to talk to people. They’re loud. House parties, it depends. You should probably focus on talking to people you have a legit reason to converse with before planning out how you’re going to talk to strangers in bars or whatever. Strike up conversations with the people in your pottery class or whatever, not strangers on a bus. There’s no answer to “what do you talk about after you say ‘hi.’” It’s situational and depends on you and the other person…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 05:59 PM
3

There isn’t a 100 percent correlation or anything, but often people with money and status got that way because they’re driven, intelligent, and/or talented at something. Those traits are attractive to a lot of people.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 07:16 PM
15

Yeah, I guess I’m not doing as well as you, “hard body john.” Lol
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 04:49 AM
15

I’m married. Before I got married I had a reasonable amount of success with women. I’m really not interested in what worked “historically.” But if it makes you feel better to believe that your approach will work eventually, I guess that’s ok. I mean, it hasn’t worked for you yet, but maybe it will in the future? Anything’s possible.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 04:25 AM
16

Or he’s “too nice.”
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 02:25 AM
6

You’re mainly getting downvoted because you’re not making very good points. Obviously anyone would choose an experienced pilot over an inexperienced one. You wouldn’t fly with a pilot with no “degree” though.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 02:12 AM
23

I’m a straight guy, but thanks for the comment. (I wonder why women don’t like you. It’s a mystery.)
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 02:08 AM
25

Sure. Do whatever you want. More cool people for me, I suppose.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 11:53 PM
9

Ok. But there’s a stronger correlation between knowing about something and having a degree in it than knowing about something and not having a degree in it. Like are you going to get on the plane piloted by the guy with the pilot’s license or the guy without one?
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 11:52 PM
15

It literally means you’re educated.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 10:20 PM
41

I get it. People are allowed to prefer dating people with educations.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 08:45 PM
40

“omega male” isn’t a real category of person. It’s a dumb thing internet weirdos made up. But yeah, living with your mom and being broke with no friends is probably gonna cut down on the women interested in you pretty significantly. But it’s not the money or the mom, really. It’s the “I’m not going anywhere” that’s the problem. It’s being a project. Most people aren’t looking for that. You can be broke and be an awesome free spirit and some women will like you. You can live with your mom because…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 04:00 AM
3

A “saying” is something that is commonly repeated, usually because people think there’s something wise or at least funny about it. I don’t even understand what you wrote. It’s not a saying.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 11:41 PM
10

No one hassles me when I walk down the street. Men are generally not sexually harassed at work. (It happens rarely, where I don’t know any women who hasn’t been sexually harassed. In progressional settings, grooming for women is way more expensive and time consuming than it is for men.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 08:59 PM
5

“The wild and beautiful heart.”
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 05:44 PM
2

I like women. They’re cool. Not all of them, but as a collective category. They’re people so I regard them as such.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 03:52 PM
6

I believe puppies are cute. I believe babies should have food. I believe all men should have a meaningful life. These are all platitudes. Just simple minded horseshit.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 05:25 PM
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They’ve never experienced a partner who actually likes them and likes having sex, so they think every relationship is like theirs.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 05:57 AM
1

Being able to have a smooth, non-creepy, casual interactions with strangers is possible but it’s about context and timing and being able to not be weird about shit. Most people asking advice in a sub like this are gonna be weird about shit.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 03:10 PM
2

I agree. But that’s not what people usually mean by “cold approach.” If you have some reason to talk to someone and you’re in the right place, it’s cool. That’s not what I’m talking about.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 02:28 PM
1

In the real world, we talk to people we have some reason to interact with—someone from class, a co-worker, another guest at a party, etc. We don’t talk to strangers on the bus. Especially if the idea is to get a date or a phone number. It’s an imposition.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 02:25 PM
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Sorry, but it’s weird to cold approach anyone. Especially if you’re trying to find a date. It’s an imposition on someone else’s time and attention.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 01:09 AM
4

He’s literally in a cage for how he treats women. Wtf?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 09:43 PM
3

You’re the one making the claim that numbers from 2010 don’t hold up anymore and that online dating has changed human relationships in some drastic way.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 02:29 AM
1

Just love?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 10:35 PM
4

The conclusions he reaches are nonsense. Not supported by anything. I have less than a passing interest in this field and it’s glaringly obvious what an idiot this guy is. He’s like “INCEL SHIT because CAVEMEN”.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 10:33 PM
3

It’s hard for you to believe that normal people fall in love? Dude, leave your house. Go to a crowded place. Count the couples. Count the super models.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 08:55 PM
3

My god is that a dumb article. Dudes a professor (at Florida state, but still) and his thing is making something up, then waving his arms vaguely and saying, “because cavemen!” Watch, I’ll do it too: “The optimum reproduction strategy for men is to be nurturing and stay at home. You see, in Hunter gather tribes, the truly dangerous pursuits—hunting, warfare—were pursued by the most adventurous men. Obviously, they were more likely to die. Where the prehistoric men who stayed back with the tribe …
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:56 PM
4

If you ever tell redpill/incel types “I have been in a reasonable number of romantic relationships and here is what has worked for me.” They respond with pushback and arguments. To the dumbest, most obvious things too. Like “be a relatively social person, with your shit halfway together, sometimes, some women will like you.” Or “if you can’t have a normal human conversation with someone else, it doesn’t usually matter whether you’re in shape or have a nice car.” I was talking to a guy on here on…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:50 PM
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Just think about it for 8 seconds: Some men are gay. Some men don’t want to have children. You’re looking at reproductive rates over time, it includes wars (in which 10s of millions of young men have died over the last 100 years alone) famines (probably claimed MORE lives) pandemics (etc.), forced governmental controls of reproduction (there are a ton of people in China) etc. This is just off the top of my head. It’s such a stupid conclusion to draw.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 03:26 PM
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It’s a bullshit number anyway. Because 10% of guys are gay. And some percent of guys die before they’re old enough to have kids (especially when there are wars. Or famines. These skew the numbers massively) a percentage of men used to die in childhood. and some percentage of men don’t want to have children. And like 80% of men in the United States, now, have or will have children. It’s a redpill talking point, and like everything they believe, it’s horseshit.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 03:18 PM
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It’s not most men. And yeah. It’s weird to not be able to relate to women and form romantic relationships, if that’s what you want to do. It’s not a value judgement. It’s just unusual because most men who want to are able to get into romantic relationships.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 02:35 PM
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There are libraries of information on every aspect of social relationships that men can turn to if they need help acting like a decent person in a relationship. Or they could talk to people in successful relationships. The redpill community is a self-selected group with the common trait that they don’t understand how healthy relationships work. It’s why redpill even exists. It is literally the worst group of people one could turn to for relationship advice. How would any of them possibly know? H…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 06:29 AM
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Let me guess: the “useful parts” are things like, “you should keep yourself clean.” Or “exercise is a good idea.” Or “don’t let people take advantage of you.” In other words, basic shit that literally everyone already agrees with.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:38 AM
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I was just thinking about this today. How sometimes relationships start going south for whatever specific reasons, and what an absolute disaster it would be to respond to that by adopting “red pill” ideas instead of normal, human ideas. Sometimes things don’t work out, and you don’t really know why, and maybe there isn’t a reason really, so confused dudes talk to other confused dudes (and people preying on them) and they just fill each other with terrible ideas.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:35 AM
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It’s not a “new trend.” There have always been weird dudes who repel women. People just hear from them now. The only “new” thing is how communication methods like the internet allow them to spread really bad ideas to each other.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 05:27 AM
1

He wasn’t a criminal in the traditional sense. None of his people knew he was a criminal. They thought he was a teacher. And that dude is the opposite of “going to get in a fight.” He was more like “I’m going to help you get in touch with your inner divine self to grow as the spiritual being you are.”
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 10:21 PM
1

If there’s something attractive about dude on a couch starting a business, it’s not about having money.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 10:20 PM
1

Where are you getting this? I’m married. Before I got married I had a reasonable number of relationships and sexual experiences, but I’m literally none of the things you mentioned. Im not tall, particularly good looking, or in particularly good shape. I am, however, funny, personable, confident, and social, and I’m usually doing something interesting. This is m all I have ever needed to be, and have never had any trouble with this shit.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 10:16 PM
1

Since women are people, they want different things. Most women want someone who can relate to others socially in a normal, healthy way. This is like “bottom tier” level of being attractive, but so many redpill dudes don’t even get over this very low hurdle. “Having a lot of money” and being “physically competent” are by-products of being a semi-decent person, not ends in themselves. And they mean nothing if youre an awkward intense weirdo. The “value” comes from overall self-fulfillment, not mon…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 07:35 PM
1

What good is a “rule” if anyone can easily point to endless exceptions to it? This NXIUM asshole breaks every redpill rule I’ve ever heard of, but if the goal is “have a lot of women,” he’s obviously better at it than almost anyone else. (Not defending any of this morally, btw. The goal is gross, the tactics gross. Etc.)
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 07:22 PM
4

I can’t speak for all men, but people generally, ultimately, want to find someone they can build a life with—raise a family, grow old together, all that biz.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 01:24 PM
17

The “alternative” is to have a normal social life. You meet women through the people you know and through the course of living your life. You have a lot in common with a woman you meet at your pottery class or whatever. This is how most people get into relationships. And this whole idea of a conflict between “nice” and “asshole” is in your head. First, you’re not as nice as you think you are. Second, who are you to judge whether other people are assholes?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 06:27 AM
8

Reddits wild. All these dudes who clearly can’t socially relate in a healthy way to women (and men no doubt) sitting around trying to prove that the reason women don’t like them is because women only want super models and don’t enjoy having sex.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:11 AM
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Jesus, dude. Your worldview is just fucked. Most women, generally, like having sex within a relationship with a person who cares for them. It’s safer both physically and emotionally, and the sex itself is way more satisfying. This is how most people of any gender experience sexuality. Within the “we’re in a relationship” context, women, by and large, want sex as much as men do. None of this is very complicated.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:04 AM
11

Stay away from men too.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 08:48 AM
14

You don’t know what feminism is, even slightly.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 08:47 AM
2

Wait, life isn’t like a movie?! You’ve really shocked me to my core here.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 07:13 PM
2

Nobody is interested in your gross YouTube channel or whatever.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:50 PM
1

Okay. Things seem to be going great for you and I’d like to congratulate you on your success and happiness.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 11:16 PM
1

I’m sure strangers love when you talk to them out of nowhere because you’re such an interesting, worthwhile person who is valued and respected by those around him.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 11:06 PM
1

What are you talking about? What’s “copium?” That strangers are going to be annoyed if you talk to them out of nowhere? Go give it a try if and see for yourself. People got stuff to do and places to be and chances are overwhelming that their plans don’t include your sorry ass.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 10:58 PM
1

I mean, sure, annoy people and make a fool of yourself. Who cares?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 10:37 PM
2

Dude, I just looked at your post history. You’re obsessed with this stupid bullshit. Maybe don’t lie. Start there.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:57 PM
2

Everyone you meet can tell you’re awkward. Sorry, but they can. And the more they get to know you, the more obvious your low self-esteem will become. I don’t know what the solution is for you because I don’t know you. But I do know the problem is almost definitely not that you’re not physically attractive enough. I know this from my own experience. I am nothing special to look at. I’m not tall. I’m overweight. My face is average. But I have never had any problem with women (beyond typical relati…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:41 PM
2

It’s not about you telling people anything. You don’t have to. It’s obvious. It’s no more complicate than this: people (by and large) like being around others who make them feel comfortable and happy. I seriously doubt you make anyone feel comfortable. Having a conversation with an awkward or troubled person is difficult. It takes effort and it’s unsatisfying ultimately. It doesn’t make anyone feel good to hang out with someone with a black cloud hanging over their head and a chip on their shoul…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:22 PM
2

So, you’re just a regular, sociable guy with satisfying personal relationships and no serious mental health problems with the core belief that you’re not physically attractive enough to live on this planet? It doesn’t track. Even if that was true, it makes you fundamentally a dishonest person, and people tend to not like being in relationships with liars.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:09 PM
0

You seem like you’d be a horrible person to be in a relationship with because you likely have mental health problems. At best, you seem to be wallowing in self-pity, low self-esteem, fear, and self-doubt. I’m guessing the moment you speak to anyone, man or woman, they read it in an instant. But I’m guessing you don’t actually speak to many humans in real life to begin with. None of this has anything to do with how you look. Who would have the energy to engage with someone who’s totally covered i…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:02 PM
7

Maybe it’s that women don’t want sex with you than don’t want sex in general? Women on the whole are probably less likely to seek out random sex with strangers because it’s potentially dangerous and likely to be unsatisfying, but within a relationship, women (in my experience) tend to want sex as much as men. (It varies because women and men are people.) Most sex is had within romantic relationships.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 03:40 PM
3

People have sex with other people, not body parts. You’re putting too much significance on size, not other people. The insecurity is way way less attractive than whatever size your junk is. It doesn’t matter to anyone.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 12:27 AM
22

Evolutionary biology actually proves that women desire men who are nurturers and homebodies the most. See, back when humans were hunter-gatherers, the men who went out hunting were in the most danger, so they died more often; where cavemen who stayed home were more likely to live and pass on their genes. That’s why women want a stable relationship with someone who doesn’t go out all the time. It’s not even a choice. That’s how they’re wired. (This is how redpill “science” works. You start with s…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 06:06 AM
3

100k is not that much for professionals in creative fields. People in advertising, say, make way more than that. People who make movies and television too. My wife and I are both “creatives” in media and make six figures each.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 03:58 PM
19

Now do the percentage of men who sexually assault women.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 04:22 AM
3

Who has time to sit around feeling envy about any group? What the fuck I care what other people are doing? I don’t like when people imagine their own insecurities are universal.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 04:44 PM
7

You know “gigachad” aren’t real either? It’s some dumb internet thing weirdos made up. You need to interact with actual real people more man. Your sense of reality is being influenced by just the stupidest shit on earth.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 05:13 PM
5

“Hitler always brushed his teeth, and he was nice to his dog. So are Nazis really that bad?” If you like self improvement so much, why not watch self improvement material that isn’t also toxic bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 08:43 AM
3

I know some guys who cant attract women too. The common denominator isn’t their height. It’s their inability to connect with people socially. Like there’s something in their personality that repels women. It’s totally obvious when I’ve seen them talking to women, but I dont even know if something that it’s possible to “fix.”
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 03:31 AM
8

The videos you watch online aren’t real life. Like wtf, man?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 03:22 AM
25

How would you know how “most modern women” are? You probably aren’t close to any women at all, so why would you think you know anything about how most women think or live their lives?
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 10:36 PM
6

I wish I had a big nose. Cut through the world like a fucking SHARK
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 07:12 PM
41

I can’t get over the whole “women expect men to be perfect!” part of redpill world. In my experience, women are endlessly forgiving. Whether it’s looks or habits or just about anything else. They’re too forgiving if anything. If you’re even slightly charming and/or personable as a dude, many, many women will overlook your flaws, especially dumb shit like “I’m of average height!” Or “my nose is too big!”
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 04:59 PM
1

Don’t approach strangers and start conversations where you’re trying to date them or pick them up or whatever. It’s weird and creepy. Even if it does “work” for some men, it will not work for you because you don’t have the social skills or prowess to pull it off. Get to know people like normal humans do: by interacting with people you have some reason to talk to.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 05:50 AM
11

Nobody thinks Kanye west is a weird creep either. Totally respected person.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 05:46 AM
1

Yeah. I’ll “educate” myself on some board for bitter weirdos.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 11:13 PM
2

Yes, pointing out how systemic imbalances in society clearly favor one gender makes me “anti men.” You’re really wrong about all this shit. And I’m sure it’s not helping in your life.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 08:54 PM
13

“I lost the argument and now I’m leaving!” Get some therapy.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 03:35 PM
16

Did you miss the news where abortion is illegal in like half of the country? And I’m sorry men have to take responsibility for fathering children, but laws about child support apply equally to men and women. (And these laws, like all laws, were created largely by men anyway.) Prisons are full of men because men commit most crimes. Blaming your personal problems on misunderstanding how society works is weird, man.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 03:17 PM
16

Who’s forcing you into a prison camp? What are you talking about? Are you talking about how prisoners are mostly men? That’s because men commit more crimes. What do you mean “lowest place of society?” When did I say “men can’t have problems?” The fuck is “misandrist?”
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 03:02 PM
34

All this is such horseshit. Women literally don’t have control over their own bodies in the US. Women are massively under represented in every actual Avenue of power (political, economic, religious) everywhere in the world. Women in many non-western countries are oppressed to the point that they can be executed for not covering every inch of their flesh in public. Women (and girls) can’t walk down the street without being harassed. I don’t think I know a single woman who hasn’t been sexually ass…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 02:53 PM
3

The National Center for Health Statistics is a more reputable source of information than a dating service. And my own sexual experiences and friends are a better source than yours because they exist.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 04:36 PM
3

I don’t know what “Tinder data” you’re talking about, but I’m pretty sure Tinder doesn’t conduct trustworthy scientific research since it’s a dating service. My views are based on my lived experience and are confirmed by the experiences of the people in close to, both men and women. Actual data on sexuality says that the average man in the US has 6 sexual partners in his life. Almost 90 percent of adults in America had sex in the last year (and that includes really old people). This is all from …
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 04:08 PM
5

Most dudes do get attention. The reason you don’t get attention is because you suck. You can can continue to suck, and continue to spiral down this dark path you’re on or you can do something about it.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:55 PM
7

You know, if you were a guy who didn’t suck, women actually would be sexually attracted to you sometimes. You don’t even have to not-suck all that much. You just have to not totally suck. Even bottom level not-sucking is enough that some women will sometimes think you’re sexy. Just treating women as people is probably enough. Add being generally comfortable in social situations and it’s definitely enough. You’re failing to clear the lowest hurdle though. The “I think women are people” one. So of…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:33 PM
2

I have the answer that no one has: break up with her. Shit. I find it unbelievable that anyone ever told you anything else.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/22 12:15 AM
3

You’re probably not doing as good a job at “hiding it” as you think. People can tell, dude.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 01:45 PM
7

Work on being mentally healthy. You seem really intense and insecure. Most people want to be around other people that make them feel comfortable. It can be difficult and off-putting to hang around with someone who isn’t comfortable with who they are or who is worried all the time.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 10:23 AM
2

No. Sheesh. Instead, work on being a decent person who other people like.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 10:00 AM
8

In other words: “are you going to believe me or your lying eyes?”
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 02:25 AM
25

So you see happy couples in the actual world and wonder whether that’s the fake part and the shit people say on the internet when they’re trying to make money is real? How is this even a question? Is your hat on too tight? It’s like “I see a lot of animals at the zoo, but then a read on a website that animals aren’t real, and I’m confused.” “I tried using this cleaning product and it didn’t work, but the commercial said it was the best ever. Which is right?”
/r/ExRedPill24/11/22 01:22 PM
6

I love when you dudes pretend you know more about what women want than women themselves. Like how would you, personally, have any idea? You aren’t a woman. I doubt you’re close to any actual women. And yet you’re speaking for all women. It’s laughable.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/22 07:45 AM
16

Cause they dumb.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 06:20 AM
11

You realize that the 80/20 thing red pill people base their worldview upon came from a press release from a dating site? This is the level of scientific rigor of red pill. It’s laughable. And even if it wasn’t made up bullshit, how does it lead to the idea that women like assholes? Why assume that this (mythical) top 20 percent aren’t super nice guys? And how would you, of all people, have any idea what womens experiences are like? you aren’t a woman, and I assume you don’t have any close friend…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/22 06:35 AM
2

Dude, you don’t know what you’re doing here. You’re asking people to prove a negative and it’s a completely absurd one too. You’re not going to get any answer other than “seek help. There is something wrong in your mind.”
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:32 PM
7

So I see you can’t prove that Bigfoot doesn’t live under my porch! We must conclude, therefor, that he does. (I’m doing a logic.)
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:28 PM
10

First, you need to use science to prove to me that Bigfoot doesn’t live under my porch.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:02 PM
7

You’re asking “use science to prove that women aren’t using beta men for their money.” Is that right?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 12:00 PM
9

What does that even mean? “Evidence for attraction?”
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 11:55 AM
10

Nah. I think I will reply. Look, you’re not going to get the kind of answer you say you want because it would take too long to unpack your prejudice and assumptions. Just getting you to define your terms would take hours and be totally unsatisfying. Ultimately you’re asking people to prove a negative anyway. But your assumptions are so bizarre, it’s like you’re saying “prove that Bigfoot doesnt live under my porch.” Everything you’re saying about how men and women relate to each other is contrar…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 11:51 AM
14

I’ve reviewed the relevant research and literature and it suggests you are kind of an asshole. Seriously though, you made up a lot of things and are like “use science to disprove my imagination, pls.”
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 11:37 AM
19

I don’t know if I’d trust a history lesson from the dumbest people on earth.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 02:10 PM
17

All of your many, totally real, women friends say things like, “I just want a guy with a high body count! The more other women he’s been with, the better!” This is what you’re saying?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 02:49 AM
22

I love when Reddit dudes read women’s opinions about what women want and respond “actually, you’re wrong.” Like dude, I bet you’ve never been friends with a woman. How could you think you know what women want?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 02:45 AM
5

The rebuttal of “you don’t seem to know what simple words mean” is helpful to you?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 09:23 PM
2

Yes. If you define all human characteristics as “looks,” then looks are all that matter in dating.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 09:22 PM
6

My own experience, the experiences of women I’m im friends with, women on this message board relating their own experiences. (Asking for a “source” for “people prefer being around other people who are good and cool” is peak Reddit.)
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:29 AM
9

You’re just so completely wrong about this shit, man. Women are people and people want to be around who are good to be around. People who they connect and vibe with. People who are interesting, funny, outgoing, and personable.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:41 AM
1

Wait, it can’t be wrong? Whadda mean?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 01:39 AM
2

If this was the whole or most important part of red pill, no one would have a problem with it. I’m sure RP also says “brush your teeth.”
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 07:32 PM
2

No. My wife trusts me. I trust her. Having conversations with strangers is not threatening to either of us. I think you misunderstood my post and my point. “be a huge goofball and be friendly to everyone” is not in keeping with any redpill advice as I have ever heard. If just being a normal human is the goal, following redpill advice will not work. Because it recommends doing things that are contrary to how decent humans act.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:53 AM
2

The women in this video don’t say anything like that.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:44 AM
3

Did you link to the wrong video? The women in this one say what everyone in this sub says, pretty much. Like what do you have a problem with? I watched the first few minutes and it’s women saying they like men who are kind, respectful and polite. When asked whether job title matters, they mostly said no (or something like “I want someone who’s doing something they want to do.”) Then I scanned the video and stopped at random points. Here’s the time codes and the quotes. 17:17: “I like a man who’s…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:41 AM
4

This is a blog post from a hypnotherapist who doesn’t cite their sources.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:29 PM
5

How could anyone determine that we operate from our subconscious exactly 95% of the time?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 10:16 AM
2

I’m a little better at karaoke after 2 drinks, it’s true, but same shit works the same way when sober.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 02:34 AM
6

Maybe. But so what? If I was single, and looking, and in this same situation, I would not care at all. If you meet a ton of people, some of them are friendly, some of them aren’t, some want to get to know you better, some don’t. Etc. The trick is don’t expect anyone to do anything and it’s all good. Like none of my sense of myself depends on some strangers reaction to me. Why should I care?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 05:02 AM
2

Maybe. I dunno.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:59 AM
7

Ding ding ding
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 09:54 PM
10

I didn’t evaluate her. I described her.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 09:54 PM
1

You’re totally full of shit, man. There are 74 female CEOs of the top 500 companies in America. Worldwide women make up about 25 percent of political positions of power. Very few women are in religious positions of authority. Got any other avenues of actual power? Name one that women are in control of or even a majority in. All women want is to be ignored when they’re walking down the street and they tell you that again and again. Being targeted and harassed isn’t equal to being ignored, ya mupp…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 04:23 AM
13

Yeah. Women sure have it easy. Jesus fucking Christ, dude. Let me talk to you man to man: if people don’t like you, and you can’t get your shit straight, it’s not because of your gender. It’s because of you. The laundry list of things women have to deal with that men don’t is nearly endless, from catcalls in the street to being locked out of avenues of power, to lower pay for the same work, to not having control of their own bodies, etc etc. Just stop. It’s embarrassing.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 04:00 AM
1

No worries. It’s sometimes a hassle to get mental health care. Hoops you have to jump through, etc. but it’s worth it.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 08:44 PM
0

You probably have medical insurance through your parents. Most insurance covers some mental health counseling.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 08:24 PM
1

You’re 18. An adult.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 08:11 PM
3

Get some psychological help. The problems you’re describing are way above the pay grade of commenters on Reddit.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 05:49 PM
3

Maybe that’s a problem with you? Not men in general?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 01:12 AM
7

No.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 01:31 PM
6

I feel the same way about crime. I mean, if i break into someone’s house, isn’t it their fault for having things I want to steal?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 01:15 AM
1

When I think of what an awesome life you must have, it’s difficult to not feel jealous.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 01:24 PM
1

I’m sure you have a a fulfilling life full of interesting friends who genuinely care about you.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 01:07 PM
2

Sorry. Didn’t realize you’d “dropped the mic.” Lol
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 10:24 PM
2

Im a clown for telling someone the obvious truth? Alright. Hey, we agree. People like being around relaxed, non-judgemental folks that don’t creep anyone out. That’s a fun person to hang out with. I doubt that describes you or him, though.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 10:05 PM
2

You can actually read my comments and you’ll see very quickly that I did not say that or anything like it. I said “people want to be around people who are fun to be around.” I don’t care whether that dude, or you, like it or not. I don’t care whether you believe it or not. Don’t care whether you want to change something or not. Do whatever you want. Fun: lighthearted pleasure.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 09:51 PM
1

“Teh womenz are bad!” Do you ever get bored of yourself?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 05:09 PM
2

If you’re angry that people don’t like being around people who make them uncomfortable, you’re going to be angry for a long time. I didn’t tell anyone to change anything. These are just facts.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 04:00 PM
11

Why would anyone want to be around someone as depressing and obsessed as you are? You’re going to spend your life thinking it’s your looks, your height or your “maxmilla” (whatever that is) but it’s not. It’s that you’re awkward, intense, and unpleasant and you don’t actually have much to offer another person in terms of your personality. People like other people who are fun to be around, and I feel very strongly that you are not.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 10:31 AM
3

It’s unbelievable, yeah. You must be either self-selecting, like hanging around with horrible people, or seeing the world through a cracked lens. You see only the faults in others while not being honest about your own faults, maybe. Women are people. Just like men are people. Some of them are not as nice as others. And that’s really it.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 06:22 AM
1

Are you sure all the interactions took place on the planet earth? Because they don’t sound like any interactions I have ever had with humans.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 01:25 AM
2

Oh! Cool then. Yeah, a lot of women are very forgiving about looks. My entire romantic life depends on that fact. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 06:45 PM
2

Yeah, so you said. In reality, if you’re even a little charming and/or interesting, women will overlook much bigger flaws than the ones you mentioned. People (men and women) are generally not looking for physical perfection. They are looking for someone who values them, and shares their worldview. And if it’s not that deep, they’re looking for someone who is fun to be around. People who are obsessed over their physical appearance are rarely fun to be around. Insecurity leads to awkwardness and a…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 04:07 PM
2

Oh shit! Freckles on your arms?! No woman will overlook this. /s Your insecurity is the problem you need to overcome. Not your looks.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 09:29 AM
-1

Maybe you need to not suck so much?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:54 AM
10

Because sex is intimate and involves vulnerability, acceptance, caring and creating and building a different kind of connection with another person. I don’t know how it’s possible to create something beautiful like that with someone and not develop very strong feelings for them. Creating a boundary by saying “well this doesn’t mean anything” is not easy to do. I’ve never been able to make a FWB situation work out. Other people have I guess. But I don’t know.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:44 PM
25

As long as you’re honest with people you want to hook up with, do whatever. But in my experience, sex is way better within a relationship with someone you care about and know really well. One night stands are a lot less fun than you might think. And FWB can be a complicated situation. In real life, there is no “casual” sex. It’s meaningful.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:31 PM
4

The reason you think you sound nuts to other people is that the ideas you’re expressing are fucking nuts. I mean, really, dude, this is “the sky is green” level delusion. That said, a therapist have heard weirder shit, and you seem to know you’re not fully connected with reality on some level.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:27 AM
32

You need all the therapy. Your entire worldview is mistaken. The people who convinced you they know what women want, and how relationships work, are a self-selected group of people who have trouble with relationships with women. They literally know less about this than any other group of people, but convince themselves (and others) that they’re describing reality. They are not. Get some help.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 06:40 PM
2

If you respected people who told you not to help yourself, I guess you made a mistake. Also: there are non-drug treatments for ADHD. And there are newer ADHD medications that aren’t traditional stimulants too. These are effective for treating ADHD as well. It would take, generously, 15 minutes of reading up on how ADHD is treated to know this.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 01:00 PM
2

Yes. Not treating your health problems is a great way to find harmony. The “strategies” that you get from internet weirdos, are they working out?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 12:57 PM
2

If you have ADHD, you are walking around with a mental disorder. One that’s fairly easily treated. If you want to be a better person, why don’t you start with the most basic self-care imaginable? (Ie: if you have a health problem, you take care of it.) What possible difference would it make what strangers on a message board think?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 12:54 PM
3

Do whatever stupid shit you want for whatever reason. Who gives a shit?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 12:48 PM
5

Do you believe everything internet morons tell you? Like how old are you? ADHD has been extensively researched. There are a number of treatments for it that are safe and very effective. Go to your doctor. Tell them your concern.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 12:44 PM
6

Why wouldn’t you take medication for ADHD? This is the most minimal level “working on yourself” I can imagine.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 12:26 PM
2

You haven’t spoken to three women about anything in your life, man
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:34 PM
2

I could actually feel myself getting dumber as I read this. Like dude, you have never been close to a single actual women, so maybe you’re not an expert on what all women want/think?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:22 PM
8

Check out this thread from r/sex. It’s asking the open ended question “is anyone having amazing sex?” https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/vko482/how_many_of_you_are_actually_having_amazing_sex/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf There are hundreds of replies, and literally not one person says “I’m having great sex because I finally met a guy with a big enough dick!” Instead: just about every comment is “I finally found someone who cares for me and i feel connected to.” This is…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 05:20 PM
22

This is not what I want at all. What the fuck kind of man wants to be condescended to by strangers?
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 07:26 AM
5

What a cop out. We have a moral responsibility not to coerce other people into things if they’re clearly vulnerable. Not to lie and manipulate. And I’d bet anything that the men in this situation knew full well what they were doing, which was basically taking advantage of someone but with a “technicality” that made it not quite illegal (probably.) I really doubt a dude engineering a situation like the one described doesn’t know exactly what he’s doing. Maybe they’re not criminals, but they’re de…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 04:49 AM
3

That’s a tv show, so it isn’t real.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 06:20 PM
2

Man, being stoic/introverted seems like the worst trait for finding women you’d like. I feel for ya. I’m not sure how I’d even approach the whole thing if it’s not “be charming and funny and let the rest take care of itself.”
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 06:19 PM
6

What are you looking for in a partner? Start there.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 03:24 PM
2

You keep talking like “physical attraction” is some objective thing instead of a value judgment. You’re ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 07:42 AM
2

Weird how the age of women you happen to be attracted to are also objectively the best looking. Also weird how all 50 year old men are attracted to the same age woman as you are. It’s almost like you’re projecting your preferences onto everyone else. Because very few men over 30 are interested in teenagers. I mean, I guess there are some weird fucking creeps, but actual functional, normal men are not into women young enough to be their daughters.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 07:39 AM
9

YOU: “[personal bias] is because of evolution.… I am quite smart.”
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 08:39 PM
1

I’m not making fun of you. Sorry if it hurt your feelings, but jeez, man, it’s just the truth. But you’re spreading/believing a harmful philosophy that doesn’t work and is crazy misogynistic.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 09:36 PM
1

Thanks for illustrating my point. You probably aren’t close to any women, but some other dudes who also aren’t close to women cherry picked some dumb social science research because it supported their biases, so now you know what women want better than women themselves do. You got it all figured out. I wonder why you don’t have romantic relationships though? On the other hand, I tend to listen to what women want, believe them, and treat them like humans instead of trying to “figure them out” lik…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 08:37 PM
2

Press releases from internet dating services are solid things to base your worldview upon, especially if they’re popular ones! But when they’re backed up by posts on message boards for socially maladjusted weirdos, it’s unassailable truth.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 08:27 PM
2

The problem is they, by and large, aren’t close to any actual women or they wouldn’t be on websites talking about how to get laid all the time. They’re literally the last men on earth who would have any idea what women want. And they sure don’t listen to what actual women say they want. Women: “I like guys around my age who are funny and cool and have something going on in their lives.” RP men: “impossible! Evolution says blah blah and this study proves that you blah blah and every woman wants a…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 02:14 PM
4

I love that the primary piece of research that supports redpill ideas is a survey from a fucking dating website. The scientific rigor is astounding.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 02:06 PM
26

Lots of fat dudes have partners. Like leave your house sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 10:31 AM
1

She’s likely to lose interest because you’re worrying about how “masculine” you are. It’s inauthentic. Just do your thing.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:56 AM
4

If you have medical insurance, it probably covers some of it. If not, there are public/charitable mental health resources in most places. It’s a hassle to access them and all though. Or you might have to make some sacrifices and either cut way down on your expenses or get a second job to pay for it. Or shit, just get your doctor to prescribe some anti depressants.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 02:31 AM
6

You should get some professional help.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 01:39 AM
1

We actually moved it to dms and had a nice conversation.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 10:13 AM
6

I’m not “suffering” from shit. You’re making up a lot of opinions for me to have. Is there an unjust world fallacy? Because that’s you: “Everything is terrible. Wah.” This is probably untreated depression, btw. Everyone who’s an asshole or a sad sack on the internet says the same thing: “I’m only like this online.” Sure. Lots of socially well adjusted, healthy people spend time online acting like they’re miserable. And if it’s the other way: you’re miserable but you act happy and no one can tell…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 06:06 AM
7

I’m not trying to do anything. So you’re easy-going, fun, always having a good time at social situations, talking easily to women and not being weird and intense. Also: you’re a moderately attractive young man, I assume. I’m sure you recognize that other men with these traits generally do ok with romantic relationships, yeah? Like are you certain you’re being honest? Not with me or the internet, but with yourself? (I read some of your posts and you sound like a fucking downer, tbh.)
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 05:34 AM
14

No offense, but I’ll bet you’re all weird and intense when you talk to women. Like there’s a lot tied up in it for you.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 05:19 AM
15

The world is full of dudes that women like because they’re cool and interesting and fun to the around, whether they’re Prince or Gary.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 05:09 AM
19

People use celebrities as examples because you don’t know my friend Gary. He is probably 5’6” tall and women really like him. Because he’s funny and fearless and is always doing something interesting. He is neither rich nor famous. I’d just be like “what about Gary?” But have to be like “what about Prince?”
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 04:56 AM
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