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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:16 PM
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FDS HUMORFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:44 PM
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FDS MEMESFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:00 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 05:03 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:16 AM
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FDS HUMORFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:48 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!Feministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:01 PM
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DISCUSSIONFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 10:40 PM
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LVM LOGICFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:16 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:27 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:24 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:42 AM
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FDS MEMESFeministtiktok/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:35 PM
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People go crazy for white guys who go to the gym once in their life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:41 PM
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Chris pratt annoyed me instantly I never found him hot and then he divorced the funniest hottest women ever because he thought he could get someone better and I knew he was trash… then he came out as a trump supporter saying he supports Trump despite knowing Trump sexually abused women and trump is racist so I 100% knew this man was absolutely trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:40 PM
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The irony is his family definitely judged her for wearing that dress and not him for damaging her dress. It just made her look bad. Nobody probably knew or cared to blame him because most women wouldn’t tolerate that from a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:50 PM
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She’s really smart to do this. I would have cleaned and kicked him out honestly. I can’t stand filth. But one thing about this that makes me concerned is, is this guy the type of guy who never lived alone? And if he did live alone, was he the bad roommate? It sounds like he never had a bad roommate before. He just always was the worst roommate in a situation. I always say that you cannot be a good roommate until you’ve had bad ones. It helps you learn what it’s like to live with your boundaries …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:49 PM
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Men often ask me what race I am so they can decide to make me their new racial preference as a sick pickup line and it makes me hate men of different cultures even more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:07 AM
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I let my mom see my dating app and she looked more sad by the options of men to choose from. She’s one of those moms who never says anything mean about looks but she did that face 🥴 and said “oh…. Well… well…. This one… has a job at least unlike the rest. oh wait I don’t think that’s a real job. It says he’s a boob inspector.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:06 AM
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Men do that on the 1st date with me or not at all. It’s super weird. Like they have no concept of when it’s normal to ask that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:47 AM
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I forgot about the radical acceptance concept. That’s a good point. Thanks for the advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:00 PM
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You’re sitting next to your ex right now? How did he see this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 08:58 PM
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Honestly uglier men treat me way worse than men who are handsome. I think they know they’re not desirable so they get angry and take it out on women more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:15 PM
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Is there a difference between being shallow and having standards? Because I think they’re the same thing honestly and I think im just having standards. Someone tell me if I’m wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:12 PM
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Oh I am cutting off friends slowly but surely who make me feel that way. I hate it. And it is lonely because I’m going to end up with no friends but I’m not sure if they’re saying it to help me. Is there a difference between being shallow and having standards? Because I think they’re the same thing honestly and I think im just having standards. Someone tell me if I’m wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:12 PM
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I’m a bit of a push over so sadly people so sadly people feel too confident to boss me around. Have you seen princess Diana in interviews? Not in a good way, but she comes across as kind of a pushover: sadly so do I.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:10 PM
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Is there a difference between being shallow and having standards? Because I think they’re the same thing honestly and I think im just having standards. Someone tell me if I’m wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:09 PM
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Well my family is in my life, and yes my mom has flaws but she’s my mom and I love her and do want her in my life. So sadly yes their comments will be there and as much as we can say “ignore others” if everyone is saying the same thing I don’t think it’s that weird for it to get to you eventually. I’d like for it to not get to me, but sometimes I think “ok maybe they’re right. Maybe I am being shallow.” But I don’t see the line of when am I being shallow and when am I just following my standards…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:06 PM
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I’m as bitchy as Khloe kardashian so sorry to be harsh lmao. But honestly I think men like to use women not just physically but emotionally. Like women are their therapists sometimes. Women keep their confidence up. Women are their friends who keep their secrets they can’t tell male friends or they’d seem too girly and weak. Women offer fashion advice. Women are accessories to look cool in public and not like a loner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:21 AM
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He’s lonely and wants the ego boost that someone out there wants him, even if it’s someone he doesn’t love or respect or care if you die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:17 AM
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Bruh u described my bro lmao. And when I moved out, I asked him how often I need to wash bedsheets because my mom was busy. He said once a month. My mom said weekly. Boys are gross dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:16 AM
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Damn they’re not free to use in the US at most universities at all, but at least you don’t need to travel to use them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:15 AM
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Yeah he doesnt sound like he really cares if he bores her or if she leaves him for someone more interesting. I feel like she’s a backup plan that hes not even that excited to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 02:47 AM
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I think people are bad at texting when they don’t really like you that much so they don’t care to talk to you. That’s how I always felt. I wish I blamed the person for being a boring person or being even a bit too dumb to talk about political issues or new science innovations but I always excused it as “oh it’s ME. They just don’t like me. Maybe they’re interesting and smart with everyone but me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 02:46 AM
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I think the first guy got rejected for being rude, and he blamed it on being short. He said she liked him for his looks first then changed her mind. Then he says she’s a 3/10 at best. Something tells me that she didn’t suddenly find him ugly but more likely just found him rude or gross from bad hygiene and he wants sympathy from other guys online so he’s pretending it’s his height alone that made her not like him. And if that was even true then if other women liked you why would it hurt you. It …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:05 PM
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Considering it. Cat callers might want to think twice since women are now getting weapons for self defense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:41 AM
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Idk anything about guns but is it true that they can explode when you try to shoot them if you don’t clean them regularly? Like the gun powder can get clogged is what I heard. I’m afraid of all those technical things could end up endangering me too. Is that a real thing or not really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:08 AM
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Damn then I have no plan then. Idk what to do. It sounds like we just have to be down to fight because leaving the situation clearly isn’t an option anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:06 AM
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If you want to make men understand why a three way isn’t a fun idea and he asks you for one, just say “I’m not gay so I don’t want to have sex with women. You know I’m not gay so are you asking to have another man have sex with me and you at the same time?” Usually the idea of a 3 way with 2 men and 1 woman makes them be like “no way I’d never so gross ew” Like how do you think we feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:29 PM
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It’s ok. And I doubt I was mean to him because if anything I can be a pushover, but I hope I was because he deserved it. I hope I was just as aggro and mean and he claimed. I hope he felt bad because that’s gross and honestly what a loser to be asking me to do free prostitute work for him while I’m in the middle of studying like what a jackass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:24 PM
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I feel like there’s the danger that, what if I was with someone who was super angry? Like instead of just hitting me (which is still bad) they saw I had a gun so it made them want to use more force by shooting or stabbing me before I could do the same. I feel like it opens a door to violent men feeling like they have to use more violent measures to take me down and that idea scares me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:13 PM
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I mean that’s bold to hit on a girl when u know she’s with another guy who could be her bf. But I don’t think that guy even knew you were on a date at all and that’s why he was flirting lol. Men might catcall if you’re alone but they respect other men’s “property” (girlfriends) which is awful and annoying but it’s true that’s how they see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:25 PM
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I don’t even try to get back at them and say I’m better. I just let them think they’re too good for me if that’s what it takes to make them leave me alone lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:21 PM
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Men have done this to me. It makes me so scared. Men who meet me sometimes joke that I’m jumpy and quiet but it’s because so many times men at parties or on the street or when they see others aren’t listening in a friend group have said awful things to me. I remember in college a guy in a LIBRARY asked me for a three way. I said no. So he went around telling everyone how I’m mean, he no longer finds me pretty, and I’m aggressive…. Men make me so angry like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:12 PM
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I’m so scared of guns but sometimes I think I need to just get one because I don’t trust men. I’ve been sexually assaulted and harassed by strangers before so I feel like maybe it’s time to upgrade. I guess I also worry it will take a lot of studying on my end to ensure I am handling the gun safely too so I’m worried I could accidentally make the gun unsafe at my home or with myself if I don’t understand how to use it right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:10 PM
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I hate to say it but I have many times faked not knowing English when men have sexually harassed me and tried to force me to give them my attention or phone number or whatever they’re demanding. They’re usually racist so it works. Sometimes I speak French, sometimes Italian, sometimes Arabic. I’m afraid to speak Spanish because I’m in the US and the chance of someone knowing Spanish is higher so I don’t try that one lol. I’m not fluent in these languages I just learned how to say “I don’t speak …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:08 PM
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I had a feeling he was going to either take a picture of her car’s license plate or something to follow her or key her car but damn he really destroyed it. I sometimes pretend I don’t know English. And if you can, girl I’d fake knowing sign language and pretend I’m deaf. But always make it obvious you have pepper spray because it makes men think twice before trying to assault you because they know they’re less of an easy target. None of this is her fault at all but I wish she had pretended not t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:06 PM
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I mean it’s good to critically think but to refuse to follow any rule just because it’s a rule and you (not you literally, but anyone) decide you’re so smart and powerful only your brain is smart enough to decode morals then you’re just a narcissist 😂 and probably not as smart as you think. But yeah dating dumb isn’t fun but someone doesn’t have to be so anal and self centered thinking they’re smarter than the law in order to be intelligent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:32 AM
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Men openly admit to stealing from their employers? Damn they really trust nobody will tell on them lol. My ex once shared his cousin stole a moscow mule mug from a restaurant, which I judged him and her for (her for doing it, him for not thinking it was bad). But otherwise he seemed aware of why what she did was bad because although the restaurant maybe can afford it they could fire the bartender, waitress, bus boy, dish washer for assuming they’re the ones who stole it or lost it. So it does hu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:30 AM
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That’s not even that hard to remember especially if it’s someone you see often. Like, he’s in a relationship with you, he knows you well, you’re not an acquaintance for him to forget that you’re blind. You’re not asking for too much to expect a partner or friend to remember or accommodate that. I’d understand if it was someone who doesn’t spend much time with you and forgets, but a boyfriend definitely should be spending time with you often so there’s no excuse for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:22 AM
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Who are y’all dating that refuse to even walk next to you? Like damn 😂 I’ve dated some awful dudes but none would have lasted past the 1st date if they didn’t even walk next to me. That’s rude to just walk away from someone. I don’t think an ex and I ever did that unless we were in an argument and even then I doubt we’d walk at different speeds just because that’s super fucking weird and awkward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:20 AM
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I don’t even know what I’d say if I was in your place. Honestly, if you felt safe enough and were in a public area that was safe with lots of people, I’d have ended the date as early as possible. That would ruin my entire night just having to sit through that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:18 AM
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I wish I knew how to make men leave me alone without feeding into their ego but sometimes to shut them up I say stuff like “you’re right. I don’t deserve you. Let’s stop seeing each other.” Just to end it 😂 I had a guy apologize to me that I must have been madly in love with him and I was thinking how, sure I wanted a relationship with somebody but after seeing what a fuckboy he was and how he didn’t treat me that well, I def didn’t have any love for him. I just let him think I did if that’s wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:14 AM
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Stranger probably didn’t think you were on a date even maybe because your body language seemed uninterested in the guy with you. Maybe he assumed it was your annoying brother or friend etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:11 AM
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My mom told me this. She said women didn’t divorce their husbands because women needed them. Like basically women were in positions where they couldn’t leave men or survive without a husband because life would be too difficult due to laws and social pressure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:44 PM
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all these men did was make me decide to never be a ride or die kind of girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 03:49 AM
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Did he really change? I wonder how generous he was before the baby was born. I bet he wasn’t that helpful before the baby was born but that she just didn’t need much help (because no baby) so she didn’t notice how he wasn’t very considerate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:07 AM
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I’m glad you told him that he was being odd. I don’t like that he was targeting women like that and I hope he feels to embarrassed to do it again, but sadly he probably will still be confident enough to try it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:57 AM
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I’d like to think this is just a joke and hopefully not serious because I’d imagine he has the common sense to know that being good at chess isn’t enough to keep a woman interested even if he did genuinely know chess lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:51 PM
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“I like time away from you” “I’m emotionally unavailable” why did you list you’re looking for a relationship? I’m so confused?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 01:36 AM
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Women are killed in the news on dates where women are asked to go for a walk and men keep trying to take us out for a walk. It’s either they’re all idiots or they like the option to be able to commit assault during the date. It freaks me out how many guys try to insist on date ideas where women feel unsafe and secluded and away from public areas to find help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:20 AM
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You put it into words why bdsm is so creepy. It’s just getting horny hurting women. And no consent doesn’t make it ok. It’s abuse. That’s like arguing serial killers probably get consent for killing since they get horny during murders so it’s a fetish. Everyone gives violent rapists the benefit of the doubt and says it’s a harmless kink they cannot control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:42 AM
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I hate when a guy seems so perfect and you Want to believe it’s just that easy, but you just know it’s too perfect. Like it’s got to be fake or an act because it’s just not realistic for a human to have no flaws. It’s happened a few times to me, and usually one the first date or very soon they try to make me be their girlfriend or whatever even and (red flag) they want to lock you down before you have time to know the real them. It sucks because it would be nice to have a whirlwind romance but i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:16 PM
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I don’t like cats. I don’t think that makes you “messed up” to think dogs are more fun than cats. I think most people feel that way tbh, but if you like cats then sure go ahead and buy all the cats your heart desires, but to say you’re a bad person, controlling, and toxic to not like cats is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:31 AM
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I’m a woman…. An adult woman… who has a has a history of posting in THREADS FOR WOMEN PROFESSIONALS IN MEDICAL THREADS??? I feel like every time u don’t agree with any user you fake accuse them of being a man to get them in trouble on this app. Dude u just joined and u try to start fights with users…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:35 PM
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Nobody who posted is a man. Just because I disagree with some men doesn’t mean they’re a man lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:33 PM
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I’m 26 and I’m not new to dating but this makes me feel better that I’m single rn since my friends r getting married 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:13 AM
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BRO THATS WAY WORSE. HE JERKS OFF TO WOMEN IN NORMAL CLOTHES!?? HE PROBABLY BUSTS IN HIS CAR AFTER WAITING IN LINE AT A WALMART BECAUSE THE WOMAN IN FRONT OF HIM IS WEARING LEGGINGS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:12 AM
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If it’s a normal convo, I think it’s just a normal FaceTime. But I find it weird neither of you don’t just use a normal all like FaceTime or Snapchat?? Why don’t you just meet in person or talk on the phone? It sounds like you don’t know this man well and met him on the internet, so I don’t love that you’re doing video chats with a total stranger. If you don’t want to do video chats, don’t. I sounds like you get creepy vibes. Listen to that intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:10 AM
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“I got a black leather 1980s style couch that is an exact replica of the pornHub casting couch. Chicks will never know bro.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:08 AM
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I think that you guys feel special when an asshole animal shows you affection after previously rejecting you. I don’t really like cats because they’re kind of mean lol. They try to make you feel unwelcome and rejected. They’re smart but malicious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:04 AM
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Anyone who likes cats usually has no concept of respecting others and is selfish, so I’m not surprised at all that he said he likes that his pet makes his guests uncomfortable by rejecting them and making them feel unwelcomed which makes him in turn feel more special to be loved. Cat people make me feel bad for them because often they’re the introverts who want to feel loved but are not often so only a quiet animal like a cat gives them attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:01 AM
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Cats purposefully act like assholes to everyone but their owner. That’s normal for people to not like cats because their an animal that are not a team player lmao. Cats tend to only attract introverts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:58 AM
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The cases I’ve heard the women are still single or the men don’t even know that the relationship status of the women because they lost contact with the women or are too afraid to even investigate to find out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:45 AM
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Lmao I like that he didn’t even consider that he could have treated her nicely during the relationship instead of waiting for it to get bad to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:43 AM
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Reminds me of The Catcher In The Rye refusing to see the girl he claimed to love from his past because he knew she probably matured and changed and he didn’t have any interest in getting to know the new her or find out if what she was like now that they grew up. I hated the main character so fucking much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:12 AM
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Why don’t they just ask those women to be their girlfriends again? I’m serious. I hear of that too and when I ask men why they don’t ask the women to go back to them, they refuse to answer me ???? Like ??? Wtf is going on???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:25 PM
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I just don’t understand why men think they love these women so much, why they don’t just try to be a better boyfriend and try to make it work with these women? I feel like they admire the women from afar, acting like they’re perfect together but won’t do anything anymore it which has me thinking they actually know neither of them love each other in reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:24 PM
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Id be scared he’d think I was a prostitute or worse, a free prostitute aka fwb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:38 PM
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She was only 25. That’s so young. I’m glad this was shared just because she deserves to have her legacy heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:56 PM
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FDS should be pro choice so I’m not sure why they had a woman against any choice on there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:03 AM
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I imagine their kids find their dad and step mom to be an embarrassment and choose to only visit their real mom when they can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:01 AM
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I didn’t know he was autistic. I did know hes not an engineer but pretends he had an engineering degree which I find weird since he doesn’t design shit not does he need too since he’s just the billionaire who funds and idea he bought from someone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:59 AM
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This guy seems like he’s uptight and judgmental but describes himself as “chill” and genuinely thinks he goes with the flow. I think he’s unaware of how weird he comes across in this post lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:03 AM
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People pretend it’s cute when a man is jealous to give men permission to be controlling and make it seem like an adorable quality. It’s not ok and it’s not cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:00 AM
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That explains why Elon musk is so weird. Sounds like he had a pretty messed up childhood if his dad is out there having sex with his own daughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:23 AM
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I didn’t even click the link but my first thought is how huge was this man to need that much food from a cheap taco restaurant like that’s enough to feed probably 100 people with that money Edit: finished it and I’m shocked how I was right that $160 buys exactly 100 tacos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:18 AM
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I’d take screenshots and walk straight into an attorneys office before I confront him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:33 PM
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The anger and controlling attitude that comes with insecure short men is 100% the reason I don’t date short men anymore lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:15 PM
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I’m glad ur with a high value partner! I’m happy for you. You deserve to be happy 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:14 PM
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My friend is short and the times taller men have asked her on dates, she learned they had pedophile fetishes and wanted her to pretend to be a school girl child in bed or something. Big red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:13 PM
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Same I like tall men but I’d like to know more about them than just their looks. Like did he go to school? Does he have hobbies? Is he bilingual? Just listing height gives me the vibe that they only care about looks and sex and assume women also only care about looks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:12 PM
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My brother doesn’t care that his gf car pools to work with male coworkers sometimes. Obviously he offers to drive her and likes to be there for her but he doesn’t control her like she’s on a leash. He lets her be an adult and make her own choices. My point in sharing that is to let you know that that level of jealousy and control is NOT normal. And my brother loves his gf like he plans to propose to her so him not being a controlling dick isn’t because he doesn’t care about her enough, despite w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:10 PM
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I think they’re jealous other men found a woman they clearly love while they can’t seem to find that so they just run around calling other men whipped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:23 PM
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It sounds like he should just have sex with other dudes if he’s so grossed out by women’s anatomy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:15 PM
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I feel like he should have wrote this in a diary this is a weird thing to tell others it’s like the weirdest backhanded compliment. Imagine if women went around going “my boyfriend is so cute. He has the most hideous voice. It’s so awful nobody would ever love it or want to hear it, and I think it’s ugly too, but I still love him anyway and I love his voice regardless” like wtf that’s so weird to say. That’s some weird thought meant for his diary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:38 PM
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I agree. It’s “cute” how hideous her singing is to him now but it’ll be annoying later and he’ll be mean to her for it when that happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:36 PM
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It’s a backhanded compliment it’s weird so I’m like not sure if he’s accidentally being rude because he’s awkward himself or what but maybe he’s just awkward idk what’s going on but this post should have been for his diary not the internet lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:35 PM
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I feel like this is one of those things meant for a diary but he’s a man who refuses to do that and posts it online and it’s like a backhanded compliment and we’re like “uhhh idk what to do with this information bro this is one of those private thoughts ur not supposed to share”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:34 PM
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Something about the way he wrote it almost sounds like he’s slightly mad about it but it’s weird because it’s anon so he can be honest and admit it annoys him so maybe he just is really bad at knowing how to not sound like a dick when he’s trying to say how he likes his fiancé? There’s a cute way to word it that your fiancé is a bad singer and sings anyway but the way he wordered it was almost like “hahaha she’s so bad. It makes me wanna die. It makes me miserable. It’s so cute. Love it. So fuck…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:32 PM
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I can’t imagine even letting a man marry me if I was only 22 in the first place. I always said I’d never get married before 30. I’m 26, and I’m not wasting my 20s on a man who could end up being temporary or divorced later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:23 PM
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He probably is basically a sugar daddy paying for everything for her and she’s just in it for the $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:21 PM
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He thinks he’s done work to stop racism yet he get horny and excited to use racial slurs against black people and pretend they’re his slaves? Yeah I don’t think that he solved racism or understand he has racism deeply imbedded into him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:20 PM
9

Mike Pence would never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:32 AM
11

I wear a size 10 which is big but men weirdly often say I have pretty feet (WHICH DISGUSTS ME) so my point is this obsession with small feet being the only feet to look normal or okay is I guess untrue. But also I think normal men don’t really look or care about your foot because that’s fucking gross and I wouldn’t want some dude looking at my foot anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:28 AM
5

I had to Google it. I had no idea either. It refers to guns basically he wants a woman who either shoots guns or maybe is okay with the fact he shoots guns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:26 AM
4

I don’t date Republicans. If that offends you, i don’t think you should be in this subreddit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:17 AM
17

A white guy tried to bond with me (an Arab) over how much he hates Arabs by pointing at an Indian woman and saying how she doesn’t belong here in America. He didn’t know Arabic people have lighter skin and got the 2 ethnic groups mixed up. 😂 my condolences if that’s ever happened to you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:59 PM
27

Yusra Mardini is a (now) famous Syrian refugee who had to swim across the sea pushing a boat to save her family. She was just a teen. She was recruited for the Olympics when Europe found out because she basically swam way farther than olympians normally do in order to do that. Her Instagram comments make me want to cry because it’s not of people saying how inspiration she was to almost drown to death as a Syrian child to save her family but how hot her butt is to horny American men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:55 PM
8

If you become an angry idiot like a does man no one will take a woman seriously. Be better than a man: be a calm leader like a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:52 PM
90

I know an dude who calls me a “spicy lady” because I’m ethnic and I think men think women enjoy being referred to as exotic and not compared to being a basic blonde woman but oh boy are they… so wrong… and stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:34 PM
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Please don’t take this in a mean way but it’s just funny to me because men are so gross 😂 I’m Syrian and before nobody knew what Syria was in America I was happier in the US. Now suddenly there’s REFUGEE PORN. dudes r gross. Welcome to the club babe American dudes are horny and get bored of their own blonde women (and their own blonde women don’t even want them back either) but certainly we don’t want them lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:33 PM
3

Nah i feel u. I think OP felt the same if u read her first reaction. I think the girl wanted to believe she was just so smart and talented that she got the role for her skills to feel good. Now she feels violated and probably like she’s not as skilled at her job as she thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:40 PM
9

Men who assault anyone are absolute losers but when they do it to kids it makes me more angry like Jesus Christ it’s a child. So pathetic they have to pray on kids who still do homework and have bedtimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:39 PM
6

Yes always stand your ground. Don’t yell but in a nice tone say what you deserve and what is fair. You can do that without being like an angry man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:36 PM
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Yeah I always keep an arms length from male workers. Never ever assume innocent intentions. The times I have I’ve been sexually assaulted every time. No more giving the benefit of the doubt to any male coworkers or male bosses. I’d rather work for women but companies keep putting ugly men in power so sadly it’s not avoidable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:34 PM
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Statistics show that’s true sadly “Why men leave a sick spouse can be partly explained by their lack of ability, compared to women, to make more rapid commitments to being caregivers to a sick partner and women's better ability to assume the burdens of maintaining a home and family, the study authors said.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:29 PM
134

My mom almost committed suicide because she was in an arranged marriage to my father who neglected her needs emotionally, physically, sexually, everything. He was not a good husband. Everyone liked him and thought he was fun to talk to but he was never a good dad or husband. My brother and I as 5 year olds saw a commercial for antidepressants and asked our mom to take them repeatedly because we said “mommy were scared you’ll drown yourself in our pool.” And she said that’s what made her realize …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:27 PM
30

So he just assumed she was having fun making sacrifices and doing whatever he needed and her ignoring her needs? Men really think that some women are just “more chill” when really they’re too depressed to say anything lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:22 PM
33

I’m going to start rubbing my goopy vagina on the floor like a snail when I’m horny so that I can demand sex the way men do when they rub their boners all over the place and poke u with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:59 PM
5

This sounds like it could be a key and peele sketch I wanna see it acted out now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:57 PM
61

This post seriously made me not want to date anymore. I wish I was joking. The idea of having to have sex with a man and be surprised to find out he’s bad in bed is not a disappointment I wanna handle lol. I’d be mean and I’m gunna destroy a man’s self esteem if he doesn’t make me cum again lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:46 AM
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Women everywhere should do this. Don’t want marriage or kids with a sexist ugly guy who won’t help? No need to make ourselves marry sexist ugly guys like our mothers and grandmothers had to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:29 AM
12

I think the majority of Koreans absolutely spend lots of their income to ensure they look professional and fit the image needed to compete with other employees. Image absolutely affects the type of job you can get there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:07 AM
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South Korea is famous for women spending a bunch of money on makeup, plastic surgery, cosmetic treatments, spas, and any kind of beauty treatments. Plastic surgery isn’t viewed as taboo or a bad thing there. It’s viewed as casual as makeup: if you can afford it, they believe one should get any beauty treatment done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:18 AM
12

I’m really glad you shared this. I think you showed a lot of proof and stats and I’m sure Korean women are happy to have their concerns voiced and heard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:16 AM
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Honestly if they didn’t complain about their height as much or make women feel bad for wanting to wear high heels, I think more women would be more comfortable dating shorter men. Often shorter men tell women they’re not allowed to wear high heels or how they wish their average heighted girlfriend was shorter to make her feel like her height is the problem to draw attention away from his shortness. I gave short men a chance before and they were so rude to me and I’m only 5’5”. They’d control how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:31 PM
8

most US presidents didn’t even hit 5’10” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:27 PM
11

“I’m cheating with a younger woman and I pay her for sex and nudes otherwise she refused to talk to me or visit me. She is not an escort.” Dude that’s literally exactly what prostitution is. I’m curious now since this is what he thinks normal dating is how the hell did he meet his current girlfriend that he’s cheating on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:29 PM
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This subreddit makes me feel like I’m not crazy for seeing sexism in little things like this. I always felt like nobody saw it but me because nobody ever talked about it around me. Thank god it’s not just in my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:02 AM
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I had an ex say “oh my friends share pics of girls they find hot but I don’t do it” ???? then why would they share it with you if you never do it back? You expect me to believe they just are having a conversation with themselves without you answering? And even if that were true (which it’s not), then get a backbone and tell ur friend to stop being weird and stop sending you creepy pics. Imagine if women did that. That’d weird me out if my friends sent me pics of porn and sexted with me about wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:27 PM
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I’m surprised he admitted the truth to her. Tbh i feel like this would be difficult to explain so I could see most people not bothering to explain it to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:38 PM
2

I never did a vision board. Do you feel it helps you move towards your goal? And do you have to put it in a public space where you’ll see it all the time or can you just tuck it away and pull it out from time to time? The closest thing to a vision board I’ve done is Pinterest lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:35 PM
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I always say mine is gifts just to see if the guy is the type to call women gold diggers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:23 AM
5

Is this a vision board?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:21 AM
14

DJ Khaled voice you played yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:52 AM
122

Maybe he’s bad at sex if she thinks a piece of lifeless plastic is better then her own boyfriend lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:45 AM
25

I’ve been telling guys who ask me out for drinks “sorry I don’t do drink dates” or “I don’t do low effort dates” if they ask why and they often snap at me over text saying I’m rude, how I must think I’m so perfect or I think I know them…. Am I going about this wrong?? Or are they low effort and mad they got exposed for asking me on a shitty date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:44 AM
9

Dude is mad women are scared of him like he needs to understand he’s prob accidentally coming across as creepy and standing too close, scowling, brooding in the corners, staring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 09:27 PM
5

Dude is mad women are scared of him like he needs to understand he’s prob accidentally coming across as creepy and standing too close, scowling, brooding in the corners, staring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 09:27 PM
83

Men for me usually don’t come back but that’s because they sense I don’t love or respect them anymore LOL and I think it’s too much of an ego hit for them to ever try again with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:46 PM
20

Yeah no…. I mean there’s times when I’m freshly single where I’m like “ugh I wish my ex didn’t mistreat me or lie to me or scream at me until I was afraid for my physical safety or had to call the police. Things could have been different if he wasn’t like that but I have to accept he is like that.” but I’m pretty sure that’s not the same feeling he has lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:45 PM
1

That’s literally what prejudice means
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:00 PM
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WOC deserve to have a man who’s high value and fits their preferences. That’s sad she’s with some older, cheap, white guy who probably lurks on younger girls because women his own age don’t want him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:53 AM
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Honestly i did try these types of dates and it’s so sweaty, so uncomfortable, so sweaty, smelly, it’s just gross. It’s not fun. Personally i like to workout hard and I don’t want anyone I’m actually attracted to seeing that because it’s disgusting and my face is red. And I wouldn’t be flattered if a guy tried to talk to me like that I’d be annoyed hes interrupting my alone time lol. I don’t see why guys think working out or walks are romantic. They’re probably the worst way to get to know someon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:50 AM
5

Wait maybe I am behind on the story but I didn’t know there was a video before her death. I know she’s a blogger so I believe it. Can u share the link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:34 AM
13

I’m just guessing and have no information anymore than you but something about reading the post gave me the impression that they give each other their passwords
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:26 AM
22

I get the feeling that despite them being married, having a well paying job, and a baby on the way, her husband has never been the provider type to pay for her on dates or help her with bills. To steal $3,000 from your pregnant wife when she’s vulnerable, I imagine he’s always been that low and getting away with that type of behavior but on a smaller scale
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:24 AM
23

The dude is probably like 14 or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:40 PM
53

I always said that sugar daddies was meant to be women getting to get money without having to do anything in return and mankind ruined it by disobeying mother nature by making viagra LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:32 PM
2

Even if he was abnormal guy or a high value guy, personally I don’t like mixing my work with my personal life. That saying “don’t shit where you eat” is true. I think that breaking up or getting too personal with your career makes things messy and I value my career too much to risk that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:16 PM
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My exes don’t know I faked it so many times because it was so bad I wanted it to end. I promised myself to never ever get into a relationship with a guy I didn’t find physically attractive anymore. I kept trying to be the nice girl who didn’t care about looks and wasn’t shallow, but I wasn’t fair to myself because it made me not want to have sex with my boyfriends because I didn’t find them that attractive since I was settling since everyone insisted looks aren’t all that matters in a relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:56 PM
3

Although there are more Asian humans on the entire planet, that is still not true due to racism. However I see I found the trump supporter lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:42 PM
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I feel bad for her son but yeah this sounds like it would be super unfun and make work so awkward. I’d maybe tell her that you want to keep work professional and not cross over into personal lives, but that you suggest maybe he tries match making services, speed dating, and dating websites if he’s interested in putting himself out there again. I know people who’ve gotten married from Tinder, so it happens. But that’s very normal for her generation to set her kids up with other people, as awkward…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:08 AM
1

I cut out my dad when I was a kid because he was abusive to my mom and super sexist. He told me women shouldn’t go to college and didn’t let my mom use her college degree either. anyway, I have a college degree lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:04 AM
133

When I was a teenager and older guys hit on me I was aware they were doing it because they hoped I’d have low self esteem and be flattered by it. My parents didn’t even warn me I just knew. Maybe I was too pessimistic but I was right 😂😂😭 adult me can confirm that I knew what was going on. Even in middle school I remember Boys suddenly wanting to hug me a lot and although I was lonely I suspected I shouldn’t. I never knew why but I suspected it was because I started to grow boobs and the boys wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:58 AM
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Tbh idk why they like teenage girls so much because I don’t like teenage boys. I don’t get it. I feel like most men are actually genuinely pedophiles because so many defend pedophilic thoughts. I am 26 and I never have looked at a 16 year old boy and found him sexy. Ever. Not once. I don’t understand how they find kids sexy and I’m closer in age to these kids more than men in their 30s. I think we just allow men to be excused from sexualizing women and kids saying “boys will be boys” as if they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:55 AM
6

I miss FDS memes! Did FDS remove the ability to post them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:50 AM
7

I don’t know I mean I’m not black so I can’t speak if if that’s culturally normal or not to say “brother” or “sister” to someone you’re not related to or dated. I don’t really understand it, but I’ve heard in movies before people saying “my brother” or claiming someone is a “cousin” when in actuality people aren’t related in any way. It could be a one time thing that one person did that was odd or a culturally normal thing. I’m not sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:17 PM
25

Did you pay for things for him before because he said he won’t ask for money and the fact he said that bluntly has me worried he used you in the past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:13 PM
13

Jame Charles: hey sisterrrrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:12 PM
2

Translation: women deserve to be attracted to their partner and not feel like they are settling on a man they don’t really fully even want 🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:07 AM
14

Everyone is on online dating now. Low value and high value men are on it. It’s very out dated and old fashioned to think that only losers are on dating apps. Like EVERYONE is on dating apps I mean literally everyone. You don’t have to use them by all means if you don’t want to but I’ve met a high value guy on it before and so have my friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:03 AM
1

I don’t see why she won’t post this on her own Reddit account?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:30 AM
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If you want to remove emotion out of who should pay for dates: men still get paid more than women. Ethnic women get paid even LESS than white women. Why should a woman pay on a date when she isn’t even paid equal at work? It’s simply not fair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:29 AM
16

Damn that title was almost a poem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:14 AM
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I did it once and when the guy texted me I was so turned off at the idea I had to give my number to him because he seemed too shy to ask me that I told him “oh sorry I don’t like you like that. Just looking for friends.” Even though I was flirting before he took my number. And to any men who think I lead him on: I didn’t. I actually did think I might like him which is why I flirted, then as we talked, I realized I hated his personality and that he wasn’t even cute he just was the only guy who wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:42 PM
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I’m not going to lie I cannot tell you how many times I thought a guy was super cute and he moved his mask and I found him super ugly. This happened more than once. I stopped trusting any feeling of thinking a man is cute in a mask now because the shock of get when they adjust it and it show their goatee, crooked teeth, big nose, or weak law line, has made me realized the mask hides a lot lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:38 PM
22

I guarantee you he’s being rejected left and right on tinder as we speak. Don’t even let the idea make you sad because it probably is hurting his self esteem more than helping it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:41 AM
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First of all, men who say “female” because the word “woman” makes them uncomfortable are so weird to me. I just want to say that. Why is the word woman so scary for men to say? I don’t go around saying “the male breed, the male species, this creature…” Men who think women don’t deserve equal respect typically are insecure and want to overpower women to feel better about themselves. I don’t think that’s a secret to anyone, even themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:39 AM
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They said women need to get permission from their boyfriends to be allowed to save money. It’s so sexist. Nobody says men need permission from their girlfriends to make decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:32 AM
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Did they just say a woman not getting permission from her boyfriend to save HER OWN earned money is just as bad as having a sexual affair? WTF. He doesn’t own her. Why does she need his permission? It’s her money. Her job. Her bank account. Nobody says this stuff to men. The fact nobody even sees how sexist this is makes me so livid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:31 AM
2

Should I avoid marriage or prenup or what can I do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:10 AM
9

He got mad at me and I was younger back then so I didn’t let it show but him being mad at me gave me the same anxiety when a teacher is mad at a student. I felt like I was in trouble 😭 This is why I don’t like older men. Even if it’s just 10 years, I don’t want someone who’s going to try to use their age against me like I’m a little kid who must obey them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:41 PM
17

I’m new here so can someone explain to me how to always be vetting without cheating? I guess I don’t understand where the line is. I know men often still flirt with other women while in a relationship, but to me I hate that. Am I supposed to do the same?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:18 PM
25

My family is from Australia too and they were shocked when they saw my apartment in the US. They said it could go for a million dollars there which shocked me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:33 AM
10

I feel like a roommate could be because they don’t like to be totally alone or it’s their best friend and they really enjoy each other’s company. That doesn’t bother me assuming they have nice furniture and are both clean. Living with parents, I don’t exactly think I could do for one reason: I want to be able to have sex without his parents being there and I don’t think I’m asking for too much. I think that sadly in the US the student debt crisis has people trapped at home. Even from the 2008 re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:31 AM
10

Thanks I’m seeing a therapist and trying to help myself. I’m also recovering from an eating disorder at the same time which is my biggest goal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:27 AM
21

I want to be like you too. I’m newly broken up, and I want to date again and be in love, but I think if I wait some time I’m more likely to grow and need a man less. Good for you. I notice usually if I wait a while before I date, I end up finding more quality men because I’m more patient. When I rush into it after a relationship, I can be more clingy and wanting anyone to fill that spot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:51 AM
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It doesn’t mean he can’t ever redeem himself. Maybe he will. But that’s for him to work on. In the mean time, date other guys. Honestly I notice when I date other men somehow men treat me way better. Most likely I act like I don’t need them as much because I have other potential boyfriends which makes them step up their behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:49 AM
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I don’t know why, but always whenever i agree to be a man’s girlfriend he drops the high value act and starts treating me like I’m stuck with him so he can slack off and be a bad boyfriend. Before they’re my boyfriend, they’re on their best behavior. The moment I agree to be in an exclusive relationship, the men don’t care. I have a feeling this guy feels like he has you and that’s why he’s doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:47 AM
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I had a man in his 30s come up to me when I was 21 in a grocery store. He made me take my earbuds out. I did. He just said he saw me on tinder. I said “ok” and put them back in. And he got soooo mad at me 😂 first of all, he was too old for me. And 2nd of all, if we matched on the dating app you’d have been able to talk to me. You couldn’t talk to me, so take that as your sign I don’t want you. Why bother a woman in public who refused to match with you on a dating app. Let alone one who’s clearly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:51 PM
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What I wish I could tell that girl is sadly there’s lost of men on Reddit who are not good guys and would want to defend her boyfriend because to judge her boyfriend would be to judge themselves for their own creepiness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:35 PM
6

Honestly for his wife’s sake, sure he should divorce her. She deserves better. I don’t think he is ever going to be the honest, loyal husband she deserves. He has no interest in taking care of his family or honoring his vows, so for her sake I think he should break up before he ends up hurting her even more because I don’t think he’s ever going to get his act together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:12 PM
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I learned this the hard way. I 100% agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:38 PM
9

I actually heard of this subreddit too from a post about a boyfriend saying it was a red flag his gf was part of this Reddit and I wanted to see what this was and I thought this was a normal feminist group. I didn’t see why he was being a baby about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:23 AM
8

I’m feeling like I want a relationship but burned out from trying dating apps lately. Anyone else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:22 AM
7

Usually that’s what happens in my relationships is they start off with the guy trying hard to impress me then after I’m their official girlfriend they suddenly treat me worse and don’t care for my feelings. I guess they think I’m stuck with them and won’t leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:41 PM
9

I wonder if he got comfortable that you were in a relationship with him and he stopped trying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:11 PM
13

I actually always mention every time I have a period just because I want to see if they are the type to take care of me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:10 PM
7

I’ve tried long distance relationships in serious and casual dating and it never ever works for me. I’m against it at this point personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:48 PM
14

Pretty sure yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:37 PM
17

Men are upset women are leveling up and instead of also leveling up and becoming more educated and useful to society and their family they blame women for not being as lazy and pathetic as them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:02 PM
40

Military men are so rude to women it’s so weird. I guess they learn it because they think being a “tough man” is only what’s valuable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:43 AM
16

Ew dude is snappyyyy he is so sassy. I don’t give out my number on dating apps or men I meet irl either because you can find someone’s address with a phone number. I only let them have a social media I don’t use and locked down on privacy like a side Instagram or an abandoned Snapchat account. And that’s IF I like them after talking to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:41 AM
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At least he knows he’s a moron
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:01 AM
17

Wait did you think Andy was a catch when you watched it the first time?????? There’s no way even before FDS anyone could think that. The dude is mentally retarded and eats off a frisbee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:00 AM
5

Honestly that’s so disgusting I have no words to explain how reading that makes me feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:35 AM
16

I think you can have a good life and use dating apps. It’s not like you can’t be social or have hobbies while on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:55 PM
1

Idk where that quote is from but I don’t think it was from me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:28 PM
6

I just checked it. I’m in the Midwest and it’s only showing me guys in NYC. I guess nobody even in other big cities near me like Chicago or Detroit or Philly use it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:02 PM
14

How many men did you meet from friends of friends and being social? I love my job but I also feel like choose an almost woman only industry really makes dating so hard. It’s not like my friends at offices who work with men. It’s just women at my job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:12 PM
9

I never heard of it. I’m in the US. Is it an American app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:44 PM
22

What’s it called?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:35 PM
39

My friends don’t know men who are worth dating or they’d have dated them themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:28 PM
27

Isn’t it easier to find men who fit my requirements online? Like I want a guy who’s tall, educated, fit, actually attractive, has nice teeth, has High paying job, and maybe even is bilingual. When I tried to date in person my entire life guess how many I found? 0. I find some sometimes online, so I don’t know how dating in person is supposed to help when it’s never worked for me in the past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:57 PM
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But I work in nursing with only women and with covid my social life to meet strangers is in the toilet 🥲 I can’t meet men who aren’t patients any other way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:03 PM
8

I’m ok with an old man rejecting them because I don’t want them either. I’ll gladly accept their refusal to date me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:25 PM
6

The irony is that’s true. I remember towards the end of our relationship, he wouldn’t even cuddle me at night. He’d turn his back to me. It made me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:21 PM
24

I blocked every ex I ever had. At first, we did talk a bit after the breakup but I blocked him. A family death happened, and he made it clear I was not a priority to him. I needed him, and he felt like going to do other things like go to the gym and go to a soccer game. He also told me I’m an ugly crier (half as a joke) but not something to say to someone dealing with recent death. I didn’t want to talk to him ever again after that. It was such a betrayal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:25 PM
9

I’m sure you hear this a lot so I’m sorry if it’s annoying, but I really think a therapist would help you. Addiction is dangerous and I don’t want it to hurt you physically or mentally. Even talk to your doctor, as they have other resources and support groups they can connect you with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:34 AM
13

It’s not fair at all to you but for your own comfort I think it might not be a bad idea to delete your social media. You can maybe remake it with a new username or nickname so it’s harder for him to find you on a private account. I’ve done that maybe once or twice if I didn’t want creepy men to find me. It’s not fair to you but I want you to feel safe that the guy won’t find you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:25 AM
34

“I’m just nervous… can you give me a blow job while I’m soft to help me get hard again?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:20 AM
32

Oooo I don’t like him girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:16 AM
18

I’m scared of men who say their feminist because the amount of pretend to be to seduce women is terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:13 AM
12

Now that is something I can get behind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:05 AM
12

Tbh I don’t think she’s real. Especially the model part. If that makes you feel any better, he sounds like a liar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:04 AM
15

Damn what a slut to have a guy try to cheat on his gf with your ear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:42 AM
22

I’m going to tell you I jerk off to your pictures on a first date and get upset when you’re shocked by that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:32 AM
19

What if I send a dick pic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:24 AM
15

i assure you i plan to make no changes and will be just as disappointing now in my 30s as when I’m 90 babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:24 AM
2

I’m glad you broke things off when you lost love for that man, but for the future your life would be easier if you cut things off with your ex. For taxes, get an accountant and answer the questions on your own without the ex involved. You’re not going to get a HVM if you’re always hanging out with your ex. especially if your kids are older, there’s not really a need since you don’t have to balance custody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:16 AM
18

I hit all the women prostitutes with my car when I play grand theft auto because women aren’t people and killing them is fun 🚬😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:53 PM
69

LMAOOOOOOO IM DEAD!!!!!! damn sometimes younger guys come at me it makes me wonder maybe I should give the 24 year old a chance but also I don’t want someone immature but guys my age are with younger women so maybe it’s my only choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:33 PM
115

I’m 26 and I’m too old for men in their 50s LOL I’m serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:16 PM
164

Same. Yes men will call me shallow and a bitch for not kissing a man I don’t find attractive, but I’d rather be a happy bitch than a miserable “nice girl”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:29 PM
102

You better pay you gold digger. Wanting a whole free cheap greasy pizza.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:13 PM
124

I’m willing to yell at you until you cry when I get angry then blame you for being too sensitive. Otherwise that’s all I can offer a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:35 PM
239

I cannot tell you how many bad dates I sat through and even let the ugly guys kiss me because I didn’t want to be called a bad person for not offering my body for a kiss to men who hurt my feelings and made me unhappy on a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:29 PM
109

I need nudes first baby 😍 wanna send me some? I won’t show anyone except my friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:27 PM
253

I’ve been paying pick up artists to teach me how to emotionally destroy women so they settle for me 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:26 PM
187

Oh my god please tell me at the very least if you didn’t run away in the middle of the date that you didn’t go on a 2nd one. No judgment because I got into a relationship with a guy who fit none of my standards and was ugly before because I didn’t want to be called shallow by my fake friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:19 PM
9

FDS can be applied to LGBT women too. I’m glad to see that you could someone who is equal to you, both high value women showing care and making an adventurous lifestyle together. A lot of bisexual women say once they date a woman they don’t want to return back to men because (as I’m sure you discovered) women have a lot of perks and understanding that men just don’t provide anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:13 PM
95

You’ll be paying for yourself on our date. Bonus points if the whore pays for me too because it shows she submissive to me and wants a man a lot 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:10 PM
383

I only want woman under 5’3” she has to be Asian, under 100 pounds, have a “yoga booty,” be into gross kinks that would make me ashamed to admit to my family and friends, cook, clean, and under 21 years old. I come from a racist family so she has to not speak good English either to be unable to hear the racial slurs we call her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:08 PM
477

I was thinking of doing a cheap date, and I figured since I invited her to it she’d know I want her to pay for herself. Bonus points if she pays for me. If she expects me to pay for a $4 coffee, she is a gold digger. She’s also a horrible person and lead me on if she doesn’t come back to my place with me for sex after coffee. It’s rude to take advantage of my time and not touch my weenie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:02 PM
9

I actually like when I’m a bit moody or somehow annoying and a guy finds a way to make it less serious and turn it into a joke at his expense instead of being offended by me being sassy. If he’s Like “I’m serious. Obey me. Don’t you dare defy me” I hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:58 PM
541

“Women who go after looks are bad people and shallow. Hot sexy women who look like models should tolerate you being ugly or it makes those women bad people”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:57 PM
157

Should I compare it to an object like a Coca Cola can so she thinks it’s bigger than 4 inches?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:56 PM
152

Chicks don’t appreciate how much time and skill it takes to win these games 😩 All they do is powder their boobs or nose or whatever /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:09 PM
7

Men will date many woman at once. Why do you want to be the only one being loyal to a guy who isn’t loyal to you? He’s not your boyfriend, so he’s going to date other women behind your back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:45 PM
61

Women can orgasm. If she does not, that means her partner is bad at sex. The end. No question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:38 PM
18

A first date is a man showing you the best he can be. It’s him trying to show you he can take care of you, entertain you, and show you a good time as for a reason for you to pick him out of all the other guys you’re seeing. If the best he can do is a $3 coffee date, imagine how low effort he gets when he isn’t on his best first date behavior. That’s the idea. Like if a guy tries to take you to do something you like is important because he’s supposed to show he can provide that for you. Like, if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:17 PM
10

Casual dates are so boring. I don’t want to go on the same date with the same guy over and over. They’ll blur into one glob of mediocre lol. I don’t know how women go on the same date over and over again. And I agree that men will lie and fake to what they need to say to sleep with you! If you admit you want a relationship, some will lie just to make you think that they want a relationship too so you’d be more willing to sleep with them. It’s a difficult thing to balance because I cannot tell yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:02 PM
23

To copy what u/sikulet “Coffee dates are low value triggers because it is very low investment on the males. Secondly since males love business terms, you misunderstand how valuable female attention is to them. By allowing yourself to be placed on a coffee date value, you’re lowering the minimum price for your availability.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:54 PM
12

I really like how you explained this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:53 PM
32

Same. If he isn’t playful enough to handle my emojis idk if I want him lol. Some people are more serious. Some are more playful. It’s not right or wrong but I like emojis from time to time. I just find it weird if they send me 😘😍 and I never met them lol. It feels like something a boyfriend would do, not a guy I’m barley dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:52 PM
75

being mad at a woman for going through a cheating man’s phone is just a way to deflect away from him being the bad person. “Oh you found out I’m a pedophile and have kidnapped a few kids? Well… you’re the bad person for finding out! You shouldn’t have gone through my phone. You should apologize to me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:18 PM
14

I am so sorry that happened to you. Honestly waiting until you’re fully in love and have total trust with a man makes sex (and all sexual things) so much better. It will take time to find a man like that, but never have any sexual contact that you don’t want. When a guy treats you well, and makes you feel super valued and loved and you genuinely find him sexy and attractive too, your body and mind will relax and enjoy doing sexual things. I survived R too. It took me 4 years to finally accept an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:26 AM
85

“She’s dead” reminds me of that Taylor Swift song where they’re like “oh you miss the old Taylor? She’s dead.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:38 PM
68

I am so glad you didn’t give in to his lame ass idea of a date (if you can even call it that.) you deserve so much more and there’s men who are willing to put in real effort. The first date is them on their best behavior and if boring cheap pizza in his house/apartment is the best he’s willing to show you, I don’t want to know how low effort he gets when he’s not trying his best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:37 PM
20

I don’t see why he’s justifying it so hard core. Is he scared pornhub won’t get new porn stars if women start realizing they have other job options 😂 Or is he worried he’d be called a bad person when he realizes she’s watching a kidnapped minor in his porn Because both make him look like a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:59 PM
13

I’d tell myself to focus on myself more than even friends because I used to care so badly for what others thought and wanted so much to have a lot of friends or boyfriends. I wish I was almost more selfish and less shy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:10 PM
74

I had no idea people assumed that all white wealthy men were nice 😂 y’all they make up 70% of rapists so I find it hard to believe women didn’t know they can suck too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 04:15 PM
26

People who breed farm animals treat them better than that oh my god that’s sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 04:08 PM
22

Anyone else wish they had a father now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:52 PM
10

6 months damn girl that’s a long time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:50 PM
21

Make sure to have family friends or even police nearby. Men you don’t expect to hit you 100% do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:24 AM
12

that sounds awful. He’s already cheating too. I can’t imagine how you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:09 AM
18

Oh god babe please try to escape ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:35 AM
7

You take jalapeños and soak it in vinegar. That’s a common thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:38 PM
4

Yeah that was so damn long I wanted to kms from how slow motion they’re talking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:38 PM
46

Men who eat messy. It turns me off because it shows me you can’t take him anywhere nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:19 PM
0

Wait by Tanner Swift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:18 PM
60

I’m 26 I have a feeling I’m still susceptible to dating another loser but I’m seeing a therapist so maybe my 30s can be me actually living for myself and not to get love from others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:11 PM
75

She’s in flats you’re right lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:53 PM
20

I’d laugh if I saw this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:53 PM
332

It depresses me thinking of how much even I used to put up with. Like damn I’m embarrassed of all the losers I let date me. I’m ashamed of past me and the worst part is I’m not 100% sure that future me is fully used to practicing FDS rules to do better. I dated a man who physically abused me and I cried when he dumped me for not being obedient enough because I didn’t want to be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:50 PM
2

Still a bit confused. It looks like you’re saying: Red pill = sexist men. Maybe incels Blue pill= a simp? Or a player? Not sure. Purple= people who think you need to be all of those things combined? Still confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:53 PM
17

I tried to Google it myself but I’m new to Reddit so I don’t understand red pill, blue, purple, black etc. I know it’s from the matrix but I also never saw the matrix. Can someone make me an easy cheat sheet explaining what each color means please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:34 PM
11

I’m glad I got to join before it went private but do what you have to do to keep this page running. It really helps me as someone who’s been in abusive relationships. As sad as it sounds, other subreddits (or friends in person) would tell me to forgive a man who takes away my phone, car keys, purse so I can’t leave him. FDS tells me that if being a “bitch” with standards makes me happy, then fine it’s better to be a happy single bitch than a sad, obedient girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:14 AM
7

I don’t think this guy has any friends because normal men don’t go around punching every person who disagrees with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:07 AM
3

I wonder if anyone commented on her original post that maybe her fiancé needs to be the one to pay his own bills. I mean traditionally men pay for their girlfriends/wives but this guy isn’t even trying to go Dutch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:06 AM
18

Tbh girl you should get a diamond. A plain band would look like a wedding ring, and even most wedding rings have diamonds on them too now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:00 AM
4

these men just probably thought I was a good photographer but really I was out here giving them a nose job and fixing their ugly body, face, and hair cut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:34 PM
1

I didn’t see that meme send the link!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:53 PM
3

I had a bad group of friends, and yeah when people who are supposed to look out for you point out a “flaw” you think it’s true because many said it. I was younger and I didn’t realize they were probably jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:09 PM
3

I had a bad group of friends back then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:05 PM
7

I agree except if my options were between a fuckboy and a nice ugly guy, I’d choose neither and stay single lol. I’d rather use a sex toy than settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:00 PM
11

Colt from 90 Day Fiancé lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:58 PM
43

Sameeeeee they’re so ugly that I didn’t want to show their pics to my friends or family because I worried to be called shallow but also I didn’t like these men so I didn’t want to feel stuck with them or seen as an item because part of me wanting to escape them yet I was settling on them because I was told in a shallow bitch if I date attractive men who treat me well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:38 AM
17

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:48 AM
120

I don’t understand why men feel women are oppressing them every time we don’t have sex with them. Like how entitled are you to bully women into settling on men they don’t love? If you were confident that you can be good at sex, be nice to your girlfriend, make her happy, then you wouldn’t worry about her having to settle on some broken dude who still cries over his ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:48 AM
90

Ever since I was scared to be shallow, my ex’s were so ugly I PHOTOSHOPPED THEM IN PICTURES BECAUSE I WAS TOO EMBARRASSED TO POST THEM ON MY SOCIAL MEDIA UNEDITED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:43 AM
11

My condolences babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:42 AM
33

Have no idea what you wrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:42 AM
22

My condolences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:41 AM
4

If looking at his face makes me unable to orgasm because I had to look ugly in the eyes during sex, then I’m ok with never having sex again if these are the only men single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:41 AM
39

Lmao I didn’t see it that way but you have a point. Like have you seen those memes of girls posting their grandpas pics when they were in their 20s? Like wow men looked so much better back then holy hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:39 AM
24

you can have him honey i don’t want him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:38 AM
34

Honestly someone explain why everyone’s grandpa had a better jawline in the 1960’s whereas now men have a jawline as strong as a newborn baby. I know men weren’t going plastic surgery and filler or photoshop to fake a nice jawline back then so what the hell gives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:37 AM
58

Imagine only being attracted to ur boyfriend when you can’t see half of his face (I.e. a beard)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:24 PM
77

It’s super odd it’s as if the pollution is not only making men’s sperm count drop and penises to shrink each year but also causing them to have the jawline of a newborn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:23 PM
52

If you shave your face and you have an ugly jawline, that’s a huge problem to find a man ugly any time you have to see his face because he shaved lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:37 PM
161

men don’t have jawlines or chins anymore what the hell happened. Photos of men form the 1940’s, they had nice chins. Now, men look like they have smaller jawlines than women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:29 PM
184

I had bad friends who would get jealous and make me feel bad that I was pulling men who were better than their ugly ass, rude, sloppy boyfriends who couldn’t keep a job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:21 PM
15

I don’t think it’s healthy for you to suggest women should date men they find ugly just because he’s nice and that his kindness has to be added to his attractiveness. If he’s physically ugly, I don’t have to be the “nice girl” who has to take one for the team and let him date me just because he’s nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:19 PM
39

100000% true. Want to know who was nice to me? The hot men with good jobs who knew their worth. Want to know who was giving in bed? The hot men. Who bought me flowers? The hot men. Want to know who was rude to me? Ugly short men. Who was bad in bed? Ugly short men. Who was sexist and tried to control me? Ugly short men because they have no other way to feel special. Who didn’t bring any value to my life or buy me a single gift of something I wanted? Ugly short men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:17 PM
73

I dated some drop dread gorgeous men and I was called shallow so I started dating ugly men and it was awful I didn’t even want to think of them when they kissed me. I realized that men are allowed to only date women they find hot, so it’s only fair I get to do the same. If a man doesn’t like fat, tall women with small boobs they don’t ever get called shallow for not dating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:11 PM
20

Because men in our DMs write stuff like this lol. But I doubt a guy who would write this would add his picture to it, just because if you’re in the middle of cry-typing the way men do you will post it without pausing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:18 PM
19

I imagine it’s a meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:39 PM
76

This is every guy in my DMs. They’re always ugly losers trying to flash their privates because otherwise nobody would ever see them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:38 PM
27

I know being gay isn’t a choice because I’m sadly still heterosexual despite the way men behave lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:38 PM
5

I like that women can’t be in the military because he knows they could kick his ass if he’s disrespectful and he has no intention of treating any woman with respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:32 PM
2

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I think asking your gyno for advice on how to ensure safe sex and questions about testing is a good idea because he/she would know more about that than us. What’s scary to me is you can get hpv in your throat and it’s a common cause of throat cancer and nobody knows you have it until it’s in the deadly stages usually because you can’t see it so it’s not noticed until it causes major symptoms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:17 PM
2

My super pretty friend said in high school she wanted to date a college boy and she told us he was super obese and ugly but he was in college so she thought that was cool. She told us as us all in our 20s so we all just went “ewwwww my god wtf” and roasted her for it but that explains why she did it if even back then she found the guy hideous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:13 PM
3

Did he show you the paperwork? Next time def ask to see it yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:00 PM
6

I think we should work on ourselves and not depend on a man or trust him fully, but I think that maybe if we’re high value we can attract other men who are high value. It’s rare sure but I think it’s possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:54 PM
13

Sorry that happened to you. I hope shows stop with this pedo propaganda because as a kid and teen I was lucky to never ever find older guys attractive and til today I still only date men my own age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:53 PM
2

HVM don’t exist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:46 PM
219

“She said I bring happiness to so many people” is something you should only say if someone is donating toys to orphanages. I can’t imagine a woman describing porn this way. Please tell me this isn’t real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:41 PM
66

Can someone explain to me how some women (or sadly underaged girls) are able to date older men? I don’t wanna be mean but I find older men super ugly and even more bossy than younger men. I don’t get the appeal. These men are divorced, so they can’t be that nice to women. Seriously someone explain it to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:39 PM
29

Yeah I have. It works. Go for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:58 AM
16

Try BumbleBFF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:57 AM
14

I needed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:55 AM
22

It does belong here lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:49 AM
9

Any advice on how u found a HVM? I could use all the help I can get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:54 PM
15

Any advice on how to spot a guy who’s going to want kids but then be an asshole when he’s grossed out by your pregnant body? Or is it something you don’t know until sadly you’re in that position already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:53 PM
16

I hope she cooks placenta into a lasagna and feeds it to him before she dumps him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:51 PM
170

What did it say? I’m guessing it was a video about someone’s husband cheating on a wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:40 PM
23

Men’s power over women in relationships centers on them knowing their girlfriend wants marriage one day and will do all the work it takes to prove she is lovable and wife material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:32 PM
7

Oh damn you’re probably right. I didn’t think of it that way before but women are pushed to be care takers of kids and husbands, so a single old man would expect a woman to be his free home health aide lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:30 PM
140

Dude these women freak me out like do they have some sick fantasy. If a guy got horny for me being homeless and him getting to play dress up with me I’d run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:22 PM
217

I bet you there’s men who will still call this pick me woman a gold digger 😂 and they won’t be joking and they will not at all view the guy as the gold digger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:21 PM
34

I’m sorry but man or woman: finding it hot to get someone who’s impoverished and in a place easy to exploit and be the only one able to make any choices in your partner’s life is weird. It’s like these women get a weird power trip by picking homeless men, letting them shower then having sex with him. It’s super creepy and they think it’s a cute love story but it comes across as the weirdest most desperate thing a woman can do to get a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:19 PM
19

I love the username lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:14 PM
61

Am I petty but I wish men were crazy enough to email me after a breakup that they wanna get back together. I’d still tell them no and delete them, but the idea they know they made a mistake by not treating me well would be nice 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:26 PM
149

My ex told me this story of his parents that he thought was sweet and Romantic but he didn’t realize it’s kind of sad. So his parents fight all the time now, but when they were younger the dad (in his 30s) as a professor kept trying to get his mom a university student (in her 20s) to date him. She said no. 5 years later, his mom called back the dad and said she’d finally agree to marry him. He didn’t even know her family were immigrants or anything about her. They’re still married and tbh unhapp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:25 PM
25

Ouch but needed to hear that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:21 PM
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Thanks I appreciate it. I also can’t post or comment on AskFDS. Why is that? Am I supposed to get a flair there too? The mods won’t answer me either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:21 PM
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She didn’t say she works in show business. She just went to school with a guy who did YouTube or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:19 PM
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He’s honestly ugly and old and has to take viagra. Idk why any women go after men old enough to be their dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:36 PM
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I actually don’t really care for celebrities either. Honestly they usually aren’t even as good as they look in the pictures. I saw lady Gaga in concert and not in a mean way I swear but… without the photoshop, she just looked like a normal flawed person. She wasn’t this godly celebrity above all normal people the way media paints celebrities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:35 PM
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That explains why my ex had a small wang considering the porn he watches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:26 AM
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That’s why they don’t wipe! Don’t wanna find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:26 AM
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Im a doctor and I can confirm this is true! Screenshot this and send it around to ur friends. No one look into my credentials. It’s not ur buisness why my kids don’t talk to me and I’m a 68 year old who never went to college. /s (because I see men pretend to be doctors or are actual doctors who are sexist, believe the earth is flat, and that vaginas almost fall off once a woman isn’t a virgin despite science due to their religious and sexist beliefs)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:24 AM
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I SERIOUSLY LAUGHED LIKE GIRL YOU KILLED HIS POINT IN 5 WORDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:53 AM
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Women and children are protected from men because men keep trying to rape them???? I’m sorry I don’t understand why he misunderstands that as value and thinks it oppresses men that violence is frowned upon towards children LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:50 AM
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For real I noticed shorter men do it more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:09 AM
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Dude his balls probably sag and at best this man smells like old man soap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:46 PM
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I’m scared to find out what he did. I don’t know much about Finneas ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:42 PM
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There’s men who say being sexually harassed is a compliment because they’d kill for a woman to be sexually interested in them for once in their life so they don’t understand why it’s scary and unwanted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:40 PM
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My father forced my mom to be a stay at home mom and honestly my mom regrets it. She always tells me no matter what to ensure I have an education and a job. To me, i just worry another woman would regret being jobless the way my mom did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:38 PM
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“Take one for the team and date the abusive, ugly, evil man or he will kill people.” Dude asked women to sacrifice themselves for the greater good instead of just asking men to not kill 😹 Ok men are evil and suck but I have to hope that a healthy minded man would not think women have to take one for the team and date abusive men to prevent the creepy men from feeling isolated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:36 AM
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