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.....that's literally what I'm explaining. Look at the second paragraph
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/22 12:57 AM
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I agree, but shutting people down for asking questions is not conducive to helping them grow. And while I assume he didn't ask the question out of genuine curiosity, I gave the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/22 10:52 PM
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There are many reasons, but I think the most obvious are a "sins of the father" type deal Younger women are more likely to carry a pregnancy to term and are fertile for a longer span of years than an older woman. In a society driven by religion and high mortality rates, that was very important. That got ingrained in the culture and passed down through the generations. Many cultures value men and women unfairly, men are only valuable when they can provide something and women are only valuable whe…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/22 10:27 PM
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Because society views younger women as more valuable. Robbing a millionaire carries more clout than robbing a child of their ice cream cone. These are not my views and I have no link or statistical data to back it up, I just came to what seems like a rational conclusion.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/22 10:13 PM
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Hayden Christensen wasnt in phantom menace
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/21 03:51 AM
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No, he never met the girl. Read the article.
/r/MensRights23/02/20 05:45 AM
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Alright so back to my original question, how would you deal with people who couldn't pay restitutions? And how would you deal with someone killing another while drunk driving? How do you put a price on that? It would have to be stupid high, which most people can't pay, and then if you tried to put them to work, you either have prisons to hold them or you legalized slavery. Neither of which sounds good. So how would you deal with that? I'm not trying to attack you, I genuinely want to understand.
/r/MensRights03/12/19 11:11 PM
0

That sounds a lot like our current system in my opinion
/r/MensRights03/12/19 05:41 PM
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So you'd kill a ton of homeless and poor people. If I've got no money and steal your wallet, how would you deal with that? Not like I could pay you back, I've got no money
/r/MensRights03/12/19 03:14 PM
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Quoted the venture bro's so that's not original. Great show though, can't hype it enough
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/19 08:36 PM
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Like "the notebook" sad. Like coming home from school and finding out your dad ran over your cat, sad. Mournful. She has mournful tits
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/19 03:33 PM
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That's what I would have done too. Solid advice
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:43 AM
3

So do it again. This time with a waitress at a restaurant that's not in your home town. Practice. These guys are giving good advice but you don't see it because you're jaded. Just takes practice.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 01:48 AM
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Thank you. It was a genuine question with no bias behind it, I appreciate the patience and none douchey response.
/r/MensRights30/05/18 04:37 PM
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That's the only real answer I've gotten. Do you think making false accusations illegal has no chance of harming someone who files a truthful report?
/r/MensRights30/05/18 03:47 PM
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That doesn't answer my question though.
/r/MensRights30/05/18 03:45 PM
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How will that effect honest women who file charges, when the assualter isn't found guilty? Like let's say it happened, she did everything right, but there isn't enough evidence to convict. What happens to women who truthfully report sexually assault with no conviction?
/r/MensRights30/05/18 12:40 PM
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I'll show you how gay you are when I'm sucking your dick faggot
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/18 05:12 AM
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Move forward by getting a different job. Preferably one with girls you're not attracted to. This probably won't end well for you.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:57 AM
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Depends on what you call good. I don't know how to link specific subs, but "justrolledintotheshop" and "shittycarmods" are pretty good IMO.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:07 AM
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It's entitlement. The car should have moved out of her way, it doesn't matter that she was in the street! I'm 22 and this trend is common of all young people, unfortunately. I see it all the time. It's a blind ignorance that you have to take care of yourself. We can only theorize at how this mindset was adopted but young people are fucking dumb.
/r/MGTOW14/09/17 05:45 PM
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I'm not yet on that "robots are better than women" kick, but I don't think I'll ever end up in another LTR
/r/MGTOW13/09/17 12:32 AM
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"what's out there is not better" That might have been my last straw. Thanks man, I didn't quite know what I've been feeling recently but that's probably it.
/r/MGTOW13/09/17 12:21 AM
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The sidebar defines a plate as a woman you have non exclusive sex with. In a piece concerning plates, Rollo went on to point out that a man is only as good as his available options. So, we can determine that plates exist to serve as options. You choose these plates from a place of power, you have options. If you're buying sex, I can assume two things. Either you're not seeing anyone else, or she's so good in bed you're dangerously close to falling in love. Either way, that means she can't be a p…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:20 AM
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Lol if you pay for it even once, that's not a plate
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:24 AM
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Unsub is a piece of shit bot. This isn't infighting
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 10:01 PM
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I like the part where she says she fucks his friends, but in the comments she says he couldn't bang anyone in their social circle
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 03:45 PM
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Don't say a word to her. She will take that as a sign that you did it on purpose. Contact a lawyer if you're concerned. Find out what you can do to protect yourself, but for the love of God DON'T contact her.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 08:40 PM
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That's not to be confused with every woman has the ability to cheat.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:29 PM
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I've got a special needs cat. Like cerebral palsy but for kitties type thing. That cat is loyal, loving, and tracks me down when I get home just so she can be near me. She even puts up with my dog just to be near me. I love that cat, and she genuinely loves me. But that cat is the exception to all cats. My "unicorn" if you will. I'm just saying, NACALT
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 09:27 PM
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You ignore it. That shit's beneath you. Anybody tells you about it, laugh it off. "Poor kid is obviously still heartbroken. But seriously, I wish her the best; we just didn't work out. Shit happens, you know?" Then you move on. People crave drama. By not giving in, you dismantle it. We all know that guy who shit talks his ex, don't be that dude. Ignore it and everyone will pass her childish antics off as exactly that.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 09:38 PM
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Change your settings so that only your friends can see it. You need to detox this girl from your head. If nothing else, go to the sidebar of asktrp and read "getting over a breakup"
/r/askTRP27/03/17 04:14 AM
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She can't "stalk your Snapchat" unless you let her. Stop being an attention whore and do something productive. Like gaming other women.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 02:42 AM
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As you said, your SMV isn't exactly high. That leaves you in a very dangerous position. Our advice isn't going to help much because we don't exactly know you as well as you know yourself. If you think you can handle it, by all means. But history has proven that most men cannot. There's a reason most guys (especially EC's) advise against this.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 02:23 AM
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Holy shit. I'm aware that anecdotal evidence doesn't necessarily indicate a trend, however, last Halloween I went to a party back in my home town. A girl I went to school with got incredibly fat. She was a 7. Now she's a 3. What changed?? She moved in with her boyfriend. In the span of a year, she stopped taking care of herself to the point where I almost didn't recognize her. Naturally, her friends blamed it on him, saying he caused her to stress eat.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 10:33 PM
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If you keep getting grilled, simply say you haven't met the right girl yet. Then, to avoid them setting you up with someone, suggest that there's a girl you're interested in.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:42 PM
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Somebody here once said "when you're alpha enough, girls will treat you like you treated your oneitis." Either that, or she's crazy. Either way, if she's making you uncomfortable then ghost her. She's probably not worth it.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 06:41 PM
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2 inches of swinging death right here
/r/askTRP01/03/17 10:35 PM
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I'm pretty sure it was Rollo who wrote about this. He said the same thing, I believe.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:44 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:20 PM
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You might want to try the sub for RP women.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 04:01 PM
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I can't grow a beard to save my life. Instead of whining about it, I learned woodworking and started drinking scotch. For every shortcoming you have that seriously bothers you, replace it with two awesome things.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:25 PM
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You answered your own question.. hard next, you are not yet in a position mentally or emotionally to keep unattached and that will snowball into a much more difficult problem unless you check that shit now.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:31 PM
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I work as a mechanic.. this literally won't effect me in the slightest
/r/MGTOW07/02/17 10:44 PM
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It can be difficult but that's the game you play if you aren't approaching. Either way you have to dedicate time.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:51 PM
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As least frogs won't leave with half my shit
/r/MGTOW06/02/17 05:49 PM
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OP, he's right. We've all struggled with oneitis at some time or another. It's what brought most of us here. There's hope, but you actually have to do the fucking work. Luckily for you, there's a wonderful place that has a guide for doing such work. It's called "TRP sidebar" and it is your new Bible. Either do the work or don't, I'm not a beggar. But don't try and get sympathy in a place devoted to overcoming such trivial things. We won't jerk you off and tell you the things you want to hear. Ho…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:59 PM
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Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another. -H.L. Mencken
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:04 PM
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I've come to enjoy reading your replies.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:54 PM
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It's good to see a solid starting guide when most newcomers are thrown into a shit ton of information and no real basis on how to start applying it in a correct order. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 10:00 PM
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I'm working on it. I get maybe one in ten for matches and I don't swipe right on girls I don't find attractive. But I get what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:08 PM
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I think there's a difference between noting that men get screwed in divorces and that most women (and men for that matter) are terrible people, and renouncing women altogether. I understand it, I have nothing against it. Just isn't for me. He was referencing the title, which I had directed at guys who make excuses rather than go meet people.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 10:24 PM
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I tried to link it, but I'm on mobile. I'll try again soon
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 10:20 PM
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MGTOW is fine with me because it doesn't effect me. That said I wouldn't personally choose it and I don't think you have anything to prove. It's your choice.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 05:15 PM
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My first picture is me in a tux but it was taken in a bathroom mirror. Literally no thought went into it.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 05:00 PM
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You're right, that seems more accurate. If anything eventful happens on those dates I'll post a follow up. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:58 PM
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This should be stickied. Excellent post, a lot to be learned here. This should be the gold standard of RP theory. Well done mate.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:12 PM
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You gotta bump it up to every night, or she will find a Chad who will. That's how you keep her faithful bro
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 11:56 PM
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Yes, you should.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:19 PM
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Find a hobby. Look into community center classes to learn some new shit, and talk to people. Make friends. Talk to some people at the gym, make some more friends. You're lonely and that's the cause of your unhappiness. Fix the loneliness now or you'll fall off the wagon. It always happens.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:24 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 11:17 PM
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All but one of the girls I've dated have been in relationships before we started dating. I didn't know it at the time but they were "plates" until they left the old boyfriend for me. You don't have to look hard to find evidence supporting TRP, even if only anecdotal.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:45 PM
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You've got details, but you're providing the wrong ones. Cut out all the bragging shit and what do you have left? Where's the lesson learned? How did you display the principles of TRP? What did you do to hold frame or shut down any ASD? You're probably pretty new at this and you're excited because you had a successful night. Nothing wrong with that, but this hardly qualifies as a field report. Read the sidebar portion about how to write field reports and you'll be just fine.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 07:11 PM
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I see you pop up their often. It really does seem like they fight your advice, no matter how solid. "I'm too fat" "Lose weight, you won't be fat" "FUCK YOU I'M BIG BONED" I don't know how the EC's do it. The smell of desperation and hamster sweat would kill me.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:47 PM
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This is nothing more than bragging. There's nothing to be learned from this and it falls short of a field report.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 11:43 PM
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This is the right answer. Demotion is generally done by reducing contact and starting to see other girls. However, that can always backfire when your SMV isn't high enough for her to be okay with that. Women would rather share an alpha than be exclusive with a beta, but they are never keen on sharing a beta.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 07:42 PM
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The lesson is don't be retarded
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:54 PM
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The hardest part about changing yourself is changing how others see you. Don't sweat it, do your own thing and if they come along, they come along.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:27 PM
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Try the bodyweight fitness sub. No excuses.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:23 PM
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I like "WWIII". Pretty great
/r/MGTOW13/01/17 07:00 PM
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I would suggest you hold off on the "girlfriend" thing until you really know her. That's why an all or nothing approach is beneficial: you won't waste your time, and she won't be given the opportunity to waste yours until much later. The key part is to soft next if she declines. Don't necessarily delete her number, but if she hits you up after that be aware of any manipulation she might be pulling.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 12:13 AM
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Everything TRP teaches is intertwined. If you're socially inept, hitting the gym can give you confidence to go out and talk to people. Telling others not to do something that has been proven time and time again is just irresponsible imo.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:21 PM
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Yeah, OP's advice is horrible. TRP is about self improvement, not impressing others. You should lift to overcome your own current limits and reclaim your forgotten masculinity. Looking better is just a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:00 PM
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I went to school with a girl who was born to a mother with herpes. Now the daughter has herpes on her face. She didn't date much, but I don't know if that proves anything
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 07:55 PM
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That's a good point, I thought about including a side note about that but ultimately decided against it. From the people I know who are on them, it might make you feel better but it won't solve the problem. That's why the hobbies and self improvement are heavily stressed, to make it so you don't need the drugs to get you through the rough days. I didn't try them because I know it wouldn't fix my life, just make me not care.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 03:19 PM
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Vitamin D is fantastic, I can support that. While I'm not against it, I didn't want to be on antidepressants. Vitamin D is an excellent replacement.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 02:56 PM
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If you didn't like what you read, you could have just downvoted and moved on. Are you seeking validation...? Some sort of "look at me peacocking, I stand out!" Is that it? You totally missed the point and it sounds like you're salty because other people aren't as "alpha" as you. Come on dude.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:15 AM
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It was a tough decision that I made not because I didn't want the child, but because it was the best choice. Then she died and I wished more than ever that I had our child to remember her by. Sounds stupid when typed out, I know. But that was my reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:12 AM
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I'll definitely look into it
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:35 PM
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That means more to me than you know.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:16 PM
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Message me if you ever need someone to talk to. No judgement dude, just someone who knows what it's like. I kept her blanket after she passed. I feel for you brother.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:13 PM
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Thanks dude. This is where I go when I lose sight of my mission. Keeps me on track.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:59 PM
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Swallowing the pill is a process. I have a lot of guilt to work through, and it takes time to bury the beta. While I can see what the rational response is, I'm still fighting the BP conditioning. I get it, just a work in progress.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:54 PM
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That was why I wrote this post. If I can help one person down from the ledge, then my story is worth sharing.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:15 PM
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That's probably why she didn't respond.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:10 PM
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Appreciate the kind words. I'm doing what I can to move past it.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:04 PM
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Thanks. I'm happy to help, nobody should think they have it so bad that they lose the will to live.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 09:54 PM
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At the time, it seemed irresponsible to be a piece of shit and download all my thoughts and insecurities into a little human being who doesn't know better. His mother probably wouldn't have helped either.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 09:46 PM
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Critical thinking tells me that it never would have worked. But those feelings are hard to bury. I get it, and I'm striving to do better.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 09:45 PM
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I appreciate the mildly harsh words. If everyone coddles you, things never change.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 08:45 PM
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I do casual shit every now and then but it lost the thrill. I used to love the chase, but I dunno.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 08:44 PM
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Thanks. I'm sorry you had to go through that, it isn't easy. I know now that she wasn't even close to perfect, and rational thought tells me she was a mess before me, I probably couldn't have helped. I'm still struggling to get past the mental blockade of oneitis. It's difficult when you know you'll never see them again. Some days are harder than others, but I keep going. It's my only choice.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:31 PM
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I wish I could tell you the right things to do. But I can't. All I can offer is sympathy and tell you that you're not alone. Years ago my soon to be fiance got pregnant. She got an abortion and then killed herself a few months after. It destroyed me. I'm sorry for your loss. It's never easy dealing with the sudden disappearance of loved ones. Message me if you ever want to talk. No Alpha or Beta bullshit, just talking. Nobody should be alone after that.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:19 PM
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I've been looking for a creative outlet recently. Would you recommend a bass guitar? Not looking for fame or chicks or some other dumb thing, just want to enjoy myself without spending much money.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:38 PM
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I can tape antlers to my dog but it doesn't make him a deer. Social media might "convince" people of certain things, but biological evolution (nature) always wins.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:35 PM
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I can tape antlers to my dog but it doesn't make him a deer. Social media might "convince" people of certain things, but biological evolution (nature) always wins.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:34 PM
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Don't get me wrong, accepting reality for what it is terrifies me. Knowing that nobody cares about me is unmatched in terms of depressing shit. But what am I supposed to do outside of accept it and move on? This isn't supposed to be easy, if it was then everyone would be doing it.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 06:25 PM
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You're getting shit for your numbers but the theory is still fucking solid. I don't get it.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:48 PM
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Alcohol wasn't the problem. You being careless was the problem. I was in your shoes, similar situation. I would also reconsider whether or not it is yours. Maybe don't ask until after the abortion, but you know.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:19 AM
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When my ex girl got pregnant, I wish she was faking. At least that has a simple solution: block all contact
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:11 PM
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Read the guide. Too busy to locate it for you but if you look hard enough you'll find it. Edit: a nice guy just posted the guide in the comments. Thank him, and good luck.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 08:55 PM
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Alright calm down. Plan for what to do if she doesn't get the abortion, but stay calm. If she has the kid, insist on a paternity test. Sounds like it's not yours, but search for a guide someone posted awhile back about getting someone pregnant. Weigh your options and stay smart.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:52 PM
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I have scoliosis. It means I can't do deadlifts or squats without crippling myself. That doesn't stop me from doing bodyweight fitness. If you see this OP, listen to this guy. He's completely right.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 02:22 PM
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Most people use Monk Mode as an excuse not to be social. Don't be that guy. To use Monk Mode effectively, you need to isolate yourself from people who waste time. Example: going to a class about woodworking isolates you from time wasting, but promotes self improvement in a social setting. There's a balance between the two. If you're thinking about entering Monk Mode, don't neglect your social skills, but be productive about how you interact.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:12 PM
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People validate victims through attention and support. I look forward to part 2.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:30 PM
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As a teenager my biggest problem was lack of confidence. Lifting solves that.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:49 AM
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Lift heavy stuff on a regular basis in an organized fashion.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 02:06 AM
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I appreciate that. I'm not sure it grows in full enough for any of those, but I'll keep it in mind. One day..
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 05:05 AM
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Take a break from studying but doing something productive at the same time. "Taking a break" doesn't have to be videogames and beating off. Learn to play an instrument, look into wood working, or go volunteer somewhere. You got this bro, just look at it from a different angle.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 12:30 AM
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It's like firing a loud metal penis. Great hobby, and I think it promotes mindfulness.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 12:27 AM
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I wish I could grow a beard. Not for tinder matches or to impress people but because dammit I want a beard. I literally can't. It looks like shit and it doesn't grow in all over, just my chin and above my mouth. I understand I must accept my limitations and do other manly stuff, but I can't verbalize my beard-growing frustration anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 12:25 AM
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Men and women love each other differently. I guess it's a tough pill to swallow.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 10:18 PM
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When you get that urge, disperse it in healthy manners. Go grab your dog and tell him how he's a good boy. Call your mother and ask how she's doing. The problem, I think, is not that men have these feelings. The problem is how most men deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 10:58 PM
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There should be a flair for that
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:52 PM
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No point in chasing the past. You found it now, so make the most of it.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:45 PM
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I'm 22, and I think more senior members could have more relevant advice. That said: Start lifting. Put schooling first but don't forget to be a teen and have a good time, hang out with friends and chase girlies. (Chase girlies is a relative term, don't get too wrapped up on any particular girl, that's a waste of time.) Also, wear a fucking condom. Always. It's never too early in a young woman's life to crave children and that shit will ruin your life before it has begun. I would recommend you lo…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:17 PM
2

You can't seriously be considering this. Don't be retarded.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:51 AM
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This is the only answer. That generic answer about fucking other women or "just get over it" is kind of bullshit. Love happens when you believe you don't deserve any better. So become better. Then see how silly it was to fall for a girl so far below you.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:49 AM
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Yeah, these are both things that benefits her. You are going out of your way to help her, so she should give you something of equal value.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 03:06 AM
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Change "people" to "humanoids"
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 02:54 AM
1

Pill #101 Change man to men
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:55 PM
1

My guess would be on this sub.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:23 AM
1

No, but look and you will find what you seek.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 12:46 PM
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I'm not in the right place for that. I'm flattered, but I don't have the time nor experience to lead you in the right direction. However, I'm sure you can make another post asking for someone to mentor you. Some guys want to do just that. I wish you the best of luck.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:58 AM
1

No. It brings you back into her life one way or another. It's a bad idea.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:55 PM
2

Solid post. You earned an upvote as soon as I read "betas explain themselves". It's such a common mistake.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 05:34 PM
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You don't need closure. At all. Her dad doesn't need to hear from you, and he would probably side with her anyway because she's his flesh and blood. Your best bet is to drop it. What she thinks is irrelevant. You'll only get hurt by going back.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 10:26 PM
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I get what you're saying but we can't work together. This is a journey you make yourself. Read the sidebar if you haven't already. Delete your ex girl's number, and block her on all social media. Keep reading the content here and continue to lift. Also, read "No More Mr. Niceguy" And for God's sake, DON'T message your ex or her dad. It won't end well. Even if it starts good, it'll end bad. Good luck.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:12 PM
1

A much more wise man than I once said "Love is what happens when you don't think you deserve any better." You need to learn to love and respect yourself. Understand that you are the prize. Without that, you will be consistently taken advantage of, by both men and women. Stop caring about what others think. Care about what you think. External validation is when you feel good because other people make you feel good. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but it isn't substantial. Furthermore,…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 04:42 AM
1

So she hit you, called you names, abused you, and was just generally disrespectful, but you haven't found a better woman? Come on dude. You're better than that. This is where internal validation comes into play. Nobody who acts like that is worth your time. Women can't respect you if you don't respect yourself.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 09:01 PM
1

Brush up on your sidebar readings, particularly on escalating. Don't assume too much, if she thinks you view her as a slut, your chances are blown. Just escalate and be ready for shit tests and LMR.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:15 PM
3

I want to crash my car and see if the airbags go off. But I don't think I need TRP for such a question. I wonder if the sidebar has any advice...
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:59 PM
2

Absolutely true.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:28 PM
1

Jesus. I'm glad I didn't know.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/16 01:06 PM
3

You've idolized this girl to the point that better women look like shit in comparison. No wonder she left, I wouldn't respect you either. The good news is, it's relatively normal. Guys do it all the time. So do women, but in different ways. One could almost say you've been alpha widowed. Give it time. But use that time to improve yourself. You're fucking a hot blonde, great. But what are you doing to improve yourself? Train yourself to look for validation internally. Set goals and conquer them. …
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:16 AM
13

I had the same question, but still no answer..
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/16 05:51 AM
2

Remember all those times you've read "don't shit where you eat"? This is why.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 11:49 PM
13

10 minutes? Not bad, but I think we can do better than that. Try for 8
/r/MGTOW29/09/16 03:01 AM
6

I'm not clicking that link. However, you should probably invest in yourself first. Get in shape so you're happy when you look in the mirror. That said, it can be useful to face your fear by surrounding yourself with it. I had an irrational fear of bees. So I spent a few days in the woods, seeking them out. Wasps, hornets, honey bees, anything I could find. I got stung many times. But I learned it didn't kill me. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 10:10 PM
2

"Why do you work out? You shouldn't care what other people think." "Good advice. I'll start by not caring what you think. I'm off to the gym, don't wait up."
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:56 PM
1

The hardest part about changing yourself, is changing how others see you.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:54 PM
3

There are many different reasons this could be, but some of the most common are pretty easy to identify. First off, your mother still believes in the Disney fairytale. Remember, women don't have the capacity to reflect on themselves. Solipsism tells her that because what she wants (right now) is a gentleman, every woman must want a gentleman. Another important piece of the puzzle is that people don't like to see others improve. It makes them feel self conscious and guilty because you are doing w…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:52 PM
3

Well yeah, that choice just makes sense, really
/r/MGTOW23/09/16 11:07 PM
5

I can't upvote you enough
/r/MGTOW21/09/16 10:06 PM
3

God damn dude. I've said it to you before, but you are definitely one of my favorite EC's. I've got a lot to learn from you.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:43 AM
8

This is it. When a beta starts the path to becoming a bone fide alpha, the lonely sluts realize they fucked up. This is the first time reality has hit her in the face and she can't handle it. It'll happen to her with increased frequency as the wall approaches. Evidently, lacking the ability to self reflect or think of long term cause and effect creates negative emotions.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:17 PM
55

He probably doesn't abuse her, either. Notice how she doesn't say how he abused her?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/16 01:48 PM
4

I see a common rhetoric on Twitter. Something about "...if you want to keep your girl, never stop trying to win her" or something to that effect. As usual, women fail to have the introspection needed to realize both parties have to keep up the work.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:19 AM
0

They played it in Minnesota for a few months, but stopped for whatever reason. Thanks for the link, I loved that show.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:12 AM
1

Everything else aside, surviving a concentration camp is alpha as fuck. That's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:09 AM
1

Hobby parachutist? That sounds absolutely incredible. I'd imagine it's an expensive craft to get into, but I'll have to try it. I'm sure you said other worthwhile things, but I upvoted just for that.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:06 AM
1

Sometimes I wonder if I have the same privilege. Most people tend to like me, and quite frankly I'm a total dickhead. Is this what it's like to be woman? If so, I can understand why they abuse it. I suppose the major difference is I'm smart enough to know it won't always last.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:02 AM
25

Generally: Shit tests start with you Comfort tests start with me
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:46 PM
6

I kind of liked her mustache. Gave me hope to grow a bushy one of my own someday. "I'm doing this for you, grandma!"
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 06:54 PM
2

I'm in love with a dead girl. I've been thinking about writing a post about it. If I'm not a special snowflake, neither are you. You'll be fine, just lift hard and hit on sluts
/r/askTRP13/08/16 03:32 PM
4

It would be weird if you didn't mourn your cat. That's borderline psychopathy. Channel it. Don't let it control you and you'll be okay.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:09 PM
5

I like this.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:11 PM
1

You're on the right path. This lifestyle takes a lot of discipline and years of work to undo years of BP brainwashing. Keep reading this sub, use the anger to lift harder, and implement what you learn. You'll get where you want to be.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:14 PM
2

Every media source out there pushes men towards BP tendencies. We have our own community to help counteract those voices.
/r/MGTOW03/08/16 08:34 PM
1

We've all got to start somewhere. I can't berate you for not being a fast learner, that would halt your learning forever. Closure isn't something you need. Drop the revenge fantasy. It won't help. Don't explain, don't ask questions, don't give her any more validation. Just ghost her. That's what I would do.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:31 PM
11

"Two inches of swinging death!" Works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 08:14 PM
8

You're at a halfway point. Most of us would have done a hard next after the first time she fucked up. But, you're on the right path. You can recognize the patterns and seem to be standing up for yourself. That's a start. Hard next. You've already "broke up" with her. Now just leave it alone. Block everybody who is harassing you. Lift harder and next time, hard next sooner.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 03:09 AM
25

"Why, you want a 3-way?"
/r/askTRP03/08/16 03:03 AM
2

I deleted all social media months ago, but I'll keep an eye out for your post.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:35 PM
3

I'd like a notification when it's up. It might help.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:25 PM
1

I think it depends on delivery. Last night I went to the strip club with some buddies. I wanted to go to a different place, and said "I'm thinking about going to the vu, you guys down?" It set the terms that I wanted to go and will go without them, but offering the courtesy of asking nudged them to go with me.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 08:02 PM
10

The only thing that matters is being bigger than you were last month.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 11:44 PM
5

This is likely the answer. It's worth noting that she very well may have done something more, but you can't be suspicious all the time and be a douchebag.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:33 PM
1

Actually, you can. "She's a great girl, but just not the one for me. No disrespect, but she's not what I'm looking for"
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:11 PM
1

I'd leave. Because she isn't worth it. Ask yourself; does she add more value to your life than trouble? The answer is either "no", or you have a lack of abundance mentality. No matter how hot she is, or how great she sucks your dick, a girl like that isn't worth it. Also, you're over invested. So my answer is leave. If that's not the answer you want, you're on the wrong subreddit.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:10 PM
2

Sort of. My buddy smokes pot. He owns his own mechanic shop. He's pretty successful. Although he doesn't lift and his girl is maybe a 6 or 7, as far as his social life and business go, he does well. I think it comes down to work ethic.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:50 PM
2

Maybe. I'm not saying you or OP should decide one way or another. Just a friendly warning.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:54 PM
7

This can backfire though. She could easily claim rape.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:22 PM
2

You can try to escalate, but be prepared for it to fail. Sounds like you've got the oneitis anyway. You're better off cutting contact.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:06 AM
2

Press charges. Because how else will she learn that real life has consequences?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:10 PM
6

She's seeking validation, nothing more.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 11:56 PM
5

I'm 21 and studying to be a mechanic. It doesn't pay as well as an investment banker, but it's what I want to do with my life. So I work as a general service technician, and I'm studying my ass off to get better.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 04:14 PM
1

It grows back looking like pubes.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:33 AM
1

That part is okay. We all make mistakes. Learning from them, is where it gets a bit more complex.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:47 PM
1

You don't belong here. Not yet, anyway. First, learn not to make stupid decisions. Then, learn to keep your emotions in check. Finally, read the sidebar because I'm assuming you haven't.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:59 AM
7

Not related, by my ex shaved her head like that. Fucking horrible.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:33 AM
7

An alpha doesn't care about alpha and beta. He just does. And he does it well.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:47 AM
2

You're right. Rock bottom serves its place.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:40 AM
0

Curious. You and my doctor disagree, but a quick web search leans in favor of what you said. I'll have to look into this, thanks for the detailed response.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 07:59 AM
1

I have neither diabetes nor erratic weight gain. I've been on them for around 4 years. While I'm willing to entertain the idea that I'm an outlier, I would ask that you site your sources.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 07:55 AM
1

Good tip, not one I've heard before.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:57 AM
-5

Try Zoloft. Instead of increasing serotonin levels, it merely opens up the receptors. I'm not a doctor, or educated in any way about the drug, but I use it to curb the highs and lows. Give it a look.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 02:49 AM
2

Props to you man. Two years is a long time to deal with that.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 04:06 PM
2

I was with a girl like this for 3 years. It's what led me to TRP. Get out. Immediately. She's never going to transition to being a great person all the time, and even if she does, it will have taken its toll on you. Girls like this NEED to have something to be upset over. And eventually she will run out of perceived traumas to blame it on. Or more likely, you'll make one little misstep, and then YOU become the trauma that ruined her life. Next you know, everyone the two of you know will start bl…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 06:42 AM
5

Because being beta doesn't create tingles. Again, follow the actions, not the words.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 06:19 AM
1

Unless he had a vast potential of resources to draw upon, for example.... TRP community.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 11:10 PM
8

The real question is; does the reward outweigh the risk? Properly assess that and you're golden
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:00 PM
2

Not OP but I have a few guesses. Seeking validation Gossip and other trivial shit Seeking even more validation
/r/askTRP21/06/16 02:46 AM
2

At least you can find informative articles, useful advice, and even some credible news (assuming it isn't censored) on Reddit. What does Facebook offer? A rat race to find who can build the highest perceived value? No thanks. Any sensible man would rather build a solid foundation of value, instead of perceived value. Sure, it has some benefits. But overall you don't need it.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 02:44 AM
2

Exactly this. I've dealt with the same problem with a plate who keeps pushing date like activities. Just ignore it if you've already said it clearly.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 11:25 PM
1

Everything about this is wrong. And I don't mean what your friend did.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 06:53 PM
5

This right here is the difference between being a dick and finding amused mastery.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 10:47 PM
2

Group think is a powerful phenomenon. Personally, I'm still learning to use it to my advantage.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:13 PM
2

You should uh... You should look up sarcasm and learn how to recognize it.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 06:19 AM
4

But that's not the same because.... reasons.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 03:09 AM
4

It's highschool. Don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:58 AM
1

They were both posted by this guy..
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:51 AM
12

And accidentally get some on her face. Test the waters.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 12:38 AM
2

Do interesting things. It's a lot more simple than you think.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 07:59 PM
2

Every day, I wake up and think to myself "how can I oppress women today?"
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 07:55 PM
17

That kind of shit is how we get a bad rep
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:55 PM
2

Can confirm. My last LTR hated me when she first met me, although she admitted later on that she always thought I was one of the most attractive guys she's ever met. Hell, the first thing I ever said to her was "you're mad at your dad, not me." Even when we fought, she fucked like an animal. All of this was pre-TRP, so it was mostly accidental.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 07:10 AM
2

I'm not saying that there's been a post about grandparents. That's what makes it good, it proves that the relationship dynamic has always been around. However, if you go through and replace 'grandfather-grandmother' with 'father-mother' respectively, it's all been said before. It was less a criticism on your post, and more of a recognized pattern.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 12:31 AM
2

Good post, but it mainly reflects relationships that our parents have. My parents are the same way. Go watch Bill Burr's stand up on elderly relationships. It's great that you can identify the issue, however this has all been said before.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 10:19 PM
2

When you are new to TRP, monk mode is huge. Hell, even when you're not new to it and you just want to improve yourself some more, it works wonders. Some people confuse monk mode with an excuse not to approach women, however. I never had a problem with approaching. I'm decent looking and I employ success with women. Always have, actually. But I was never exactly happy. Monk mode helps to actualize your wants and needs, to identify the path you choose to take. It might not work for everyone, but d…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 10:13 PM
1

Differentiating is key. Every Sunday I go to the bar with some work buddies. Every day I go to the same gym, and work out with a friend who seems to embody MGTOW. I don't have a Facebook, Snapchat, or Instagram. I use Twitter but that's to blow off steam every now and then. If the opportunity presents itself, I'll fuck a bitch with little to no effort involved, but I don't chase after pussy anymore. It's the happiest I've ever been.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 10:08 PM
7

This is huge. I found TRP while in an LTR. I upped my dread game, and it was great. I felt and looked better, but I went to the extreme. She actually called me a psychopath because I didn't have any emotion for her. Not really a huge loss, but it's good to see someone else make a note of it. In the end, I guess I'd rather be too alpha, instead of too beta.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 09:56 PM
26

"I have to return some video tapes" is easily the best excuse ever to leave. Thank you Patrick Bateman
/r/askTRP18/04/16 09:44 PM
3

Getting called cocky can be a very beneficial statement, if you handle it right. At work, a new manager told me she's heard I was pretty cocky and stubborn. I smiled and said "The man is no match for the legend, but I suppose so." She was all flirty and nice after that.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:03 PM
2

Women are allergic to accountability and rational thought. In no scenario can you expect to have an intelligent exchange of information with them. Especially on a public platform.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 08:56 PM
3

Appreciated. It's a long process, but as I work to eradicate my BP tendencies, your input has been invaluable.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:27 PM
6

I always enjoy your writings.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 07:52 PM
2

Make fun of them. "I wished I looked like that girl" "Yeah, I wish you looked like that too."
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:42 AM
8

My ex broke up with me because I was "emotionally abusive". I found TRP and realized that "emotionally abusive" means: spends time doing his own thing, but not Chadly enough to keep her coming back. Sure enough, I got in the gym and she came crawling back after she heard about my abs. Looking back, I feel pretty dumb not knowing then what I know now. Women aren't complicated. They're even more simple than men.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:57 AM
3

Eh. It was pre-TRP. She was a good lay, but she was the poster child of every red flag in the book. Without her, I'd have never started my RP journey.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:42 PM
82

You must have fucked my ex. Then again, most people did.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:03 AM
7

Maybe your game isn't as good as you think. Maybe you aren't escalating properly. Maybe a lot of things. You didn't provide too many details, so there's too many variables to know for sure.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 08:50 AM
9

You've inspired me to hit the gym with new intensity tomorrow. I'm in good shape, but I can't imagine that going well if I said it. It's little things like this that are creating my discipline to shape a better body.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:34 AM
2

I think it's also important to note that this is Africa, where women are not entitled the way they are here in the West. There's patriarchal values in their culture. At least, that's my understanding.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:27 AM
3

I always enjoy your writing. It's captivating and informative for those of us who are on the right path, but could always use another wrench in our toolbox. Great content.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:24 AM
3

Throughout this entire thread, your post is the only one with truth in it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 09:02 PM
1

Seems like one of two things. Either you enjoy being verbally abused, or you're setting a 'brilliant trap' to catch TRP 'being misogynistic'. If you truly feel bad, just don't do that shit anymore and move on. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:37 AM
1

I can't quite get past my scoliosis. It makes lifting hard; my doctor actually told me that if I continue to deadlift and squat, I will compress my spine into itself. What are some other full body lifts that won't break me?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:55 PM
7

And he didn't really follow monk mode properly anyway. When in monk mode, you're supposed to approach and learn not to be an anxious dweeb.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:19 AM
23

Holy shit dude. You've got a lot of work to do. Go back to the sidebar. Read up on monk mode, shit tests, and holding frame. Next, pick up a book called 'No More Mr. Niceguy' and read it pronto. Subscribe to fitness, gainit, and skincareaddiction. Start lifting. Immediately. Right now the goal is to get your form down and get into the habit. You've spent your life pedestalizing every attractive woman you've met. You have a lot of work to do, and a lot to learn. If you're serious about changing y…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:15 AM
4

My ex said she didn't like who I was becoming. I told her that made sense, now that I'm standing up for myself why would she like me? That was a damn good day.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:00 PM
3

This is the best advice. The best way to knock down anyone on a pedestal is to look for red flags.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 07:22 AM
0

You want to cheat on your BB because hamster and Chad gives you tingles? Great, fuck off somewhere else. You're not worth the time. But to cheat on a man who likely faces death on a daily basis.. It's one of the few cases where I actually feel sympathy for the man.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:59 AM
2

I cannot speak for most men. I can't and won't. However, I use antidepressants because of an insatiable appetite for anger. When I was a child, I went through some things that most adults couldn't stomach. So through my teenage years I picked fights even when I knew I wouldn't win, and started heavily abusing narcotics. I don't know if the anger is a byproduct of the drugs or the trauma, but it's there. I am not comfortable with the idea of therapy, so I don't go. It works for some, but not me. …
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:12 AM
4

Oh yeah, definitely face fuck her and force her to swallow. Make him taste your dick when he kisses her. Hell, even tell her to make him eat her out after you smash. Be vindictive with plausible deniability. Normally I think men should be above that, but nothing puts me back in the anger stage like cheating on a soldier.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:53 AM
3

You totally missed the point.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 09:06 AM
5

From a biological standpoint, having children is your only purpose. You have every right to be upset, but remember that it is YOU causing that strife.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 02:48 AM
4

Sounds like the same feminist idea that, "I stand for freedom of speech and liberty for everyone! Accept for those who disagree with me."
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 08:40 AM
1

Honestly, I have absolutely no idea how best to be that role model. I'm a fairly young guy with no kids or anything, but I've dated a lot of questionable women in my more BP days. My suggestion would be lead by example. Don't necessarily tell her what to do, but guide her from the wings. Most importantly, don't let her disrespect you. Hopefully that helps. Good luck bro.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 12:36 AM
13

Great post. I used to refuse to do the work to reach a specific goal because I knew I'd fail anyway. Hell, I still struggle with that mindset. It's good to know I'm not the only one. Once you realize just what the problem is, the sooner you can fix it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:28 AM
11

You know that old cliché about daddy issues? It's real. Unbelievably real. I think the sidebar might contain more information towards this particular question, but remember: a lack of a father figure often breeds a woman without respect for men. When she grows up without a dominant yet compassionate male persona in her life, she is doomed to have bad relationships with every man she meets thereafter. And make no mistake, she will always blame the man for the fallout. Edit: phrasing
/r/askTRP12/02/16 07:34 AM
1

I suppose you're right. I guess I just have a hard time giving women credit for actually thinking about something rather than being completely impulsive.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:12 PM
4

It is though!! This one time I read my horoscope and it said I'd meet someone new that day. I walked outside and bam! There was somebody I never met before. So clearly they are real
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:47 AM
3

Very well said. Your comment resonates with me because that is my exact problem. I can lift all day and read the best literature out there, but I expect men and women to act the same and it fucks with me. I've been BP for a long time and adapting to TRP is difficult in the sense that it goes against everything I was ever taught. I'm sure many guys feel the same as I do because of the female oriented culture we grew up in. I can see the truth, but it is difficult to accept. I'll have to try harde…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:39 AM
2

Honestly, I don't think women are aware of the game, at least not as aware as you described. It seems to me that women subconsciously act the way they do. So when we try to categorize it and figure it out, they get offended because "every single person is unique!!" I might very well be wrong, but in my experience, most women don't know why they are the way they are. I don't remember the author, but one of my favorite quotes sums up female behavior: "Don't attribute to malice, that which can easi…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 07:04 AM
2

Makes sense, I was wondering what the deal was
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:32 AM
2

Why is she disrespecting you in the first place? You should have never married a woman who doesn't respect you.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:28 AM
1

Every time I try to get her to over think something, she runs in a sporadic direction with it. Is there anything I can do to predict these directions, or is practice my only option?
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:15 AM
1

That's not what I was getting at. Does it effect you if he is wrong in how he views this Facebook girl? Whether he is or isn't, he didn't ask for help. It's not your problem. Bottom line, use what works for you. Cut away the rest.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:29 AM
1

Why are you internalizing the trials of others? What he posts about that stupid Facebook girl either helps you or it doesn't. If it doesn't, move on. TRP, at its core, is about increasing your options. If part of TRP theory (yes, theory) doesn't work for you, move on. This is a forum of millions of different ideas and voices. Find what works for you, and cut the bullshit.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:13 AM
1

You're asking TRP because you're scared. You've placed her on a pedestal. You know what the answer is, so do it. Abundance mentality. She's not the only 8 out there. Delete her number and lift harder.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:41 AM
1

You need to read the sidebar more.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:13 PM
3

It's my understanding that being a RP man doesn't necessarily mean no emotions, no attachment, and no morals. Although it can be that way, most of us aren't. The point of TRP is to understand these feelings and respond accordingly. It's not bad to be a sensitive and caring guy. It is bad to be TOO sensitive, however. Lift more, go out with your bros, and realize that it was just your turn. Think of it like losing a pet. Sure, you cared about your dog but he got old and now you have to move on. G…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:02 PM
1

This is exactly it. In my more BP days, I got a tattoo for that exact reason. Since then I'm learning to improve the old fashioned way, but lesson learned is...
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 03:13 PM
1

It's already causing him problems. Long term or not, no pussy is worth endangering your livelihood. To each their own, but it seems like a poor choice, especially because it is already becoming problematic.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 07:59 AM
3

This is literally the only answer you need. Also, the fuck are you doing with a girl from work?
/r/askTRP25/12/15 09:44 AM
1

Shit test. Seems unlikely that she would be questioning whether or not to cheat, when she could just do it and hamster her way out of accountability.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:20 PM
13

Chances are, she told you about it to see how you'd react.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:45 AM
8

So get him back in a way that he can't go tattling about. Prove you're the alpha, that you won't be fucked with anymore. I had to do that to my brother. We became best buddies shortly after.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 06:49 AM
3

I will admit, at first I was heartbroken. I lost my child and the woman I thought I'd marry. Then I found TRP. And now it doesn't hurt so much, because it could have been so much worse.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 08:54 PM
1

Otherwise your ex girlfriend goes in without you, gets the abortion, then blames you for it and tarnishes your name to anyone who will listen.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 08:46 PM
1

I'm looking more LTR. Regardless of what the popular RP opinion is, sometimes you care about others. My last LTR was full of her getting defensive so I found this sub and dropped her. But every now and then you'll find yourself in this scenario. If it happens a lot, next her. I get that. But I don't think that's an appropriate reaction all the time. Does that make sense?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 10:51 PM
1

So then how do you handle it? It seems as though the only way to win the game is not to play, but how would you shut her down without her getting incredibly bitchy about it?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:18 AM
1

But they became the offender because they were the victim first, they had to adapt. Now they get off on a technicality.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 08:32 PM
2

My brother was insistent that the cause of this is "the ghost of the patriarchy". Women can't do as well because they were never allowed to, so it's difficult for them to do now what men have always done.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 07:16 AM
1

Not at all, I was agreeing with you
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 08:44 PM
6

You can't win an argument against the victim. Rookie mistake.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 08:00 PM
1

I was referencing the wall of text. Just break up your paragraphs a bit and you'll be fine. And you came here asking for help. We won't sugarcoat it, that's just how it is.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 08:24 PM
2

If you want to be a better you, learn to control your emotions, and not the other way around. Also, grammar.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:39 PM
4

I had a conversation just like that actually. I asked her if she believed in gender equality, and of course she said yes. I then told her that coincidentally, so do I! And I wouldn't let a man get away with her behavior so she isn't exempt either.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 07:07 PM
2

She may have just Pavlov'ed you with blowjobs.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 04:45 AM
3

My ex backed into another car (parked, by the way) and it became my fault because I was telling her to focus on driving, and not her cigarette, talking on the phone, and reaching for the radio dial. She was in the driver's seat but it became my fault. That's when I stopped having serious and logical conversations with women.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 04:37 AM
7

Agreed. A pity fuck is plausible, but not really a TRP way of doing things.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 08:44 PM
1

What is "monk mode"? I'm only days into TRP and I have a lot to soak up. I came here out of curiosity stemming from another subreddit and what I found resonated with me. In life so far I've practiced a few common principles, and practiced many behaviors of the beta. I'm tired of living life this way. I recognize that my happiness is in my own hands, that I need to improve my social standing by becoming a guy I'm comfortable being. That being said, what are some things I can do to effectively res…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:11 AM
1

It depends on her personality. Is she shy and reserved? Is she outgoing and likes to party? What sports is she into? Does she prefer art instead? All these things play into what questions you should be asking. Ask her questions about her passions without being boring. Open ended questions are the key. Does that help?
/r/seduction02/08/15 07:09 AM
2

In my opinion small talk isn't necessarily a bad thing. Just be patient about it. Don't be a quick responder all the time. That doesn't mean ignore her, just play it cool and if you get busy, don't go rushing off every chance you get to text back. Also, small talk can be very effective if used properly. Don't talk to her about the damn weather, unless it's leading up to you asking her out for a picnic on a nice day. Don't ask how her parents are, or what she did that day. That kind of small talk…
/r/seduction02/08/15 04:14 AM
2

Excellent point. You want to gauge the interest and respond accordingly. Let her know you can take a joke and it won't devastate you. Nothing turns off women more than a man who can't handle criticism.
/r/seduction02/07/15 06:50 PM
8

I would have to agree. Being an alpha is all about accepting that you might not be the best at something, but God damn it you'll try hard until you are the best. Being cocky is the idea that "she will like me because I'm awesome." Confidence is the idea that you'll be okay whether she likes you or not. And that drives women nuts.
/r/seduction02/07/15 06:27 PM
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