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SCIENCEFirstmatewifey/r/RedPillWives01/03/17 06:40 AM
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ADVICEFirstmatewifey/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 08:35 AM
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This is how I lost 30lbs! Just eating less. I used MyFitnessPal as well as a digital food scale.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/18 01:33 AM
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Yes I agree, definitely haven’t seen good things with those multilevel marketing companies. So many nights and weekends for the “parties”! Also really alienates people from their friends IMO.
/r/RedPillWives14/06/18 07:21 PM
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Ive made quite a bit babysitting (by appointment, I didn’t want to overcommit to a strict schedule, and I can say “no” to families that I didn’t like for one reason or another) and that way LO gets a playmate too.
/r/RedPillWives14/06/18 07:19 PM
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Maybe a tumblr with things that make you feel sexy OP? Suggestive outfits, cuddle gifs, harder stuff if you’re into that, haha. Whatever makes you tick! If you build it up a little (reblogging often) you’ll get followers and notifications for likes, which can help with reminders as well.
/r/RedPillWives28/10/17 04:46 AM
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Makes sense! Yes the comparison was only for pay, the maids are extremely well vetted like you said (and they should be to work and live in their employers home).
/r/RedPillWives26/10/17 12:35 AM
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My hubs has taken an interest in learning more about the ins-and-outs of being a father (he isn’t one yet!) so it’s been excellent to open new dialogue and for him to be on the same page with information I didn’t realize he may not have known. It’s easy to assume he just knows everything that I do, but having tons of babysitting experience does add up, and I hadn’t realized that! I’m proud of him for always learning and reading and bringing up fresh topics and dialogue in our relationship.
/r/RedPillWives24/10/17 12:13 AM
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Aw this was awesome to read. Great job! Also, American Gods is such a trip. I’ve been to House on the Rock which is mentioned in the book (I haven’t seen the show) and it is such a trip. No other words can describe it. Lol
/r/RedPillWives24/10/17 12:10 AM
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What a momentous event! Congrats! It’s hard to let go of control but it sounds like you did a great job.
/r/RedPillWives24/10/17 12:09 AM
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Interestingly, if I say I have to check with my husband due to SCHEDULING it’s much more accepted than if I have to check with my husband for permission/acceptance/or no reason at all. Your examples are so spot on!
/r/RedPillWives23/10/17 11:58 PM
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I feel the maid vs janitor analogy is not accurate, but the main point of the article is. House servants are typically severely underpaid and not even citizens of the country they’re working in. source In the US it would be similar to having an illegal* immigrant as your personal maid vs having them work the corn fields, which I agree most Americans would be horrified by. *I say illegal only because these maids have separate labor laws that allow them to be paid much less than the citizens of th…
/r/RedPillWives23/10/17 11:55 PM
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I also love American Eagle, for the opposite reason, haha. Tall and all legs, and they carry extra long in all sizes! Their AEO Denim X Jegging in Empire Blue are my favorite jeans of all time, so flattering and comfortable while still looking put together.
/r/RedPillWives22/10/17 12:58 PM
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YES! My husband gives really trendy pieces the side eye and I’ve found since transitioning to a more classically feminine (skirts, dresses) and figure flattering wardrobe, it’s easier to get dressed and I don’t need to buy new pieces as often. Interestingly, more women compliment my outfits now than when I was closely following trends, lol. I assume it’s because trendy/fast fashion pieces are often such low quality. edit: spelling
/r/RedPillWives22/10/17 05:51 AM
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I haven't experienced something like this. You mentioned therapy which is an excellent start, have you seen a doctor and described what's going on? There could be an underlying medical condition.
/r/RedPillWives21/10/17 07:00 AM
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This is so interesting! I can confirm that for me at least, I absolutely had a slew of “back up mates” prior to being married. It was both conscious (the good ones) and subconscious (the questionable ones, haha). My view was that my fertility clock was ticking and I didn’t have time to be putting all my eggs in one basket, quite literally. It was also a comfortable way to find the best mate possible IMO. I did have a friend point out that I might have missed out on men who saw other guy friends …
/r/RedPillWives20/10/17 12:45 AM
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What an awesome success! Great job. I’m also type A and love list making so this is just the kind of reminder I needed.
/r/RedPillWives17/10/17 03:22 PM
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Aw that's a bummer! I personally don't do it for any health related reasons- although some people swear fasting has a slew of them. I just have so much less appetite when intermittent fasting. (I turn into a grumpy crazy person when I'm hungry.) If you have more self control than I do, it's not needed IMO!
/r/RedPillWives15/10/17 01:40 PM
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if you're having trouble convincing yourself to exercise, then don't exercise! While you should exercise for your health in general, it doesn't actually have to be any part of weight loss THIS! Weight loss = Calories In - Calories Out (CICO). I've lost 25lbs this year and it has been 100% calorie counting (and intermittent fasting has worked excellent for my lifestyle). I tried starting with a hardcore workout routine + CICO and ended up with shin splints, constantly sore muscles, intense hunger…
/r/RedPillWives15/10/17 01:15 PM
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THIS. My extended family keeps coming up with crazier and crazier excuses as to why the hubs and I still like each other and show a little affection from time to time. Lol
/r/RedPillWives12/10/17 03:23 AM
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Congratulations! Marriage is absolutely amazing. For my husband and I, the biggest difference between LTR and marriage is that we are legally bound and thus fully invested in each other's futures. Technically we acted the same in a LTR, but now we both feel a sense of relief that we've "made" it to this next step. Marriage is something we both hold to great importance and has special meaning for each of us. It's something we both knew we wanted when we were young (way before we even met), and ha…
/r/RedPillWives08/10/17 04:30 AM
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Excellent excellent post! Thank you! Just chiming in to say that a portable steamer has greatly improved my life, lol. They're so worth it.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/17 07:12 AM
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Yes, protection is absolutely a love language for my husband. Teasing not so much for each other, but maybe others and ourselves. We do love inside jokes and will often be able to give each other a look after something another person says and then chuckle to ourselves. It's common for us to tease ourselves too. For example, if I did something incorrectly I may call back to it at a later date in a sarcastic way. "I plan to do the dishes so long as I can figure out how to PROPERLY load them into t…
/r/RedPillWives06/10/17 07:02 AM
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Interesting read! Definitely aligns with my experiences. Thanks for sharing it.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/17 06:32 AM
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My husband and I personally plan to have him in the delivery room, but my parents chose to have my dad wait elsewhere when I was delivered. My dad isn't great with touchy-feeling emotions and is very pragmatic, so for them it made more sense to have my aunt (mom's sister in law) and grandma (mom's mother) in the room to help and encourage her instead. I turned out just fine, haha.
/r/RedPillWives15/09/17 08:11 PM
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Just wanted to say I'm so sorry you went through that, and props to you for seeking to learn and grow from it!
/r/RedPillWives15/09/17 08:07 PM
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You got it! How many kids, financial stuff (I'm pretty cheap and love saving, so being with a spender wouldn't be the best match), whether we want to retire in nature or an urban area, general politics, religion, etc. really depends one what's important to you! I will say: don't feel like you need to have everything figured out. We agree that we want x number of kids, but if the first one is a handful we're both okay with changing our minds, haha!
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 11:16 PM
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Stay super busy! I'm always babysitting, inviting a friend over for lunch, checking out a hiking trail, reading a new blog, joining a community group, volunteering, the list goes on and on. It helps my friends also stay home, or at least can text throughout the day. Definitely surround yourself with people whose views align with yours :)
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 03:10 PM
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If they join the same branch, they'll work to keep them together. If they have children, only one parent will be assigned to a deploying unit at a time. It is detrimental to one or both of their careers, and it's not easy. Divorce rates are high in the military, dual military marriages even more so.
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 02:59 PM
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Love letters, snap chat photos, making dinner together, Netflix and chill ;) going on a jog, walking the neighborhood, snuggling at night, kisses in the morning. The best things in life are free :) If schedules get busy, research some long distance type of relationship strategies. It's amazing what little texts here and there can do to keep up morale and communication.
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 02:58 PM
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My man knows the line. He can be completely honest with me if it's very important, or if I ask. Haha. He acknowledges that I'm self aware, have set and am working towards goals, and that I value his opinions. That's the foundation of everything IMO. So yes, he wouldn't hesitate to be honest with me if he didn't like my lipstick or outfit, but he'd maybe mums the word if he wasn't a big fan of a brand new haircut (until it was a timeframe in which something could be easily changed!).
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 02:45 PM
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Excellent!
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 02:40 PM
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So many! We joke we have our own language. Even if we're brushing teeth or chewing something so we can't open our mouths, we can tell what the other is trying to say based on tone/pitch alone. We have a mutual understanding that if I'm indifferent about a choice, I won't say anything, whereas if I suggest one option, that's what I'm hoping for. He will just say what he wants, or ask me if he's indifferent. (Gotta love my non confrontational ways, haha.) In a group if we catch each other's eyes a…
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 02:35 PM
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EXCELLENT post! Thank you for contributing this, I've bookmarked for reference!
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 02:31 PM
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I have never read the books! The most important piece of this question, is are YOU ready? If not, someone else won't get you there. The second most important piece is being realistic about if he is ready and looking for what you are. Personally, my husband and I knew within three months. We both made our intentions clear, asked poignant questions and had deep discussions to truly vet each other. By six months I was waiting for a ring. By 9 months I got it ;) We've been happily married for severa…
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 02:28 PM
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UPDATE: He blew through The Way of Men and is currently halfway through Becoming a Barbarian. He's excited to read Gorilla Mindset next, and has been really enjoying them this far! Thank you again for the amazing suggestions.
/r/RedPillWives10/04/17 04:30 AM
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Ooooh I see, yes that's a different situation.
/r/RedPillWives21/03/17 02:27 AM
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I'm not able to fully give advice here as I'm learning a lot about red pill still myself. But it's going to depend on how you feel about pornography as a couple. It sounds like he's engaging in role playing and, in essence, buying "customized" porn. Sounds pretty similar to having a favorite lap dance girl at the local strip club to me, except they're via the internet. While the violation of trust (lying) is serious, I'm not sure that partaking in porn is something that I personally would seek c…
/r/RedPillWives20/03/17 11:23 PM
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Ooh thank you
/r/RedPillWives15/03/17 10:33 PM
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:D I didn't want to sound pedantic. Agreed!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 07:55 AM
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I wouldn't say repulsive, Id say that it's common to prefer men taller than oneself. I like to be on my tippy toes for kisses, to hang my arms around his neck, to bury my face in his chest, to have my shoulder be lower than his for fitting together in the "arm around" position, to wear heels without feeling like a giant, to be lifted. I mean if the girl is 5' Daniel Radcliffe could fulfill all those things. It's not like he or Tom Cruz are hurting for women.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 01:20 PM
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So funny! In Japan it's actually a legit holiday today called "White Day" On Valentine's Day the girls give the guys presents. A month later, on white day, the guys reciprocate (usually even bigger/better) if they're interested ;)
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 01:15 PM
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It's not that I'm worried he'll become an plate spinning cotnnesiour, but more that he'll get overwhelmed with wading through all the "single guy" stuff. I'm concerned it's not very considerate of me to say "welp here's a huge load of info, good luck!" However you're absolutely right in that selective information is a slippery slope. I think what I'll do is mention there are several red pill subs for men and leave it at that. Then it's transparent and 100% in his hands. Your dad sounds like a go…
/r/RedPillWives13/03/17 11:56 PM
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I like the frankness of red pill, it fosters growth. Thanks for your honesty and perspective. That book IS an obvious choice, it's recommended in most colleges as well, not sure why I didn't think of it! Lastly a sports team is a fantastic idea! I'll mention it for sure. Thanks for your advice.
/r/RedPillWives13/03/17 02:25 PM
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Got you! Makes total sense. Thanks so much for the further explanation and advice, it's really helpful.
/r/RedPillWives12/03/17 06:50 AM
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Thank you! I'll check it out.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 11:00 PM
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I see where you're coming from, but he brought up the book thing himself. If I had, I'd at least have had suggestions first haha. The conversation flow made sense: He noticed I've changed to be more feminine in my actions, I explained red pill women view relationships and self improvement from a traditional/evolutionary psychology perspective. He asked what it says about men and what self improvements red pill suggests for them, I briefly explained men focus on masculinity, but that I know less …
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 10:58 PM
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Great points, that helps me keep my expectations in check. Thank you
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 03:56 PM
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I'll buy him a selection of each for sure, he's a book fiend. Thanks for your suggestion on the order, that's smart. I appreciate it!
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 03:25 PM
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Oh wow, those suggestions look absolutely amazing- especially Jack Donovan, that's right up his alley. Thank you so much! I appreciate your advice for me as well. Great points to gnaw on.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 03:19 PM
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Thanks so much! This is really helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 01:59 PM
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Did he give you any feedback on the book and red pill in general? My husband is interested for a different reason- not so much for relationship strategies, more personal development.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 01:00 PM
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Thanks for the rec, sounds good- I appreciate it! You're right, if he took at gander at /r/theRedpill front page I'd get a side eye for certain. I do feel like I am partially at fault for not building him up enough, it's something I'm actively working on. I definitely compliment him after a workout, before we go out, and in more intimate settings. I'll often touch his arm while I say his muscles are nice, etc. His own expectations are so high- when he compares himself to say, Instagram, it's har…
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 12:55 PM
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Hey /u/unrefinedfacade thanks for the great post! I have a sort of similar situation [of my husband being interested in red pill, not the same issues] and have enjoyed reading the responses you've received. What book(s) did you decide on? Edit for clarity.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 08:54 AM
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HR here, at most companies one of them would be moved for sure, nepotism can spell legal trouble quickly.
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 02:03 AM
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Such a good post, I'm definitely reading these suggestions. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 02:01 AM
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Shrugs, not sure why race matters. Why he was in prison does though, IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 02:00 AM
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Stay at home wife perspective (no kiddos yet!) My quick response to this snarky question is always: "I do whatever I want, it's GREAT, I'd recommend it!" Then usually both the person and I laugh. If they hit me with some more condescending "I would be soooo bored." Then I respond, "Oh I don't have a problem keeping busy. The more household stuff I get done during the day, the more my hubs and I can relax and enjoy each other's company at night." If they're being indignant and won't just up, I en…
/r/RedPillWives03/03/17 09:33 AM
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I'm athleisure all the way! I change before my hubs gets home, though.
/r/RedPillWives03/03/17 09:10 AM
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I'm starting to be concerned you're actually my cousin in real life. This is her scenario almost exactly!
/r/RedPillWives02/03/17 03:10 AM
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Many models are that tall! Height alone isn't a make-or-break factor. I'm not sure if I buy the "naturally voluptuous" bit. I think being healthy is #1, especially in terms of SMV, and if I had a nickel for every time someone told me they're "big boned" when that phrase is actually a myth in terms of weight loss... Check out some of the sidebar links. Personality plays into SMV as well.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 02:38 PM
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Agreed
/r/RedPillWives01/03/17 02:32 PM
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I would tell her not to move, but if you'd like you could say "yet" and see how things go. For practical reasons, maybe it makes more sense for you to check out the city before she does all the extreme things like quitting her job and subletting her apartment. What if the city isn't a good fit? How sweet of you to vet the place beforehand ;) Plus, you will have a whole new market of women in the new place, and I think the freedom of exploring that on your own is invaluable. "Yet" keeps plate pla…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:30 PM
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Context and disclaimers: This is an excerpt of an April 22, 2005 debate between Steven Pinker and Elizabeth Spelke on the subject of under-representation of women in science. This was at least partially inspired by an incident involving former Harvard president Lawrence Summers, whose public comments speculating on possible explanations for gender disparity in science were widely misinterpreted and taken out of context. This video includes only Steven Pinker's prepared portion. It does not inclu…
/r/RedPillWives01/03/17 06:52 AM
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Interesting speech! I definitely don't agree with everything he said, but it's so refreshing to hear a scientific perspective that isn't so SJW skewed.
/r/RedPillWives01/03/17 06:40 AM
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Your username is perfect. Love it. Welcome!
/r/RedPillWives28/02/17 08:01 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story! Congrats.
/r/RedPillWives21/02/17 01:19 PM
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Also a childless housewife! You're not alone :)
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 01:01 PM
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$38K/year Seattle/Puget Sound Holy cannoli. Please make a post about your budgeting savvy! I have friends who just bought a home there and the price made me feel sick. I can't even imagine!
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 12:59 PM
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I like to be as sassy as possible, usually people have a laugh. What do you do? Whatever I want, all day. It's phenomenal. Living the dream. 10/10 would recommend! We chuckle and then I say something like, "Yeah we budget so that I can get all of the errands and such done during the day, so that we can spend what little time my hubs has off work together. When we both worked we barely saw each other! Basically just when we were sleeping, haha. I'm working on upping my cooking skills right now, s…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 12:56 PM
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I cooked a very special meal!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 02:07 PM
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Someone just posted Missy Sue's channel and she is just the cutest thing. I'm hooked! Her "about" section of her blog seems promising: currently lives in Arizona with her husband, son, and yorkie. Missy Sue is a guide for eye-catching hairstyles, makeup tutorials, and fashion tips. She hopes to inspire her readers to love their hair, develop useful makeup techniques, and celebrate everyday beauty.
/r/RedPillWives15/02/17 07:43 AM
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His first homecoming I had an issue with bleeding. I was so scared something was wrong and the well-versed military doc was like, "he just get home?" LOL! I'm pretty lucky, mine goes quite often but for shorter periods of time (only a couple months) so although it's hard to say goodbye so frequently, at least it's shorter!
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 11:09 AM
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Hey thanks for the red lentil chili recipe, I'm making it this week!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 08:25 AM
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So true!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 08:19 AM
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Wow that's a lot of life changes at one time. New position, new living room! Sounds like you and B are taking it in stride.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 08:08 AM
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Mine leaves in March :'( I may need to google how to sex LOL. Aww this hit close to home and made me laugh at the same time.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 07:55 AM
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Mexican chocolate stout beer my husband would LOVE this! I need to get my hands on some.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 07:52 AM
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Same here! Yay President's Day!
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 07:51 AM
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My husband is really into traditions, too! What a good idea to go to the same place and reminisce there. Awww and the book, this is so sweet.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 07:49 AM
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Valentine's Day is a significant day for our relationship. I'm cooking an extra special meal, and making a point to let him know how thankful an appreciative I am of him and our relationship. I'm planning on some extra cuddles and some fun later in the evening ;)
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 07:48 AM
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I'm new to giving advice on red pill, I'll absolutely own up to that! After briefly leafing through her post history and not finding much relevant to the relationship, yes, I absolutely was assessing the situation based on the information OP provided. I see my mistake, as it’s becoming more and more clear that OPs judgement is not sound. For example: we live in Canada. As long as we've been living together for I think its 5 years, we have the same legal rights as a married couple, without marria…
/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 01:09 AM
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doesn't sound like a leader or a head of house to me, I would quickly lose respect for that kind of "man" and once respect goes the rest follows. Took the words right out of my mouth.
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 11:20 AM
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This post makes me so angry about feminism and how it pretends to help women. You are literally doing both roles in the relationship, which is completely the opposite of our human instinct. I'll get off my soap box about that, but take a gander at the sidebar, especially this. It's hard to objectively assess this post, because there is not a single redeeming quality written about him. trouble committing to a career stuck in a career rut for two years had two months off Despite being the breadwin…
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 11:17 AM
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This. He's not even beta, this reads as though he's a child.
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 10:54 AM
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What about TV shows? Mad Men is one of my favorites due to the excellent costumes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 01:38 AM
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I have a kind of an less common view. Regardless of abortion, I believe we must take better care of the children alive now. I'm a big advocate for adoption and foster care, and I think that those are the key to bettering the future. I guess if I had to choose, I'd say I'm pro-choice, for the fact that there will be fewer disadvantaged, abused and neglected children. However, if adoption and foster care became commonplace, maybe having an abortion wouldn't be necessary.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/17 03:23 PM
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For me personally: very early. Like a casual mention on the first date, in a light hearted "no big deal" way- even just dropping 'my ex wife' into a joke would be sufficient. Be prepared to have a quick, easy answer on why it didn't work out, too. No need to spill your whole life story. I would absolutely feel mislead if a prior marriage was conveniently omitted.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 04:59 PM
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This. She described my husband in many ways, except instead of lack of confidence in decision making, my husband finds it to be a chore to make every last little decision and prefers I do some deciding to free him up to focus on more important things. He is making the decision to delegate. That's Alpha, not beta.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 04:39 AM
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This did read a lot like that scene, except in the good ways IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 02:45 AM
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Holy crap. I've been searching for resources like this for so long, thank you
/r/RedPillWives10/02/17 02:28 AM
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After any particularly crappy day at work for him, or a particularly good day not-at-work for me, I tell my hubs how thankful I am for his hard work ethic, drive, and commitment to providing for us. I use that guilt and new found appreciation to make myself better, to make his life easier, and to bring us both more joy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 01:25 PM
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I mean she does want me to go, but she totally respects it if I dont want to go. This is exactly how it should be. She asks, and respects your answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 11:16 AM
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Wow! Switching up the meal planning AND taking on the 30 day challenge while working is ambitious, I'm certainly inspired to up my game now!
/r/RedPillWives07/02/17 12:55 PM
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Aww adjusting the plan and being flexible is the most relaxing way to live! Kudos to you for your extra drive and determination to get those chores done, and for enjoying the new plan when it presented itself.
/r/RedPillWives07/02/17 12:53 PM
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Ah this thread is perfect for us! We deemed 2017 as "The Year of Travel" and we just took a trip to a snowy area. We experienced a lot of fun new things together, and made some great memories. I extensively researched a nice hotel to stay in, several restaurants so we could choose based on what we were hungry for, as well as a couple "must see" places. It was lovely, and hubby was so impressed and thankful for my work. Time well spent! Edit: spelling
/r/RedPillWives07/02/17 12:51 PM
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I also used to love The Freckled Fox! Poor thing. McKinli Hatch is a pretty interesting blogger. She's mainly Instagram based, but she does have a [blog](www.heckmcki.com) as well. CamFamSisters have an Instagram with some sweet ideas. Hmm that's all I can think of for now, but I'm so interested in the same type of media!
/r/RedPillWives07/02/17 12:48 PM
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Make sure he knows how proud of him you are! I would remind him how courageous he his for flying out to an interview and facing so many unknowns. Thank him for providing for you/the family. Offering space is also very important. Disappointing events are a great time to fine tune a couple's nonverbal attraction. Shows of affection like a big hug and a prolonged kiss sometimes say more in a better way than words. A shoulder rub can go a long way to reduce stress and encourage relaxation too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 10:06 AM
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I invested in a high quality straightener (Chi) and have had it for nearly a decade now, definitely would recommend!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 09:58 AM
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Depends on what they like to do! Hosting an evening get together and cooking some great food is always a winner. Go out to dinner together and offer to be the Chauffeur/DD for a guys night out afterwards. Of course, always keep up the home and yourself so if someone pops by (maybe to drop something off if your boyfriend is at your place) they get a great first impression. Always offer anyone a beverage and maybe a snack if they do stop by. In general being a good firstmate should make his (and y…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 09:55 AM
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