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Field ReportFlieseTeppich/r/seduction16/06/25 05:23 PM
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Field ReportFlieseTeppich/r/seduction16/11/24 12:05 AM
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Fundamentals FlieseTeppich/r/seduction17/01/25 11:49 PM
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Brother I think you mirror your traumas on me
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:49 PM
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Brother why would you be like this? You clearly go sarcastic on me with having trauma or something, wtf is wrong with you? I have the best relationship ever with my family. After that you say "I see why she left" - like wtf? Why would part of your day be to treat others like shit just to make them feel bad? Disgusting human being
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:42 PM
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Wtf? Didn't you take your medicine or what 😂
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:35 PM
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She reached out on Tuesday and said "hey, as I'm seeing this isn't going anywhere between us, but I don't want this to end on hatred or something else. Thanks for everything and every conversation it was very beautiful. I wish you the best". I took that first sentence with that I am seeing as a potential door opener and replied "hey thank you same goes back. I just wanted to tell you: I noticed that you distance yourself in the last week continuously from me and I got the feeling that it wasn't …
/r/seduction20/06/25 04:59 PM
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Thanks for the explanation, I really appreciate the time you put in writing this. Although I don't really agree with everything: if somebody gives you 100% lovebombing and then without any explanation pulls away within 4-5 days, that not a correct behavior. I don't think "she does what she wants" is an excuse there, because acting like this is inconsiderate towards others... Nevertheless: I don't see any recommendations in what I should do now, for the slightest chance of getting a comeback. Wha…
/r/seduction17/06/25 02:08 PM
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And what do you think, what can I do now? Text her explaining why I didn't get back, saying that I felt her pulling away and found it a pity, she wouldn't talk about it?
/r/seduction17/06/25 09:27 AM
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Well that reaction to a message is typically used as a closure to a dialoge. But yes, technicallly I didn't ghost, and gave her even the possibility to reply to the thumbs up. Yes; I'll let her be. If she reaches out fine, if not, thanks for the ride.
/r/seduction16/06/25 11:36 PM
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Yes you're right, these were mini-alarms raising red-flags over her emotional maturity. It was a month but we only met 4 times, so you're right. But her extremely big change from "hold my hand in public" to kind-of-flaking to dates is mind blowing to me. What do you think? How should I act for the chance of having this saved, even for the slightest chance for sex? Wait if she comes back after I didn't text, or initiate something? I'm now more than well aware of the red flags
/r/seduction16/06/25 06:21 PM
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Well I'm not denying that this might have been the issue, but it's important to know: She mentioned several times that she would like to meet my parents or cook with my mom and so on. Therefore I wanted to realize this after 1 month of dating. Maybe her words were out of emotional arousal, but I didn't say that to her out of the blue. We're both Albanians, she knows we don't move out from the elderly home until marriage/engagement. Edit: to get some leverage back, I did not answer. My question i…
/r/seduction16/06/25 06:06 PM
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Well I flaked her techincally... therefore the question: did I act right?
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:56 PM
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Well, since we both live with our parents, it's not that easy. But this was what I had in mind, when I proposed to introduce her to my parents. Next step + see if her words have meaning + time privately only for us
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:56 PM
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What do you mean by "close"?
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:50 PM
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Read his Text: "if you're pretending this part of life doesn't matter - you're fooling yourself"
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:30 PM
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Of course brother, you should flirt with the world at all times and have a lot of friendships. But the thinking of OP is so whack. What about the strict Islamic guys who often have only one woman their whole life? Are they NPCs? No man, cmon
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:50 PM
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I see this as highly conflicting. This suggests that the only meaning of life for a man is to get woman, and I think who lives like that, completely misses the purpose of life. Life is much more than having a mate and fucking do I love to go out with my friends, go to the gym, drive a nice car and just live my life freely. If someday I meet somebody I can start a life, even better, but if not, I'm not gonna hang myself. Life is more than only pussy.
/r/seduction03/02/25 12:07 PM
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Do you think telling her that I'm not interested in going on like this is appropriate? Something like "look, why should we continue contact if you don't want to meet up?" I told her initially I'm not interested in chat-shit and only if we try to get this somewhere and she agreed. But now we're here 😅
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:49 PM
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You're Right. Typical from today: Asked her yesterday to go out for a Kebab today. Says doesn't have time bla bla. I don't answer. She double texted 10 min ago saying I just saw you. Like wtf??? Why you keep up the contact at all costs if you don't want to progress
/r/seduction18/01/25 04:38 PM
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I fully understand. The thing is I detached, I even deleted her or didn't text back for one month. She always comes back, doing everything possible for my attention, but it doesn't progress. It feels like being entertainment. But telling her "look, either we meet and this goes somewhere or don't contact me at all" is mad cringe, don't you think?
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:13 AM
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Thanks. Yes, that's exactly the point. Whenever I had the feeling that she is just flaking and keeping me around for entertainment, she would come back, happened at least five times where she would do anything to get my attention. I even deleted her on Snapchat and Instagram once and she came back. But it doesn't go nowhere. When I say let's meet up she flakes, when I don't reach out she wants to talk in the gym or something like that.
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:10 AM
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Well the pattern was: she reaches out, we write daily a bit. Then either we meet up, or after some weeks start to fight or I ghost her. Then she reaches out again. If I ask her why tf she is acting like that, she excuses herself or says I'm not understanding jokes. She even said herself she is very immature... said meeting a boy alone is hard for her 😅
/r/seduction16/11/24 06:05 AM
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I understand. It was just that I already did not reach out multiple times, and it never changed . Afther the things she said this time, for me was like OK, now I need to escalate further, to show her I have no time for bullshit.
/r/seduction16/11/24 06:00 AM
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Brother, I already said that she didn't even touch somebody, not even a kiss, how do you think she would let me fuck her? With that national background she won't get married if she gets fucked before marriage.
/r/seduction16/11/24 05:58 AM
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I go to the gym regularly for years and never approached somebody there. The reason is that I think most women are there to work out and don't feel pretty and nice at all, since they are sweaty and of course stinky. Nevertheless, I think you asked way too early for her number, after that compliment you should've asked something regarding the exercise or her look, etc.
/r/seduction31/10/24 03:00 PM
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Happened to me as well, also with a 10. The only possibility: Lower your engagement immediately and rapidly! Not the way that you lose contact, but make her wonder "oh, what happened?" Try not to talk about those things again or try to say "some things are shown by time"
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:40 AM
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