Met this girl on Instagram almost a month ago. We went out two days after initially chatting and it really wiped and we even kissed at the end of the day right then and there she said things like oh no you're not gonna get along with me and so do Afterwards we met on vacation because by coincidence we went to the same place where we met and spent the whole day, even holding hands kissing, and she kept talking about relationship and so on. Last time we met, we met at my city almost 10 days ago.

There it was the same story, spending the day kissing, and she talking a lot about our future and that she could really imagine to move to my city and so on. So everything was on the right track for a potential relationship.

I told her, but that's after she met my cousin. I would like to meet somebody from her site as well. She told me that she already told her cousin, mom and two sisters about me. I told her that after meeting with her fousin, some time afterwards she could come home and meet my parents mom-commital (we both live still with our parents).

Then last week she really went cold after the date she didn't call and her text went dryer and dryer. We had scheduled for last Wednesday the date with her & her cousin at a restaurant and she didn't mention the date until I reminded her Wednesday afternoon. She said she has period ache and can't come, but didn't even apologize or reschedule. I asked her the next day in the evening if something is wrong and she replied that she doesn't know what to say, but it's not about me. It's just that she feels unmotivated in general in life at the moment. The next day, I had really a feeling that she wouldn't even read my texts properly and would answer late. When I brought up the topic of meeting at the weekend. She said she would like to see me, but when I asked for a proposal after she declined the last date, she was flaking and just sent a photo of her at the restaurant with her sisters, ignoring my "make a proposal haha"-text. I just reacted with a thumbs up reaction after that, I did not text back. This was last Friday and since then we had no contact at all.

I ghosted because I wanted her to see that I'm unsatisfied with how she would not even care the last week about us no calls no dates and barely texts. Now I ask myself what went wrong? It all started so furious and now she doesn't even care? Did I do wrong?